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Speaker 1: the Aurora Nation. Hi guys, and i'll welcome back to
Speaker 1: another episode of Life Uncut.
Speaker 2: I'm Laura, I'm Brittany Mitch, and this is.
Speaker 3: Our well, it's our podcast version of the radio show
Speaker 3: that we do every Saturday morning together.
Speaker 2: It is our Life Uncut radio show.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we did like tap on this when we started
Speaker 4: the show. But Laura ate a meat pie with her.
Speaker 2: Fingers today and it was amazing.
Speaker 4: And you said you eat them top to bottom, is
Speaker 4: it right?
Speaker 3: I scooped out the mints throughout the show with my
Speaker 3: index finger.
Speaker 2: And dropped in on the ground as well. There's a
Speaker 2: lot going on, but it was beautiful and here we
Speaker 2: are the teams back together again.
Speaker 4: Beautiful, Piet beautiful.
Speaker 2: I don't know, no, but you know what this is.
Speaker 3: Okay, So if you missed us live on the airways,
Speaker 3: we are every Saturday morning ten to twelve on the
Speaker 3: Kiss Network. You can listen to our radio show. But
Speaker 3: if you don't listen to radio because you're running around
Speaker 3: doing other stuff. Maybe you're in the shower, maybe you're
Speaker 3: sitting on the loop. This is all of the best
Speaker 3: parts packaged up. And today we had such a great show.
Speaker 3: We had so much fun together.
Speaker 1: Look, we had a lot of fun doing this show.
Speaker 1: Laura gave us an update on the intimacy challenge. You're
Speaker 1: all welcome, which doesn't sound like it's been going on here.
Speaker 4: And I don't think you're doing it right.
Speaker 5: I don't think you're doing it right.
Speaker 2: Excuse me. I've made two children. I think I'm doing
Speaker 2: it just fine. Yeah, but two children over three and
Speaker 2: a half years. I don't know if that is that
Speaker 2: much intimacy, is it? What do you mean? Do don't
Speaker 2: judge my baby making? I think text.
Speaker 4: Twice that weren't only two times you've done it.
Speaker 3: No, it certainly wasn't. I mean it feels like that
Speaker 3: some days. Because anyway, Lord to convince this. Everybody on
Speaker 3: this podcast knows enough about my sex life. But here
Speaker 3: we are, and here I am telling you a little
Speaker 3: bit more.
Speaker 1: We also thought we would make a buck off. Mitch, Mitch,
Speaker 1: you've got to pull you wait around here.
Speaker 2: We pimped you out.
Speaker 1: We pimped you out to see who would well, how
Speaker 1: much they would pay, and what people would want you
Speaker 1: to do for them. And I mean that sounds a bit,
Speaker 1: that sounds a bit raunchy, but it's about that regard.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, because I do that for free. But no,
Speaker 4: because I created a eulogy for our boss Richie right
Speaker 4: here at the show and I got messages. This is true.
Speaker 4: DMS from your life is asking me. Someone asked me
Speaker 4: to host their child's christening.
Speaker 3: Well, you are very good when you were when you're
Speaker 3: put in a type position and you have to just
Speaker 3: talk on demand. You are very good under pressure at hosting,
Speaker 3: at performing, at speaking. And I think you would make
Speaker 3: an excellent MC at no matter what e venterity.
Speaker 4: We didn't get asked for your wedding, and you know,
Speaker 4: I mean, if I'm that good, I'll have you at mine.
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 5: We've got to wait around a little while.
Speaker 3: We did ask our MC two and a half years ago, though,
Speaker 3: because you know we've been engaged for so long now, Oh.
Speaker 4: True, we didn't know each other. We didn't know it
Speaker 4: all right, Okay.
Speaker 2: I'll take it you did deliver.
Speaker 1: If you guys haven't heard the eulogy that Mitchbook got
Speaker 1: put on the spot for our boss Richie. It was
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago now, but it was. It was brilliant. Mitchie,
Speaker 1: you did a very very good eulogy. I was in hysterics.
Speaker 1: I thought it was hilarious. On top of that, we
Speaker 1: had a little discussion about have you ever been on
Speaker 1: holiday vac and wanted to end your relationship after it?
Speaker 5: Have you gone on vac? And then they k TODR relationship.
Speaker 2: All that and so much more. Let's get into the show.
Speaker 4: It's a live on Cut radio show around the country
Speaker 4: with Britney Hockley and Laura Burn a bit Hold under
Speaker 4: the Collar too for you this month.
Speaker 3: Laura Burn, stop it, no, this is this is my music.
Speaker 2: Don't stop.
Speaker 5: Oh you doing the Intimacy Show?
Speaker 4: Well or have you? I hope?
Speaker 1: So you're supposed to have been doing this hot trend
Speaker 1: at the moment, the Intimacy Challenge with Maddy j.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: We started the Intimacy Challenge five days ago and now okay,
Speaker 3: so for the first well, actually, no, six days, six
Speaker 3: days gone strong?
Speaker 2: What are you talking around?
Speaker 5: What the Intimacy Challenge is? I haven't heard about it.
Speaker 3: Oh look, I feel like everyone's heard about it by now.
Speaker 3: The Intimacy Challenge, it's thirty days, and of that thirty days,
Speaker 3: every single day you have to be intimate.
Speaker 2: With your partner.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if you've got a headache, doesn't matter,
Speaker 3: if the kids have been driving you crazy, it doesn't
Speaker 3: matter if you're a bit too busy. You have to
Speaker 3: make time to be intimate with your partner.
Speaker 4: So it's it's not sex that you can cuddle.
Speaker 3: Well that's okay, that's my point. So I we thought
Speaker 3: it was sex, so we did it every day exhaust
Speaker 3: said four days, four days, and then we found out
Speaker 3: it wasn't that. So yesterday we just stayed into each other's.
Speaker 2: Eyes for a few minutes. So you just had to
Speaker 2: it. It has to be some form of connection.
Speaker 5: It can even be like a mental connection.
Speaker 2: What you say, Yeah, that's apparently, that's why.
Speaker 4: So you'll be some wrestling tomorrow on that counts on
Speaker 4: the list.
Speaker 3: We literally got to day four and we were like,
Speaker 3: how are we going to keep this up? Also, my
Speaker 3: mum has been staying with us. It's just caused a
Speaker 3: whole added layer of real challenges around this.
Speaker 2: So we were like, how are we going to keep
Speaker 2: this up for thirty days? Thirty days? Anyway?
Speaker 4: I went.
Speaker 3: Then I finally went and researched it and looked up
Speaker 3: the actual rules online cause I was like, how.
Speaker 2: Can we cheat?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't have to have sex every day, we
Speaker 3: just have to do something intimate. So yesterday we sat
Speaker 3: cross legged on the floor and stared into each other's
Speaker 3: eyes for five minutes.
Speaker 1: I think they did that on the season of The
Speaker 1: Batchelor recently, didn't they Last season they had to just
Speaker 1: sit there and look at each other on a menage.
Speaker 1: I couldn't watch turned it off. I was like, I
Speaker 1: couldn't watch this, it was so awkward.
Speaker 3: Apparently, apparently by looking into each other's eyes you see if.
Speaker 2: You see the soul, you see their soul. And I
Speaker 2: was like, where is he because I can't see.
Speaker 3: So apparently you see their soul in their left eye
Speaker 3: by looking into their eyes.
Speaker 2: One that's where he's hanging out.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about it, is how
Speaker 1: do single people do this intimacy challenge?
Speaker 5: Asking for a friend asking for a single friend.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean there's lots of different ways that
Speaker 3: you can do it, So you don't, like we just established,
Speaker 3: you don't have to, you know, do the horizontal dance
Speaker 3: of love. You could spend fifteen seconds or longer kissing.
Speaker 3: That could be considered part of the Internet fiture. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you could do other things. Get creative with your hands
Speaker 3: and I don't mean make a paper mache.
Speaker 1: So it could just be like you can just manage.
Speaker 1: Jay could walk past you in the kitchen and just
Speaker 1: give you a quick nipple.
Speaker 4: No intimate dinner together, that's an intimate thing.
Speaker 3: You look, you could cuddle on the count. It's just
Speaker 3: like really carving out some time within your day. But
Speaker 3: for me, this whole staring into each other's eyes for
Speaker 3: five minutes, I just couldn't stop laughing. Like I could
Speaker 3: not stop laughing. I was giggling like a little school girl.
Speaker 1: It's actually really hard to do. It makes a lot
Speaker 1: of people very very uncomfortable. It's something that a lot
Speaker 1: of like relationship therapists do when they're trying to build
Speaker 1: a relationship.
Speaker 5: You have to just look and not laugh and not speak.
Speaker 4: You two done it before you do you want to
Speaker 4: come here?
Speaker 3: Come you, let's tear into each other's eye. But you
Speaker 3: have to be close. We're a bit too far away.
Speaker 4: No, it's pretty close, about a meter between you.
Speaker 2: You're meant to be thirty centimeters.
Speaker 4: Break in your own can't laugh, verry wide or player.
Speaker 2: This is going to make exceptional rating on the right
Speaker 2: one can see how.
Speaker 4: You focus on the rate. All right, they're looking into
Speaker 4: each other's eyes. The left sleeking early one.
Speaker 2: Are you in love with me? Are you in love
Speaker 2: with me?
Speaker 3: Pretty?
Speaker 4: Holy?
Speaker 2: Well, good luck tonight. What's on the agenda tonight? Oh,
Speaker 2: we haven't decided.
Speaker 3: Maybe you will eat some food in front of the
Speaker 3: TV and hold hands. Oh that sounds no, you know what.
Speaker 3: It's Saturday night. We're going to make the most of it.
Speaker 3: I reckon, we'll go the whole hole tonight.
Speaker 5: Yeah you.
Speaker 4: Laura Burn. Ladies, there's something that you've had a weird
Speaker 4: impact in my life over the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 5: Like a good impact, always positive.
Speaker 4: You're bringing me work. I don't know if if you
Speaker 4: remember this. This happened a couple of weeks ago on
Speaker 4: the show Our Boss Here at Life. I can't Richie
Speaker 4: asked me to be the eulogy eulogist at his funeral, would.
Speaker 1: Because one call that person, well, let's call it a eulogist,
Speaker 1: keynute speaker.
Speaker 3: He asked you to host his funeral, Yes, he asked you,
Speaker 3: but now you didn't know.
Speaker 1: He actually like he was a bit of a setup
Speaker 1: on Laura, on my behalf. We sort of put you
Speaker 1: on the spot because we wanted to see how good
Speaker 1: you were on your toes in case if he did die.
Speaker 5: He knows you're going to deliver something good.
Speaker 4: He's in Bali at the moment, so god forbid you
Speaker 4: know who knows it might be anyway, this is what happened.
Speaker 4: If you missed it, I want Mitche Cherry to deliver
Speaker 4: my eulogy. Yeah, of course, I of course I'll do it.
Speaker 2: So shouldn't be that hard to say nice things about
Speaker 2: your boss, should it?
Speaker 4: And since that moment, girls, I'm getting DM. After DM,
Speaker 4: people go and Mitch, can you host my christening? Mitch,
Speaker 4: we're opening a local target.
Speaker 2: Asking you to host a christening?
Speaker 4: Isn't that like one and under?
Speaker 2: Don't you get christened at like three months?
Speaker 4: I don't know, Hey, you know MC's for christenings. It's
Speaker 4: hard to find.
Speaker 3: There's definitely some adult christenings that go on. But you
Speaker 3: know what it's why? It's because you're very good on
Speaker 3: the fly, Like you can rock up here, no prep
Speaker 3: and words come out of your mouth and half the
Speaker 3: time I don't even think you know what you're saying.
Speaker 2: That always sounds great.
Speaker 4: I don't know your names, to be honest, he doesn't.
Speaker 5: He finishes at the end and he's like, I blacked out?
Speaker 2: What's happening here?
Speaker 4: But so what?
Speaker 1: What kind of requests are you getting? Or is this
Speaker 1: something that maybe we should actually pimp you out for.
Speaker 1: Should we put it out to the people and see
Speaker 1: what they want you for?
Speaker 4: Well, I'm going to give you my fees now or
Speaker 4: can we talk money after?
Speaker 3: I think we negotiaate. We either we want bar mitz fers.
Speaker 3: We want you twelve formals?
Speaker 4: Yes, can we have Well listen, I'll give you my
Speaker 4: little regime. I'm studied theater. I can sing operatically, you know, just.
Speaker 2: Sing for one second. People need to hear.
Speaker 3: What if you need him to come and sing at
Speaker 3: your event. We've also got this in store for you.
Speaker 4: What genre? Give me a genre?
Speaker 2: Give your favorite song that brought you into manhood.
Speaker 4: Stay excuse me, say sway.
Speaker 3: No, I want what you do best, and that's a
Speaker 3: little bit of operatic.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, I can give it. I studied in New
Speaker 4: York under Blli. Okay, that's what you're getting. I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 3: I have a one video of Mitch singing it and
Speaker 3: I like to listen to it when I have my
Speaker 3: lone time.
Speaker 2: In the shower. That's like, okay, Jay, not like that.
Speaker 2: We've been doing an intimacy challenge. I don't need that.
Speaker 3: I just mean it's very relaxing, beautiful. Your voice is beautiful.
Speaker 3: What she's saying is to you while she does the
Speaker 3: intimacy challenge.
Speaker 2: No, its out my children, that's all.
Speaker 4: Listen. If I can be anything for you, it's that
Speaker 4: and I'm glad if you want to pick me out,
Speaker 4: go for it. So what if anyone's got a gig
Speaker 4: for me, call us now.
Speaker 2: I would love that.
Speaker 1: I would love to hear what the gig is and
Speaker 1: then we can discuss money after.
Speaker 4: Okay, So Chris Thing's weddings by Mitzvah's.
Speaker 5: Scenerals, you charge more, for sure, because that's deep.
Speaker 3: Well, and you've already got a bit of experience there,
Speaker 3: so I think we have to start low work our
Speaker 3: wag up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm booked out for the funerals. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 4: thirteen one sixty five callers, pimp me out?
Speaker 2: How are we all feeling well?
Speaker 3: Just just before the break, we were talking about how
Speaker 3: recently Mitch jury, he was put on the spot and
Speaker 3: he was asked to do our bosses eulogy in the
Speaker 3: very sad.
Speaker 2: Occasion that he might die, which it will happen one day.
Speaker 2: To be clear, our boss is not dead.
Speaker 5: He just asked in advance, if it ever does happen,
Speaker 5: if Mitch.
Speaker 4: Will He works with me, and he works with me
Speaker 4: and us, and he thought, if I want anyone, I
Speaker 4: want miss to do it.
Speaker 3: He's very young and he's very healthy. But you know,
Speaker 3: it's that never It always pays off to be prepared.
Speaker 3: But you know what, Mitch, there's something else that I
Speaker 3: wanted to ask you. Will you host our live show
Speaker 3: that we have happening in Sydney. This is real the
Speaker 3: podcast live show.
Speaker 5: Yep, we're going live next month October twelve, and we
Speaker 5: want you to be our host.
Speaker 2: It doesn't give you much time to prep but it's
Speaker 2: coming up.
Speaker 4: Wrong God, Yeah, except of course you accept, I'll do it.
Speaker 4: I'll do it no more.
Speaker 3: As well, we get the call out. We've been pimping
Speaker 3: out mits Churi. We want to know what what event
Speaker 3: do you have coming up? It can be significant, it
Speaker 3: can be truly very small and minor. But Mitch is
Speaker 3: a very good host, and we think that his skills
Speaker 3: have been underutilized.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's go to the phones. This is Tara. I'm thirteen,
Speaker 4: one oh sixty five. Hi, Tara, what do you want
Speaker 4: to book before?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 4: It's such a weird thing.
Speaker 6: Hello everyone.
Speaker 7: Sorry, Mitch. I'm having a party at my new house
Speaker 7: Grand Final, and I thought it would be fun if
Speaker 7: you hosted that.
Speaker 4: For US sports.
Speaker 2: I think you need to do this one with an
Speaker 2: Irish accent. Let's give it a crack.
Speaker 4: What mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, do it on the spot?
Speaker 4: Okay, Tar, You're gonna have friends over?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean like, I hope, so, I hope it's
Speaker 6: a party, which.
Speaker 2: Just mean party.
Speaker 4: We've got You've got pizza, You've got kick, We've got Guinness,
Speaker 4: spot is on pies, her up.
Speaker 1: He doesn't even know one of the team's names. I
Speaker 1: don't know how this is going.
Speaker 2: To go down to the ball.
Speaker 4: It's on the field, Tara.
Speaker 2: You can have him for free for this event.
Speaker 4: Go to the next caller. Jess is called through. I
Speaker 4: think I got that gig. Jess, what do you want
Speaker 4: to book me for?
Speaker 6: I want to book you for charity?
Speaker 2: All night charity. What kind of charity are we speaking?
Speaker 6: So the Disability Surfers Association.
Speaker 8: That's who we're looking.
Speaker 7: To fundraise for. My work is IoT. We're based in
Speaker 7: Wollongong and we're located at the Innovation Campus.
Speaker 4: I went to the University of w as well.
Speaker 2: I'm from Woolloo. You're both going to have to go down.
Speaker 4: You know what, I will double booking. We'll see you there, Jess.
Speaker 4: Thank you. Courtney. We just put a double No one's.
Speaker 3: Getting paid for this stuff, but I'll do it, you know,
Speaker 3: because it's for charity.
Speaker 4: For charity of course, Courtney on thirteen one O sixty
Speaker 4: five high. What do you want to book? I guess
Speaker 4: me Laura of britt for now we're all up.
Speaker 7: Well, my partner and I have just bought a house
Speaker 7: in the country and I want you guys to host
Speaker 7: our half puth warming.
Speaker 1: Oh a country like in the country, Green Roll fields
Speaker 1: like Parks.
Speaker 2: Come and see Dish, Parks, Dish, the Nuances, very New Zealand,
Speaker 2: a lot of country commercy.
Speaker 4: The dish. It's really good.
Speaker 7: I think you would need to wear a cowboy outfit though.
Speaker 4: All right, I'm booked and blessed, ladies. It's been a
Speaker 4: very royal week, very royal ten days.
Speaker 2: Oh it has.
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 3: I feel like every time I turn on the TV,
Speaker 3: I turn on the radio, and I know it's the
Speaker 3: biggest thing that's happened in the world in a very
Speaker 3: long time.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, we have a king now.
Speaker 1: It's weird, King Charles the Third, and it hasn't it been.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, it's a big thing to become
Speaker 1: a king. I imagine I've never done it. But he
Speaker 1: has had a pretty tough first week. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you've seen some of the stuff that's been going down.
Speaker 5: He has had a few tantrums.
Speaker 4: I know, the one of the pen.
Speaker 5: One about the pen let's play this is it.
Speaker 4: He's going viral on TikTok. He's yelling at a squire
Speaker 4: because his pen was inky got the date roum, which
Speaker 4: was that's Camilla. I can't bear this bloody then.
Speaker 2: I saw this and I thought he was.
Speaker 3: Angry because his workers, I don't know what do they
Speaker 3: call his his people, squire? Is they put the ink
Speaker 3: well too close to where he needed to sign.
Speaker 2: But just get a ballpoint pen.
Speaker 1: You know, it's not instilling a lot of confidence in
Speaker 1: the people if he can't even get through a pen
Speaker 1: signing and then an ink ink leaking is what he's
Speaker 1: causing him to have a fit. Feel like in your
Speaker 1: first week is king, you need to be confident, calm,
Speaker 1: cool and collected.
Speaker 2: I know that King like King Charles.
Speaker 3: It's so weird to even say, Okay, I know that
Speaker 3: King Charles is not a particularly widely loved figure of
Speaker 3: the monarchy yet, but when you say that, I feel
Speaker 3: a little bit sorry for him. Maybe this isn't but
Speaker 3: he's just lost his mum. I think that, you know,
Speaker 3: when you've gone through like a big tragedy and he's
Speaker 3: just lost his mum. Maybe it was the small thing
Speaker 3: that kicked him over the edge and made him really
Speaker 3: upset that day and he took it out on the pen. Yep,
Speaker 3: But you need to lead the commonwealth, So I feel
Speaker 3: like you need to get past your pen leaking because
Speaker 3: the entire.
Speaker 5: World is watching you right now.
Speaker 3: I know, but it's only that at the time, it
Speaker 3: was only like seven days, wasn't it only seven days last.
Speaker 2: Time he's worked in his life. He doesn't know what
Speaker 2: to do. They are true. There's been a few other
Speaker 2: things though.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: Look, a lot of people have been making fun of
Speaker 3: his hands because he's got some condition that means that
Speaker 3: his hands and.
Speaker 2: His feet swell up.
Speaker 3: Go google photos of Prince Charles's hands if you're not
Speaker 3: driving a car right now.
Speaker 2: But there's something going on.
Speaker 5: I'm not about this either. The world and the Internet.
Speaker 1: The interweb can be a very, very cruel place, and
Speaker 1: it's this is just unnecessary.
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 1: I think we can laugh at him having a little
Speaker 1: fit over the ink leaking, but I don't think it's
Speaker 1: nice to laugh at anybody physically.
Speaker 5: I think that's too far, and I'm not about it.
Speaker 4: Well, have you seen the guy and the Aussie guy
Speaker 4: who is claiming that he is the official son of
Speaker 4: Charles and Camilla.
Speaker 3: This is my favorite story to come out of the week.
Speaker 3: I have been following it so close. Love a little
Speaker 3: conspiracy theory. Okay, so his name is Simon Durant Day
Speaker 3: and he's from Queensland, and he thinks, like honestly thinks
Speaker 3: he's trying to I don't even know how he does it,
Speaker 3: but he's trying to commission through the highest court to
Speaker 3: get a DNA sample of the King because he thinks
Speaker 3: that he is Camilla and the King's love child, because
Speaker 3: apparently his grandma told him on her deathbed that he
Speaker 3: is the love child of them.
Speaker 4: I've got some audio if him have a listen to this.
Speaker 9: They didn't stop to think when they gave me away
Speaker 9: that many people around the world would see the truth.
Speaker 9: And they come across me and they did. I mean,
Speaker 9: these stories haven't been told you. We've only scraped the
Speaker 9: tip of that iceberg.
Speaker 3: Okay, but look look, look, look, look, wait, wait wait,
Speaker 3: look at how much he looks like them.
Speaker 4: He's just an old white man. I agree, the old
Speaker 4: white man looks like royal.
Speaker 5: Do you know what's funny. I mean, the whole thing's funny.
Speaker 1: But what is really funny is that he's currently trying
Speaker 1: to get King Charles to go to family court to him.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine King Charles flying to Queensland, Australia and
Speaker 1: turning up at the local family court because that would
Speaker 1: be a site.
Speaker 4: He's going to have to come here because he's doing
Speaker 4: the Royal Tour and he's going to come to the
Speaker 4: Commonwealth Nations, so he might come here.
Speaker 3: Apparently he can't get the King, but he might be
Speaker 3: able to get Camilla, his mummy, because she's only the
Speaker 3: Queen Consort.
Speaker 2: There go, there a loophole.
Speaker 4: Well, listen, it's not over yet. We have the funeral
Speaker 4: of Queen Elizabeth Monday night. If you want to hear
Speaker 4: it Monday night, we're going to be telecasting live as
Speaker 4: it happens here at the radio station.
Speaker 2: So absolutely, and I hope that you know King Charles
Speaker 2: has a better run next.
Speaker 4: Week, that Simon Drente Day leaves Dreamworld for a day
Speaker 4: and can go someone by the man pen Britt. Are
Speaker 4: you across Laura's research?
Speaker 1: What depends what the research is? Is it the intimacy challenge?
Speaker 1: Research across that one?
Speaker 6: Why?
Speaker 2: Actually, do you know what?
Speaker 3: Funnily enough, I did come across this because of the
Speaker 3: intimacy challenge. So I have been looking up weird and
Speaker 3: wonderful ways to be intimate without having to go to
Speaker 3: fourth base?
Speaker 4: Is it fourth base?
Speaker 2: Home run?
Speaker 3: The benchmark's change yeah, we just hold hands now. Okay,
Speaker 3: So there's a new research study that has come out
Speaker 3: and it was a study of two thousand people by
Speaker 3: a company called Illicit Encounters dot com. Right now, this
Speaker 3: is and I want to know, have you guys ever
Speaker 3: been on holidays with your partner at the time and
Speaker 3: when you were on holidays thought I actually can't stand
Speaker 3: this person and think I would like to break up
Speaker 3: with them.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I did that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So apparently there's now research study to back this.
Speaker 3: So thirty two percent of women, a third of the
Speaker 3: women who were researched, have all experienced when they've been
Speaker 3: on holidays this they change and shift towards their partner.
Speaker 3: And similarly thirty four percent of men and the reason
Speaker 3: why is because apparently prolonged exposure to their partner on
Speaker 3: holiday made them think of starting afresh one hundred percent.
Speaker 4: That's interesting.
Speaker 1: I did a I went on a five week holiday
Speaker 1: with my partner at the time, and it was our
Speaker 1: first ever holiday. We've been doing long distance, we hadn't
Speaker 1: spent much time together. Got to America. Three days in,
Speaker 1: I had this moment where I was like, what have
Speaker 1: I done? And I I had the conversation with him
Speaker 1: then and there I got the ick big time. That's
Speaker 1: not even a holiday, that's a long weekend. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but i'd been on May two days flying, so let's
Speaker 1: rounded up to five days. And then I left. We
Speaker 1: broke up then and there. He didn't want to he
Speaker 1: was crying. It was horrible.
Speaker 5: I left and did a five week holiday alone and
Speaker 5: I never saw him again. It was it was brutal.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I think would be the worst
Speaker 3: for this going on a cruise. If you're in a
Speaker 3: cruise with someone, there's nowhere to escape. Yeah, you get
Speaker 3: little rooms off on one of the islands.
Speaker 4: That's great, Margy, imagine camping.
Speaker 3: But how many people have come back from the long
Speaker 3: holidays or trip the way that was supposed to be
Speaker 3: the most beautiful, romantic time away with their partner and
Speaker 3: they've come home and the relationship has been in ruins.
Speaker 4: Do you think it's because you see the dark and
Speaker 4: dirty side of your partner, like showering and habits and no.
Speaker 3: Yes, partly that, but I also think it's because when
Speaker 3: you're traveling, like things don't always go to plan. You're
Speaker 3: away from your creature comforts, stuff is you know, you
Speaker 3: need to be with someone who's quite good at problem solving,
Speaker 3: and I think that you see a very different side
Speaker 3: to your partner than what you would see if you're
Speaker 3: in your normal day to day.
Speaker 1: But it's like when you travel with a friend too.
Speaker 1: You have to match with someone's traveling ability. It's not
Speaker 1: necessarily whether you just get along and you like the
Speaker 1: same things at home and you can live like. It's
Speaker 1: a very specific kind of thing traveling. So I reckon
Speaker 1: there'd be a lot of people out there that have
Speaker 1: gone through this.
Speaker 3: I once broke up with an ex boyfriend after a
Speaker 3: trip to Bali because I found photos in his phone
Speaker 3: lots of nudes that were definitely taken whilst we were together.
Speaker 3: So I don't know if that plays into this, but.
Speaker 4: It was definitely a travel breaker off.
Speaker 1: No girls, he was just cheating whilst he was to
Speaker 1: be in a monogamous relate with let's not travel related, Laura,
Speaker 1: different category.
Speaker 3: All right, well we want to hear from you. Okay,
Speaker 3: what are your story?
Speaker 4: We're talking the vacs that made you want to vacate.
Speaker 4: Brittany Huckley coined that term very impressive.
Speaker 2: You wanted to vacate your relationship.
Speaker 1: I thought you're going to take credit for that, but
Speaker 1: thanks for giving me that Creditly, it was one of my.
Speaker 4: Better Have you been on a holiday and has it
Speaker 4: made you realize you want to leave your relationship? Nest
Speaker 4: Is on on thirteen one or sixty five? Hey, nas,
Speaker 4: what happened to you?
Speaker 6: I went on holidays with my then boyfriend and we've
Speaker 6: gone to go out for dinner and we were like
Speaker 6: walking to the restaurant and there was like a line
Speaker 6: of like fifty people. And then asked him if he
Speaker 6: wanted to book and he said no, no one.
Speaker 10: Ever goes there.
Speaker 6: So we got there and there was a line and
Speaker 6: we couldn't get in. And then I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: like why did you tell me like not to talk?
Speaker 6: And then he proceeded to yell at me out the
Speaker 6: restaurant in front of everyone up and he left me.
Speaker 2: Like he left you. Wait, he broke up with you?
Speaker 6: He walked home like and left me up from the
Speaker 6: restaurant crying, And unfortunately I didn't break up with him
Speaker 6: because of it. We stayed together for like eight months after.
Speaker 1: While the red Flag, you've taken angry to the next level.
Speaker 4: You're coining a lot of terms today. Bring the joker,
Speaker 4: all right, Josie on thirteen one sixty five. Hi Josie,
Speaker 4: what's your story?
Speaker 6: Hello?
Speaker 7: Well, it was my first trip I've seed, so I
Speaker 7: was very excited and we went over to Bali and
Speaker 7: it was with my partner and his family.
Speaker 3: You know what I get it, Bali, it's the real problem,
Speaker 3: it's the common denominator.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was so excited about it. So we're walking
Speaker 7: through the little market and I was a bit of
Speaker 7: a newbie to the whole experience. My partner had been
Speaker 7: to Thailand before. We were walking through the market and I,
Speaker 7: you know, stopped up and I was like, cool, grab that.
Speaker 7: And then suddenly he just starts battering with them, and
Speaker 7: not to battery. He had like a Baliny's accent, and
Speaker 7: I sort of just looked and didn't really know what
Speaker 7: to do, and he just didn't stop, like it just
Speaker 7: kept going, going, going, and then I just walked away.
Speaker 1: Do you mean like a bit of Do you mean
Speaker 1: like a bit of cultural appropriation there? Yeah?
Speaker 7: It was pretty bad, and I sort of didn't really
Speaker 7: know what to do. I was like, I don't think
Speaker 7: that you should really be doing that.
Speaker 3: Here's my question, how much was he bartering over? Because
Speaker 3: there's nothing more attractive than seeing someone barter over a dollar?
Speaker 6: Is that.
Speaker 2: Three dollars? Three dollars? They're bartering over three bucks?
Speaker 4: That's a turn off.
Speaker 5: That is the biggest turn off I've ever seen.
Speaker 2: So I said, that's a turnoff. Oh no, I meant to.
Speaker 7: I'm not with him now.
Speaker 5: No, And I think that you've made a very wise decision.
Speaker 4: There couldn't agree more. All right, you bartered yourself out
Speaker 4: of that relationship, Sarah, Sarah, what's your story? Hi?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 8: How are you well? My parents shouted us a trip
Speaker 8: two the Gold Coast for our twenty first birthday and
Speaker 8: we went to dream World and my boyfriend that the
Speaker 8: time would not go on one single right, So I know,
Speaker 8: as the day wore on, I just got more and
Speaker 8: more down trotten boatle and I thought, what am I doing? Like,
Speaker 8: is this someone who I'm actually going to spend the
Speaker 8: rest of my life with? You know, high school sweethearts,
Speaker 8: we've been together for a long time, And I thought, oh,
Speaker 8: I'm not signing up for this, No way, No, you.
Speaker 1: Need to find someone else you can ride that roller
Speaker 1: coaster with. Oh maybe he had there to go. She
Speaker 1: started up here and it just went down.
Speaker 2: So that was my favorite one.
Speaker 4: All right, let's see if you got on for Georgia.
Speaker 4: Wrap this up first, Georgia, what happened on your vac
Speaker 4: that made your vacate?
Speaker 10: Hello? I was in Bali with.
Speaker 4: My power Yeah.
Speaker 10: Cool. We met these awesome girls from the UK. They
Speaker 10: were so lovely. We're all getting along. The minute I
Speaker 10: got up to go get drinks from the bar, my
Speaker 10: partner turned around with his phone and took down one
Speaker 10: of the girls numbers.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 10: Yeah, we had like a whole bunch of disagreements on
Speaker 10: the trip, so we broke up when we got back.
Speaker 10: He then moved to the UK and has actually engaged
Speaker 10: to her.
Speaker 1: Now, oh my goodness, I am picking my drop off
Speaker 1: the ground. But also I mean maybe he does and
Speaker 1: found his penguin. He went about it the wrong way.
Speaker 1: He's engaged.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Georgia. I think that's great for him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, great for him.
Speaker 4: Sucks she to did better than you.
Speaker 2: I'll pay that. Oh wow.
Speaker 4: Great story.
Speaker 3: Well that is it, and at the end of the show,
Speaker 3: but we do have our episode coming out on Tuesday
Speaker 3: on Life Uncut, and we are interviewing Renee Simms, who
Speaker 3: is the niece of Lynette Dawson. If you have listened
Speaker 3: to the Australian podcast which is The Teacher's Pet, we
Speaker 3: are speaking to someone from the family.
Speaker 4: It's a huge gets is huge, huge.
Speaker 1: Episode of big insight into the trial and the family
Speaker 1: life since Lynette passed away or disappeared, I should say
Speaker 1: forty years ago, so that's dropping to day on life
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Speaker 4: See you next week.