WEBVTT - Tammy Hembrow's Sole Responsibility, Saffron Barker's Breakup & Paris Hilton is Married 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.200 This is Outspoken, the podcast it's not afraid to say 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:06.680 exactly what you're thinking. Our names are Amy Kay and 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:10.559 Sophie Torba. We're identical triplets, but we often don't have 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:15.720 identical opinions, so sometimes things can get heated. Outspoken covers 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:20.640 all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, and issues facing women. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:29.160 That is so fatch. Thank you, Welcome back to another 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:30.400 episode of Outspoken. 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:30.760 Now. 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:33.839 We are very excited because on Friday we will be 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:37.680 launching our Christmas series now. As OG listeners will recall, 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.840 we launched our first season of a Very Outspoken Christmas 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:44.400 last year, which we absolutely loved doing so we had 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:46.879 a lot of guests on talking about their Christmas tradition 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.519 and what they're getting up to for Christmas. So this 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.479 year we will be dropping our second series. However, it's 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.200 going to be a little bit different as we do 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:56.880 want to freshen things up, so we're really excited to 0:00:56.920 --> 0:01:00.440 share those episodes with you next week. All I's got 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.400 a bit of a secret Christmas project in the works 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.560 that we need your help with. We will be posting 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.200 some information about it in our Facebook community, so make 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:09.680 sure you're joined, and we'd also love to get your 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.520 feedback on it too. I'm so excited at the moment. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:15.200 My Christmas tree is up and it just feels so 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:18.600 magical to see it when I'm sitting down watching TV. 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.200 And I have to say I'm pretty confident because every 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:24.240 year we have a Christmas tree competition, and last year, 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:27.240 I have to say I creamed you guys, you did. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.000 I mean, it helps when you've got like a thousand 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.440 dollar tree, but Kate and I've got the real Christmas 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:34.520 trees and mine looked the worst. And it was because 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:38.560 I left the plastic bag on the tree the stump, 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:40.560 so it wasn't able to get any water. So this year, 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:42.520 I'm going to check that the stump has no plastic 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.679 around it. Or because I'm not having to go out 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.400 and buy a new Christmas tree or a real Christmas tree, 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.080 I have invested in some extra decorations and I'm going 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:54.600 for the very traditional red, gold, and green Christmas colors 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:57.720 this year. So hope that red, white and green. Well sorry, 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:00.000 there is white in there as well, but I I 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.680 feel like people will like it too. Well. I'm excited 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:06.800 because I'm finally moved into my new house because we 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.320 did last year move in just before Christmas, but I 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.160 had to really rush to put things up, and I 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.920 didn't really have furniture to put all my decorations on. 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.880 So I'm very excited to get that started. But I 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:18.760 think Amy, you and I are probably going to start 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:22.000 decorating I'd say early December because if we wait for 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.639 our real t well, I've taken all my Halloween stuff down, 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.040 so I'm actually thinking I'm going to put my Christmas 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.680 village up this week, so I might need your help. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:31.880 And I'm also thinking of relocating it, so I think 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:34.600 I will make it reel to show everybody what it's 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:36.640 looking like, because I'm also on the hunt for some 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:40.240 more limax villages as well. Or when you say Christmas village, 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:44.000 you basically have this amazing fairis wheel that's lit up, 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:47.160 and you've also got little houses you at fire station. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.240 I'm really jealous of it because I love those Christmas 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:52.720 traditions that you just invest in. So every year you're 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.000 going to buy a new little piece for your village. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.720 I know I need a new piece. I did see 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.240 this Christmas scene and it was in Venice, but it 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:02.280 didn't have that any decorations, like it wasn't too Christmas y. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.559 It was just pretty well. El Darby is one influencer 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.000 who I think loves Christmas just as much as we do. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:12.440 And last weekend she shared her Christmas decoration video with us. 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.920 And she always puts her Christmas decorations up on the 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:18.480 first of November, which it does seem pretty early, but 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:21.120 I feel like with the last couple of years we've had, 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:24.000 I feel like it's socially acceptable to be putting yours 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:28.120 up earlier and earlier. And she actually enlisted the help 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:30.880 of a professional designer who does a lot of her parties, 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:35.480 and she, along with a lighting company, decorated the front 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:38.600 yard of her house and it looked incredible because she's 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:41.880 got one of those beautiful porch and what they did 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:44.240 was they put a big garland at like sort of 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:47.840 a pine garland around that with gold lights, and she 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.800 also had a big gossen star at the top, yeah 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:53.480 and arch and the doors were flanked either side by 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.920 gold light up reindeers and they also had mini live 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.880 Christmas trees in pots with fake snow. And I think 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:02.840 it was that perfect classy Christmas display that was cute 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:06.520 enough as well. It did look really classy. I loved 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:09.080 how Con was saying he was getting his inspo from 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:11.800 Home Alone, the house in Home Alone, because I love 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:15.120 that house. I also love the Lampoon's Christmas Vacation House, 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.960 but that's a little less classic because there's more Christmas lie. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.599 See as I feel like as we've matured, we've gone 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:24.960 from growing up with the very garish, colorful display more 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:27.760 lights the better kind of yeah, and now I'm into 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:32.960 the more tasteful gold you know, signature pieces. But I 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:36.080 think gold and color can work really well together. It 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:38.440 just depends how you do it. I do really want 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:41.000 to invest in a nice garland with lights on it 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:43.719 to run across my TV cabinet because ellen Con have 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:47.039 the most beautiful one. And when they showed their Christmas 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:50.080 decorations in their lounge room, god it looked cozy. It 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.440 made me almost wish that it was the cold weather 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.120 at Christmas time in Australia. I mean, at the moment 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.640 it's bloody cold, so who knows we may have a 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.799 wet Christmas. Well. I want to know where you actually 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.320 get those garlands from because I never see them anywhere. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.920 So if anyone in our community knows, I am willing 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:08.840 to invest well, I bound some, he'll do them. Oh, 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.839 you do everything. Yeah, but I don't have a spare 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.440 three grand too. By the three grand, the tree is 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.799 one grand at the most, and the garland is probably 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:21.200 fifty bucks or something. Oh fifty, I thinks around that surprise, Nah, 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:23.760 I reckon, there are a couple of hundred dollars. But Amy, 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.760 you and l Darby I think could trade secrets on 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:30.400 your Limax villagers. Because she also has the tradition of 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:34.120 collecting one each year, and she was joking around how 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.719 she's you know, by the time she's in her sixty 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:38.520 she's going to have so many of them that she's 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.880 going to force her son Saint to take some to 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:43.000 his house. But she's like, let's be honest, you probably 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:46.679 wouldn't care about them. Okay, So the most exciting part 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:52.200 of the whole day has finally a rived. We're about 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:55.680 to be the tree. A woman's video on TikTok has 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.920 gone viral after she shared an offensive text message that 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:02.120 caused her to cancel a date. Now, the worst part 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:05.240 of this whole incident is the message was accidentally sent 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.680 to her. So in the TikTok video that has been 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:11.280 viewed over four point six million times. Molly Hare posted 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:15.039 a screenshot of the conversation. Now, apparently, her male date 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.680 had been waiting for her to arrive for their first 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:21.960 meet up when he texted his friend waiting on this cunt. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:25.880 I took a pinch for confidence. Now, this guy must 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:29.000 have had that stomach dropping, heart pumping moment when he 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.920 realized he'd actually sent the message to his date. Now, 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:36.440 the guy realized what he had done instantly and profusely 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:40.520 apologized and tried to persuade Molly to change her mind. However, 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.800 it seemed like it had provided a big enough red 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.480 flag for Molly, and she called it quits before they 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.120 even met. And it sounds like she made the right decision. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.440 What does that mean? I took a pinch for moy. 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:55.159 He did a poose oh, he pinched one off. I 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.320 thought it was a drug reference. I'm not sure. I 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.800 didn't want to be uncool enough to say that. No, 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.360 it's the pooh. I've heard Brandon say, I've pinched one 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:08.239 of bo I don't know what's more unforgivable him calling 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:10.960 her a cun t or saying that he went and 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.440 did a nervous poop. Remember we had a friend to 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:15.600 see you and t thing. Remember one of our friends 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.200 she got a text message from this guy that she liked, 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:20.200 and they were meant to be going out for sushi 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.440 as friends, and he texted hers saying, oh, sorry, I 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.800 can't come because I'm doing a poop. I feel like 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.640 any mention of feeful matter. It's like that guy's not 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.280 even well. That was clearly a blowoff text, because if 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:32.560 you've got if you'd rather go into a poo, then 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.320 go and get Sushie was a girl. I think that's 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.080 saying a lot. This has actually happened to me where 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:38.800 I've sent a text to the wrong person recently. I 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:40.560 was actually on the phone to Kate and we were 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.640 talking about how ridiculous it is that all of our 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.760 boyfriends think that our Christmas decorations take up so much 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.440 room in the shed, and when in fact it's actually 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:51.360 all their shit that takes up the room. Anyway, So 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.760 I took photos of the shed and then I sent 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:57.400 them to Kate, but I accidentally sent them to Dale 0:07:57.600 --> 0:07:59.920 so and then he wrote back, I've got the message 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.760 loud and clear because the shed looked really, really messy, 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.960 and I was like, oh fuck, how do I explain that. God, 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:07.160 there was no way of getting out of the no, 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:08.720 I just had to be honest. I was like, oh, 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.520 I was actually talking about your stuff in the shed. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:14.040 I managed to avoid a situation like this, and I 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.600 feel like I've got to share it because I wasn't 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.520 even aware that you could do this. So I was 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.640 talking about someone that I'm friends with on Instagram and 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:27.160 I was showing their page and somehow I accidentally flicked 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:30.520 in to message them, and unbeknownst to me, I must 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.959 have touched the microphone button and was talking about them. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.559 And if you actually release your finger from the microphone button, 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:41.760 it sends the conversation immediately, like as a voice note. Luckily, yeah, 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:44.040 that does that on text message too. Luckily I look 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.000 down and I realized what I was doing and managed 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.360 somehow to exit out from it, because that could have 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:53.240 been it was not good. Actually, that reminds me. I 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.320 remember I was in a group chat with you guys 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:59.000 and mum, and somehow I managed to snap this the 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:02.360 most hideous photo of myself. I don't know how. It 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.040 just took a photo of me and I was like, 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:07.240 no makeup, pajamas, it wouldn't matten too much to it, 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.520 so but it didn't. But I was thinking, imagine if 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:13.400 I sent that to anybody else, I'd have been mortified. Well, 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:16.600 that whole microphone thing brought up a memory I'd tried 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:18.920 to bury in my mind when I was having to 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.600 communicate back and forth with the thirty six's players around 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:25.559 their media appearances. And there was one player who actually 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:27.880 used to play in the NBA who was quite well known, 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.280 and I had to message him and he'd been a 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:34.559 bit of a I was gonna say Slee's bag via message, 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:37.120 and I accidentally sent him a screen recording of me 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.120 swearing like I don't even know what I said. I 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.960 couldn't even Oh, I do remember that, and he just 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.560 used it as a hook to keep this like flirty 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.559 banter up, and I was like, for Fox, what were 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:49.560 you saying in it? I can't remember. I think I swore, 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:51.560 and he's like, oh, I didn't expect she used language. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:56.120 I don't know. God, that's so embarrassing. I'm about how 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.439 to lunch with Kaylin. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:02.280 She's here, she's just getting changed in the front bedroom 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:05.040 right now, and we're about to leave. It kind of 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:06.920 goes a little bit overcast today We're going to Totty 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:11.600 as well. We're going to Tonty's for lunch today. This 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:13.680 is our first time back to Totty's since lockdown. 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.199 In a Q and A on Wednesday, Tammy Hember appeared 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.720 to confirm she has sole custody of her two children, 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:22.000 Wolf and Saskia. The revelation comes four months after the 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.800 father of Tammy's kids, Reese Hawkins, moved to the US 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:28.600 to live with his wife London and their baby Stone. Yeah. So, 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.120 for those who don't know, Tammy and Reese were together 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:34.920 for five years before splitting in twenty eighteen, and a 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.840 few months later he began dating London. And it's so 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.480 awkward because she was a bit of a fangirl of 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.760 Tammy and Reese's and she used to write really awkward 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:47.280 comments on their photos. So, Sophie, what did Tammy say? 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.520 In the Q and A, Well, Tammy was asked by 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.880 a follower if she looks after Wolf and Saskia full time, 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:56.000 to which she simply replied, yep. She also went on 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:58.280 to comment on how she manages to look after them 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.439 on her own, in addition to help from my mum. 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:02.880 She said, my kids are quite a good age and 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:05.320 actually really well behaved. I'll bring Sas to a lot 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.400 of my meetings when Wolf is at school, as she 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:09.840 only goes a couple of days a week. The great 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.720 thing is it seems like Tammy has helped from her 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.800 long term partner Matt Paul as well, and she praised 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.480 him on Father's Day in September for what she said 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.000 was stepping up for the sake of her children. So 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:23.080 in the Instagram post, she shared a photo of Matt 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:25.640 hugging her two kids and wrote you may not be 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:27.960 their father by blood, but the bond you have with 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.880 my babies is something else. Thank you for stepping up 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.360 and being such an amazing role model and support in 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:36.640 their lives. We love you. And Tammy also revealed in 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:39.439 her Q and A that she wants more children, writing 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.280 I do I want all the babies all in good time. 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:44.840 I feel really sorry for Saski and Wolf because it 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.600 would be really hard knowing that their father has chosen 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.600 to live in a different country to them with his 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:54.600 other child. Yeah, I do feel really sorry for them 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.520 how this is all playing out, because it would be 0:11:57.520 --> 0:11:59.440 hard for Tammy not to comment on her and yeah, 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:03.600 she has given very little information, but unfortunately, in considering 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.839 she's got such a high profile, even commenting on it 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:10.160 does make it into something bigger. And I just I 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:13.760 really enjoy watching Saskia and Wolf on Tammy's channel. They 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.520 are so adorable that little Wolf is going to be 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:19.360 a heartbreaker, and her daughter is so cute and hilarious. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.880 I saw Tammy take her into her office and just 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:25.240 the cute little toys that she was showing all the 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:26.920 workers and stuff. I mean, they don't seem to be 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.520 affected by it at all at the moment, but when 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:31.240 they grow up, it's going to be hard to see 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:34.840 these sorts of articles circulating online. Hi everyone, and welcome 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:39.600 back to my channel. Now I am joined with I 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:44.240 don't know, I think your boyfriend. UK YouTuber Saffron Barker 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:47.280 says there's no bad blood after splitting with her boyfriend 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.839 every year, Tyler Dixon. Sophie, can you give us a 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:53.880 rundown of Saffron and Tyler's relationship history. Well, they actually 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:57.000 met on Instagram during Lockdown last year, and it's pretty 0:12:57.000 --> 0:13:00.720 funny because Tyler is a twin and saffron best friend 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:04.600 Anastasia kings North spotted his brother Jordan on Tinder and 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:08.400 ended up swiping right. So Safron thought, oh, I quite 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:10.240 like a look of those twins too, I'm going to 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:12.120 look up the brother. So she did a bit of 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:15.680 an Instagram stalk and found Tyler on Instagram and thought 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.440 he was cute, so added him. So she said it 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:21.000 was very out of character for her to actually do this, 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:24.480 as she doesn't often add random guys. Tyler admitted that 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:27.720 he hadn't actually heard of Saffron before, and it was 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:31.160 only his grandparents that knew of her because she'd appeared 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:35.240 on Strictly Dancing Now. Tyler must have eventually realized that 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:38.160 a famous YouTuber had followed him, because he then hit 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:40.880 her up in the DMS and they started chatting back 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:44.960 and forth and finally went out. Can you imagine getting 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:47.280 a request from someone who's got like a million follows 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:49.840 on Instagram. I'd probably think it was some form of joke. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.520 I think it was fake or I know that there's 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:57.640 some influencers who pay to get into people's inboxes with 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:59.920 those sort of chain mail. I think that Bill Got 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.640 from the Bachelor has been doing that. Yeah, they're pretty 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:07.320 obvious that they're fake emails, though, but would if someone 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.280 if you were dating a YouTuber, would you go and 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:13.560 watch all of their content? Definitely, Yes, I definitely would. Definitely. Well, 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:16.400 their relationship did sound like it started out pretty cute 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.640 because they had to have dates online, so they would 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.880 order takeaways and then talk to each other on FaceTime, 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:25.320 which actually sounds like a nightmare of mind because who 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:28.520 wants to be recorded eating tape? Saffron, I think that's 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:31.640 a date format that she would flourish it. She's so 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:34.200 used to talking to the camera. Yeah, it's a bit 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.600 of a mook bunk. Really. It was really interesting because 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:40.480 over Christmas, Tyler actually moved in with the Barkers for 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.720 a number of months because he lives five hours away 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.680 from Saffron, and that would have been pretty full on, 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:49.800 going from only talking over the phone, having a couple 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:52.440 of dates here and there, to being chucked into that 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:55.720 sort of environment with this very out there YouTube family 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.400 they all seem to have massive personalities, and also the 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.600 fact that he didn't actually get to spend Christmas Day 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:04.280 with his own family, And in Saffron's podcast, she was 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.840 saying that she would never ever want to spend Christmas, 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:10.280 not even lunch or dinner with someone else's family, which 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:13.000 was a bit selfish. I remember hearing that and thinking, gosh, 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:16.600 good luck, Like when you actually, even when you have kids, 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:18.800 you're actually going to have to spend time with your 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.240 partner's family at Christmas too. But I think that's a 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:24.240 real young person mentality. You're so used to always having 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.160 it on your terms at Christmas that you're like, hang on, 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:28.240 but when am I going to see mom's side and 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.840 dad's side. It's not going to work. And then you realize, actually, 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.360 you've got to make some sacrifices if you really like 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.720 the person. And I think for these two, the fact 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:38.640 that their relationship did start in lockdown, it seemed like 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:41.600 it was almost doomed because I think people have this 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.440 theory on lockdown relationships because at the time, you don't 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:46.520 really have any other options. You can't be going out 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:49.920 to night clubs meeting other people. All the boys are 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.400 acting really cute, coming up with date ideas because I've 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:54.240 got nothing else to do, and you're sort of in 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.560 this bubble where your relationship probably feels like it has 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.640 gone for longer because you're kind of in that mundane 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.160 part of your relationship. You're not in the honeymoon phase. 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:07.239 Where you're going out doing stuff. Well, it really accelerates relationships. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:10.920 I feel well. Saffron and Tyler went public on Instagram 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:14.720 about their relationship in August twenty twenty, and since then, 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.640 despite the UK being in a lockdown, they've been on 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:21.520 numerous luxury holidays. The most recent trip was a holiday 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.320 to Greece with the Barker family. So I was actually 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:27.360 really surprised, Sophie when you messaged me at what twelve 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.840 thirty last night when you told me that Tyler and 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:33.160 Saffron had broken up, because I thought, well, he's just 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:35.160 been on this huge family holiday, but maybe that was 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:37.720 the catalyst for the breakoun. Oh, they can be. Any 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.040 sort of family holidays could be a catalyst for a split. 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:43.520 So speculation over the couple's relationship when Saffron made it 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:46.440 clear that Tyler wouldn't be moving into her multi million 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:50.040 dollar mansion that she's renovating. So, as I mentioned, he 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:53.600 lives five hours away from her, but he did decide 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:56.400 to move to London for work, so he's been quite 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:59.640 secretive about his job. But Saffron says that he is 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:01.720 her Leo from Wolf of Wall Street, so we can 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:03.800 assume that he works in the stock market or some 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:06.800 sort of banking background, so to him, he's probably a 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:12.919 bank te rain Drove. I think he must come from money, 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:16.040 Oh definitely. But I mean it's really interesting because they 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:19.320 seem to have such separate lives. For her at the moment, 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.639 now that the UK is opening up, she's going on 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:25.239 all these holidays and brand trips. But he's in this 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.080 really important nine to five job, clearly making a lot 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:30.960 of bank and it seems like his priority is in 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.080 his job. Also the fact he's got a twin brother. 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:35.119 I believe he's living with a twin brother in London 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.879 at the moment. I just feel like their paths aren't 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:41.320 matching up. And these breakup rumors started to get stronger 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.080 when Saffron jetted off to Dubai on a girl's holiday 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:47.480 last month, where she documented hanging out with Love Island 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:51.120 contestant Biggs. Because when you said that you guys were 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:54.119 surprised that they broke up, I wasn't at all, because 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:56.639 I saw these holiday trips as a bit of a 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:58.680 sign that, I mean, why would you not want to 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:00.800 be holidaying with your boy friend, why would you be 0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:03.320 holidaying with all these girls? And she was really trying 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:06.080 to make a big deal that she was out and about, dancing, 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.080 showing off, taking lots of bikini photos. I thought it 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:12.119 was quite obvious that there must be some something going on. 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:14.040 I even had a look to see if they were 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:15.879 still following each other a couple of weeks so I 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:18.080 thought she'd got on the girls trip because she'd already 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.440 been on a trip with Tyler, and I thought, well, 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.920 he's obviously going to work, that he's got to go 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:26.440 back to work. But it is really interesting because since 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:29.880 Tyler began dating Saffron, he has now become an influencer. 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.199 He's got over one hundred and fifty thousand followers, so 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.320 I assume he would have a lot of girls hitting 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:36.240 him up in the dms as well. We've got to 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:38.520 get back to the most juicy part of this because 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.240 in the vlogs that she's been sharing of this Girl's trip, 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:44.280 she's been featuring Bigs, who was on season six of 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.520 Love Island. So he currently has one hundred and fifty 0:18:47.520 --> 0:18:50.000 one thousand followers and he appears to be trying to 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:53.200 grow his own YouTube following. So he also shared a 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:56.560 vlog from the Dubai trip entitled my first time in Dubai, 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:02.159 lost phone wallet Saffron Barker. Now, despite his time on 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:05.560 the reality show, he only has four point eight thousand 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:10.480 subscribers on YouTube compared to Saffron's two point four million subscribers. 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:14.040 It's funny because I have heard Saffron and Anastasia go 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.520 on and on about Love Island, so I feel like 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:19.399 Biggs would be right up per Alley. I wonder if 0:19:19.480 --> 0:19:22.160 she met him at that event that they were all at. Well, 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:25.000 there seem to be a crossover of influences and Love Islands. 0:19:25.119 --> 0:19:28.080 That could be true because in the vlogs they showed 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:30.840 Bigs taking photos of the girls in front of a 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:34.520 water fountain, and it was really cringe stuff because you know, 0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:36.200 if you meet a guy for the first time, he 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:38.040 probably you know you're gonna act like, oh, I don't 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:41.280