WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - I Was Sent My Mum's Nudes 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Lifelun Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.520 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.600 past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.320 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:12.720 recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:24.880 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Lifelong Cut. 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:30.400 I'm Brittany, I'm Laura's Thursday, and it's therapy Thursday, our 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:31.240 favorite day of the. 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:33.199 Week where we answer your deep you're dark and you're 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:34.280 burning questions. 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.320 Okay, I have something I've been losing sleep over and 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.640 I need to figure it out. And I mean literally 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:40.400 losing sleep I took a sleeping tablet last night. 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:42.600 How do you feel very groggy? 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:45.440 I need to get some non drowsing. 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:46.320 I can't. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:53.440 I can't do sleeping tablets. I can't even say sleeping day. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.680 That's because you have small children that depend on you 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:58.520 in the nighttime. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:02.760 You can't sleep through that. I absolutely can't. Oh, so, Bows, 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:07.080 that was very funny. So why do you lose and 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:08.840 sleep over? Britty? Oh shit? 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.160 So it was something that happened to Keisha and I 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.160 and Bali. So like I'm going to cast us back 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:15.440 a week. It was only a week ago, not less. 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.120 It was you got back on Sunday. No, the night 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:19.080 was six days ago. 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:21.120 The night of the eve of the twenty first of 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.400 August was Wednesday night, Balmie night. BALI were at Rock Bar, 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:27.959 so Keisha and I were celebrating our birthday, very cute 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:31.080 on the side of a cliff overlooking the water, sunset, drinks. 0:01:31.120 --> 0:01:34.559 It was amazing, so romantic. So we hadn't told anyone 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.360 it was our birthday. We were like, just us, let's 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:39.520 go celebrate our birthday. So we're sitting on this platform 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:42.600 and we start to hear these and it's packed. We 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:46.440 start to hear these tambourines going, and four or five 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:50.200 Balinese workers like staff there started to walk up these 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.400 stairs and they started to sing Happy Birthday. They had 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.040 a plate and the tambourines were going. It was a 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:59.440 whole thing. And so I'm always the person that joins 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.080 in singing group happy birthdays. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.920 So I'm like as loud as you can. 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.880 So I start clapping and I'm like, happy. 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.160 Birth Get the whole restaurant involved. To be fair, it 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.120 was like more than fifty meters away. 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:12.680 It was a long way away, so we assumed that 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:14.919 it was also someone else's birthday. We were like, how 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:17.040 cool you were like hypeath. 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.280 So they were walking towards us and there was only 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:22.000 us and this other one table behind us, this couple 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.280 on the platform. So I turn around and face my 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:27.440 body straight to them and I'm like, happy fay anyway? 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.359 Can they keep walking towards And then they stop and 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:30.959 they turn and they give it to Kishra Night and 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.919 We're like what, how does anyone know it's up birthday? 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:37.920 Also, you're like sing along. It just got louder and 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.440 louder and louder. 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.560 I actually ended up getting a video of this because 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.639 there is nothing that makes me more uncomfortable than when 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:48.200 the whole whole place is looking at you. And it 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:50.320 was worse because we thought it was for someone else, 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:51.960 so we were clapping. 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:52.880 Along, so embarrassing. 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.520 We were tambourining along to this other couple behind us 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.440 and they looked confused, but I was like, well, there's 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:58.720 no one else here, so I was like. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:02:59.720 Leaning into it. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.160 That's kind of funny that some people find that the 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.560 most embarrassing thing, Like that's the same Matt hates it 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:07.200 when a restaurant sings, and I'm like, it's quite joyful. 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:11.080 I don't know what everybody, you can't sing to yourself, 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.359 but I get along in this situation. We kind of 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.200 could almost get away with it because it was both 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.200 of ours. But I don't think the restaurant knew that 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:18.840 because everything was booked under Brit. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.280 It was even funnier. 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:23.920 I got a video of this, so this is what 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:42.600 it sounded like. And what was put down in front 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:46.080 of Brit was the funniest thing I have ever seen. 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:48.040 Usually it will be like a cupcake or maybe a 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:52.320 dessert or something like something sweet to celebrate a birthdate. 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:57.080 What was placed in front of Brit was two thick 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:01.680 slices of cucumber with a only in the middle that had. 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:04.320 A candle in it. Two slices of cucumber. I've got 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:09.040 a birthday cucumber and I read rose. Yeah. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:10.920 I'm trying to think if you've ever on the podcast 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:14.000 talked about your love of cucumbers before, But nothing's coming. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.520 I'm drawing a blame. I think it was like a. 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:19.800 Side accompaniment accompaniment. It was so strange because it was 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.960 side what accompaniment? 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:26.560 Yeah, yeah, that sounds so weird. Accompaniment. It doesn't come 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:28.839 out well. But Laura thought I made a word up. 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.719 I got a drink as well, but I got a 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:33.560 It was a birthday cocktail with a birthday cucumber. I've 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:34.720 never received a birthday care. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.960 It wasn't in a whole cucumber. Budget cuts. It was 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.479 a slide in Bali, the economy these days. 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:43.559 But anyway, that opened up the conversation with this table 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:44.880 whose birthday we thought it was. 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.560 So we were like a ha ha, we thought it 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:48.880 was yours. That's why we were singing haha. 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.520 And she goes, no, it's not my birthday, but I 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.520 am getting engaged tonight, and she threw that to us. 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:55.839 I thought she meant she got engaged, and I. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:57.880 Was congratulations, engaged, congratulations. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.800 She's like, no, I'm getting engaged, and she's not. 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:00.400 We spring. 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:03.440 This girl was a vibe right, Her energy was high. 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:05.919 She obviously had a few drinks. She was beautiful, dressed 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:09.400 to the nines. He was like very fit, working out, 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:12.159 very tanned. He was very quiet. She was the leader, 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.000 and so she was telling this big story about how 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:15.919 they were getting engaged, and he was just like he 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:17.960 had a smirk on his face, but silent. And she 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:19.680 was telling everyone and. 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.080 She's like, no, it's happening tonight. 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:24.320 I said, oh, you know that, like like you talked 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:24.720 about it. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.320 I like the confidence of this girl. 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.960 Yeah, And so she started to tell us this whole thing. 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:31.320 She's like, oh, yes, I've picked the ring. I designed 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.560 it myself. It's yellow, diamond's got these diamonds ryning a 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:35.359 band like. She described the whole thing to us, and 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.479 she goes, also, I said, maybe it won't happen tonight, 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.440 you know, like maybe I was trying to like give 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:41.440 her some suspense, and she. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:42.360 Goes, no, it is. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.480 We've driven a long way to get here tonight, and 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.520 I've seen the ring in his back. She's like, this 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.359 shit is going down tonight. And she's saying this in 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:53.480 front of her hopefully now fiance and said, this is 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.240 what I'm losing sleep about. I don't know if they 0:05:56.279 --> 0:06:00.479 got engaged and I they were Australian. There's got to 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.160 be someone that listens to this podcast that knows the 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:05.720 couple I'm talking about and can fine them. That's what 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:07.440 I want to do. I want to do that old school, 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.240 track them down and find who they are. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.720 We were talking about this earlier and Keisha has never 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:13.520 heard from this and it's blown my mind. Do you 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:15.840 guys remember on the train, like back in the day, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.840 used to get magazines when you'd get on the train 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:21.080 back in ride Ay, it was like a magazine that 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:22.839 you would get. Maybe it was a Sydney thing, but 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.480 there was a column in the magazine that was like 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:29.760 missed love Opportunities and it was I saw you standing 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:32.599 on platform two heading to Ingodeen station. You were wearing 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:36.440 blue pants. Our eyes met for one minute whatever one second. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:38.359 Then you bought it. I feel like I've lost the 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.080 love of my life. And then you reconnect. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:43.520 This is this, this is this, But you look so confused, Keisha, 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:44.600 You've never heard of this. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.200 I just like, really, we have a couple of years 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:47.640 between us. 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.720 I think I've got sixty's with you in seven years 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:55.120 with you, Laura, and usually we have the same generational things. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.680 But every now and then there's a gap, and this 0:06:57.760 --> 0:06:58.560 is one of those gaps. 0:06:58.600 --> 0:06:59.239 What are you talking? 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:01.880 He now take photos and post it on Facebook and 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:03.120 say have you seen this person? 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:05.719 Yeah, and they hunt them down. It's just the old 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:07.360 school way. But I saw this happen a couple of 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:07.839 years ago. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.040 Actually it was like a nod to this old magazine. 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:12.760 But there was a girl that did it in Sydney. 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:15.480 But she printed out flyers and she stuck them on 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:16.520 to telegraph poles. 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.520 That's too creepy. I think it's cute. 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:22.760 Nah, that's too far the fine line between creepy and romantic. No, 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:24.000 but if you think. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.360 About it, back to this magazine, which funny that you 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.080 don't remember. It was a whole thing. And I don't 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:29.560 think it was just sitting law. I think this was 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.360 just you could do it to find anyone anywhere. 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:33.200 Yeah. I used to look at it every week, hoping 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.360 that someone might have put me in there. No one did. 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.360 I just want to know I still have it. I 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:39.840 ever had it. You did have it. 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:41.320 You probably didn't get the train enough. 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:42.960 No, I got the train every day. That's why I 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:43.320 read it. 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:46.560 Yeah, anyway, wait to rub it in Brittany. 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.560 She just writes her own column in do they ever 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:49.640 do follow ups? Do they ever? 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:52.480 Kind of in the magazine if people actually did meet? 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:55.160 Oh, that was another column where people like, you know, 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:56.640 sometimes it never worked out. 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:58.960 Contents really evolved, hasn't it Well it hasn't. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.560 It's the same, but we just do it on a 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:05.000 different pun intended platform. Like it's the same thing. People 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:07.400 do that all the time on Facebook and Instagram, Like 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.000 it's a cuteesee thing, like looking for this person, how 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.840 can I track them down? Like Brittany is losing sleep. Well, 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:16.280 I just want to know if he committed to it 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:19.320 or if because she was so certain of telling everyone, 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.000 if he was like I'm going to do a flippy 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:23.040 one eighty and make away a few days. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:23.840 That's what I want to know. 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.520 Interesting, do you guys think that, I mean, because I'm 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.840 not engaged, I've never been engaged. Do you think the 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.560 surprise element adds to it? Or do you think it 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.960 doesn't really matter, Like you're still so overjoyed by the 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:37.719 fact it's happened that you don't care whether it was 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:38.480 a surprise or not. 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:40.959 I got the impression she could not care less it 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.200 was happening that night, Like I have the impression. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.080 That if he didn't drop the knees, she probably would have. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.840 I want to be surprised person. 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.000 Well, I mean, I was surprised has happened. I'm not 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.560 getting engaged again, but like I would have preferred if 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.080 I had the choice to have surprise, for sure. 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.559 I think it depends on the relationship. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:09:00.360 Some people hate surprises and they are more in terms 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.880 of like one in control, and therefore they know when 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:04.880 it's going to happen, they know how it's going to happen. 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:06.960 Other people have picked the ring, they know what's going 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:08.920 to happen, but they don't know exactly the way the 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:10.839 person's going to propose. Like, I don't know. I think 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.640 there's many variations from it, and if it is good 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.640 for that couple, then I don't really have an opinion 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:16.280 on it, you know what I mean. 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.600 Truly, I actually am a bit interested by the fact that, 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:21.720 like whether the surprise element of a proposal matters at 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:24.000 all to some people. I think for some it would. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.040 I think it would be pretty personal. But I guess 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.000 if you're the type of person who likes to kind 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:30.880 of have your ducks in a row, if you're a planner, 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:33.839 if you're a bit type A, you might actually prefer to. 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.400 Know when and how and have a little bit more 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:37.560 control over the situation. 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:39.360 Well, I think, on top of that, if on the 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:43.040 flip side, if you discovered the ring, if you knew 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.600 that your partner was going to propose, did you pretend 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.040 like you didn't know, yes, or did you or did 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.520 you tell them like did you say hey, like sorry 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.640 to foil your plans. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.920 But I should have hit that a bit better. But 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.679 I mean, do you play along with the surprise? Yes, 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:58.960 Andy alone, but if you play along, do you have 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.280 to be like oh shock? Like how much do you 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:01.840 play along? 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:05.160 You commit your method act the whole way along, and 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:07.040 you never tell them you knew until it's like your 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:08.040 fiftieth anniversary. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:11.120 I was convinced, Like I was not convinced, but I 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:12.840 was pretty sure Matt was going to propose when he 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.400 did on that holiday because. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:16.520 We went to Fiji. I was pregnant at the time. 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:17.800 There was a tripod set up. 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.320 Well, I'd pick a fight with him a couple of 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.120 weeks earlier over a hidden album in his phone, and 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:26.320 then I found out from his sister. His sister was like, 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.120 he's doing something nice for you. Fucking stop it. You 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:31.280 were about to ruin your own surprise because I was 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.479 like nagging him at the dinner. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:35.320 Table anyway, have been deep driving his phone. 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:37.880 So then no, he was showing me something. And then 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.000 I could see that he had hidden an album and 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:40.800 I was like, what is that? 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:47.200 I was like, show me the nudesw the Bachelorette can 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.080 time was really traumatized from past relationships. 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:51.920 But yeah, so I was convinced it was going to 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:54.480 happen because I was like, well, the only really nice 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:56.720 thing he could be doing where he's hiding an album 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.360 of things is either he's cheating on me or he's proposing. 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:00.480 There's nothing between. 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.520 And when he actually did do it, I was still 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.880 really surprised, but that's because he just started crying and 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:07.840 didn't actually verbalize words, so I thought he was going 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.040 to tell me some terrible news. 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:10.760 He just cried. 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.240 He just he didn't even He just stood there, looked 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:15.199 at me and started crying, and I was like, are 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:16.040 you terminally ill? 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.840 Like what's happening? And then the response I wanted sorry, 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:20.000 was he on one knee or not? 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.320 No, he just stood there and started crying, and I 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:23.920 was like, what the fuck is happening? 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:24.840 And you're okay. 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:28.200 I was like, I'm pregnant, I'm hormone all and then 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.680 he popped down and his knee touched the sand for 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.480 half a second and he popped back up like he 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.840 was doing some sort of burfi and I was so confused. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:38.240 He still have the video. I wish I did. No, 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.320 I made him get down again for a second time. 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:43.320 I was like, do do with purpose? That's actually something 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:43.600 I have. 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:46.120 I know people don't actually play the divorce now, which 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.280 is a little bit of a grim ending to this story. 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:52.240 But I found out that the next day they went 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:53.960 back and. 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.360 Did a pretend. No, that's not okay. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.719 So because like, he didn't set up a photographer, he 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.000 didn't set up a camera and nothing. So the next 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:03.120 day they went back and. 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.800 Got the shop. No, that's so Matt did set up 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:05.400 a go pro. 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.760 I mean, he loves content, but I was like, why 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.720 did you set up a GoPro to start crying? Go 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:14.959 pro strapped to his chest, I looks straight at you. 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.760 That was when GoPros is a fish. I only like 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:22.320 you would have just looked like this big ship. If 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:23.120 there's one. 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:25.480 Thing, if anyone can take away from anything from this, 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:28.120 you have to set up a camera. You have to 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:30.040 get someone to take a photo of that moment. And 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.000 I know it might not mean anything to you, but 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.000 one day you're gonna want to look back on it, 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:36.520 or she's gonna want to remember it. So that's my advice, Like, 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:39.000 set up a camera, not a go pro strapped your head. 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.679 I don't think that my boyfriend would do that. I 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.480 do not think he would want play him this. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:46.800 I also think it's dependent. Some people want it and 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:48.640 some people don't. I know that it's important to you, 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.240 but there would definitely be women out there. He could 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.560 not care if they get it captured or not. 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:52.280 No, I don't. 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:54.760 I disagree even if they think that they don't care. 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:56.440 In five years, I'll be like, I wish I had 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.640 that moment. That's that's the whole point of photographs. 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:00.480 I guess you do still have the choe. Whether you 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.320 have it, you don't have to post it publicly. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.680 It's the last funny part of this that we forgot 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.040 to say was that there was after she told us 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:09.000 it was happening tonight, like and now we're at this 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:10.120 romantic dinner. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.080 She turned around to us and she goes, can one 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:14.400 of you guys take a photo of us? And Keish 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.160 was closed, so she was like, yeah, yeah, I'll do it. 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.120 So she hands to the phone, but she's she's secretly 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.600 put the phone on video and giving it to Keisha. 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.120 So the video was running, so Keisha's. 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:26.280 Torchas on rose so quickly in my body because I 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:28.000 was like, okay, we've just had the information of the 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.720 fact that she thinks she's getting engaged tonight. She knows 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.160 it's happening. She's told us all about the ring. Hees 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.760 kind of laughing. She's just handed me a phone on record. 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:40.480 I was hitting bricks. I was like, oh my god, 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.319 I have to get it's right. I have to get 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:44.000 writ and make sure it's recording. Make sure it's recording, 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.960 make sure it's a good angle, make sure the lighting's okay. 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:50.439 So I'm standing there filming the two of them, expecting 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.440 that he's about to propose, and I was like, Wow, 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:53.240 what an honor. 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.400 I'm filming these people's proposal. 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.439 Because they start to kiss and she's she's prepped to 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:59.480 hair and like, you know, she's she's peacocking. 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:03.679 She was, yeah, it just didn't happen. So how long 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:04.240 did you record? 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:08.880 Forty seconds until I was like I didn't know where 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:11.800 to keep going. I didn't know whether I just I 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.640 was like, do you know what she probably actually meant 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:16.040 to give it to you on photo and now she's 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:17.079 just can't got no photo. 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:19.040 She's just got a minute long video of them. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:22.760 Possibly, but I think she was prepping that in case 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:25.440 it happened anyway, I just didn't know when to I 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.360 didn't know when to stop, and so I was kind 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:30.160 of just awkwardly standing there for longer than what I 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.040 would deem to be a normal amount of time that 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:33.320 you would record another couple. 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.960 Imagine the fact that those two would have had when 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.920 they got back to the hotel if he didn't propose. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:40.720 Imagine the kickoff. Yes, at least she's got, you know, 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:41.680 enough content to make a. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:46.000 Reel out of it. Someone find her, please tell me. 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:50.120 All right, let's get into vibes and unsubscribes. Bretonnair, Harklair, 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:51.400 What is your vibe? 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.320 My vibe this week is a Netflix doc Oh, you 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.080 guys know I love a true crime documentary. You've probably 0:14:57.080 --> 0:14:59.440 seen it because it's it pops up every time you 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.280 go onto net fl, you know how it's like suggested 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.480 obviously they're really pushing it. But it's the American murder 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:08.960 Lacey Peterson. And if you remember, it was very very 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:13.120 big news. But she was like heavily pregnant with her baby, 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.800 their first baby when she went missing, and her husband 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:18.960 was on the search with them. There were you know, 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:22.560 all these candlelight ceremonies, and that was searching all over 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:24.760 the state, and he was doing all of these talks 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:26.520 to the media, like begging her to come home and 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.640 whatever else like that, and it was very heart wrenching. 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.520 And then it turned out that Scott, the husband, was 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.600 the person that murdered her. He was having this affair, 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.720 and that's not a spoiler. Like the documentary sort of 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.040 owns the fact and everyone knows that story, but it's 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.520 a story that most people know really well. And it 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.040 was I mean, I don't want to say, I don't 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:46.120 know what the word is. I was gonna say it 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:47.840 was nice to watch it play out in a documentary. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:51.200 Nice isn't the word, but to see it be brought 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.760 to life in a way and get that inside a look. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:56.640 I mean, I always vibe true crime stuff to you guys. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:57.200 You know, I love it. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.040 But that's my vibe. 0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:59.320 So it's easy to watch. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.280 It's three episodes and it's on Netflix. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.720 I also watched this and I thought it was really nice. 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:05.960 Apparently it was one of the first times that Lacey's 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.800 mum has spoken to the media, and interestingly, he has 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:13.080 always said that he's innocent, so he was on death row, 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.000