1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: This is Outspoken. The podcast is not afraid to say 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: exactly what you're thinking. Our names are Amy Kate and 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Sophie Torva. We're identical triplets, but we often don't have 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: identical opinions, so sometimes things can get hated. Outspoken covers 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, and issues facing women. 6 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: That is so fat Thank you. I had a moment 7 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: on the weekend where I realized I was a proper adult. Now. 8 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: I know we're thirty two, but I do think you 9 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: can be in your thirties and still not officially an adult. 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: Is that a bit like Sophie not being a real 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: adult Because I have come to her house so many 12 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: times and I'll go to the downstairs bathroom and There'll 13 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: be no toilet lot that happens every time I'm here. 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, no, it's more the upstairs bathroom. And 15 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, we didn't bring it upstairs. Look, 16 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: I'm practically a gens eta here. I date someone five 17 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: years younger than me. I'm trying to keep it pretty cool, 18 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: so I try and you know, pretend that I've gotten 19 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: these things. I do like that you've actually admitted that 20 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: it is a five year age difference because in our 21 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: Facebook community you were trying to push it at four 22 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: and I had to correct you, Well, it's technically four 23 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: point five whatever, So okay, can you tell us what 24 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: it is? It actually made you an adult? Okay? So 25 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: I realized that. So we've got two bathrooms, but we 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: also have soap in our laundry and our kitchen, so 27 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: basically four soap like pump dispenses and that three is it? No, 28 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: we've got two bathrooms? Oh okay. So I decided that 29 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: we needed more soap, and I made the adult decision 30 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: to buy a one liter bottle of the liquid soap 31 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: because it was cheaper and it was better for the environment. 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: And I was walking around the house and I had 33 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: such joy filling up my soap dispenses. I just felt like, 34 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: really accomplished from it. I hope my boyfriend he does that. 35 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: So you say that we're not adults, but he literally 36 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: buys soap like it's going out of fashion. But that's 37 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: more because he's a German. No, but does he buy 38 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: the Lida bottle? 39 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 40 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 3: He does? 41 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: Okay, brand is the adult in your relationship? Do you 42 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: know what makes me feel like an adult? Is when 43 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: I actually bring my reusable bags to the shop. That's 44 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: something I always forget and day will be like, have 45 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: you got your bags? And the other day I actually 46 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: remembered them and I felt like such a legend. Oh well, 47 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: I mean resent and I get paid out for doing 48 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: our big shop, which I think is pretty normal. And 49 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: I've got to say, we always bring our disposal bags. 50 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 1: And do you know what is the saddest thing I'm 51 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: outing myself. We have a competition to see who can 52 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: get closest to how much the groceries going off that 53 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: I feel like my life has hit an ultimate low 54 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: when that is happening on the weekend. Because we always 55 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: joke that when we hear you doing your big shop, 56 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 1: but that's like you're outing for the day. Oh that's 57 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: a bit me a reward if you get it right. No, 58 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: it's just the pride of guessing it correct. We'll talking 59 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: about the soup mark. I feel like this is another one, 60 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: another moment where you kind of realize you're either an 61 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: adult or old. It's when you're walking along the aisles 62 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: and you hear a song and you're like, wow, I 63 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: love this song. This was an absolute banger back in 64 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: the day. That's funny you say that because Reese's mum 65 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: actually apparently only shops at Cole's because they play good music. Really, Yeah, 66 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: do you know what another one is? 67 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: I was thinking about this the other day. 68 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: I actually saw this on TikTok, and it was saying 69 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: that when you're in your twenties, you just, you know, 70 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: you use a makeup wipe and you just chuck it 71 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: in the bin. But when you're in your thirties, you 72 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: use that makeup white to then wipe down your sink 73 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: and your bench. And I find myself doing that all 74 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: the time. I couldn't relate to that one at all 75 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: because my sink is literally covered in orange powder. Yeah, 76 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: yours is gross. I don't use the makeup wipe because 77 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: I feel like it's got makeup on it, but I 78 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: do do that with a tissue. I've got to say, well, maybe, Kate, 79 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: you need to start actually doing it. And so, especially 80 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: if your sink's a orange, which they shouldn't be orange 81 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: in the first place, you need to use a makeup 82 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: whe if my landlord is listening listening white every time. 83 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: I actually had a moment this week at work where 84 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: I felt really old So this twenty year old girl 85 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: came in and she's like doing the social media for 86 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: a fashion brand in Adelaide, and she wanted to pick 87 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: my brain about Facebook advertising. And I was scrolling through 88 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: having a look at posts that the page had made, 89 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, is that Lauren Gibbs. So she 90 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: is about I think thirty, and she dates Bryce Gibbs, 91 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: who's a Crows player, and I was like, Oh, bad, 92 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: should we be naming her? It's very inchly. Well, no, 93 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,839 Speaker 1: I think she's absolutely gorgeous. And I was like, oh, wow, 94 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: so she's modeling for your page, and then the girl goes, yeah, 95 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: she actually attracts a bit of an older audience, like 96 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: I think she's like thirty five forty, And I knew 97 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: she was younger than me, and I was like like, 98 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: as in, Lauren Gibbs is younger than me. And I 99 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: was like, Oh my god, how old does she think 100 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: I am. It's funny you say that because we had 101 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: another incident where it was about age. So when Kate 102 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: and I were at kok car but this is going 103 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: to pump out tops. I'm pumping up my own tires here. 104 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: So we were at Kokhr and we chatted to the 105 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: girl last weekend that we were there, shows them many 106 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: times with it, and she knew that it was our birthday. 107 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: So when she saw her, she's like, how is your birthday? 108 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: Are you heading out this weekend? And I said, I'm 109 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: heading to Kate's house just to go out for to 110 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: have dinner at her house. I'm like, what about you? Yeah, 111 00:04:58,440 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: head and to RCC. 112 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 3: Just going over to Kekes to fill up some soap dispensers. 113 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: You know, we had tacos. So she's like, yeah, just 114 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: heading to the Royal Croquet Club tonight and I was like, oh, 115 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: I haven't been there at all this year, probably haven't 116 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: been there for about five years. You know. The phrase 117 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: you kept using was back in the day. And I 118 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: knew this girl did not think we were thirty two 119 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: because she dropped that she was twenty one, and she 120 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: was kind of talking as if we were on the 121 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: same level, which I really appreciated. Yeah, so the conversation 122 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: got so awkward. We had to say I'm sorry, but 123 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: we're a lot older than you. And then she was 124 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: shocked and we said that we were thirty two. She 125 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: thought we were about twenty three, So, like I was 126 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: feeling on top of the world for the rest of 127 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: the week. And then I also reflected we were wearing 128 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: active wear with our hair pulled back. I was like, 129 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: should I start dressing like a bit more I don't know, older, 130 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: like I was a bit more sophistical. Sure, yeah, I 131 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: was gonna ask, were you guys wearing your new jeans 132 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: and no middle part? I actually, well, I actually do 133 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: have a middle part, so maybe that's sort of why. 134 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: But no, I wasn't wearing my big wide fat leggage jeans. 135 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: I don't have them. And I'm actually beginning to be 136 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: really uncomfortable whenever I go out because I just don't 137 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: even know what to wear, Like I hate everything at own. 138 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: It was wearing most Guinea jeans the other day, and 139 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 1: Brandon's like, oh, so you've opted for your old lady 140 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: jeans today. 141 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: See. The thing I think is just got to make 142 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: charity sexy. And I did that really, I mean, it's 143 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 2: how I started. I was one of the first who thought, well, 144 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 2: you know, charity is pre or it just ends up 145 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 2: like this, you know, just sounds. 146 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: Up like a sort of sad shop like this. 147 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 2: The only people who come into the shop are the 148 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: ones that need the charity anyway, So what's the point. 149 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: On Monday's episode, we discussed how micro influencer Caitlin Rodriguez 150 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: branded her influencer garage sale as a charity event, despite 151 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: not naming who the charity is and how much is 152 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: being donated. Now we have a bit of an update. 153 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: Since the episode aired, Wasteless has subsequently deleted its previous 154 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: post about the event, including the poster, which included comments 155 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: questioning where the money is going and the commentary surrounding 156 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: the ah triablec laws regarding the event. Now, a new 157 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: event poster has instead been put up and the words 158 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: charity event have been taken down. It instead says that 159 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: fifty percent of ticket sales and fifty percent of revenue 160 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: from all stall higher is going to the charity. It 161 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: has been confirmed by Wasteless in the comment section that 162 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: no money from the sale of the actual clothing is 163 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: going to the charity. It's actually so embarrassing for Wasteless 164 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: because they pride themselves on donating a minimum of ten 165 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: percent of every sale that they make through the website. However, 166 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: for the charity event or so called charity event that 167 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: goes out the window. So that doesn't make any sense 168 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: to me. Something on Now, you're giving fifty percent of 169 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: stall higher, but what does that actually mean? Because does 170 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: Wasteless only hire one stall or does each influencer that's 171 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: donating clothes have their own store? And surely that's not 172 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: an expensive thing to do. And I'm sorry, how embarrassing 173 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: that they're charging the influencers who are in all of 174 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: their marketing collateral to pay for a stall higher, Like 175 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. Wouldn't it be the money from 176 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: their clothes that they're selling. And plus her boyfriend and 177 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: is an owner. Well ex boyfriend owns the market that's 178 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: been selling, so surely they're getting mates rates for those 179 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: stall well, just to reiterate your original point, Kate, a 180 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: follower asked Caitlin on the Wasteless Instagram whether the money 181 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: from the sale of the clothes actually goes to the charity. 182 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: Caitlin confirmed this is from our online store. A minimum 183 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: of ten percent of every sale goes directly to PLAN 184 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: when purchased from our online store. The in real life 185 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: market is a one off activation and is separate to 186 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: our online store. However, we still wanted to give back 187 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: to Plan, so fifty percent of the proceeds from the 188 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: event in brackets stall, higher and entry go directly to plan. 189 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: So I'm a little bit confused here. Why when you 190 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: do this automatically for a charity, do you then tell 191 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: the event a huge charity event and you're not doing 192 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,839 Speaker 1: the original offering. What blows my mind even further is 193 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: now they're offering a bring a friend along if you've 194 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: already purchased a ticket, So obviously ticket sales aren't going well. However, 195 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: they're cutting into the apparent donation revenue. Can I just 196 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: point out it's obvious that Wasteless listen to our podcast 197 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: because our podcast page has since been blocked from being 198 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: able to view their Instagram and only since the episode 199 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: aired have they actually answered questions about where the money 200 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: is going to. Also, in regards to the fact that 201 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: they're allowing people to bring in a friend for free, 202 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: does that not show what their true motivations are. Their 203 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 1: motivations isn't to get as many people there to raise 204 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: as much money for the charity. Their motivation is to 205 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: get people there to buy clothes, which then goes into 206 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: the influencer's pocket and Wasteless as pocket. Do you know 207 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: what I find embarrassing is the whole thing. Yeah, I 208 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: find it awful for the influencers who've been dragged into 209 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: it in terms of there are some big Sydney Sydney 210 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: influencers who are coming along to this event. There's Sammy Robinson, 211 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: there's Amelia from Love Island and Josh from Love Island 212 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: and by all accounts, these influencers have no idea that 213 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: this is not truly what it has been touted as 214 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 1: originally as a charity. Do you think that? Do you 215 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: not think that they should be doing their due diligence 216 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: and look into it themselves. And we don't know what 217 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: they've actually been told. We don't know if they were told, hey, 218 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: we're going to toeut this is a charity event, except 219 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: you're making bank on all of the clothes that you 220 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: got for free, did you guys? See a comment also 221 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: from Kaitlyn saying that they hadn't actually named the charity 222 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: because they hadn't got final sign off. Why are you 223 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: promoting it then? Exactly right? And it sounds odd that 224 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: they didn't get final sign off despite already aligning with 225 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: that brand for their apparent ten percent off on their 226 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: every purchase. Would you know what was quite I found 227 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: quite humorous. Another user wrote under the photo on Waces' 228 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: Instagram saying, I really doubt that you guys are paying 229 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: for the market still fee. Hope no one attends the event. 230 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: Support local and small businesses with a great course. And 231 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: Caitlyn replied, and this comment has subsequently been deleted. She said, Hey, 232 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: thank you for your concern with full transparency, we are 233 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: in fact paying Bronte Surf Life Saving Club a venue 234 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: higher fee. We are running ads, paying other marketing expenses 235 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 1: in brackets, signage, purchasing tables, clothing racks, and staff fees. 236 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: Resistant on the assistant on the day, it's like, well, 237 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: how much really goes into creating a crappy poster which 238 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: you've had to redo? It looks checking a bit behind 239 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: Facebook advertised. It looks like it's been created on canvas, 240 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: which you can get for free. And also event bright 241 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: which where how they're flogging the tickets off is a 242 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: free service too. And I'm sure that the Bondi Bizarre 243 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: Market have a few tables that are easily accessible. Isn't 244 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: that what you're paying for when you're hiring the store? 245 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: What do you guys, how do you guys think Wasteless 246 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: are making money because is it the influencers that are 247 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: receiving the full amount that people, you know, when people 248 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: go to buy their clothes, or are they receiving the 249 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: fifty percent of ticket sales? No, I believe that the 250 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: influencers receive a percentage for the close the same way 251 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: when they share them through the website. So do you 252 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: know what though? That is interesting because yeah, normally if 253 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: it's sold through the website, they claim that you know, 254 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 1: Plan gets a ten percent. However, Caitlin then gets the 255 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: money also because she's taking the photos and organizing the sale, 256 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: whereas if these influencers are actually having to attend the 257 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 1: event and sell their own clothes and pay you to 258 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: have a stare, I don't know how Wasteless and Caitlin 259 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 1: are making any money off. That's maybe why they took 260 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: the ten percent. Maybe ten percent's going to her rather 261 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 1: than Plan. You mean fifty percent? Well, I wonder if 262 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: that's why they suddenly have ticket sales and only because 263 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: this podcast called them out, have they gone, oh shit, 264 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: we better say that fifty percent is donated to charity 265 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: and they must be taking the other fifty percent. Do 266 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: you know what, I found quite amusing. Today. The influencers 267 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: started sharing the new poster on their social channels, but 268 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: Jade Tunci's sister clearly didn't get the memo because she's 269 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: not even calling her baron know who she is, Jardi 270 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: Twincy's sister. She shared the old poster which had that 271 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: it was a charity event and wasteless still reshared it. 272 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 1: If you've got, you know, all this spend on marketing, 273 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: would you, as the person who's doing the marketing not 274 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: say take that down immediately and put up the correct 275 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: marketing collateral. Well, I haven't actually seen any Instagram or 276 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: Facebook ads it. That's not to say they don't exist. 277 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: But do you think this marketing spend she's referring to 278 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 1: is actually paying the influencers to promote the event? Well, 279 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: she claimed it was for signing. They must have a 280 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: big sign outside of the Bronti Surf Club. If someone 281 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 1: in our Facebook community floated the idea of attending the 282 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,719 Speaker 1: event just to tell us what was going on, I mean, 283 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: what a legend in the first place. But if you 284 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: do happen this weekend to go let us know what 285 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: it's like. And I mean at least the money some 286 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: of the money. Don't buy any of the clothes because 287 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: that's not going to charity, but support it through the 288 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: ticket sale. Or maybe just go down to your Vinnie's 289 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 1: and buy some clothes. I was gonna say maybe the 290 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,959 Speaker 1: Vinnie's a Beck Judd frequents. I'd like to go to 291 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 1: that one. And just to wrap it up, we actually 292 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: had our listener send us a really great podcast recommendation 293 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 1: on this topic. So the Culture Club have done a 294 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: really great podcast regarding greenwashing and fast fashion and I'd 295 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 1: highly recommend checking that out. We'll leave the details in 296 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: our show notes. 297 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 4: How much Willter Johnny do you think has gone in 298 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 4: to grow in the cotton necessary to make this jacket? 299 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 4: Throwing the cotton to make that jacket will have taken 300 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 4: ten thousand, three hundreds As Sir Elita's water. 301 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: Let's get into the influencer rab and. On Saturday afternoon, 302 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: Abby Chatfield went on a four minute rant on an 303 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: Instagram story about her outdoor table. Now, Abby was sent 304 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: the wrong table by a furniture company and she was 305 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: not happy about it. I've got to say it really 306 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: reminded me of Sophie. The last couple of weeks going 307 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: off about her mobile phone. Oh my gosh, let's not 308 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: Can we not have him repeat what the issue was 309 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: with him? I know Sophie has had some issues with 310 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: their phone. It's been sent back. We're not sure if 311 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: said issues have been fixed. But she was a bit 312 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: red ross. I would say, oh my god, Age Ragefield. 313 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: Oh it's taking all of my energy not to name 314 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: my phone provider because they have been absolutely hopeless. Now, 315 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: let's not get you started, Sophie. But it was quite 316 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: reminiscent you're ranting. It was reminiscent of Abby's rant on Instagram. Yeah, 317 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: but the difference is Sophie didn't put on Instagram. No, 318 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: I mean I could have. Yeah, she was close to 319 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: putting on Instagram. I do actually get the frustration of 320 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: being sent something that's completely wrong, and I do I 321 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: have a different opinion on this story than you do, 322 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: K because I think it was she was trying to 323 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: be funny with this read. Yeah, No, I definitely think 324 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: it started off funny. So Abby explained that she'd spent 325 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: a month choosing an outdoor table. She'd actually paid someone 326 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: to put it together, and the company, as I said, 327 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: sent the wrong table. So She actually went to a 328 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: story and said that the table was so ugly that 329 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: it made her feel physically uncomfortable having it in her house. 330 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: So I'll just throw to a little bit of a 331 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: snippet of her rant. It isn't even that bad. 332 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 5: It just it's just, oh my god, I'm not even kidding. 333 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 5: I know if it's like my anxiety or it's I'm 334 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 5: actually getting angry looking at it because it doesn't go 335 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 5: with my apartment. So like, look at my beautiful like 336 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 5: something like eyes. Everything goes, everything makes sense, Everything has 337 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 5: been like curated. It takes me so long to choose 338 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 5: anything and then look, really, oh my god, it's so 339 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 5: it's so just like it looks. 340 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: Like, oh. 341 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 5: Makes me feel physically ill. The man who made it 342 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 5: was really nice. 343 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: And really helpful. 344 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 5: I'm not being drammic. It's given me genuine anxiety looking 345 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 5: at it. I can't look at it. 346 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: I'll give it to Abby. She didn't actually name the brand. 347 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: She did threaten that if they didn't rectify the situation, 348 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: she may name them. However, it was very dramatic. Do 349 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: you know what I found really interesting? She was mentioning 350 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: the fact that there was silver little nuts and bolts, 351 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: I suppose on the table and she says, nails whatever. 352 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: There was some silver element on the table and it 353 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: didn't go with the rest of the aesthetics of her house, 354 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: which she's a very gold bronze show, but she said 355 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: she didn't. I just love Sobey's take on this. She 356 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: just said that she doesn't have any silver in her house, 357 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: any silver jewels. It just reminded me because I remember 358 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: when I was working with a group of girls, all 359 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: of them was so funny about you can't wear gold 360 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: jewelry and then have a silver buckle on your belt, 361 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: and I, literally, I'm not the most observant person that 362 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: is never struck me as something that seemed to look 363 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: I think she was joking. I know that she was joking, 364 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 1: but it just reminded me of how so many people 365 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: think that that's so important that you can't have clashing jewelry, 366 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: and I get that look. I found her rant kind 367 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: of funny. I found it a little bit over dramatic 368 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: considering what's actually going on in New South Wales with 369 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: the flooding at the time. However, I got to the 370 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: point it was like, you know, as I said, the 371 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: video went for four minutes, and it started to annoy 372 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: me when she was going on that she hasn't had 373 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 1: a break for six to twelve months and that she 374 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: actually hires a lot of people to do stuff because 375 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: she just doesn't have the time. Now, it seemed a 376 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: bit contradictory considering she had enough time to rant about 377 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 1: the table, and then she started getting really passive aggressive 378 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: with her followers. It seems to be a bit of 379 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,479 Speaker 1: a trend at the moment. Now. I understand people can 380 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: be annoying in DMS, Like I'm not talking about like 381 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 1: not that I've ever experienced it, but when I see 382 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 1: influencers sharing some of the feedback they get like, obviously 383 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: the negative stuff's horrible, but even just sort of like, oh, 384 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: like really obvious things. And if you're getting that huh 385 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: hundreds of times, I can see how that would be annoying. 386 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: But also, you know how to bite the hand that 387 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: feeds you. But do you It's not think that she's 388 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: just creating content by having a rant about the table. 389 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: I think she's talking about it because it's something that 390 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 1: is relatable. I think what Kate's saying, though, is a 391 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: lot of followers were annoyed because they felt like she 392 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: was ranting at them when they were trying to help her. 393 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: And also, so if I've got to say, I don't 394 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: think she was being relatable because for most people, purchasing 395 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 1: a outdoor table, it's actually really expensive, and then getting 396 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: someone to make the table and then having a rant 397 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 1: about how ugly this table was when it really was 398 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 1: a pretty basic table. I kind of liked the table, Yeah, 399 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: I didn't really like. I like the one she chose. 400 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: She actually chose like a lot. However, it's not like 401 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: it was some hideous thing like, of course, you know, 402 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 1: return the table. It's not what she ordered. The whole 403 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: thing is exactly No, that's fine. I completely understand the rant. 404 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 1: I get it. I think sometimes Abby she's coming across 405 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,199 Speaker 1: as joking and that maybe some people don't pick up 406 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: on the fact that it is a joke. And that's 407 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: what she probably finds frustrating, because we've got to remember, 408 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: she's receiving these dms constantly from people who were reading 409 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: so much into everything she says. It would be frustrating, 410 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: but she probably should have just put down her phone 411 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: and not said anything more about it. Well, it was 412 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: quite clear that her rant pissed off a lot of 413 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: her followers because she was getting a lot of messages 414 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: calling her privileged, and I did find that disappointing because 415 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: I did feel like she was coming across as privileged 416 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 1: and I felt like she's almost in that transition where 417 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: she's changed a little bit, that she's been an influencer 418 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: for quite a while now, and simple tasks she's sending 419 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: off to air time. I disagree, though, because I saw 420 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 1: it popping up a lot on a lot of different 421 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 1: podcast groups that I follow and people were saying that 422 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 1: they were disappointed by the way that she reacted. But 423 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it's any differently than she's reacted in 424 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: previous insert stories. I mean, she's just I find her 425 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: insert stories really funny. I think she was just trying 426 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: to be funny. I think it was all a bit 427 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: of a joke and then people took it too literally. Yeah, 428 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 1: I get the joke part. But I think the thing 429 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: that's changing is that she used to lash out at 430 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: people weren't following her, like these are people in the 431 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: media or other people that had made negative commentary towards her, 432 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: and of course lash out at them. But now she 433 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: seems to be lashing out at her own fan base, 434 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 1: and I think that's quite dangerous for an influencer to do. 435 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: As I said, it's biting the hand that feeds you. 436 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: You if you're getting people to unfollow you because you're 437 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: you know, they've sent you something that they think is 438 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: helpful and you've actually then she was calling people out 439 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: in a DM screenshotting things and you know, leaving people's names, 440 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: which was not content that was like bullying. It was 441 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 1: actually helpful advice. I do get that, and I don't. 442 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: And I think if someone's sharing helpful advice, you should 443 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: always be thankful for it. 444 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 3: However it is. 445 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: It would be hard to continually be called privileged all 446 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: the time, and I think that Abby does a lot 447 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: for women's rights, and I think that it's hard because 448 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 1: a lot of the time people online will label other 449 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: people as privileged anytime they complain about anything. I mean, okay, 450 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 1: even you referenced, oh with what's going on with the floods, 451 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: and it's like, yes, it is awful what's going on, 452 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: but there can be issues in your life that you 453 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: were still annoyed about by something bigger happening in the world. 454 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: And I was the tone, it was the tone. It 455 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: was like, do you think I've got time to do this? 456 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: I hire people to do this. Like it really rubbed 457 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 1: me up the wrong way, and I was a joke though, No, 458 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 1: I don't like. I think we'll play some of the 459 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 1: clip to put into that I do. 460 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 5: I think she was. 461 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 3: Joking about that. 462 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: I think she thought that she was explaining explaining why 463 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: she couldn't do it, and maybe it came across the 464 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: wrong way. I'm going to put the clip here and 465 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 1: people can make their own assumption about it. 466 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 5: Sorry, but I actually didn't ask if I should sand 467 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 5: down the table and try out some arts and crabs 468 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 5: and send and change the corners and change the legs. 469 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 5: First of all, I haven't had a day off in 470 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 5: probably at least six months, probably more towards a year. 471 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 5: I haven't had to do some sort of urgent work, 472 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 5: so barely have time to call mom. Don't have time 473 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 5: to be doing sanding of tables. Sorry, m B, it's 474 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 5: not what I ordered, So we'll just get replaced. Send 475 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 5: the email. It's all good. Some you know, when you 476 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 5: ask someone or you've been to someone about something and 477 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 5: you'd asked for a solution, should they give you a 478 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 5: solution anyway, and you're like, it's not what I want 479 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 5: to want a bent that's what like one hundred of 480 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 5: you do my dams right now, guys, I have such 481 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 5: little time and energy that I get Air Tasker to 482 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 5: do everything, Like next week, I'm then to hang up 483 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 5: all the paintings I want. 484 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 1: You know why, because I don't. 485 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 5: I don't have the time or the energy, all the 486 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 5: craftsmanship to do it. I paid someone on Air Tasker 487 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 5: to do this. If I'm not going to put the 488 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 5: table myself, am I gonna sand it down to make 489 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 5: it more like the table that I bought, despite the 490 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 5: fact that it was the issue of the supplier, not 491 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 5: of the purchaser. 492 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: Me. 493 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 5: No, So don't need your solutions. About one hundred of 494 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 5: you my dms literally being passive aggressive, some of you, 495 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 5: some of you being like babe obviously just sang it. 496 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 2: Down and restain it. 497 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I don't want to. 498 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 5: I don't want to, so I'm. 499 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: Not going to. Moving on and Laura Burne has caused 500 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 1: some controversy after she unknowingly labeled a inclusivity doll terrifying 501 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: and also scary as fuck on her Instagram story. Now, 502 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: Laura was out and about with her toddler, Marley May, 503 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,400 Speaker 1: and she was in the Kmart toy section and Marley 504 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 1: was playing with a doll and she said, I think 505 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:14,959 Speaker 1: we have enough crying babies at home. We don't need 506 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: another one. She's then zoomed up on one of the 507 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: dolls in the island said this baby here is truly terrifying. 508 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 1: This is a scary af doll. At that point, she 509 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: zoomed up on the doll and you could see that 510 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: the doll was labeled as baby Amelia with Down syndrome. Now, 511 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: the second I saw this story, I knew that there 512 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: was no malice intended and it had been a complete mistake, 513 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: And I actually felt sick for her because she's just 514 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: given birth to her second daughter, Lola, a couple of 515 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: months ago, a couple of weeks ago, really not long. 516 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: I think it's been six weeks, and she was obviously 517 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: racing around trying to do everything, and it's just been 518 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: a complete disaster, especially with well Down Syndrome day celebrated 519 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 1: on the day after on the Sunday. Yeah, I saw 520 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: this too, and my stomach drop because you just knew 521 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: that there was As you said, Kate, there was no 522 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: malice at all behind this, and I just knew that 523 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: this was going to be huge on social media. I 524 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: was just thinking about the daily mail headlines. I think 525 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: the thing that was really promising, though, was people saw 526 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: it for what it was a mistake and not something 527 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 1: that she intended, and I think that was really helped 528 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: by the heartfelt apology she put out there. So let's 529 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: play a clip of it. 530 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 6: I just want to quickly jump on here, and I'm 531 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 6: probably drawing more attention to something that I fuck me. 532 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 6: I just can't even begin to describe how sorry I am. 533 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 6: I have just received a whole heap of messages from 534 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 6: people I put up a story make were running through 535 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 6: Kmart and I was like, this doll looks scary. Af 536 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 6: is exactly what I said. And there was a dole 537 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 6: in Camart that I thought, genuinely just thought looked tired. 538 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 6: And so many of you guys have messaged me to 539 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 6: let me know that it was actually an insity doll 540 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 6: and I feel sick. 541 00:24:55,800 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 1: To my stomach, but a mistake that I made, so 542 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: I had no idea and I'm really really sorry for 543 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: it was totally unintentional. This is an excellent example of 544 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 1: how to make a public apology. She was extremely sincere, 545 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: and she took full responsibility. I mean she even cried 546 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 1: in it. You can't put that on I do think though, 547 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: it's a really helpful reminder for those who have big 548 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: followings to be so careful with what you post. I mean, 549 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: maybe film and then once you're sitting down and you're 550 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: you know, looking at the story properly post. I mean, 551 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: this poor woman, she's got a newborn baby and also 552 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 1: a toddler. She's probably had no sleep and has taken 553 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: her daughter to the shop. So I do feel really 554 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: sorry for her, and I also feel for anyone who 555 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 1: may it may have caused any upset for any families. 556 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 1: But I think she's addressed it really well and hopefully 557 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,479 Speaker 1: we can all just move on from it. And as 558 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: you said, Kate, a great example of maybe how other 559 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: influential people should apologize if they've been caught out doing 560 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: the wrong thing. Are you ready to hear POD's verdict? 561 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 1: If I messed, Yeah, you have computes. You are a fantastic, 562 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: totally plastic queen of the umpo lumpers. Are you gonna 563 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: do to me? Card? I'm going to turn you into 564 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: a natural beauty. Okay, let's get into snog Mary and avoid, 565 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: and we've actually decided to rate triplets. Well they're not 566 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: really triplets, but they bloody all look the same. They're 567 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: influencers Tylia Scanes, Alie Alton, and m Davies. Because I 568 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: thought it was quite interesting because, as I said, they 569 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 1: all look the same, but they've got a different personality. 570 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: So they're all blonde, about a size six. You're kind 571 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: of typical looking influence, big boobes, big boobs, yep, lip 572 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 1: fill of that type of thing. I feel like this 573 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: is going to be really difficult to choose. Look now, 574 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: it's quite easy for me. I would marry Tarlia Scanes. 575 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: I actually think she's got a great personality. She's smart, 576 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: she's a lawyer, she's got a biller and Barley. Yeah, 577 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick Tarlia. I think I'm gonna have to 578 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 1: choose to avoid. Alie Outon after her terrible brand launch 579 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: the other day, has at She also been known for 580 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: injecting ten or something. Yes, it did come out on 581 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: a YouTube video. So she put up a clip of 582 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: her to do list and it said in jec tan 583 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: and that was swiftly taken down. Yes, I don't think 584 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 1: that really aligns with my value, so I will pash 585 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: M Davies. She'd be a bit wild on the party scene, 586 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: I believe, so party pash with M Davies. I have 587 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: to agree with. I have to agree with the Tylia 588 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 1: Scaines one because I actually genuinely do like her. She 589 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: comes across as a really likable person on her Instagram, 590 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 1: a bit more down to earth than the other two. 591 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: She even gets macis let's be fun, and she seems 592 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: to cook for Mitch, which I like, and she is smart. 593 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 1: I reckon I'd have a bit to talk to her about. 594 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 1: But with the others, can I choose to avoid both 595 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: of them? Because I just would have zero interest in 596 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 1: speaking to you. You have to be one to kiss. Oh, 597 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: I reckon Allie's maybe Alie. I don't like how M 598 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 1: Davies has that chair that looks like it belongs in 599 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: the hospital. Oh my gosh, she just told what I 600 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 1: was going to say. I was literally going to say 601 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 1: that I could not live with M Davies so I 602 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: couldn't marry her because of her taste in furniture. That 603 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: shocker chairs A Pasha still surely Yeah, Pasha on the chair. 604 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 3: Oh anyway, I think. 605 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 1: I would have to choose to Pash m Davies just 606 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: for the Cloud, because I think she's a bit more 607 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: she's more famous. 608 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 3: I suppose you realize that we're actually joking. 609 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: I don't. No one thinks I'm being serious. Anyway, I've 610 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 1: got an I think they seriously think we want to 611 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 1: pass it. But I met through the cloud. Oh yeah, 612 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 1: I mean obviously Tulliuscaines. She seems really lovely, really switched on, 613 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 1: really intelligent. She's got absolutely bang a body as well. 614 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: I've got to say that, yeah, yeah. 615 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 3: And then i'd avoid Allie. 616 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: I think. Well, I think that's all we've got time 617 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: for today. We do have a really exciting episode coming 618 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: on Monday. I'm salivating over it already. I'm really excited. 619 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: We're going to be joined by a huge media lawyer 620 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 1: in Sydney, a very well known one. It's actually your 621 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: personal lawyer, isn't it, Amy. He's fine. 622 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 3: How fancy do I have sound having my own personal work. 623 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: Yes, he's my he was. That's my lawyer when I 624 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 1: was going through certain legal issues with a big network. 625 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: He's well known in the business, and he's going to 626 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: be talking to us about the legalities around celeb spulture. 627 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: Can I just specify that he's not your lawyer to 628 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: defend this podcast. He's been your lawyer to defend you 629 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: in a previous life. But he's around if anybody does 630 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: you know, if any influence comes out of the woodwork 631 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: tries to sue us, is this like, are you trying 632 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: to threaten them that you know? Yeah, we know lawyers. 633 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to threaten anyone. We're just going to 634 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: have a great chat with him on Monday. We really 635 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: want to get to the bottom of whether influencers like 636 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: this is defamation if it actually is. Yeah, So you 637 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: can't wait for you to join us. And as we said, 638 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 1: if you do have time, this is a passion project 639 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: of ours and if you do enjoy the podcast, we 640 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 1: would love if you could leave us a review, preferably 641 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: a five star one. Please drown out some of the 642 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: negative reviews that the influencers, I mean, other people have 643 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: been leaving alms. 644 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 3: If you love our toilet Talk, maybe that's a reason 645 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,959 Speaker 3: to give us five stars. 646 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: And could you also share it with a friend because 647 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: I suppose that's the only way it's going to grow 648 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: as well. Or share it on your Instant story and 649 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: tag us at outspoke an Underscore the Underscore Podcast, and 650 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: have a lovely weekend