1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,200 Speaker 1: This is Outspoken. 2 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 2: The podcast is not afraid to say exactly what you're thinking. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Our names are Amy Kate and Sophie Torba. We're identical triplets. 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: But we often don't have identical opinions, so sometimes things 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 2: can get heated. Outspoken covers all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: and issues facing women. 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: That is so fatch. 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 2: Thank you, Happy Friday, everyone, and welcome to another episode 9 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: of Outspoken. Now, Kate, I hear it's been a very 10 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: expensive week for you. Yes, my bank account has taken 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 2: quite a hit this week. So I dropped my car 12 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 2: off for a well overdue service because you guys had 13 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: got your service last week, wasn't it. 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 2: And when you say overdue, you kind of oh no, 16 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: actually you had yours two years ago, didn't you. But 17 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: SOFH and I got our service and we had literally 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: never got them service. 19 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: Before, and our cars are ten years old. 20 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so my car has been driving like shit. I'll 21 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 2: be honest. I thought there might be a few things 22 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: wrong with it. However, well, when I received the call 23 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: at lunch time, which was the time I was meant 24 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: to be picking my car up from service, I was 25 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: told that there was hundreds and hundreds of dollars worth 26 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 2: of things that they needed to change. There were words 27 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 2: that I'd never heard before. I had to actually grab 28 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: a notebook and start writing it down with the prices 29 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: to just calculate how much. 30 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: This was going to cost me. So what was actually 31 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: wrong with the car? 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 2: Well, as I said, there were a lot of words 33 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 2: used that I didn't quite understand. But there was something 34 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: to do with like break pads and a knock sensor 35 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 2: that apparently is really important with your car. I needed 36 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: a few tires, and there was something else. Anyway, it 37 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: was it was a big hassle. I've got two out 38 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: of the four things done. However, whilst driving to drop 39 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 2: my car off for service, I had an incident, so 40 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 2: that could have cost me a lot more money, so 41 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 2: maybe I should. 42 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: Be quite happy what actually happened. 43 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: Well, so one of the issues with my car is 44 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: that my key, you know when you press it it's 45 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 2: meant to open like as a transponder key, the battery 46 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: stopped working, so I actually have to flip my key 47 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: out and manually open it, which I'm fine with. 48 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: However, now there's another hurdle. The key gets stuck in 49 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: the key so I won't flip out. So sometimes when 50 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm running late, I. 51 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: Then have to like put everything down and go back 52 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: upstairs and get a knife. A night, so I was 53 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 2: running late, Yeah, like to get it out the keys hold, 54 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: why don't you just not clip it back in? Well 55 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: used to playing with it a new body cut anyway, 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 2: So I put my smoothie on top of the car 57 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: and my laptop on top of the car, and I 58 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 2: also had two bags because I bought some shopping bags 59 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: down to bag up the garbage that was in my car. Anyway, 60 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 2: So I've then had to hold all the stuff back 61 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: into my car and I've driven off. Now, as I'm 62 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: driving down my street, I hear this big crash and 63 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 2: in the corner of my eye I see something fly off, 64 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: which I realized was my Smoothie that I was very 65 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 2: much like. I then hear another thud and see my laptop, 66 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: my work laptop is not fine. Smash to the ground 67 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 2: and a big thud, and I'm thinking, fuck, how am 68 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 2: I going to explain this at work? Fortunately the laptop's okay. 69 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: I'm shocked. 70 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 2: I don't know how what kind of laptop is there? 71 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: Unfortunately Lenovo it's a block of laptop. It's not like 72 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: a Mac I reckon. If it was a Mac that 73 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: would have been completely destroyed. It would have been smashed 74 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 2: to smootherings. Unfortunately, I actually thought maybe my smoothie might 75 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: be okay. It had spilled a little bit on the path, 76 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: but no, I lifted the cup up and the bottom 77 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 2: fell completely through. Later on during the day, I went 78 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 2: for a walk and I found my little straw that 79 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 2: was smashed and bent. 80 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: Of the time that you drove off when you had 81 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: cookies on the car. 82 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 2: That was me and my iPod. This is how back 83 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 2: in the day this story was. My iPod was smashed 84 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: in that incident as well. So it can be so 85 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: easy to do. It's such a thing leaving stuff on 86 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 2: top of your car. Like my boss was telling me 87 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 2: that he noticed someone put their iPhone on top of 88 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: the car. So he was trying to jest to like, oh, 89 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: your iPhone's on top, and the I just said fuck 90 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: off and gave him the finger and he didn't realize 91 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: that he was trying to go. I don't know if 92 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: I should be telling this story, but that reminds me 93 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: of when an acquaintance so their phone got I think 94 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 2: it was playing up, and they tried to take it 95 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: back to the phone shop, but the people wouldn't take it, 96 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 2: and they said, oh, you know, you've got to go 97 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 2: and get it fixed anyway, So that I started to 98 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: instead drive over the phone and say that they had 99 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: been you know, smashed and unrepairable. It fell out of 100 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: their pocket anyway, So they drove over the phone a 101 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: few times, took it out, and it just wouldn't die, 102 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: so I had. 103 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: To go over so many times to actually break the bell. 104 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 2: I'd love to hear if anyone else has had issues 105 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,679 Speaker 2: servicing their car like this, or just being a complete 106 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 2: idiot and leaving things on top of the car, We'll 107 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: put a thread in our Facebook community. I'd also like 108 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: to know do people know that they're meant to get 109 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: their car serviced quite a lot? Because I feel like 110 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: that was something that maybe we should have been taught 111 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: at school because I didn't think it was a real thing. 112 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 2: I thought it was kind of like something that you know, 113 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 2: your men it's frowned if Yeah, I. 114 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: Just thought it was frowned upon. 115 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: I did think it was like your safety was in 116 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: danger if you didn't get it done. Here's everybody's reminder, 117 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: go and get your card service. 118 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: It's really not worth it if you don't. 119 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: I am Charlie Damolia be Noli from Tektak TikTok. Star 120 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: Charlie Demilio and her family are set to star in 121 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: their own reality TV show, airing September third. The trailer 122 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 2: for the original Hulu series was released this week and 123 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: it looks incredible. Now, Amy, can you tell me more 124 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 2: about the show? Yeah, well, it's been appropriately named the 125 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: Dmilio Show, and a lot of people are already drawing 126 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: comparisons to Keeping Up with the Kardashians. But people are 127 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: saying this is a new generation of the Kardashians. And 128 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: I've got to say, when I was watching the trailer, 129 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: I did get strong Kendal and Kylie vibes from Dixie 130 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 2: and from Charlie. 131 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they look so much. 132 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: Like Kendal and Kylie when they were younger. The thing is, 133 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: do you think it's going to be as successful as 134 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 2: the Kardashians with only four family members? Because I feel 135 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: like the appeal of the Kardashians was that there were 136 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: so many different family members. I actually think it does 137 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 2: have the child of being just as successful because if 138 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 2: you look at how many people of following both Charlie 139 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: and Dixie. It's actually insane. Charlie has more followers on 140 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: TikTok than Kim Kardashian. The thing is, I'm wondering whether 141 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: the parents will have as much appeal as Chris and 142 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: also as Caitlyn Jenner. 143 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. 144 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 2: The success of the Kardashians was that there were so 145 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: many different characters, as you said, Kate, to make the 146 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: show entertaining. It is, as you say, Amy, going to 147 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 2: really rely on whether the family gel really well together 148 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 2: and whether they have great storylines. 149 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: I feel like jen Zeter's are very flippant with who 150 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: they follow. 151 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: You know, they might be following her on TikTok, but 152 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: it doesn't mean they want to know an awful lot 153 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: about her life. 154 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: You know, you think of. 155 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 2: How quick those TikTok videos are, are they going to 156 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 2: want to invest in watching an hour show about her? Also, 157 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 2: when you watch the early seasons of the Kardashians, they 158 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 2: have those very corny storylines that are very manufactured. So 159 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 2: it will be really interesting to see how organic this 160 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: reality TV show is because the appeal of social media 161 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: is that it is quite real and raw, and I 162 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 2: know Charlie Demilio spoke about how she was using her 163 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: TikTok platform as a launching pad to then get into YouTube, 164 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: and it's quite interesting that she's actually catapulted YouTube and 165 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: is now on TV. 166 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: It is really interesting. 167 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 2: I must say the trailer didn't disappoint because it showed 168 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 2: a lot of clips of how the sisters have handled 169 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 2: constant trolling. It also showed clips of Dixie really upset 170 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 2: because she often gets slammed for only having a following 171 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 2: due to her sister's popularity. And I didn't realize this before, 172 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: but Dixie's a few years older than Charlie and she 173 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: was mortified when Charlie first started posting on TikTok in 174 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen. This was, of course when it was known 175 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: as musically, so not many people were actually on the 176 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: app and she was so embarrassed and told Charlie to 177 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: stop posting. But then, of course TikTok became big in 178 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen and twenty twenty, and it shows that you 179 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: really have to get on the apps quickly, on the 180 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 2: new apps to be able to able to get such 181 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 2: a large following. 182 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: You sounded so old saying you've got to get on 183 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: the apps. Is TikTok the new sex tape? 184 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: Because we look at Kim Kardashi and she basically got 185 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 2: her reality show from her sex tape that was exposed. 186 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: We've also had Paris Hilton who got her show from 187 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: a sex tape. No, to be fair, I'm pretty sure 188 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 2: the sex tape came out just as the show was 189 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: about to air for Paris Hilton, so I don't think 190 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 2: it was a complete correlation, But it is interesting that 191 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 2: those two big reality TV stars have had the sex tape. 192 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: See. 193 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: I would draw more comparisons between the hype Pouce and 194 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: the Mickey mouse Club because Charlie went to stay at 195 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 2: the High Palce and that's what got her a lot 196 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 2: of extra followers. And think about it, back in the day, 197 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: people like Britney Spears, Justin Tim Blake, Christina Aguilia Dasgus Simpson, Yeah, 198 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 2: Jessica Simpson, they were all part of the Mickey mouse Club, 199 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 2: and now you've got the hyphe Pals. See. I feel 200 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 2: like that's a little bit different because the High House. 201 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I suppose. 202 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: Yet, social media is kind of the platform that TV 203 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 2: was back in the day. 204 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: But all of those. 205 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: People that were in the Mickey Mouse Club were relatively unknown. 206 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: In the hyphe Pals, they all have their own following 207 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: and they're all joining their followings together to then hopefully 208 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: reach more people. 209 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: So obviously it's a slightly different concept. 210 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: Well, after Charlie was in The High Pals, that's when 211 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 2: she was signed to a huge LA management company called 212 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: Uta and they actually signed her whole family. 213 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: So this is where this big TV deal. 214 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: Has come from, because I think this management company would 215 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: have seen them and gone, Okay, these guys, this family 216 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 2: is the next Kardashians if. 217 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: We say that. 218 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: And then we've also got Hanging with the Hambros which 219 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: is set to come out, so and it seems like 220 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 2: a lot of people are trying to replicate that formula. 221 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: But he is at an Australian show. 222 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,599 Speaker 2: Well, Tammy Hembro has American appeal, Yeah, I think it 223 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: would have international appeal. It's interesting though, because I was 224 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: listening to Heidi and Spencer's podcast called Spidey and they 225 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: were talking it because Heidi was actually on call her 226 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: Daddy the other week and they were talking about how 227 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 2: she got called out by a lot of fans because 228 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 2: she mentioned Lauren, so she was asked about Lauren and 229 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 2: she came and basically said that she thinks Lauren didn't 230 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: reach her potential and she had the potential to earn 231 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 2: as much as Kylie Jenner because Lauren walked away from 232 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: the Hills, and Spencer actually came out and said, well, 233 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: everyone thinks that Lauren's above MTV and doesn't need her 234 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: own reality show, but she actually pitched her own show 235 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: to MTV, which they turned down. And Heidi and Spencer 236 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: were saying a lot of people are like, well, you 237 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: guys aren't relevant anymore, and they're like, well, we actually 238 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 2: are relevant because we're on TV. And a lot of 239 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 2: people seem to have this opinion that reality TV stars 240 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: are just washed up and they're pathetic. But as Spencer 241 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 2: was saying, people do need reality TV shows Like the Kardashians. Yeah, 242 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: they may have finished their series on E but they 243 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: look like they're going to be picked up by Hulu 244 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 2: as well. They need the TV show even though that 245 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: they're big, they needed to stay relevant on mainstream platforms. 246 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 2: And someone like Charlie Demilio, who has fifty million followers 247 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: on TikTok, it's interesting that she still needs that platform 248 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 2: of TV to bolster her career into more of the mainstream. Yeah, 249 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 2: and I feel like the TV networks also need the 250 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: TikTokers to stay relevant as well. 251 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: It's they're both helping each other. 252 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: Or what did everyone think of Charlie and Dixie's mum, 253 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 2: or we're getting some Christiana vibes there. I'm getting a 254 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: little bit of Christiana vibes because she has been touted 255 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: as the Girl's unofficial mummager. So she actually met Mark, 256 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: her husband, back in the nineties, and this was when 257 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: he owned a sportswear shop and she was a model 258 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 2: and personal trainer. 259 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 1: To be honest, on. 260 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 2: The trailer, I didn't really get a big personality like 261 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: Chris Jannet, but I feel like they'll probably get better 262 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: over time. I am interested to see how people warm 263 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: to the dmeilio of parents in particular, because I feel 264 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: like they've got a little bit of a reputation at 265 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 2: the moment for exploiting their daughters, and I feel like 266 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: this TV show buys into that even more. Yeah, I agree, Kay, 267 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: I think there will be a bit of a microscope 268 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 2: on the parents, particularly when we see in the trailer 269 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: that the girls are very concerned with trolling. That trolling 270 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 2: is going to be taken up to a whole new 271 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 2: level when they then become more in the mainstream. To 272 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 2: be honest, though, I think TikTok is probably the worst 273 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 2: place to get trolled at the moment. People who are 274 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: going to watch this show, I feel like the trolling 275 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 2: won't be anything near to what they'd get on TikTok. 276 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 2: You guys are going to be tuning in because I 277 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: feel like I need to actually subscribe to Hulu now. 278 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 2: I will definitely be watching, especially because I've been looking 279 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 2: for a show to fill the void of keeping up 280 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: with the Kardashians, and I think this will do very nicely. 281 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 2: Good morning, guys, welcome back to my channel. 282 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: I hope you're all doing well. 283 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: I'm sorry that I'm starting the video in this spot again. 284 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 2: I promise you the blog is going to move off 285 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: and we won't be in this spot for the whole video. 286 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: It's a little bit boring. 287 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 2: Mollie Mayheik has revealed that she turned down a two 288 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 2: million pound deal with a fashion brand last year in 289 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 2: a Q and A with her manager on YouTube entitled 290 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: Let's Talk Business, Molly and her manager, Fran, gave followers 291 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 2: an insight into the business side of influencer marketing. So 292 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 2: I really enjoyed this video because it really showed how 293 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: big brand deals are negotiated in the UK and how 294 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 2: brand managers actually seek out clients. Because I never knew this, 295 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 2: but Molly's manager, Fran, was actually appointed by her family 296 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: while she was still in the Love Island villa because 297 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 2: the family was so inundated by brands wanting to work 298 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 2: with Molly that they couldn't personally handle the influx of messages. 299 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 2: See I'm surprised she didn't have her own manager prior 300 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 2: to being on Love Island because Molly touts herself as 301 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: being a social media influencer. Before she was on Love Island, 302 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: I remember her job title was influencer. I believe she 303 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 2: was with a different management agency, but they weren't big 304 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: enough like this new one was to deal with all 305 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 2: of the influx of messages coming through. I do find 306 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 2: it a really interesting new trend that influencers are wanting 307 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 2: to share the behind the scenes of their lives and 308 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 2: delve into these business matters. Well, let's be honest, it's 309 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 2: kind of what everybody's wanting because there has been a 310 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 2: lot of talk about people not being able to relate 311 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 2: to influencers because they're so keen to put across this 312 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 2: image that they don't do anything when actually they are 313 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 2: dealing with brands each day and people are really interested 314 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: in how that side of social media works. Well they are, 315 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 2: or their managers are, because it's quite funny that they 316 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 2: show their manager's life and maybe once they get a manager, 317 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 2: they are able to do nothing because the manager takes 318 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 2: care of it all. It is interesting that you say 319 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: that there is this issue of not being able to 320 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 2: relate to influencers at the moment, because I've been feeling 321 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: that too. But funnily enough, I feel like now that 322 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: a lot of the influencers are in lockdown, a lot 323 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: of people can relate to their lifestyle. Yeah, well, everyone's 324 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 2: at home, But I mean I think when we are 325 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: out of lockdown, it's going to become a bigger issue 326 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: for people because, as you say, okay, I mean, I'm 327 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 2: not really relating to someone who is sitting at home 328 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 2: just watching the money coming in whilst doing really not much. 329 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 2: And maybe that's why influencers are starting to release more 330 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 2: details about the work side of things. What was really 331 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 2: interesting about this video was that Fran, her manager, revealed 332 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 2: that she met Molly for the first time at the airport, 333 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: so this is when she landed back in the UK 334 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 2: after being in the villa, and the night before the 335 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 2: manager had had dinner with the family. She'd apparently had 336 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: lasagna and she really got to know the family before 337 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 2: Molly even entered the picture. And it made me think 338 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: about how desperate some of these managers must be to 339 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: sign on these Love Island contestants because when they finish 340 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: up in the villa, they are getting so many brand deals, 341 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: and if you're a manager, you're obviously getting around twenty 342 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: five percent of the brand deals. I mean twenty five 343 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 2: percent of a two million dollar deal. You almost have 344 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 2: to be this person's new best friend and suck up 345 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 2: to the family talking about smoothing. I have noticed that 346 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: Molly always talks about how her manager has sent her 347 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 2: some luxurious designer product for her birthday, so perhaps that's 348 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: a part of keeping her on the books, is buying 349 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: her luxury handbags. It definitely is, and it's almost as 350 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 2: if Fran is Molly's best friend, because Molly was explaining 351 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 2: that Fran will drive her anywhere she wants that. They 352 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: hang out all the time, and Fran revealed that when 353 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 2: Molly came out of the villa, they sat down and 354 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: went worked out her finance and personal goals. So she said, 355 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 2: you know, where do you want to buy a house? 356 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 2: What kind of car do you want? And apparently this 357 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 2: helps them work out what brand deals will work best 358 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: for Molly to be able to reach those goals. And 359 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 2: so I think we should have listened to what friends 360 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: said about this two million dollar deal. 361 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 3: A high street fashion brand came along last year offered 362 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 3: me two million pounds, which is a lot of money, 363 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: a hell of a lot of money, and said to me, 364 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 3: we're obsessed with Molly May. We'd love her to be 365 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 3: in the face of our brand. We want her to 366 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 3: work with us. I thought, brilliant. So I said, how 367 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 3: do you feel about that? She said no, SOA why 368 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: you told me you want that house? I said, no, 369 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 3: I don't go and buy my clothes from there. 370 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: So I said, well you can start. You can start 371 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: from that. 372 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: Now. 373 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: It's another thing. 374 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 3: What is incredible about you? And I think other influences 375 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 3: aren't this way, And this is what of your best 376 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 3: qualities that if you see ad on any of Molly's purse, 377 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 3: you know she genuinely uses and wears and believed in 378 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 3: that brand. 379 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 2: When I heard this, my first thought was, how many 380 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 2: deals is she getting that are worth two million dollars? 381 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 2: Because if you're turning down a two million dollar deal, 382 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 2: you must be pretty confident that you're going to get 383 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 2: a deal that matches that or. 384 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: Exceeds it well. 385 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 2: Interestingly, when she left the villa, she then signed a 386 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 2: massive deal with Pretty Little Things, so I'd hate to think. 387 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: How much that deal was worth. 388 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: I feel like it's interesting that because Molly said, you know, 389 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 2: she doesn't wear the clothes and it didn't really align 390 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 2: with her brand. But I do find it interesting when 391 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: you hear someone like Molly may say that, yet that 392 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: they're happy to put their name to a fast fashion label, 393 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 2: as you. 394 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: Touched on Lokate as well. 395 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 2: I also think I wonder if there weren't as many 396 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 2: deals on the table, whether she would have just taken 397 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: the two million dollar deal. It would be also interesting 398 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 2: to know the small print of that deal, so whether 399 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,400 Speaker 2: that was like an ex deal and she couldn't work 400 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 2: with any other clothing brand, because I feel like that 401 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 2: would be another barrier that would make you think, nuh, 402 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 2: this isn't lucrative enough for me. Well, the management is 403 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 2: obviously trying really hard to align Molly with brands that 404 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 2: she genuinely uses, because this year she did a sponsorship 405 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 2: deal with Starbucks and anyone who watches Molly May's channel 406 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 2: will know she is always drinking Chai Lates from Starbucks 407 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 2: and this is way before any deal was signed with them. 408 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: Well, her puppy that sadly passed away was called mister 409 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: Chai as well. So well, that's the thing. 410 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 2: It's very clever of the talent management agency because there 411 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 2: are so many influencers that just signed deals with anyone 412 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 2: and it just looks so disingenuine to be working with 413 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 2: those people. So the fact that you're you've got a 414 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 2: client that's well known enough to actually align yourself with 415 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 2: people they genuinely like. 416 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: That's huge. 417 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 2: Well do you think that's why they've brought out the 418 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 2: video to be like, oh, she doesn't just take any deal. Oh? 419 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 2: I definitely think so. And it's interesting though, when you 420 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 2: compare someone like Molly May to the Kardashians, because the 421 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: Kardashians have had some very questionable deals, even recently when 422 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 2: you know. 423 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: They're so rich. 424 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 2: So it is good to see influencers passing down deals 425 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 2: that they don't necessarily believe in. It would be good 426 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 2: if we saw more of this happening though, with fast 427 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,479 Speaker 2: fashion labels. What do you guys think about influencers who 428 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 2: do videos and then they flat out name brands that 429 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 2: they've turned down deals of Do you think that's unprofessional? Oh, 430 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 2: I don't think you should name the brand. I think 431 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 2: that is unprofessional, particularly if you get to a point 432 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 2: where you do need to actually work with them to 433 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 2: earn a living. Maybe moving forward when you're not as relevant. 434 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, I feel like it's been a while since 435 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 2: I've picked up my camera. 436 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: It is getting to the end of this pregnancy. 437 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: UK YouTubers Zoela and Alfie have revealed they are struggling 438 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 2: to settle on a name for their daughter. The couple 439 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: announce their pregnancy back in March and are only a 440 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 2: few weeks away from having their baby, so they explain 441 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 2: in a recent YouTube video that they do have a 442 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 2: name in mind, but they don't want to commit to 443 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 2: it because they may change their mind. Alfie said that 444 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 2: they really want to see their daughter's face first, see 445 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: if the name suits her. This really has el Derby 446 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 2: vibes because that's exactly what happened to Elle and her 447 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 2: partner con They decided months before what they were naming 448 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 2: their baby and made the switch a week before he 449 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 2: was born, and they wanted to see his face. It 450 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 2: seems like seeing the baby's a big part of actually 451 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 2: naming it. 452 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't blame them. 453 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,479 Speaker 2: It's like when you get a dog or a cat, 454 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 2: you kind of need to see what they look like 455 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 2: to see if they suit their day. We named our 456 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 2: cats Bentley and Gig before seeing them, but we saw 457 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 2: photos of them, remember, Yeah, but I think we chosen 458 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 2: their name before. It's funny because I think some people 459 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 2: just have these names that they want to have for 460 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,239 Speaker 2: a very long time. But then I feel like when 461 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 2: it comes down to the crunch, there is that panic. Okay, 462 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 2: what is everyone? If you had to name your child now, 463 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 2: what would you name them? Olivia or I'm assuming a 464 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: girl I want to call my child. I know it's 465 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: going to be a fight to that name. Well, I 466 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 2: want Jack as well for a boy. See I like 467 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: Jack as well. God, this is going to be difficult 468 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 2: that Breeze. 469 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 1: Doesn't like it. 470 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: Olivia and Jack sound really cute. They sounded family word 471 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: POSTI fancy they sound quite fancy. Yeah, like I think 472 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 2: Jack Turner sounds nice. 473 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 1: It does? Is that actually someone else's name, a footy 474 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: player's name or something. I've got a google it. I 475 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: don't know. Now back to Zoela. 476 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 2: In this YouTube video, she shared details about her baby shower. 477 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,439 Speaker 1: But what I really liked is. 478 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: That she and Alfie have renamed the baby shower and 479 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 2: they are calling it a pre baby party. And the 480 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 2: reason for that is that they said it's not a 481 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 2: typical baby shower as they've only invited a handful of 482 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 2: friends and all genders were coming. They also didn't want 483 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 2: the whole day to be about lame baby games. 484 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 1: Have you guys heard that? Though? 485 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 2: People are doing this too in Australia where it's a 486 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 2: babyqueue and so all the guys and girls are invited. 487 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,719 Speaker 2: Do you guys like that, like, would you do a 488 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: baby cue or would you just want it all girls? Well, 489 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 2: I don't understand why it is only all girls. I 490 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 2: think it's nice to involve everyone because the dad has 491 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 2: just as much to do with the baby as you'd 492 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 2: hope the mum would. I went to a joint baby 493 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: shower back in like twenty fourteen when I was living 494 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 2: in Melbourne, and I think it's probably the best baby 495 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 2: shower I've actually been to. It's a bit like Hen's 496 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 2: parties because the other day we were talking about your 497 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 2: Hen's party, Kate, with our cousins and we were saying 498 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 2: how we wanted them to be there and their men, 499 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 2: and it just it seems odd to have guys at 500 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 2: a hen's party. It's very old school to be doing, 501 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 2: you know, only girls and only boys. It's kind of 502 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 2: like when there's this assumption that you have to have 503 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,959 Speaker 2: female bridesmaids, and like there's a lot of people that 504 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 2: have best male friends. I mean, I'd love my cousins 505 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 2: to be a part of my wedding party too. It 506 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 2: just seems funny that it's very gendered. Yeah, definitely. Well, 507 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 2: going back to Zoella's party, one game that she had, 508 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 2: which I reckon we all need to incorporate into our 509 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: own baby showers one day, is that every guest brought 510 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 2: along a baby photo. 511 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: So basically this was the one game they had, So. 512 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 2: You have to go and guess which baby photo belongs 513 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 2: to which person, And I thought this was a really 514 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: cute way to break the eyes with people you may 515 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: not know. I feel like a lot of people would 516 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 2: be able to tell our baby photos, considering there'd be 517 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: three that look exactly the same. 518 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,880 Speaker 1: It seems like a lot of work. 519 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 2: Though, because can you imagine being invited to this baby 520 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 2: shower and then being like, oh shit, I haven't even 521 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,239 Speaker 2: got a photo of myself, and then having to get 522 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: a photo of your partner as a baby as well, 523 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 2: and you have to go to your parents' house and 524 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 2: get it out of the photo album and walking text 525 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: it to me. 526 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: See. 527 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: I thought it was a nice idea, but you guys 528 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 2: also might think that this other part of the baby 529 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 2: shower was a bit too much work too. So instead 530 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 2: of normal presence, they asked everyone to bring along their 531 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 2: old favorite childhood books, so obviously a new version of 532 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 2: their childhood. 533 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: Book series a gift as a gift. I love this. 534 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 2: Idea because sometimes you're just going to get stuck with 535 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 2: all these toys that aren't age appropriate for the child 536 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: you've got nowhere to store them. I think this is 537 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,360 Speaker 2: a really personal, personal thing to do. 538 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: It just sounds like too much work. To be honest, 539 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: it goes along to this baby shower. 540 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't be bothered, to be honest, But also 541 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 2: I feel like it's so I feel like yourself in 542 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: that put yourself in the shoes of someone who's been invited. 543 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 2: Maybe you're the partner of you know, yeah, and you're 544 00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: expected to bring. 545 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: All this, your own photo and the book and almost 546 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: I think is that bad? 547 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 2: I mean, they've only invited close friends, so it's only 548 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 2: people who are going to want to be bothered. Yeah. 549 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: I feel like this is a very influencer thing to do, 550 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,679 Speaker 2: because as you were saying, oh, they won't get all 551 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 2: this crap that's not age appropriate. But do you think 552 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 2: it's because they already expect to get basically all the 553 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 2: stuff they need for their child because of their platform, 554 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: then they're. 555 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, well let's get something sentimental like everyone's favorite. 556 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 2: Nah. To be honest, I think it's because Alfie and 557 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 2: Zoela are so wealthy that they probably feel bad expecting, 558 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 2: you know, expensive gifts from their family members. I would 559 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: totally bring the Hungry Hungry Caterpillar if I was bringing. 560 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: Up that book. How good is that book? What would 561 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: you bring? So Vic I feel like you remember that 562 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: hippop book. Oh, were they dressed up for dinner? No, 563 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: it's an elephant. 564 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 2: No, there's a book about there's an elephant mum and 565 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: she just wants to get ready to go up for 566 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: dinner with their friends, and her child is being so 567 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,719 Speaker 2: naughty and she finally pulls herself together, and then at 568 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: the end of the book, she walks out of the 569 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 2: house and she's sat on her eyeshadow palette. 570 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 1: I could relate to that, well, not having kids, but 571 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: I can relate to running late. 572 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 2: See I would bring along mister Plunket's pool. I'd really 573 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: be interested to know. I know, we just said it 574 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 2: was amy and I said it was a lame idea, 575 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: but I would love to know it. 576 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: But I would like to start a thread. 577 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: In our community to see what everyone else's favorite. 578 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: Childhood books were. 579 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 2: Now, what do you guys think about this theory that 580 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 2: was raised in Soella's vlog? So they are really trying 581 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: to work out what the kid's going to look like. 582 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 2: Obviously they've been looking at these family photos of one 583 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 2: another trying to pick out characteristics that the baby may have. 584 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 2: So some of Soella's followers have been writing in saying 585 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 2: that from their experience, the first daughter always looks like 586 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 2: the farm. 587 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: Oh I have heard that before. Does I mean I 588 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: look like dad? 589 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 2: Well? Dad did pick my name out because Mom apparently 590 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 2: got two picks because I suppose she'd been carrying triplets around, 591 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: and then dad got to pick the firstborn. 592 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: I don't know why that was decided. 593 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 2: But well, it's only fair to choose the name of 594 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 2: the child that looks like you as well. I'm currently 595 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 2: trying to think of daughters that have been born to 596 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 2: think if they look like their dads, and I actually 597 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 2: think that that is the case. I do feel like 598 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 2: they do. You know, daughters do strongly feature some of 599 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 2: their dad's characteristics. 600 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 1: Who were first born? 601 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you say first born, does that mean even 602 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 2: if like there's a second born, but it's a first 603 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 2: daughter that still counts. So is it literally just the 604 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 2: daughters look like they're only only firstborn daughter? Okay, okay, 605 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: it's a firstborn that they look like their dad. Though, well, 606 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: the dad might be very attractive. It doesn't mean that 607 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: they look manly. It just means they've got characteristics. Who 608 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 2: wants to hear they look like their dad? Though I'd hardly, 609 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 2: so that's a big compliment. Well, I think that's all 610 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 2: we've got time for today. 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The people aren't in quarantine. 620 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 1: If you're in quarantine, you'll run out. Get it right. 621 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: We've only had the lingo for eighteen months. Geez,