WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Can I Date My Late Husband's Friend? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.640 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:15.120 welcome back to another episode of Life. I'm Cad, I'm Laura, 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.640 I'm Brittany, And if you're listening to this on Monday, 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.600 there is a very good chance that I am in 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:22.720 the South African jungle. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:23.200 Yep. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:24.520 Very exciting. 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:26.280 So we have it or is it exciting? 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:28.960 Well, it's exciting for Matt because it means he made 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.360 it to the end. Not so exciting for you because 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.040 it means you've got a very big trip with two 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:33.880 very small children. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:37.080 I'm just petrified of the long haul flight that has 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:39.920 two layovers with two children through the night. 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:41.680 I think it is going to be hell. 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:43.160 On Earth one percent. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:44.639 I don't want to like rub that in, but you're 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:46.320 gonna hate your life for the next couple of days. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.080 But the way this works is so we are recording 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:51.720 this a few days early because your life gets put 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.600 on hold. You're on standby for a flight because obviously 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:57.040 people don't know who's going to be the last three 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:57.640 in the show. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.800 Yeah, and also, like I mean, it's tricky for us. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.160 Actually, it's quite early that we're recording this because we 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.160 don't know when Matt's gonna get out, So like if 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:07.360 I do fly over there, I might be in the 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:09.400 air and he could get out on TV, do you 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:09.800 know what I mean? 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.000 So I don't know. 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:12.679 How annoyed would you be if you got there and 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:14.199 you found out he'd already been eliminated. 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.680 Fuck did they just send you straight back? So what 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:19.400 does you get halfway? I think. 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.399 I think if you get there, you still come home 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:23.880 on your normal return flight, Like the return flight is booked, 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.240 but it depends on how many days I get to 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.240 get with him, because if he makes it through the final, 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:30.600 I don't get any days with him. It's the final 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.800 and then we fly home the next day, so we 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:37.000 actually have no time in Africa together to actually enjoy Africa. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:41.800 No African activities had to look forward. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:44.479 So technically, if he gets out early, then I would 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:45.480 have had some more time with it. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:46.560 You could go bunge jumping. 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.760 Yeah, Keisha's been bungee jumping in South Africa everyone, in 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.640 case you haven't heard, this is true. 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:53.520 But also you guys. 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:55.800 I mean, by the time this comes out, you will 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.680 know the outcome because it would have been last night. 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.120 But we are in the past. It's so hard to. 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.440 Know what's happening. And I'm in fucking purgatory for I'm 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:04.360 a celebrity right. 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:07.280 Now, I'm manifesting. I feel like he's going to be 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.880 one hundred percent finale. If not, he's gone for the win. 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.040 That's what I think. That's a lot of pressure, I 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:14.720 think for sure. 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:15.520 I hope. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:17.679 So I think Reggie's pretty high up there. Like so 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.040 Reggie Bird, for anyone doesn't know who she is, she's 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:25.360 one big brother twice and she is very very like personable, relatable, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.040 but also just has like a really beautiful, incredible story 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.320 around the hardship that she's faced with herself and also 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:31.840 with her son. 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:32.960 I kind of. 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.640 Think that like she's getting the public vote, you know, 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.560 Matt's just getting the force, like vote for my husband, 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:39.799 vote I want to go to South Africa. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:40.120 Vote. 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:42.240 Yeah, But he has been very entertaining, and I know 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:45.240 that obviously we're a bit biased, because obviously last year, Britt, 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:46.040 we were biased for you. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:47.800 And I'm also having sex with them, so I'm pretty 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:49.360 biased and for a while I'm not. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:50.959 We're not having. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.160 Sex with him, thank god, thank god. That would be 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:53.720 a real issue. 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:56.120 Wouldn't that be a scandalous episode if that came out 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:57.040 on an ask gun cut. 0:02:57.120 --> 0:02:59.440 Okay, let's put on a bet song, because, like I said, 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.520 it is in the future, who do we think will 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.880 make it top three? I think it'll be Reggie Fingers Cross, 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:04.639 Matt and Max. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:05.560 That's what I think. 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.040 I thought, Sam the rugby player. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:12.680 I think Max is taking Sam spot. Maybe if you're 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:17.120 going to, like, I don't know why I'm laughing, you're 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:18.920 just gonna like want to ref each up his clothes 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:20.640 off and have sex or do you think you're like, 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:22.760 I'm so fucking tired, and he's like I'm so hungry 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.359 and scrawny, and it's just not going to be any 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:24.880 love making. 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:25.520 I don't know. 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:27.160 I don't know what it's going to be like because 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.240 there has never been a time in our relationship, like 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.959 obviously we did long distance after The Bachelor for got 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.760 like months, like five months or something crazy, but we 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.360 could speak to each other every day, and we could 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:40.680 FaceTime each other every day. I feel particularly disconnected from 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.200 him at the moment because that's hard. Yeah, Like I've 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.400 not had a single conversation with him for almost five weeks, 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.640 which is as much as I've seen him on TV, 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.920 you know, and like it's great seeing you on TV, 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:52.560 and I'm very, very proud of him, but I don't 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:54.840 feel I feel like I need to have a conversation 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:56.680 with the man and be like, hello, I'm your wife. 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.480 He also did staice to see you again. Here's a mango. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:03.640 He also said that he'd rather eat a mango than 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:04.480 I have sex with you. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:06.520 So but now he can have both. He doesn't have 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:08.920 to make the choices. You can do him simultaneously, or 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:10.520 he could have sex with a mango. 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:12.120 Or he can fuck a mango when he gets out, 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:18.200 and it's gonna be fucking wild. I don't know. I 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:19.200 honestly don't know how. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.240 I think it'd be very emotional for him seeing the 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.160 girls as well, and that's the big reason why I'm 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:23.800 taking them over. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.280 Yeah, even though it is. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:28.279 Like a hellish flight, and it's a very quick so 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:29.720 I think by the time we get there, I think 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:31.760 we're only there for a couple of days, maybe three 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:33.719 nights in total, and then we fly back home, so 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.080 it's a very quick round trip. But I'm doing it 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:38.800 because I know that how much it'll mean to him 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:40.400 to have the girls there, even though that that's going 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:43.599 to be hell for me. And I also think I 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.119 have like runs on the board now for like plenty 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:47.760 of girls trips, like I am owed. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.960 Your bank is overflowing with your like payback bank. 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.520 Yeah, Hamilton Island, anyone we're coming? Yeah, how I I'm going. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.400 I'm I book Day's golf bagging Noosa. I hear it's 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:00.880 fabulous this time of year. I'll be there. Don't you worry. 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:02.720 Oh, you would go into tsunami right now. You would 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:04.960 be like, get me, you see me every weekend. 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:06.839 You'd be like, is Laura away again? I'd be like, yes, 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.520 with my girlfriends, it's been great. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.920 If we are the girlfriends that you're speaking about, I 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:12.440 am absolutely keen to come. 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.480 So yeah, So look, guys, like I said, I mean, unfortunately, 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.760 you know everyone knows what the final has happened. 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:18.040 Now. 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.679 I wish we could talk about it for this episode, 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:22.560 but we won't know until like late this week on Wednesday. 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:26.200 You remember, and like, this is how much Matt is 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.280 going to be excited to see you. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:30.240 I remember when I came out of the jungle, all I. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.960 Wanted to do, like the intensity to see Ben, like 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:35.800 the overwhelming feeling was so much that I booked a 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:37.760 flight there and I was going to see him for 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:40.799 one day. I was flying from South Africa to Scotland 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.039 to surprise him for just over twenty four hours. 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:45.440 Was costing me a bomb. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.600 But then I was going to fly back to Australia. 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:51.480 I was on the runway. I'd organize the surprise. I'd 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:53.479 organize the next door neighbors to leave keys out like 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:54.880 I was going bit creepy, but I was going to 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.440 be in his house when he got home he was. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.080 It would have been the best surprise I have ever 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:02.400 pulled off. And that was probably one of the only 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.479 flights in my life that's ever been canceled. I was 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:06.640 on the runway to go and they canceled it because 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:07.880 of weather, and. 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:09.840 I was hysterical. 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.440 You would have thought I family member had passed away, 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.880 like because I was just so upset at how close 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.440 it was, and then it got taken away from me. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:20.119 Because the feeling is just so intensified. Like you said, 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.080 I'm always away from Ben. You're away from your family, 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:26.000 but you're not even speaking, so it's intensified. 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.479 Trust me, If I'm stuck in Singapore sitting on a 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:31.120 plane and the flight gets cancered with two kids, I 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:32.320 also will be hysterical. 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:34.360 You'd be happy. I will feel the same. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.119 No, I will if I am stuck with a cancer 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:40.240 layover with two kids in an airport, will be devastated. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:43.000 Have you ever given them for energen? No, that that 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:44.800 can be a bit of a dice roll. I don't 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.560 want to tempt that no drug. I'm also not like, 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:50.200 I'm not a melotonin mum. I've never done melotonin. 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.360 I know it works for a lot of people, and 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:54.600 like a lot of people are cool with giving melotonin 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.080 to their kids and like absolutely no judgment on that. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.520 I just kind of feel weird about it. 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:00.599 And my kids are relatively good, soly like they go 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:04.240 to sleep pretty that's a lie. I was like, do 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.919 I call bullshit on leads? Are fucking terrible, But I 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:08.800 still don't want to give the melotonin. I feel bad 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:13.720 about it. So actually the worst sleeper, Laura tried to 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:16.560 sleep on my face last night, so yeah, I really cat. 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.400 She's like it's really warm here, so she like lays 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:23.480 horizontal across my face. Anyway, that's it. So that's my 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.920 update for me, guys. I will once I know more, 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.120 you will be the first to know. 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:28.720 Well, that's always I'll already know. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.400 Yeah, but like once you know more about like how 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.520 it's been on our side, you know, you'll see what 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:34.280 plays out on TV. 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.320 But you know, I'll tell you. I'll update you on 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:36.960 the Mango and. 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:38.760 We're gonna get mad On and we'll chat all about it. 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:40.240 We'll catch up with him and see how it went. 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:41.119 Compare notes. 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:42.960 We'll get a Mango to sponsorship and. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.200 Roost Juice come for us, Mango Smooth. 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:47.920 This episode is brought to you by this Juice, and 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:49.840 I mean it's not I wish it was, but here 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:50.160 we are. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:51.440 Let's get into our vibes. 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.960 No n subscribed. Before we answer your questions, what's your 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:54.600 vibe of the week. 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:56.920 My vibe is a Netflix show. It's number one or 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.360 two at the moment, so it's not shocking. Apple Cider 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:00.880 Vinegar Okay. 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.320 I started this and I got like five minutes in 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:04.520 and I was like, I hey, this. 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:06.119 It was really hard. 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:09.400 I'm vibing it because I really loved the issues that 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:10.200 it highlighted. 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.200 More so so if you don't know what it is. 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:15.040 Apple Cider Vinegar is the Netflix show that is based 0:08:15.040 --> 0:08:18.160 on the story of Belle Gibson, who pretended she had 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.440 cancer scammed a lot of people like, really horrible. She's 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.360 the Aussie. I mean, most people know who she is, 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:25.760 but if you don't. They've turned it into a Netflix 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:29.280 series and they really lead into the fact that it's 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.520 fiction and nonfiction. It's based on a true story, but 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:32.640 we're also trying to make a. 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:35.800 Drama where Baby Reindeer. Oh no, they did. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:36.480 It's a theme. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:40.000 Every single episode is a bit of a joke on it. 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.280 One of the characters is in character and they look 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:45.199 at the camera and they were like, just to reiterate 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.840 whilst that we are making this drama, we want to 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:49.640 be clear that Belle Gibson did not make a cent 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.000 from this, And they really lead into the fact from 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.880 off the back of Baby Reindeer. But I like the 0:08:54.960 --> 0:09:00.880 fact that it highlighted the dangers surrounding with holding from 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:05.360 traditional medicine and only using like juice, cleanses and a 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.560 highlights that they go to Mexico and they do all 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:11.000 these meditation and whatever else to try and treat their cancer. Now, 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:15.640 I'm all for holistic approaches combined with traditional medicine, like 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.640 I think that they can go hand in hand, but 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.480 it highlighted the problems with foregoing medicine. 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:23.199 What was the name of her app that she had, 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.760 Bell Gibson, the whole pantry, the whole pantry. 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:26.880 So they talk all about. 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:28.600 It, they talk all about the app, they talk about 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:33.040 her whole story. It's really fascinating, and I guess I 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:34.920 want to say I learned a lot about her story, 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:36.400 but I also don't know how much was a bit 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:37.160 of added flavor. 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.200 I find it that this is an interesting vibe, you, 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.079 brit because I have, like you said, Kish, I have 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.840 heard very mixed reviews because I was really excited to 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.679 watch it, and when I first saw that it was 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:50.040 coming out. I find the Bell Gibson case devastatingly interesting. Like, 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:52.600 I really find it fascinating, but I also just like 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:57.280 cannot comprehend the hurt and the extortion that that was 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:01.760 to so many families who were already suffering with kids. Yeah, however, Yeah, 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.959 it hasn't had great reviews, and I wonder if it's 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.080 because of the way in which it's been created or 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:08.520 people expecting it to be more of a documentary style. 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:10.040 It's had mixed reviews. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.280 I think at the same time as I'm recommending it 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.760 that I enjoyed some of the themes in it. It 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.880 was also quite annoying at times, Like I was frustrated 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:20.960 and I was annoyed, so I don't know how. 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:22.640 I know there's a lot of people saying I don't 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:23.680 know how they can go hand in hand. 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:25.480 Did you like, like this is a recommendation, but you 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:28.440 might hate it. No, but you know why, I'm okay. 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.200 I was annoyed by the themes because you could see 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:32.920 what was happening. You could see that there were people 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.079 withholding using medicine, and it was frustrating because I was like. 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.640 I know what's going to happen, Like why are you 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:39.679 doing this? Listen to the doctors I was. I found 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:41.640 myself frustrated and angry. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.400 But I thought it was almost like I owed it 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:46.080 to the families that got. 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.440 Scammed that I wanted to watch it through. 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:49.840 I had like this weird attachment to it where I thought, 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.520 this is real people's lives, like I do want to 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:54.240 see this out and I do want to see what happens. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.360 Some of the acting was brilliant. 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:59.400 There's an Australian actress in it, Alicia Debenham Kerry, who 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:02.480 was Brillian. The lead girl is actually American. The girl 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:05.440 that plays Bell is American, and her Australian accent was 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:06.640 really really good. 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:07.880 Like, I take my hat off to it. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.680 Very divisive, It's not some people are frothing it and 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:13.040 some people are hating it. I'm sitting somewhere in the middle, 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.280 but enough that I was like, you know what, what 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:16.000 shouldn't tell. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:16.520 Me what you think? 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:18.839 That was similar with Baby Reindeer though, and I remember 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:20.880 even people in our own Facebook group were like, Keisha, 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:22.360 I think you're just a bit too basic for this 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.400 because you're not supposed to enjoy it. 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:27.400 You're supposed to feel uncomfortable by the content. And I 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:29.160 was like, no, that's not why I want to do here. 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:31.280 I am a bit more basic than I loved it. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.719 Anyway, My vibe for this week is it's a podcast 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.760 episode of mid which is done by hollywayen Wright at 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:40.679 Mamma Mia, and it is the episode with Amanda Kella 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:42.480 and her best friend Anita McGregor. 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:44.000 Now, Amanda Kella is. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.640 Someone that for a really really long time I have idolized. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:49.320 I think she is absolutely. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.240 Fantastic, particularly when I was in radio, when I was 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:54.240 like a radio host, I looked at Amanda as someone 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:57.360 that I just so wanted to be like, you know. 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:00.240 I think that she has this beautiful vulnerability in the 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.400 way that she talks on radio and the way that 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:04.320 she connects with people, and I just find her so 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:08.160 incredibly likable and intelligent. And her best friend, Anita McGregor, 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:13.400 is a forensic psychologist. So they actually have a podcast themselves, 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:14.839 and I have listened to that in the past. I 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:16.040 don't know why I haven't listened to it for a 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.240 little while. Actually I should get back into that. But 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:21.080 this particular episode that they did with Holly on mid 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.840 was about their best friendship, and it was about women's 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.040 friendships in general. And there was this little part that 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.160 Holly did at the start that actually brought me to 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.360 tears because she was talking about how she had this 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.200 best friend and they've been best friends for decades and 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.600 it was just such a special friendship that she's carried 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:40.959 with her throughout her entire adult life, and how they 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:44.320 have just been these pillars for each other and anyway, 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.960 she kind of went into this conversation and asking Amanda 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:49.760 and Anita, who have been best friends for seventeen years, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:53.359 how they have helped each other navigate different life stages, 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:56.719 different you know, parts of their friendship, whether they give 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:58.120 each other feedback that's. 0:12:57.960 --> 0:12:59.520 Honest or if they're just supportive. 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:02.200 And it was just one of those episodes that I 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:06.040 listened to and I was like, oh, fuck, female friendship 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.960 is just actually so important, you know, like. 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:11.480 You don't get that message from THEE on Top podcast. 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.679 Of course they do, but I think it's different when 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.319 it comes from people who are a little bit older 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:17.000 than me. I had a similar response when I listened 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.440 to Jane Fonder on Julia Louis Dreyfus's podcast quite a 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:22.320 while ago. I vibed that a long time ago because 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:24.400 they were just talking about female friendship and it was 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:28.839 it was a beautiful reminder for me of really nurturing 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:32.200 the friendships in my life because I will need them 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:35.120 over the course of my lifetime. So yeah, Mid with 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:38.080 Amanda Keller and Anita McGregor, it's the most recent episode. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.000 Well, my recommendation is for anybody who is potentially a 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:44.160 content creator or finds themselves needing to be hands free 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:47.440 and facing their phone, Britt you have on your phone 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:51.360 like a suction case. So like Brut's had this thing 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:54.200 on for a while og. It's like a full suction 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:56.480 case that you can like stick your phone onto anything. 0:13:56.480 --> 0:13:57.920 You could. I mean, I don't recommend it, but you 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:59.880 could stick your phone onto your laptop screen. I do that. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:01.920 You can stick it onto your window, you can stick 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.600 it onto anything, right Like it genuinely sticks to a wall. 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:07.280 So I tried the one. 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:08.440 That you have bre It, but I kind of hated 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:10.559 that I couldn't ever take it off the case because 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.439 it's very bulky and it's quite difficult to get your 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:14.560 phone in and out of your pocket. 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:14.840 Right. 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.760 So there is one that I have found which comes 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:19.600 with either a magnet or it goes directly onto the 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.000 back of your phone, and it is from Casemate. But 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.120 it's basically like an attachment that you can put onto 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:27.080 your phone which allows you to stick your phone anywhere 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:30.120 and do things hand free. So for us who are 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:33.240 constantly like doing stories or we're on our phones a lot, 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.560 I find it incredibly handy. 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:36.800 I think you guys are gonna be like, what the 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:37.840 hell is she talking about? 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:40.240 But if you're watching it on YouTube, you'll know exactly 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:41.680 what I'm talking about because I'm holding it up in 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:41.960 the air. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.240 They're so good the very handy. 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.720 I stick mine everywhere because I'm always talking to Ben. 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:48.800 So like when I'm cooking, just stick it on the 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.520 kitchen wall and I just will move around the kitchen 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.120 as i'm you know what I mean, Like it just 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.360 goes in going into the shower, having some sexy time, 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:55.080 goes on the window. 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:56.720 Well, I stick mine on the pelt. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.280 Like anytime I'm on the peloton, I stick it on 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:00.680 the screen of my peloton, and then I can do 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.080 do stuff whilst I'm working out. 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:03.920 I use it when I'm doing makeup. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:06.200 If I'm watching a makeup tutorial and I'm trying to 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:08.280 imitate it, I put it on the mirror next to 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:08.960 my face so I. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:12.400 Can do makeup tutorials and actually copy them like as 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:13.160 you're watching them. 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:14.280 I try to do. 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:15.520 I don't know that. 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.280 I don't know anyone who does that. 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.200 That's wow, really yeah, That's the only way that I'm 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:21.560 able to like do my I've had a lot of 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.520