1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,279 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: this land for thousands of years, and we show our 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: gratitude and respect for their contribution to our environment and culture. 6 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations, 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve. 9 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation, 10 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life. 12 00:00:55,280 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: Are you ready, my loves A welcome back to the podcast. Honestly, 13 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: if you would have told me when I was twenty one. 14 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: Ten years ago, when you're listening to this podcast like 15 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: who I am at thirty one, I would not have 16 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: believed you Like just the life I've created, you know, 17 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: my career, the business is beautiful. Ivy girl currently pregnant 18 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: with the second baby girl, you know, still with tim My. 19 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: It's not a school childhood, not a childhood, sweetheart, He 20 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 1: was I being together since. 21 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: I was seventeen, So you guys get what I'm saying. 22 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: But honestly, wild and I wanted to do this episode 23 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: of thirty one Lessons on my thirty first birthday. We 24 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: are recording this a little bit earlier because baby girl 25 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 1: is you very close to my birthday, and which means 26 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: she's going to be a LEO and truly O style. 27 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: She's going to steal the limelight. But I better get 28 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: used to it. 29 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: So it's fine. 30 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: We are prepping, and I have really been thinking about, yeah, 31 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: these thirty one Lessons for my birthday, and when I 32 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: do think of my twenty one year old self, experiencing 33 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 1: my life, having what I do, being who I am, 34 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: like I said, she would not have believed that, And 35 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: I think that's like the greatest thing about manifestation work 36 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,839 Speaker 1: is you create a reality that's better than you could 37 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: have imagined. Because often when we want to desire, when 38 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: we want a certain reality, we're limiting ourselves because we 39 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: only have our own perception and our own you know, 40 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: our own. 41 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 2: Constructs of what we think we want. 42 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: And so I'm just so well, firstly, I'm like so 43 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: proud of myself for just what I've achieved and who 44 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: I am, and the constant identity shifts and the constant 45 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: belief reinformments and reinforcement stories, and the constantly having to 46 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: do work on myself to be the person I am today. 47 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 2: I am very very proud of myself. 48 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: But let's get straight into it, because there's bloody thirty 49 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: one of these lessons. So the first lesson, These very 50 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: much are reflected of my current reality of about to 51 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: give birth, about to enter this new chapter of family 52 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: or four. So number one lesson is slower doesn't mean stuck. 53 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: It often means sustainable. And I feel like this lesson 54 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: really is come about because in society, society really celebrates speed. It, 55 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: you know, really celebrates us like going and going and 56 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: going and doing. And I feel like something that I've 57 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: been embracing this year that is really brave for me 58 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: because I was the hustler, I was the go getter, 59 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: I was the high achiever. Is I have totally slowed down. 60 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: I've taken a breath. I've been so intentional, and especially 61 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: with maternity leave coming up and my intentions with it, 62 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: is really instilling the belief that like slowness is productive 63 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: slowness is where I want to be, and just embracing 64 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: things like I'll never get this moment back, you know, 65 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: being present, like something I've been doing is when I'm 66 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: feeling anxiety or rushed or overwhelmed, I go back to 67 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: my five senses and I'm like, what can I see? 68 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 2: What can I smell? What can I touch? What can 69 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I taste? 70 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: And just being back in the present moment. And I 71 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: feel like this year, from my thirtieth to my thirty 72 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: first is I have embraced slowness in this whole new way, 73 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:02,799 Speaker 1: and the results of that has been I've just felt 74 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: so peaceful, like so much less anxiety, so much less 75 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 1: pressure to do it all. But in saying that, I'm 76 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: still doing it all, I'm still getting everything I want done, 77 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm still achieving things, the businesses are still going, I'm 78 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 1: still getting the results. I'm just feeling like so much 79 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: more peaceful during it. And it really has to do 80 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: with like the energy I'm embodying. 81 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: So that's our first lesson. Number two. 82 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: Becoming a mother is a whole identity rebirth. So motherhood 83 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 1: cracked me open. Like with IVY, I've been very vocal 84 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: about how much that kind of like, you know, fucked 85 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: me up basically, and for a long time, like when 86 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: I first became a mom, I was trying to get 87 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: back to my old self. And one of the greatest 88 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: things I learned was you can't. You can't go backwards. 89 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: You can't go back. 90 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 2: To your old identity. 91 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: It's all about embracing your new identity. 92 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: And so this big lesson is. 93 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: About even in pregnancy with baby number two, I have 94 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: this whole new identity coming through and I'm allready embracing her. 95 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: And it's like we sort of explained to you guys 96 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: with Rice and Conquer how we're shutting down the physical. 97 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: Products of our business. 98 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: And again that didn't make logical sense. Like logically that 99 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: arm of the business does extremely well. It's a very 100 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: like financially abundant. 101 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: You guys love it. 102 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: We had the demand, but there was just something in 103 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: R and C where I'm like, I need to simplify this, 104 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: I need to minimize things. I need to honor this 105 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: next chapter. And I know it doesn't make sense to everyone, 106 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: but it's like what I need to do. And again 107 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: that's me embracing this whole whole new identity that I 108 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: don't actually know about. And I think that's the biggest 109 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: thing with like becoming a mother is it's you don't 110 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: actually know what's happening. It feels super messy if it 111 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: doesn't feel clear, and that really just regulated and fucked 112 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: me up, like I said with Ivy, and this time, 113 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: I just feel so much more ready for it and 114 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,119 Speaker 1: so much more embracing of I'm stepping into this whole 115 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: new woman and I have no idea what she's like, 116 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: but I'm just like embracing it, like decisions, I want 117 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: to make what I'm feeling into and yeah, I don't know. 118 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 2: It just feels very. 119 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: Very good, And just like understanding that, like I will 120 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: be a whole new person, like I can always like 121 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: I can already feel her, but I will be a 122 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: whole new person, especially with this you know, new baby girl, 123 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: and just like being so open to like whatever I 124 00:07:56,240 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 1: feel and want is okay and embracing it okay. So 125 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: number three, your self concept is the strategy. I have 126 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: been so deep into self concept. And when I see 127 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: say self concept, guys, I'm just talking about what you 128 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: believe to be true about yourself is then reflected into 129 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: your reality. 130 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 2: It's then reflected into your life. 131 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: And so, for example, every single thought and belief I 132 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: have about myself, I'm taking a pause and I'm like, 133 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: does this serve me in where I want to be? 134 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: Does this serve me in the next chapter? Does this 135 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: serve me in just my self concept of who I 136 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: want to be? And I'm being so intentional with it, 137 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 1: and it just it feels. 138 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 2: Like that's the strategy. 139 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like I need a business strategy. It 140 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 1: doesn't feel like I need, you know, a strategy for 141 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: my social media. It doesn't feel like I need a 142 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 1: strategy for any of those external things. As long as 143 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: I'm focusing on my internal beliefs and my self concept, 144 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: that is the only strategy I need. 145 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:11,959 Speaker 2: I hope that makes sense. Number four. 146 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: Having it all looks different in every season. So like, 147 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: this is something I struggled with, Like younger me is 148 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: I always thought certain things meant success. So, you know, 149 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: my whole story of I became a lawyer because I 150 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: wanted to make my you know, parents proud, and I 151 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: wanted to prove myself in the eyes of society that 152 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: I was like smart and talented. But then I went 153 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: and did the law and got the job and I 154 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm so unhappy and so 155 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: like a pattern I have is I will do something 156 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,719 Speaker 1: because I think that's what I should do to get 157 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: a certain outcome, rather than in the moment being like 158 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: does this feel good? 159 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: Is this what I want? And I feel like we 160 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:00,719 Speaker 2: get really. 161 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: You know, stuck in it, especially with the rat race 162 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: of life with comparison on social media and Instagram and 163 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: so something I'm again being very intentional with this year 164 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: is what does success mean for me in this season 165 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: and honoring that rather than having to make it make sense, 166 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: Like even going back to the closing down the physical 167 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: product arm of Rise and Conker, again it's like it 168 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: doesn't make logical sense, and it's like, you know, people 169 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 1: might perceive that as oh, well, that's not successful, Like 170 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: what would be successful is going like bigger and better. 171 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: But for me in that moment, with capacity in my 172 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: business and what I want to do with my business, 173 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: that does mean having it all like that gets me 174 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: the outcome. And again it doesn't actually have to make 175 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 1: sense to anyone else. It just has to make sense 176 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: to me. And that has been huge because again it's 177 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: like this whole concept of asking myself at every stage 178 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: of business, at every you know turn of my personal 179 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 1: you know, career or like Instagram or social media, and 180 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: it's like, well, does this feel good for me? Like 181 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: does this mean I can have it all in Georgie's world, 182 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: not necessarily in the eyes of like what society perceives 183 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: as successful. And that really has been like life changing 184 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: this year. And we've also made quite a few changes 185 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: within for example Naked Harvest with just like what we're 186 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 1: doing in retail and a couple of things which again 187 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: not making logical sense, but for us, it's like this 188 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: feels really good, and this feels like really balanced, and 189 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: this feels like the direction we want to go. In 190 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: number five, the universe mirrors your boundaries, so this is 191 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: really interesting and again something I have been playing with. 192 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 1: But really what I've realized is what you allow is 193 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: what you attract, and every time you say no to 194 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: what's misaligned, you're opening up space for something better. And 195 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: again this is just being about like really diligent on 196 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: your nose and I feel like, you know, this would 197 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: probably be a life lesson every time I do a 198 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: birthday podcast, but just being so ruthless with like no 199 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: that doesn't feel good to me. And it's not just 200 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: in business or Korea. It's like in your personal life 201 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: with friends, with your partner. I think sometimes again, we 202 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: can be quite passive and we will just do things 203 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: because logically we should do that. Logically it makes sense 204 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: to do that in our career or personally, or you know, 205 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: we want to keep certain people happy. But I've just 206 00:12:56,720 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: noticed so much as like, when I'm honoring my boundaries, 207 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: everything is easier to deal with. And then it comes 208 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: back to me tenfold when I'm honoring my energy. When 209 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm honoring my boundaries, and I feel like that's like 210 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: every year I get clearer on the nose. 211 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: Okay, this is a good one. 212 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: So number six, feminine energy isn't about doing less, it's 213 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: about leading differently. So this lesson really came about because 214 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: when I found out I was pregnant again, I wanted 215 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: to have a different maternity leave than I did with Ivy. 216 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to have a different experience than I did 217 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: with Ivy's newborn stage. And I realized a lot of 218 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: it had to do with, like, you know, work, because 219 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 1: I'm in an interesting, a different situation where my husband's 220 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: a stay at home dad and I work full time, 221 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: but obviously when you have a newborn and your breastfeeding 222 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 1: and all the things, And so I was really this 223 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 1: year leaning into like what does it look like to 224 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: be in my feminine energy? And for so long I 225 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: thought feminine energy was almost weak and like, I'm I 226 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: can be a very masculine person. 227 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: I can be a very like doing let's get shit done. 228 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: And so I almost saw feminine energy as like passive, 229 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: which I. 230 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: Was like, no, not about you know, couldn't get on 231 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: this vibe of it. 232 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: But this year, I feel like I've embraced feminine energy 233 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: in a whole new way where it's really about being 234 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: supported and being led and being guided and being like, yeah, 235 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: I can do all the things, but I don't want to. 236 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: And it's this very like intentional, intuitive, magnetic soft energy 237 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: that feels like complete trust in the universe. And that's 238 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: what like the feminine energy is for me. And it's 239 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: like complete trust that, for example, Tim has my back 240 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: in this newborn stage, that you know we're going to 241 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: work as a team and it's going to be better 242 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: than I could have imagined. Complete trust in my team 243 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: that they have it sorted and if they don't they'll 244 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: figure it out, complete trust that if I do need 245 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: to make a decision, I'm going to make the right decision. 246 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: And it's like it's such a new embodiment of feminine 247 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: energy that I have never experienced before. And I think 248 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: it's because I always thought feminine energy was like doing less, 249 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: but it's that's not actually it it's like this whole 250 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: new level of surrender and trust and just knowing how 251 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: supported I am in every single aspect with like every 252 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: single relationship and every single. 253 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 2: Aspect of my life. And it just feels so good. 254 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: And I feel like younger Georgie would be astonished about 255 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: like how feminine I've been, even like Cooper will often, 256 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: you know, come to me with like problems in the 257 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: business and my answer, my reaction, He's. 258 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 2: Like, what's like, where's spicy? Georgie? 259 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: Like you're so you know, trusting and relaxed, and it 260 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:21,119 Speaker 1: always works out. 261 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 2: And it's so. 262 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: Funny because I just I did things in such a 263 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: masculine way. But the masculine way is harder, and it's 264 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: like biologically harder, especially for women because of what we 265 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: do and what our bodies do. And yeah, so that 266 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 1: has been like such a huge lesson this year for me. 267 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: Number seven, You don't need to prove your worth. You 268 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: don't need to earn it through overworking or pleasing. You 269 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: remember how worthy you are, and literally that's all that matters. 270 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: I used to place so much emphysis on my worth 271 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 1: being external and being from career accolades, you know, achievements, 272 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: people being happy with me, that it really took such 273 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 1: a toll on like my mental and physical health. And 274 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: I really feel like this year I have embraced this 275 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 1: whole new level of worthiness. Then I'm like, I want, 276 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: I have desires. If I have a desire, I'm deserving 277 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 1: of it. Like there doesn't actually need to. 278 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 2: Be a reason. 279 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: I don't have to explain myself to anyone. I don't 280 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: have to even. 281 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 2: Need to work for it. 282 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 1: I don't have to, you know, prove myself. It's this 283 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: beautiful energy of just being and like, just because I'm me, 284 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: at my like raw inner child's self, I'm deserving and 285 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: that again, I've never really experienced that until my thirties, 286 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: which is wild because now it makes sense of like 287 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 1: younger Georgie, how much she worked herself to burn out, 288 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: how much she worked herself, you know, to please other people, 289 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: to be seen in a certain light that was such 290 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: a detriment to again my mental and physical health that 291 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm just not doing that anymore, and it feels so liberating. 292 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 2: Number eight. 293 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: This is a classic quote, but you can be both 294 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: a masterpiece and a work in progress. And I kind 295 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: of just wrote under it like you're allowed to have 296 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: big dreams and big feelings. You're allowed to create magic 297 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: while still healing old wounds. And again, I think previously 298 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 1: I had this perception that I had to have it 299 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: all figured out, especially because I have this podcast and 300 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: you know, I give advice and I empower you know, women, 301 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: I would almost like not want to talk about a 302 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: certain topic if I was in the healing or in 303 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: the like being of it. It's like I would want 304 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 1: to get to, you know, feeling like a master of 305 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: it and then I could share. But I think something 306 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: that I'm really embracing is like not having it all 307 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 1: figured out and being okay with it, like things being 308 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: a little bit vessy, me being like I don't know 309 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 1: what my maternity leaver is going to look like, and 310 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what my new identity is going to 311 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 1: look like, but feeling so solid in that and being 312 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: so okay with it, and again it's like less of 313 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: this proving energy, less of this like superiority, superiority. Well, 314 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: I can't speak you, guys. I'm running off like limited 315 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: sleep within pregnancy in something up. 316 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 2: So bear with me, but like. 317 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: Less of that energy and just more of this is me, 318 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: like this is Georgie. I don't have it all figured out. 319 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm constantly changing identities. I'm constantly feeling into what is good. 320 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: Like I do often say in this podcast, like if 321 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 1: you knew me when I was twenty one, you don't 322 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: know me now, or like I hope if you listen 323 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,959 Speaker 1: to episodes back, you know right at the start, if 324 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: you're you know, a new listener. I hope I have 325 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: contradicted myself, like I hope I've changed, Like I hope 326 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: I've said some things that I say the complete opposite now, 327 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 1: because that shows evolution. That shows that I'm a human, 328 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: that I'm having this experience where I'm evolving, and I 329 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,199 Speaker 1: think a lot of and I think that's brave. I 330 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 1: think a lot of people are scared to do that, 331 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,360 Speaker 1: especially when their whole life is on social media. 332 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: Guys. 333 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: I literally share, like my deepest thoughts and inner knowings 334 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: with you in real time. 335 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm on social media in real. 336 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: Time and have to constantly deal with feedback like in 337 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: real time, and it's a lot. 338 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: It's a lot. 339 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: And I used to be almost a bit protective of myself, 340 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: where I wouldn't share my full self. I wouldn't share 341 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: the unknowns. I wouldn't share my fears or my doubts 342 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: because I felt like I had to show up in 343 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,719 Speaker 1: a certain way for you, guys. But like New Georgie, 344 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 1: honestly in her thirties, Georgie is just like this is me, 345 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: this is how I feel. 346 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 2: It might be different next. 347 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: Week, but because I feel so solid in my self concept, 348 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: that doesn't bother me. Because if you think that's not 349 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: put together or messy or like not right, I don't care. 350 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:34,640 Speaker 2: I don't care. 351 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: And also I'm like, well, that's a reflection of like 352 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: your inner world, not mine. And yeah, so just that 353 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 1: feels really really good. Number nine, Your nervous system matters 354 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: more than your to do lists, guys. I have been 355 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: on the biggest journey of nervous system regulation and it 356 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: has changed my life this year. So again, I used 357 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 1: to be so disregulated. I used to be so run 358 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: by my thoughts of fear, my thoughts of like I 359 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: need to do more, I need to achieve more, and 360 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: like this constant it felt like I was on a 361 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 1: hamster wheel. It felt like I had to just go 362 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 1: and go and go. And that's just regulation, Like that's 363 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: me not feeling safe within myself to just like stop 364 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,880 Speaker 1: and breathe and take a minute. And I have been 365 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: working on regulating my emotions. I do this every single 366 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: day with meditation, with padding, which is just like ifty 367 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: tapping and really being like intentional and obviously healing a 368 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 1: lot of like inner child things. And yeah, it's funny 369 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: because I'm probably doing like the least to do's I've 370 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: ever done, and I've never felt so successful, so peaceful, 371 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: so like me. And it's because I'm not being run 372 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: by my emotions. I am deciding them, I am being 373 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,959 Speaker 1: intentional with them. 374 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 2: And yeah, it feels fucking good. 375 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: Ten. Surrender is more magnetic than control. Look, you know, 376 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: I am a control freak, but like I think that's 377 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 1: a great aspect of me because it means I'm able 378 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 1: to like move through life in a certain way. 379 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 2: But lately I have really and this year really. 380 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: Released the like white knuckle grip on how things should 381 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: be and should look and the outcome I should get 382 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 1: and being in surrender. And I feel like surrender's been 383 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: the theme of like the last three years for me, 384 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: especially during my sad in return. But again this like year, 385 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 1: I found a journal entry of last year, I think 386 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: like mid last year, and you know, me and Tim 387 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: were going through some issues in our marriage. We didn't 388 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: know whether we wanted you know, or I knew I 389 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 1: wanted a second baby, but like that was wasn't really 390 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: you know, on the cards or happening because of our infertility. 391 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 1: I was really struggling in business, like I was just 392 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: like going through it like peak sat in Return vibes, 393 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,239 Speaker 1: and I just remember having this moment where I just 394 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: had to like practice what I preach and lock in 395 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 1: and I was like, look, Universe, like just show me 396 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: how good it can get, and just like complete surrender. 397 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: And so many things happened where like you know, our 398 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: house is now rented out, we moved into our dream house. 399 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: We're pregnant with baby number two, and again, all these 400 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 1: things happened in a way I didn't know the how, 401 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: but because I was surrendered. 402 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 2: They were able to come in in a really beautiful. 403 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 1: Way, even like from the fact of I really thought 404 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: we were having a boy and kind of had on 405 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: my head that we would have like, you know, a 406 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: girl and then a boy, like one of each, because 407 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: I only ever wanted two kids. And then with having 408 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: a girl, like I'm I'm like so excited because I'm like, 409 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 1: oh my god, I forgets a baby's sister. I also 410 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: really would love to have three kids, like just so open, 411 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: two things being different and not what I had expected. 412 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 1: And again it's like it just it feels so peaceful, 413 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: it feels so good. Number eleven, Oh my god, guys, 414 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: there's actually so many of these. 415 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 2: Let's power through them. 416 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:40,959 Speaker 1: My softness is my superpower. So again, this is just 417 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: like my whole new level of stepping into my feminine 418 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:49,400 Speaker 1: especially going on maternity leave and embracing this new chapter. 419 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's very self explanatory. 420 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,479 Speaker 2: I don't need to explain it. 421 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 1: And number twelve, this is okay, this is one of 422 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 1: my favorite things I've ever said. But being delusional is 423 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: often just being early. Let me explain, so you know, 424 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: when like something looks unrealistic and then like you know, 425 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 1: ten years. Like, for example, twenty one year old me, 426 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: if you told me on paper this is what my 427 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: life would look like, I'd be like, that's unrealistic. There's 428 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 1: no way I'm going to achieve that by the time 429 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm thirty, you know what I mean, Like, like what 430 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: the hell? But now, being me, being thirty, being who 431 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: I am, I'm like. 432 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course I've done this. 433 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: So like being delusional in your dreaming big is often 434 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: you just being early to the party. And the thing is, 435 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: once you achieve it, the people are going to be like, yeah, 436 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: of course you achieved that, Like yeah, it's huge, but 437 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: you're you because so of course you achieved that. 438 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: So like what. 439 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying now to myself is like when I have 440 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: like big desires or big goals or I'm like sinning 441 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 1: in that delusion, I'm just like I'm just early to 442 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: the party, Like I'm just early to this situation, and 443 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: I want to be early. I never want to be late. 444 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: I never want to be that person who only just 445 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 1: gets it. And especially with being intentional with your life, 446 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 1: you really should be delusional, like you really want to 447 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: see your life and be like, wow, I'm going to 448 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: experience this and that and this and that, and to 449 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: other people, it should feel delusional because otherwise, you know, 450 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: you're probably limiting yourself, you're probably playing small. And so 451 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 1: I just love this concept of like being like, no, 452 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 1: I'm yeah delusional, but that just means I'm early. I 453 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: thought you guys would like it to rest is a 454 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 1: business strategy, Guys. This has just come from all my 455 00:27:55,640 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: twenties of like being constant burnout and having constant physical conditions. 456 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: That has made me realize that like rest in business, 457 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:13,479 Speaker 1: meantime in business is so necessary. Number fourteen. Magnetism is 458 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: an energy. It's not an aesthetic. So like magnetism doesn't 459 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: look a certain way. It's not because the girl has 460 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,880 Speaker 1: a certain hairstyle or like active wear set or how 461 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: she presents herself. It's the way she feels about herself. 462 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 1: And I feel like magnetism is this like trend buzzword 463 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: going around like TikTok and social media, but no one's 464 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: really understanding it. And for me, I feel like I 465 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: have like stepped into my magnetism this year on a 466 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: whole new level and just realize how much it doesn't 467 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: look a certain way. It's how you feel number fifteen. 468 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: Becoming the next version. 469 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 2: Of you. 470 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: Requires sorry, grieving the old version. So every identity, we 471 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: obviously have to let go of the previous identity. And 472 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: I feel like, if you don't grieve the old identity, 473 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 1: just try and step into the new identity, you'll often 474 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: come up to roadblocks, and it's just because you haven't 475 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: processed that old identity. And so, for instance, you know, 476 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 1: I've had certain things come up with this pregnancy because 477 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: I have like a medical conditioning conditioning, I have a 478 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: medical condition where it means like I might have to 479 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 1: have a sea section. And it's like, honestly, if I'm 480 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: being very very honest with you guys, my old identity 481 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: was very not against sea sections, because it's like, you 482 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: do whatever you need to do. But because in my 483 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: head I had always like been like, oh, I'm gonna 484 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: have a natural birth like I did with Ivy, I 485 00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 1: had to grieve the part of me who to the 486 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:05,959 Speaker 1: natural birth while still processing and moving forward with you know, 487 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: this new sort of outcome. And if I didn't grieve, 488 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: if I didn't actually lock in and be like, yeah, 489 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm fucking a bit sad that this is the outcome, 490 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: because I thought it was going to be like this, 491 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 1: and I feel like a lot of the time we 492 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: try and suppress the emotions and then they pop up 493 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: in weird, funky ways. And so just like the biggest 494 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 1: thing I've been bracing is like I'm not suppressing emotions. 495 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: Like they come up, I validate them, and I'm like, yeah, 496 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 1: this does suck, but also I process them, I feel them, 497 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: I move through them, and then they don't like have 498 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: attachment to me, they don't like come up in weird, 499 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 1: funky ways. And again it's like so simple, but I 500 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: feel like most of us are just suppressing emotions that 501 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: we think we shouldn't have. Sixteen the best leaders lead 502 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: themselves first. 503 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 2: So this has been a huge. 504 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 1: Thing the last twelve months in business, because I'm not 505 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 1: gonna lie, there's been some like rocky stuff, especially with 506 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: like the economy, you know, internal stuff. There's been a 507 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: lot happening. And now that I'm we're kind of on 508 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: the other side, like me and Kiper just talking about 509 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: like how well things going in business and how like 510 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: goold we feel going on maternity leave, and like how 511 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: solid our team is. But it's like it wasn't like 512 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: that all the time. But we always led with like 513 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 1: integrity and with this beautiful like how would I want 514 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 1: to lead myself in this situation? How would I want 515 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: to move forward? How do I want to show up 516 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: that I would be you know, proud of And it 517 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,959 Speaker 1: just has like worked out so beautifully and such a 518 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: testament to you don't have to have it all figured out. 519 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,479 Speaker 1: You don't have to know exactly what's going to happen. 520 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 1: But it's like if you move through something in a 521 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 1: way that you're proud of, you can't fuck it. 522 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 2: Up, you can't get it wrong. Seventeen. 523 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: You don't have to be everything for everyone. And this 524 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: is just a whole new like you know, your energy 525 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: is sacred, You've got to protect it the right. People 526 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: love you for who you are, not what you give. 527 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: And I feel like this year has been again this 528 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 1: whole new socially being pregnant, like you just step into 529 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 1: this energy of like my energy is so sacred, and 530 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: I feel like maybe previously, if I wasn't trying as 531 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 1: hard in certain relationships or certain aspects of my life, 532 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: I would feel like scarcity and like, oh is that 533 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: person going to be okay? 534 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: Or am I going to be rest? 535 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,239 Speaker 1: You know less relevant if I post less and like, 536 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: you know, weird, funky thoughts, but like a whole new 537 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: level of just like, this is who I am and 538 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: this is what I can give, and I know that 539 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: that's enough, and that just feels so good to me. 540 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: Eighteen She's a simple one. Let it be easy, guys, 541 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 1: the ease I have had in my life in the 542 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: last twelve months with like moving house, businesses, friends, my relationship, 543 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: It's like I always am picking the easy option, and 544 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 1: not in the way of you think of like, oh, 545 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm not doing any work, but like so much of 546 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: our time and our everything, we are picking the harder 547 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: way because we think we have to and we don't 548 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,479 Speaker 1: let it be easy. And I feel like I've been 549 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: really like, what's the easiest option? If this could be easier, 550 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: how could it be easier? Number nineteen self abandonment isn't noble. 551 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: So again this whole new level of just like really 552 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: embodying myself and what that looks like and being so 553 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: unapologetic about it. I feel like you guys have really 554 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: felt that on my social media of just like this 555 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 1: is me, this is the season. 556 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 2: I don't have to prove or tell you guys about it. 557 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: Number twenty Stillness holds Answers hustle never will love that 558 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: title again. Georgie is in this whole new level of stillness. 559 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 1: I've never been less rushed, less anxious, less like so 560 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 1: peaceful and just like I was saying before, like Cooper's 561 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: like what why? 562 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 2: Like me, me and Cooper had. 563 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: This situation where we our lease is ending for our 564 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 1: warehouse for NH and we were thinking about moving into 565 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: this sorry, buying this new warehouse, but it would mean 566 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 1: financial pressure on the business. And I just turned around 567 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: to Cooper and I was like, I'm going on maternity leave, 568 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: Like I don't I don't need this, Like this is 569 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 1: not something I want. I don't want to put myself 570 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: in a situation like this. And it's funny because we 571 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 1: were then talking about it, and like previous Doorgy anything 572 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 1: like that, she would have been like, Yeah, let's go, 573 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 1: let's take on the challenge. 574 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 575 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 1: And that's what success would have meant to me, because 576 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: it would have been like moving through that challenge and 577 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 1: accomplishing it, and I would have. But for me right now, 578 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 1: it's like that's not what is important. I don't want 579 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 1: to hustle. I want to be in the stillness. I 580 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: want to be in the energy of not having to, 581 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,800 Speaker 1: you know, in that feminine energy. And again I feel 582 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 1: like old Georgie never would have understood that, and I 583 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: would have automatically defaulted to the hustle energy. Twenty one 584 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: last ten the version of you who dreams big, she's 585 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 1: not crazy. Again, this is like the whole delusional thing. 586 00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: I think we need to be more in our delulu. 587 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: I think we need to be more okay with our 588 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: current you know, three D and reality looking a certain 589 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: way and us just affirming and like using the law 590 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: of assumption of like, no, that's not happening. Like I've 591 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 1: been so in my delulu guys, where it's like I'll 592 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: have an actual conversation with someone and they'll say something 593 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 1: and after it I'll be like, no, that actually went 594 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: the complete opposite way, like they actually decided this, and 595 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: I'll move through my day, in my week or whatever, 596 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 1: and then it will just come into fruition like that 597 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: is that's full delusional. But it's like, I think more 598 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 1: of us need to be in that delulu of really 599 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 1: asserting in our belief system internally, of like what we 600 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: want what we want to be true, what we want 601 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,920 Speaker 1: our reality to be. We're just pausing this episode for 602 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: a second to tell you about the Abundance Academy. This 603 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:03,800 Speaker 1: is our sign thirty day money mindset and energetics course 604 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: that is going to change everything about how you show 605 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: up with money. Imagine never being stressed out about bills 606 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 1: or spending money ever again. Imagine feeling like money's actually 607 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 1: got your back. 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All right, let's get back into 624 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 2: the episode twenty two. 625 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: If it costs you your piece, it's too expensive. I 626 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 1: probably should have told the warehouse story to this lesson. 627 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 1: But the same thing applies of you know, whether it's 628 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 1: a business decision, a friendship, an opportunity. If it feels draining, 629 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: even if it's like logical, don't do it, that's it. 630 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: Don't do it even with us closing down like the 631 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,800 Speaker 1: physical arm of ironc not logical. But I'm like, not, 632 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 1: I've got to close it. 633 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 2: It's draining me. I need to move on for whatever reason. 634 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: Something's going to come of it, I know. But also 635 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 1: I don't need to have the proof first. And that 636 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,879 Speaker 1: kind of leads into my next lesson twenty three. Sometimes 637 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:13,880 Speaker 1: dream the dream changes, and that never means you failed. 638 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 2: And again old. 639 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: Georgie used to need to like see things out. That's why, 640 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: like with my law degree, I knew, I literally knew 641 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,760 Speaker 1: even a year out before I had finished, I probably 642 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 1: wasn't going to practice law, but I was like, well, 643 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 1: I've just got to finish it because I've already done, 644 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 1: you know, five years, and I feel like a really 645 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 1: great strategy. Sorry, A strength I've been leaning into is 646 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: letting go and being okay with things changing and being 647 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: okay with Yeah, a couple of years ago, this was 648 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: the dream and the vibe and now it's not anymore, 649 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: and being okay to say that to you guys too. 650 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: I think I used to be so scared to change 651 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 1: my mind because of what I thought it meant. Yeah, 652 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 1: oh now vibe for that, okay. Twenty four. My triggers 653 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:12,280 Speaker 1: are my portals. Literally, our triggers are our best friends. 654 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,840 Speaker 1: So like any time that you're getting triggered or like 655 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:21,400 Speaker 1: shit's going down, using it as a moment to heal. 656 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,359 Speaker 2: Because like, if you get triggered, it's not really. 657 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: About the other person. Like, yes, people can be assholes 658 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: and shitty people, et cetera, et cetera, but it would 659 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:38,799 Speaker 1: never bother you unless it was actually something about you internally. 660 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: And I'm about to do a post on this, but basically, 661 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: like that's why I love being on social media and 662 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 1: being like in front of everyone, because I get so 663 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 1: much real time feedback that I constantly get shown light 664 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 1: to my triggers and shit I need to work on 665 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 1: and heal, and it's honestly been like the best growth 666 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: experience for me person, because if I get a comment 667 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 1: on social media or someone like disagreeing or like, I 668 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: don't know, saying something shitty, if like the first level 669 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 1: is just being like, oh my god, you know that 670 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,839 Speaker 1: person's had a bad day, or like they're clearly in 671 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 1: their life not liking their life, and that's how I 672 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: know I'm unbothered, and that's how I know I'm like, 673 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm good in this situation. 674 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 2: But if the. 675 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,920 Speaker 1: Comment triggers me and I need to go and like 676 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 1: vent to someone about it or I need to go 677 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: talk to someone about it, it's showing me something that 678 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:37,840 Speaker 1: is either actually true in that comment that I don't 679 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 1: like about myself or it's it's showing me something and 680 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:44,799 Speaker 1: again not being like that person's you know, shit, that 681 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: person blah blah blah, but looking inwards and being like, okay, 682 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: so do I think I'm a bad mom, Do I 683 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,760 Speaker 1: think I'm a you know, I don't know whatever they're. 684 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,799 Speaker 2: Saying, and again using your triggers. 685 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 1: To feel the parts of yourself that you need to. 686 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,760 Speaker 1: That's all that triggers are. They're not bad, they're actually 687 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 1: really really great. Again, huge learning spot for my thirties. Okay, 688 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 1: twenty five, you can be in your feminine and still 689 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: be wildly successful, wildly successful. 690 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,280 Speaker 2: Again. I had this really warped. 691 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 1: Perception of feminine energy. I didn't really understand it, and 692 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 1: this year I have really stepped into it, like receiving, resting, flowing, 693 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: and again, so many things have come in that I'm like, Fuck, 694 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 1: that was so easy and it never had to be 695 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: that hard. I never had to go through so much. 696 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: I never had to go through the work and the challenges, 697 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,759 Speaker 1: like actually could have been so much easier, but I 698 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,360 Speaker 1: was always picking such a masculine way of doing things. 699 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,879 Speaker 1: And so I feel like I'm at my really at 700 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,080 Speaker 1: the start of my journey with my feminine energy, and 701 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to see that evolve. But I did 702 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 1: want to put that in there. Twenty six Trusting my 703 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 1: body so again, like I said, I do have some 704 00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: pregnancy complications, some stuff going on, and I'm really in 705 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:21,120 Speaker 1: this new level of like my body knows how to 706 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,560 Speaker 1: sort itself out and not in the way of like 707 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 1: sort itself out so I have a natural birth, so 708 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: I have the thing I want. But in the way 709 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: of like, I trust my body if I do need 710 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,799 Speaker 1: to get a C section to heal and recover, and 711 00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: it will actually be a genuine great experience. I trust 712 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: my body with making a baby, with making a healthy baby. 713 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: I trust my body with my cues, with you know, 714 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 1: telling me when I'm hungry, when i'm full, when I 715 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: need to rest, all those sorts of things. Number twenty 716 00:43:53,680 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: seven Baby steps always matter more than you think. Again, 717 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 1: every single day, it's like this is such like a cliche, 718 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 1: but it's like, what's something small that I can do 719 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 1: for my future self that she would be proud of? 720 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: And it's like really small stuff and that's what adds up. 721 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,239 Speaker 1: And I even have this like affirmation I say in 722 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,440 Speaker 1: the morning where it's like it's all adding up. 723 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 2: Like all this small stuff. 724 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 1: The decision to you know, pick a healthier meal compared 725 00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: to like the takeout I really wanted, it's all adding up. 726 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: The decision to do a couple more steps in this pregnancy. 727 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:37,280 Speaker 1: It's all adding up, the decision to rest instead of hustle. 728 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 2: It's all adding up. Number twenty eight. 729 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 1: The external will never validate my internal again. This is 730 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 1: like my whole journey of I used to be in 731 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: such proving energy. I used to want people to see 732 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 1: me a certain way. I wanted everyone to have the 733 00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 1: perception of me in a certain way way and just 734 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 1: realizing how much that doesn't fucking matter, and how much 735 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 1: that will never bring you peace, happiness and contentment. And 736 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,399 Speaker 1: what does is when you look inwards and you heal 737 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 1: the triggers. When you do that work, when you are 738 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 1: constantly looking inwards and making decisions from that angle, that's 739 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: when you can't fuck it up. That's when you do 740 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:28,080 Speaker 1: finally feel at peace and really good in yourself. 741 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 2: Twenty nine. 742 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 1: Your dream life is usually just one bold decision away. 743 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 2: I love this so much, And like. 744 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 1: What I've written down is like the version of me 745 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:46,879 Speaker 1: who has it all is not making decisions from her 746 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: past self. She's making decisions from her future self. It's 747 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:55,839 Speaker 1: usually a bold decision, because if it wasn't bold, then 748 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to stay in the past. 749 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:58,320 Speaker 2: Does that make sense. 750 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,359 Speaker 1: It's like it is going to feel uncomfortable. It is 751 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,279 Speaker 1: going to feel a little bit like shit, am I 752 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 1: really doing this? Because otherwise you're just going to stay 753 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 1: in the same reality. And for me, it has been 754 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: about embracing that stillness, embracing the slowness and the rest 755 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 1: that feels uncomfortable, comfortable for me, that doesn't feel like right, 756 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,720 Speaker 1: Like I am so much more comfortable in the hustle, 757 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: in the doing, in the achieving that like slowing down 758 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:33,279 Speaker 1: feels really wrong to me, which is so funny and 759 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 1: interesting and so like that feels like a bold decision 760 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: for me to come on here and be like, I'm 761 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: taking maternity leave, I'm resting, I'm shutting down this part 762 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,919 Speaker 1: of my business, and I don't know what I'm doing. 763 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,960 Speaker 1: Like those feel like bold decisions to me, whether you 764 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: know that you think they are or not. And again 765 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: it's not decisions previous Georgie would make. But that's how 766 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 1: I know I'm evolving and I'm finally stepping into that 767 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,359 Speaker 1: next identity. 768 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 2: Number thirty. 769 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 1: Peace is the new success. 770 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 2: Guys. If it doesn't. 771 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 1: Give me peace, I literally don't give a fuck about it, 772 00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 1: and I don't care and I don't want it. Sorry 773 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,319 Speaker 1: for this way, I'm so passionate about it. Like it's 774 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 1: not just about money or status or whatever. You know, 775 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 1: society wants you to prioritize. It is about how you 776 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: feel inside. If it's going to make you anxious, fearful, 777 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,919 Speaker 1: if it's going to make you burn out, like it 778 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: is not worth it. But there is a way to 779 00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 1: do things in a beautiful, sustainable, peaceful way. It's just 780 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 1: about you figuring it out. And the last lesson, life 781 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: gets to feel extremely good all the time. And this 782 00:47:54,920 --> 00:48:00,000 Speaker 1: is like again, I truly believe, like if you want 783 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:04,360 Speaker 1: want a desired reality where you feel joy and peace 784 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,799 Speaker 1: and slowness and acceptance, and you know, like whatever you 785 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:14,520 Speaker 1: want to feel, you have to embody that now, no 786 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,759 Speaker 1: matter what is happening in your current lifestyle, in your 787 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 1: current three D, you have to embody the energy you 788 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 1: want now. And so the biggest thing I've been doing 789 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: is like when shit has been going down or just 790 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,280 Speaker 1: like even just when life feels like average or stuck 791 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 1: or stagnant, like I've been leaning into like, oh my god, 792 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: this is better than I could have imagined, Like things 793 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 1: feel so fucking good, like old Georgie cannot believe how 794 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 1: good life currently is, and like really embodying that energy 795 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:54,840 Speaker 1: and it's insane. What is like unfolding in my reality? 796 00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 1: And it's just from being in the energy of like 797 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: life gets to be really good all the time. Anything 798 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,280 Speaker 1: that says otherwise is an illusion and is not my truth, 799 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 1: and being so embedded in that belief all right, my loves. 800 00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 2: There were a lot there to cover. 801 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: But they are my thirty one lessons, vibes, beliefs for 802 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: turning thirty one. 803 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,879 Speaker 2: When you guys listen, it will be. 804 00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,360 Speaker 1: My birthday, so happy Leo season to anyone else. 805 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 2: Who's a Leo. 806 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: And I'll probably have a newborn or just about to 807 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 1: have a newborn. 808 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,879 Speaker 2: So I'll be in the thick of it. 809 00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,839 Speaker 1: But thank you so much for listening. I really appreciate it. 810 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 1: Love you guys, thank you for stinking around. And again, 811 00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 1: if you listen to some of the first episodes of 812 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 1: Rise and Conker, I think I am about like twenty 813 00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,720 Speaker 1: three or twenty probably twenty four, So like the fact 814 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 1: that you're still listening now when I'm thirty one, while 815 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 1: thank you for being here.