WEBVTT - MINI: Laura met Matty J BEFORE The Bachelor? 🌹

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies, there's a story that I need to tell you about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's beautiful. It really will warm your soul. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone finds their love on dating apps these days. But

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<v Speaker 1>you found Ben, your fiance on dating app?

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<v Speaker 2>I did. Yeah, I'm getting married from that dating app. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I found mine on a TV show. Does that count?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Very unrelatable, yeah, not relatable, but yes it does count.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a beautiful story. This couple from Minnesota in

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<v Speaker 1>the US. They met right and they're married. What they've

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<v Speaker 1>realized is they are the perfect couple for each other,

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<v Speaker 1>like divine intervention has made these two get together. They've

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<v Speaker 1>both been married, previously separated, then they found each other

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating app. What they realized was not only

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<v Speaker 1>were they a perfect match, they were also born in

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<v Speaker 1>the exact same hospital at the exact same day, on

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<v Speaker 1>the exact same year, to.

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<v Speaker 2>The same mum.

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<v Speaker 1>No they're not.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought they were going to be a lot of quincident.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Minnesota, But I don't think they're related. No, get this.

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<v Speaker 1>They even went to the same kindergarten as each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, her mum was looking at old footage when

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<v Speaker 1>they were kids and went, wait, is that your husband

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<v Speaker 1>in the background and it was him sitting behind her

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<v Speaker 1>eating an apple.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they remember each other from kindergarten?

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<v Speaker 3>Or it was like when they they met each other again,

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<v Speaker 3>they're like, oh my god, look at all these coincidences

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<v Speaker 3>from the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Well know that they had no idea because they had

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<v Speaker 1>failed marriages beforehand that didn't work, and they have just

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<v Speaker 1>said that they believe they're each other's soulmates from the

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<v Speaker 1>day they were born, the moment they were born they

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<v Speaker 1>got married, and guests who officiated the wedding teacher their

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<v Speaker 1>kindergarten teaching.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I love. Do you know what they call this

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<v Speaker 2>a meet cute?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what meet cute is, right the way in

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<v Speaker 3>which the story of which you met your partner, or

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<v Speaker 3>some might say soulmate. And I know I met Matt

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<v Speaker 3>through The Bachelor, so that in itself is kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a bit of a meet cute my husband, Matt. But

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<v Speaker 3>we I feel really nervous saying this story because I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want people to run away and think that we

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<v Speaker 3>knew each other before the show itself but were married

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<v Speaker 3>before the show. Well no, because there was lots of

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<v Speaker 3>articles that came out back when The Bachelor was on

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<v Speaker 3>saying that Matt and I knew each other before the show,

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<v Speaker 3>which wasn't the case. But the reason why that story

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<v Speaker 3>came about was because so maybe about four months before

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<v Speaker 3>we were ever on the show, I went to Bondi

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<v Speaker 3>Iceberg's this one day and I was in the sauna

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<v Speaker 3>and I looked up and there was this incredibly handsome

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<v Speaker 3>man sitting there and he was looking at me. I

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<v Speaker 3>had this moment where it was like back and forth,

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<v Speaker 3>back and forth. He didn't say a single thing to me,

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<v Speaker 3>but I just had this real sort of moment of like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, he's so beautiful, and why is he

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<v Speaker 3>looking at me? When I left that day from the sauna,

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<v Speaker 3>I kept wondering why he hadn't come and said hello.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought about it for quite a bit of time. Afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>I was you would to me because he was so no.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't that all myself.

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<v Speaker 3>He was just so obviously engaged and looking at me,

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<v Speaker 3>and it went over such a long period of time,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was like, oh, maybe I was in my

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<v Speaker 3>own head about it. Anyway, we went on our first

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<v Speaker 3>single date on the Bachelor, and this never got shown

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<v Speaker 3>on the show, but I said to him, look this

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<v Speaker 3>is either going to make me sound completely insane or

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<v Speaker 3>and I didn't get the words out.

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<v Speaker 2>He turned around. He said, Oh, you're the girl from

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<v Speaker 2>the sauna.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, he said, I recognized you the minute you were

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<v Speaker 3>walking down the red carpet.

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<v Speaker 2>It was all the sweat, and yeah, I was very sweaty.

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<v Speaker 2>You were pretty beautive.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a really nice meet cute, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was in that moment where I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe this is meant to be, and here we are,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, seven years later, we're two kids.

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<v Speaker 2>That is shore. I have a pretty big coincidence for

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<v Speaker 2>how I met my fiance.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we both decided coincidentally at the same time that

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<v Speaker 3>we wanted to have a one night stance.

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<v Speaker 2>What are the odds?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's what?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that not what we're what a beautiful romantic story

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<v Speaker 3>about how you guys are soulmates.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait for you to take your children.

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<v Speaker 1>One day, IMAGES called, hey, Jen, what's your crazy coincidence?

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<v Speaker 4>I was seeing this guy a couple of dates, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>one Tinder, you know, going well, and then he absolutely

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<v Speaker 4>just goes to me and then we were me and

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<v Speaker 4>my housemates, We were someone last we were looking for a

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<v Speaker 4>new housemate. We popped it up on like Facebook. Must

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<v Speaker 4>have been somewhere anyway. He ended up turning up not

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<v Speaker 4>knowing it was my house, and then turned out for

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<v Speaker 4>an interview.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy that ghosted you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, what idiot?

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<v Speaker 2>What did he say? Did he move in?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't say we let Oh that is so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know what he said when you actually

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<v Speaker 3>when he got there at the door, was it his

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<v Speaker 3>facial expressions or did he say anything?

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<v Speaker 4>He just would have like completely to me and then

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<v Speaker 4>like just continued on with the ghosting, and I just

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<v Speaker 4>I just kind of completely blaked me and spoke to

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<v Speaker 4>my other house mate.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, did you get me one more time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>No? All right, Oh sorry, God forbid? Thanks you calling

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<v Speaker 2>me there you go. See, well, I mean that one

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't a nice one neither. It was britz to be honest.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I've got to get say mine then

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<v Speaker 3>in a husband and a great night.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look coming up, I have a question for you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>As a parent, if you know that your child is

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<v Speaker 3>getting picked on or bullied, when do you step in

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<v Speaker 3>and when do you decide to kind of let them

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<v Speaker 3>figure it out themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's the line.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually genuinely I don't know how you do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very stressful. It's really stressful.

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<v Speaker 3>And something happened to us on the weekend where I

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<v Speaker 3>really had to put that to the test. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know whether to intervene when my little girl was getting

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<v Speaker 3>picked on.

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<v Speaker 4>Laws.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that's next on the pick up.