WEBVTT - How to make a hard decision 🦋

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<v Speaker 1>I really kind of did it in a way of

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<v Speaker 1>already being that next level goal or that next level

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<v Speaker 1>self and then like what happened is that came into fruition.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm your

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<v Speaker 1>host Georgie Stevenson, former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality

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<v Speaker 1>and personal development junkie. This podcast is for my girl

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<v Speaker 1>gang who want to feed their mind with positive and

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<v Speaker 1>expansive thoughts to help them step into their power and

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<v Speaker 1>live their most authentic life. Which had a variety of

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<v Speaker 1>topics including mindset, business, relationships, health, and so much more. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you are on your journey, I want to help

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<v Speaker 1>you feel inspired and empowered to rise up and conquer

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<v Speaker 1>your next bold move. I know that's going to look

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<v Speaker 1>different for everyone, but just no, I'm right here by

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<v Speaker 1>your side and that you have the RNC community behind you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this. Hello and welcome back to the Rise

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<v Speaker 1>and Conquer Podcast. It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and

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<v Speaker 1>today we have a solo EPP where we are chatting

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<v Speaker 1>how to make hard life decisions. This is for someone

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<v Speaker 1>if you're maybe at a crossroads, if you're struggling to

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<v Speaker 1>know what you want. Maybe you're struggling to tap into

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<v Speaker 1>your intuition and you're just like, someone tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. This episode is for you. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a short one, but a good one. And so

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<v Speaker 1>the inspiration for this episode was I was actually reading

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<v Speaker 1>through my emails for advice with g which I get

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<v Speaker 1>you guys to send an email and I do a

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<v Speaker 1>little advice episode, which I was gonna do today. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was reading all the emails, you know, copying paste

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<v Speaker 1>the ones I was going to answer, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>had this like overwhelming feeling of of just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like how I could answer them all and every single

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<v Speaker 1>question I kind of had the same response. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was really about, you know, like I get asked these

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<v Speaker 1>questions what should I do? And they explain their circumstances

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<v Speaker 1>and this and that and what should I choose? And

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<v Speaker 1>should I stay with my boyfriend? Should I not? Should

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<v Speaker 1>I leave my job? Should I not? And like when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes down to it, and I know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>get when you want to ask, you know, I get

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<v Speaker 1>the polling, and polling is kind of you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>ask your friends, you ask your family, but honestly, no

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<v Speaker 1>one knows what to do accept yourself like you're inner intuition,

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<v Speaker 1>your inner self, your inner compass knows exactly what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need to listen. You just need to get quiet,

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<v Speaker 1>and you need to trust yourself. So yeah, this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to chat about that. I'm actually just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna quickly close my door because I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys can hear that traffic All right, I'm back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So basically I want and it's it's interesting because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually going through a kind of similar situation where I

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<v Speaker 1>have been going through a couple of crossroads of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>different decisions that have come up and where I'm deciding

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<v Speaker 1>if I should you know, go a new way or

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<v Speaker 1>done something I've always done, and just various things, and

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I wanted to dedicate this episodes. So the

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<v Speaker 1>felt like the ultimate answer of how I make hard

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<v Speaker 1>decisions or you know, when I'm at a crossroads is

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<v Speaker 1>I asked myself, what would the next like, my next

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<v Speaker 1>level self, what would she do in this decision? So

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to be hard if you've never really

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<v Speaker 1>fleshed out and explored your next level self. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going to help you do. But that's I

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<v Speaker 1>guess the basis where we want to go because our

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<v Speaker 1>next level self is yeah, like literally our next level self.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the person we're aspiring to become. It's the person

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<v Speaker 1>who has you know, already manifested the things you want

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<v Speaker 1>to manifest. It's the person who has already accomplished what

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<v Speaker 1>you want to accomplish. It's the person who you know

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<v Speaker 1>got the pay rise, who was bold enough to start

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<v Speaker 1>the business, who was bold enough to show it confidently

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<v Speaker 1>and go after the thing and ask the person out,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know that person that it's still us, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like this next level self. But what we

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<v Speaker 1>don't realize is that person is literally around the corner.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I always say to you guys is if

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<v Speaker 1>something is on our hearts, if we can imagine something,

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, like a great thing to think about

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<v Speaker 1>is I don't know, I don't know if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do it, But like in a meditative state, I will

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<v Speaker 1>visualize the future. I will envision my future self. I

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<v Speaker 1>will envision my life what I want. And I can

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<v Speaker 1>see that very clearly. And I'm such a big believer

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<v Speaker 1>that if I can envision that, if I can dream that,

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<v Speaker 1>if I can, you know, see that and feel really

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<v Speaker 1>connected to that. Sorry, guys, my speaker literally unblogged itself

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<v Speaker 1>because I was getting passionate and not the computer. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm a big believer that if I can envision that,

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<v Speaker 1>that can be true to me and that is a

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<v Speaker 1>possible reality for me, kind of like, for example, like

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, I have never wanted to be a teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never wanted to be an artist. I've never wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be a singer. Like there are things that it's

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<v Speaker 1>just I've never wanted to be, whereas there's other people

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<v Speaker 1>who they would love to be an artist. They aspire

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<v Speaker 1>to be, you know, a singer or a teacher or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, these different aspects of life. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean about. I truly believe like if something is

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<v Speaker 1>on your heart, if you can envision something, then that

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<v Speaker 1>is a possible reality for you. So when I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about your next level self, like she is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be so different to my next level self. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna bother like giving you an example, but basically

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna run you through a practice where I ask

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<v Speaker 1>you a whole bunch of questions to envision that person

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<v Speaker 1>and so I'm a big believer. Also, like, once you're

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<v Speaker 1>so clear on your next level self, it will be

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<v Speaker 1>so like the next step, the next decision will be

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<v Speaker 1>so clear if you're making it from that next level

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<v Speaker 1>self rather than your current self, because your current self usually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, usually you can't pick because you either have

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<v Speaker 1>fear around not succeeding, or you have fear or you

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<v Speaker 1>have negative experiences from the past that are like almost

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<v Speaker 1>tainting it. There's there's a lot of limiting beliefs that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we all currently have. So when we can

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<v Speaker 1>kind of make decisions from this next level self, from

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<v Speaker 1>this like you know, I guess we can call it

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<v Speaker 1>our higher self, who has done what we want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>who has achieved the things, who has manifested that and

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<v Speaker 1>like the person who really believes in themselves. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>gets so much clearer for me. And so yeah, anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling unclear, I'm like, oh, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. And I notice this because I will do

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing where I poll people and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, mel like you know this and that what

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<v Speaker 1>should I do? I will talk to Jacinta Tim or

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<v Speaker 1>my mom, and I notice I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm literally asking everyone else. Whereas Georgia, you always know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. You always know you can tap into

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<v Speaker 1>your inner compass, you're inner intuition. And just a quick note, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>is intuition is such. Intuition has just been so huge

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<v Speaker 1>for me in my life and making next steps and

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<v Speaker 1>making choices, and it's definitely something I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>like a whole episode about, because I believe, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're tapped to your intuition, you're kind of invincible

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like nothing can rock you. You feel so

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<v Speaker 1>secure in yourself, you have so much clarity around yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and who you are and how you show up, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when you have a decision, you can kind of tap

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<v Speaker 1>into it. So that's also huge. I was actually thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about because intuition, me personally, it's like something we're all

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<v Speaker 1>born with and it's something we will have, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like because of society and just the way we

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<v Speaker 1>learn in school, we almost unlearn it. And so I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on this huge journey with my intuition where I

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<v Speaker 1>now feel very strong with it, but only just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>three or four years ago, I had no intuition and

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<v Speaker 1>it really led me astray. So another thing I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about doing is the next round of my Rise

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<v Speaker 1>and Conquered project, which will be around mid year. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of adding like a mini training all about intuition

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<v Speaker 1>that everyone can do, like before they start the project

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<v Speaker 1>to really like tune into that because yeah, it's epic

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like one of my one of my

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<v Speaker 1>best tools that I've ever developed, that's completely free, that

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<v Speaker 1>has just changed my life. Not to be dramatic, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>r n C. Fam, We're taking a quick break and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you, guys, are you getting your

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<v Speaker 1>daily recommended intake of three fruits and five veggies? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes maybe I feel you on this. Wow. So, in

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect world, we are getting all our vitamin minerals

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<v Speaker 1>and needs from our food directly. But because we live

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<v Speaker 1>such hectic lives and our soil is often lacking from

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<v Speaker 1>under the wellness tab. Okay, enough about Gorgeous Greens. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get back into the show. But yeah, so let's get

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<v Speaker 1>into these higher self questions, your next level self again,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be worried if you've never kind of thought about

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<v Speaker 1>things this way, listen to this questions. Like obviously, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're driving, you're not gonna write them down, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>just have like a think in your head. Otherwise, come

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<v Speaker 1>back to this podcast when you do have a bit

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<v Speaker 1>more time and like you know, pause it and have

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<v Speaker 1>a journal and write things down. You're never going to

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<v Speaker 1>regret like doing this sort of stuff, guys. And also

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<v Speaker 1>I will get my podcast manager to put these questions

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<v Speaker 1>in the show notes, which might be helpful for you too. Otherwise,

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<v Speaker 1>actually she can just wrecked you to a blog that

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<v Speaker 1>actually should have these questions. So yes, that's what we'll do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would just go through them now. So when

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<v Speaker 1>you think of your next level self, what is the

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<v Speaker 1>energy they encompass? Are they confident? Are they grounded? Are

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<v Speaker 1>they calm? Are they certain? What is the energy? What

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<v Speaker 1>time do they wake up in the morning? Actually might

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<v Speaker 1>say it in the way of like what time do

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<v Speaker 1>you wake up in the morning, because you are your

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<v Speaker 1>next level self? Sorry, guys, let me reframe that. So

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<v Speaker 1>what time do you wake up in the morning, What

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<v Speaker 1>does your morning routine look like? What sort of traits

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<v Speaker 1>do you hold? What sort of friends do you have

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<v Speaker 1>or better yet, what sort of people do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to hang around with? How much money are you earning,

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<v Speaker 1>What does your day look like, what are you wearing,

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<v Speaker 1>what sort of job or career do you have, what

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<v Speaker 1>sort of music do you listen to? How do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about yourself? And then the last question I want

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<v Speaker 1>to want you to ask yourself is like this next

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<v Speaker 1>level person, what are they sure about? What do they know?

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<v Speaker 1>And even if you're a little bit unclear about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe what job you have or any of those questions,

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. I want you to fantasize. I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to visualize and be like, you know, what would it

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<v Speaker 1>feel good to me for that person? You know to

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<v Speaker 1>be that rhyme too? And basically, guys, this has helped

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot. So for example, like when I started

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, I knew I wanted it to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to be you know, one of the top charts podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted it to be to like a very go

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<v Speaker 1>to self development podcast and really kind of up there.

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<v Speaker 1>So like when I first launched it, I acted as

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<v Speaker 1>if that had already happened. You know, I did two

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts a week. I made sure I put a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of time and effort into my questions. I was asking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my guests, I had show notes like I

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of did it in a way of already

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<v Speaker 1>being that next level goal or that next level self.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like what happened is that came into fruition.

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<v Speaker 1>So like another example, and I'm pretty sure I've told

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<v Speaker 1>this on the podcast. Was when I was practicing law

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted a promotion, and I was like a

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<v Speaker 1>law clerk, and I really wanted this was I law clerk? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was a law clerk, and I wanted the

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<v Speaker 1>promotion of a law graduate, which is kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>next up once you finish your degree, but you're still

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<v Speaker 1>doing your pot which is you know, practical legal training,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you have to do before you become a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember knowing the stats of like not many

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<v Speaker 1>people got that promotion. So I kind of sat there

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, how would my next level self

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<v Speaker 1>show up? Like how would this next person who had

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<v Speaker 1>already got the law grad position show up? And it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like little tweaks. Like I remember at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't put too much effort into my appearance in

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<v Speaker 1>regards to like what I wore to work. Not that

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<v Speaker 1>I looked bad, but it's like I wasn't that corporate

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<v Speaker 1>was I kind of looked around and I noticed that

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<v Speaker 1>all the lawyers, you know, they wore heels, they wore

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<v Speaker 1>these like portman suits. They took a lot of pride

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<v Speaker 1>in their appearance, and they showed up. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>started doing that, I started wearing heels, I bought a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of nice suits, and even like I remember my

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<v Speaker 1>boss at the time was like, oh, Georgia, and like

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<v Speaker 1>she really noticed that I was kind of showing up

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<v Speaker 1>in a different way. And it's not like that was

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<v Speaker 1>the only part. It's like, you know, I would get

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<v Speaker 1>in early and I would stay late, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of going above and beyond. But it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when we kind of want that next level goal or

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<v Speaker 1>we want clarity on our next steps, it's like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>think of our next level self, Let's think of our

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<v Speaker 1>dream life. Let's think of like us in the position

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<v Speaker 1>we really want to be in, and then make the

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<v Speaker 1>choice from there. So, yeah, just a little episode, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope this is helpful. I usually get this sort

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<v Speaker 1>of download if you know someone needs it. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>guessing there's a couple of people going through some i know,

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<v Speaker 1>either life choices or they've got some they've got some

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<v Speaker 1>crossroads coming up. But this is also just like a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice exercise to do if you are lacking clarity

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<v Speaker 1>with your life. So if you kind of just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like what am I even doing? And also with the

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<v Speaker 1>exercises like it's okay. If you can't exactly describe your

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<v Speaker 1>next level self, you just almost need to get into

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<v Speaker 1>the energy and have a bit of a vibe. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, maybe you don't know what your next level

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<v Speaker 1>self does as a career, but maybe it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>you get into the feeling of I feel so fulfilled

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<v Speaker 1>or I'm an absolute boss babe. I go into work,

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<v Speaker 1>I run the show, I have this huge team, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's like I work from home. Just think of

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<v Speaker 1>what you want, because you do know what you want.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, oh, what you like. It's just about putting

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<v Speaker 1>it out there and also realizing that it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to sit down in one sitting of journaling

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<v Speaker 1>and being like, oh, I know my next level self,

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<v Speaker 1>I have so much clarity. I'm tapped into my intuition.

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<v Speaker 1>This is amazing. It's like I'm laughing. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like if, yeah, if you're feeling a bit untapped out

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<v Speaker 1>of your intuition, if you're feeling a bit lost, if

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<v Speaker 1>you have got crossroads and everything's feeling a bit fuzzy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, make some space and make some time to

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<v Speaker 1>do this journally exercise, you know, not just once but

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times a week, because I guarantee you

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<v Speaker 1>different stuff will come up. And when you're giving yourself

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<v Speaker 1>space and when you're giving yourself more room to dream

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<v Speaker 1>and more room to really embody that next level self,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll get more comfortable and you'll be able to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>manifest that and really bring that in to fruition. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys so much for listening. I appreciate it so much,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will chat to you in our next episode. Bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening for another rn C episode. I

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciate taking the time to be here with me,

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