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Speaker 1: Welcome to your Diary episode. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I'm a bit of a nomad, so these episodes come

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Speaker 2: the time, so I'll share with you what's going on

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Speaker 2: in my world, from book tours, animal encounters, delish meals,

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Speaker 2: nature adventures, health discoveries to swimming in Hidden Byron Bay Beaches.

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Speaker 2: Come with me as I share my adventures with you. Hello,

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Speaker 2: and welcome to Part two of the book Special series.

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Speaker 2: So these episodes are it's a three part series. So

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Speaker 2: if you miss part one that came out last Friday,

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Speaker 2: it'll be in the you know, the scrolling history or

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to go back, but it's all

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Speaker 2: you go back to the oh my goodness, the navigation.

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Speaker 2: But if your pod your pot app So part one

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Speaker 2: a book. This second episode is actually breaking down the

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Speaker 2: first part of the book. So we talk about the

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Speaker 2: chapters and I'll kind of unpack them a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I'll give you a little bit of like behind the

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Speaker 2: bit because of this, and then next week's episode we'll

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Speaker 2: be tackling the second part of the book, which is

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Speaker 2: more like the toolkit, the things that I tried on

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Speaker 2: that worked really well. It's the g up, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's like I'm your cheerleader. So that's the aim of

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Speaker 2: the game with this series. So it's a really nice

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Speaker 2: short series. It's the three part series. This is part

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Speaker 2: like it. The book is officially out now and available

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Speaker 2: everywhere big W Target, Kmart Dimmicks, pretty sure it's at

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Speaker 2: Collins as well, QBD. I'm trying to think where I

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Speaker 2: signed in Sydney. I signed it so many beautiful bookstores

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Speaker 2: all over Sydney, so it's out and about and by

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Speaker 1: So the way that the.

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Speaker 2: Book's broken down, and you can probably hear me flicking

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Speaker 2: that in the part one of this series, and then

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Speaker 2: today we look at the contents of the first part

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Speaker 2: of the book, so Fear, Failure, love and heartbreak, Acting

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Speaker 2: in human behavior and success, And then next week we'll

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Speaker 2: look at the second part of the book, becoming Bulletproof,

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Speaker 2: your toolkit do the work right, Oh, let's do this,

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Speaker 2: which is the g up so part one. The first

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Speaker 2: chapter in part one is called Fear, and I really

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Speaker 2: Each chapter there's like a little takeaway or inspiring quote

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Speaker 1: And this is a really cool quote.

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Speaker 2: My biggest fear is doing the same thing ten years

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Speaker 1: Love George Clooney, love him, love him, love him.

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Speaker 2: So this chapter is all about fear, and I talk

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Speaker 2: So the start says this, all of us have felt

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Speaker 2: And I've written here how to work on your fears.

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Speaker 2: But when you're feeling fear and it's not warranted or

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Speaker 2: Get perspective, sit with it, welcome it, feel it. That

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Speaker 2: podcast I interview this incredible author called Candice Fox. She's

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Speaker 2: I'll read you a little pin from failure. Failure my

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Speaker 1: redo it. All.

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Speaker 2: We write about expectation here, we talk about how success

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Speaker 2: we me I always has, success is messy. We'll talk

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Speaker 2: How to become more successful, trusting intuition, importance of being

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Speaker 2: all in. And here's the bottom I will finish with

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Speaker 2: the bottom line bit success. The bottom line. Know that

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Speaker 2: success looks different for everyone. Don't expect other people to

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Speaker 2: understand your dreams, but don't put up with their back

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Speaker 2: with their bagging them out either. Oh yeah, talk about

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Speaker 2: the dingos like the haters. So don't expect other people

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Speaker 2: to understand your dreams, but don't put up with their

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Speaker 2: back with them bagging them out either. Live with no regret.

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Speaker 2: Drop the need for fame and overnight success. It will

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Speaker 2: not serve you. Do what it takes, work hard, be

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Speaker 2: all in. So, yeah, that is like the part one

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Speaker 2: of the book, and then the next part is kind

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Speaker 2: of like the bit where you're like, oh cool, I'm

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Speaker 1: There's a bit nutrition stuff in, here's video stuff.

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Speaker 2: So in the next episode we're going to tackle part

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Speaker 2: two of the book. And like I said, it's a

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Speaker 2: three part series. So episode one is the last Friday's EPP.

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Speaker 2: Then you've got this episode here, and then next week

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Speaker 2: will be the third episode, just.

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Speaker 1: To give you a taste of the book.

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Speaker 2: And like, thank you for like even listening to the

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Speaker 2: book and supporting it. And like I've seen like mates

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Speaker 2: at airports now that we can travel again, like filming

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Speaker 2: little VIDs of seeing the book at the airport, Like

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Speaker 2: that means loads, Like that might mean that one made

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Speaker 2: of yours season goes I'm going to have a squize

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Speaker 2: of that book. So thank you so much for all

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Speaker 2: of the book support.

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Speaker 1: It means so much to me.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, it's it's it wouldn't be here without you.

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Speaker 2: Like sure I can write it and the publishers can

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Speaker 2: publish it, but like you're the people that get it

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Speaker 2: over the line. You're the people that actually support it.

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Speaker 2: And go out and buy it. Like, without you, it

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Speaker 2: doesn't exist. So thank you from the bottom of my

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Speaker 2: heart and I look forward to chatting to you next week.

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Speaker 1: More about the book, Big Love Boy,