WEBVTT - What are your values? ft. Coopa (The Magic of Discovering Yourself Part 2)

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we have mindset, self development and becoming

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<v Speaker 1>your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop in life pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the second episode of our Magic of Discovering Yourself series.

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<v Speaker 1>Deep conversations and strong connection is such an important part

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<v Speaker 1>of life, and the feedback we often get is how

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<v Speaker 1>hard it can be to find people to have these

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<v Speaker 1>conversations with or just start these conversations in general. So

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<v Speaker 1>in part one of this series, I sat down with

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<v Speaker 1>my husband Timothy, and in this second part I am

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down with my brother, Cooper and co founder of

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<v Speaker 1>Naked Half as Supplements. So for these interviews, we are

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<v Speaker 1>actually using our brand new prompt cards. These are from

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<v Speaker 1>the Magic of Discovering Yourself deck and these are launching

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<v Speaker 1>at R and C on Tuesday next week, the twenty fourth,

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<v Speaker 1>the twenty fourth, Thank You a Tire, and we created

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<v Speaker 1>these cards to help you connect deeply with those around

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<v Speaker 1>you and use them to help facilitate some of those

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<v Speaker 1>deeper conversations without it, you know, feeling awkward and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it just it gets the conversation going. Me and Tim

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<v Speaker 1>fine when we do these cards, because we do them

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<v Speaker 1>every date night, it gets the conversation going and then

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<v Speaker 1>we will go off on other conversations and it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like an ice breaker, but it's me and Tim

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<v Speaker 1>have been together for over ten years, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked about everything, so it's really great to bring

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<v Speaker 1>up new things to connect and talk about. And something

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<v Speaker 1>to add to that is, you know, we do have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of feedback in our community of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to I want to find people to have

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<v Speaker 1>different to have deeper conversations, Whereas you actually can usually

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<v Speaker 1>have it with the people you already have, they just

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<v Speaker 1>have never been like initiated and open to having these conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a really good way to introduce deeper conversations

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<v Speaker 1>with people who maybe aren't into self development, maybe who

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen to the podcast, and like kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>ease them in because you know, if they love you

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like open to it. Oh, me and him

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<v Speaker 1>have also done it with like with his parents and

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<v Speaker 1>like my parents, and it really does open such a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful like conversation and connection. And yeah, it's really it's

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<v Speaker 1>really powerful.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing, and I feel like you always will go

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<v Speaker 2>on a tangent, but in the best way. I've also

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<v Speaker 2>used them on my own for journaling, which I've loved

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<v Speaker 2>as well. They're very very good prompts to just unpack

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<v Speaker 2>by yourself if you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I love that. Yeah, So they're available next Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>But I hope you enjoy this episode and will have

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<v Speaker 1>all the details on socials or will have links in

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<v Speaker 1>the show notes if you want to check out the cards.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get into it, I tear a quick

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<v Speaker 1>weekly update.

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<v Speaker 2>G Do you want to go first?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yay, it's been busy.

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<v Speaker 1>She's had a couple of big weeks. So last week

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<v Speaker 1>we had our Busygal event. It looks so cute, so

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<v Speaker 1>we called it the Busygal Wellness Summit, And this was

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<v Speaker 1>in celebration of our brand new product, the Busygal, which

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<v Speaker 1>is an all in one shake for those times when

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the go and you don't have access to like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whole food, or you're going to skip a

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<v Speaker 1>meal or something like that. And it's a really quick,

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<v Speaker 1>easy shake that has all like a balanced macro profile

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<v Speaker 1>of like proteins, fats, and carbs that you need to

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<v Speaker 1>feel full, and then also a whole bunch of micronutrients

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<v Speaker 1>that are specifically formulated for a female's body. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like your zinc and your icy iron and your calcium

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<v Speaker 1>and your vitamin D. I showed my mum and she

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<v Speaker 1>has some health issues that she's currently dealing with and

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<v Speaker 1>all all like of the micronutrients, she's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I need this. So she's actually been taking it for

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<v Speaker 1>the micro news aspect, so that was really exciting. We

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<v Speaker 1>did our event and it was in Sydney, our first

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<v Speaker 1>interstate event, which was it was wild. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>really surreal moment for en h. It felt very like

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<v Speaker 1>next level vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>It looked incredible and the panelists also looked amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah. So we had an incredible panel

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<v Speaker 1>of a whole like all different work walks of life,

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about how they prioritize their health and wellness

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<v Speaker 1>during those busy times. And what I loved is like

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<v Speaker 1>everyone looked so different and that was the whole point

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<v Speaker 1>of the summit is to be like, guys, health doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>look one way. I know, in like the health industry,

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<v Speaker 1>it can seem like there are a lot of right

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<v Speaker 1>and wrongs. And something we said is like there's no

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<v Speaker 1>right and wrong. You've got to listen to what feels

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<v Speaker 1>could figure and understand that like you might be in

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<v Speaker 1>a different season to someone else, and that's okay to

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<v Speaker 1>really like honor that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. So, yeah, that was incredible. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>I then spoke at a conference that friday, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>And then this.

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<v Speaker 1>Weekend I have a wedding in Adelaide, So big week,

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<v Speaker 1>lot's happening. I do feel like I'm getting a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit sick, but I'm like determined not to be sick.

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<v Speaker 1>I have just been keeping on too all the things.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it has been in incredible a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>What about you, titty, Oh, this week's been pretty chill.

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<v Speaker 1>But tomorrow I have signed up for a nine kilometer

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<v Speaker 1>obstacle course. Why you are so rogue on it?

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<v Speaker 2>I am. It's I signed up with my friend thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>silly little obstacle course, it'll be a bit fun, paid

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<v Speaker 2>for the ticket and then she said, I'm so glad

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing it. I don't think anyone else is going

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<v Speaker 2>to do it with me. And I was like why,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's just a.

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<v Speaker 3>Bit of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I looked at the course map and it's

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<v Speaker 2>nine kilometers and sixty obstacles, and like a tough mother,

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>About to say, is it tough mother vibes? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so exciting. I'm excited. I'm actually really excited for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot wear It'll be out of my comfort zone

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<v Speaker 2>because I also haven't trained for it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is it with Christina no Kara, Okay, she's asthmatic,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I will walk the whole thing because I was like, shit,

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<v Speaker 1>that ain't gonna be that's fun. Yeah, I love that

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<v Speaker 1>it ta. Should we get into the upside? Yes, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it, all right, Cooper, the magic of discovering yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. Thank you so much for joining us.

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<v Speaker 3>So happy to be here again. It's my favorite place.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to say it. Well, I haven't been on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast with you in a long time, but you've

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<v Speaker 1>been on the podcast a lot, so I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>need to intro yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we get straight into it? Yea, let's have some

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<v Speaker 1>connection time with our conversation cards and discover ourselves. Cooper,

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<v Speaker 1>what is your least desirable trait and why is it

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<v Speaker 1>not desirable?

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<v Speaker 4>My least desirable? We're going straight in desirable pretty hard

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<v Speaker 4>because I've got so many good ones. It's probably that

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<v Speaker 4>I can be a bit impatient, and I have been

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<v Speaker 4>working on that a fair bit.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's you.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to You have to kind of be patient

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<v Speaker 4>if you've got three kids.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Better than when I had one kid. But it is

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<v Speaker 4>something that I want to work on a bit more

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<v Speaker 4>because I was just driving in the car to come

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<v Speaker 4>here with my wife and our newborn, and yeah, she

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<v Speaker 4>was crying pretty hard and I was not talking, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was I just get really distressed and impatient that

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<v Speaker 4>I can't talk to her.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, so that was a well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like discomfort. Like anytime you have discomfort, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to like move through it fastly, and that's like

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<v Speaker 1>a very normal human thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like in that scenario, I was distressed and because

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<v Speaker 4>my sweet little girl is crying and not I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to cry. So I'm just being impatient of like not

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<v Speaker 4>just taking a deep breath and thing and it's all good.

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<v Speaker 4>She's just crying because she's got a bit of pain

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<v Speaker 4>and she's in the car and we're going to stop

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<v Speaker 4>soon and it's all good. But I'm like, no one

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<v Speaker 4>can in the back of my head now one can

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<v Speaker 4>see that, like freaking out. But yeah, just admit impatient.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's with a fair better of other stuff as well.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't know, but yeah, working on it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so why do you think it's not desirable to

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<v Speaker 1>be impatient?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that if you're fully patient, you're at peace

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<v Speaker 4>in my head and you're just in zen and you're

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<v Speaker 4>just nothing's going to bother you, and yeah, you're in

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<v Speaker 4>a peaceful state.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's almost like a state of surrender, like a

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<v Speaker 1>state of like whatever will be will be. And how yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like how freeing that is to be in that state

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<v Speaker 1>rather than needs to be this way.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you know a lot about this, Jorde.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never experienced it is exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I wonder where we get it from.

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<v Speaker 4>I wonder what about you, George. It's your least desirable trait?

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<v Speaker 4>Why is this not desirable?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think of any.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't covy me. You want me to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I would love for you to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me about it, but I'm going to go first and

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<v Speaker 1>then you can and then we'll discuss this after. I

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<v Speaker 1>think mine would be that I am. I can be

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<v Speaker 1>a control freak, so I can be very you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it is the It's like, on one side, it has

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<v Speaker 1>made me a very driven person and a very successful

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<v Speaker 1>person because I am like so driven and laser focus.

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<v Speaker 1>But then the shadow side is very like I can

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<v Speaker 1>be controlling and I can not let anyone be able

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<v Speaker 1>to help me or see things a different way, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it has to be this way otherwise nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously it can be undesiring because one around me

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<v Speaker 1>is feeling controls.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Which obviously is not a nice feeling. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably probably my most yet undesirable What would you

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<v Speaker 1>what would you say?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, why is it not desirable?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I think yeah, like if others around you always feel controlled,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they don't feel supported or seen.

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<v Speaker 4>Mmmmm, yeah, they don't feel like they have the control

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<v Speaker 4>and they can do what they want and express their

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<v Speaker 4>feelings because they just want to please you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, anyway, doesn't sound like experienced.

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<v Speaker 4>You were very strong when we first started, but I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like you have worked on that a lot and

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<v Speaker 4>where you are right now, which it's yeah, taking you

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<v Speaker 4>a bit, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are actually really good. I must say. I think you're

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<v Speaker 3>a lot better.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying. I've been really trying to work on.

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<v Speaker 4>This, Like it's not that bad, but yeah, you just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of get over stuff eventually with experience, but then

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<v Speaker 4>now it's very good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Any other undesirable traits I have that you

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<v Speaker 1>can think of.

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<v Speaker 4>Impatient one another one the same as me.

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<v Speaker 1>I am pretty much. We had that conversation this morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know the controlling you're very controlling. Yeah it's

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<v Speaker 4>a good one, but like, yeah, it's benefited you massively,

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<v Speaker 4>so I would.

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<v Speaker 1>Say it's a blessing and a curse.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea.

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<v Speaker 3>All right? Go next? What are your values as.

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<v Speaker 1>A human as opposed to an animal?

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<v Speaker 3>Who wrote these? Jamie?

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<v Speaker 1>I actually did my values the other day, so let's

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<v Speaker 1>go through them. So my values.

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<v Speaker 4>From the start your most important down to your least important.

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<v Speaker 1>So you want me to rank them?

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<v Speaker 3>They should be ranked here? I reckon, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think something that has always taken precedent in my

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<v Speaker 1>life or like just always been the highest is my

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<v Speaker 1>value of my purpose that like my purpose all also

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<v Speaker 1>happens to be my career.

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<v Speaker 3>Fancy that which is quinit eazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So that I'm not gonna lie. That's always kind of

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<v Speaker 1>been my first And it's like, what is it my

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<v Speaker 1>purpose to help women see like to help women be

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<v Speaker 1>authentically themselves and to see like what they can truly

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<v Speaker 1>have to really see themselves?

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<v Speaker 3>Which would do want for a woman? Empower them?

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<v Speaker 4>That's like what you preach it always where are you

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<v Speaker 4>going with this?

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<v Speaker 3>A women to stand up and yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, empowering women to like be their authentic self to

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<v Speaker 1>go after what they want. But that's also my career,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's kind of like my first value. My second

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<v Speaker 1>value is family like Tim and ivy yep. My third

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<v Speaker 1>value is self care time like me time where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>filling up my cup, and then it goes to wellness.

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<v Speaker 1>Wellness is such a huge value for me. And then

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<v Speaker 1>my last value is integrity. Integrity, Yeah, it's always been

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<v Speaker 1>something blame well. Very much like if I say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to do something, I do it what I believe in.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in wholeheartedly, and you know, like I trust

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<v Speaker 1>myself and I move forward even if outside people are

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<v Speaker 1>saying other things. It's like just being integral with like

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<v Speaker 1>who I am no matter what, and that's always something

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<v Speaker 1>that's like that word has always stuck with me and

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<v Speaker 1>just being a huge like yeah, that is a value

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<v Speaker 1>of mine.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice, I like it. There's some good values.

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<v Speaker 1>But in saying that, like since actually doing the exercise

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<v Speaker 1>of doing values, and we could even do a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>at some point going through like how you come up

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<v Speaker 1>with your values, you'd probably be really great to do

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<v Speaker 1>that podcast giver. Yeah, like I did, And it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like I'm being very transparent and like vulnerable with

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, of like I do want family to be

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<v Speaker 1>my first one, not my second one. And that's just

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<v Speaker 1>me being really honest of like where I am at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. So that's actually like kind of a goal

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<v Speaker 1>I have of like shifting those first two because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to get to a place where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's yeah, that's the first value that I prioritize

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<v Speaker 1>my life.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I do like to say your values can change, even

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<v Speaker 4>your purpose can change. Like everything evolves and changes, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's okay to change them. Yeah, So I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's a big thing to know that, And yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 4>on a cool journey.

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<v Speaker 3>And she goes changes.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit changes, last words, shit happens. Guys. What about you?

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<v Speaker 1>What are your values as a human.

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<v Speaker 4>Well as a human. Glad we clarified that, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>So I go from the top, and my top is

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<v Speaker 4>my wife. My wife is everything to me. She's my

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<v Speaker 4>best friend. We do everything together. She is my biggest

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<v Speaker 4>support person. She we just have too much fun together

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<v Speaker 4>and we always laugh and us whenever I have something,

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<v Speaker 4>I got to talk to her, and yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 4>do have a few of those people, but yeah, so

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<v Speaker 4>she's number one. My next and the next one is

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<v Speaker 4>my kids. And I did have my kids at number one,

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<v Speaker 4>but it just wasn't sitting well. Because when I'm good

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<v Speaker 4>with my wife, then my kids get my best self.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why my wife's at the top.

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<v Speaker 1>And then happy wife, happy life.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're egal.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely has a lot of power in some most areas,

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<v Speaker 4>but I got a few. But yeah, So then the

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<v Speaker 4>second one is my kids. So I like to I

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<v Speaker 4>think I have spoken on the podcast about this, which

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<v Speaker 4>you probably haven't listened to my podcast, but anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you listen to all my.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so my kids.

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<v Speaker 4>So I like to work whenever I got a big

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<v Speaker 4>decision in my life, I like to work down through

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<v Speaker 4>my values and make sure each one's ticked off in

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<v Speaker 4>that manner. And that's just kind of how I work

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<v Speaker 4>in my head logically. So then yeah, it goes my kids,

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<v Speaker 4>all three of them, they're all equal. And then after

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<v Speaker 4>that is at the moment helping people in a way

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<v Speaker 4>of gaining knowledge. So I'm getting a bit of fabit

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<v Speaker 4>of passion towards gaining knowledge around like the psychology of

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<v Speaker 4>the way we all act and the way our feelings

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<v Speaker 4>come up and how we process them and what that

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<v Speaker 4>sort of thing, like how that happens in your life.

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<v Speaker 4>And that has sparked up with my coach.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know what.

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<v Speaker 4>Glim, so yeah, I like what he does and it's

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<v Speaker 4>really cool. So after that is like you said, well,

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<v Speaker 4>like boldness, health and challenging my body, like always looking

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<v Speaker 4>to have nice foods and we all have splurges, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's very good to have those things.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's I'm at a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>Where I'm having more healthy foods that if I have

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<v Speaker 4>something bad, oh my god, it gets me so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I just feels.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give a very sensitive system. Though.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's getting more sensitive because I'm going more healthy

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm not used to it.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's like it's good.

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<v Speaker 4>And then yeah, always exercising and challenging my body, so

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<v Speaker 4>doing ice baths, acupuncture mats and doing hot yogurt gym

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<v Speaker 4>and sports stuff and I don't know, it's always challenging

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<v Speaker 4>my body and my mind. Yeah, and then there's one more,

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<v Speaker 4>but I always forget it for some reason my businesses

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<v Speaker 4>and Georgia is a big value, so that hand in hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that my career was first and yours is last.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm in a different journey, the very interesting like

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<v Speaker 4>you might get there if you had more kids and

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<v Speaker 4>you get to that point, but you might not.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows, who knows, she changes, she changes. That was

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<v Speaker 3>a very long answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, next card, I'm going to ask you this in

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<v Speaker 1>two separate questions, so you've got to answer the first

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<v Speaker 1>one and the I'm going to ask you a lead

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<v Speaker 1>up question. Okay, name someone else who inspires you?

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<v Speaker 3>How many people?

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<v Speaker 1>One person?

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<v Speaker 3>My life coach? My coach at the moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Why does he inspire you with.

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<v Speaker 4>His knowledge and what he's doing to help people has

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<v Speaker 4>changed my life but also change my perspective on the world.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And what makes you different from him?

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<v Speaker 4>Probably like a foot, he's really too bluddy jokes do comedian?

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<v Speaker 3>Truthfully is knowledge?

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<v Speaker 4>So I would like to gain his knowledge for sure,

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's what really inspires me of what he's got.

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<v Speaker 4>Love that, Georgia, Name someone else who inspires you?

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<v Speaker 3>Two part question, like I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what's coming that I've got another sneaky question who

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<v Speaker 1>inspires me? I honestly would have to say you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like at the moment, yeah, like you're someone

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<v Speaker 1>who very much inspires me with your openness to see

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<v Speaker 1>things differently and like have so much self awareness and

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<v Speaker 1>really like you've been putting in so much work with

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<v Speaker 1>your family and you know ash like you said, your

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<v Speaker 1>wife's your best friend, and really exploring this other part

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself where you are gaining more knowledge and doing

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<v Speaker 1>things outside the box. And it's something that like not

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people do, and it's really inspiring because

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<v Speaker 1>you're just doing life differently, and I love when people

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<v Speaker 1>do life differently.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct. Thanks, I did not expect that.

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<v Speaker 1>My heart was kind of racing it really, like what

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<v Speaker 1>is she gonna say?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I was thinking who you would inspire At the moment,

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to think.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I can think of.

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<v Speaker 3>It's beautiful. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>What's of all?

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<v Speaker 4>Because when I said it, I had my coach, but

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<v Speaker 4>it was two people.

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<v Speaker 3>It was you as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to say to people, well you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'll remember that.

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<v Speaker 3>What makes you different from your brother?

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<v Speaker 1>Your brother that inspires me? Well, I guess it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I do tend to. It's really interesting because I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>bit contradicting of like, you know, I preach a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you know, draw outside the lines, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to fit yourself in a box. And I have done

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<v Speaker 1>that in a lot of ways, you know, in my

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<v Speaker 1>career and what I believe. But then in other ways

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<v Speaker 1>I have very much put myself in a box. So

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<v Speaker 1>even you know, with your open minded thinking and doing

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<v Speaker 1>things differently and being open to that, that's really what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Oh, that's something that I want to strengthen

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<v Speaker 1>in myself of being more open to change, being more

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<v Speaker 1>open to Like I find that you do surrender really

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<v Speaker 1>well too, and that's like I'd love to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to like surrender and m yeah that kind of instet.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah really cool, Like you want to do that, but

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<v Speaker 4>you're doing it. Yeah, but it's really cool to see

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<v Speaker 4>and watch and it's yeah, but it's good that you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>But I love how you're just like you just do

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<v Speaker 1>life on your own terms, and you're just like I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I just focus on me. I do me, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>just like not too worried, and you're like I just

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<v Speaker 1>know it will work out. I'm like, whoa, whah, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>You need a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>We need a plan, and we need lots of control,

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<v Speaker 1>and we can't trust anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I know. Another one of mine is I trust people

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<v Speaker 3>too much. You are very too easily, and I like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you are.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's it works both ways because if you're trusting,

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<v Speaker 4>you gain really trusting relationships. But if you're not trusting,

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<v Speaker 4>then you don't gain it. But then you don't get

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<v Speaker 4>hurt as much I would get hurt. So there's zoea

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<v Speaker 4>yeah too, sweets.

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<v Speaker 1>But isn't that interesting how we are very opposite with that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you are very trusting and you do you're able

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<v Speaker 1>to like open your herd and be you know fully,

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<v Speaker 1>like really be in your emotions and all the things.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like I'm actually quite closed off and like

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<v Speaker 1>not that I'm not trusting, but I'm very guarded. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very like now you have to like prove to

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<v Speaker 1>me you'll die for me before I trust you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. But you know, like there is, Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>are a little bit opposite with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that works very well in business.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which is it's interesting, all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, so the last question, what's keeping you from living

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<v Speaker 4>your dream life?

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like I am living my dream life.

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<v Speaker 1>There is so many aspects that of one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living my dream life. The thing that sparked up

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<v Speaker 1>when you said that was almost it's probably because we're

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about it, but it is how guarded I

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<v Speaker 1>can be, how I don't let myself sometimes feel full

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<v Speaker 1>emotions and be fully like in emotions and fully like

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<v Speaker 1>open my heart. And it's and that's obviously you know,

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<v Speaker 1>shit I've got to get into. But it's like deep, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and see that has always that has actually benefited me

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<v Speaker 1>because it's the reason why I've been able to move

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<v Speaker 1>so quickly, because it's like I'm just like onto the

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<v Speaker 1>next thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Do do do?

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<v Speaker 1>I've like got such a disciplined nature. But then it

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<v Speaker 1>does have the full back of like not feeling into

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<v Speaker 1>things fully, not being able to be present, not being

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<v Speaker 1>able to like fully just be like embodied in the

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<v Speaker 1>moment and satisfied with the moment and who I am

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<v Speaker 1>in the moment. I do have this like absolutely driving nature.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's even something that I'm like, well, like

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<v Speaker 1>I do have my dream life, and so many things,

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<v Speaker 1>but there is a part of me that I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is something I now need to explore.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, very cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So like I guess, like being less guarded, being

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<v Speaker 1>more in my emotions.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like we kind of we are the

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<v Speaker 4>same with that, and we don't stop to celebrate stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>and once we tick off a milestone or something, it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, we'll snacks. Like I always find it. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if you, I know you kind of do

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<v Speaker 4>a bit. But I always think when I hit a

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<v Speaker 4>big milestone, it's like, how it's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, yeah, it's well, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't sit it and be like, oh my god, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna bring something in Cooper. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you supposed to get this big overwhelming feeling? For me,

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<v Speaker 1>I way prefer the journey of achieving something Like I

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<v Speaker 1>love like not the hustle, because it doesn't always have

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hustle, but I love like the challenges me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, going through the challenges and like finding a

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<v Speaker 1>new me in them and finding these reasons and developing

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<v Speaker 1>skills and like going through the hurdles. I find the

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyment in that so much more than the actual final moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's why that's what it is. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when you don't get that feeling in the final moment,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with it because I'm like, well, I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>the journey so much.

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<v Speaker 3>I never thought of it in that way.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why we don't just think I want another goal,

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<v Speaker 4>because the journey is the best part.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to kind of put myself down for that

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<v Speaker 1>also because I was like, why can't I just fucking

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<v Speaker 1>be happy and celebrate myself because people always like, could

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<v Speaker 1>do you celebrate yourself? Blah blah blah, And I think

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent you should. But that's what I came

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<v Speaker 1>to terms was of like, well, I actually just really

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<v Speaker 1>love the feelings when I'm in it, and I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>the whole process, so I think it's okay. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going off the track there, but yeah, a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but like this, this is what the cards do, and

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<v Speaker 1>I love this. Just told I told you guys one

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<v Speaker 1>of my deepest darkness secrets. So what about you? What's

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<v Speaker 1>keeping you from living your dream life?

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<v Speaker 3>It's definitely myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I do think to myself that I if I have

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<v Speaker 4>enough money, I would be happy and I have gained

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<v Speaker 4>like I picked that up from my childhood and just

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<v Speaker 4>where we've come from. And if you have money, you'll

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<v Speaker 4>be happy. And it's I feel like that, but you're just.

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<v Speaker 1>Using this as an example of like people think I

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<v Speaker 1>need this and then I'll feel this way.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but like now I'm discovering, Yeah, like it's money

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<v Speaker 4>really doesn't give you happiness.

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 3>It's it's fun and it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Enjoyable, but you're still left with.

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<v Speaker 3>Like not true happiness.

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<v Speaker 4>And then that's why I have gone deeper with the

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<v Speaker 4>knowledge I want to gain and doing this stuff of

0:31:34.320 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 4>my coach and going that to that next level. And yeah,

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:42.640
<v Speaker 4>very similar to you of finding myself more and yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm a lot more present with my kids at

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<v Speaker 4>the moment and I can I can just sit there

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<v Speaker 4>and be in the moment and I just like, I

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<v Speaker 4>just feel so happy in abundance that I'm just there

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<v Speaker 4>watching them and I'm enjoying it because I struggle to

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<v Speaker 4>do that a little while go. So it is still

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit there and I'm just trying to figure

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<v Speaker 4>it out at the moment, but just to be yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>just fall that peace and I don't know kind of

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<v Speaker 4>experience more things because I am stuck in just our

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<v Speaker 4>society and what we are trained to do. And I

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<v Speaker 4>know that there's a completely different life that you can

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<v Speaker 4>have full of happiness. And that's my journey at the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of stopping me from That's where I want

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<v Speaker 4>to get to. That's my dream is just to be

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<v Speaker 4>happy in like that doesn't say I'm not happy right now,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I am so happy, but there's still just something

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<v Speaker 4>there that but like that's the journey because I want

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want that to ever stop in a way,

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<v Speaker 4>because you'll keep looking for more happiness and and.

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<v Speaker 3>Not the material things and that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I have been challenging myself with that at the moment,

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<v Speaker 4>like with my current stuff, I just I want to

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<v Speaker 4>enjoy life more.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I love that because I think what I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of pulled from that is, you know, sometimes, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, it's like we are the person. We are

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<v Speaker 1>the person, we are the thing that is stopping us

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<v Speaker 1>from living our dream life because of the beliefs we have,

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<v Speaker 1>because of we think it needs to be this way.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'll be happy, you know, and unpacking and

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<v Speaker 1>exploring that and again like you said, this is like

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<v Speaker 1>a life journey, so you will absolutely go to explore it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so interesting too what you're brought up of.

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 1>We believe it has to be a certain way because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what society has taught us. And unlearning those things

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, this is really what we talk a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about in you know, the Project and rebirth and

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 1>stuff of like well what actually feels good to you

0:33:56.960 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 1>and what actually do you want to do and what

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<v Speaker 1>actually do you want to do with your family and

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 1>how do you actually want to show up and all

0:34:03.440 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>these things that It's funny most of us haven't actually

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:10.959
<v Speaker 1>asked ourselves because we're just almost given this print out

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<v Speaker 1>of like, well, this is how life should go, and

0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:14.799
<v Speaker 1>this is how life should be and this is how

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:18.120
<v Speaker 1>you should feel. And then it's like this rat race

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:21.319
<v Speaker 1>of like constantly chasing these things. But it's like is

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 1>that actually for you? Is that what you're actually seeking?

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<v Speaker 3>Love it? Yeah, yep, exactly. We have some fun we

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 3>can talk.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Cooper, that was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much. Jod always says.

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<v Speaker 1>I never know if you like being psychastic or not.

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 3>You ways, just make me answer like this one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're expecting a big line.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a expect to anything good.

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<v Speaker 3>How was that just your protection? Pretty good? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys. Just a taste of the deep conversations

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:13.800
<v Speaker 1>and connections you can have with the Magic of Discovering

0:35:13.880 --> 0:35:17.200
<v Speaker 1>your Self Connection cards. If you want to have this conversation,

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:20.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, with your partner, your sibling, your friend's family,

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 1>or even journal yourself, grab the cards. It's honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how feel the magic?

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<v Speaker 4>Like when you get into a deep conversation, that's when

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 4>stuff happens, that's when energy flows and you feel a

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:39.440
<v Speaker 4>lot more than surface level questions.

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:42.239
<v Speaker 3>And I do love Jorda for.

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<v Speaker 4>That deep questions really, I love it in our family

0:35:47.239 --> 0:35:47.680
<v Speaker 4>as well.

0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:48.320
<v Speaker 3>It's awesome.

0:35:48.840 --> 0:35:52.560
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, gets some gets the blood flowing, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think like connection really is what we're all chasing,

0:35:57.640 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 1>like love and connection, and these cards are such a

0:36:00.000 --> 0:36:02.279
<v Speaker 1>beautiful way to like bring that with people you love.

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:03.960
<v Speaker 1>And it's just really funny.

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 4>It's interesting even if it's usually awkward, but stuff comes up.

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 4>You say the awkward questions and even to someone that's

0:36:12.640 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 4>really surface level and it stumps them, but then you

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:20.400
<v Speaker 4>keep asking and yeah, and A good thing I always

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:22.879
<v Speaker 4>like to say, and I have said this on here

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 4>as well, is always ask why at the end when

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:28.680
<v Speaker 4>they say something, to say, oh.

0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:31.680
<v Speaker 3>Why why do you feel like that? Why do you

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:32.120
<v Speaker 3>do that?

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<v Speaker 4>Because everyone has a different perspective on everything, so it's

0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:39.879
<v Speaker 4>always good to learn from other people's stuff, not put

0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 4>your judgment on them and what you think of stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>because yeah, why not learn?

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's always all these books.

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<v Speaker 4>I listen to is always they're always saying just sit

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:54.800
<v Speaker 4>there and listen and you'll gain so much more knowledge

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:57.400
<v Speaker 4>because why would you want to tell everyone what you know,

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<v Speaker 4>because you're not going to gain anything. Appointments remembered on

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<v Speaker 4>but yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I digress. See this is what happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys.

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