WEBVTT - How To Tell If Your Compatible With Someone ❤️‍🔥 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:02.440 Flex and Frooms. 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.240 Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex and Frooms catch 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:11.160 Up podcast. Welcome to our beautiful, little tiny world. It's 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:15.440 Flex and Frooms. Yesterday we talked about Fredick and propaganda, 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:18.520 which I actually don't think is propaganda. I don't think 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:19.560 he's an industry plan. No. 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:21.160 I just said that because people don't know what it means. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:23.239 It's funny. What I will say is I want to 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.479 hear people. I just keep can't get over the fact 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:30.440 that Frumi and I are sharing brains, not even that. 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.760 It's just this really witchy thing that keeps happening, where 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:36.519 at one point in time, every second thing that came 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:37.920 out of your mouth, I was like, I'm not sure 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:39.920 what you mean by that, And now you don't say 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:42.280 words and I can yell out the thing you're thinking. 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:45.879 Do you not see that transition me personally? 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:49.280 Yeah, Yeah, it's spent. It's called spending a lot of 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:52.480 time together love. It's for better or for worse. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:53.680 It's incredible. 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:55.920 Now you know what I think. At the start, people 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.960 won't show for friends, dogs and honestly, I have weeks. 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:02.880 I'm being perfectly honest. I feel like we had a 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.920 really good live show we just writing on the coatails 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:10.840 of that riding on the coattails of our own. We 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:16.640 have multiple personalities. Who whatever, I'm so over this. You 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:22.720 got your teddy Bear shoes on? They look this is 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:27.959 like violence against teddy Bears. These shoes looks like you've 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.800 skinned a teddy bear, ripped its innards out. 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.039 A teddy bear is even real? 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.080 Yeah, babe, I have a toy poodle at home that 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.280 looks like a teddy Bear that's animated. Have you seen 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:41.680 that dog, Pepper, a real dog? Yeah, babe, Pepper, my poodle. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:46.480 Seeing Pepper the poodle on my Instagram stories. The dog 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:50.200 at my house which house my parents' house, the little 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:53.680 black dog. No, I'll send you a photo this weekend. 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:55.160 Okay, why this weekend? 0:01:55.320 --> 0:02:02.760 I'm going there. Okay, I'm bi coastal. People even saying 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:03.840 I thought you live in Melbourne. 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.040 I stay saying that to me as well, and I say, 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.040 that's frooms you're thinking of. 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.560 But twenty percent of my whole followers are from Melbourne. 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.760 That makes sense. But you know, the funny thing is, 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.880 I don't think people look at me and think I 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:18.079 have a Melbourne vibe. It's not that like I think aesthetically, 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:21.680 they're not seeing Melbourne, but they're just not seeing Sydney either. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.520 Yeah, you're a bit too Tellytubby for Melbourne. 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:29.720 Great, thank you feedback? Is it childish Tubby? 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:30.560 Little bitch? 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:32.680 Who could. 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:39.280 From Victoria? It's just the primary colors and the general 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:40.800 disposition of happiness. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:46.799 Oh but she's so intimidating, Hupy, you. 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:48.720 Don't need you look like Tinky Winky. 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:52.000 Which one's that? Let me google green, I'm the yellow one. 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:58.800 La Oh Brooks Winky Brooker producer is a tiny little petita. 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.360 I feel like Tinky too. Yeah, but do we have 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.600 the same personality? Do we know that we need the 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.920 we need the Telly Tubby star signs stat I'm gonna 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:11.480 google it. Telly Tubby's Tinky Winky star sign. Let's start there, 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:14.360 Leo FI sign? 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:16.840 Pardon, that's wait? Which one's la La? 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:22.200 Okay, Telly Tuppy, this is amazing. Telly Tubby star sign. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:27.800 Lala is a virgo Oh wait Laala? 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:33.600 Tellytubbies Okay, So Tinky Winky No. 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.000 Larla is a natural performer, always at a rave and 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.200 a wanna be DJ. Yeahs giving. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.800 Okay? So wait, so Tinky Winky Wait, you really clocked 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.000 it because says Tinky Winky is a drama queen fashionee, 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:48.080 then takes long to get ready. Actually don't take long 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:49.920 to get ready, but I'll take drama queen and fashionee. 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:53.400 Tinky Winky's always wearing that stupid ass cow hat settle 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:58.680 settle bag. Okay, but Winky is always excessorized. 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:02.640 Okay? Are we giving dipsy artistic mischievous and the messy one? 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:03.640 You're giving dipsy? 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.200 Babe nom Lalala. 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:12.560 Through me is more okay? Lala natural performer always at 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.280 a rave wanna be DJ You're more dipsy than Lala. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:20.040 Listen, take to a vote. Please go to the Flex 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:25.400 and Frooms Instagram page. Just simply DM and say flex Tinky, Frooms, 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:28.800 Lalla or whatever else combination you want. Okay, you might 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:32.640 have been hitting up a flex poe when using a mischievous. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:35.120 No poe's free spirit innocent tubby toast lover? What is 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:40.279 a tubby toast? Did you not watch Telly w Babes 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.520 telling you I don't know what happened in my childhood. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:44.599 I gotta go. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:49.120 Bye, Keita. Flex and Frooms. Flex and Frooms a couple 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.320 of weeks ago, the New York mag released an article. 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.280 It went viral and it made a few people mad, 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:57.200 myself included I'm kidding, I don't feel Yeah you do, babe. 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:58.560 What's the rising sign. 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:05.440 Of yours Pisces? She feels everything all at once, everywhere? Yes, yes, anyway, 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.760 so the article's amazing. They've written a list of one 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.000 hundred and ninety four updated rules for life. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:11.560 Frew. 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.320 Me and I have strong opinions, and I feel like 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.600 we're going to disagree or agree with a lot of them. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:17.560 But for the next couple of days, all weeks, we're 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:19.960 going to go through a couple of them. Rule number nine. 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.400 If someone starts telling you a story you've heard before, 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:26.640 you have two seconds to tell them you interject with, 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.240 oh my gosh, that was hilarious, oh truly horrific or 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:32.040 unbelievable you've told me before. But if you don't say 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.880 it within me a lot of time, you just have 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:36.000 to listen to them tell the story again. And if 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:38.200 you're in a larger group, you have to listen period, 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:39.279 Agree or disagree. 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:40.040 Agree. 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:44.640 Yeah, hard, so hard, Because when someone's telling you a 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:46.240 story and you know you've got it before, there's that 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.880 is that. I feel it in my eyes where my 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:52.520 blinking slows down because I know I've heard this before 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:55.120 and if you don't get it quick, it's too late. 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.960 You catch them two minutes in where they've done like 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.839 the building the foundation, using the characters. 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:01.920 It's rude. 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:06.799 And now I'm here like nodding, eyes glazed over because 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:08.400 I don't want to say anything, but I don't want 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:08.919 to listen. 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:12.760 To this again. You know that happened with us Like 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.800 a few weeks on the Specsavers, I was telling you 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:19.599 about my relationship history about someone that I dated. 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.120 Yes, yes, okay, yeah, and I. 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:25.720 Swear afterwards I walked away and like, oh, there's no way, Like, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.880 given that was such a pivotal moment in my life, 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.960 there's no way I haven't spoken about this at least 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:31.920 three times we were. 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:33.160 In a group. What was I meant to do? Like 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.599 we're actually in a group recording telling stories for money, 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:39.000 and like, now I've heard this one? 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:40.120 Can it? 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:43.000 I heard it? I heard this one before? That one, 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:46.520 I feel is a really really good one. Because another 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.200 thing that I struggle with sometimes is group dynamics. I 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:52.920 like a one on one, a one on two maybe 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:57.040 or two on two splitting into separate conversations because what 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.880 happened in a group dynamic is I get this urged 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.280 to overperform, and I don't want to do that. I'm 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.240 too tired. I just want to listen. Or I've been 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.200 burnt too many times where you know how like you're 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.520 the friend who's doing interesting stuff, or like you know, 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.480 you've had too many one too many dating stories, and 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:15.160 so now your life becomes the brunt of the conversation. 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:18.000 So I find that I take this like secret role 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:20.520 in group conversations where I want to just observe. But 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.880 then the latter happens where I'm just like, I don't 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.840 have a role anymore, and then you start to observe 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.560 other people, like she's always cutting that person off. Yeah, 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.200 he's never listening. Oh, he's always telling a story. I 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.040 don't want any pick either. It's stri deep. But this 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:37.800 is a good rule. Yeah, rule number nine. Pay attention 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:38.200 to this one. 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:43.040 I like rule number one approved a prod flex and frooms. 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:47.160 It's been a little while since TikTok has as we say, slad, 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.440 it's been a bit dried up. The content's been repetitive, 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:58.760 lacking substance, and depth, just not giving. But I came 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:03.080 across a video that sparked excitement within me, and I thought, 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:04.920 this is one worthy of sharing. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.360 Okay, okay, When I say, I am about to put 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.680 you on to the best thing to ask someone in 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:14.119 the talking stage, here you go. Okay, So this list 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.720 I will ask people like, hey, what's the order you 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:19.360 will give these up from easiest to hardest, and it 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.040 will tell you so much about them, and like you 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:24.920 can do it really casually, like you can be like 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:27.000 my friend and I just came out booth this listen, 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:28.520 We just like wanted to hear your take on, like 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:30.160 what do you think would be the easiest for you 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.920 and the hardest to give up? When I say, it 0:08:33.000 --> 0:08:35.559 will save you so much time if you and someone 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:39.000 are not combatible, like, it will save you so much time. 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.319 Now they say this list is for the talking stage. 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:45.880 Enough of that, use it for anything, employers, employees, Can. 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:47.400 We abolish talking stage? 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:48.240 Do you know what? 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:48.800 Really? 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:51.959 Guys, I'll talk about it in a second. Shuttle out 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:57.280 to say it anyway, So the list caffeine, exercise, alcohol, 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:03.559 sex one out. What was the appropriate way to stay? 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:04.839 I said, or did you? 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.200 They said, masturbating I said, let me ask. 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:10.240 This rubbing one out on Instagram. 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:17.000 Alcohol, miscellaneous dogs, red meat, et cetera. Okay, Now, the 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:21.880 theory is you ask someone which would you give these 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:26.120 up for for a month in the list of easiest 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.600 to hardest, and that'll tell you a lot about a person. 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.800 I'm not convinced because if I can give up red 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:34.520 meat for a month, you can give it red meat 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:36.600 for a day. Are we not going to fall in love? 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:37.040 Okay? 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:41.000 Can I just okay? I'm seeing this list and to me, like, 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:43.559 in order to have to like, the idea that I 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.160 have to give them up makes it sound like their vices. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:51.040 Do you not think, well, you don't have to like 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:54.280 these are things that are really kidding for obviously a 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:55.720 lot of people. That's why they were chosen. 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:59.360 No, I think it's because people make what they consume 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:00.280 a character trait. 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:01.640 Okay. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:07.080 So I feel like, if, for example, if I said, oh, 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:08.760 I could easily give up coffee for a month because 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.720 I don't drink coffee, I think they're trying to imply 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:13.520 that that says a lot about me as a person. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.760 Whereas you're a multiple bean day, multiple bean juice a 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.000 day drinker and that's a lot about you a person. 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:21.280 Therefore we must not be compatible. 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:24.640 All about the bean, I will say, though, big bean energy? 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:27.120 Correct? Correct? 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:28.080 Do you like bean. 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:30.240 Flicking the beer? 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:30.520 Okay? 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:33.079 I mean yeah, that's what I was getting, a big 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:36.760 bean energy. I will say, though, Like to be fair, 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.520 I don't like the phrase talking stage. But when you don't. 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:49.439 Beanstage, hey, okay, sorry, I'll be serious. I'm being c 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:56.120 I hate myself, but what I will. 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:59.880 Say is, shut up. When you don't know anything about 0:10:59.880 --> 0:11:06.559 it person, you're an animal. Sorry. We don't know anything 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.599 about a person, you gotta rule them out quickly. I 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:12.439 feel like it's something light to It's something light to 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.360 play with, I will say though. At our live show recording, 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:17.200 I ran into this person who will not be named, 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:22.040 and funny not to name them. Can someone talk to 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:22.920 her please? 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:24.680 Their name was mister Bean. 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:35.840 Oh you do have a mister bean vibe? Aesthetically, are 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:39.000 you done? My dad kind of looks like mister bean 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.040 with a pop belly in like a gruff way. 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:44.440 Ye. Anyway, continue Charlie. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.880 At our life shore recording, somebody said to me that 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:55.240 people don't tune anymore like it's a talking stage, And 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.280 I'm like, okay, so they're both as ridiculous as one another. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:02.480 But tuning is way more accurate than a talking stage. Literally, 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:06.679 tuning what intentional, walking stage like I mean and to everyone, 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:10.959 tuning is like intention on both parts. It's not anything yet, 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.360 but you've clocked something. I think you're cute, you think 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:17.800 I'm cute. Now we're just adjusting the dial, seeing what sticks, 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:24.000 seeing what fits. A talking stage is just labor hard yaker. 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.440 Literally, if there's one thing you're on the job site, 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:33.640 day in, day out, you don't get any rest, cigarette break, 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.520 Think again, think again. 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:40.360 I agree, the talking stage needs to go away. Tuning, 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.520 as you say, intentional from both parties, and it's just 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:48.520 got a holy weldy flavor. The tune tuning a radio 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:54.200 screw tuning the bean, the. 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:55.360 Fact that your eyes did that? 0:12:55.600 --> 0:13:05.760 Think or you like? No, I don't. It's scariest. 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:08.120 It's like squinting with your eyes open. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:09.160 Try again. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:11.280 It. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:24.280 Oh my god, everyone in the room is silent. Sorry anyway, 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.959 we didn't get to the point. But if you want 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:29.360 to go look at that tea talk. 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:31.000 Oh. 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:34.880 The point is I don't think the list is going 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.480 to help you do anything, but I do think it's 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:44.599 a fun gag because I said before I told you caffeine, exercised, alcohol, sex, music, Instagram, weed, whatever. 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:45.439 Beans. 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:51.840 Beans exactly Like. I think it's interesting on a surface 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.760 level to be like, oh damn, like you really couldn't 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:57.240 give that up. That's that serious to you. But if 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.680 you're in a talking stage, is doomed. Nobody talks. We tune, 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:04.559 we caught, we caught, We tune, we date, and what 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:05.120 else do we do? 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:07.360 Flick bean? 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:09.920 We flick bean. 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:14.240 This is flex and frooms on CADA. I was talking 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.559 about the other day, the intrusive thought I have that 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.640 my family and a family that owned milbar around the 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:22.000 corner from my house, we're having a dance off to 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:25.040 Backstreet Boys. Okay, I've been seeing this for about twenty years. 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:25.280 Now. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.640 Does it bear any kind of psychological distress? 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:30.640 No, it's yet to be discovered. 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:33.520 Yeah, it's underlying. Anyway. I was talking about this on 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.920 the show and I actually got a lot of d 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:38.040 M replies and this is the one that caught my eye. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:38.800 Let's have a look. 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:44.280 Hello, it's me again. I've just been listening to your 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:46.680 how much do you spend to maintain a podcast? That 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.680 came out today, and I've paused it so that I 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:54.640 can pull my thoughts together. I think what you are 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:57.560 experiencing to me kind of doesn't just sound like intrusive thoughts, 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.440 but also makes me think of like a bit of 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:04.560 a di association. But there's actually this syndrome called I 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:09.280 think it's colloquially known as Alice in Wonderland syndrome. You 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.440 should google it it. I think it'll be very interesting. 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.280 It reminds me of what you're talking about with the 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:18.680 techtonic perlates. But I've experienced it before when I've had 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.120 a distinct like of sleep and I'm driving and I 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:23.640 just kind of zone out, but then my body feels 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:28.240 like it's kind of sounds crazy but like expanding, shifting, 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.000 moving out of place, not where it's supposed to be. 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:33.880 And I don't have a background of any sort of 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:36.280 like schizophrena or anything. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:39.560 Like that, Alice in Wonderland syndrome. This is exactly what 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:41.600 I meant FLEXI. I mean, I think this is actually 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:44.520 from a previous episode where I was saying sometimes I'd 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:47.440 be watching TV or reading a book and suddenly like 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:52.120 my tongue feels really big, or like my eyes feel uncomfortable. 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:54.160 And it's not because my eyes are square because I've 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:56.520 been concentrating for too long. It's just this general malaise 0:15:56.680 --> 0:16:01.080 like washes over my body is like, oh, like I 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:03.840 just want to scream, like I'm not in my body correctly. 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:06.920 And it's Alice in wonder and syndrome. It's a rare 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:11.000 condition that disrupts your brain's ability to process sensory input, 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:14.000 and the disruption effects how you perceive the size of 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:16.680 things and the things you see around you, the feel 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:18.280 or look of your own body or both, and it 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:21.640 can distort your sense of reality. It's also a symptom 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.160 of migraines, as I've spoken about on the show previous 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.920 migraine Girly and we get the one that your body 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:31.000 half your body you don't have control of, like almost 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:33.680 a bit Strokeesque. But on one of the parts of 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:37.800 that was seeing auras and things being like too far away, 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.840 too close together. And it's not like that because it 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:43.160 doesn't make me sick, and it's not like a harbor 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:48.200 harboringer is the other word red herring whatever of like 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.320 things to come. Yes, sometimes it almost feels like if 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:53.560 you're someone who gets migraines and gets the aura when 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:55.480 everything starts being a bit off and you're like, oh, 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:56.240 I know what's coming? 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:57.720 Whoa this is? 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:03.640 You know, Babes. I actually, I actually every time I 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:07.920 talk about migraines, my mouth starts watering like a dog 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:11.960 because it's so disgusting. So what happens. Sometimes you need 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:13.200 a migraine FLEXI. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:13.760 Never had a migraine. 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.000 Really, yeah, I'm glad you say that. 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:17.920 I thought I was like, I don't know migraines took 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.280 people out, Babes. When you said the other day or 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:21.879 a couple of months ago you had to sit in 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:23.879 the dark because you had one couple, I was like, 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:24.480 in the dark. 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:27.720 Oh my god, let me just let me just tell you. 0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:30.600 It started when I was a little kid and I 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.480 ushould not have words to say what was happening. As 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:35.960 you know, then it would just it would happen like 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.359 every month. I swear. It's like before I started getting 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.840 my period, when when you're like growing and suddenly it 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:43.800 would come over me in class and it would just 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:45.840 be like it goes on for half an hour. The 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:50.080 aura were like things I'm trying to read and the 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:53.880 next word is invisible because every time you move your eye, 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:56.720 the little blind bit of your eye move, so you 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:59.560 can't focus on anything. You can't actually read words, and 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:02.880 then it's everything starts jumbling up, so you try to talk, 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:05.600 but the wrong words come out. My tongue would go 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:08.480 numb and half my body would go numb. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.440 And when this was happening to you, what did you 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:13.760 think was happening? And what did you explain to people? 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:15.800 Because you wouldn't have been this articulate as a kid. 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:19.000 No. I started to understand when I was seven, because 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:20.960 it's like a symptom of it, Like people get this 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:24.639 with migraines. Could an aura and then yeah, the aura 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:28.120 is you see ziggity zags in your eyes and then 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:31.920 eventually boom, like the pain starts coming to your head 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:35.680 and it's like, in the moment, I wanted to die, 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:40.159 No way, it's that bad. It's you cry from it, 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:43.520 You scream, you vomit, and once you start a few 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:47.639 cycles of vomiting, a few cycles cycles vomiting out, and 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:49.720 then by the last vomit, you're so exhausted that you 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:51.320 just go to sleep, and you sleep, you feel like 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.520 so dehydrated. The whole thing. You're just spent and then 0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:56.320 the next day is a hangover, like going to school 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:59.760 with the hangover. Anyway, I don't get migraines at all anymore. 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:02.680 I haven't since I was twenty one, and so I 0:19:02.800 --> 0:19:04.960 want to say, if you are, I don't know. 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:08.600 Actually, yeah, I was gonna say, I'm going on here, 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:09.680 A diagnosis is coming. 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:13.520 Nothing helps. You can try the desolvable abs aspirin, but 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:16.239 I would love someone to understand what migrain's happening. Are 0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:19.320 brookhed them too, don't you love the worst? I actually 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:21.440 lose vision in my eyes when I get them. Yeah, 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:23.800 it's the same thing, Yeah, because. 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:24.800 It's right behind my eye. 0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:28.080 So I completely lose vision in one I literally go 0:19:28.200 --> 0:19:31.800 blind terrible. I'm sick and I'm sicken. And the Paul, 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:33.639 we're talking about this. We need to go bring the 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.359 We're gonna bring the vibe up good, bring the vibe up. 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:37.520 Flex and frooms they're the best. 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:41.840 What did a few weeks ago we made history by 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:45.000 recording a radio show on the Island. The Island is 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:49.919 a luxury barge in Sydney Harbor looking over the gorgeous 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:53.000 skyline of Sydney, the sixiest city in Australia and it 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:55.040 was a beautiful day and we made a lot of 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:57.800 new friends. Personally, I did. I was probably gallivanting around 0:19:57.840 --> 0:20:01.480 the boat drink in hand, and I met two women 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:05.359 called Teagan and Holly, two chicks that were at the 0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:08.720 second recording. Not why they were there. I don't think 0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:09.879 they're in the influencer space. 0:20:11.320 --> 0:20:16.120 Yeah, oh that's right, yeah, yeah, that's why there's two 0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:16.320 of us. 0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:18.800 Where did these girls come from? But no, they were 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:21.560 giving very VP energy. I was thinking may be working 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:25.760 in the They were giving influencer space in a good way, 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:32.760 well dressed, well dressed and personal. Little did I know 0:20:33.359 --> 0:20:37.879 it was the winner, Tagan, so remember again and we 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.320 were like Tea and then her name is actually Tagan. 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:44.840 That's very confusing. I know it's spelled t e g 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:48.879 a n e n t e g e n. 0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:54.639