1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: It's that time of year again, everyone's favorite social experiment. 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: The explosive dinner parties are sizzling love connections, cleaning a 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: toilet with a toothbrush. 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: Here we are again. 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: I've told you, of course, about Married at First Sight, 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: which kicks off on Monday night. And to tell us 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: all about the new season is psychologist John Aikin. 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, good morning. I tried to block that toothbrush 10 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: image out. 11 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, Haley, And. 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, back in the Day series seven, I think it 13 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: might have been yeah, Haley, And who was the guy? 14 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: Was David? 15 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 3: David in what world does that? Except? 16 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: Well, this is the thing about the show. It is 17 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: very unpredictable, and I'm even after eleven seasons, I am 18 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: shocked by some of the things that they say and do. 19 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: I feel like I've heard it all. But then even 20 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: this season, it's like, oh, really, is that? Is that? 21 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: What your choice is? 22 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 2: Do you ever feel guilty that you've put couples together 23 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: who just bring up the worst in each other? I 24 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: know it's a television show. I know everyone likes to 25 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 2: see the conflict, but as a psychologist, how do you feel? 26 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: I don't feel guilty about it. I mean, I'm disappointed 27 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 1: in certain choices that they make. But when we put 28 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: them together after an assessment, which goes for around about 29 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: two months, you really can't be sure what's going to happen. 30 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: When the cameras go on them and they consistently surprise us, 31 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: and we watched like everybody else to see whether or 32 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: not they can get along, and you know, to be honest, 33 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: they're not good at relationships, and you see that very 34 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: early on. You know, you only have to watch it 35 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: for ten minutes to know we know why you're single. 36 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: And so then it's about are they going to change, pivot, 37 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: up skill here to make it work? And a lot 38 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: of them can't do that. 39 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: Can you ever tell from the get go who will 40 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: make it? 41 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: I'd love to say yes, but the answer is no, 42 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: I can't. I thought, you know, early days, you know, 43 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: season one, two, three, four, you really get a sense 44 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: of this can work. But then you realize just something 45 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: as simple as chemistry. You know, we put two incredibly 46 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: good looking people together and they'll lock eyes and go, 47 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: I don't find you attractive at all. 48 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: Interesting lesson, isn't it? But we think attractive people just 49 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 2: you know, enjoy it. It's not about looks. 50 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: There's a chemistry. 51 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: I always find it interesting. Someone like say Olivia from 52 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 3: a few seasons ago, she was like a student teacher 53 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 3: that's doing an honorable job. How is it that all 54 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: of a sudden she is now only fans doing pornographic stuff? 55 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 3: In what world? When she went to be a student teacher? 56 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: Did she think, you know what I'm going to do. 57 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,839 Speaker 3: I'm gonna pivot and I'm going to be a porn star. 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: It looks. This is the thing about what we see 59 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: when the show unfolds. It's usually about halfway through. So 60 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: if you can, you know, put up your best foot 61 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: forward and give a good impression, you kind of can 62 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: get away with it for a certain amount of time. 63 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: But then ultimately the mask comes off because the cameras 64 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: are there all the time and the real true self 65 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 1: comes out. This year, there's no exception. You know, they 66 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: you know they surprise us. But this year we do 67 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: have a different sort of cast. They're more diverse. We 68 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: have our oldest ever participant, Richard at sixty two. We 69 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: have a few other older individuals in there, and they 70 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: create a different mix because the young ones are now 71 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: up against not only me on the couch, but there 72 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: are up against older ones with more experience and more 73 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: of a mature. 74 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 2: Mind you might call some of their behavior exactly. 75 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: So it changes the dynamic in the group, which is interesting. 76 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: We have the same sex couple as well, girl female 77 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: or male men yes men. We also have a moment 78 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: in the experiment early where one of the participants runs 79 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: and leaves the experiment before the wedding day, which I 80 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: don't think we've ever had before. 81 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 2: Right, So they don't even meet their partner. 82 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: No, that's it, and they just say I can't do 83 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 3: this or they didn't like me. I don't know about you. 84 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 3: I'm pleased here. The mel Shilling's okay. 85 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: Yes, that's great that she is on the mend. She 86 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: films the UK version over there and then comes to 87 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: ours and does the Aussie version of She's. 88 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 3: A fly and fly Out expert. 89 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: She is, she's global and she had the operation went 90 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: smoothly and she's now back filming. Good. So she's on 91 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: the mend, which is which is great. 92 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 3: Okay, John, Well, obviously you've got a lot to discuss. 93 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: He's been taking notes about me and Amanda. I can 94 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: feel it about she. 95 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: Saw what I did with your tooth, brother. 96 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: Well, you two really are the standout. The communication style 97 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: is always respect a. 98 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 3: Man who's getting a neck tattoo of my face. 99 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: Next week, I tell you what neck tattoo is there? 100 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: The next tattoo is that? What's with the next Remember? 101 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: I remember on Maths a couple of seasons ago, one 102 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: of the brides had a brother who had a neck tattoo. 103 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: Was his name? 104 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: Then? 105 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: Everyone loved him? 106 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I loved him. Yeah. I think it was Jessica Powers. 107 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 3: Jessica Powers brother the neck tattoo, God b the hot 108 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 3: and I thought about it, but I thought, in five years. 109 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 2: Time, the head of the bank will have a tattoo. 110 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: That's where we are. 111 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 3: CEO will have devil horns implanted and Satan not Satan 112 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 3: written on his fores, and he'll. 113 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: Be sacking China. It's always great to talk to you. 114 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 3: Married at First Sight starts Monday at seventy thirty on 115 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: nine and nine. Now, John, I can thank 116 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: You for joining Pleasure always God