1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Jum Mission with Jonesy and Amanda Well. I'm still stunned 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: at the news that Ash Party is retiring at the 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:08,239 Speaker 1: age of twenty five. She won the Australian Open in 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: January is January February March, three months two months ago. 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: I look at Ash and she seems beyond her years. 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: She seems a lot older than twenty five. 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: And she just seems very wise. She seems to know herself. 8 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: She has retired or she didn't retire. She gave up 9 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: tennis once before, turned to cricket very very successfully, then 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: came back again in twenty nineteen where she won the 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: French Open. She's a very tenacious human. Here's how she 12 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: announced it yesterday. 13 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 3: There's no right way, there's no wrong way. It's just 14 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 3: my way. And this is perfect for me to share 15 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 3: it with you, to talk to you about it with 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: my team. I loved ones that I'll be retiring from tennis. 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: And it's the first time I've actually said it out loud. 18 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 3: And yeah, it's hard to but I'm so happy and 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 3: I'm so ready and i just know at the moment 20 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 3: in my heart for me as a person, this is right. 21 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: And she does seem to know herself well. When she 22 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: won the Australian Open, there was lots of talk about 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: Ben Crow, her mindset coach. He works with a number 24 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: of different athletes and organizations and he seems to have 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: helped her know that her worth isn't tied up in tennis. Actually, 26 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: here's what he said at the time. 27 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 4: Her goals and her dreams. And she's spoken publicly about 28 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 4: her goals and her dreams and she's put that out 29 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 4: in the universe and she's going after them as hard 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 4: as she can run. And that's just called living. But 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: there's no guarantees, there's no promises, there's no expectations that 32 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 4: she'll actually achieve those goals. And if you can create 33 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 4: that separation, it let's go of all that kind of 34 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 4: expectation and pressure that the rest of the world can focus. 35 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 4: That's really important for anyone to realize that, you know, 36 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 4: playing tennis, in her case, playing tennis is what she does, 37 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 4: but it's not who she is. It doesn't define the 38 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 4: depth of her and to find that self worth independent 39 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 4: of what you do, because if you have to do 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 4: do something or achieve something in order to be someone, 41 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 4: you'll never be content, you'll never be fulfilled, and you 42 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 4: certainly want to have unconditional love because it's conditional upon 43 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 4: having to do something and achieve something. 44 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: Wow, isn't interesting? And you know they say that success 45 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: isn't your money, it's not your job. It's waking up 46 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: in the morning and looking forward to the day. And 47 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: for her to maintain that and to be at the 48 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: top of her game would take a lot out of you, 49 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't it. I mean, I feel very lucky that I 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: look forward to coming in here every day. I love 51 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: this job because this would be too hard to do 52 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: if you didn't. 53 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, of course, of course. And I guess 54 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 2: with the ash party, you've got to defend that hill 55 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: some people, some people might say, well, have you retired 56 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: too early? Whether you could probably do keep going? 57 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: But then you know, she's just going out a winner, 58 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: isn't she, As you say, defending the hill. If you 59 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: don't have it in you and then you just watch 60 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: your he'll disappear. She, as I said, she's lucky. She 61 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: has a very strong sense of who she is. Wonder 62 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,519 Speaker 1: how many people at that top level can separate themselves 63 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: from the accolades and from the success. I think she's 64 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: a hugely impressive person. I just absolutely wish her the best. 65 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to when I get to a top 66 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: level and that I can. 67 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 1: When you've moved off the plateau, you've got to defend 68 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: a plateau. 69 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 3: Jonesy and Amanda's