WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! The reason Laura almost quit the show 😳 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:11.639 Pickup. 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:21.320 Come on, Yes, Hourah Friday, Thank god it's Friday. 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:22.760 Hey we're on Please? 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:23.520 Can I say it? 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:27.760 T g I F it's frie gag. Do you know 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:30.640 what happened today? Do you know what is not? Gag? 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.360 So sweet, I'm gonna have a really lame mum moment 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:36.319 for a second. Today, my little one, Molly May, she's 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:38.880 four and a half. She had a little school orientation. 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.680 She went on a school excursion to her local primary school. 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:44.720 She had to take a pack for big school, Big school? 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:48.480 Is she going to big school next year? No, she's not. Well, look, 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:49.479 it's just a faky one. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.760 Ain't Why did you let her go? 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:54.280 It's a bit of a long story, but she's like, 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.320 I did not say sorry. 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:56.600 No. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.520 She she's very very smart, like Marley. She's four and 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:01.720 a half, but she's very good with like her words 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:03.840 and her numbers, and so she's doing all of the 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:06.080 classes and she's doing all the learnings of the kids 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.440 who are five who are going into school. So Matt 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.160 and I have been tossing up do we just send 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.320 her early? Her birthdays in June though, which is like 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:12.920 smack in the. 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:13.480 Middle of the year. 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.080 So we've been tossing up whether we start her early 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.440 because she can do the school work. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:19.800 But the problem is is. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:23.120 Like I just don't think she's emotionally Yeah, I just 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.679 think it's so harleck school such a big thing. But anyway, 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:27.319 we didn't want to begrudge her of going to the. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.320 Orientation, so she but now it's gonna be worse. 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:31.240 This is what you could have. 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:35.039 But she understands that she can't do it until she's five. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.240 So it was just like a bit of an She 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:39.560 doesn't understand. She gets it. 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.240 You said she struggled with emotions and you're going to 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:42.760 pull it away from her. And this is what you 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:43.240 can't say. 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.920 You can't go so really happy about having a packed 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.120 lunch box and going and seeing the school playground. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:50.360 I get her. I have nothing more than that. 0:01:51.120 --> 0:01:54.120 All right, Well, next up there is a very famous 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:57.600 soupermodel who is admitted she has sworn off dating for 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.080 the absolute wildest reason. 0:01:59.120 --> 0:01:59.960 She's not going to believe it. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:02.600 Okay, that's coming up plas one thousand dollars on the 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:03.720 show very soon. 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:05.280 And Jackie Oh is going to be joining us jam 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:07.520 packed Friday show. Good massive. Here at the. 0:02:07.480 --> 0:02:10.160 Pickup, heading to the chemistlay House today, great savings every day. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:13.120 Listen, it just dropped today. Let's get you across this. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.639 It'll be the soundtrack of your Christmas brand New by 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.160 Samantha Jade. She was on earlier in the week telling 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:21.280 us all about it. It is Christmas kiss Here at 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:22.720 the pickup there's. 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.280 A supermodel, I want to say, an old school supermodel. 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:28.280 She's like a nineties supermodel, Linda Vangelista. 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:29.320 Do you guys remember her? 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:29.560 Do you know? 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:30.040 I didn't? 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:31.480 But then I had to google her face and as 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:33.760 soon as I saw it, I was like, oh, yes, 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:34.960 how could you forget who? This is? 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:39.440 Strikingly beautiful, like a model of her time. She's causing 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.760 a little bit of a ruckus online at the moment 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:44.040 because she's come out and really honestly said why she 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:47.000 doesn't want to date anymore. She said, I will never 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:51.560 date again because I never want to hear another person breathing. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:55.639 Like she's done. 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.200 She doesn't want another person in her bed, in her space, 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.840 next to her, that heavy breathing like I'm just I 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:01.640 just don't need it. 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:02.000 Do you know? 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:02.120 What? 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:03.360 Relationships are hard? 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.800 But when the baseline, when the reason why you don't 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:07.480 want to be in them is because the other person 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.079 breathing pisss you off. You know that, Like you've really 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:11.639 hit a moment in your dating life. 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:12.760 Just abend it. 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:15.160 You guys have partners, but you've been dating breed like 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.000 you've been single. You have been for a while, and 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:17.639 it's hard. 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:18.959 It is hard. 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:21.480 But I feel like you can't have these little, stupid, 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:24.040 insignificant things that will put you off dating for that. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:27.840 I no, I disagree. I disagree. I'm married and there 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:29.520 are things that I can't stand. But you just have 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.160 to have hard rules. Is that a tough one if 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:34.760 you're trying to know? If you try and rule out breathing, 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:36.840 that's a real challenging one for your relationship. 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:39.080 Unless it's a corpse. Yeah you're dating a corpse. Yeah 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.680 it's just but you know, no, I feel like that 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:42.480 might be the limit. 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:42.640 No. 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:43.000 For me. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.080 I'm in a very happy relationship, married for a year 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:49.040 or now actually, but seven years, two kids in and 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:53.000 I have a rule. Matt cannot eat chewing gum around 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:53.720 me because. 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:55.400 It makes me viscerally sick. 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:59.640 Like we know, actually you're it's super annoying. 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:01.240 I can't even talk about chewing gum. 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:04.320 The sound of the chewing, the smell of someone's minty breath, 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:06.880 bringing it in a small space. If he tries to 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.360 kiss me after his head chewing gum, it makes me 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:10.280 feel furious. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:11.640 Okay, it's a bit much. 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.800 Sorry, we knew that you had that viseral reaction. Yeah, 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.720 that's why. About fifteen minutes ago, in the song I 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.279 Hate opened up a piece of chewing gum and started 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:22.479 chewing it directly I hate you, And little did you 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.080 know that we were recording the whole thing. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:24.920 And Laura had a fit. 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.240 Laura had a complete meltdown. Have a listened to this 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.719 which happened me moments ago on the show Guys, lets 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:31.560 your live reads while Tony does. 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:36.479 Or just get your live reads up? 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:36.760 Babe? 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:37.479 What is this? 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:38.680 Babe? 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:39.240 What are you saying? 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:44.880 Also your saying babe all time and. 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.840 Now that I have more, now that I'm there, are you. 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.880 Doing like chewing straight into the microphone? You are chewing? 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.200 Very sorry, I had a rap. I just wanted to 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:52.080 you literally do this. 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:54.520 It is very obnoxiously loud. 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.240 You could step back to schmidge. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.960 Oh my god, I feel sick again, like the thought 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:05.000 of you chewing chewing gum in this tiny space yeah. 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.400 I mean I think it's an overreaction, right, we could 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:08.160 probably let that go. 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:12.320 Hang on, you know, we can't. Let's lie what this? 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:14.960 I thought for a second, and I was I just 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:17.160 throw something together. I just throw my coffee at you. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:18.039 You are in tring gum? 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.120 Yeah, get out. 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.039 Let's tell you can't standards. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:24.000 I thought it was a bit. 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:25.920 Guys, I can't stand either of your own. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:26.760 Now let's continue. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:27.840 Sorry, is that real? 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:28.800 Yes? 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.320 How anxiety? I'm gonna bring a clown in. See how 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:41.360 Tony reacts. I told you why because people will respect 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:43.719 to clown but they didn't. 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:45.919 You. 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.360 I was the one chewing, and you brought up our 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.280 producer insecurities. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:54.080 He threw out Tony completely under the bus when it 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:54.880 was Mitch's fault. 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:56.279 You animal. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:06:00.920 Okay, also is dying in the corner. Just Tony safe, 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:03.120 And I'm not going to expose it to a clown. No. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.039 My point was is that Tony has made it clear 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.080 that she has a phobia of clowns, and nobody has 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:11.440 ever questioned it. And I've told you I have a 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:13.440 phobia of chewing gum, and you do this ship to 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.159 me all the time, and I hate it, and I 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:16.800 quit I'm bye. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:17.960 Bye, been great doing the three? 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:21.480 I hate it she's walking out bye? Do you have 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:25.800 any peque? I love a couple of pieces? I hate 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.080 you guys back after this. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:31.080 Now we seem to talk about this a little bit 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:34.919 on the show, And that is how challenging dating can be, Mitch. 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.200 This year you started dating. Have you ever been on 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:39.440 a first date and been completely stood up? 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:42.560 I've had someone an hour late to a first date 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:43.760 and I contemplated a leaving. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.080 But no, I've never been stood up. 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.880 Like You've never gone to a restaurant, sat down at 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:48.080 the table and then just waited. 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.360 It was a complete no show. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.599 No, I've ordered drinks while I've waited for someone for 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:52.000 an hour. 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.400 That's not been Yeah, that's not been torgeous. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:55.200 What happened to me? 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:57.080 Stand that hair up? 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:57.240 No? 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.039 They sit me down? 0:06:58.080 --> 0:06:58.440 All right? 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.400 Well, there is a wild that is sweeping TikTok at 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:05.120 the moment, and that is that maybe restaurants are incahoots, 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:08.040 as in they're the ones that are actually standing up 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:09.320 people who are casually dating. 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:10.960 Okay, have a listened to this first. 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.320 And because I had put in so much effort, I 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:15.679 thought it might as well just have a meal while 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:18.400 I am in the building, and it wasn't until I 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:20.840 got home when I was scrolling Facebook and I saw 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:24.640 a very similar story from a girl that same restaurant 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.960 who also got stood up. She found out that there 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:32.600 are restaurants now posing as people on dating apps just 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.200 so you go to their business. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:37.560 Okay, so what she's saying is that there are people. 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:40.040 There are bots that are on say like Bumble or Tinder, 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:42.360 any of the dating apps. You match with them. The 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:45.880 bot puts in the groundwork. It suggests a specific restaurant. Hey, 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:48.680 we should meet at so and so's restaurant at six pm. 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.920 You get there, they don't show up because they're not real, 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:55.160 and actually the restaurant using it as a way to 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:59.080 try and garner more customers. I mean, seriously, I'm sitting 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:01.560 with my tinfoil hat on conspiracy. 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:02.920 I don't know if they think that this is a 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:05.400 pandemic like sweeping the world happening to everyone. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.560 I don't think every second restaurant is doing it, do. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:09.320 You know what I think? 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:13.080 I think that this it makes people feel better who 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:14.840 has been stood up. So if you have been stood 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:16.560 up and you went out a date and the person 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.280 didn't show up. You can now say, I bet you 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:19.000 it's a restaurant. 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.120 I'm actually for the man named a porto. I thought 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:24.000 it was just from Spain. I did I matched with 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.440 the hungry Jackson. Oh that's lovely Jack. 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:28.160 We thought Jack was hungry? 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:29.920 Did you want to taste my whopper? I thought it 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:30.520 was something else? 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:32.960 But it all makes sense. 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.040 I mean I want to ask this though, do you 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:36.960 reckon any restaurant would actually stoop that low? 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:37.400 Yes? 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:43.480 Yes, Laura? What's your name? The world is insane? Crazy? 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:45.839 I'm sure it's it's what is it? 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:46.760 Cozi living? 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:50.040 What's list of lives? 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:51.880 Affects restaurants too, so they need to get some more 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:52.400 patrons in. 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:53.679 Yeah, but I mean you don't want to be a 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:56.400 restaurant that's also synonymous for going there on dates and 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:58.760 your date just doesn't show up after a while. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.160 That would start to you know, maybe it'll come out. 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.160 You own a business, Laura, would you ever? I'm not 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:05.160 saying you'd stoop that low? But have you guys, like, 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:07.200 do you think out outside of the box to market? 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:08.600 You know that's creative marketing. 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:13.520 No, I'm not saying creative marketing, come to it's scamming. 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:16.680 It's literally scamming, like come into the shop at two 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:18.320 pm or be there and then I'm not there and 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:19.280 hope that they buy jewelry. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:21.280 It's also like identity theft, just heaps of stuff. 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.559 I don't think this is creative. I think I don't know. 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.559 I think dating is hard enough, and I think that 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.720 if this is actually happening, this is so cruel, Like 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:30.520 it is so hard to put yourself out there, it's 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.200 so hard to get ready, go out, you know, do 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:33.080 the whole first date. 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.520 That if restaurants are actually. 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:37.120 Using this, which I don't think they are, but if 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:38.880 they are, that is the only way of. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:40.480 Treating people who are already on the hustle. 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.640 If you're not safe online, where are you safe? You're 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:43.360 not safe in a restaurant? 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:43.920 What have you got left? 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:44.120 So? 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:44.319 Well? 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:47.040 So you got your bedroom? 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:50.880 You're safe because your mum's there. 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.560 Hey, coming up, guys, We have our very own Jackie Oh. 0:09:54.600 --> 0:09:56.640 She's going to be joining us in studio on the pickup. 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:57.679 Can't wait next. 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:02.280 Look, we love to celebrate the busy woman in life, 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.480 and there's no one that juggles more than our very 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:05.280 own Jackie Oh. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.640 We have her in the studio today. Hi Jack, Jack 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.800 are you I don't think this is the first time 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:10.760 you've been on the pickup? 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:12.120 Yeah? 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.640 Yeah with us anyway, maybe it has ye, you. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:15.000 Haven't done it? 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:16.120 Have done it on the phone? 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.199 Oh maybe Yeah. 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:19.720 Should we be offended by that? 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:21.680 Yeah, I'd be like, we have to work all year 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:23.240 to get you in here just before holiday. 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:24.559 Off, I haven't been off. 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.520 No, no, you're here. Well, what time do you pick 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.040 up kitty from school? Are you in the car? 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.319 Not every day though, And now she catches the bus, 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.040 so she's and so I pick her up from like 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:37.160 two minutes away. She definitely is about to turn thirteen, 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.679 so we're at that age now where she wants to 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:42.320 spend more time with friends. And but she's actually really 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:45.000 good because she really loves spending time with me, really 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:47.160 wants to still go on holidays. So I still have her, 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.520 but not for long probably, I. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.880 Reckon as long as you're paying for holidays, you're. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.240 Gonna She said that the other day. She's like, no, 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:54.800 don't worry, mum, I'll still want to go with you. 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:57.120 And I'm like that's yeah, I know why. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:10:59.800 See, as like a mum of two little girls, this 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:02.080 is the age that scares me the most having a 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:04.080 thirteen year old, Like how do you navigate the whole 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:07.120 phones and Instagram and all the things of social media, 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:09.840 especially when you work in the world of media, Like 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:11.680 how do you limit that with your job? 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.440 I think, you know, it is like monitoring. You have 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.080 to monitor it, and it's about balance. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.480 But I don't go too far the other way either, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:20.080 because I think they're going to see it anyway. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.240 They have secret accounts they have. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:25.440 You know, if you think your kid isn't able to 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:28.439 access TikTok just because they don't have the app, think again. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:32.240 They have their ways, trust me. So I feel like 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.719 it's better for us to just. 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:37.160 Be transparent and balanced in what we allow them to have, 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.760 because if you lean too far the other way, where 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:41.319 you're so strict you don't. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:44.040 Allow them anything tell you, they don't tell you anything. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.280 And I think that's the beauty of the relationship I 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:48.600 have with my daughter as she tells me everything, the good, 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.400 the bad, and all of it, and we talk through it, 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:52.240 and I just, yeah, I'm not. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:54.840 Too overboard with it because I do feel say. 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:57.960 With swear words in songs and you know she hears it, 0:11:58.040 --> 0:11:59.440 but she doesn't repeat it. 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:02.600 It's you just can't shelter them from everything, especially at 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:03.079 this age. 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:06.800 You've recently said that you've sworn off dating. You're done. Yeah, 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:07.400 changed my. 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.320 Mouth at all the time. So I'm not in that 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:10.840 in that mode right now. 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:12.040 Okay, Well we're. 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.199 Back on trying to set Jackie up. 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:17.240 Actually, how's that going? Who are you setting me up with? 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.920 You met him once? We've already Oh, yes, I know 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:21.920 who you're talking about. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:22.760 Now. 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:25.320 I feel like we're sitting outside of the n joke. 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:29.880 We're not saying behind. 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:30.960 What's the network? 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:31.439 Is good? 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:33.640 It is? 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:37.160 That is actually irrelevant. It's who somebody isn't totally. 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:43.480 Work and money is the very very bottom of my list. 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.360 Okay, we can't say the same about mich thing to Jackie. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.360 I'm on all like, I'm on Bumble, I'm on Hinge, 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:49.880 I'm on Tinder. Are you on them as well? 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:50.719 Yeah, yeah I am. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.560 I don't hate them, though, I rarely ever do anything 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.480 with those because I think I've been on maybe one 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:00.280 or two and it's just not for me. I prefer 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.600 to kind of meet them in different ways, like through 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.080 brit for instance, or you know, something for a friend 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:08.199 or on even on Instagram, you kind of meet people 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.680 a lot there. I find it's just way easier and 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:13.920 I don't know, it's just safer. 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.600 Do you DM slide Like if you see someone that's cute. 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.040 Because I love to be first, you want to receive. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:21.880 I might do something subtle, like you. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:31.880 Know, plane firel She's like egglan peach emoji FA with 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:35.080 a little squirting one drive it home. 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:38.800 No, I've never done the slide into the DMS before. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.520 I don't have the courage to be that bowl yet. 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:45.560 But you can work yourself up to her baby steps. 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:46.640 Yeah, listen. 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:48.600 Well, earlier in the week, we had Victoria Devine on 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:51.640 the show Podcaster and we went through her bag and 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.000 we get with you girls too. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:56.040 When she was were or not there. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.000 She was in the room. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.400 She consented to us going through her bag, even doing 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:01.080 it all week, and we felt, we want to get 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:05.240 you to do it, Jackie, because we're celebrating busy women 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.880 in our lives. Right. It's all thanks to the Binge 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:10.040 original drama series Strife starring Asher Katy. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:13.000 It's about the life of mea Friedman, mum and mea Yeah. 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:16.040 It's actually amazing that whole story. You know, when she 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:20.280 started Mama Mia. She started so small and then I mean, 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:22.560 I don't know, you girls probably have maybe been into 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:22.920 the office. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:23.440 I'm not sure. 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:26.720 But it's huge, incredible and for something that she started 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:29.880 from her bedroom just with her husband, hustling, and then 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.400 all of a sudden, I mean not all of a sudden. 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:32.920 It's the years of work that goes into it, but 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.080 it's all the behind the scenes of such an incredible company. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:36.280 Yeah, the series is great. 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.520 It's from the producers of Big Little Lives, streaming on 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:39.520 Binge December sixth. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.160 So we want to go through your handbag? 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:44.000 Yeah, Jack, do you want to go through it? 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:44.160 Oh? 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:48.520 Wow, it's a very nice bad as we do. 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.200 Okay, We've got like a little green felt bag with 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:53.160 a penguin on it. 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:56.920 Don't open that. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:58.960 Not joking to open it. 0:14:58.960 --> 0:14:59.440 It's fine. 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:00.920 It's a having bideline in. 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.000 The Yeah, oh my god. 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:07.920 That has so many speeds sped almonds, my almonds. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.960 No one calls it speed, you say, I mean right 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:11.640 here on the counter. 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:14.200 I've never seen anyone have as many almonds as you have. 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:14.600 I know. 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.160