1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yor 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: the Order KERNI Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 13 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 4: that's usually all about helping you master your money. But 14 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 4: today it's not just a podcast. It's a game show. 15 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: It's a game show. 16 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 4: I don't know how this is going to go, but 17 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 4: I'm actually really excited about it. Buckle up because this 18 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 4: isn't ask V anything show. I'm your host, becksied and 19 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 4: with me scared, I think you should be at all times. 20 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, be prepared. I was a scout, so. 21 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 4: Scouts always be terrified and worried, so today, our brave contestant, 22 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 4: May I please welcome to the stage, Victoria Device. 23 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,559 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for having me on this game show 24 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: that I didn't know was going to be a game show. 25 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,839 Speaker 2: I thought it was going to be a podcast. 26 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 4: Thank you for joining me. 27 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for having me. I'm ready. 28 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 4: I'm sorry for just throwing this on you. 29 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 2: No, absolutely, let's go. I love a good game show. 30 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 2: What are we playing? And how much money do I 31 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 2: get to win? 32 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 4: I tell you what you get to win? Exactly zero dollars? 33 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 4: But Ris, can you double it? I'll have to ask 34 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 4: my producer. 35 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Sorry, you're asking for a lot. I know, 36 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: I know I've started yet. 37 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 4: Okay, so this game is all about taking on the biggest, juiciest, 38 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 4: trickiest money questions sent in by our amazing listeners. Do 39 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 4: you think you're up for it? 40 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: No? But also, let's go. 41 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 4: I also have a few of my own. 42 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 2: But okay, anyone, No, you can ask me anything. 43 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,839 Speaker 4: Apparently I was open to this amazing Okay, so let's 44 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 4: jump straight into round one with our first question. So hypothetically, 45 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 4: I'm twenty seven. Mentally I think. 46 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 2: It'd be nice, wouldn't it. 47 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 4: I've got one hundred k saved. 48 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that is very hypothetical. 49 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 4: That is very hypothetical. I don'nate a property. Should I 50 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 4: be investing in real estate or elsewhere? And at the 51 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 4: same time, someone else wanted to know the potential pros 52 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 4: and cons of buying a property versus using that fund 53 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 4: for the share market. So should we tackle them together? 54 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 55 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely. I was really scared when you said it's an 56 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: ask anything and I've gone row and I was like, 57 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: oh no, but now you're asking me about my bread 58 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: and butter. So we're ready. 59 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 4: So come back. 60 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: You have one hundred thousand dollars saved and you're not 61 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 2: sure where to invest it. I think you need to 62 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: zoom out and have a think about what your values are, Like, 63 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: is property actually something you want to be investing in, 64 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: because it's a really big commitment. So you're going to 65 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 2: buy property, there's going to be probably some stamp duty, 66 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: some other fees and charges. Like there's a lack of 67 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: flexibility there. I mean, I'm not selling it. I own 68 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: a mortgage broken company, beck, so like I should be like, yeah, 69 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: what you want to do? Go talk to a Zella 70 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,399 Speaker 2: money broker. But I think it is such a big 71 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 2: commitment beck that I feel like you've got to know 72 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 2: that you really want it before you get into it, 73 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: because if you want to then get your money back, 74 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 2: it's a hassle to get it back out. If we're 75 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: comparing apples with apples, and you want to look at 76 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: the investment market versus property in Australia, we know that 77 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: the share market performs on average higher than the property market. 78 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: But in saying that, if you're not passionate about the 79 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: share market, why are you investing in it? Like if 80 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: that's something that you're like, oh, I can't be bothered, 81 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: but the fire in my belly is lit because of property, 82 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: Like you're going to allocate more funds towards it, Like 83 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 2: we spend money on the things that are of value 84 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: to us. So it's not about which returns more. It's 85 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: actually about what aligns your values, what you want to do. 86 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: And I cannot tell you how to invest your hundred 87 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: thousand dollars, but I think it's important to talk about 88 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: they are two different asset classes and over your lifetime 89 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 2: you're probably gonna want to have a bit of both. 90 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: So if you've got one hundred grand, is it for 91 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 2: a home deposit. Is it for share market up to you? Okay, 92 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 2: that was really diplomatic, I suppose, But I can't give 93 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 2: that advice totally legally. 94 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 4: Probably need to like look at the person. 95 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: What I can tell you? Yeah, tell me don't invest 96 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 2: it in a multi level marketing business. 97 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 4: Oh great advice. 98 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay, I can definitively say that that is 99 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: a terrible idea across that off. Finally you're welcome. 100 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 4: Okay, the next one. I actually always wondered about this too. 101 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 4: So if multiple brokers offer a zero dollar initial fee 102 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 4: in using multiple brokers. 103 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: Do you know how many credit checks you're going to 104 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: rack up? 105 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 4: Of course I don't like that. 106 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: No neither. I don't like that credit checks on your 107 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 2: account decrease your credit score over time, so we want 108 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 2: to minimize those. But on top of that, let's say 109 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 2: you want to go get a home loan with Bank 110 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 2: B and you're like, all right, Bank B, I really 111 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 2: want to go and get a five hundred thousand dollars 112 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: home loan. Then you have another broker working on that. 113 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 2: It actually is submitted under you, Beck, so you are 114 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: like personally identifiable. Another broker can't submit another deal to 115 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 2: the same bank. Without intercepting that and ruining your chances, 116 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: you're probably going to end up with a decline. I see. 117 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: It becomes an admin nightmare for that bank and they 118 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: don't like it. Also, a mortgage broker gets paid by 119 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: the bank. So this is my business Zeller money and 120 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: that's why I can offer services to our clients for free, 121 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 2: which is the biggest money when ever, because we get 122 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 2: paid by the bank when your property settles. It is 123 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: so much work like we have a big team at 124 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 2: Zella because not only are you talking to a broker, 125 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: but you're talking to their CRM. You're then talking to 126 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 2: our admin team in the backround. You then go into 127 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: a settlements officer who's going to make sure that your 128 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 2: process is as smooth as possible and that all the 129 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 2: eyes are dotted and all the tea's across. We LaaS 130 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 2: directly with your conveyancer to make sure that they're doing 131 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 2: their job. But you're in the best possible position. We 132 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: are answering all your questions along the way and making 133 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: sure that you are feeling supported my brokers. Not that 134 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 2: you should be calling your brokers after hours, but they 135 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 2: answer the phone on the weekends. They answer the phone 136 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 2: after hours. They do not want our clients to be stressed. 137 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: That is a lot of time, energy and effort to 138 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: be put in for something that then ultimately doesn't convert 139 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: because you were playing the game. I see, like, I 140 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 2: don't think it is fair. I do think that if 141 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 2: you're on the fence, have an initial meeting with a broker, absolutely, 142 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, work with someone 143 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 2: that you resonate with, because if there is a right 144 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: answer for your situation, both brokers should come to the 145 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: same conclusion. Beck true, they should be, you know, analyzing 146 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 2: it in a certain way and probably be putting the 147 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 2: same bank forward. But it takes us a lot of work. 148 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: It's not just like a quick half an hour meeting 149 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: with a broker. Like in the background, we are doing 150 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 2: so much work, so much research to make sure that 151 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: you are in the best possible position. If you're doing 152 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 2: that to multiple people, you're wasting their time and that 153 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:14,559 Speaker 2: is not cool. 154 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 4: That's so true. I did notice that when my partner 155 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 4: was buying a property, she was messaging them on Sunday, 156 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 4: and I was like, are you allowed to do that? 157 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: I know that you should obviously respect business hours and 158 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: all of that, but like, if you're stressed and want 159 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 2: that support, I want to hold your hand and make 160 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: sure that you're in the best possible position. And I 161 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 2: don't want my clients being stressed because they're like, oh 162 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 2: my god, are we okay for settlement? Yeah, girl, of 163 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 2: course we are. Like if that's all it takes out 164 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: of our day, great, exactly. 165 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 4: Okay, this next one's a good one for all of 166 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 4: us in this cozy liv crisis. 167 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 168 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 4: So, hypothetically, I'm a stay at home mum looking to 169 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 4: an extra income. Do you have any tips? 170 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: I do multi level marketing. 171 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 4: Let's take that out of context and put it on socials. 172 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, actually, put it on a T shirt uneducated, which 173 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 2: is what I'm going for. So do I have some 174 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 2: tips and tricks? Yes. I want you to just stay 175 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: vigilant and know that if it seems too good to 176 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 2: be true, it probably is. There are so many opportunities 177 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 2: that are going to be presented to you because you 178 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 2: are a stay at home mum, because you are relatively 179 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 2: vulnerable in this situation, because like the end of the day, 180 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 2: you want to stay home with your kids, like, and 181 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: I get that, Like, if you've decided that you need 182 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: an extra income so that you can spend more time 183 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 2: with them. And someone comes along and says, hey, back, 184 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 2: so I've got this great business opportunity. You just sign up. 185 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 2: Not hard for you to do three hundred bucks. You 186 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 2: can make so much money on the side, and you 187 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 2: can take your kids to the park whenever. You can 188 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 2: work from wherever. Sounds great, doesn't it. But you need 189 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: to stay vigilant. I would say in terms of earning 190 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 2: extra income, air tasker is fantastic. Are there any tasks 191 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 2: that you could pick up? And do you know, if 192 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: it's a courier job, can the kids come with you? 193 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 2: Can you you know, do a few things here and there. 194 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: Are there any handicrafts that you can do, online surveys 195 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 2: that you could do. Is there a way that you 196 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 2: could get a work from home job, Like one of 197 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 2: our community members has recently gotten a job as a 198 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:07,599 Speaker 2: medical transcriber. 199 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 4: I was gonna say transcribing is pretty good. 200 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty good, and she's earning so much money. 201 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 2: She's only like forty five bucks an hour or something. 202 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 2: It's good to transcribe medical records because they want to 203 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: keep them on file. But she's like, it doesn't matter 204 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: if I do that at nine am, or I'm doing 205 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: it at nine pm, I do it when my kid 206 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: is asleep, and they're fine with that. There are so 207 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 2: many options out there that don't involve you ending up 208 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 2: in a worse off situation. But I also need you 209 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: to know that if you're looking for a way to 210 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 2: earn extra income while still having that lifestyle as estate 211 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: at her mum, there is always going to be some 212 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: level of compromise, Like you can't have your cake and 213 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: eat it too. And maybe this is going to sound tough. 214 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 2: Maybe the realization is this is a season of life. 215 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to earn less right now while I'm focusing 216 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: on my kids, and then once they're at school or 217 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 2: once they're doing this, I can go back to earning 218 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: an income. You don't actually need to do it all. 219 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 2: I feel like there's this boss babe mentality online of like, 220 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 2: if you're going to be a stay at home mum, 221 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: you also need to be working on yourself and you 222 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 2: also need to be having a side hustle. And if 223 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: you don't get up at five am and go to 224 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 2: the gym before the kids wake up, like what are 225 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: you even doing? Absolutely insane unrealistic expectations being put on parents, 226 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 2: Like if you want an extra income stream, great, let's 227 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 2: find one for you, but don't do it because you're 228 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: feeling the pressure because other people are doing it. Yeah. 229 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 4: One also, don't forget clinical trials. 230 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: Sometimes no clinical trials. 231 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 4: Clinical trials, let's take that. 232 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: You can do that one. 233 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 4: That one, Okay, the sext one is a good one. 234 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 4: I feel like I've said that four of them so far, 235 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 4: but they're all good. It's about those golden nuggets of wisdom, 236 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 4: your favorite advice from a mentor or person that you 237 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 4: still use to this day. 238 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 2: Like the advice or the person, because like I feel 239 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: like mentors come and. 240 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 4: Go true maybe both. 241 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 2: If you have favorite advice, I feel like my dad 242 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 2: is that lame. That's probably lame. That'squ welcome dad. So 243 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: there's probably a few pieces of advice. The first one 244 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: is honesty tempered with mercy. WHOA, So that is something 245 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 2: that he's always said. Just because it's true doesn't mean 246 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 2: you have to say it. So like you know, if 247 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 2: something at work is happening and you know it's not working, 248 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 2: like always just being like am I being kind in 249 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: this moment? Or am I just saying it because I can. 250 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 2: I think that's something that I've always taken, especially in 251 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 2: Cheese on the money, Like we have to be honest 252 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 2: because like, at the end of the day, I need 253 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 2: to put you in a best possible position. But you 254 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 2: don't need to crucify someone, like say you're firing someone 255 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: and they're just not the right fit. But they've also 256 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: been messing up a little bit and you've given them 257 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,959 Speaker 2: a few reasons as to why you don't need to 258 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: double down and absolutely bury that person on the way out, 259 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: Like that is not what you need to do. So 260 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: like honesty because like people deserve the truth, but like 261 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 2: sometimes you need to temper it with mercy. I think 262 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: is really good. Yes, The second piece of advice my 263 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: dad gave me was the best number of business partners 264 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: is an odd number of less than three. And I 265 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 2: really wish I had listened to him at the very start, 266 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 2: because that essentially is him saying, don't have business partners. 267 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 2: That sounds savage because I have had a few of 268 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 2: them now, and upon reflection, I have always taken on 269 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: a business partner because I didn't have the confidence that 270 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: I could do it myself. I thought that I needed 271 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: somebody else's support to be successful. I thought that I 272 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 2: needed somebody else to hold my hand through that section. 273 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 2: And the reality is, nobody knows my business is better 274 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: than me. No one cares about my businesses more than me, 275 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 2: No one cares about my mission more than me, and 276 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 2: so then it should just be me. At the end 277 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: of the day. My businesses are better off with me 278 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 2: making those decisions because I do lead in a way 279 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: that not everybody leads, and that's okay, But I think 280 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: it's important to kind of back yourself. Like I think 281 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 2: so often small business owners, especially women, they want to 282 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: be in business. They want to do things because it 283 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: sounds great, but they want someone to be alongside them 284 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 2: for the ride, and sometimes that's not the best decision. 285 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, great advice. 286 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's great advice savage advice. And 287 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 2: also the last piece of advice that I got from 288 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 2: a friend was just don't get up. 289 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 4: God. I love that. 290 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 2: Good advice. 291 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 4: So easy as that. Yeah, great advice. V. Thank you. 292 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 2: Okay, V. 293 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 4: We're talking love and money at this point. Yeah, someone's 294 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 4: asking for your thoughts on the importance of a prenup 295 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 4: for couples. Considering marriage. 296 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: I like that. So first things first, in Australia we 297 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 2: don't have prenups. We have binding financial agreements which are similar, 298 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: but also they can be disputed, so I think it's 299 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: important to know that going in. But I also think 300 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 2: that a prenup, like let's call it, that, is a 301 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 2: good idea to make sure that you're on the same 302 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 2: page going into a marriage. In saying that, it probably 303 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 2: needs to happen prior to marriage, because if you're in 304 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 2: a de facto relationship, you default to the same rules 305 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 2: that apply to a married couple. So it's kind of 306 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 2: the same thing anyway, Like if you moved in with 307 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 2: your girlfriend and you met all of the you know, 308 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: criteria for being a de facto couple, like, you're not 309 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 2: treated that differently these days as a married couple is, 310 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 2: so we do have to be quite careful. It also 311 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 2: depends where you're starting from. Like if you're nineteen and 312 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 2: you're young and in love and you've just gotten married 313 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 2: and you have literally no money to your name, do 314 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: you need a prenup? Probably not, because you haven't started 315 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 2: the relationship with significant assets that need to be taken 316 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 2: into consideration. But if you're on the flip side, and 317 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 2: you know you're in your thirties, maybe it's your second marriage, 318 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: and you have an inheritance from a parent or a 319 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: grandparent that you want to make sure if you came 320 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 2: out of that marriage was protected. Yes, absolutely, I think 321 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 2: we need a binding financial agreement. I also think that 322 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 2: it is really good practice to go into a relationship 323 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: with a clear exit strategy. And that sounds terrible because like, 324 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 2: no one wants their relationship to fall apart, but I agree. 325 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: I didn't marry my husband because I want to divorce him. 326 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: I married him because I wanted his babies and I 327 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: want to be with him for the rest of my life. 328 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 2: But being able to sit down together and talk about, well, 329 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 2: what if this didn't work out, when we're both in 330 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: the headspace of wanting the best for each other, is 331 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 2: a really good outcome because that then becomes the fallback. 332 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 2: So something might happen. We might be really salty at 333 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 2: each other and don't even want to look at each other, 334 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: but we have this document that says, well, this is 335 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 2: how our assets will be divided up, this is how 336 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 2: we would care for our children, this is how we 337 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 2: would do this. Because we decided that when we actually 338 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 2: wanted the best for each other. And I think that 339 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: that's really nice. Yeah, So do I think you need one? 340 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: Not necessarily, but do I think that you should talk 341 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: about an excess strategy for your relationship? Absolutely, And it 342 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: can be a little bit more bid, Like isn't that 343 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 2: a bit weird to be? Like, you know, if I 344 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: said to you and Jess, hey, so what if this 345 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 2: doesn't work out, what you're going to do? Like you're like, oh, no, 346 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: this is going to work out, But like you have 347 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: to to put yourself in the best possible position, and like, 348 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: especially for women, we end up with the raw end 349 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: of the deal half the time. So like, what does 350 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 2: that look like? How is your partner going to advocate 351 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: for you? If you're hypothetically in this very stereotypical relationship. 352 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 2: You're both mid twenties, you're planning on getting married and 353 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 2: having kids, and it's very you know, heterosexual, Like, great, 354 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: so are you going to take time off when your 355 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: husband goes to work and you have kids. What's going 356 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: to happen to your suberannuation, what's going to happen in 357 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 2: the future. I think that we just need to prepare 358 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 2: to make sure that everybody is treated equally. 359 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 4: It's great advice. I actually I'm curious. Maybe it depends 360 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 4: on the agreement, but does that protect your future assets 361 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 4: or just like the current assets. 362 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 2: No, so it protects current assets. Future assets are often 363 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 2: seen as created together. Oh yeah, which is why. And 364 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 2: I'm not a lawyer, so do not quote me, obviously. 365 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: If you're going through this, speak to a lawyer. But 366 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 2: it's why in a court of law, if a woman 367 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 2: stays at home, the man's not automatically going to get 368 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 2: all the money all the super Like. I have situations 369 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,719 Speaker 2: where community members that I've spoken to are like, I 370 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 2: got sixty percent of his super You listen to it 371 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: on money daries all the time because when you sit down, 372 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: she took the hit for you having a career. The 373 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: reason you had a career was somebody was backing you 374 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 2: at home. Like, I think there's just this misconception that 375 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 2: being a stay at home mum or not earning an 376 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 2: income while your partner is means that you're not contributing 377 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 2: when you are, And I think that we need to 378 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 2: see it a little bit more equally. 379 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 4: Completely agree. 380 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 2: I think it's a really good time to just jump 381 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 2: to a quick break, good idea. 382 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 4: I'll get my questions in order, okay, and then we'll 383 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 4: see more when we come back. More when we come back. 384 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 4: Welcome back everyone. Today is a game show that's an 385 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 4: ask me anything for strictly Victoria. 386 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 2: I'm not going to win any money apparently, so I'm 387 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 2: not sure where the game show part comes in. But 388 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad you're having fun back. 389 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 4: I'm having so much fun. I feel like I've already won. 390 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 4: You have one, okay, so this next one, I feel 391 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 4: like you're gonna love this. So it is about multi 392 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 4: level marketing. Oh, I am gonna love this. But I 393 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 4: have been all of you Instagram lately, and I know 394 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 4: you've been sharing your thoughts, so I do my thoughts. Well, yep, 395 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,239 Speaker 4: they are spicy thoughts. Honestly, it feels like it's been 396 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 4: a full on solap opera and I've had my popcorn ready, so. 397 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 2: I feel like so many people have too, Like I'm 398 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 2: not done. 399 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 4: I'm so excited. You even dropped a whole episode on 400 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 4: the weekend about how dodgy MLMs can be. If you 401 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 4: haven't heard one of those yet, go back to episodes. 402 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 4: It was juicy. Do not want to miss it, So 403 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 4: V tell me what are your thoughts. 404 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 2: I hate multi level marketing to my coreback That's why 405 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 2: I did a whole episode on it, and there are 406 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: more to come. Like, I'm not done, I haven't stopped. 407 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 2: I feel like this is a space that we need 408 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 2: education on because the most eye opening thing after dropping 409 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 2: that episode was that people that obviously weren't involved in 410 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 2: multi level marketing, like I didn't realize that this was 411 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 2: so awful. I didn't know this is how it worked. 412 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 2: I had no idea. And that's fantastic for you, but 413 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: you need to be educated because like if your friend's like, hey, Beck, 414 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 2: I've got this great shampoo, uh, You're gonna fall into 415 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 2: it and not know. So I think that as a community, 416 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 2: we deserve the education. But then on the flip side, 417 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: I see so much potential in these women and it's 418 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 2: going to waste on businesses that aren't theirs. So obviously 419 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 2: we did a whole episode. If you missed that, go 420 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 2: and listen to that. But I have a juicy interview 421 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 2: coming up. So doing all my research, I came across 422 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 2: a woman called Emily Lynn Paulson. Oh my gosh, Beck, 423 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm obsessed. She has a book called hay Hunt. Okay, 424 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 2: isn't that so cute? That is cute. That's how so 425 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: many multi level marketing women start their conversations. They'll be like, oh, Heyhun, 426 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: So I was watching your videos and I just thought, Beck, 427 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: you're doing such a good job. Have you ever thought 428 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 2: about the shampoo that you use? Like it actually kills me? 429 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 2: So she's used that, just taken it back. And her 430 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 2: book is called Hayhun Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other 431 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 2: Lies behind multi Level Marketing. And when I saw her write, 432 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: she made more than a million dollars in multi level 433 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 2: marketing and has now flipped and been like that was toxic, 434 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 2: that was awful. I'm so embarrassed. Yeah, in the first 435 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 2: like ninety pages of her book she talks about white supremacy. 436 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: She has gone hard, Like I have so much respect 437 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 2: for her. But we have a juicy interview coming up, 438 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: So if you want to hear more about multi level marketing, 439 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: that's the one that you want to tune into. 440 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so excited for that. 441 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to talk about anything apart 442 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: from that. But that's okay. We've got more questions to 443 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 2: get through. Yeah. 444 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 4: Absolutely, we will get all the juicy, juicy, juicy details, 445 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 4: I'm sure in that episode with Emily. Okay, so this 446 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 4: next question you have is how to raise capital for 447 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 4: a business idea I have Hypothetically it would require me 448 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 4: to buy a bit of stock. 449 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 2: Okay. So obviously there are lots of different ways to 450 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,719 Speaker 2: starting a business. There's bootstrapping. So bootstrapping is where you 451 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 2: like take on every expense yourself, Like maybe you have 452 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 2: another job and you're funding it on the side. Maybe 453 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 2: you've got some savings' like, it's completely up to you. 454 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 2: I get really suspicious when people say I need to 455 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 2: raise capital for my business, because capital comes with a trade, 456 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:16,400 Speaker 2: and that trade is for usually equity in your business. 457 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 2: And I am an advocate of women in particular owning 458 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 2: one hundred percent of their asset. So if you're saying 459 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,880 Speaker 2: I really need to raise capital for a business idea, 460 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 2: So capital is cash so that you can invest into 461 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,640 Speaker 2: your business. So do you want you know, if I said, hey, Beck, 462 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: I'll give you one hundred grand for this business idea, 463 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 2: but I want thirty percent of your business. If you're 464 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 2: so invested in this business and you know it's going 465 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 2: to be successful. Do you really want to sell out 466 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 2: that early and lose that much percentage of your business 467 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 2: before you've even begun right, Like some businesses you definitely 468 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 2: need funding for, but like I want you to have 469 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,719 Speaker 2: dotted all your eyes, crossed all your teas and make 470 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,719 Speaker 2: sure that you're in the best possible position before you've 471 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 2: done that. So have you done a full budget? Have 472 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 2: you done a forecast for a full year of expenses, 473 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 2: like all the way down to what is your website 474 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 2: hosting fee going to be? What is shipping going to cost? 475 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: You said you needed to buy stock. I'm assuming maybe 476 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: just like a retail business, you're buying stock. What is 477 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: the insurance going to cost to get that stock to 478 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 2: your warehouse? What is the warehouse going to cost? Like, 479 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 2: I want to know everything before you even think about 480 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: going into business and raising capital. If you're raising capital 481 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 2: and you don't have complete clarity on what that business 482 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,199 Speaker 2: is becoming, you are not ready to raise capital. Well, like, 483 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 2: I just have a lot of thoughts about that. But 484 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 2: then also have you looked into business grants? Oh? 485 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: True? 486 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 2: Is that an option? There is so much money out 487 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 2: there and so many resources for small business owners to 488 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 2: get grants. Grants are literally like winning the business lottery beck, 489 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 2: Like the government is going to gift you some money 490 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 2: just to help you with your business. If you pitch 491 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 2: it properly right, that's a better deal than giving somebody 492 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 2: else a cut of your business. Also, have you thought 493 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 2: about maybe saving for a little longer, Like if you 494 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 2: aren't ready to buite the bullet and you don't have 495 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,239 Speaker 2: capital to start the business, should you stay in your 496 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 2: job a little bit longer, save a bit more, and 497 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,880 Speaker 2: start it a little bit later. Or Obviously I don't 498 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 2: love debt, but business debt is an option. Could you 499 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,199 Speaker 2: go to a bank and get a loan so that 500 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 2: you owe a bank money, pay that back and you 501 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 2: still own one hundred percent of your business. So I 502 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 2: think that there are a lot of thoughts and feelings 503 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: I have. How would you then raise capital if you've 504 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 2: decided there are lots of different ways. There is crowdfunding, 505 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 2: There is you know angel investors, there is you know 506 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 2: business brokers that could go out and help you raise that. 507 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 2: There are heaps of options. But I would be trying 508 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: to avoid raising capital at all costs. Before trying to 509 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 2: raise capital, I think it should be the last thing 510 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: that is. 511 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 4: A lot to wrap my head around. But I'm sure 512 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 4: if you're in the business of wanting to start a business. 513 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, please help me. Yeah, don't take people's cash holder 514 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 2: unless you really, really really have to. 515 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 4: Absolutely, that's great advice for me. God, I'm trying. 516 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 2: I'm trying you. Actually, I'm actually a business owner who 517 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 2: has had mulgeperience that has cost me hundreds, if not 518 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 2: millions of dollars. Sure it of so yeah, don't do that. 519 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay. This one is one that I'm sure most 520 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 4: of our community have asked themselves. When should you see 521 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 4: your financial advisor? Do you need to have a certain 522 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 4: amount of savings or goals before you do well? 523 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 2: It depends. And this is going to annoy all the 524 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 2: financial advisors, so close your little ears. But not everybody 525 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 2: needs a financial advisor. Sure, if you are somebody who 526 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,959 Speaker 2: wants some help on your goals and your investments and 527 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 2: achieving them, then sure seeing a financial advisor will help. 528 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: But there is the ability to do it yourself. I'm 529 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 2: not saying it's the best option. It's kind of like 530 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 2: getting a gym membership back, Like if I went and 531 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 2: got a gym membership and you went and got a 532 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 2: gym membership. I know you are so good at going 533 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: to the gym, but if I had the gym membership, 534 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 2: I'm not going because I don't have any accountability. So 535 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 2: a financial advisor is kind of like a personal trainer 536 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 2: in that they might get you in the gym, they 537 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 2: might actually get you doing your program. They might actually 538 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: get you investing and creating wealth and doing all of 539 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 2: those things. Maybe you feel like you've got to the 540 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 2: end of your dear why journey. You're investing, you're saving, 541 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,439 Speaker 2: you've got super you've got a property, and you're like like, 542 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 2: maybe I need to take it to the next level. 543 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 2: That is when you might want to see a financial advisor. 544 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: Not everybody needs one, but if you're going to see one, 545 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 2: I think it's important to have a lot of clarity 546 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 2: around your goals because they're going to ask you. Like 547 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 2: in my fact find meetings when I was a financial advisor, 548 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 2: I want all the info like prior to the meeting, 549 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 2: like what you earn, what you spend, what you own, 550 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 2: what you owe. But then I want you to go, 551 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: why are you here? What do you want from me? 552 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 2: If you go, oh, I don't know. I just want 553 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 2: to be better at money. That's really hard because I 554 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 2: could have six million different outcomes for you depending on 555 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 2: your goals. But if you don't have goals, am I 556 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 2: picking your goals? Are you going to like? That? Probably 557 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: not ideal. So before I saw a financial advisor, I 558 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 2: would sit down. I would do a full budget because 559 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 2: that's within your power. Like there is a free budget 560 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: on our website that you can download at any time 561 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 2: to do. I will do that for you for free. Literally, 562 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 2: go and download it and do it. If you want 563 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 2: to take it to the next level. We've got our 564 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 2: money master class that is a really good thing to 565 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 2: invest in. If you want to take your budget and 566 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 2: your cash flow to the next level, you can do 567 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: all of that. You can sit down, you can write 568 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 2: down your goals, you can write down what you want 569 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 2: to achieve. You can have a chat with your partner, 570 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 2: you can zoom out, you can look at your super fund. 571 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: You can call your super fund and have a chat 572 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: to the advisors there for free because it's included in 573 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 2: your super fees. Like, exhaust all of these options, I 574 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 2: would say before seeing a financial advisor, and then when 575 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 2: you decide I want to see financial advisor, that investment 576 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 2: is going to be worth it. Yeah, that investment is 577 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 2: going to help you be in the best possible financial position. 578 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 2: But no, you don't need to have certain savings. You 579 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 2: could have zero dollars to your name and seeing a 580 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 2: financial advisor makes sense. 581 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 4: It's comforting. 582 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 2: Or you could have one hundred million dollars and seeing 583 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 2: a financial advisor then makes sense. So it's not necessarily 584 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 2: about how much money you have, but how much value 585 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: you place on paying for advice. 586 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 4: Okay, this one's a bit gzy. What are some financial 587 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 4: decisions you've made in the past five years that you 588 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 4: would change or that you regret. 589 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, lots To be honest, I am a very 590 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 2: good impulse purchaser. What's a small one that I made 591 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: this week? Are you ready? I am actually really embarrassed 592 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 2: by this. So I got back to the office the 593 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 2: other day after making this purchase and I said to 594 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 2: my whole team, I am embarrassed. I cannot believe I 595 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 2: just did this. I bought a dress last weekend for 596 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,719 Speaker 2: two hundred and fifty dollars from chic. I really wanted it. 597 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 2: I have had my eye on it. Whatever bought the dress. 598 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 2: I am really short, so that dress needs to be 599 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 2: taken up, and I just in my head thought that's 600 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 2: not that expensive. So I went down to the tailor 601 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: and she's like, put the dress on Norri's. She marks 602 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 2: it all up for it being taken up, and I'm like, yep, Crogel, 603 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: no worry's going to go to the checkout beck one 604 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 2: hundred and sixty five dollars. It is a cotton dress, Like, 605 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 2: I don't think it's that complicated anyway, one hundred and 606 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 2: sixty five dollars. And the regret I have is that 607 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 2: I just didn't say anything. I felt sick. There was 608 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 2: somebody behind me waiting in the line, and I didn't 609 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 2: want to like student. 610 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 4: And totally can't. 611 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 2: I in that moment was like, but I am, she's 612 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 2: on the money. I should be questioning this, Like I 613 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 2: just want to get out of this situation. Got back 614 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,679 Speaker 2: to the office. I regret that. I don't know if 615 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: I regret any of the really, really big mistakes. So 616 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 2: when I was twenty two, I took out a forty 617 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 2: thousand dollar personal loan so that I could buy a car, 618 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 2: I could travel to France and study, and I could 619 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 2: go on a holiday. In hindsight, I wish I had 620 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 2: better financial literacy so that I didn't make that decision, 621 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 2: But I feel like me being in that debt was 622 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 2: pivotal to creating my career and actually valuing money more. 623 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 2: I feel like I needed that kickup the butt. I 624 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 2: needed that stress, I needed that anxiety. I needed to 625 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 2: go through that to grow through that in a way. 626 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 2: And I don't think that today I would be as 627 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: good at managing my finances if I didn't have something 628 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 2: like that that puts significant pressure on me. No one 629 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: deserves to be in that amount of debt. But at 630 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: the same time, I don't regret it. I know at 631 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 2: the time I was doing the best that I could 632 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: with the tools and the reaci I had. So are 633 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: there big things that I would regret, Sure, But I 634 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: think the things that other people regret might not be 635 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: my regrets. It's personal, right, Absolutely, it's personal. 636 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 4: We all on our own journey. 637 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 2: Do I regret that one hundred and sixty five dollars 638 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 2: tailor charge. Absolutely, I'm still embarrassed by it, but that's okay. 639 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 4: You come to me next time I chop it off. 640 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: See, I feel like the dress would look better just hacked. 641 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 4: At this point, it looks cool, But now what. 642 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: Am I going to go do? Pick it up and 643 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: then wear it and just always be annoyed by it. 644 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 2: I don't know how this is going to pan out. 645 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 4: No money comes and goes. 646 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 2: You say that. Now, I do have my own questions, 647 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 2: but you've got your own questions. I'm ready. 648 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 4: They're not educational, they're not money. 649 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: I feelated if you're asking them, I'm scared, but also 650 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 2: probably the community of thinking them as well. So what 651 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 2: are they? 652 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 4: Okay, And you don't have to answer it. 653 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 2: It is I like how you're prefacing it. But also 654 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 2: this is an AMA and I'm great. 655 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to know what your first email address? 656 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 2: Okay, it was pink Cotton Candy underscore xx at hotmail 657 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 2: dot com. 658 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 4: Oh that's not too bad. Actually, if you still had. 659 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 2: That, that makes it. I don't I mean you could 660 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 2: email it. I don't know the log in. Yeah, like, 661 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: I don't know the password. I don't even know how 662 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 2: to recover that. But yeah, pink Cotton Candy underscore xx and. 663 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 4: That was candy. Why I don't know that really paints 664 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 4: a picture of your teenage self. 665 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does, just it you don't want to know 666 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 2: her she was interesting. 667 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 4: Okay, the next one is really short and sweet. You 668 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 4: have any tattooes? 669 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: Oh? 670 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 2: Yes I do, I should, Yes, I do. I have 671 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 2: two tattoos. They're both on my face. They are my eyebrows. 672 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 2: That is it? 673 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 3: Oh? 674 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 2: Really? Yeah? Incredible? Yeah, I am too scared to get 675 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 2: a tattoo, not because of the pain, but because like 676 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 2: what if I changed my mind? 677 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's fair. 678 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 2: I changed my mind all the time. Like I am 679 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 2: so noncommittal, like I love the idea of a tattoo, 680 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 2: but also like, oh, I don't know where i'd put it. 681 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 2: How do you even pick where you put your first tattoo? 682 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: And then I'm a creature of like balance, so like 683 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 2: if I get one on my left arm, do I 684 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: have to get one to match all my right arm? 685 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: Like? 686 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: Oh the anxiety? 687 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 4: My first one was on my bum cheek. Maybe I 688 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 4: need to get on the other one now maybe? Okay? 689 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 2: And then if I had a tattoo, what do you 690 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 2: think it would have been if you had a tattoo? Yeah, 691 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 2: that wasn't my eyebrows. Wasn't your eyebrows even count? I 692 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 2: don't know, I think they count. 693 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 4: Okay, I think it's really really cool okay, so I 694 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 4: would think you would get. 695 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 2: You think I would have a tramp stamp. Don't you 696 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 2: use like an angel or something? 697 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 4: I think juicy just above your butt crack. 698 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 2: Oh, I will put that in the suggestions box. 699 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 4: Thank you if you could actually get that done. 700 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 2: Do you know what again, suggestions box will come back 701 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 2: to it perfect. 702 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 4: I just really quickly want to know your favorite color. 703 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: My favorite color? 704 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 4: No black, no blue, no, I actually can't think of 705 00:31:58,720 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 4: a single other color. 706 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 2: Like orange. 707 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 4: Oh, she's an orange girl. 708 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 2: I really like orange, like but like more erring on 709 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 2: the side of like the yellow orange, like you know 710 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 2: that like verve clicko orange, like that champagne color. I 711 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 2: just feel like that is like so happy, just a 712 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 2: happy color like pink. Yeah, cool, Like I like pink, 713 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 2: it's the brand colors. But like you just look at 714 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 2: like a bright orange yellow and you go, that's happy. 715 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 2: I like, yeah, that's my favorite. 716 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 4: Yeah okay, And then this one is not for me. 717 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 4: We're back on the money. 718 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 2: So we've gone from email addresses back to money questions. 719 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,480 Speaker 2: I like it. 720 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 4: Okay, So what's yours and Steve's next financial goal and 721 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 4: what is a financial decision you'll make outside the norm 722 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 4: in the next few months. 723 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 2: Outside the norm. Okay, I feel like those are two 724 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: different questions. So what is our next financial goal? So 725 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 2: full clarity, we currently have two mortgages and we would 726 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 2: like to extinguish one of those mortgages because the idea 727 00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 2: of being in seven figures of debt is really ANXI inducing. 728 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 2: I really don't like it. So we are trying to 729 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 2: smash down one of those. We don't have any other 730 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 2: big spends. I think that we've been through that season 731 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: in our lives, like we have gotten married. That was 732 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 2: a big one. We bought our first home. We were 733 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 2: lucky enough to have enough equity in our first home 734 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: to buy our second property. So now I think it's 735 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 2: about settling down. I mean, I know that we want 736 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 2: to go on some more family holidays, but we went 737 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 2: on a big europe trip and so now we're kind 738 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 2: of like, oh, like I don't really want to do that. 739 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 2: I want to do it again, but like, financially, it's 740 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 2: just to us not a responsible use of our funds. 741 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 2: And I also, being completely transparent, sold down a lot 742 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 2: of my share portfolio to buy back the rest of 743 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 2: Zella money. So you know, a lot of people have 744 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 2: probably seen that I am now the again sole owner. 745 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 2: I had a business partner for a period of time. 746 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 2: I don't I would really like to bump all of 747 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 2: those investing dollars back up because I sold them down 748 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 2: so that I could purchase a business partner out. And 749 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 2: that's fine, that makes sense, and I was very grateful 750 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 2: to be in a situation where I could do that. 751 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, I would like to get our investments back 752 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: on track because they definitely took a hit. And then 753 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,479 Speaker 2: what is a financial decision that will make outside the norm? 754 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,919 Speaker 2: I don't know if we'll make a financial decision that's 755 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 2: super outside the norm. We are currently landscaping, is that 756 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 2: the right word? Like we're doing our front yard, and 757 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 2: we got some big quotes back that I didn't anticipate 758 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 2: to do that, Like they were between fifty and seventy 759 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 2: thousand dollars for a front yard, and I just thought 760 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 2: that was a lot of money. So we'll probably spend 761 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe forty thousand dollars on our front 762 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 2: yard because it needs a whole driveway, so it's not 763 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 2: just like landscaping, Like we actually need to move the 764 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 2: entrance to our house, which is quite Spano. 765 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 4: It's a big one. 766 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably a big expense that's coming up. But 767 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 2: we've also been talking about it because we bought that 768 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 2: house in twenty twenty, so this has been in the 769 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 2: works for the last four years. 770 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 4: I see. 771 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 2: So I don't want people thinking, oh, V just has 772 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 2: you know, cash sitting around, because I also think, following 773 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 2: onto that, that there is a very big misconception that 774 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 2: I earn heaps and heaps and heaps of money and 775 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: we are very comfortable. Please don't get me wrong, but 776 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 2: we also do budget and cash flow. And when I 777 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 2: say I love budgeting and cash flow, like I do 778 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 2: it for us every single month, like I'm on top 779 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 2: of that, and most of the income that she's on, 780 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 2: the money and Zella money make get reinvested back into 781 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 2: the business. And I want to be as transparent about 782 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 2: that at the same time as being a little bit 783 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 2: protective of that. Yeah, And the reason I want to 784 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 2: be protective of it is not because I'm embarrassed by it, 785 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 2: like in fact, my whole team know what I earn 786 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,240 Speaker 2: and what I do, because I think being transparent is important. 787 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:46,360 Speaker 2: But I am an outlier in this space. I'm not 788 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 2: employed by somebody. I control my income and I'm a 789 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 2: business owner of multiple businesses, So do I earn a 790 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 2: lot of money, yes, in comparison to what the average 791 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:02,479 Speaker 2: income of an Australian is. I don't think that by 792 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 2: sharing my income with the community it actually helps you 793 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 2: or inspires you, because I'm not speaking most of the 794 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 2: time to other business owners where that's aspirational, and speaking 795 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 2: to people who are earning normal salaries who need me 796 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 2: to be an advocate, not somebody who's completely unrelatable, right, 797 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 2: And so my view on that is that it's not 798 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 2: constructive for the community to share that. But I have 799 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 2: shared how I budget, what I do, the templates like, 800 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 2: I will give you absolutely everything to be successful, and 801 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 2: I will be honest about you know where I can, 802 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 2: what I'm spending and what I'm earning. But I just 803 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 2: think that by sharing a number, it doesn't really give 804 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 2: you anything in exchange except for answering something pervy that 805 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 2: doesn't really contribute to the success of our community. 806 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 4: Sure completely agree? 807 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 2: Is that weird? No? 808 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 4: Not all, even though I am always curious about the 809 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 4: little nitty gritty details. Yeah, what's that doing? We don't 810 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 4: need it? I know if you hear that. That's the buzzer. 811 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 2: Oh we could edit one in in post if we could. 812 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 4: That would be lovely. 813 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 2: That was a nice buzzer. 814 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 4: What wow, that was allowed? Oh geez, really nostalgic. Time's 815 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 4: up for today's episode of Ask v Anything. We've battled 816 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 4: through your questions and we've all just won the grand prize. 817 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,720 Speaker 4: Better financial knowledge? Is that? Better financial knowledge? 818 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 2: You do know my email address that I can't access 819 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 2: and we're in cotton Candy underscore xx if anybody would 820 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 2: like to slide into my emails which nobody. 821 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,839 Speaker 4: Checks, and we need to go fund me for your 822 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 4: next tattoo. 823 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 2: That is true. That is true. We can again talk 824 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 2: about that at a later day. 825 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 4: Really, Okay, don't worry. 826 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 2: This is not the end of the game, isn't it. 827 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 2: Oh No, apparently we're waiting for the next one. So 828 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: I guess if you want to do more, AMAS, make 829 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 2: sure that you're checking in on our Instagram because that's 830 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: where we drop all of the callouts and the questions 831 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 2: for episodes like this. And also I get the opportunity 832 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 2: to rant about multi level much. Yeah, so that is 833 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 2: really fun. Anyway, this has been kind of fun. Yeah, 834 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 2: I don't hate it, we can do it again, but 835 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 2: till then, we'll see you on Friday for a Friday 836 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 2: episode and we hope that you have the best week. 837 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 4: Bye guys. 838 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 2: The advice shared on She's on the Money is general 839 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,879 Speaker 2: in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. 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