Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the
Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the yugen Beh region.
Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,
Speaker 1: sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders
Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal
Speaker 1: and terrestrid Islander peoples. Today. Hello and welcome back to
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for
Speaker 1: ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and
Speaker 1: welcome back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host,
Speaker 1: Georgie Stephenson. And today we have our episodes we like
Speaker 1: to call Georgie's Hotline. These are our fun Friday EPs
Speaker 1: where you send in your life dilemmas and I provide
Speaker 1: my unqualified two cents on the situation and so does
Speaker 1: a tea. All right, guys, today is a fun one.
Speaker 1: We are chatting how do I know if moving is
Speaker 1: right for me? And also how do we find our passions?
Speaker 1: This was a great one to chat about because that
Speaker 1: is something I have very much struggled with. But before
Speaker 1: we get into the show, our weekly recommendations. So Atia
Speaker 1: basically said I couldn't just re recommend her recommendations that
Speaker 1: I had then watched, but I'm gonna do it anyway.
Speaker 1: So guys, when it'saw top gun, I think I told
Speaker 1: you this on Tuesday's episode, Great, definitely recommend. It's like
Speaker 1: Blockbuster feels like an old m You know how Tim
Speaker 1: says all the time, they just don't make movies like
Speaker 1: they did anymore. That's how it felt. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: a movie like they used to. Yes, so good, loved
Speaker 1: and then also I binged watch this summer I got pretty,
Speaker 1: which I do recommended last week's episode so good, A Tia,
Speaker 1: I like almost want to rewatch it. It's just like
Speaker 1: teenage heart throb, teenage drama, and I live for it.
Speaker 1: I live for teenage drama. And I don't know why,
Speaker 1: A Tia, are you Tim Conrad or Tim Jeremy.
Speaker 2: Jeremiah Wow, Jeremiah Aar.
Speaker 1: Is just too problematic. He's just such a bad boy.
Speaker 2: I just feel like she needs someone emotionally available when
Speaker 2: she is not.
Speaker 1: That's just my opinion, I know, but I just feel
Speaker 1: like he's like misunderstood. You can't fix everyone. I just
Speaker 1: feel like he's misunderstood and he just needs some guidance
Speaker 1: from her. I mean, I feel like he's just misunderstood
Speaker 1: and he needs some guidance from me. I mean her.
Speaker 2: I was texting a Tier and I was like, also,
Speaker 2: you just text me with no context the first time.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh gee, this show is so good.
Speaker 2: And like I've told you to watch like five shows.
Speaker 1: I need some context. Also, I was like, sobbing. I
Speaker 1: was sad, literally sobbing. But it's worth it. It's not like
Speaker 1: one of those sad movies where you're like, holy fuck,
Speaker 1: I just wasted two hours and now I'm so sad.
Speaker 1: It's good and I really hope they make a second season.
Speaker 1: Mean too, but okay, definitely I'm going to re recommend
Speaker 1: those love and then my actual recommendation for the week.
Speaker 1: This is not like a movie or anything, but something
Speaker 1: I've been doing is I recently made the shift and
Speaker 1: I've been going to an actual gym. So previously I
Speaker 1: was going to like F forty five and doing group training,
Speaker 1: which was kind of good to get out of, like
Speaker 1: my getting back into gym postpartum, but I like, I
Speaker 1: don't love the training. It's just like very full on
Speaker 1: and very hard on your body and very cardio based
Speaker 1: where I love strength training. So I've recently joined a
Speaker 1: gym just for two days a week, and so I
Speaker 1: do a warm up walk before the strength session. That
Speaker 1: was a long way just to get into that bit.
Speaker 1: But I have been doing this thing where instead of
Speaker 1: like scrolling Instagram on my five minute walk, I'll just
Speaker 1: go into Pinterest, go into my vision board board, and
Speaker 1: I do that thing where it's like show me pins
Speaker 1: that this board recommends.
Speaker 2: Oh, yes, yes, I love that spot of Pinterest.
Speaker 1: Yes, and then I will just repin some more pins.
Speaker 1: So every day I try and repin five more pins
Speaker 1: that like make me feel good, make me feel inspired,
Speaker 1: And I just feel like it almost does the same
Speaker 1: thing of you know that reaction where you just go
Speaker 1: to Instagram to scroll. It's like almost like a bit
Speaker 1: of an addiction. Yes, it almost replaces that because you're
Speaker 1: like scrolling, but instead of like looking at just like
Speaker 1: random people's content and just like not knowing how that's
Speaker 1: going to make me feel. It's like I'm scrolling pinning
Speaker 1: makes me feel good, Let's smash the workout.
Speaker 2: Oh I love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's weird because I've never really used Pinterest
Speaker 1: that way. But I'm really enjoying. It's like, yeah, just
Speaker 1: using it a different way, and it's like so simple,
Speaker 1: but it's been very effective for me. I love it.
Speaker 1: That's my recommendation. Do you have any other recommendations this week?
Speaker 2: A tear your Pinterest? One inspired one for me that
Speaker 2: I've recently been doing as well on Pinterest is I've
Speaker 2: made a quotees board where love I pin quotes that
Speaker 2: light me up that I enjoy. But I've got sort
Speaker 2: of two quotes boards. One's very like manifesty alignment. I've
Speaker 2: pinned my angel number definitions on there, and then the
Speaker 2: other one, I was like, I want quotes boards that's
Speaker 2: just bright colors. So all the quotes are like very
Speaker 2: graphically done, all in like brights, pinks and oranges and yellows,
Speaker 2: and they're very motivating. Someone i'm feeling a bit down,
Speaker 2: I go to that board and then I pin more
Speaker 2: quotes to that board love. And then my second one
Speaker 2: is a movie. I watched it on the weekend and
Speaker 2: it's so random, but I love true stories but sports movies,
Speaker 2: if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: What a niche general love? Yeah, we love we love them.
Speaker 2: And it was called rise Right and it's like I
Speaker 2: think Star made it, but it's on Disney Plus because
Speaker 2: Disney owns it. But it's about three brothers who whose
Speaker 2: parents they became immigrants, but they were undocumented for most
Speaker 2: of their lives in Greece and they made it to
Speaker 2: the NBA and they are the first three siblings to
Speaker 2: ever win an NBA final. And it's like very recent,
Speaker 2: like what all three of them, all three of them
Speaker 2: have been in a team that's one a final and
Speaker 2: their stories just like next level. And I was again
Speaker 2: like crying at the end of it because it was
Speaker 2: so beautiful and so motivating because of how hard they
Speaker 2: worked and the risks they took because they obviously had to.
Speaker 2: Then they were still undocumented when he went to the
Speaker 2: drafting of the NBA, and that meant he either got
Speaker 2: drafted and the family got moved to America or they
Speaker 2: got deported because people would know, Oh, my buckreat movie,
Speaker 2: what a good recommendation.
Speaker 1: I love. I love one of those movies too. Have
Speaker 1: you seen the recent one with Will Smith King Richard? Yeah, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: we spoke about it. Yeah, loved King Richard. That was
Speaker 1: such an aspiring It's very similar to that.
Speaker 2: I'd say I'll.
Speaker 1: Definitely be watching that. Thank you and watch me re
Speaker 1: recommend it next week. All right, guys, let's get into
Speaker 1: Geordie's hotline.
Speaker 2: So our first question. I'm in my late twenties and
Speaker 2: have been through a major career change, moving from physiotherapy
Speaker 2: into marketing. I'm loving it and feeling like I have
Speaker 2: finally done something for myself and not to please anyone else.
Speaker 2: My partner and I live in Melbourne and want to
Speaker 2: move to the Sunshine Coast for a lifestyle change. I'm
Speaker 2: super excited about it. However, recently a mentor of mine
Speaker 2: in the marketing industry advised me to stay in Melbourne
Speaker 2: for better career opportunities. I'm super confused now because I
Speaker 2: really want to move for the lifestyle change and for
Speaker 2: my mental health. The city makes me stressed and anxious.
Speaker 2: I do care about my career, but I'm worried if
Speaker 2: I stay. I'm only doing it because it's what I
Speaker 2: should do, like I did when I went into physio.
Speaker 2: What should I prioritize moving somewhere I'm dreaming about, or
Speaker 2: staying in the city to work.
Speaker 1: Oh love lean he in. Such a good question, Such
Speaker 1: a good question, and Tia knows what I'm gonna say,
Speaker 1: I do. I think everyone knows that you're going to say.
Speaker 1: I just think you having this pull towards a different
Speaker 1: lifestyle to the Sunshine Coast, Like you said, this is
Speaker 1: for your mental health, and you just for whatever reason
Speaker 1: it feels right. I think you need to follow that intuition.
Speaker 1: And I think that is on your heart for a reason.
Speaker 1: Like I say, like, trust your heart desires. It happens
Speaker 1: for a reason. And I just think that it's very
Speaker 1: unfortunate that your mentor has said that because it's such
Speaker 1: a limiting belief that there's less opportunities. It is, But
Speaker 1: I also understand where they're coming from in the sense
Speaker 1: that I guess it comes down to what industry you
Speaker 1: are marketing in. No, like, logically, one hundred percent, it
Speaker 1: makes sense because it's Melbourne compared to the Sunshine Coast.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Tim actually went up to Sunshine Coast the other day
Speaker 1: and he was like, fuck, it is so quiet there.
Speaker 1: It is amazing, so quiet and so chill. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: I completely, like, logically get what this person is encouraging
Speaker 1: her to do.
Speaker 2: But it's like, if it's for your mental health and
Speaker 2: the city makes you stressed and anxious. How can you
Speaker 2: even no?
Speaker 1: But it's honestly, more like, it is such a limiting
Speaker 1: belief to think, Okay, well, big cities, big opportunities, because
Speaker 1: for instance, I moved from Brisbane City to the Gold
Speaker 1: Coast and I would say I'm more abundant, I'm living
Speaker 1: in Alignment. It was the best pick for me, and
Speaker 1: obviously I'm a little bit different because I started my
Speaker 1: own business. But again, like I just think that's such
Speaker 1: a limiting belief to go, oh, well, you leave Melbourne,
Speaker 1: you leave the opportunities. Yeah, don't you agree?
Speaker 2: I do, especially since a lot of companies now have
Speaker 2: switched considering like you're obviously looking at corporate marketing if
Speaker 2: you're thinking that there's more opportunities in Melbourne because there's
Speaker 2: small businesses you can market for everywhere.
Speaker 1: But a lot of those big.
Speaker 2: Corporates now let you work remote, yes, and don't think
Speaker 2: they're going to have an issue with you living in
Speaker 2: the Sunshine Coast.
Speaker 1: But also, if you're someone who wants to move to
Speaker 1: the Sunshine Coast, I'm probably thinking you're not interested in
Speaker 1: working in corporate marketing.
Speaker 2: True, yeah, so is it who even cares?
Speaker 1: And maybe you know she finds this amazing business. Like
Speaker 1: I'd even too, you know, as an expander, I would
Speaker 1: look at some big companies at the Sunshine Coast. You
Speaker 1: know that could be a possibility. Or maybe it's like
Speaker 1: you said it here there's heaps of like smaller companies
Speaker 1: that you can contract to, or I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think I think the opportunities are endless. You just need
Speaker 1: to rewrite these stories, like I say in the project,
Speaker 1: like you need to rewrite this so this is so
Speaker 1: perfect for you. But again it's only if you are
Speaker 1: really following your intuition and you're following these heart desires
Speaker 1: because like I said, I just think you can't fuck
Speaker 1: it up if you do that exactly. And I think
Speaker 1: even looking at it more like if you are your
Speaker 1: best self and that is at the Sunshine Coast, the
Speaker 1: work will come to you because the work you output
Speaker 1: will be at such a higher standard. Then if you're
Speaker 1: trying to force yourself to fit in in Melbourne, and
Speaker 1: you're probably gonna end up going so much further, so
Speaker 1: much faster, if you move to the Sunshine Coast, then
Speaker 1: if you stayed in Melbourne one hundred percent and like attracts,
Speaker 1: like if we're talking full manifesting. If she is vibing
Speaker 1: way higher at the Sunshine Coast and she's feeling better
Speaker 1: mentally and she's feeling herself and she's like, yes, she's
Speaker 1: leaning into that. She's one hundred percent going to attract
Speaker 1: the perfect opportunity for her. Yeah, love love, So in
Speaker 1: the end, move in conclusion, move girlfriend, Trustia, gut exciting.
Speaker 2: Okay, this one's a bit of a long question, but
Speaker 2: I love it. Let's do it.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 2: I quit my corporate job after working there for two years.
Speaker 2: I started there right after I finished UNI. I quit
Speaker 2: the job because it didn't fulfill me whatsoever, and I
Speaker 2: was unhappy the whole time. I knew it was the
Speaker 2: wrong job for me, but I did it to have
Speaker 2: working experience. Now I plan to travel for a few months,
Speaker 2: mainly Peru, because I want to connect with my roots
Speaker 2: there cool and when I come back, I have decided
Speaker 2: to go to UNI again to do my masters because
Speaker 2: I do not want to work right now. I feel
Speaker 2: like the corporate job sucked all the joy and motivation
Speaker 2: out of me to build a career in my field.
Speaker 2: I studied business, specifically finance. In some level, I know
Speaker 2: this type of career won't fulfill me in the future,
Speaker 2: but I just can't seem to find any other purpose
Speaker 2: for me in life. Whenever a passion or hobby comes
Speaker 2: my way, I am motivated for maybe a few months,
Speaker 2: but then I lose interest. How do I find my passion,
Speaker 2: my heart's desire that would fulfill me, Maybe not even
Speaker 2: to make a career out of it, but something I
Speaker 2: can do on the side that would bring happiness, even
Speaker 2: if I worked full time at a corporate job.
Speaker 1: She's a long one, she's all on one. Well, let's
Speaker 1: kind of like break this up a little bit, so like,
Speaker 1: let's talk about the first Cooper. Oh my god, guys,
Speaker 1: you need to leave that in. Cooper just fucking barges
Speaker 1: in here, thinks he owns the place. The RNC farmer
Speaker 1: off you. I'm so sorry, guys. Cooper is so rude.
Speaker 1: He just he just in so loud, almost on purpose.
Speaker 1: I swear, he just likes to fuck with our recordings.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, sorry, getting back into it. Let's break
Speaker 1: it down. So let's go straight back to the She
Speaker 1: wants to go overseas to Peru.
Speaker 2: I would first say, as well, congratulations for quitting a job.
Speaker 2: That you felt didn't fulfill you, because that's actually a
Speaker 2: huge thing to do when you're straight out of UNI.
Speaker 1: Yes, so true. Congrats girlfriend, big, big fucking yeah.
Speaker 2: Huge.
Speaker 1: So I think this hole you wanting to travel and
Speaker 1: go to Peru is such a you know, like intuitive
Speaker 1: step and just I don't know, if you are trying
Speaker 1: to find the next thing, you're trying all these passions.
Speaker 1: It almost feels to me like she's like forcing it,
Speaker 1: and it's like, I think you need to take a breather,
Speaker 1: because you know, I say this so much. But from
Speaker 1: when I quit my corporate job to actually finding my passion,
Speaker 1: which was starting Naked Harvest, it was a year and
Speaker 1: a half to two years.
Speaker 2: That's a long time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I did a whole bunch of other stuff,
Speaker 1: but my attitude towards it wasn't I haven't found my
Speaker 1: passion Like all the stuff. I knew it wasn't the
Speaker 1: end goal. But I was just like enjoying life and
Speaker 1: trying different things. And to me, it kind of sounds
Speaker 1: like she's put this time limit on herself and this
Speaker 1: like she needs to find her passion now instead of
Speaker 1: just like going with it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like as well, like you have
Speaker 2: absolutely no idea what's going to happen when you travel? Yeah,
Speaker 2: and traveling is the best thing ever.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I don't know. As soon as I
Speaker 1: said that, sorry, as soon as I read that, I
Speaker 1: thought something's going to happen in Peru.
Speaker 2: Yeah you yeah, weirdly, like you don't know who you're
Speaker 2: going to meet, what you're going to find.
Speaker 1: I have this great story, yes, tell us, so let
Speaker 1: me find her. I want to give her a shout
Speaker 1: out because I love her content. If you love my content,
Speaker 1: you will love Sam's content. Content. Blaza. So sorry, it's
Speaker 1: like working five pm. We been working since seven am,
Speaker 1: and we're just so tired. I'm not even tired. It's
Speaker 1: like five yeah, but like my brain is just at
Speaker 1: that point. Her name on Instagram is Samantha Daily Sam
Speaker 1: love her have We've had her on the body like
Speaker 1: literally ages ago. She's awesome. So she has this really
Speaker 1: cool story where she was in this similar position where
Speaker 1: she's like I don't know what the fuck I'm doing
Speaker 1: and just went traveling. She went traveling. She went to Italy,
Speaker 1: found her soulmate, found this like dude, he's so good
Speaker 1: looking and and he's like he didn't even speak English. No,
Speaker 1: he probably did. I'm making up shit now, Sorry Sam
Speaker 1: if you listening to this. No, but he like me.
Speaker 1: He's so looking, he is. It's a beauty in the English.
Speaker 1: But like she found I don't even know if he's Italian.
Speaker 1: I'm actually not even sure if it was Italy. Basically
Speaker 1: she found her soulmate traveling. Yeah, I think it was
Speaker 1: bath the Lona, like you know, somewhere anyway, some beautiful location.
Speaker 1: She like found her soulmate. They got together. She ends
Speaker 1: up staying there. She did actually have a really hard
Speaker 1: time with like just finding miscellaneous jobs, but then she
Speaker 1: ended up getting into you know, manifesting. She ended up
Speaker 1: being a business coach doing everything online and now she
Speaker 1: runs like a six figure you know business from her
Speaker 1: computer in you know, Italy, wheref she currently is with
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. He's a lawyer or something. So they're staying
Speaker 1: there and she has this amazing life over in that country.
Speaker 1: And she's from the States. Wow, And she literally only
Speaker 1: planned to go to four week, like to go over
Speaker 1: there for four weeks and she ends like that's her
Speaker 1: life now. Yeah, So like I don't know, goober, I
Speaker 1: know it's just it's so cool. And I just I
Speaker 1: think a big thing with this, Like I said, I
Speaker 1: feel like she's trying to push something, and I think
Speaker 1: even life is trying to push her into it.
Speaker 2: Or just go just relax.
Speaker 1: Good shit is happening. Like I think, guys, when we
Speaker 1: are trying to force something, that's not the energy to
Speaker 1: do anything. No, if you want to attract a passion,
Speaker 1: it needs to come to you, it needs to come
Speaker 1: to you. And for instance, right now she should be
Speaker 1: acting as is, so she should be acting in the
Speaker 1: energy of abundance. Everything feels right her higher self like
Speaker 1: all these kind of things. So even if you are foggy,
Speaker 1: you don't know what you want to do, you're not
Speaker 1: clear on the specifics. Like like I say, the time is,
Speaker 1: how can you embody the feeling you want to feel
Speaker 1: in the future, because we all know that feeling. It
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be the specifics, but we can all
Speaker 1: embody that feeling. And also a big thing is surrendering
Speaker 1: and trusting the timing.
Speaker 2: The other thing that I think as well is just
Speaker 2: from reading your message, you seem already quite in touch
Speaker 2: with her intuition, with the fact that she quit that job,
Speaker 2: and she's going to Peru for a few months because
Speaker 2: that's where she's drawn to. She's listening to it, which
Speaker 2: is huge. But I'm actually surprised she wants to go
Speaker 2: back to UNI and do her masters, because I find
Speaker 2: UNI kind of sucks the life out of you just
Speaker 2: as much as a corporate job. Yeah, but I.
Speaker 1: Don't think she's actually gonna do that, don't you wrong.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I like, to me, I feel like that's something you
Speaker 1: kind of say, Like when I was quitting my law job,
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll probably go back to law, you know,
Speaker 1: at some point in my head saying fuck that.
Speaker 2: So you think it's just like A.
Speaker 1: I think I think it's great for her to just
Speaker 1: have a plan. B. But I don't know it could
Speaker 1: like I could be completely wrong, but I think it's
Speaker 1: fine to have a plan B. But I think it's
Speaker 1: something we do to be like, it's fine, I'll go
Speaker 1: traveling and I find my soul and then I'll come
Speaker 1: back and do my masters. Yeah, And it's like it's
Speaker 1: something you tell your parents, it's something you tell your
Speaker 1: friends so they don't think you're bad shit crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think my friends just think I'm bad.
Speaker 1: Me too. I just want to not be bad. You're crazy.
Speaker 1: That's like my family literally knows that I'm just like
Speaker 1: a bit of a psycho and like I have a
Speaker 1: funny story for you about that later. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: can you tell me now? Do you want to tell
Speaker 1: the listeners? It's just just like total tell us, total
Speaker 1: off track? Hey wait, can we in conclusion?
Speaker 2: Her, I reckon, don't put pressure on yourself to find
Speaker 2: your passion, because I would say in life, my passion
Speaker 2: is not what I thought it was. Like, it's not
Speaker 2: my things. It's not like my passion is painting, or
Speaker 2: my passion is cars, or my passion is this. My passion,
Speaker 2: which I actually didn't realize till I started working here properly,
Speaker 2: is just empowering women. Yes, that is what I live for.
Speaker 2: That's actually what lights me up. And if I'm doing
Speaker 2: anything towards working doing that, I'm happy. But that's not
Speaker 2: what people run through their head when they think of
Speaker 2: what's my passion.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's almost like she's trying to make it too
Speaker 1: black and white.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like some people will be like, I
Speaker 2: want to go into this industry because my passion is
Speaker 2: that industry.
Speaker 1: Yes, well that's almost like prime example of me of
Speaker 1: having Naked Harvest that again, I'm much like you are, Tia,
Speaker 1: Like my whole passion life is empowering women to believe
Speaker 1: in themselves and you know, to be authentically them. And
Speaker 1: I feel like I very much encompass that in Naked Harvest,
Speaker 1: but then also in Rise and Conquer. But they are
Speaker 1: two completely different businesses, but they they're like ticking off
Speaker 1: the same passion.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you feel so fulfilled at work because they're
Speaker 2: so insightful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little genius, like a little guru. I
Speaker 1: love that.
Speaker 2: So, yes, you're saying you're looking in the wrong place
Speaker 2: for your passion because you're gonna get tired of something
Speaker 2: if you do it for a few months, because everybody does, yes, And.
Speaker 1: So how would you recommend she kind of get to
Speaker 1: that deeper passion? Is it almost similar to you where
Speaker 1: you're like you just go try shit.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, and you like I didn't realize that that
Speaker 2: was what it was because I was always like, I
Speaker 2: want to go into film and TV because I want
Speaker 2: to make content that does this. But it didn't click
Speaker 2: for me till I was actually in the interview with you,
Speaker 2: and you asked me, why is that your dream goal?
Speaker 2: And then I said it. And then after that I
Speaker 2: was like, oh shit, that's the podcast too.
Speaker 1: Like I was about to say, when did you get
Speaker 1: this like epiphany? Yeah, it was just.
Speaker 2: After that, and I walked out of the interview and
Speaker 2: I was like, whoa, Like this is the place for
Speaker 2: me because I'm still doing exactly what I want to
Speaker 2: do in life, It's just in a slightly different medium.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe explain to the audience. So explain to the
Speaker 1: audience what your dream goal is, yeah, and then kind
Speaker 1: of how that relays. Now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So in my dream goal is to be a
Speaker 2: showrunner at Netflix or Disney because I have a very
Speaker 2: specific TV show idea that I want to make and
Speaker 2: the premise of it, or like the point that I
Speaker 2: want to make is to teach, especially young girls, that
Speaker 2: you can do anything, and also to question what they're
Speaker 2: taught and not take everything at face value because history
Speaker 2: was written by men.
Speaker 1: Not even in that sense.
Speaker 2: It's just like if someone tells you you can't, don't
Speaker 2: just don't just go oh cool, yeah can't.
Speaker 1: Well I think I love that because it's also even
Speaker 1: it's not even that you know if a man tells
Speaker 1: you can't whatever. It's more if something is done in
Speaker 1: a certain way, always question it. It's like, yeah, me
Speaker 1: coming back to work after three months and people going, oh,
Speaker 1: but don't you love your daughter?
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I still do love my daughter.
Speaker 1: I can do it all. And if men do this,
Speaker 1: they're not questioned. So why are you questioning me?
Speaker 2: Exactly? Yeah, So that was like the driving force going
Speaker 2: behind that idea. And then in my job interview with you,
Speaker 2: you said why why is that your goal? And that's
Speaker 2: when I said that, And then after that I was like, whoa,
Speaker 2: that is exactly what this podcast does. And then obviously
Speaker 2: started working and I loved it. I'd love it and
Speaker 2: I love every day and I'll go home and do
Speaker 2: work and I'm still not tired, Like it's.
Speaker 1: Just so good. And then I was a slave driver.
Speaker 1: No no, and it's just like.
Speaker 2: It lights me up because it's my purpose, even if
Speaker 2: it's not the specific thing that I thought was my passion,
Speaker 2: Like my passion is not TV, my passion is. That's
Speaker 2: so purpose behind why I wanted to do the TV show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, I love that. And also can
Speaker 1: I just quickly say it was quite ballsy.
Speaker 2: Belive.
Speaker 1: No, it was quite ballsy for you to say, like
Speaker 1: because usually when a person goes like watch your five
Speaker 1: year goal, like you'd say something within the fucking same
Speaker 1: industry is like, I want to make a Netflix series.
Speaker 1: And I was like, so, you're not going to be
Speaker 1: in this job very long, but I'll hire you. No,
Speaker 1: but do you know what I mean? But yeah, you
Speaker 1: said that, and you said the reasoning and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: but that was quite ballsy. Yeah. I honestly did not
Speaker 1: think and I thought she didn't think it through, but
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And after I was like, you know, she probably
Speaker 2: realized I didn't think that through. But at least my
Speaker 2: answer lined up on the podcasts.
Speaker 1: No, But you know what I liked about that. I
Speaker 1: was like, Fuck, this chick is so authentically yourself, like
Speaker 1: she not that you don't have a filter, but like
Speaker 1: it was. I could tell it was real. You know
Speaker 1: how sometimes interviews you're like, they're literally just saying that
Speaker 1: because I know they know I want to hear that. Yes,
Speaker 1: I could tell there was none of that. I was like, good,
Speaker 1: good to know Netflix, if you're listening, do not approach
Speaker 1: to to Will not be hit me up in seven
Speaker 1: years tears like in the up got things to do
Speaker 1: here first? Amazing. I think that's such a great point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're looking for your passion in the wrong places
Speaker 2: or yeah, or not sa places.
Speaker 1: But followed the intoition and don't be too black and
Speaker 1: white with it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then as you find things that like you are,
Speaker 2: you'll find the common de nominator.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And do you want to share your funny little
Speaker 1: personal story. Yeah, it's not even I want to make
Speaker 1: it TV.
Speaker 2: What did you say? It's not even that I want
Speaker 2: to make a TV shape, But that already puts me in.
Speaker 1: The batch of crazy box. No, do the other one
Speaker 1: about your family? So, because it's gonna be really random. Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 2: On the weekend I saw the picture of these Bendy
Speaker 2: shoes on Instagram and they're so pretty.
Speaker 1: I want them. And then I said, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you didn't buy that. I did it? Not yet, not yet.
Speaker 1: They're on the list and not available yet. Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But and then I found out how much they were,
Speaker 2: and then I'm very expensive. They're like, yeah, over a
Speaker 2: grand And I said to my mom, I want them.
Speaker 1: I want them. Yeah, I think I pay you to,
Speaker 1: but I like, you did not earn enough on shoots.
Speaker 2: I think about that as a persentage income and I
Speaker 2: was and I was just like, no, I'm going to
Speaker 2: get them. I was like, fine, I want to spend
Speaker 2: my money from work. I'll find money somewhere else. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm going to bring it to me. And my dad
Speaker 2: was like, it's not going to happen. And I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm going to sell stuff a marketplace.
Speaker 1: That's why I just say, you're gonna benifit manifest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I am.
Speaker 2: I am. So I started just putting stuff a marketplace
Speaker 2: and I've already made five hundred dollars in like three days.
Speaker 1: My dad's like, you've lost the plot. And I love this.
Speaker 1: It's working. This is honestly something Tim would do. He
Speaker 1: loves Marketplace and he's constantly buying and selling things. He's
Speaker 1: like a trader on Marketplace. I swear he's got new
Speaker 1: golf clubs every single week and then he like sells
Speaker 1: them and I'm like, clever, what was wrong with those
Speaker 1: golf clubs? He's like, oh, the you know, the handle
Speaker 1: was vital. He's like dizel for my dad, and I'm
Speaker 1: like what and he's like, we always have like random
Speaker 1: people come to our house. And I'm like, are you
Speaker 1: and these like selling random stuff?
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 1: Can you keep us updated if you get the shoes
Speaker 1: because we're posting them amid. I'm pretty tempted, Like, no,
Speaker 1: you have to wait until you mom says, if I
Speaker 1: get to one thousand dollars of marketplace sales, then I
Speaker 1: can just top up.
Speaker 2: Thanks mam, that's my deal. But yeah, my dad just
Speaker 2: thinks I've feel like you're showing your age here.
Speaker 1: I can tell you're born in the two thousands. Guys.
Speaker 2: The other day I was a tea and they were
Speaker 2: like saying about like jel waiting out gen Z and
Speaker 2: the Lales because I'm ninety four and they were both
Speaker 2: born in the two thousands, and I just I can't
Speaker 2: even comprehend that.
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