1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:01,080 Speaker 1: Hello. 2 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 2: My name is Satasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud or 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 2: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: Let's get into it. 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. 13 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 14 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 4: that were and just tell you to think rich, but 15 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 4: we'll actually show you how to get rich. If you've 16 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 4: been on TikTok lately, you've probably seen people claiming they 17 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: manifested a dream job, a new car, or even thousands 18 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 4: of dollars. But is this just luck or a mindset shift, 19 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 4: or is there something else entirely at play. I'm excited 20 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 4: in joining me today is a woman who happens to 21 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 4: be a finance expert and have a background in behavioral psychology, 22 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 4: so basically the perfect person to help us get to 23 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 4: the bottom of these questions. 24 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm so excited about this. 25 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 5: Ah, this is something that grinds my gears. And a 26 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 5: lot of people are going to be like, Victoria divine, 27 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 5: what are you doing? Why are you saying manifestation isn't real? 28 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 5: That's going to make a lot of people mad. Totally 29 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 5: just a GRICI who we love and adoor and she 30 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 5: can manifest things on Facebook Marketplace and I'm all like, yep, 31 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 5: you go, Queen, Like I'm ten out of ten on 32 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 5: board with this. Yes, I still don't believe that manifestation 33 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 5: is real. 34 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 4: I have to say I feel a bit similar, and 35 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 4: I think that it can be a self fulfilling profit. 36 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 4: See if you manifest something. 37 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 5: So bad that I'm like, oh, it's not real. And 38 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 5: so many people are like, oh my god, I manifested this. 39 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 5: I manifested my dream life. I manifested a new car, 40 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 5: manifested a pay rise. 41 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: Like you actually didn't you work hard? 42 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 5: You did that, you did that, you didn't manifest it. 43 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 5: And like, I'm a very big believer in talking to 44 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 5: the universe. Like growing up, my mom and I used 45 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 5: to talk about like, oh, if you want something, like 46 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 5: throw it out to the universe. And I love that 47 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 5: concept of like, you know, sharing something because like even 48 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 5: when we like look at the research, right, we know 49 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 5: that if you write down a goal, you're more likely 50 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 5: to achieve it because it becomes more real. And I 51 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 5: think this concept of manifestation is quite similar. It's just 52 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 5: you actioning plans, but you're giving the credit to someone 53 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 5: else other than you. And I don't like that, nor 54 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 5: that we should be proud of what we've done and 55 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 5: what we've achieved, because it's not luck. 56 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: Like you're not a lucky girl. 57 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 5: You are actually just working hard and keeping your eye 58 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 5: on the price. 59 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Like that's this episode. I thought you were 60 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 4: going to squash some dreams, but I feel like. 61 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: I've squashed some dreams. 62 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 5: But then I'm going to bring you back up and 63 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 5: will actually, Babe, it's you, and you should be proud 64 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 5: of you, and this is how it works, and this 65 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 5: is what it looks like. 66 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: Because I'm not going to give the credit to someone else. Absolutely. 67 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: I think at the end of the episode will be like, 68 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 4: you know where the power was all along within us? Okay, 69 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 4: it's going to be really fluffy oh yeah, So before 70 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 4: we get too deep into where the manifestation actually works, 71 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 4: let's have done it properly. 72 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, I'm going to ruin that. 73 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 5: I feel like, okay, I should have done like a 74 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 5: hook and then like, oh, what have these thoughts? 75 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: I'll tell you after the breton. I already told you. Sorry, 76 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: my adhd jo Dad. 77 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 4: She's not a mysterious woman exactly how she's feel. 78 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 5: Like, do you know how many social interactions I go 79 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,839 Speaker 5: into And I'm like, wow, I really overdisclosed there. 80 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: Well I know my entire personal history. 81 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 4: Hey, we love an overshareer. Yeah, look, I'm not mad. No, 82 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 4: So when people talk about manifesting money, what do they 83 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 4: actually mean? 84 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 5: Like, it's this concept that you're believe can shape and 85 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 5: create reality, and that's really nice. Like the concept of 86 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 5: this is really good. And the idea is that by 87 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 5: simply focusing on something in particular it could be like 88 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 5: wealth or success or even love, you're able to like 89 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 5: attract it into your life. And I think that that 90 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 5: at a crux is true, like the more you focus 91 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 5: on something, the more likely you are to recognize that 92 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 5: and you can attract it into your life back and 93 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 5: you know, there's a lot to it. I'll tell you 94 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 5: in a hot second about my yellow Honda Jazz. Oh yeah, Okayrie, Like, 95 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 5: that's my theory I have coined. But the idea is 96 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,239 Speaker 5: actually deeply rooted in what they call the law of attraction. 97 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 5: I think we've all heard of the laws of attraction 98 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 5: and how that works, and that suggests that positive thoughts 99 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 5: then bring positive outcomes, will negative thoughts bring negative ones? 100 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: And this concept has. 101 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 5: Been so popular after the book and then like subsequent 102 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 5: TV series The Secret came out. 103 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of that. 104 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 5: I watched it and I was like, this is hufflepuffle fluff, 105 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 5: Like that's not for me. But I do, on a 106 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 5: base level think that as individuals, we attract what we 107 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 5: are searching for. We are literally trying to find particular things. 108 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 5: It's like confirmation bias, right, And this is a legit 109 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 5: psychological phenomenon where beck you might have a particular political view, 110 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 5: and therefore any information I put on the table that 111 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 5: disregards that or is in opposition of that, You're probably 112 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 5: going to be like, it's not real. You're probably gonna 113 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 5: be like, no, that's not for me. You're also not 114 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 5: going to take the time and energy and effort to 115 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 5: dive into that information. But if I present you with 116 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 5: some research that further confirms an opinion or a belief 117 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 5: you already hold, you're going to be like, oh, this 118 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 5: is legit. 119 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: I told you it was real. 120 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I definitely knew that already, so it's a 121 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 5: legitimate phenomenon. 122 00:05:57,960 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: And that's okay. 123 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 5: But confirmation exists in human nature, and I think that 124 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 5: as human beings we really love this concept of manifestation 125 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 5: because it is all about attracting more positiveness, and as humans, 126 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 5: we are hard wired to be inherently negative. 127 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: Beck right, you know I've spoke about this on the 128 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: podcast before. 129 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 5: If we go back to like caveman times, it was 130 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 5: fight flight, like you didn't have like, oh, I'm going 131 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 5: to like manifest positive energy, Like you had to make 132 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 5: sure that you had food and water, and often that 133 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 5: meant being really aggressive and fighting over that and always 134 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 5: planning for the worst, like what winter's coming. We need 135 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 5: to stockpile things, We need to make sure that we 136 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 5: are protecting ourselves, that we are warm, like all of 137 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 5: those basic needs needed to be met, and the best 138 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 5: way to do that is with a sense of fear 139 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 5: with the sense of like, you know, making sure that 140 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 5: we have these things, because if you didn't have that 141 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 5: sense of fear or you know, feel like you needed 142 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 5: to control that, how were you going to survive? 143 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we flip that. 144 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 5: We're now in twenty twenty five and most of us 145 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 5: have the privilege of having our basic needs met. And 146 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 5: I'm saying most of us because they don't want people 147 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 5: to listen to this and be like, well, I don't 148 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 5: have that, and that is awful, and that's why I exist. 149 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 5: And I want you to learn and be able to 150 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 5: access information that puts you in a different position. But 151 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 5: like most of us have access to safe food, safe water, 152 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 5: We have a roof over our heads, you know, we 153 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 5: have secure attachments, and we are okay. So now we 154 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 5: have the privilege of being able to create a positive life. 155 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 5: It doesn't actually come inherently natural to us. It actually 156 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 5: comes as a challenge to everything we are hardwired to do. 157 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 5: So people who are really positive, they've just been practicing 158 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 5: it better. It's kind of like a muscle. It's kind 159 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 5: of like having some memory and being able to flex 160 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 5: that muscle. And my yellow Honda Jazz theory back when 161 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 5: was the last time you saw a bright yellow Honda Jazz. 162 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 4: I think I know where you're going. 163 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 5: I promise over the next week you can see so 164 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 5: many of them. You are going to see so many 165 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 5: yellow Honda jazz Is. They are going to be everywhere. 166 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 5: You know, that bright yellow Yeah, you know, go to. 167 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: Me like, not that many people have them. 168 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 5: That many people have them, but you're not noticing them 169 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 5: because you weren't looking for them. So if we are 170 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 5: not looking for something, we are disregarding it. But if 171 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 5: we start to go, oh, I want more positive energy, 172 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 5: or I want to really focus on good things. 173 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: That happen to me. 174 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 5: Beck, I'm so fluffy, and I have really been focusing 175 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 5: on my mindset and I've been really focusing on, you know, 176 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 5: embracing positive things. 177 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: I literally have. 178 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 5: A note pinned in my phone and it says, good 179 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 5: things happen to me, And it's a list of things 180 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 5: that are good that have happened to me, and I 181 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 5: make a conscious effort to write them down. It could 182 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 5: be Zara picked up a coffee on the way to 183 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 5: work for me and that was really sweet, or it 184 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 5: could be, you know, something really positive, like I got 185 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 5: my dream client, but it's not about you know, how 186 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 5: big or small they are. It's about making a conscious 187 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 5: effort to reiterate to myself the good things that happening. 188 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 5: Because when I'm reiterating that, I'm consistently looking for more 189 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 5: good things to add to the list, and therefore my 190 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 5: life is becoming more positive because I'm searching it out. 191 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: Beck. That's beautiful, Vda. 192 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 5: So it's not just about you know, positive vibes and like, 193 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 5: that's where I'm at in my journey right now. I 194 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 5: want to make sure that I'm really focusing on the 195 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 5: positive because when I'm focusing on the positive, I am 196 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 5: happier and kinder and all of these other things. And 197 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 5: I feel like that's the energy I want to be 198 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 5: bringing into the room every day. But you might say, well, 199 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 5: I really need to save or I really need to invest, 200 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 5: and that's where we really want to focus on. You know, 201 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 5: maybe you have a list and it's like, I'm really 202 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 5: good at saving, and you like, make a list of 203 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 5: all the good things that you did that are positive 204 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 5: steps towards that saving skull. Yeah, you know you might, Beck, 205 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 5: And I'm going to use you as an example, be like, oh, 206 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 5: v I didn't buy coffee again today. That might be 207 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 5: small to other people, but to you, like, I know 208 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 5: that's a lot, Like you love a coffee, and I 209 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 5: think that it's so important to be like, yeah, I 210 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 5: actually upheld my savings goal, or I you know, it 211 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 5: was able to chuck an extra five bucks in here, 212 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 5: Like let's find small good things. Yeah, because we are 213 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 5: so used to telling ourselves these negative stories and we 214 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 5: are so used to confirmation bias that And I'm going 215 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 5: to use you as an example again because you've spoken 216 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 5: about it before. You have said before on this podcast, Victoria, 217 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 5: I'm so bad at money, Yes, but you're not. You're 218 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 5: just seeing all the things. But like you have set 219 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 5: up so many cool things this year to put yourself 220 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 5: in a better position, Like you have a new job, 221 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,479 Speaker 5: you've got a great income, You've started to really prioritize 222 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 5: your savings. You have done all these great things. I 223 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 5: would argue that you're not bad at money, you're just 224 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 5: not on that journey and so far down the line 225 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 5: that you've got you know, mass amounts of savings and 226 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 5: your investment and whatnot. 227 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: But like you're investing, you're saving your money. 228 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 5: I know you're transferring the money for coffee, like little 229 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 5: things in the right direction. But like you're good at 230 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 5: this thank YOUVD, You're not searching for confirmation of that. 231 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 5: You are probably so hard wired to start searching for 232 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 5: things that reiterate old you. Yeah, like, if you hypothetically 233 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 5: fell off the bandwagon and bought a coffee, you'd be like, 234 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 5: of course I did. I'm Beck, and that's just what 235 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 5: I do. Instead of going, oh my goodness, I fell 236 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 5: off the bandwagon, New BEC wouldn't do that. New Beck 237 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 5: would have X, Y Z, and New Bec would be 238 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 5: celebrating the smaller wins like that are along the way 239 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 5: on the savings journey. 240 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: Does that make send? 241 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, it does. 242 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 5: So it's not whether you want to be more positive 243 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 5: or manifest you know, heaps of savings like Beck, If 244 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 5: you said I'm going to start manifesting savings, I would 245 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 5: be like, well, you're not setting yourself up for success, 246 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 5: because success actually has a step by step plan. Yeah, 247 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 5: right now, you're gonna let somebody else take the credit 248 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 5: for your good change. 249 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: Huh No, Yeah, absolutely not so. 250 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 5: I think it's not so important to start talking about 251 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 5: you know, what this actually means for you and all 252 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 5: of these manifestation people online who are like, oh my god, 253 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 5: I manifested this, girl. No, you did, didn't manifest it. 254 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 5: You just wrote down a plan and then you made 255 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 5: that plan happen. How many times have you heard people 256 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 5: on TikTok talking about I manifested this because I journaled 257 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 5: every morning goal You sat down and you reiterated your goals. 258 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 4: In the morning exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, seriously, Like that's 259 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 4: easy feet, that's no easy feet. 260 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 1: But you're not giving yourself credit. 261 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 5: You're like letting this fluffier version of you know, goal 262 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 5: setting guide your reality. 263 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: And that's so nice. 264 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 5: But like vision boarding, Yeah, that's not manifestation, that's action planning. Yes, 265 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 5: that's so, that's your planning what you want your dream 266 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 5: life to look like, so that those steps you're taking 267 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 5: every single day are easier to understand, easier to visualize. Like, 268 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 5: you know, this coffee thing for you if you are 269 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 5: literally cutting coffee and you feel like you're missing out Beck, 270 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 5: but you had his vision board with really pretty images 271 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 5: that reiterated I'm going to go to this festival and 272 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 5: I'm going to you know, live more of my dream 273 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 5: life and have some savings to go on a holiday. 274 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: With my girlfriend. 275 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 5: Jess, like if you saw that every day, would not 276 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 5: not reiterate why the plan is working? 277 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 278 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and then you would be doing those things 279 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 4: day to day without even realizing. 280 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 5: Really, it's not or I don't think it's manifestation. It's 281 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 5: literally you just did some goal setting and you found 282 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 5: a fancy way to call it manifestation. And we don't 283 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 5: need to reach out to a higher being to help 284 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 5: us do this, because you're the being that does it exactly. 285 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 4: The power is within you, Okay for you. So TikTok says, 286 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 4: you can just think your way to wealth. 287 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 288 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 4: Absolutely, I've been thinking real hard. 289 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: You've been thinking really years. 290 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I still have like seventeen dollars. 291 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: We haven't manifested hard. That's the problem. 292 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 4: I think I haven't been manifesting and thinking hard enough. 293 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 294 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 4: What does signs say? And can they answer the one 295 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 4: burning question, which is why am I not rich? 296 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: Look? 297 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: Let me try and answer that. 298 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 5: I guess we're goin to scientific and behavioral site perspective. 299 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 5: Manifestation quotation marks is when we engaging in a series 300 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 5: of I guess psychological and neurological processes. I'm done with that. 301 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 5: It's actually how our brains filter information, which influences our behavior, 302 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 5: which then shapes the way that we make decisions. And 303 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 5: we are reinforcing the ones that we want to keep 304 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 5: and not reinforcing the ones that we don't want to keep. Sure, 305 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 5: so like we are reinforcing processes that are stepping in 306 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 5: the right direction. And I guess if we look at 307 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 5: the process of what actual manifestation looks like or how 308 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 5: it can work, is you're kind of like priming your 309 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 5: brain so that you are now noticing more bright yellow hondageazzes. 310 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 5: You are now noticing more money related opportunities. You are 311 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 5: now you know, consistently filtering information or manifesting what you 312 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 5: want to focus on, Like you are actively trying to 313 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 5: seek out the thing you want more of. And that's 314 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 5: really cool. So I guess if you said av you know, 315 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 5: why don't I reach it? Don't know how to answer 316 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 5: that yet for you, Beck, but I do know how 317 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 5: to say, I want to get richer. That's fantastic. You're 318 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 5: going to start manifesting or you're going to start prioritizing 319 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 5: the question of like I want to increase my income, 320 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 5: and you're consistently looking for opportunities to do that, and 321 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 5: your brain is going to start highlighting you know, maybe 322 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 5: a new job opportunity because that would increase your income. 323 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 5: Maybe you know salary discussions and you're maybe searching out 324 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 5: content online for that. Maybe you are looking at investment opportunities, 325 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 5: or even like you're more likely to leap to doing 326 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 5: some short things on the weekend, like I know that 327 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 5: you do like little jobs here and there for your 328 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 5: friends and family, Like you might be more willing to 329 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 5: take that on because you're like, yeah, I want more money, 330 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 5: like I'm manifesting that. So then this job felt like, oh, 331 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 5: you're manifesting it. But if somebody else had asked you, 332 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 5: i'll beck on the weekend, could you give me a 333 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 5: hand doing this, I'll give you fifty bucks, you might 334 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 5: have been like, oh, it's not really worth it, like 335 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 5: CBS and doing something else. 336 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: But if you're really focused on making someone. 337 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 5: You're like, oh, I was saying this week that I 338 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 5: wanted to make more money, and then this opportunity manifested 339 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 5: itself into. 340 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: My life for Saturday. 341 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, Like. 342 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 5: You're seeing things differently. And the reason for this is 343 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 5: ras so ARES is the reticular activating system and it 344 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 5: basically acts as like a little gatekeeper, like they're the doorman, 345 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 5: and they are prioritizing what you think is important and 346 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 5: bringing it in and then also being like, nope, you're 347 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 5: not wearing any shoes, you can't come in the pub, 348 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 5: and kicking things out really quickly, so we're not even 349 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 5: considering them. So it's so important because by having this system, 350 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 5: and it's not you actually having to do this, this 351 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 5: is actually how your brain works. We're actually strengthening our 352 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 5: belief in what isn't isn't achievable, which ultimately is going 353 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 5: to boost your confidence. And we need to reiterate these 354 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 5: behaviors right Like I would argue again using you as 355 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 5: an example, that you're more confident with money now, and 356 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 5: it doesn't mean that you have millions in the bank, 357 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 5: but it means that you're probably more likely to make 358 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 5: smaller money decisions with less stress because we are really 359 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 5: focusing on that positive stuff. 360 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: But it wasn't manifestation. 361 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 5: It was you creating a plan and starting to reinforce 362 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:16,479 Speaker 5: that the plan is working because you're working on it, 363 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 5: and that actually means that you're changing your narrative and 364 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:24,239 Speaker 5: you're not bad at money, thank YOUVD, but that is 365 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 5: for everybody. That's not just a bech thing, that's all 366 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 5: of us. I was doing a live webinar last night 367 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 5: and I was talking to a whole heap of people 368 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 5: about like budget and cash flow and just we're not 369 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 5: giving ourselves enough credit for the small wins because I 370 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 5: think so often we're comparing ourselves to other people who 371 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 5: are close to us, who might be better at money. And 372 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 5: I know you've mentioned before, Oh, my girlfriend's really good 373 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 5: at money, so your benchmark might actually be however many 374 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 5: savings your girlfriend has, sure, and then you look at 375 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,360 Speaker 5: yours and go, I'm crapp in comparison, But. 376 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: Like that's not true. 377 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 5: Like you are on your journey and she is on hers, 378 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 5: and she might be like fifty hours into the road 379 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 5: trip and you're like half an hour in, and then 380 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 5: you're like, why aren't I further Like because you haven't 381 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 5: done the driving yet, beck like you've got to spend 382 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 5: the time doing it, and these small steps in the 383 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 5: right direction. 384 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: One day you look back and go, oh, my. 385 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 5: Goodness, I drove from Melbourne to Queensland, Like that's wild. 386 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 5: But it didn't feel that way. Yeah, so I think 387 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 5: it's so important to really embrace this because if you're 388 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:27,160 Speaker 5: truly believing that you are capable of building wealth, then 389 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 5: you're more likely to step into places that help you 390 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 5: do that. You're more likely to negotiate a pay rise, 391 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 5: you are more likely to apply for a higher paying job. 392 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 5: You're more likely to stop yourself when you want to 393 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,239 Speaker 5: dip into your savings because you're like, no, that's not 394 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 5: worth it because it's not in line with what my 395 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 5: bigger goal is or what I'm trying to achieve. 396 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: And why the placebo effect. Yeah, literally the policy place ebo. 397 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,959 Speaker 5: It shows that belief alone can change your legit psychological 398 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 5: and behavioral responses. Research that essentially takes one person Beck 399 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 5: and another person. They're both like, have a bit of 400 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 5: a headache. One of them gets panadal, the other gets 401 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 5: are smarty, but they're told it's panadal. They both have 402 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 5: no headache caft. Yes, Like, that's how I want my 403 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 5: money to work. I want you to tell me I 404 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 5: can do it, and then I want to inherently believe it. 405 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 5: And if that means I'm eating as smarty, I don't mind. 406 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 5: It's like those melotonein gummies, like you know, the ones 407 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 5: that you have at night help you sleep. 408 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if they work. I actually don't. 409 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 5: Well, I continue to take them absolutely. They're just part 410 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 5: of my little process right now, and I believe that 411 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 5: they help me sleep better. And I don't even care 412 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,199 Speaker 5: if you say that they don't work, no, because they 413 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 5: are working for me absolutely. 414 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 4: The other night, I actually rolled over and I took 415 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 4: an eyebroprofe thinking it was a little one of my 416 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 4: sleeping helpers, and then I drifted off into the most 417 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 4: beautiful deep sleep. And then I woke up in the 418 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 4: morning it was ybroprofen that I turned around. I was like, 419 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 4: oh my god, I did even have on. But I 420 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 4: had the most RESTful scene in my life that. 421 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 5: If you believe you can at leave, you can cheer, 422 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 5: believe you can you cheat. 423 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: You trick yourself. 424 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 5: You've got to trick yourself like Gaslight, gay keep girl 425 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 5: Boss exactly. 426 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: Do it to yourself, not to others exactly. 427 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 5: And I think that that way right, we're creating an 428 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 5: action orientated mindset, like we are actively trying to work 429 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 5: towards this like a manifestation. When we start talking about 430 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 5: these genuine psychological phenomenons and we are starting to talk about, 431 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 5: you know, the science behind the placebo effect and all 432 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 5: of that. 433 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: You go, well, manifestation, that's a bit of fluff. 434 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 5: I'm a research girlie, Like, I am not the type 435 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 5: of girl that is going to be like, oh yes, 436 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 5: I'm going to skip down the road and I have 437 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 5: my green smoothie and manifest my dream life. Like, sorry, 438 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,479 Speaker 5: that's not for me, and that is so fine if 439 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 5: it is for you. One of my best friends does 440 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 5: that and I love it for her and she's like, 441 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 5: you're gonna think it's bullshit, but yeah, I am, but 442 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 5: also love you love that this works for you exactly. 443 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 1: And I think that that way. 444 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 5: It's about making decisions in line with our goals and 445 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 5: giving ourselves credit for that, not being like, yeah, I 446 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 5: really manifested that. Wait, no, girl, you created a plan. 447 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 5: You didn't just think it into fruition. You worked hard 448 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 5: for that to come to fruition. And I guess when 449 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 5: we quote manifest we can use affirmations like I am 450 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 5: a rich man, I am financially successful, and I'm not 451 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 5: being facetious. That's you psychologically reiterating to yourself a narrative 452 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 5: that you want to become true. And if you write 453 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 5: it down, if you speak it, if you consistently prioritize it, 454 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 5: that will become your truth. Yes, that will become your 455 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 5: reality because that is your focus. 456 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 4: Someone said, someone offers you a cigarette at a party. 457 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 4: This is very maybe not relevant to everybody. 458 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,719 Speaker 1: A cigaretteed aparty exactly. 459 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 4: And there's definitely difference between girl, you're cool, you always 460 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 4: say yes, es man, And if you say I'm not 461 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,880 Speaker 4: a smoker versus I'm trying not to smoke, then that changes. 462 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 5: It changes something because that's actually not in line with 463 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 5: my values. 464 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, like if you're like the other one's leaving the 465 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 4: door open. Yes, it's like I am a smoker, but 466 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm trying not to right now, but I'm 467 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 4: not a smoker. It's kind of like the really is 468 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 4: power in words? 469 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 5: One hundred percent there is, And I'm going to flip 470 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 5: it back to finance, but this applies to your cigarette example. Yeah, 471 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 5: Like there are studies on financial growth mindset, and they 472 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 5: show us that people who believe that they can improve 473 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 5: their financial situation they take more proactive steps towards their wealth. 474 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 5: Because confidence makes us more likely to take financial risks. 475 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 5: It means we're maybe going to start a business, or 476 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 5: we might be happy to start investing, or we might 477 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 5: ask for a pay rise. But by doing this and 478 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 5: by believing that we can, like we are actually going 479 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 5: to achieve that. And that's why whenever people say I'm 480 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 5: not good at money, I'm like, you stop that right now, Like, 481 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 5: you stop because that is not a thing. Like, there's 482 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 5: no such thing as people who are bad with money. 483 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 5: Like there are people who currently are not managing money 484 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 5: in line with their values. There are people who are 485 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 5: currently managing money in a way that they aren't happy with. 486 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: We can change all of that. But bad at money, Like, 487 00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 1: what's that even mean? 488 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? Like bad at it? No, absolutely not. You're adding 489 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 5: an emotion to a tool. And right now, you know, 490 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 5: you might be in massive consumer debt and you're like, 491 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 5: v I am pretty bad at money. But yep, well, 492 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 5: actually the reality of that situation is all you did 493 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 5: was spend more than you earned. 494 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,239 Speaker 1: We just had an imbalance. Yeah, let's fix it. 495 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 5: And I think that by doing that, you're giving yourself 496 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 5: permission to not perpetuate this negative loop. Like I want 497 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 5: to break that, Like I don't want to hear anyone 498 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 5: saying they're bad at money. 499 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to a money podcast. You can't be that 500 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: bad at it. 501 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,679 Speaker 5: True, you're clearly open to having this conversation. Do you 502 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 5: know how many people until they're eighty bury their heads 503 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 5: in the sand about finance and it detriments every single 504 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 5: part of their life, Like they can't afford the cigarettes 505 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 5: at the party? Beck, God, how do you offer someone 506 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 5: a cigarette at a party if you can't afford to 507 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 5: buy the debt for them? 508 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 4: We're like one thousand dollars now. 509 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Like I'm kind of glad because they 510 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 5: don't want you guys literally getting cancer, Like yeah, you 511 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 5: know how I feel about that? 512 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that's fine. 513 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 5: But like, also you do you thank I'm all about 514 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 5: giving you the education, yep. You being able to weigh 515 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 5: up the pros cons make your decision that's in line 516 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,199 Speaker 5: with your values. Like how bad would it be if 517 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 5: you didn't know that information existed? Like I feel like 518 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 5: this is going back to like where my grandpa, sorry pop, 519 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 5: he's not around anymore. He was like smoking from when 520 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 5: he was fourteen. 521 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and. 522 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 5: Like that was really positive for him, Like he would 523 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 5: smoke at school, like he would do all of that 524 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 5: and that was really normal, and then he did quit. 525 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 5: But according to him, wasn't that bad because he never 526 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 5: got cancer from it. Huh So according to him, it 527 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 5: was absolutely fine. But growing up he didn't have any 528 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 5: of the education and the privilege of knowledge that we 529 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 5: have to make decisions in line with our values in 530 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 5: the same way that we do today. 531 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 532 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: Same goes with money. 533 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 5: Like if he wasn't able to access financial information, or 534 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 5: anyone was then able to access financial information right now, 535 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:54,919 Speaker 5: you could google it. 536 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: I have seven hundred free episodes to help you be 537 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: really good with money. God, she's good. 538 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 4: You're doing God work. 539 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm trying, but you're not bad with money. Okay. 540 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 1: End of stories. 541 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 4: We have to stop saying that right now. So manifestation 542 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 4: kind of works, but not because the universe is. 543 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: Rarding your good vibes. 544 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, but just because your brain starts working a way 545 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 4: that makes financial success more. 546 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 5: Likely one hundred percent. And I think that that is 547 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,959 Speaker 5: really sexy. But it is a choice. It's not some 548 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 5: fluffy thing where you're letting it, you know, be up 549 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 5: to the universe. As I said before, my mom and 550 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 5: I used to say, oh my gosh, ask the universe 551 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 5: do you know what I do still like, don't get 552 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 5: me wrong, I do fluffy things. I know they're not real, though, 553 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 5: Like maybe I need to buy more into it because 554 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 5: like the placebo effect would have a higher value. I 555 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,120 Speaker 5: still believe in parking karma, Beck, Like if you let 556 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 5: people merge in front of you, like that's like getting 557 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 5: some points that go towards you being allowed to like 558 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 5: get a really. 559 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: Good spot at the supermarket. Yeah, okay. 560 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 5: And like if we turn into a car park, anyone 561 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 5: who's ever been in the car with me. 562 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: I go, I beg. We're gonna have parking karma today, 563 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: aren't we? And you have to say yeah? And if 564 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 1: you say no, I'll be Beck. You're ruining it. You're 565 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: ruining the vibes. We need positive vibes, Like I. 566 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 5: Need you to also be on this train, Like we 567 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 5: both deeply believe we are going to get a good park. 568 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, never not had a good park. 569 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 4: Wow, I'm going to try that. 570 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 5: We always believe if you tell yourself something, you're more 571 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 5: likely to spot it. Obviously parking is really fluffy, but 572 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 5: I think it's so important. Also give ourselves credit because 573 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 5: I can say I manifested a car park. 574 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:29,359 Speaker 1: Well, you didn't. 575 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 5: Manifest a pay rise. You worked hard for that pay rise. 576 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 5: You put time and energy and effort into researching it. 577 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 5: You improved your confidence, so walking in the door wasn't 578 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 5: overwhelming like you did that. Let's just leave manifestation for 579 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 5: car parks and then we work really hard for positive 580 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 5: things that happen in our lives. 581 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 4: Yes, we made a plan, manifestation hard work. Well, I 582 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 4: think let's go to a really quick break and absorble 583 00:26:54,920 --> 00:27:03,640 Speaker 4: as information. Welcome back everyone. Okay, so v weinging straight 584 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 4: back into it manifestation law of attraction? 585 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: Is there a. 586 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 4: Downside I could ever backfire? 587 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 5: I'm assuming, Like gosh, I had to do some research 588 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 5: because I'm like, I don't see how much could backfire 589 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 5: if we are creating a plan and working towards it. 590 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 5: But there's actually a study from the University of Queensland 591 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 5: that found people who strongly believe in manifesting wealth were 592 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 5: more likely to take financial risks full for get rich 593 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 5: quick schemes, join multi level marketing compan maybe go bankrupt. 594 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 5: So that's not that positive, Beck, But I think that 595 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 5: that is a reflection of your trust, and we need 596 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 5: to guard our trust very tightly. Like I was actually 597 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 5: watching a TikTok the other day and someone said, like, 598 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 5: those who trust easier, or like you know, are super 599 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 5: kind and super easy to get along with to begin with, 600 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 5: are actually easier to manipulate. And tho the people that 601 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 5: are going to get taken advantage the most because you 602 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 5: just immediately trust other people. 603 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: And that's so fine. But that's why. 604 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 5: Often people will say, oh, the nice people always get 605 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,439 Speaker 5: taken advantage of, Like, yes, because they genuinely believed that 606 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 5: you had the same intentions as they did, and those 607 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 5: intentions were really pure. Like I've heard so many times 608 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 5: people might say, oh, Via, I can't believe they took 609 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 5: advantage of me. 610 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: I just didn't see it coming. 611 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 5: It's like, that's awful that that happened, But that is 612 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 5: actually a reflection of them and not of you, because 613 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 5: you would never have done this, so you would just 614 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 5: assume everybody else wouldn't do this, so why would. 615 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 1: You think about it? 616 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 4: Exactly? The tension always falls on the person who has 617 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 4: taken advantage of, and never like, oh, isn't it weird 618 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 4: that really awful people take advantage? They always say, oh, 619 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 4: isn't it weird that nice people always get take advantage 620 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 4: of let's put our attention on. 621 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 5: The So we need to protect ourselves as well and 622 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 5: make sure that our goals are in line with our values. 623 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 5: I think in the finance world, like I have met 624 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 5: so many people that have a sense of urgency. I 625 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 5: have a sense of urgency for you, Beck, and that 626 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 5: is for you to get your stuff together. It's not 627 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 5: to see a financial advisor, get a professional involved, pay 628 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 5: for something. If somebody is ever trying to get you 629 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 5: to part with your money on a time crunchy, I promise. 630 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: Don't have your best interests at heart. 631 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 5: They have thisir whether that is a sale email in 632 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 5: your inbox and that email is being like, oh my. 633 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: Gosh, twenty four hours to go, Like, you better get 634 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 1: in otherwise. 635 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 5: You might miss out. They don't care if you personally 636 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 5: missed out. They're trying to reach their sales targets. That 637 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 5: was always about them and never about you. That's very true, 638 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 5: and the same is true for finance products. The same 639 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 5: is true for multi level marketing companies. The same is 640 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 5: true for you know, going and taking additional financial risks 641 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 5: without weighing up the pros and cons, Like you need 642 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 5: to do your research as well, like, don't just trust 643 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 5: what somebody says. And that's one of the reasons why, 644 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 5: you know, I obviously have heaps of free resources on 645 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 5: my website, but I will always tell you go to 646 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 5: the money Smart website. 647 00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: It's non viaus. I didn't write. 648 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 5: It's going to reiterate what I'm saying, and it's going 649 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 5: to put you in a good position, because I don't 650 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 5: want you to just trust me like I would love 651 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 5: for that, because I know I have your best interests 652 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 5: at heart, but I need you to go to market. 653 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 5: I need you see lots of other things and know 654 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 5: that what I'm saying is going to put you in 655 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 5: a better position because I want you to manifest that. 656 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, So we know that manifestation can be helpful, 657 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 4: but only when it's backed by action. So how do 658 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 4: we actually use manifestation in a way that works? 659 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:28,719 Speaker 1: All right? 660 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 5: So if we want to use manifestation and goal setting 661 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 5: to our advantage, I did a bit of research and 662 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 5: there is a science back technique called whoop whoop whoop. 663 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, do you say whoop whoop? I don't know? 664 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, but you can pick whatever you're more comfortable with. 665 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 5: But it's honestly from all of my research and what 666 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 5: I've been looking into, I was like, I'm going to 667 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 5: find a really good plan. Like I'm not about things 668 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 5: that aren't science backed, and it's so funny because I 669 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 5: sometimes like to engage in them because they're fun. So 670 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 5: you know, like the Mind's Breed typology indicator. Yes, yes, yes, 671 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 5: So we do that in our office and it's beautiful. 672 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: It's so fun. 673 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 5: Like I love doing the personality quiz. Like my team 674 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 5: and I we all have very similar personality, so we 675 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 5: will talking about that and we're like, oh my god, 676 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 5: we so similar haha. But like that is as legitimate 677 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 5: as astrology and your horoscope that's written in the weekly paper. 678 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 5: Like that has absolutely no scientific backing, but sometimes they're fun. 679 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 5: But I really wanted to find you a science back 680 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 5: technique to I guess implementing manifestation and implementing goal setting 681 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 5: in a way that hopefully makes sense but also puts 682 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 5: you in the best possible position to have literally your 683 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 5: best year yet. So if you want to turn manifestation 684 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 5: into genuine finance progress, we're going to whoop and whoop 685 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 5: stands for wish. What's your financial goal? What is your wish, 686 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 5: let's write that down outcome. Why does this goal matter? 687 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 5: Like what's the outcome? Like you want to be better 688 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 5: at money? But why if you don't know the answer 689 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 5: to that? But like, if you have a wish and 690 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 5: you don't have a reason why you want to achieve that, 691 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 5: going to fall off the bandwagon real quick? Obstacle what 692 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 5: challenges might actually stop you from achieving this? 693 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 1: And then plan? So how are you going to overcome 694 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: those challenges? So this was. 695 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 5: Developed by doctor Gabrielle or Tengi, a psychologist who actually 696 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 5: spent twenty years researching how people turn their dreams into action. 697 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 4: Wow, she did the hard work. 698 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: Why don't I come. 699 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 5: Why don't you have a big book that's like really popular, 700 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 5: Because that's a lot of time to spend on that, 701 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 5: and like so many of us want to turn our 702 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 5: dream into action. You've got twenty years of research. Y, 703 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 5: speak up, louder, I know. But what she found Beck 704 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 5: was just visualizing success is not enough, Like you can't 705 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 5: just say you manifest it and think about it all 706 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 5: the time. Sure, the people who actually achieve their goals 707 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 5: are consistently positive thinkers about most things, but they are 708 00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 5: also strategic thinkers. So they are thinking about their plan, 709 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 5: they are thinking about what might get in the way, 710 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 5: they are thinking about how they're going to achieve this. 711 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 5: They're creating a little outline of what steps they need 712 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 5: to take. It's not just positive thoughts and vibes. 713 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: Will carry you absolutely. 714 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 4: And this is the thing is that, like, I feel 715 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 4: like there's definitely a difference between toxic positivity. And I 716 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 4: do tell my friends this when they're like, no good 717 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 4: vibes only, I'm like, no, this. 718 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: Way about to admit that they're a negative vibe. 719 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 4: Base for negativity is a space for sadness, space for 720 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 4: all the other emotions. 721 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: When it comes to yourself and. 722 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 4: Your own life, it actually matters what your internal monologue is. 723 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 4: And you're just being kind to yourself. 724 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: And I am. 725 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 4: Already feeling empowered or not even at the end of 726 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 4: this episode yet, but. 727 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 5: I do feel like it helps, right because I'm all 728 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 5: about positive thinking. I'm the same I hate toxic positivity. Like, 729 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 5: you're gonna have bad days at work, and I want 730 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 5: you to feel comfortable telling me about those bad day 731 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 5: want flow. 732 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 1: I want you to feel heard. 733 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 5: I want your emotions validated, because once they're validated, we 734 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 5: can move on from them because you Yeah, you're right, 735 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,040 Speaker 5: that is exactly why I feel that way, and this 736 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 5: is how this works. And then oh, but I don't 737 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 5: want to focus on it. What I want to focus 738 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 5: on is X. 739 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 2: Y or Z. 740 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 5: Sure, So I think it's just so important to kind 741 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 5: of have the mix and have both. So I guess 742 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 5: to recap the WHOOP method is wish, outcome, obstacle, and plan, 743 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,280 Speaker 5: and I think that by doing that we could quote 744 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 5: manifest way better. 745 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 4: Okay, I love this, Honestly, I'm quite hopeful. I genuinely 746 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,839 Speaker 4: will try this. So V, what's takeaway from this all? 747 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: Does manifestation actually work? 748 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 2: Hmm? 749 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 5: I feel like I ruined it at the start of 750 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,720 Speaker 5: the episode by saying it was bullshit, But that's okay. 751 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 5: It can work, but only if you are doing it 752 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 5: right with a whole heap of other things around it. 753 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 5: Like thinking rich is great, but that's not going to 754 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,839 Speaker 5: make you rich, but thinking ahead is what's actually going 755 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 5: to build wealth and create the life that you deserve. 756 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 5: And the best way to manifest money ultimately is. 757 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,320 Speaker 1: Let's set clear goals. 758 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 5: We need to believe in ourselves, we need to reframe 759 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 5: our thinking, and we are not shitty at money. We 760 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,360 Speaker 5: are actually really good at money, and we are just 761 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 5: learning and we are at the start of our journey. 762 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 5: So I feel like being able to I guess change 763 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 5: your mindset is going to literally shift your money habits. 764 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 5: Ultimately that means more money in your bank account and 765 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:18,800 Speaker 5: you will start creating real wealth. 766 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 4: I'm really looking forward to this. I hope that you know, 767 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 4: whoever's listening. If you're driving, don't do this. But if 768 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 4: you're not driving your SAT or you're standing, just start 769 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 4: writing this stuff down. Let's start with the whoop method. 770 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 4: Actually no, I'm going to start with the Honda Jazz Okay. 771 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna look for the Honda jazz Is and 772 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,720 Speaker 5: then you're gonna be like damn vwers right. Probably should 773 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 5: listen to that episode again and start quote manifestly properly exit. Also, 774 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 5: can you DM me your pictures of the yellow Honda 775 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 5: Jazz because like, I need to get those and then 776 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 5: they fell off because I mentioned it so long ago, 777 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 5: But like, you see a Honda Jazz, I'm going to 778 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 5: need a picture of that to reiterate that my theory 779 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,800 Speaker 5: is a legitimate theory. 780 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: Now it's some you know, hippie Dippy horoscope. All right, guys, 781 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 1: if you. 782 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 5: Have loved this episode as much Beck and I have 783 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 5: loved bringing it to you, make sure to share it 784 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 5: with a friend who's deep in the TikTok manifestation hole, 785 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 5: and don't forget to follow and subscribe so that you 786 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,719 Speaker 5: don't miss an episode and we can keep bringing you 787 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 5: the content that you know and love. 788 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,760 Speaker 1: See you next week, guys. 789 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 4: Bye guys. 790 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,240 Speaker 6: The advice shared on She's on the Money is general 791 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 6: in nature and does. 792 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,280 Speaker 5: Not consider your individual circumstances. 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