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Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is

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Speaker 1: the podcast where we chat mindset, self development and becoming

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Speaker 1: your higher self. Mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody,

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Speaker 1: Happy Friday, and welcome back to the potty. Today we

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Speaker 1: have a very fun hotline for you, and we are

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Speaker 1: So we unpack this. We're a little bit brutal. So brutal,

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Speaker 1: but brutal with love, you know, that's how we roll.

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Speaker 1: a bit of an interesting episode. But before we get

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Speaker 1: Find Your Voice, yesterday. So basically, this is a step

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Speaker 1: by step guide course that shows you how to start

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Speaker 1: time on how to start a podcast, how to prepare episodes,

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Speaker 1: We totally have your back. And for me, starting the

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Speaker 1: podcast was one of the best things I ever did.

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Speaker 2: That, especially because you know, thank you, especially because you know,

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Speaker 1: And that's also another thing is like people are like, oh,

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Speaker 1: because I believe if like authentic to yourself, if you

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Speaker 1: you can absolutely still use a podcast scale of podcast

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and especially because you know, a podcast can be

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Speaker 1: feel abundance. That's not how energetics works. And I think

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Speaker 1: all so it's like looking at why you don't feel abundant,

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Speaker 1: because literally, if it's because you see influences quote unquote

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Speaker 1: earning more than you, that clearly shows that again you're

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Speaker 1: in this frequency of comparison and scarcity, so you need

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Speaker 1: to And that's the thing is I wouldn't be making

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Speaker 1: financial decisions from this place. No, And that's a big

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Speaker 1: thing of like get the energetic sword in. So it's

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Speaker 1: like stepping out and it's like, how can you feel abundant?

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's muting all the influences, Yeah, that make you

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Speaker 1: feel like shit with you know, money. It's the exact

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Speaker 1: same thing about like your body, and like muting people

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Speaker 1: who make you feel shit about your body. It's like,

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Speaker 1: just don't have them on your screen. Take some responsibility. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And so it's like muting those people and then being like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: what is actually a prodee for me and what makes

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Speaker 1: me feel abundant? And me and Cooper talk about this

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Speaker 1: a lot, because what makes me feel abundant and what

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Speaker 1: I like spending my money on is like very different

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Speaker 1: to him. And we really talk about how cool it

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Speaker 1: is that we can see that we have different you know,

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Speaker 1: places of abundance and different like you can maybe call

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Speaker 1: them buckets or whatever, and not being judgmental to the

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Speaker 1: other person because they want to spend money in that

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Speaker 1: way too. Yeah, And I think that is really really important,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's it's that whole comparison piece.

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Speaker 3: Also, I love that and I even think back to

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Speaker 3: me last year when paying twenty dollars a week for

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Speaker 3: my gym membership, I hated it. I also remember saying

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Speaker 3: this on the podcast. It made me feel ill every

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Speaker 3: time I saw that charge come out from gym for

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Speaker 3: the week. And now I'm probably paying like for gym

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Speaker 3: plus my coach like five times that a week, and

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Speaker 3: it feels so good and I feel so good about it.

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Speaker 3: But it's also because my priorities have shifted this year

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Speaker 3: and I do want to invest in my health and fitness,

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Speaker 3: and being healthy makes me feel abundant, and I've worked

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Speaker 3: on associating health with abundance because it's a very different way.

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Speaker 3: It's not like it's just not very materialistic, which was

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Speaker 3: something I hadn't experimented with before when it came to abundance.

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Speaker 3: But in the same thing, wearing a pair of designer

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Speaker 3: shoes makes me feel like a million dollars, so of

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Speaker 3: course I'm gonna get another pair sometimes. But it's just

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Speaker 3: like figure it out for yourself, because I guarante, like

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Speaker 3: my friends don't really care for design of things, but

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Speaker 3: they also don't they love that I love it, so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not worried.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, one's worried and I'm not worried about what

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Speaker 3: they're doing. We're all just very supportive of each other.

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Speaker 1: So that's actually something me and Tim did the other

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Speaker 1: day also, is we went through our financials and we

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Speaker 1: looked at what we were spending money on and what

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Speaker 1: felt good and what we wanted to shift around, and

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Speaker 1: we actually took some things off because we just thought, why, like,

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Speaker 1: why are we spending money on this thing. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's not even a priority for us. And then also

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Speaker 1: there was some things where we're like, no, that feels

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Speaker 1: really good, yeah, and like so happy to spend money

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Speaker 1: on that, and really just like doing an order of like,

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Speaker 1: oh what actually feels good? And again it not being

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Speaker 1: about other people, it being about yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I think also like just quickly to end. Abundance

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Speaker 1: is a feeling. It's not an end destination.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I truly believe you can feel like abundant with anything.

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Speaker 1: It's again, it's a feeling you give yourself. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: come from your employer, it doesn't come from you know,

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Speaker 1: a person or a designer bag. It comes from yourself.

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Speaker 1: So true.

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Speaker 3: You know, when I actually felt most abundant recently, tell

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Speaker 3: me so contradictory. I got a parking ticket and I

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Speaker 3: looked at it our like, okay, cool, I'll pay that.

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Speaker 3: And I just paid it, and that I don't think

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Speaker 3: I've ever felt so abundant in my life, you bougie pick.

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Speaker 3: But it was just like it's that for me. Is

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Speaker 3: abundance is you're just not worried and you're not so

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Speaker 3: attached to money that it rattles you when you need

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Speaker 3: to pay something.

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Speaker 1: And that's and so it's it's a huge energetic thing.

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Speaker 1: And that's even what you said about when you used

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Speaker 1: to see your gym membership being twenty bucks and it

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Speaker 1: used to make you ill. Yeah, like that is a

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Speaker 1: real life thing where that is like that's a whole

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Speaker 1: money billyef thing. Yeah, that would have been like draining

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Speaker 1: your energy and also it would have been creating more

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Speaker 1: lack and scarcity in your life. Yeah. Yeah. And now

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Speaker 1: I'm abundant. You know. I feel most abundant when when

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Speaker 1: I get my invoice from my.

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Speaker 3: Missus that that is great because I.

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Speaker 1: Get a message every single like she's she's a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, fucking love paying this in voice,

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Speaker 1: and I do. And that's even something like I love

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Speaker 1: paying invoices. I'm like, yes, I need this, I'd love it.

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Speaker 1: This feels so good because it's so true. Of like,

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Speaker 1: it matters how you feel when you're exchanging energy, and

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Speaker 1: it matters how you feel about the money you have

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Speaker 1: and then what you let go of and what you receive. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: I reckon. We'll pop a thread in the Facebook group. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: tell us when you felt most abundant.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I can't wait to hear me do. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for listening to another episode of the Rise

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Speaker 1: and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and want more,

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