WEBVTT - New Rules For Dating Apps 📱 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.920 The Flex and Froom's daily podcast, brought to you by Jada. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:11.360 It is with extreme regret that we come to you 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:15.440 today with a bit of a confession. I say we 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.920 because I understand that in this moment, what Freumi needs 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:20.799 from me is my support. It's not time for me 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.840 to roast or for anyone to put us against each other. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.239 I'm here as a friend, first colleague. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:26.479 Second. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:28.520 Fumi went to Europe. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:35.200 You EU, Yeah, ropactis practice, So first Europe trip ever. 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:38.560 Booked the tickets in June, you know, arrived in September. 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.680 She had high hopes for the experience, but unfortunately for 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:44.839 all of us involved, it was not that great. The 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.280 phrase that I heard through me use and I quote 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.800 Europe is overrated. Now I know what you're thinking. Europe 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:54.920 is a continent, Flex, I'm aware free music. According to Frumi, 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:58.200 Europe is a homogeneous place where countries don't exist. She 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:00.480 went to a few. She has a big idea about 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:03.880 the whole trubid is not like Europe. But I feel 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:07.080 as though if you'd like to send her there again, 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:08.520 she could change her mind. 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.840 You know where you messed up the first time I 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:11.520 went to Europe. 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.240 I went on a Kentiqui influencer trip, and that was 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.440 the best way to do it because I wouldn't have 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.280 planned that trip myself, and I would have been so 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.320 limited in where I would have wanted to go and 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.800 who I wanted to do it with. I was the 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.120 people I didn't know, going to places I'd never been, 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.240 so I was in my whole new element. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:30.240 Honestly, it's weird. When I was younger, I wouldn't have 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:32.679 done a Kentiqi. Now that I'm this age, the Kentiqui 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:40.360 laugh sala what I'm appealing? Yeah, oh, I will say, though, 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.720 One good thing about going I didn't get your lag 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:43.800 either way. 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:48.040 That's because you're European, babe, the blood in me. 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:50.680 Oh dear, let's go flea. 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:54.080 And if you think I want to confess while they're 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.040 on the tip of my tongue, I've been so bad 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:58.320 with dates recently and I don't know what's happening. I 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.360 keep getting my age wrong, so either I've been body 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.800 snatched or like, how do I open the right met anyway? 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.480 And then the other day I threw out veggimid because 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.480 it said it expired in twenty twenty three August, and 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:13.040 I was like, Oh, it's done. 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:14.440 It's twenty twenty two, babe. 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.240 Also hun little bit of a heads up that might 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:19.040 doesn't go off. 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:20.679 That's what people keep telling me. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:21.720 It's preservatives. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.160 Yeah, but what do you show so much at all? 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:28.360 Anyway, Like I said, as soon as I got my 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.120 license and as soon as I got a car, I 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:33.320 really liked I became a person who drives a driver 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.920 capital D. It is such a core part of my identity. 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:39.119 I wake up excited to use my car. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:39.799 Where will we go? 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:41.000 Where will we go? 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.840 But it's directly at odds with the fact that I'm 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:46.040 trying to get my steps up, and so it's like, 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:48.160 I don't do incidental walking. 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.040 Now, I gotta find an hour out of my day 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.600 to go to the gym. It's not great. 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:54.880 But I saw another news article, and again, these news 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:58.600 articles are feeling like onion pieces because each one of 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.760 them feels like it was written by a chronically online person, 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:05.639 and I don't like it. Listen to this though, Apparently 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:09.480 people have been feeling really anxious to get back on 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.320 the road post COVID, and I get it. It was, 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.240 you know, two years of health for a lot of people. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.359 They weren't on the roads, a lot of anger pent up. 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.400 The government has a solution. What is a solution? You 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.280 ask what is it? Well, ask me and I'll tell 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:25.840 you what's the solution. We don't really sound very interested. 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:26.239 I don't know. 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:27.639 I don't tell you you're not interested. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:28.480 I'm so interested. 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:28.800 Great. 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:32.440 They're called R plates, and they're blue and the R 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.120 is white. You might have seen them on the road. 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:34.760 I know I have it. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:38.560 But they're being rolled out to help people return to 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:42.760 driving after experiencing some kind of road related trauma, right, 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.440 and so it's been an initiative launched by my car. 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.560 And to be honest, the way they're framing it is like, 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.200 you know, let's say you have a car accident, and 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.640 so you're naturally going to be a bit bit shaky 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:56.880 on the roads, maybe slower than you need to be going, 0:03:56.960 --> 0:04:00.320 or more hesitant when you're indicating lanes. And generally people 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:03.720 are not very gracious to people who aren't loose drivers. 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.520 If you can't be real smooth with that, like butter 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.920 like if you're turning stiff around the corners, people aren't 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.600 happy about that. They're gonna start beeping you if you 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.160 delay even more than point five a second. When that 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.480 light goes from red to green. It's World War three 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:21.160 on these streets. About to understand it. But something about 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:23.880 the R plate, I'm like, do you really think this 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:24.839 is going to be the thing? 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:26.039 What does our stand for? 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:30.839 Are stands for returning return plates? 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:36.240 It's just it's not gonna work. It's not gonna work. People, 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:38.839 I feel like people are. Then you have a few 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:42.840 types of drivers on the road. You got antagonistic who 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:45.200 want to ram up your ass on purpose. They see 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.040 any sign of weakness and they pounce on it. Truck 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.800 drivers exactly. A truck truck driver. 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:50.960 I don't want any problems. 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:52.719 My dad's a truck driver, so I'm allowed to do 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:55.240 this slander. Some guy nearly merged into my car on 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:58.039 the way to cater today, close call. Then get his 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:01.240 number plate. I'll take him out anyway. I think it's 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.080 like putting a target on your back, to be honest. 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:04.760 Well, that's what people are saying as well. Listen to this. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:06.960 They say, you shouldn't be on the road if your 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:09.440 confidence isn't up to scratch. I mean, we have places 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:11.640 to be the world doesn't stop for people who don't 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:15.840 have confidence. Okay, Someone also said, just give them room 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.920 like an l plator, and another person said in a response, 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.520 I wish being on my l's was hell. Even when 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:24.080 I did the speed limit and everything, there was no respect. 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.839 Someone else said, when is everyone in the history of 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:30.760 automotive transport well ever given an L plate to more 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:33.440 space or patients. What makes you think they'll do the 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.440 same for an r plator? 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:38.960 Our players, Yeah, they're in for it. It's like putting 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.800 glasses on and putting nerd on the back of your back. 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:44.920 Okay, not quite. I just think it's interesting. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:49.320 Again, Like I said, I like the idea of positive improvements, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.680 but sometimes it feels like we're taking not the most 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:55.440 niche problem, but a problem that exists on the corner 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.880 of the world that has been centered for optics for 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.760 a good story. Like I can just imagine my car, 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:03.760 whoever is you know, ahead of this is kind of 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.839 like do you get people talking, you know, about driving 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:07.919 about driving safety? 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:09.520 What's a nice way to shake it up? 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:12.479 Just before we go any further flex we've just had 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:15.280 on good authority from our producer Brook that my car 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:18.719 who's trying to push this initiative is a subsidiary of Kmart. 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:20.240 This is not a government. 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:21.920 This is just. 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:25.400 Yet another consumption free tires. 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.039 If you want to be an ARP later. 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:30.279 We'll give you some pre CDs from. 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:31.720 It is what it is. 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:35.159 I mean, I'm not mad, I'm just very intrigued to 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:37.600 see how well this will be received. So if you 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.480 are an R later or you know one, and you 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:40.800 want to let us know what your experience has been, 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.360 right been like returning to the roads, hit us up, 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:44.000 hit us up. 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:47.680 Getting your car, I'll tailgate you and come to the 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.120 studio passenger princess. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.920 Let me show you how to be confident on the road. Baby, 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:53.040 I'm smooth with it. 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:53.920 Yet to be seen. 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.240 Flex and frooms before. 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:59.000 We go any further. It's very important to everybody in 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:00.840 the room that you can just wish between who is 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:01.800 flex and who is through. 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:04.440 You're doing that just because in case I do something rogue. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:08.839 Absolutely any opportunity to remind people that we are not 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.080 one entity. You know. I was ordering food at a 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.360 Chicken Shot one day and the woman behind the counter 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.520 looked up and was like, oh my god, I recognize 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:18.120 your voice. 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:20.600 And I was like, what, Oh God, I hear your 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:21.560 voice on the radio. 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.360 We're at that point people know it's my voice, babe anyway, 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.400 So I don't actually know what I sound like in 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.680 my head. I was so sure I had a deep voice. 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:32.600 Every time I say it, everyone's like, stop at babes 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.560 with your voice is up in the head. It is 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:38.440 nasally and grating, and that's for me. 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:42.400 It's nasally rising. But there's some sort of little tiny 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:44.040 it's froggy. 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.160 There's like a froggy element to my voice somewhere. 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:50.840 I think people confuse deep voices with confident voices, like 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:54.080 if you have a confident speaker, it seems deeper, which 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:56.800 is a whole nother thing to discuss. So FLEXI as 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.280 we know, I just got back from Europe, and the 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:02.679 biggest thing that I took away from my intercontinental trip 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:06.240 twenty four hours in transit. At the very least, the 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.520 one thing I came back with no souvenirs. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:12.320 Odd was was money not was money tight? What's going on? 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:17.760 No? I did buy some sartoral pieces that I'll discuss later, 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:21.520 but the one takeaway that I got from Europe was 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.840 that the chips are not salted. 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:26.320 Yeah, it's not great, is it. 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.760 Every single day that I was in Europe I ordered 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.480 some form of Fritz. Of course, my friend that I 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:35.199 was with is a big Fritz girl, doesn't like sweet things. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:39.120 She's an absolute fiend for potatoes of any variety. We 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:43.280 had them in France, in London, in Ibitha, in Namdrop, 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:48.600 and every single time, without a doubt, even at McDonald's 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:51.480 no salt on the fries. And I thought to myself, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:53.839 there's some sort of conspiracy happening with the no salt 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:57.040 fries in Europe. I came to the conclusion that it 0:08:57.120 --> 0:09:01.160 must have something to do with health advice. Yeah, anyway, 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.520 go for the Googs. Can't find anything on Google apart 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:09.199 from one article from twenty twelve that said that KFC 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.160 stopped salting their ships in the UK for health reasons, 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:16.199 but it seems to have permeated the entire area. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:19.360 It doesn't make sense because like, didn't a lot of 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:23.120 European nations like steal spices and stuff. 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.160 You didn't use them, what did you do with them? 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:31.280 This is also my complaint with London specifically when I went, 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:35.680 if I wasn't eating cultural food like Jamaican food or 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:37.520 Indian food, it was blend. 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.480 And that's no shade. That's no shade we can make. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:43.080 We can make observations and they might hurt your feelings 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:43.600 just a little bit. 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.680 You know, this is even an extension of your culture. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.319 So I'm sorry to your people, but the no salt 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:52.120 thing is an issue, and I think that is fundamentally 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:54.760 why a lot of Australians are very specific about chicken salt, 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.480 because there's nothing like it. There's nothing like chicken salt 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:01.920 on a chip. Be so I got to carry it 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:02.840 with you at all times. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.240 Damn. Okay, that's how I want to elevate. 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:09.240 I want to get chicken salt, tomato sauce and lip 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:13.760 balm on a key chain and attach that to my keys. 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.320 You're the person to make this literally wow. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.960 So actually, while we're on the topic of chips in 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.080 Europe and London, I want to give you a few 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:22.679 rundowns of the food that I ate. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:28.600 Me interested mildly, I won't lie to you. 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:30.360 Well, one thing that I did, which I think will 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:34.319 be of interest to those listening is obviously everyone is 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:37.280 a fan of ottle ANGI let me let me rephrase. 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.200 Yeah, because I've been seeing out a Lengy. I've been 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:40.719 going to bookstores. I've been seeing the name. I'm like, 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:41.400 is it a restaurant. 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.000 Is it a guy? Is it a way of cooking? 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:44.720 I'm not sure. Did I google it? No, but you 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:45.200 can tell me. 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.640 So. If you're a single white female living in the 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.960 Eastern suburbs, it out. There's one thing, and one thing 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.360 only on your kitchen bench. It's a ottolengngy. It's at 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:56.320 a lean hookbook Simple Jerusalem. There's some other ones. There's 0:10:56.640 --> 0:11:00.400 names of these books. Oh, the classic, the classic dishes. 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.160 One of the most classy dishes is a roasted cauliflowerhead 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.960 with pomegranate and like a Tahini style sauce. 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:07.000 Terrifying. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:10.079 Anyway, I realized it's an odd Lengy restaurant in London 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:15.560 because he is London. It's a person, he's a yo. Yeah. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:19.319 I think his name is Yotan MODELINGI Monolengi oh to 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:23.160 lingy otto Lengi. Rather, I was on a food so 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.000 far in Europe, I'm not gonna lie. I was going 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.640 to every single little restaurant, trying all the cuisines. Actually 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:34.440 never had Indian Huh or African food no I know, 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.160 but decided to go to the odd Lenge restaurant. It's 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:41.560 called Knoppi n OPI kind of like no boo and 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:47.680 she was. It was absolutely delicious, imagine the cookbook but 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:50.880 in real life. Must admit the restaurant was in Soho, 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.880 which is a really cool inner city spot. But the 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:57.880 lighting was too bright. Ooh you know what's something too bright? Yeah, 0:11:57.960 --> 0:11:59.679 fluorescent fluorescents. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:00.720 That's a shame. 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:03.240 Of course. We got talking to the waiter. He was 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:04.440 a young guy from. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.400 Love a little flat with the waiter sign me up. 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:07.280 He was loving it. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.880 How yeah, right right? 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:14.960 And I was gonna say something about the waiter, but 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:16.520 I won't because you could probably name check him. You 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:22.400 never know who's listening to this podcast. You've gotten soft, nah, 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:24.960 So what else can I tell about Europe? The streets 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:28.240 smell like piss. Everywhere smell like piss. 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:32.160 Okay, you've got to stop saying Europe, Like, let's be specific. 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.520 Where did you witch streets in particular? 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:35.880 Well, I'm trying to think of a place in Europe 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:39.439 that didn't smell it piss. Amsterdam in the morning didn't 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:43.080 smell it piss. And to name at night piss London, 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:47.200 piss Paris double piss Paris are allowed it to be 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.880 pissy as well as beautiful. 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:51.520 Oh, Wow. 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:54.760 Basically I must admit I am from Europe originally, so 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.920 I feel like I am allowed to rag on London. 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.240 Believe that's where my first four bart is Trump. 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:04.520 Which for Europe, which country in Europe from originally pre Brexit? 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:10.839 Pre Brexit England is the heritage that we're working with. 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:12.760 And so when I came there, it actually did feel 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:14.120 like a bit of a return to center. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.360 A bit of aut homecoming, and actually like it. 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.480 Actually did, like I felt really comfortable, and despite it 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.800 smelling like peace, like I'd smell the piece and be like, 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:26.920 that's what my forefathers would have smelly. But London was 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:29.040 really beautiful. Actually, the more I think about the trip, 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:32.200 the more I liked it. I went to Oxford, which 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:35.520 is a university town, which I still can't work out. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:39.000 Oxford is a university, but it's also a suburb. And 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:40.920 there's all these different colleges. But do they all go 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:41.920 to Oxford? 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.520 I don't understand. Yeah, I don't answer the question. 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:46.560 Someone someone will DM me and tell me, like, there's 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:49.560 some Mary's College in Oxford. Does that mean it's part 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:50.280 of Oxford? 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:53.560 I'm going to say no, yeah, damn. So would you 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:57.600 describe your experience as an eat prey. Love changed your life. 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:00.720 I mean I can rattle off a few into continental 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.960 trips I've taken that are, in fact, core memories that 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:05.520 have made me the woman I am today. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:10.040 Okay, so that's no next question. Please. 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:16.560 There were some unexpected instances. Fuck, I'm really not giving much. 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:17.800 This segment a. 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.040 Very premium way to say. 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:23.360 No. No, I don't know. I think I'm too close 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:25.480 to the source, like Europe kind of feels like a blur. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:29.480 I think I'm just sick, and that's why I'm coming back. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:30.840 Hear it in my voice. 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.680 See, I don't think you need to sell yourself the 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:33.960 idea that the holiday was enjoyable. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:34.960 If it wasn't you say that. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.000 No, it was definitely enjoyable. It's just like I need 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.040 a holiday after the holiday, and it was just so 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.200 I say, yeah. 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:41.920 This is what I say. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:46.240 Yeah, but Europe overrated? 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:47.640 Will you go again? 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:51.120 No? Not for a long time. What's That's how I 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:54.040 know that I liked it, but I'm not obsessed. You know, 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.880 some people get back from Europe. You know what actually 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.320 made me realize. You know how when you're younger, there's 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.160 some families that we go to Europe every year. 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:12.520 Yeah, no, no, no, I think some significant differences. 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:13.680 Please continue. 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:18.600 You people whose SAMs gone these European trips and I 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:22.120 just think, oh, fuck them, life must be amazing. I'm like, 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:25.480 it's the same shit everywhere. Plus you're so jet lagged, 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:29.400 and it's such a mental you know, I'm traveling around 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:30.840 by myself. I've got to get to the gate at 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:34.160 the right time. It's a lot of mental energy. Where 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:34.720 where where? 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:35.440 Yeah? 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:37.360 See, I feel like you set yourself up. 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:40.880 I feel like you went to Europe anticipating fun, not 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:44.080 considering that you were the fun that Europe needed. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:46.880 Well, I definitely was serving that for most of the time, 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:49.400 probably sixty percent of the time. I was really bringing 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:49.920 your vibe. 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:51.640 Do you think you would have had a different experience 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:52.840 had you traveled with different people? 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:57.360 Nah? Oh, I was with good friends of mine who 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:58.320 have similar interests. 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.040 Maybe just hopeless, Maybe travel is not for you to 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:05.280 be fair though, I do think you're right in saying 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.720 that when people travel generally, like when we're seeing our 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:12.200 acquaintances on Instagram posting their euro trip, they're going, you know, 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:16.400 once every seven years. They've like saved all their coins 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.280 for this. They have no choice but to view it 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:22.040 as a life changing experience totally. I think once you've 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:25.320 done a few exciting things in quick succession, you get 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:27.040 numb to it. Because what I'm talking about we need 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:30.000 to get back to, like lowering our dopamine exposure so 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.720 we can start to enjoy things. 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:35.120 Through stoth of you babes. I'm growing into it. My 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.000 stoic era is like forty five that we're getting there. 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.120 But like I say, every day we do things we like, 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.800 we well, we like, we eat what we like, we enjoy, 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:43.120 we enjoy, we indulge, we indulge. Now we go to 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.280 a designated area pay a premium to do the same 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:47.880 thing we'd be doing. It's not adding up. 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:51.440 That's exactly what it is. Flex, That's exactly what it is. 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:53.760 I try to live my life like I'm on holiday here. Yeah, 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:57.040 and I was expecting it to be supercharged on crack 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:58.720 on crack. Oh there was one other thing I want 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:01.520 to tell you, Oh yeah, yeah, I did find this 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:05.840 sandwich shop and I walked half an hour with the 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:12.080 faust fattest hangover I've ever experienced. Like it was absolutely disgusting. 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:15.200 I was so crook walked all the way through East 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:18.880 London to nah. I knew I had to get out 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.720 of the house, and you know, I can walk for 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.320 a long time if I know there's something at the 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:26.600 other end. Anyway, walking home and I'm like taking instagrams 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.399 in this sandwich, I look like shedes no offense to me, 0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:33.359 but it was not serving all offense and taun and 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.800 get home and someone's tagged me in the Instagram story 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:40.439 from behind me walking with my little sandwich playing on 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:44.879 my phone baterally. It was so upsetting. I'm just this 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:46.680 is not what I need. I was flattered, but it's 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:47.439 not what I needed. 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.840 I told you this ops everywhere. To stop leaving the 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:54.560 house like you're in your invisible chamber. Okay, get to 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:59.080 step in. Everybody's watching live in a to con surveillance state. 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:03.800 Oh alas So to wrap up, I really appreciate this segment. 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.159 Europe is overrated. If you've never been before, like I 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:09.399 hadn't been in your twenty seven twenty eight, you're not 0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:12.480 missing out on that much. But also go get out 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:13.720 of his system and then you won't want to go 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:15.640 for another ten years. I'm not going for at least 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:17.800 another twenty years. Shut up. 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:25.520 You're a there, and this is flex and frooms on CADA. 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:28.520 I am a firm believer in the idea that everything 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:35.520 can be better. Everything can be more efficient, more optimized, hotter, cuter, sweeter, sexier. 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:35.760 More premium. 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:39.920 And the reason why things don't get to their level 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:43.280 of excellence is because people are really really afraid to 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:47.840 change things when they think they've arrived. Oh you know, 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.800 I've submitted this thing, or I've decided this is my look. 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.400