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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, sweetie pies.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't want to be stressed, these are the

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<v Speaker 2>jobs for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I did the.

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<v Speaker 2>Market research myself. Am I convinced with the answers. No,

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<v Speaker 2>But information is information. You must do with it what

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<v Speaker 2>you will learn to discern.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, guys, finally, we need to actually define what

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<v Speaker 1>negging is. Don't look at me on the way.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at free me for having sixteen blocks of

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<v Speaker 2>chocolate in her mat as she's trying the salivarries building.

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<v Speaker 1>She's trying to talk like it's not in there. I

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<v Speaker 1>see it, not Cabri.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys's lively getting caught in the HAIs.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop it. It's so mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I have the best weekend in the whole wide world.

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<v Speaker 2>We're I was gonna talk about negging. We've just really

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<v Speaker 2>understood what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Today and we've just seen it right now. Anyway, love

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<v Speaker 1>your guys so much. Let's go to the body mummy.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I listen to Flex and Rooms Flex and Frooms?

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<v Speaker 1>Okata. I haven't used up chat in a little honey

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<v Speaker 1>a while. I will be honest. I do most of

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<v Speaker 1>my telecommunications over Instagram and imssage. However, a report has

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<v Speaker 1>just come out courtesy of Snapchat for Australia's top nicknames.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what we call our friends, our beloveds our betrothed,

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<v Speaker 1>and these are the top national findings. This blew me away.

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<v Speaker 1>The top nicknames in this country are baby, that's fair enough, yeah, fair,

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<v Speaker 1>honey cool? Okay, yeah, I hear han not honey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well let's just assume baby, babe's honey hun.

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<v Speaker 1>We can do that. Cutie ah hey, kuty. I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, oh, this is like okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a list and Babe. But the final one, which.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know, I don't understand Digger.

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<v Speaker 1>Mikayla. What's going on? So Mikayla brought me this story

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, Snapchat just threw this in to beget

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<v Speaker 1>in the news.

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<v Speaker 2>I see this as young people.

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<v Speaker 1>What is digger? Let me let me google.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds Australian for sure?

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<v Speaker 1>What does the nickname?

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<v Speaker 2>While you're doing that, let's go through the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>the findings of Ozzie's believed nicknames are a unique part

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<v Speaker 2>of being Australian, and I do agree for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say, okay? Digger is a military slang term

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<v Speaker 1>for infantry soldiers from Australia New Zealand. So they've just

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<v Speaker 1>thrown that in. I've never heard anyone preferred to anyone

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<v Speaker 1>as a digger, and yet here are the men playing

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<v Speaker 1>on Snapchat.

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<v Speaker 2>Forty three percent of Ozzie you say that others tend

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<v Speaker 2>to know them by their nickname over their real name,

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<v Speaker 2>like mummy firms Yeah huge, nearly one intent Ouzsie is

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<v Speaker 2>a sporting a rude nickname, and what is rude? Percent

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<v Speaker 2>of Australians go by a nickname around their family and

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<v Speaker 2>sixty percent around their friends.

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<v Speaker 1>The more surprising nicknames they found their way into. The

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<v Speaker 1>most popular included sausage makes sense. My mum calls me sausage.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh bear, oh baby bear LGBTQI representation. We called bum sweetie.

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<v Speaker 2>I like sweety shorty shorty.

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<v Speaker 1>Also he spelt like shorty, like short little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>why hello shorty, I mean surely short king makes on

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<v Speaker 1>the list.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah say shorty. That's one of the things I really

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<v Speaker 2>like about Australian culture. We can say a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>harrowing things about what happens here, but nickname culture. I

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<v Speaker 2>just feel so strongly about love does wonders for an interaction.

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<v Speaker 2>There are some people who've never had a name before,

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<v Speaker 2>and that hurts me to my core.

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<v Speaker 1>Hurts me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little name shortening, a little shared Please it

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<v Speaker 2>is that to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Where can I? Guys of line with flex and Frooms on.

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<v Speaker 2>Kada, got a big question for you. If you have

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<v Speaker 2>any thoughts or you disagree with anything we're about to say,

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<v Speaker 2>we welcome it to our Instagram DM, Flex and Frooms,

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<v Speaker 2>please respond with context. When you talked about this, I

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<v Speaker 2>felt this, and then we might acknowledge it.

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<v Speaker 1>We might not.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's all fun and games here, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>Question?

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<v Speaker 2>Can nagging be playful or is it always a toxic exchange? No, idiot,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got the definition. Just that we're on the same page.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an insult or to undermine someone in the belief

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<v Speaker 2>that diminished self confidence will make them.

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<v Speaker 1>More receptive to sexual advances.

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<v Speaker 2>I had no idea. I had no idea. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>begging was banter, that just didn't land, that had a

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<v Speaker 2>mean undertone. Okay, in my head, I assumed negging was

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<v Speaker 2>insult masked as joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is that is a technique of negging, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is not the true form of negging.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think the true form is it has to

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<v Speaker 2>be sexually oriented. To be assumed to be negging without

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<v Speaker 2>the sexual orientation of it, I think it's just playful

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<v Speaker 2>banter or bullying either or I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they interchangeable bullying? And they are.

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<v Speaker 2>Depending on what your relationship status is. Okay, we have

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<v Speaker 2>a listener, Tate, who dmd us and said I would

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<v Speaker 2>love your wise and wonderful opinions on insulting bullying as

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<v Speaker 2>a form of flirting. I met a guy the other

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<v Speaker 2>day at a mutual friend's birthday, and the way he

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<v Speaker 2>flirted was by saying that quote your Instagram could be improved.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ, I would have a conniption, would simply perish

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<v Speaker 1>on the spot.

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<v Speaker 2>Tate goes on to say I had had have a

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<v Speaker 2>basic white girl name and other little comments. I can

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<v Speaker 2>only assume he was flirting because it was in a

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<v Speaker 2>joky tone, and he practically asked me out at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the night, plus hit me up the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the party, would love your thoughts thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, A is Tate a basic name? It's not giving.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't. I won't say a basic name, not to

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<v Speaker 1>say alien Nate. You know, way fifty percent of our audience,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't. They could be one.

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<v Speaker 2>Why not fifty? It could be higher. You say I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a white demographic.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say it, Just say it.

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry? What was the question?

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine this right? You go to a party, you meet

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<v Speaker 2>a guy, you're chit chatting. He says to you, your

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram could be impressed.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, it's been nice, but I have to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet into a massilier to say your macs. You're

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<v Speaker 1>being mean to me. I hate people who neg Leave

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<v Speaker 1>me out of it. Say something nice, Put yourself out there,

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<v Speaker 1>be vulnerable. Life is short. Don't tell me that I

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<v Speaker 1>need to improve my Instagram. Get off it. You're obsessing

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<v Speaker 1>me and it's freaking me out. Okay, probably the Devil's advocate.

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<v Speaker 2>Please only you because the question is sir, Well, it's

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<v Speaker 2>more insulting. Bullying as a form of flirting, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it requires context and it requires you to actually know

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<v Speaker 2>the other person. Otherwise it's just bullying.

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<v Speaker 1>So an example of that that you said earlier between

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<v Speaker 1>our dynamic between us. So I believe that I am

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<v Speaker 1>entering my clean girl era. If you were to come

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<v Speaker 1>to my house today, you'd see that it's in th me.

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<v Speaker 2>Currently to this day, and you can grab that that

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<v Speaker 2>prop asset a for me currently and has consistently for

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<v Speaker 2>months been drinking out of a Mouldi water bottle and

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<v Speaker 2>in the same breath will call herself a clean girl.

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<v Speaker 2>It's neither here nor there.

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<v Speaker 1>Makeup's given clean.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's given clean. I will continuously bring up this,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a clear girl. That is a form of insulting,

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<v Speaker 2>bullying with a humorous undertone. A way, because we have context,

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<v Speaker 2>can someone who doesn't know you, who is trying to

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<v Speaker 2>tune you come through with the Mouldi water bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>Joke like ones when someone said I was living in

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<v Speaker 1>squalor totally unprovoked. I wasn't even trying to make my

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<v Speaker 1>house with it. Okay, this actually really actually affected me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have since improved the house. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I would say it can be, but let's all

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<v Speaker 2>just stick to the basics. Too many of us, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mean me when I'm speaking about this. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to do advanced banter when you haven't done foundational work.

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<v Speaker 2>The curriculum exists for a reason. Brush up, please, thank.

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<v Speaker 1>You, don't be too overfamiliar.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, just be funny. And if you don't have that,

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<v Speaker 2>be nice. That is life. It's a tale as old

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<v Speaker 2>as time. I'm at work, I'm stressed. I wish there

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<v Speaker 2>was a different job that I could do that would

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<v Speaker 2>pay me any heaps, and that would be I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>validating well, I've done the work for us everyone. Every

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<v Speaker 2>now and then I dip into my philanthropy bag. Philanthropy, philanthropy. Damn,

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<v Speaker 2>I dip into my philanthropy bag.

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<v Speaker 1>But you never dip into your grandma bag. No, never.

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<v Speaker 2>And I dip out, and I say, here's something nice

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<v Speaker 2>for you. Don't have to for anything again. Listen to

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<v Speaker 2>this TikTok.

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<v Speaker 3>It's from me, someone who has a job and doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel stressed or overworked at all or rarely. What job

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<v Speaker 3>do you have? What industry are you in? Does it

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<v Speaker 3>pay enough to cover all your expenses? And then some

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<v Speaker 3>were you in a sexy mood? Because that's definitely a

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<v Speaker 3>sexy voice, heap?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a sexy voice that was a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Sexy with that voice? Are there any anyone who gets

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money and isn't stress that they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I was like I was mate calling you were bait.

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<v Speaker 1>You're looking for a carpenter.

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<v Speaker 2>I was literally leading over my kitchen counsel, you're looking.

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<v Speaker 1>At what are you looking for? Yeah? Leaning over the counter.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye Bosom in the full flight say it isn't so okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Here are the industries we have top comments. It may

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<v Speaker 2>sound unbelievable, but executive assistance I get compensated greatly and

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<v Speaker 2>are rarely stressed. Next personal assistant. My boss is amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I work twenty five hours a week and make seventy K.

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<v Speaker 2>We never quit marketing, or it has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 2>with the job. It's the company one thousand percent government.

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<v Speaker 1>How No, it's chilling.

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<v Speaker 2>Tech writing pays seventy one hundred k marketing. Somebody else said,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got a bridal makeup artist. There is no way

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<v Speaker 2>of working in bridle is ever chill sewing machinists making

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<v Speaker 2>soft furnishing, visual merchandiser, plant nursery supervisor, customers, success for

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<v Speaker 2>a fintech company, financial crime prevention, coffee, digital marketing, nanny

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<v Speaker 2>English tutor marketing, marketing, juice bar marketing, marketing, factory marketing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're being oppressive in my ears. Sorry, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>say it was there not a nicer way to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize I was depressed her for a second of

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<v Speaker 1>being oppressive. Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't trust any of these answers, but somebody with

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<v Speaker 2>some sense to jump into the comments and say, I

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<v Speaker 2>think the key to finding a job that pays well

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<v Speaker 2>and doesn't stress you out is to not care and

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<v Speaker 2>to treat it as just a job that is meant

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<v Speaker 2>to pay you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, if you want to find that video, scroll down

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<v Speaker 2>my TikTok. Maybe twenty times.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that. Well done, flex, bring something near the table. Gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is flex and rooms kit. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>say that on coming down with sickness, but definitely the st.

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<v Speaker 2>You're coming down with the sickness. I'm coming to that

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<v Speaker 2>to two for two what's going on? But I've ever

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<v Speaker 2>been sick in this studio? Yeah, there was this one time.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it a year ago? Yeah? It wasn't good.

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<v Speaker 1>Not you sniffling. It was very bizarre experience for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was having conversation the other day and I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>like about the most awkward, humiliating things that can happen

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<v Speaker 1>to you humiliating. I love that work, absolutely humiliating, horrid

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<v Speaker 1>and r answered and horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a writer in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>I've just got Google open for synonyms. I've been having

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people over at my house recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's lovely, Yeah, bringing the outside in hosting. Fantastic host.

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<v Speaker 1>So I say, sparkling or still great, guys, they say,

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<v Speaker 1>where are you getting?

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<v Speaker 3>It?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a bit like that on a bad day. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely a little less lonely than mister Gatsby, I'll say.

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<v Speaker 1>At the moment killing it, I had this flashback of

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<v Speaker 1>like when my mum, I would say parents, but with

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<v Speaker 1>my mum, when mum would have guests over. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>all the trimmings, got the beautiful pork roast belly in

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<v Speaker 1>the oven. She's got some snacks on the table, bit

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<v Speaker 1>of dip, bit of pesto dip on the table, with

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<v Speaker 1>some gorgeous corn chips. That's a real host. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>got the gypsy Kings playing. I don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys know the Gypsickens in the Dixie Chicks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's exactly the same era. Like to a t it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like putting on I can never pronounce the band name.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Krugerbane. Sorry, how do I say? It's Space Space

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<v Speaker 1>Jane anyway? So it's like this, how do I like?

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<v Speaker 1>What is okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Please don't let us don't so for asking.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say, why is it so embarrassing when

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<v Speaker 1>you've got the playlist on before people come here, just

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<v Speaker 1>milling around your house with like the ambient music. It

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<v Speaker 1>is so humiliating.

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<v Speaker 2>Demons follow you because this was like a relatively chill

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<v Speaker 2>experience that's now haunting you.

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<v Speaker 1>For Sis are a band of Catalan rumba, flamenco, salsa

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<v Speaker 1>and pop musicians found in nineteen seventy eight. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that Absolute bangers. Guys. We have been in the trenches

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<v Speaker 1>here on the flex and fie.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not in the trenches.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not getting in, getting out, getting around, having the

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<v Speaker 1>best times lives always. These are the best times of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, flecks, and they're happening right now, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>really good to enjoy them because they will just continue.

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<v Speaker 3>If you do.

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<v Speaker 1>I have been thinking about how to politely ask somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to leave your house once you don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>with them anymore. It could be romantic. It could be friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have had a whole bunch of friends over

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<v Speaker 1>last night, and you actually need some alone time now

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<v Speaker 1>you've had a very big, busy day work. What is

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<v Speaker 1>a polite way to do it. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>can point blanks say hey, guys, I've got to go

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<v Speaker 1>to bed. However, I've done that. Yeah, So I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I had to do some googling before I read out

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<v Speaker 1>my findings. Do you have a techniqueflix amount? I do have.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's much easier to get a group to

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<v Speaker 2>leave than a one person if it's a group, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I used to do a lot of dinner parties when

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<v Speaker 2>I lived in Sydney, I'd be like, all right, home time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh but also I have friends with since and like,

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<v Speaker 2>once we're done eating, we've talked for three hours about

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<v Speaker 2>the same four topics. We all start like cleaning up

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<v Speaker 2>after ourselves and everything. And then after we've cleaned up

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<v Speaker 2>and someone needs to say it's time to go, somebody

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<v Speaker 2>will say it. Somebody will say all right, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>home now, All right, home time, and then it's good

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<v Speaker 2>to go. One on one though, I find really really difficult,

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<v Speaker 2>and the only thing that I think works quite well.

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<v Speaker 2>Is to get comfier and comfier in the sense that

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<v Speaker 2>like you kind of have to like pull yourself out

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<v Speaker 2>of engaging as much, laughing as much, kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>still talk, but go on your phone, eat something, give

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<v Speaker 2>the impression that you're like tuckering in for the day

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<v Speaker 2>or the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what if then they're like, Okay, time to

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<v Speaker 1>get comfortable with my pants off, with my pants off, Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think? Well, according to these oh I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even print this out. Okay, this bottom thanks Miki.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one suggest moving the parties to another location.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna lose half the party when you do that,

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<v Speaker 2>but they're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't care anyway. Yeah, pretend that they're the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that are ready to leave. This is probably my favorite technique.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're like, oh god, don't you have to I've

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<v Speaker 1>left you he sorry, guys, I've held your hostage for hours.

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<v Speaker 1>You must be exhausted and ready to go home.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think that could work. That's great because

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<v Speaker 2>we are going to do a challenge them. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>I could Okay. Number three, it's a bit of me

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<v Speaker 1>mention the time in a surprise manner. Look at your watch,

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<v Speaker 1>go wow, oh my goodness's nice to midnight. Holy hell. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>inform your friends that you've got a busy schedule. I mean, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's quite patronizing. Absolutely. The last one is yawn repeatedly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of like a low blow. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>get there, you get there. Who does the job? Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how to get someone ide your house. Next time

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the situation, perhaps use it as a technique

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<v Speaker 1>to actually say what you want. It's very good to

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<v Speaker 1>learn how to I don't want to use a B

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<v Speaker 1>word boundaries, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I say? The best way to get someone out

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<v Speaker 2>of your house is to provide context when they get

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<v Speaker 2>to your house. So they're coming over, Oh my good,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do good for like two to five. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to head so and so afterwards, or I need to

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<v Speaker 2>do something afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, give it a time limit. Yeah. You've been listening

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