Speaker 1: Now, Mitch, you're usually the one on this show who
Speaker 1: brings the TikTok trends because you're on TikTok.
Speaker 2: I'm Jens, I'm young, I'm you for.
Speaker 1: You, You're on the cusp. Okay, I'm spoken about that.
Speaker 1: I'm not on TikTok. But I do enjoy a little
Speaker 1: bit of a like a lurk, Like I like sitting.
Speaker 1: I like being on there and seeing what people are doing,
Speaker 1: but I don't post.
Speaker 3: Actually, Laura is one of those people that goes, did
Speaker 3: you see this trend? It's called the Harlem shape? Because
Speaker 3: she's on reels on Instagram and she gets it three
Speaker 3: years later.
Speaker 4: That's me.
Speaker 5: I don't even look on TikTok.
Speaker 2: Laura's like, do you want to do the ice bucket
Speaker 2: challenge this morning? Guys?
Speaker 5: Is anyone playing King still? Because I'm all about it?
Speaker 1: Okay, No, maybe this isn't a new thing, but it's
Speaker 1: something that I came across on the weekend, and I
Speaker 1: was really shocked by how prolific it is, because like,
Speaker 1: as I was flicking, it was like I was seeing
Speaker 1: more and more people who are doing this certain type
Speaker 1: of trend. Now, I'm not entirely sure if it's a trend,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to get your take on this. So recently,
Speaker 1: you guys might have seen there was a TikTok creator.
Speaker 1: Her name was Reesa Tisa and she did the MEI
Speaker 1: real name, Reesa Tisa, I think it's her TikTok name.
Speaker 1: She did a mini series and it was called who
Speaker 1: the F Did I Marry?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 2: The whole world was across this, britt you show minutes.
Speaker 2: This was massive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this time I had thirty seven million views across
Speaker 1: several videos.
Speaker 5: I think like thirty eight Now, I'm sure it's going up.
Speaker 2: Anyways, Sten here it's going up by million. That's a listen.
Speaker 5: I have a listened to this.
Speaker 4: Here is part one of Who the SI Did? I'm married?
Speaker 4: So I met my ex husband around March fourth of
Speaker 4: twenty twenty. We met on Facebook dating site and we
Speaker 4: also matched on Hinge. By the way, you will notice
Speaker 4: in this story I called it the United Nations of
Speaker 4: Red Flags. It is so many red flags that I mean,
Speaker 4: you would have thought I was color blind because I ignored
Speaker 4: all of them.
Speaker 2: I gots it now hit fifty million by since we
Speaker 2: played that audio clip.
Speaker 1: Just give you a live updates.
Speaker 5: That's how I roll here.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So the reason why Tisa Risa went so viral.
Speaker 3: Story sorry an hour ago, wassa ta Now it's tasta.
Speaker 1: Esa though Tisasa's the reason why it went viral is
Speaker 1: because she was outing her cheating husband. Now this is
Speaker 1: set a precedent across TikTok where it seems like more
Speaker 1: people are using the platform to talk about and to
Speaker 1: share like quite controversial stories about how their partners have
Speaker 1: cheated on them. They're gaining huge engagement for it, and
Speaker 1: they're creating little mini series. Now, my question to you
Speaker 1: guys is, and we've all, unfortunately all three of us
Speaker 1: have been in situations in past relationships where we've been
Speaker 1: cheated on. Do you think it is okay to use
Speaker 1: your social media platform to out your cheating partner.
Speaker 5: It's a tough one.
Speaker 6: I mean I never ever have, and I obviously have,
Speaker 6: I guess one of the biggest platforms not to sound
Speaker 6: that like say that in a big headed way, but
Speaker 6: like we have our podcast Laura, which has a lot
Speaker 6: of listeners millions and millions line, so we have a
Speaker 6: national radio show.
Speaker 5: Like I could annihilate.
Speaker 6: Someone and I had someone that had like a double
Speaker 6: life cheated on me for years and I never ever
Speaker 6: outed that person, and I did start the podcast based
Speaker 6: off that.
Speaker 5: Actually, my podcast success is based off the fact.
Speaker 6: That he cheated on me, but I never outed in
Speaker 6: my name, occupation, any other details. And I think that's
Speaker 6: for me, don't I don't see the point. I think
Speaker 6: some things are better left for you to deal with
Speaker 6: and move on, like somethings a private but also like
Speaker 6: from that's the kind of person that I am right like,
Speaker 6: even though they've done the wrong thing by me, I
Speaker 6: don't get off on bringing someone else down and doing
Speaker 6: this huge pylon because what's gonna happen.
Speaker 5: People are gonna go and hate on that person. Like,
Speaker 5: what's the point for me.
Speaker 6: I find it better and more healing to forget about it,
Speaker 6: move on myself and not drag it on for myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think though you've got to look long term,
Speaker 3: because my issue with it is imagine you post these
Speaker 3: tiktoks right that you're watching Laura and then getting millions
Speaker 3: of views, and then a year passes, you enter a
Speaker 3: new relationship, you're dating someone.
Speaker 2: That you really like, and then they.
Speaker 3: Go, oh, I'm gonna do a little little search on
Speaker 3: this person that I'm dating, and then all of a sudden, Yeah,
Speaker 3: they stalk you. They scroll back and they see you
Speaker 3: out in a cheating X talking bad about an X.
Speaker 3: To me, if that was me and I was with someone,
Speaker 3: you major red.
Speaker 5: FD because then you're like, oh, are they going to
Speaker 5: do that to me when I cheat on them?
Speaker 2: No, that's that's not what I mean. Vindictive. Yeah, it doesn't.
Speaker 2: It doesn't yuck.
Speaker 1: But also I agree with you Brick completely, like I
Speaker 1: don't want to be that person. But also there's a
Speaker 1: part of me that kind of goes well for so
Speaker 1: long if people have been cheated on and there's no retribution,
Speaker 1: like you don't, No one wins in that situation. You
Speaker 1: get cheated on, you have to move forward and you
Speaker 1: have to just get over it. And I feel like
Speaker 1: some of these TikTok creators they're kind of getting their
Speaker 1: own revenge in doing this, and also by getting their revenge,
Speaker 1: they also getting huge platforms off the back of it.
Speaker 1: So it's kind of I think it's an interesting tactic
Speaker 1: and it is kind of changing the way we talk
Speaker 1: about cheating a little bit.
Speaker 6: But in terms of like, quote, get away with it,
Speaker 6: what I did was make sure that everyone that mattered
Speaker 6: in our lives.
Speaker 5: Knew, like they knew the reason.
Speaker 6: His people knew the reason, his like work colleagues, and
Speaker 6: his family and everyone knew what he did.
Speaker 5: And everyone in my family knew.
Speaker 6: But I don't need one hundred thousand strangers to know
Speaker 6: that does that does nothing for me.
Speaker 2: You know what I did?
Speaker 3: I when I found out that I was being cheated on,
Speaker 3: I went through and found all their instagrams. There's a
Speaker 3: bunch of them, and I sent them all an individual
Speaker 3: voice note, Oh.
Speaker 1: My god, match and then block them, every single one
Speaker 1: radio presenter.
Speaker 3: I wanted them to know the voice because they might
Speaker 3: not know don't have the followings of Brittany Hockley, so
Speaker 3: might I know their voice from the pick up?
Speaker 2: So I genuinely sent them more voice notes and then
Speaker 2: block them all.
Speaker 6: You made the same thing, right, You're letting them know
Speaker 6: that you know, and then you're cutting them.
Speaker 2: From your lives. And that's just that makes me feel good?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I don't. I find it in a really
Speaker 5: interesting space. And I do think.
Speaker 1: You know, we live in a world now where people
Speaker 1: share everything online, and we share so much of our
Speaker 1: personal lives, and this is just a whole new added
Speaker 1: layer that people are exposing on their tiktoks, and it
Speaker 1: does beg the question when do we keep anything for ourselves.
Speaker 3: It's for followers, We don't yeh refa tifa if you
Speaker 3: want to follow them on so me for beef.