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Speaker 1: Drilling podcasting now boards you and I are having conversations

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Speaker 1: with important, influential, famous people who are coming forward and

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Speaker 1: talking about where they're at with their mental health. It is,

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Speaker 1: of course November, and it's wonderful that these sorts of

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Speaker 1: people can be open about transparent about what they're going through,

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Speaker 1: so that you guys listening can understand that this is

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Speaker 1: something that one in five people go through. That six

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Speaker 1: people a day commit suicide in Australia. That is the

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Speaker 1: number one killer of people between the age of fifteen

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Speaker 1: and to come on and talk more about this to

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Speaker 1: help shine a light on what is so often a

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Speaker 1: problem that is thrown away and tucked away in the dark.

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Speaker 1: We have the one and only Grand Danya for motork

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Speaker 2: Hello Grants, did I lovers?

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Speaker 3: How are we?

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Speaker 2: They're good?

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Speaker 1: Mate. It's always good to have you on the show,

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Speaker 1: and I really stress that because you are always such

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Speaker 1: a positive energy. Woods and I have been on your

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Speaker 1: TV show as well and you are just just humming

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Speaker 1: all the time. So it's I think phenomenal that you

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Speaker 1: in particular can talk about this sort of stuff, and

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Speaker 1: people can see that even the most buoyant people can

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Speaker 1: have a whole bunch of dark stuff which they are

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Speaker 1: that's the big trap about all of this, is that

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Speaker 1: people are amazingly good at hiding their suffering which goes

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Speaker 1: on behind closed doors. Yours is really really interesting, and

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Speaker 1: not a lot of people would know that you broke

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Speaker 1: your back in two thousand and eight driving a monster truck.

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Speaker 1: You are obviously someone who's always enjoyed living life to

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Speaker 1: the full, radio show, TV show, race car driver, like

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Speaker 1: all these things, and then all of a sudden you

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Speaker 1: prescription drugs, which put you in a pretty nasty spot.

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Speaker 1: Can you talk a little bit about that for us?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Still, man, it's you know, I was ha had a

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Speaker 3: pretty ultimate life, you know, succeeding in career and winning

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Speaker 3: which just just flawed me. You know, I'd never had

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Speaker 3: still for four months, you know, in a makeshift hospital bed,

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Speaker 3: broken back recovery, unable to walk, long, slow, painful. The

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Speaker 3: medication was horrific, the side effects on what it does

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Speaker 3: to your behavior and your state of mind, you know.

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Speaker 4: And the things that I said to my wife, you

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Speaker 4: know at the time, I'm still absolutely so embarrassed about,

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Speaker 4: because you know, I was not in a state of

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Speaker 4: it was, it was, it was harrowing because I went

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Speaker 5: Sorry, Greg, if you don't mind me asking, you say,

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Speaker 5: you're embarrassed about a few things that you said to

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Speaker 5: Chezi there when you weren't in a good place or

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Speaker 5: getting the side effects from the painkillers there, Like, can

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Speaker 5: you sort of can you give an example as to

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Speaker 5: the sort of thing you were saying?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, man. It's weird because you go to hospital

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Speaker 3: an indication is what it's going to do to your

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Speaker 3: psyche and your mental health. So we discovered the hard way,

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Speaker 3: and you know we're at home taking high level pain

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Speaker 3: moment you close your eyes, you go into your worst fears,

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Speaker 3: your worst nightmares whenever your fall asleep, so are instantly there,

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Speaker 3: would go how dare I? What I said, I know

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Speaker 2: You went to London and back today without me, And

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Speaker 2: I believe she went to London and those without me.

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Speaker 3: Not only that one day I thought she was there

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Speaker 2: It was horrific, bloody hell.

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Speaker 1: I mean the every day there is a part of

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Speaker 1: me that finds it kind of humorous that you were

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Speaker 1: trying to fight off home invaders with a broken back.

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Speaker 1: I mean, biting their ankles on the way out.

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Speaker 3: I'll get you.

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Speaker 2: Now oil and woodies more grant.

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Speaker 1: You're just running us through this addiction to prescriptive drugs,

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Speaker 1: prescription drugs that you developed after you broke your back,

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Speaker 1: and what sounds like a shocking time. Your wife, Chezi.

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Speaker 1: You got a podcast called It's All True Where where

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Speaker 1: Apparently she talks about discovering you so hopeless that you

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Speaker 1: were sleeping just surrounded by your own feces, like that's

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Speaker 3: It was even worse, It was someone else's. In the

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Speaker 3: some scotch in my unders. I left the house. She

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Speaker 3: It was worst case scenario for her. She couldn't find me,

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Speaker 5: I thought you were joking. You're serious. You were found

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Speaker 3: That is that is correct? I sort of just I've

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Speaker 5: So grant what stays? So two thousand and night you

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Speaker 5: break you back with the monster truck stuff? Where are

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Speaker 3: So now I'm sort of going through the four months

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Speaker 3: it heal naturally, it will be a better chance of recovery.

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Speaker 3: But it is so long and drawn out and protracted,

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Speaker 3: it really messes with your mind because you just can't

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Speaker 3: And the problem is with the medication is you know,

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Speaker 1: So Mate, on top of this as well, on your podcast,

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Speaker 1: I know you've been talking with Cheesey about the fact

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Speaker 1: All this is going on in the background, and I

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Speaker 1: all of this, Like, surely there must have been points

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Speaker 3: Well, it's tricky. You has to start to realize and

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Speaker 3: on television and go, oh, he's always happy, he's always smiling,

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Speaker 4: It, I get jealous.

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Speaker 3: What don't I have? Why isn't my life at this

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Speaker 3: And I look at Instagram now and I go, it's

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Speaker 3: You go, yes, Darling, you can. But that is a sometime.

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Speaker 3: You can't have it all the time. And I think

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Speaker 3: Instagram does so much damage to all of our psyche.

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Speaker 3: And that is something that I'm only realizing to the

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Speaker 3: extent of now even people would consider me to probably,

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Speaker 3: you know, have it all. We'll be having a good life.

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Speaker 5: Really well said mate, Actually speaking of your kids that

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Speaker 5: you give the sometimes Sultan Vinegar chips to. I know

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Speaker 5: we've talked about a lot of dark times in your life.

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Speaker 5: There's also a lot of joy and happiness there. Grants,

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Speaker 5: you've got little Sailor and little Scout there at home

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Speaker 5: Scout to make an announcement as to what's coming in March.

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Speaker 3: So we have some news. Oh mom is agnant.

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Speaker 5: Hey, little dunkers, they don't normally wrong.

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Speaker 2: Congrats mate, Thank you man.

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Speaker 3: It's it's cool. I think after breaking my back, you know,

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Speaker 3: eight years ago, it's nice to know that the thing

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Speaker 3: still works. Am I right?

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Speaker 5: It wasn't a monster truck. It was a monster.

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Speaker 3: It's really good, mate, We're so pumped. It's the household's buzzing,

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Speaker 3: and I really look forward to be able to go

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Speaker 3: the fire escape next to Verrian.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a phenomenal story of resilience, man, And I

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Speaker 1: think it's it's something that a lot of people can

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Speaker 1: take a lot from. Is trying to shift your focus

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Speaker 1: from comparison, comparisons and goal setting to sort of just

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Speaker 1: dropping back a little bit and focusing on what you

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Speaker 1: hard lesson to learn. I'm still not very good at it,

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Speaker 1: and I try and practice it every day, so I'm

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Speaker 1: sure it's still a process for you. But jeez, it's

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Speaker 1: amazing to think that just that philosophy was what got

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Speaker 1: you through the hardest time of your life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Find what restores you, you know, find what rejuvenates you.

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Speaker 3: Often it is something so simple, sitting outside and just

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Speaker 3: just doing an exercise of twenty deep breaths. You know

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Speaker 3: what that does to slow down the monkey mind, the

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Speaker 3: crazy brain that just won't shut up, that keeps making

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Speaker 3: maybe it's just a couple of minutes, and it's amazing

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Speaker 3: how much control and calm that you get back in

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Speaker 3: your life. Just find a couple of simple meditation techniques

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Speaker 3: and it'll it'll change your life. It's not easy too,

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Speaker 3: not easy to start, but it's great once it's in

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Speaker 1: It's greatf Gret. Honestly, I can so much. So many

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Speaker 1: people have got so much out of this man, So

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. We'll see soon.

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Speaker 1: Men my pressure, Love you guys, love you too.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations on the ratings you bloody legends.

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Speaker 1: Thanks thanks mate, that's appreciated it. We'll see you, so

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Speaker 1: take care right see what you're hearing.

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