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Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast nimis.

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Speaker 2: Last year we released a mental health app called share

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Speaker 2: my Mood. This year the continuation of that in our

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Speaker 2: quest to continue to get you, guys to connect better

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Speaker 2: with the people in your lives. I'm talking about you

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Speaker 2: driving home right now. This isn't just about us. This

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Speaker 2: is about you guys too. We want this to be

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Speaker 2: something you can experience from Share my Mood. We're doing

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Speaker 2: share my Food, Share your food with your share your mood,

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Speaker 2: get it.

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Speaker 1: Off your latta, share your food, eat the data, share

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Speaker 1: your food.

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Speaker 2: Leada still regret the length of that. I think a

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Speaker 2: lot of people do.

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Speaker 3: Perfect.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it, shall we. Tomorrow night it's the

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Speaker 2: Share my Food Evening. And again it's just a really

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Speaker 2: simple setup.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: You're going to have dinner tomorrow night anyway, right, You

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Speaker 2: have it with your partner.

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Speaker 3: Exactly except one invite some more friends over and make

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Speaker 3: a real time of it. You'd be a bit hung

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Speaker 3: for Friday if you are going to drink. But I

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Speaker 3: also want to say that I'm somebody who would be

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Speaker 3: usually pretty reluctant for this. And when we actually had

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Speaker 3: our dinner with Life Uncut Girls, Britt Hockley, Laura Burn

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Speaker 3: I was feeling that anxiety around it. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to.

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Speaker 4: Do this, feelings, I just don't overthink it for the

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Speaker 4: people that are listening that are like me and just

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Speaker 4: get a little bit hesitant around you know, exposing the

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Speaker 4: truth and exposing vulnerabilities. Don't overthink it, just do it

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Speaker 4: because I can tell you one hundred percent guaranteed. After

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Speaker 4: you know I opened up with you and with Britt

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Speaker 4: and with Laura, you just feel so much lighter and better.

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Speaker 4: And it's just so nice to have the support of

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Speaker 4: people around you with whatever you're going through.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know I was just making a joke

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Speaker 2: about the opener that you made, which was get it

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Speaker 2: off your platar, get silly later, is what you were

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Speaker 2: went for. That's really what happens. Yes, we got really

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Speaker 2: vulnerable with each other through these three really simple activities.

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Speaker 2: We got really vulnerable with each other, and then all

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Speaker 2: of a sudden we didn't know them from a bar,

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Speaker 2: so we're mates. The transition was rapid. And as I

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Speaker 2: said before, you spend your whole life rubbing shoulders with

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Speaker 2: people and you don't actually know them, even people that

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Speaker 2: you would call friends, you don't really know them, You've

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Speaker 2: got banter with them, You've got the same tired jokes

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Speaker 2: with them. Why not move that from an acquaintance to

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Speaker 2: a friendship? Do share my third tomorrow night. The three

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Speaker 2: steps or the three activities are up online Will and

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Speaker 2: Woody on Instagram, so you guys can start planning your

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Speaker 2: dinner tomorrow night. You can do it tonight if you

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Speaker 2: want to know, bo Ryan's doing it tonight. Carla from

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Speaker 2: Bankstown's doing it with Sammy Jade and Teria Pitt. And

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Speaker 2: if those people Cara, she's going to be involved. But Woods,

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Speaker 2: we weren't going to ask you guys to do this

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Speaker 2: unless we did it ourselves. And as you said before,

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Speaker 2: we did it with a lifelund cut girls. Britt Hockley

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Speaker 2: and Laura Burn. We did this yesterday and here's Britt

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Speaker 2: doing one of the activities. And again just tip of

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Speaker 2: the cap to Britt and to Laura for the vulnerability

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Speaker 2: they showed, the devotion they showed to the exercise. And

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Speaker 2: this is just a snippet of how hoping this stuff

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Speaker 2: can be, how powerful it can be. And I really

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Speaker 2: want to play it for you guys to show you

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Speaker 2: how worthwhile and activity is his brit talking yesterday at

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Speaker 2: our Share my Food dinner. So first question, what were you.

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Speaker 1: Struggling with this week? So that was really hard for

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Speaker 1: me to think of what I was struggling most with.

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Speaker 1: But if I had to pinpoint what I have been

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Speaker 1: having the most trouble with, probably not this week, but

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Speaker 1: this year, maybe even for many years, and that is

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Speaker 1: that I never I feel very I can already feel

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Speaker 1: myself getting upset, but this is a vulnerable place. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel very unlovable and very oh wow, like something

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Speaker 1: must be wrong with me, like I'm the common denominator

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Speaker 1: because I've had like ten years of just like horrific

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Speaker 1: things happening to me, some public, some very private. But

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I can I'm a bit like,

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Speaker 1: when's my turn? What's wrong with me? Why can't? Why

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Speaker 1: is everyone else getting a happy ending? And I feel

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Speaker 1: like no one wants to know me? That's what I

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Speaker 1: feel like, ye.

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Speaker 2: Mate, Yeah, thanks for like, honestly, that's a big thing

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Speaker 2: to say to us, like we again don't know each

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Speaker 2: other that well. I really privilege that you're actually sharing.

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Speaker 2: That's Oh.

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Speaker 1: I just thought if I'm going to share something I

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Speaker 1: may as well Hardcorn tell you like.

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Speaker 3: To have like the knee jerk reaction and just like, yes,

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Speaker 3: you are, You're amazing, you know that, because that doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Do anything like someone telling you that doesn't do you think?

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Speaker 5: And I feel like I know the answer to this,

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Speaker 5: But do you think that this has been more amplified

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Speaker 5: this year because obviously everything came to a head, which

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Speaker 5: like this has been like kind of like feeling like

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Speaker 5: being put back into the same place, yeah as lost you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had like a you guys probn't know, but

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Speaker 1: I had a what I thought was finally one love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's okay, I'm fine, the florries, lava, everything.

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Speaker 2: That properly.

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Speaker 1: I guess like towards the end of the year, it

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Speaker 1: wasn't like a clean cut.

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Speaker 5: It's quite ongoing.

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Speaker 1: It's it's this idea that okay, this much time has

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Speaker 1: gone past, now you should be okay and everything should

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Speaker 1: be fine, should be back on track. And I think

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Speaker 1: that's one thing I want to tell all of our

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Speaker 1: listeners too, is that there isn't a clean like love

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Speaker 1: and breakups and healing isn't linear, and sometimes it takes

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Speaker 1: longer for other people, and you have to work through

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Speaker 1: other things. And like, even though I wanted to find

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Speaker 1: that and have that relationship, I'm And this is one

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Speaker 1: thing I guess I can say I'm proud of about

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Speaker 1: myself is I still won't just settle or date somebody

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Speaker 1: for the sake of it. Even though I really want those,

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Speaker 1: I'm still willing to wait for the right time, the

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Speaker 1: right person.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful stuff from Brett. If you want to hear the

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Speaker 2: full Share My Food Dinner with us and the women

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Speaker 2: from Life Uncut Britt Hockley and Laura burn Headle on

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Speaker 2: to wherever you get your podcast, just search Williboody. The

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Speaker 2: episode is already up in full reminder share My Food

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Speaker 2: for you guys. It's happening tomorrow night. If you want

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Speaker 2: to get involved, you can have one of these dinners

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Speaker 2: Will and Woody on Instagram. All the details are there,

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Speaker 2: the activities, they're already up there. You can get planning.

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Speaker 4: Easy activities too.

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Speaker 3: They're all so easy.

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Speaker 2: I have a cracker of a night.

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Speaker 3: Hear more of the boys on the full show podcast.

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Speaker 2: You know you want to