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Speaker 2: Your work, our windows down. That's my worldris in the dust.
Speaker 2: Only good fabs are all down. I've done much, but yeah,
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Speaker 2: don't matter where goes. This is the pickup.
Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday afternoon. Everybody, It's the pick up with Britt
Speaker 1: Hockey and.
Speaker 2: Laura Bird everyone except me. Laura, what's happened now? Well,
Speaker 2: this has never happened to me before. I don't shop, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say it.
Speaker 3: I live alone. I get food deliveries. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 3: go to the grocery store. I get food deliveries every week.
Speaker 3: It comes on a Sunday or Monday, and then I'm
Speaker 3: set for the week. I have been doing this for
Speaker 3: years and this has never happened before. But this week
Speaker 3: my food delivery was stolen. There is a thief amongst us.
Speaker 1: Was it stolen from within your apartment complex or was
Speaker 1: it left out the front?
Speaker 3: This is where it gets tricky, so they send you
Speaker 3: photos of where they left it.
Speaker 2: So like here it is, it's been delivered.
Speaker 3: They send a photo, so it's like I have a
Speaker 3: gated apartment building and they left it on top of
Speaker 3: the gated buildings. So it's like semi street but semi apartment.
Speaker 2: But they always leave it there. Yeah they can't. I
Speaker 2: mean it's gator. They can't just like turf your Molly's
Speaker 2: spoon over the fence. So they could have do they
Speaker 2: put it? I don't know. I don't know where it went.
Speaker 2: It's never happened.
Speaker 3: But I feel like it's payback for that one time
Speaker 3: that I accidentally stole somebody else's with not knowing that
Speaker 3: it was someone else's.
Speaker 2: Like it got delivered to.
Speaker 3: My apartment, I thought it was mine. Didn't read the name,
Speaker 3: was taking it for week?
Speaker 1: Did you not open up the bags of I did
Speaker 1: delivery and think this is not what I ordered.
Speaker 2: Yes, Instead of looking at the name, I just thought
Speaker 2: they made a mistake.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, they threw in some extra mules
Speaker 3: because they they were ordering extra mules.
Speaker 2: I have done the exact same thing. This was actually
Speaker 2: not that long ago. There was a delivery.
Speaker 1: It was my neighbor's, well actually two houses up. It
Speaker 1: wasn't even the direct neighbor, but it was put in
Speaker 1: front of our house, and I just thought it had.
Speaker 2: Been I thought someone had send it to me for free.
Speaker 2: I was like, didn't you don't even order it. I
Speaker 2: don't even get hello friends. I was like, I work
Speaker 2: in radio. Maybe it's just a generous gift.
Speaker 1: I took it inside, I opened it up, and I
Speaker 1: made a meal and then it wasn't until the next
Speaker 1: day that I was like, that was not ours. It
Speaker 1: just dawned on me that maybe it was honestly thought
Speaker 1: as a PR.
Speaker 2: Gift one off box of meals as a PR gift.
Speaker 1: I've never admitted it because I was like, my neighbor
Speaker 1: will listen to this and they will know that I'm
Speaker 1: the reason that that went missing.
Speaker 2: What you know them send them a new bree Your
Speaker 2: Marley'spoon was delicious, though I did eat that too, Snapjacks,
Speaker 2: you're the one that stealing. I tell you what, Laura.
Speaker 3: It is a dog eat dog world out there in
Speaker 3: the dating community, isn't it.
Speaker 2: I mean you wouldn't know you've been married for seven years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but prior to that, I dated everyone, so I
Speaker 1: had a good LITMS don't worry.
Speaker 2: I mean, I also just did get married.
Speaker 3: I am off the market, but I have a bunch
Speaker 3: of single friends that are constantly like talking to me
Speaker 3: about what the online dating world is like, and it
Speaker 3: is really hard, and I have bad news.
Speaker 2: It's getting harder.
Speaker 1: Do you think it's getting harder or do you think
Speaker 1: it's just always been like ever since online dating has come,
Speaker 1: because you've just got the opportunity of choice. There's so
Speaker 1: many people, it's kind of like gamified online dating.
Speaker 3: Well, I think it's getting harder because if you think
Speaker 3: about when online dating started, it was just like signed
Speaker 3: up and had at it like men.
Speaker 2: Women went on, you put your age on and.
Speaker 3: Basically that was it. But it's gotten there's so many layers.
Speaker 3: That's gotten so complicated. And now Tinder has released well
Speaker 3: it's a trial. They're trialing a new feature that is
Speaker 3: not good news for our short kings.
Speaker 2: You can basically filter now for height.
Speaker 3: So if you say I only want a tall guy,
Speaker 3: which you know most women say I only want a
Speaker 3: tall guy, it filters them out and then our short
Speaker 3: kings are not even given a chance. It is causing
Speaker 3: a lot of stir online because there are a lot
Speaker 3: of people that are all for this feature, Like I
Speaker 3: guess a lot of women that know that they only
Speaker 3: want a tall.
Speaker 2: Guy, they're all for it.
Speaker 3: But there's a lot of people that are saying is
Speaker 3: actually discrimination, Like you are filtering out on the way
Speaker 3: that I look physically like my physical appearance, and I
Speaker 3: have to say I'm on their side. I don't think
Speaker 3: we should be having a high filter for online dating.
Speaker 1: It's a weird one, isn't it, because it really kind
Speaker 1: of comes into.
Speaker 2: This gray area.
Speaker 1: It's like having a bold filter, or it's like having
Speaker 1: a weight filter, a weight filter. The only thing though,
Speaker 1: is if you are a woman and you are particularly tall,
Speaker 1: like a really really tall girl, or you were a
Speaker 1: guy and you're a particularly short guy, maybe it just
Speaker 1: removes some of the admin because I would dare say
Speaker 1: that normally, I don't know that this is a stereotype.
Speaker 2: I don't want to get myself into trouble.
Speaker 1: But often really tall girls and really short guys don't
Speaker 1: seem to be a perfect match. It seems as though
Speaker 1: like that would probably be the only time that it
Speaker 1: would come in handy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But then maybe I mean not, Maybe you don't
Speaker 3: have to have a filter for that people can put
Speaker 3: their height on their bio themselves.
Speaker 2: Then doing it anyway, So then what's the difference, because
Speaker 2: you're still given the choice.
Speaker 3: Like zac Efron hot megababe, he's tiny, but people would
Speaker 3: be yeah, I'm taller than zach Efron' he's like tall
Speaker 3: man energy he does, he's got b D energy. But
Speaker 3: my point is, like I do think, and in the
Speaker 3: words of producer Grace, you're robbing yourself of love, like
Speaker 3: you're robbing.
Speaker 2: Yourself with the potential.
Speaker 3: I've dated people that are shorter than me. They've been
Speaker 3: fantastic people. Did it work out? No, but it wasn't
Speaker 3: because of their height. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Look, I mean I know we made jokes. I've my
Speaker 1: one of my ex boyfriends was quite a bit shorter
Speaker 1: than me and it never made a difference. But I
Speaker 1: do think that if I had had the height restriction
Speaker 1: on Tinder, firstly, I would never have met him, but
Speaker 1: also I think I probably would have used it, and
Speaker 1: so I would have ruled him out because I don't
Speaker 1: know I am. I guess I'm relatively tall for a girl.
Speaker 1: What am I like one hundred and seventy seven centimeters, Yeah,
Speaker 1: which I would say that in dating. When I was
Speaker 1: online dating, I definitely rocked up to a couple of
Speaker 1: dates where my dates were particularly short and I knew
Speaker 1: we both kind of met each other and were like, Wow.
Speaker 2: Should have talked about it. I wish I wish we'd asked,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: And it's not like it should be a big deal,
Speaker 1: but I think it is for a lot of people.
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of people care about height.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then why can't we just ask have those conversations,
Speaker 3: talk to someone, put it in your bio. I think
Speaker 3: the fact that we can now filter out people based
Speaker 3: on appearance for me is yucky.
Speaker 2: I don't like it.
Speaker 3: And a lot of the short king men or other
Speaker 3: people are now sort of like firing back, saying cool
Speaker 3: if you want to filter from that, how do you
Speaker 3: feel if we put a weight.
Speaker 2: Filter on which which is all a bit silly, isn't it.
Speaker 3: No one's a bit tipped for tab But I understand
Speaker 3: what they're saying from that, Like I understand that they're
Speaker 3: offended that people can filter them out based on their
Speaker 3: physical appearance that they can't change.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I guess the only thing is is like
Speaker 1: if someone's borderline, like if someone is tall borderline to
Speaker 1: your preference, you know, like they might be a little
Speaker 1: bit shorter than.
Speaker 2: What you think you want in a person, but they're
Speaker 2: amazing in every other capacity.
Speaker 1: Like that seems a bit silly to rule someone out
Speaker 1: because you've got a bit of a high preference.
Speaker 2: You know whatever.
Speaker 3: On beggars can't be chooses too, if you're looking for
Speaker 3: for love, don't sing all those men out.
Speaker 2: Zenda didn't.
Speaker 3: And she's engaged to Tom Holland and then a beautiful couple,
Speaker 3: very happy.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for that for it. That's beautiful.
Speaker 1: Now. I mean, I'm sure some of you know if
Speaker 1: you listen to the show, but it might be used
Speaker 1: to anyone who's new. I am currently pregnant with my
Speaker 1: third baby, and let me tell you, third pregnancy is
Speaker 1: a whole different kettle of fish to the first one
Speaker 1: and the second one.
Speaker 2: Just like doesn't even touch the sides really for you,
Speaker 2: doesn't it?
Speaker 1: Well that yeah, the baby's just gonna shoot straight out,
Speaker 1: isn't even gonna have any resistance.
Speaker 2: No, I no, I didn't mean. I didn't mean you're
Speaker 2: loose when you said it. No, I meant like, doesn't
Speaker 2: touch the side, put your legs in steer it to
Speaker 2: shoot it out. I meantag in like it HiT's different,
Speaker 2: Like again, that could be taking the wrong way. It
Speaker 2: is going to touch the sides on the way out.
Speaker 3: I mean it, it's different, like you're less involved in,
Speaker 3: Like you're like it'll come in nine months because.
Speaker 2: You've done it twice and you're busy. Yeah, look, I
Speaker 2: love that. You were like, no, I still will touch you.
Speaker 1: But I was like, one can only hope that it
Speaker 1: does still touch the size as it comes out.
Speaker 2: But anyway, look, it is very different.
Speaker 1: And I say this because I feel like this pregnancy
Speaker 1: has just completely gotten away from me. And sometimes I
Speaker 1: feel pretty good since I've gotten my reflux under control.
Speaker 2: That I often actually just forget that I'm pregnant.
Speaker 1: I forget you're pregnant, Yeah, until I get Britt was
Speaker 1: talking about just how we should do this morning. She
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, we should really do this, Like we
Speaker 1: should do a big party at the end of the year,
Speaker 1: like a show party, and we'll invite all our listeners.
Speaker 2: And we can do it on a boat.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'll have a six week old baby.
Speaker 1: But she sounds good, and I'm like, what completely blanked that?
Speaker 1: I was having a kid. But anyway, look, every so
Speaker 1: often I get a reminder like I'll get a massive
Speaker 1: thump to the uterus because I'll get a big, solid kick,
Speaker 1: and I'm I'm well passed halfway now.
Speaker 2: I think I'm about twenty five weeks and I just the.
Speaker 1: Other day discovered that I've hit a part of pregnancy
Speaker 1: or a new stage that I never got to in
Speaker 1: my first or second and it was incredibly humbling. So
Speaker 1: we were all in the office having a little dance.
Speaker 1: We were filming some content, and part of that was
Speaker 1: that we had to, like, you know, really kind of
Speaker 1: get into this dance that we were doing.
Speaker 2: And I did.
Speaker 1: I was really challenged, my nineteen year old self being
Speaker 1: at the nightclubs. And I dropped it like it's hot,
Speaker 1: and I did a liberated woman.
Speaker 2: Drop, I'll live my best life drop, and I got
Speaker 2: to the bottom of that drop. I got low and
Speaker 2: I got low. I got low, I got low, and
Speaker 2: then I pissed my pants at the bottom bottom jeans.
Speaker 1: It was I didn't and I'm not just talking about
Speaker 1: tiny bit of bladder leakage. I got to the bottom
Speaker 1: of that drop and I fully wet myself well maybe
Speaker 1: it won't coutch. The scientists just got to shoot right,
Speaker 1: and there was something incredibly I don't even want to
Speaker 1: say humblings. I know I've said that, but it was
Speaker 1: just humiliating having to stop and be.
Speaker 2: Like, sorry, everybody, I have to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: And now the problem is is like I don't know
Speaker 1: whether I did damage or whether I've just set things off,
Speaker 1: or this kid is just on my bladder in a
Speaker 1: way that it shouldn't.
Speaker 3: I don't think you did damage in your liberated woman
Speaker 3: drop because it's just it's part and parcel right third pregnancy.
Speaker 2: Potentially, but it had never happened prior.
Speaker 1: And now if I coughed too hard, if I sneeze
Speaker 1: too hard, yeah, it's just it's become part of my
Speaker 1: everyday staple.
Speaker 3: Alone, Laura, there are some pretty high statistics on women
Speaker 3: that having continents. It's I don't want you to be embarrassed.
Speaker 3: We all pretended it didn't happen. We all turned a
Speaker 3: blind eye.
Speaker 2: And I even spilt my water bottle to try and cover,
Speaker 2: and someone mopped up the puddle. So and someone said
Speaker 2: what is this? And I said, sorry, clumsy me Again,
Speaker 2: I spilled it's my lime cordial juice. Apologies.
Speaker 3: You know why I think I forget you're pregnant is
Speaker 3: because on the rare occasions I do remember, I try
Speaker 3: and feel it moving.
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, it's so movie.
Speaker 3: Every time I go and try and touch it, it
Speaker 3: just freezes, like it doesn't want to move for me,
Speaker 3: I think it knows.
Speaker 1: It's because you're very aggressive anytime you come over.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So like just before this, literally just before we started
Speaker 1: the show, I was like, oh.
Speaker 2: The baby's kicking. Heaps come and feel and Brick came
Speaker 2: over and she didn't.
Speaker 1: Stick her hand on my bel She gave me an
Speaker 1: alf a caut You just don't.
Speaker 2: You don't rest your hand, you like really get in there.
Speaker 3: And they had to sort of poke it to make
Speaker 3: it move. Do you know I'm still trying to like.
Speaker 2: Feel it out.
Speaker 1: And then Britt says, oh, don't worry, I have a
Speaker 1: technique to get it to move. She lifts up my
Speaker 1: shirt and gives me a raspberry on my stomach.
Speaker 2: I'm a full grown woman having my third.
Speaker 1: Baby, and I don't think I've had a raspberry in.
Speaker 3: A whole lot.
Speaker 2: Fifteen years, No, fifteen years twenty five years, A long time,
Speaker 2: you're well, long time, you're welcome. It is I enjoyed it.
Speaker 3: It is a trick that you are supposed to do
Speaker 3: like it must be like the vibrations or something like
Speaker 3: when you do a raspberry it makes it tickle or something.
Speaker 2: I don't believe that for a while. Second, I don't believe.
Speaker 1: That giving someone a raspberry makes a baby move in
Speaker 1: their belly.
Speaker 2: Here we go. No, actually, I stand corrected.
Speaker 3: No, blowing raspberries and a pregnant belly is unlikely to
Speaker 3: do anything.
Speaker 2: But there you go.
Speaker 3: Well I just treated you to a little little raspberry
Speaker 3: for your for your Tuesday.
Speaker 2: Well, I stand corrected. I've been raspberry and a lot
Speaker 2: of pregnant women. I hope you enjoyed it as much
Speaker 2: as I did. You live and you learn it. I'm
Speaker 2: mind blown, mind blown.
Speaker 3: Oh god, Laura, I'm laughing thinking about this. So I
Speaker 3: took my new husband Ben to New Zealand on the weekend.
Speaker 2: Very lucky, New Zealand is so close.
Speaker 3: Two and a half hours bang there we went to
Speaker 3: Queenstown and now Ben was quite excited about this because
Speaker 3: he was made aware that there aren't any like dangerous
Speaker 3: animals there because he's his Swiss.
Speaker 2: He's very scared of animals. Here snakes. She totally.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, I've never met anyone who
Speaker 1: is as afraid of spiders.
Speaker 2: As Ben is. Like he sends brit inside to check
Speaker 2: their house first before he goes there.
Speaker 3: Every night, I have to screen the house. He has
Speaker 3: to watch me look in the wardrobes, under the pillows.
Speaker 2: Of the bed. It's it's it's cute whatever.
Speaker 3: So we go to New Zealand and this this that
Speaker 3: finds really interesting. So Ben is a professional footballer like soccer,
Speaker 3: and in their contracts they have something that I call
Speaker 3: the fun clause. It is a clause that basically I say,
Speaker 3: doesn't allow fun. You can't do anything that could remotely
Speaker 3: end in an injury or danger or I'm talking things
Speaker 3: like mountain bike riding, skiing, snowboarding.
Speaker 2: We can't go bungee jumping like anything. When you say
Speaker 2: mountain bike riding.
Speaker 1: Though, we were talking about it just before you guys
Speaker 1: went away, and I was like, oh, you should get
Speaker 1: like the e bikes and go around the lake in Wanaka.
Speaker 1: You go like five daughters and now like I did
Speaker 1: it with the kids, and he was like, no, I
Speaker 1: can't do that. It's too dangerous.
Speaker 2: Might hurt myself. Yeah, And I was like, so what
Speaker 2: can you do?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 2: Right? So New Zealand, if you guys know, it's like
Speaker 2: the adventure Capital. There's so much to do there.
Speaker 3: And I thought, okay, I have to come up with
Speaker 3: an itinery for him that is fun but no danger.
Speaker 3: So I surched heigh and low, and I came up
Speaker 3: with what I thought was the perfect idea. We went
Speaker 3: to it's called Deer Park. We went to a park
Speaker 3: that has deers in it. Now I know that doesn't
Speaker 3: sound very fun cue but majestic. I read that you
Speaker 3: could feed them, and I was like, you know what
Speaker 3: has beautiful views. We're going to go and feed the deer.
Speaker 3: We're going to feed some piglets. And there's like farm
Speaker 3: animals around and what you do is you drive around
Speaker 3: and you get out whenever you see the animals because
Speaker 3: it's just a free range park farm, and.
Speaker 2: Then you just feed them. So we're feeding some little piglets,
Speaker 2: super cute.
Speaker 3: Then we continued up and there's the most beautiful deer right.
Speaker 3: So we're feeding the deer and they'll eat out of
Speaker 3: your hand. It's actually truly incredible. We were having a
Speaker 3: lot of fun, like I was nailing it. Then we
Speaker 3: go further up the hel and there was a sign
Speaker 3: that said like if you see horned goats, don't.
Speaker 2: Get out of your car.
Speaker 3: It actually said don't even stop your car right horned goats.
Speaker 2: Run over them. So I was like, that's interesting.
Speaker 3: Anyway, we see a pack of goats and I look
Speaker 3: and there's no horns, so I was like cute.
Speaker 2: So we get out of the car and I was like, Kurie,
Speaker 2: let's feed them. Anyway, these goats were savage.
Speaker 3: Out of nowhere, I had video go on to my
Speaker 3: Instagram to have a look out of nowhere, about fifty
Speaker 3: goats started to attack us. Basically like I was running
Speaker 3: for my life. I had to abort my phone because
Speaker 3: I thought I was gonna die by these goats. They're
Speaker 3: so savage. I think they're really dumb.
Speaker 2: Then they chased us down. They did.
Speaker 3: They chase us down the hill anyway. You can hear
Speaker 3: bending in the background on my footage being like run.
Speaker 2: Baby, run anyways, I'm running. We make it back in
Speaker 2: the car and they jump on the car. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 3: It was similar to being in a game park in
Speaker 3: South Africa and the lions are trying to get in.
Speaker 2: Like that's what I thought. I don't know if they're dumb.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that they go to dumb.
Speaker 1: We've been to like we've been to a national park before.
Speaker 1: It's called Simbia National Park. Took the kids and there's
Speaker 1: a goat enclosure and Lola was only about three years
Speaker 1: old and she got pounced by like three goats at once,
Speaker 1: and the poor thing was under the goats to pull
Speaker 1: the baby out, We're like, oh god, But they just
Speaker 1: get very enthusiastic about food. They're very food motivated animals.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's why you can't go around the horned goats. Anyways,
Speaker 3: I got horned.
Speaker 2: Basically, oh wait, so the goats.
Speaker 1: Wait, you got out of the car, but you didn't
Speaker 1: establish that they had horns.
Speaker 2: You said there was no horns on.
Speaker 3: The fifty horned goats were hiding. It's like they planned
Speaker 3: the attack. It was like a chemic card.
Speaker 2: It was a militia attack of the horn go way
Speaker 2: we get the car with we actually could stop laughing.
Speaker 3: Ben's like, I thought this was supposed to be not
Speaker 3: dangerous thing, Like he's like I imagine if I went
Speaker 3: back to my football Colum said, sorry, like I can't
Speaker 3: play football and attacked by a goat.
Speaker 2: I got impaled by a goat. Are they in New Zealand?
Speaker 2: Are they dumb? Grace? They're actually very intelligent, thank you.
Speaker 2: See they know how to get the food. I guess
Speaker 2: they were hiding and pounced on me. Is this anything else?
Speaker 2: Is idea? It was that a full sentence.
Speaker 3: Some research suggests that goats are as intelligent as dogs.
Speaker 1: No way, I believe it. I believe it. Smart little things.
Speaker 1: They're also very cute when they're babies. Sometimes I find
Speaker 1: myself down a TikTok rabbit hole just watching not.
Speaker 3: Raby goats, baby goats, and you know what, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: put a video on.
Speaker 2: I've got they do these little jumps, the baby ones.
Speaker 2: They're really cute. I've got a video, so that made
Speaker 2: up for it.
Speaker 3: Anyway, if you go to New Zealand, believe it or not,
Speaker 3: I do recommend it.
Speaker 2: It was really fun. Just don't get out around the
Speaker 2: horned goats.
Speaker 1: That's the PSA from Brittany on anyway, guys, that's it
Speaker 1: from us