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Speaker 1: Get a.

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Speaker 2: I'm Lalla Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, and professional oversharer.

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Speaker 2: This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe

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Speaker 2: it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face

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Speaker 2: our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview a different guest

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Speaker 2: about their highs as well as they're lows, all in

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Speaker 2: a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail.

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Speaker 1: Hey, fiance, Hello fiance, how are you? I'm good? How

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Speaker 1: are you good? This is a special air, isn't it? Oh? Yes?

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Speaker 1: What are we going to call it? The engagement episode? Welcome? Wellcome.

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Speaker 2: First of all, it's okay for the listener. We got

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Speaker 2: engaged three days ago.

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Speaker 1: Yep? Is that about right? Yeah? How do you feel? Boo?

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Speaker 1: I feel happy, excited.

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Speaker 3: And also all the same time like no, like big difference,

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Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Like, I still feel

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Speaker 3: like everything the same, but I feel like happy and

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Speaker 3: I'm glad we're engaged.

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, yes, how good? How do you feel?

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Speaker 2: I feel obviously like over the moon, joyous, happy on

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Speaker 2: all that, but I also feel this sense of calm

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Speaker 2: as well, Like there's an ease and a calm and

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Speaker 2: like like I get little heart flutters, but I it

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Speaker 2: feels very just, you know, without sounding hippie, and we

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Speaker 2: were meant to be calm, like there's a real yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel that too, the calmness surroundedness to it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which is nice, so nice.

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Speaker 2: I think we need to share a little bit about

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Speaker 2: like the engagement. You know, obviously you did it, you proposed,

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Speaker 2: not obviously.

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Speaker 1: Actually, girls can totally propose, do they Would you have

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Speaker 1: proposed to me happily? You told me you didn't want

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Speaker 1: me to do you remember, Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Would you have already done it like before? I don't know,

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Speaker 3: say if you proposed, though, who would buy the engagement ring?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I would be proposing with a man's

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Speaker 2: engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: So I get an engagement ring and you get nothing.

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Speaker 2: Now that I think about it, I don't know how

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Speaker 2: i'd feel about that. That said, I just thought, let's

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Speaker 2: so we weren't into anyone doing this pod and then

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Speaker 2: we just popped a little picky on Insta and people like,

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Speaker 2: when's the pod coming?

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Speaker 1: When's coming?

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Speaker 2: So let's share a bit behind the scenes of this engagement. So,

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Speaker 2: first of all, you did it on our favorite breach

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Speaker 2: in the world.

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Speaker 1: That's correct. Can I ask why, like, what was the

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Speaker 1: reasoning behind that to.

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Speaker 3: Doing it on our favorite beach Because the very first

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Speaker 3: time we ever went there together in twenty.

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Speaker 1: A seen, like seven or eight years again.

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Speaker 3: Whatever it was before we moved here, this was you

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Speaker 3: were always like, oh, this would be a great place

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Speaker 3: to get engaged. Yeah, a great place for a proposal.

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Speaker 3: And every time we've been there in the last seven years,

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Speaker 3: you've said the same thing. So, I mean, there was

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Speaker 3: really no other option to do it anywhere else, but there.

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Speaker 2: No I know, it was yeah, true, true, but like

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Speaker 2: and we'll talk about the ring in a bit, but

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Speaker 2: like there was a delay on the ring and you

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Speaker 2: didn't know if it would arrive by the time we

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Speaker 2: were leaving to go to Australia. And so then in

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Speaker 2: my head when the delay on that because you were

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Speaker 2: really honest with me about the ring delay, so I

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Speaker 2: did know a little bit.

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Speaker 1: We'll share what I knew and what I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: I then my brain was like, oh, I guess we'll

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Speaker 2: do it in Joshua Tree. That's where I thought.

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Speaker 1: If that was the case, and if it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So you decided you're on the beach essentially

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Speaker 2: because I dropped.

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Speaker 1: A million hints. Yes, that is correct. Okay, but if

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Speaker 1: I didn't, where would have you done it? Specifically?

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Speaker 2: Like what have you like in the time we've hung out,

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Speaker 2: have you been like, yeah, this would be a good spot.

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Speaker 1: So my backup plan was to do it at Gaya. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, that's a health retreat. We go to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so do like a massage, do lunch, and then

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Speaker 1: Sonoy to do that there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but our mate, we had a friend that co

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I didn't. I did reach out to one

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Speaker 1: of the marketing women. Yeah you said that, but didn't

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Speaker 3: It was all too late because by the time that

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Speaker 3: but no, I think it's I think how it was

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Speaker 1: It was just your me. Yeah, it was so perfect.

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Speaker 3: And to be honest, like so many people were like,

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Speaker 3: are you going to get a photographer, You're going to

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Speaker 3: get this, going to get that, And I'm like, that's

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Speaker 3: not our vibe.

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Speaker 1: No, and there's nothing, there's nothing wrong with it.

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Speaker 2: Like I've seen friends engagement photos and.

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Speaker 1: It looks so cooled when they get photographers.

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Speaker 2: But like you and I, even though like we share

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Speaker 2: a bit online, we're actually white private like when it

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Speaker 1: Me, Well, you've got to have certain things just for yourself.

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Speaker 1: I love that it was just you and me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like even the part of the beach that you picked,

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Speaker 2: there was not a soul around us. Yeah, so it

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Speaker 3: Like, well I knew that I'll be like, oh because

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Speaker 3: if there's like people around, like I couldn't do it

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Speaker 3: in like a restaurant or a busy place, Like that's

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Speaker 1: That's wild to me.

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Speaker 2: But is that just because we're there's an element of

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Speaker 2: us when it comes to like love and intimacy that

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Speaker 2: that's private for us and like we just want it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I suppose, But that's just our vibe, Like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like I have seen sick engagement photo shoots and engagement

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Speaker 2: like you know, like had someone hiding, or even our

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Speaker 2: those all those hot air balloons behind them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I got married in engaged in things Cappadocia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's a like Mozillian hot air balloons behind them,

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Speaker 2: like this beautiful and they obviously had a photographer and

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Speaker 2: looked gorge It looked like something out of Vogue mag Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he was stressing before that. Well, here's

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Speaker 1: my thing. Were you stressing at all? No?

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Speaker 3: I wasn't stressing, but I was. I was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I didn't I didn't know the exact day that it

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Speaker 1: Bone like our happy place.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's talk the proposal because it is a

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Speaker 2: bit blurry.

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Speaker 1: For me, and I think it is for you too,

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Speaker 1: is it is very blary.

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Speaker 2: So basically, we were walking on our fave beach and

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Speaker 2: we kind of like had a little SWI came back,

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Speaker 2: sat down and there were quite a lot of people around,

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Speaker 2: not a lot of people, but then bosses like, let's

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Speaker 2: walk a bit further up, and I was like great,

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Speaker 2: and then we sat down, and it feels like pretty

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Speaker 2: quickly you started talking about love, and then you got

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Speaker 2: on one knee. So I'm sitting on the beach out

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Speaker 2: this stage and he gets on one knee and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, he's doing it, Oh my god is

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Speaker 1: And then I.

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Speaker 2: Don't even remember him saying will you marry me? Like

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Speaker 2: I don't actually think he said. I think you opened

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Speaker 2: the ring box up and then I screamed and I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, it's kissed.

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Speaker 3: I think once I opened the ring box, I think

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Speaker 3: that we were just like laughing so much.

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Speaker 1: We were laughing, kissing, having so much fun.

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Speaker 3: I don't even remember exactly if I did say will

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Speaker 3: you marry me? Or if you think you even said yes.

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Speaker 2: It was like I literally it was such a blur

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Speaker 2: and we just kept kissing and laughing, and and as

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Speaker 1: Like it's just sitting off on the stand.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is she gonna like like sit up a

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Speaker 1: But it was so nice. It was just like us.

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Speaker 2: It was fun, it was light like yeah, it felt

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Speaker 2: that's how it kind of felt to me. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: I did a little. Okay, so festival. How did you

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Speaker 3: Not really, no, I was. I was probably a little

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Speaker 2: Because you bought them, so we'll talk about them ring

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Speaker 2: a bit. But you got it in America, right, so

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Speaker 2: you've had it in your carry on backpack this whole tree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, that's a lot. That's quite a it was.

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Speaker 3: It was a bit nerve racking, you know, going through

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, well there's a ring in there, Like.

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Speaker 1: It would come up too, wouldn't It's mental? I mean yes,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it was a little bit nerve wracking, like

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Speaker 3: traveling and having it, you know, with us, But I

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Speaker 3: mean it worked out for.

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Speaker 2: I was quite anxious because when we got to broken

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Speaker 2: our favorite beach in the world. It's called Broken Head.

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Speaker 2: When we got to broke Han Beach, I was like.

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Speaker 1: He thought it was coming. I was like, he's going

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Speaker 1: and Matt was like trying to come out, Let's go

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like, is the ring in the is

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Speaker 2: he leaving it on the beach while we're in the border,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, my, Like that.

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Speaker 1: Was mental to me.

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Speaker 2: And then every time he'd like lean behind me because

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Speaker 2: we were sitting on our beach towers, I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, oh my god, and I just could

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Speaker 2: not and I was just trying to focus on nature

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Speaker 3: It's fair to say, yeah, look, and this is I

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Speaker 3: think it is very very hard a to like get

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Speaker 3: a surprise over you anyway, get one over you.

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Speaker 2: Like, unless I'm quite a control freak, I'm quite And

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Speaker 2: that's why I want to be really like honest about

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Speaker 2: like what I knew about the ring, what I didn't know,

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Speaker 2: because I don't think it's a bad thing. If you

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Speaker 3: Involved with it, Absolutely not. I actually I think every

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Speaker 3: guy should have his misses uh involved. Okay, if like,

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Speaker 3: knowing what I know now, I would definitely say, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like, Okay, just some fun like romantic questions. Is there

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Speaker 1: That's the start of your day.

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Speaker 2: Do you know before I met you, I had this

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Speaker 3: It's literally like we manifested it. But one hundred that's

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Speaker 1: Is there something I do that makes you feel so much?

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Speaker 2: You are always like one step ahead of me with

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Speaker 2: Like that's just an example of how you are obviously,

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Speaker 2: like I, despite writing cookbooks, not much of a cook.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that you're not a cook though, just

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Speaker 2: Loves making pasta from obviously all that Italiano stuff I

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Speaker 2: bright light, the loud music and the volume of humans,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm Biningal, Like I wore the bins in our

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Speaker 2: But like there's that to me, it's like it's not

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Speaker 1: It's the feeling that we're a team.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, and like I love that like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I love. Yeah, absolutely, you do.

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Speaker 2: Like everything you do, like down to the way we

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Speaker 3: You've gotten you've gotten very good on the team traveling.

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Speaker 2: What are you most excited about building together now that

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Speaker 3: Uh, Look, I'm just like I know our trajectory and

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Speaker 3: I just think that we just got to keep pushing

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, this is a fun one.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, say, don't be rude. No, I was

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, noh? Or do you think you're the beast? No? No,

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Speaker 3: We're look, we're so like, yeah, just running our own race.

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Speaker 3: You and I don't know what it would be.

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Speaker 1: What is a habit of mine that you secretly love?

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Speaker 3: M I definitely do love your organization overall. I thought

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You literally just took like you've taken that upon yourself

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I realized the other day I

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Speaker 2: But the other day we traveled just one domestic for

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes you did.

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Speaker 3: From really I think I learned that as well.

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00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, preparation is definitely the key with that.

444
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 3: So then like we're not going out and eating or

445
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,919
Speaker 3: eating junk food or anything like that. There's always like

446
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: fruit in the house, and there's you know, worst case scenario,

447
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 3: there's some things in the freezer that's ready to go

448
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 3: or some you know, I'll make sauce and soup and broth,

449
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 3: and yeah, I just think all that preparation is key.

450
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: What's one of your favorite mundane things that we do?

451
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: Favorite mundane thing? I've got money, I don't know what's

452
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 1: the mundane thing? Can you go first?

453
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is mundane or not, but

454
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 2: I love that, Like usually once every two weeks we

455
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: got to a movie.

456
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I love that. Yeah, that's nice. I

457
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: love that. That's what we need.

458
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're in LA, we're in Hollywood, like it's

459
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: where Yeah, they do like a nice little like daytime

460
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: just movie. Like do you know what I was sinking?

461
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 2: And I haven't spoken to you about this yet, so

462
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 2: I'm just true. I'm misstesting it on the podcast now.

463
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: So as a little Hollywood celebration for our engagement.

464
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: I loved what you did for my fortieth Martinie is Chateau.

465
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: Oh you want to go to Chateau again? Maybe we

466
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: just do it a sunset martini. Okay, well I have

467
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: to book that pretty soon. Why because it's always pretty

468
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: like full. We don't need to do it as soon

469
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: as we land. We can do it in a month's time.

470
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 3: We'll do it the day we land. No, we will

471
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 3: not No, we will not land two thirds.

472
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: No, I do not want jet leg but like even

473
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 2: if we do it in a month's time or like

474
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 2: after a little win, like I think I thought it

475
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 2: could be really cute to just have like just you

476
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 2: and me, or do you want some friends or we're

477
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 2: doing friends, let me get in remember. Oh yeah, it's

478
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 2: all planned. Okay, let's talk the ring. Let's be really

479
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 2: honest about it. Okay, I am going to be very on.

480
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 2: I had like a saved tab on my insta.

481
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: Of rings, wedding venues.

482
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 2: Wedding dresses for probably from before I met Matt.

483
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I think that is very common. I want to

484
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: be honest.

485
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 3: I think that's got to be very common. I think

486
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: a lot of women have saved rings and wedding things

487
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: and have an idea of what they want, and I

488
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 3: also think that that's great, Like I'm so into that.

489
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: Yes, in me too, I.

490
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: Love it, I think with the ring. So for anyone

491
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 2: that hasn't seen, if you want to see, it's on

492
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: my Insta. But basically it is an emerald cut with

493
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: two are they called boats or baguettes on either.

494
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: Side, long little ones on either side.

495
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 2: The big emerald cut is a six carrot am I

496
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 2: allowed to say that. We've said it and it is

497
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: the deep forest green to the point that if you're

498
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: not looking at closely, it almost looks black, which I love.

499
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: Like I really wanted that.

500
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: So I said to Matt, I was like, where I've

501
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: researched one of the places that had all these rings,

502
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 2: and he was like, well, it's in California. Why don't

503
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 2: we just plan a road trip and go that was

504
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 2: your idea. We did that around our fortieth in September.

505
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 2: So we went tried on all these rings. Just to

506
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 2: give any girls a head heads up that time flies.

507
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 1: You get one hour.

508
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 2: To try on stuff, it feels like fifteen minutes and

509
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 2: you're still confused, like it's insane. Another thing is I

510
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 2: freaked out about the size I ended up going up

511
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 2: half a size, and I'm so happy I did because

512
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 2: I just love that it fits perfect.

513
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 1: But there's a tiny bit of like movement when I

514
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: move my.

515
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 3: Head right in finger size Yeah, yeah, well how are

516
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 3: you supposed to know like a girl's finger size?

517
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, but go up half a size. As my hot tip,

518
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: you want that. I love that nonchalant like movement when

519
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: you talk, So I like that it kind of flicks

520
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: from side to side a tiny bit, but it's very

521
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 2: secure over my knuckle.

522
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: So that's a tip.

523
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: And then so basically Matt knew that I wanted the green,

524
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: the forest green emerald color. Like I was like, that's

525
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: what I.

526
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: Want, and then you pretty much did the rest.

527
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 3: Yes, I'd be real say, well, like you know, we

528
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 3: did go through a lot of things in at the appointments,

529
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 3: Like we went to a few places.

530
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: We tried a few things on. Remember I tried on

531
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: that yellow diamond.

532
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you tried on a sapphire as well, try

533
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 3: would you really like? I really liked yeah, because I

534
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 3: like the bluestone.

535
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it looked great. And my grandma had a beautiful sapphire.

536
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 2: Would you see me were before? But I just was

537
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: so I couldn't get over the color of this green.

538
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: And I knew how long I'd liked it for because

539
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: you were like, are you going to get over a

540
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: colored diamond?

541
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: You kept saying that to me.

542
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 2: Or colored stone. You're like, a, You're going to get

543
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 2: over it? And I was like, no, I'm not going

544
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: to get over it.

545
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Good.

546
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 3: So yeah, the rest the rest like we I kind

547
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 3: of I knew what you wanted. I knew the stone

548
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 3: that you wanted. I knew the cut you wanted. I

549
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,439
Speaker 3: knew the design with the two on the side that

550
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 3: you wanted. We wanted that kind of old Hollywood.

551
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

552
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 3: So then so then the rest was like, yeah, I

553
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 3: did with the jeweler. And then you know, I think

554
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 3: I think it took like ten weeks maybe more in

555
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 3: total to get made.

556
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so that would send like first of all,

557
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: they send you the dime like the actual stone, right.

558
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: No, first, first, once danced like decided on the actual

559
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 3: band and the claws and all that kind of stuff.

560
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: Do you call that the cad? Yeah?

561
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 3: A cad is like just like a mock up drawing. Yeah,

562
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 3: you know, so they were like, is this how how

563
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,479
Speaker 3: you want it? And I was like yes, that's how

564
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 3: I want it. And then that was the first than

565
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 3: they did, and then and then you wait ages and

566
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 3: then they go on like cut and polish the stone

567
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 3: and then they send you that for approval.

568
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: And you did let me see that the green sent

569
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: I think I accidentally showed you that.

570
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: No, that was the video you accidentally sure, yeah, because

571
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: you said you said to me, I'm going to let

572
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 2: you see the stone because that's the most important bit

573
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: to you.

574
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeahing with the stone. I think you tried on a

575
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 3: really light.

576
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: They sent us a light one initially, and I was like,

577
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: absolutely not, that's not the one.

578
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: No, And it was like if we have forest green,

579
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 2: it was like a really like pale, cloudy green.

580
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, and then it was literally just a waiting

581
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 3: game until like all the parts came together. And then

582
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 3: the day it was ready, they called and then I

583
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: was like, well you.

584
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: Have to.

585
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 3: Like they call you, yeah, or did they email or call?

586
00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 3: I don't remember anyway, whatever day was, but I straight

587
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: away was like I need this career like today. And

588
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 3: then they did did you have to pay extra for that?

589
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 3: Because I was like, I also gave them false dates.

590
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, that's yeah. I was like, we're

591
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 3: leaving on the Monday. I needed on the Friday. Friday

592
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 3: wasn't ready. And then on the Monday I was like, well,

593
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 3: we're leaving Wednesday. So then they yeah, it was there

594
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 3: the next day.

595
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: Smart. So we had it probably two days or three

596
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: days or three days before leaving. It's all stressful. I

597
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: was like, fuck, what if I don't get it?

598
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: And then he hid it in his under drawer and

599
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 2: I knew it was there because I could see the

600
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: big box because it's a little box that comes in

601
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 2: a big box.

602
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: But I didn't look. You didn't peekna you sure? Yeah?

603
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: I didn't want to ruin this price, like I screamed

604
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: when you opened the box on the beach.

605
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, no, I didn't want to ruin it.

606
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 2: What else was I going to say? Okay, I want

607
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: to talk quickly about the style. So I was definitely said,

608
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: like kind of like Gatsby old Hollywood, I definitely want

609
00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:02,959
Speaker 2: to large. I want to be really honest because I

610
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: tried on three carrot, four carrot, five carrots, six carrot,

611
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 2: and seven carrots, and Matt was really keen on the

612
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: four carrot of this same exact same kind of almost style.

613
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: You love the four carrot, remember that.

614
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: Was what I was trying photos and then and the

615
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: girl could see my face and I was like, I

616
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 2: would really like to see what the six It's.

617
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: Also hard because they're some like we were also trying

618
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 3: stones on in.

619
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: Like temporary re yeah, and that's really hard to get over.

620
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 3: So it's kind of hard, like we're like half the

621
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: time you're not trying actual rings on, you just like

622
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 3: interchanging different stones and cuts.

623
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: And I know I have a bigger finger, like my

624
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 2: knuckles are big, So I think for the average girl

625
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 2: because a lot of the sample sizes of sixes, and

626
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: I'm seven and a half, so I think I think

627
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: most people would be better than me.

628
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: I was seven and a half. I'm bigger definitely.

629
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah so this but the style, the feel

630
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: of it is technically it's Art Deco, that's what it's

631
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 2: called it. Yeah, yeah, yes, I was researching it. So

632
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: the Art Deco era is nineteen twenties, nineteen thirties, and

633
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: the emerald cut with the Baggett's on the side, symbolizers elegance, timeless, sophistication,

634
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 2: classic substance, grounded authenticity. What's that word there time was sophistication.

635
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: I've said maturity and resilience.

636
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was what I can Wow.

637
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: I was like, that's pretty cool. Also it's green heart CHAKRAEP.

638
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: We love it well, I love it. I can't stop

639
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: looking at it. The other thing, and I think I

640
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 2: said this to you the other day, is like my

641
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: grandma on my dad's side had this a smaller kind

642
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: of like sapphire with two little diamonds on either side,

643
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: and it was fairbit smaller, and it was my finger

644
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 2: was too for it anyway, and this kind of feels

645
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: like a tiny nod to that.

646
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a it's a similar kind of style.

647
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

648
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 3: Like and.

649
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: Shape that was just it wasn't emerald cut hers.

650
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: It was just a rectangle shape, whereas this has got

651
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: like the steps groove down like animal, but try them along.

652
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: Because I was also really open to a pair, do

653
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 2: you remember, Yeah, yeah, that's right. And I like the

654
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: idea of like a huge pair on a really thin band.

655
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: I love the thought of that. And then I just

656
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: started seeing heaps.

657
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 3: Of them, yeah, and I was like, maybe we're just

658
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: like noticing a lot more.

659
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: And I just was like, okay, well then I want

660
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: something a bit diff and I think where we land

661
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: as diff and I like that, Like we're in Hollywood

662
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 2: going after our wildest dreams and it feels old holy

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00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: like I love that too, But yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I love it. It's very cool.

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Speaker 2: Just one more on the meaning of the stone and

666
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: the color and the green and the emerald and heart

667
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Speaker 2: shark grade.

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00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, so.

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00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 2: Heartsharkra anna hata means to have an engagement ring of

670
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: This style is linked to depth, truth, honesty, calm, strength, quiet, confidence,

671
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:20,720
Speaker 2: love that and relationships, strength and bonds. It's linked to Venus,

672
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: the Goddess of love, and Cleopatra. I used to love

673
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 2: wearing green and emeralds because it was linked to power,

674
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 2: beauty and devotion.

675
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: Devotion. It's linked to.

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00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 2: Long term, grounded love, confidence in a non traditional way,

677
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 2: and having having confidence in non traditional choices, which is

678
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 2: our life.

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00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, non traditional.

680
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 2: Life, emotional depth, uniqueness, and timeless beauty.

681
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, a lot of it was it was.

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00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: I was definitely part of the process. Definitely. The actual

683
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 2: ring itself was such a surprise because I hadn't seen it, yea,

684
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 2: And I I would give anyone that tip because it

685
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: is so bad.

686
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 3: To be part of the first half and then just

687
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 3: wait till the Yeah.

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00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: And it was hard for me, Like I remember how

689
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 2: many times, like just put it on my hand when

690
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: I'm asleep.

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00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I think as a guy there is it

692
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 3: is so hard to know what to get and what

693
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 3: they want and what to right. And you know, like

694
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 3: my worst nightmare would be that you hated it.

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00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: He said that. He was like if you don't, and

696
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't stop looking out like I did

697
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 1: say that.

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00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: I was like if if you if you put it

699
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 3: on and don't like the size or something about it,

700
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 3: like I'll happily change it for you.

701
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: No, I love it.

702
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 2: It's like no notes can you share? Because you did

703
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: see it and hold it and touch it. What was

704
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 2: your first feeling when it arrived?

705
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 3: I was a bit heavier than I anticipated. Yeah, so funny.

706
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I yeah, I love it.

707
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: I can't like I'm so protective of it too, Like

708
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 2: at night I put in.

709
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: Dance case. Every day. I love doing that though now

710
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: I can throw out the big box. Are you're not

711
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: going to take it back with you? No? Do you

712
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 1: want it?

713
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 2: Maybe you don't even know where it is.

714
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 1: I've got it. No, I don't know where it is.

715
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 3: So basically like the ring box was put in a

716
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 3: bigger box, and that's that's what I bought me, Like

717
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 3: the bigger box which had the little ring box inside.

718
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: And I did that because I was like, I'm not

719
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: going to lose like a big box that's in my

720
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 3: backpack as opposed to just like a tiny little ring

721
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 3: box in my pocket.

722
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: I am glad that you did do that.

723
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: You were thinking about not doing that, remember right before

724
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: you left, You're like, oh, what do I do?

725
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm glad you did that.

726
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,240
Speaker 3: Actually, if I forgot it and left it in America,

727
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 3: it's not on your nature booboo, I don't know. It's well,

728
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,399
Speaker 3: I'm happy for you, boss.

729
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: You got the ring you wanted.

730
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: You got the boyfriend that you know or fiance that yeah,

731
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 3: somewhat happy with.

732
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: Oh boss, has anything, has any feelings or anything changed

733
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: for you?

734
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 3: Honestly not really Like I don't think, as I said,

735
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 3: I don't see it as like this big like oh,

736
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, we're engaged. We have to like

737
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 3: be different or act different or or feel different. It's

738
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: meant to just be like an extension of what you

739
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 3: already feel. Yeah, you know, I think I think people

740
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 3: put too much pressure on it, and yeah, this weird

741
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 3: kind of pressure you got to change or do something

742
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 3: or whatever it is. Also, we haven't like this will

743
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 3: be a long engagement. Yes, sorry, everyone's going to be

744
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 3: like when are getting married? When he getting married. I'm

745
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 3: telling you right now, it's a long engagement. Like I

746
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 3: also want to just soak it up for a little bit.

747
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,720
Speaker 1: And we have always said long engagement.

748
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then maybe next year we can start talking

749
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 3: about it.

750
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: But twenty twenty six, it's just the fun of being filing. Yeah,

751
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,240
Speaker 1: let's just enjoy for now. Yeah.

752
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 3: But yeah that Yeah, everyone's gonna be like when you're

753
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 3: getting married, like she'll get married. I'm like, okay, well,

754
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 3: it's just one thing at a time, please.

755
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

756
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 2: And I've said to you, like I really want to

757
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: just soak this afternoon and like do it. The only

758
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: thing we do know about our wedding for sure, it's

759
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 2: got to be Byron Bake say that somewhere around. Yeah,

760
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: that's the one thing we're both reading. Yes, we can

761
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: figure it out, no problems at all. How exciting, exciting.

762
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,439
Speaker 2: Love you, love you boo, And to the listeners, thank

763
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 2: you so much for being part of it.

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00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,399
Speaker 1: I know a lot of you on Instagra as well.

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00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 2: If you have any questions for us, or you want

766
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 2: us to talk about anything more in this, please ask

767
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 2: and thank you.

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00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: Thank you. We'll blown away by all the love and support. Yes,

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00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: yes we were.

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00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 3: Thank you, Love you, fiance, Love you, fiance, Hie.

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00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,

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Speaker 2: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation

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