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Speaker 1: Podcasting now Valentine's Day Woodrow and speaking of Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 1: one of the great casanova's of the modern era, Justin.

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Speaker 2: Bieber, Yeah, you got that made a little bit of

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Speaker 2: a comment. I mean, he's been he's been married. He

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Speaker 2: has been married for a long time. He's been married

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Speaker 2: for for a grand total of a year. And I

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Speaker 2: don't know why you're laughing. You know, everybody's glad to

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Speaker 2: have their opinion here. He's weighed in on what makes

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Speaker 2: a really successful marriage? Oh great, the BEB. You know,

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Speaker 2: obviously a lot of people talking about, you know, what

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Speaker 2: made successful marriage at the moment, Justin members come in

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Speaker 2: and said that that the way to get through life

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Speaker 2: in marriage is to get out all your frustrations. And

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Speaker 2: I quote in the sack, Yeah you got that. That's

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Speaker 2: the BEABS. That's the key to a successful marriage for

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Speaker 2: the BB. Yeah. And I just asked then on thirty

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Speaker 2: one O six five, if you've been marrying for more

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Speaker 2: than thirty years, yes, I've got Scharen who joys is

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Speaker 2: who Charene around the board. You've been married for thirty six.

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: On Saturday. Actually know I was study in March. Okay, okay, well,

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Speaker 2: congratulations Charen, thank you and thanks for calling the show.

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Speaker 2: What do you think about what Justin Bieber's advice is,

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Speaker 2: you know, the marriage. The key to a successful marriage

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Speaker 2: is to get out all of life's frustrations in the

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Speaker 2: sack is what he's gone with there? What do you

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Speaker 2: think about that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's that's fairly enough.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a good call.

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Speaker 4: You you and your partner. What's what's what's his or

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Speaker 4: her name?

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Speaker 2: Scharen? Sorry, my partner's name is Jan Develo? Is it developed?

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Speaker 4: So sorry?

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Speaker 2: Sorry you again.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry this sounds too much of a personal question,

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Speaker 4: but you would put that into practice. If you are

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Speaker 4: frustrated with each other, angry to each other, you go like, hey,

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Speaker 4: let's just let's take this to the bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 4: There there is a trying to sort it out.

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Speaker 2: It's just understanding each other, talking it out. So you

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Speaker 2: go to the bedroom to talk it out. Yeah, sorry, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: well look I feel there might have been a bit

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Speaker 2: of a mis miscommunication there, but that's okay. Scharene. Thank

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Speaker 2: you very much for the call. Really nice to hear

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Speaker 2: from you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Scharene, and congratulations again.

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Speaker 2: You've been in a relationship for four years?

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Speaker 4: Do you take frustrations out if you're angry at your partner?

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Speaker 4: Do you would you would you follow Baber's advice?

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Speaker 2: I actually think I actually I work the opposite, To

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Speaker 2: be honest with opposite, Well, I think if we're frustrated

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Speaker 2: at each other, often the bedroom is the first thing

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Speaker 2: to fall away. Interesting, Yeah, that happens really fast. There's

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Speaker 2: any any sort of tension or like any sort of

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Speaker 2: flying the ointment or lack of connection in any way,

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Speaker 2: that part of our life goes begging. Yeah, right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: which can lead to droughts of months at a time.

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Speaker 2: But what I want to do, what I want to

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Speaker 2: do right up next is this thirty one and six

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Speaker 2: five is the phone umber. We've still got a bunch

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Speaker 2: of other people that have been married for more than

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Speaker 2: thirty years. Yea, we're going to choose one of them.

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Speaker 2: We're going to choose one of these people that have

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Speaker 2: been married for thirty plus years, and I want you

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Speaker 2: guys to call now. This is so we've got the

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Speaker 2: thirty plus year person locked away. I want to hear

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Speaker 2: from people right now. Thirty one and six five. If

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Speaker 2: you've been married for one year. Okay, so you're in

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Speaker 2: the same boat as Justin Bieber one year and under,

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Speaker 2: or like one year and under that one year? Ye,

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Speaker 2: so thirty one and six fives a phone number. If

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Speaker 2: you've been married for one year and under, please give

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Speaker 2: us a call. I would love to hear from you

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Speaker 2: on the show. I'll explain what are you doing up next.

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Speaker 2: It's a very safe space. I'm just fascinated to hear

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Speaker 2: from more of you guys that are in that position.

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Speaker 2: And we should get a beautiful little bit of contrast

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Speaker 2: on your radios up next. On Valentine's Day podcasting, Now,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about Valentine's Day and Justin Bieber's waiting on

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Speaker 2: Valentine's Day. He's been married for a whole year, and

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Speaker 2: he said the key to a good relationship, keeping your

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Speaker 2: love alive is to take out all the frustrations. In

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Speaker 2: his words in the sack, yeah you've got that yarm.

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Speaker 4: Mentioned by the way, his new album Change has actually

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Speaker 4: dropped today, but go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, very good. Okay. So what we've got here is

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Speaker 2: we've got Richard on the line. I've asked people to

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Speaker 2: call who have only been married for a year or less. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: So we've got Richard on the line here. He's going

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Speaker 2: to be like our reference point. So Richard's been married

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Speaker 2: for thirty three years. Richard, welcome to the show. A

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Speaker 2: cool pleasure to have you on. First of all, Richard,

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Speaker 2: I mean you're going to get a bunch of advice

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Speaker 2: here for people that have been in relationships for less

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Speaker 2: than a year. You've been married for thirty three years.

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Speaker 2: What did you think about Justin Bieber's advice there?

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Speaker 3: Probably not entirely true. Look, you should probably like resolve

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Speaker 3: your problems. And then he does the sack afterwards.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got that good, Richard?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 2: I like you, rich It sounds like you are you

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Speaker 2: ready to hear a little bit of advice from some

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Speaker 2: other people here and use you as a reference.

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Speaker 3: Shoot it my word?

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Speaker 2: Oh perfect? Perfect? All right. We've got Daniel that's called

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Speaker 2: on thirty one and sixty five. He's been in a

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Speaker 2: relationship for under a year. Daniel, Mate, what's your relationship

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Speaker 2: advice if you've been in a marriage for under a year?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It look it's pretty simple.

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Speaker 3: So as you just throw what he's old and from

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Speaker 3: the monitoring the good books, then you can go to

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Speaker 3: the bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, Richard, what do you think about that?

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Speaker 2: We've got our thirty three year old, thirty three married

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Speaker 2: veteran here. What do you think Richard?

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Speaker 3: So is he doing saying the opposite of happy wife,

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Speaker 3: happy life? Is that what he saying? No?

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Speaker 2: I think he's saying happy wife, happy life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I think he's saying like he has to might

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Speaker 3: be the one that's being being forgiving. Is that what

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Speaker 3: he's saying all the time?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who's under who's some No?

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Speaker 2: Richard, Richard, Daniel, Richard, look out, thanks old Daniel.

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Speaker 4: Let's go to Demi here, Demi, you've been married for

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Speaker 4: under a year. Well, what's your advice for a happy relationship?

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, my advice is accestant.

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Speaker 2: They're never going to change what they do and they

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Speaker 2: will always be a child. Okay, well I've got Richard here,

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Speaker 2: he's been married for thirty three years. What do you

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Speaker 2: think about that? Richard?

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Speaker 3: No, Look, I think I think for about like forty

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Speaker 3: forty years old, you do tend to grow up a

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Speaker 3: bit more, but you know, up until then, you'll probably

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Speaker 3: stay a child.

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Speaker 2: He's going again, that's very much Richard, goodste.

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Speaker 4: Saying to look forward to though for Demi though Richie

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Speaker 4: will grow up at forty.

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Speaker 2: That's a good good that's been a waiting for all

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Speaker 2: the women out there. We've got Matthew and Matthew, you've

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Speaker 2: been married for under a year.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's your what's the best bit of relationship advice

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Speaker 2: you've got for us on Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: My, whenever, whenever I'm upside, go back to me, to

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Speaker 4: me and keep my head down and let it blow away. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So you go to your shd you put your head down,

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Speaker 2: you let it blow away. Yeah, guys, even grab a

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Speaker 2: up last summer, build up a double deck dat Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It So, Matthew, you're saying you deliberately damaged things in

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Speaker 4: your house so then you can fix it. And you

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Speaker 4: think that just gets you away from your wife, and

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Speaker 4: that's great advice. Yeah, well that's the only way I

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Speaker 4: could get back at my wife.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, matthe We've got rich he's been married for

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Speaker 2: thirty three years. He's our romantic reference point. Richard.

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Speaker 3: What do you think I think that comes back to

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Speaker 3: the thing of being a child.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's rich very good stuff, guys, thank you so

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Speaker 2: much coming on the radio. Rich It is Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 2: of course, if I get you know, we haven't actually

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Speaker 2: had your weigh in on things. What would be You've

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Speaker 2: been made for thirty three years? It is Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Have you got a bit of advice for all the

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Speaker 2: all the lovers and hopeful lovers out there? What have

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Speaker 2: you got for us?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I guess you have to be that like that

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Speaker 3: your wife and your lover also has to be your

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Speaker 3: best friend, so you have to sort of keep that

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Speaker 3: as you know, the most important thing you can stay

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Speaker 3: together for that sort of time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, great, great stuff. We've got a bit of a

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Speaker 5: doctor Phil character, which is I'm sorry, he's so good, Richard.

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Speaker 5: I'm single going into a Friday night. Any advice for

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Speaker 5: me tonight hitting the town.

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Speaker 3: Just keep it cool, go out there, don't try and

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Speaker 3: push yourself too hard, you know, just just just you know,

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Speaker 3: if you're lucky, you'll meet that right person. You know,

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Speaker 3: you'll meet eyes across the room and you know that's

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Speaker 3: that sparkle just happens for you.

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Speaker 2: I love you, Rich, love you. Pleas came on showing Richey,

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Speaker 2: wonderful Valentine's Day. Tonight's what's your wife's name? You have

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Speaker 2: a bit of a shout out to ten you mate,

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Speaker 2: go for it absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I hope you're listening in a lot so you tonight.

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