WEBVTT - MINI: Britt's fiancé Ben has a big announcement!

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<v Speaker 1>So I have some very exciting news, guys with me

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<v Speaker 1>and my fiance in the Hockley Seagrest household. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know, my fiancee, Ben lives in Romania. So

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<v Speaker 1>we are long distance. It's not ideal, it's not by choice,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's where we are. We live on opposite sides

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<v Speaker 1>of the world. And he's been in Romania for the

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<v Speaker 1>last six months. He's a football player there, so he

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<v Speaker 1>plays for a team. Now, Romania hasn't been top of

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<v Speaker 1>my list, and I would like to feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>news I'm about to share is because of my manifestation.

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<v Speaker 2>This is all you. You made this happen, britt Congratulations Brittany.

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<v Speaker 1>Not Ben dedicating twenty five years of his life to this,

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<v Speaker 1>not his skill, my manifestation. But Ben just yesterday signed

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<v Speaker 1>like the biggest best deal of his life in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of the country he's going to live in. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>just moved officially to Italy exactly. And I'm more excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this because feeder chini carbonari is my favorite meal

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<v Speaker 1>in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>You also called me yesterday and said I now live

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<v Speaker 2>in Italy, which was a very dramatic way of breaking

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<v Speaker 2>the news that I'm I'm thrilled for you. I really

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<v Speaker 2>get not sure what that means for the show, but

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<v Speaker 2>thrilled for you in my mind.

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<v Speaker 3>I live in Italy now.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing though, is why is it that every time

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<v Speaker 2>he's moved, Because originally when you guys started dating, he

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<v Speaker 2>was in Scotland. Then he's in Romania, now is in Italy.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like these changes in contract happen overnight, like

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<v Speaker 2>there's never been a discussion about Italy, and then literally

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<v Speaker 2>the next day you're like, oh, yeah, he's on a flight.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Italy, which went back.

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<v Speaker 1>Fascinating. It's so fascinating. So if you don't know, you

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<v Speaker 1>might not care. But like, the football world is really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So only at one month of the year in January

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<v Speaker 1>and one month in like June July is what they

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<v Speaker 1>call a transfer window. It's the window that opens up

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<v Speaker 1>where every football around the world has to move.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Every move around two different teams happens then, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a domino effect.

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<v Speaker 2>And this goes for every league, Like every league's different.

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<v Speaker 2>But even though the leagues are different, they still have

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<v Speaker 2>transfer windows.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because Italy, someone could move to America and then

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<v Speaker 1>someone from England could move to Australia or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>So it is the window. So it's a domino effect.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know what positions might open up until someone

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<v Speaker 1>starts moving and then that person's replaced, but then that

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<v Speaker 1>position opens up.

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<v Speaker 3>So it happens really quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know that the options there to move, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know when, where, how, and when it does come,

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<v Speaker 1>it's quick. So he found out he got the offer,

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<v Speaker 1>checked with me if Italy was okay, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>get there right now.

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<v Speaker 3>You should have got there yesterday. I was like, get

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<v Speaker 3>on the first plane.

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<v Speaker 1>But then he had like not even twenty four hours

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<v Speaker 1>notice to pack up his entire life, get on a

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<v Speaker 1>plane and land in Italy.

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<v Speaker 2>What does he take though, like coming back one bag?

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<v Speaker 2>And then who packs up his stuff in Romania and

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<v Speaker 2>moves it to which when you think about it, it's

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<v Speaker 2>actually your stuff because there's so much of your stuff

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<v Speaker 2>that's currently in Romania and every time Ben seems to move,

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<v Speaker 2>your stuff is the stuff that gets.

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<v Speaker 1>Left bo Well, now my podcasts and radio equipments in Romania.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone can no, I don't know, he just has

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<v Speaker 1>to work it out. They really just throw them in

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<v Speaker 1>the deepen. But it's really exciting because it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that they work so hard towards. And it's more

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<v Speaker 1>exciting because you don't see something like this coming, like

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<v Speaker 1>it just hits you in twenty four hours, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>such an amazing thing that it makes me sad.

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<v Speaker 3>Because it's such a big time in his life.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's signing the papers and you're taking photos and

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<v Speaker 1>you've got your jersey and you take it in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the emblem, and most players are there with their

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<v Speaker 1>partner and their kids and their family, and then Ben

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<v Speaker 1>was just there on his own, and I had this

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<v Speaker 1>real moment where I thought I should be there, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was really upset that I wasn't there to support

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<v Speaker 1>him in that, and I just all he could get

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<v Speaker 1>from me was a message on the other side of

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<v Speaker 1>the world saying like, I'm proud of you.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think you will do post the wedding

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<v Speaker 2>because you guys are getting married later this year and

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<v Speaker 2>then you are maintaining long distance.

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<v Speaker 3>For a while.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you have a bit of a plan around

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<v Speaker 2>what you want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, hey, bosses, Yeah, that was an interesting question to.

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<v Speaker 3>Pose on live radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Laura no, I mean, it's true, we're in long distance.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my job, that's why it's long distance. I

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<v Speaker 1>love radio. But if you ask me the dream, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be to do radio and be able to do

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<v Speaker 1>some records overseas. So that would be the absolute dream.

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<v Speaker 1>To be able to have my cake and eat it too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess we just have to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Eight long distance.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually I'm okay with and I managed really well, but.

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<v Speaker 2>So hard when you have big things happening and you

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<v Speaker 2>can't be a part of each other's lives when we

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<v Speaker 2>have some.

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<v Speaker 3>Huge, big moments.

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<v Speaker 1>The same with us when you and I Laura did

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<v Speaker 1>our life on Cut podcast live show, for example, we

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<v Speaker 1>were going on this big tour and he didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>to go to any of that. He didn't get to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. He wasn't there. And you know Matt was

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<v Speaker 1>there with you or the kids were there, Yeah, the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was there, And I really felt that they're the

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<v Speaker 1>moments I feel so like, I'm so proud of him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just cry myself to sleep. I'm like, one

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<v Speaker 1>tier is crying that I get to eat pasta, and

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<v Speaker 1>the other tears crying that I didn't get to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm proud of him, so I just wanted to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when you're so proud of someone, you want

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<v Speaker 1>the whole world to know.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm really happy for him.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure Benn is currently listening to The Pickup, so

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<v Speaker 2>congrats Dad,