Speaker 1: Pickup, Laura, come on in, we're here.
Speaker 2: Where did we go?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean you went to Scotland, you went to Hawaii,
Speaker 3: Look at that, Look at me. I went to Yupoon,
Speaker 3: which is a lovely part of Australia.
Speaker 4: Wow, you do have a.
Speaker 5: Hawaiian glow and you've got a your poony glow. I
Speaker 5: do not have any glow.
Speaker 1: Poony glow poony?
Speaker 2: Do that what you will?
Speaker 4: You really drew the short straw there. I don't know
Speaker 4: how that happened.
Speaker 6: No, I actually didn't, you know what.
Speaker 3: I I didn't have any expectations or what you poon
Speaker 3: would be like. But if you're listening from your poon,
Speaker 3: it is a lovely, lovely place.
Speaker 4: Your poo tourism paying you to say this.
Speaker 6: No, I got nothing for the whole holiday.
Speaker 1: It was well, it's the pickup welcome. Everyone will thinks
Speaker 1: to chemist. Whare house heading today? Great savings every day,
Speaker 1: big show.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Look I read something over the weekend.
Speaker 3: And firstly, if you think that your partner might be
Speaker 3: cheating on you, well you'll want to hear this. I've
Speaker 3: got all the tips and the clues as to how
Speaker 3: you can figure that out. Oh really, we have Samantha
Speaker 3: x joining us. She is was Australia's most highly paid escort,
Speaker 3: and I feel like if anyone's going to know the
Speaker 3: Internet of cheating, it's an escort, Miss x Well.
Speaker 2: I have some big news, Mitch. Actually it's concerning you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So when I was in Scotland, I saw a psychic
Speaker 5: and he made a pretty serious prediction about you and
Speaker 5: your health. So I thought the best time to tell
Speaker 5: you about it.
Speaker 2: Was live on it.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, really, should we be worried about me?
Speaker 4: I'd be worried or excited.
Speaker 2: It's pretty concerning.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't want to alarm you, but we we'll talk
Speaker 2: about it soon.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's coming on.
Speaker 2: But we are here for you, all right.
Speaker 4: Well from your poon so London.
Speaker 1: Here at the pickup, I should say, we're sending you
Speaker 1: to the King's coronation.
Speaker 4: That's so exciting.
Speaker 6: What a prize that is.
Speaker 4: You can win in the next fifteen minutes at the pickup.
Speaker 4: It's the pick up.
Speaker 1: Here at Kiss Sprint, Laura and Mitch get ahead of
Speaker 1: the spring this flu season with annual flu vaccinations available
Speaker 1: at Chemists Warehouse.
Speaker 4: They're only nineteen ninety nine.
Speaker 3: Now, I have a bit of a personal question for
Speaker 3: you guys. I know the answer to this for you, Britt.
Speaker 3: But Mitch, have you ever been cheated on?
Speaker 4: Oh? No, I haven't never. I'm I'm just too good.
Speaker 6: Wouldn't resk it?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Why would they risk you?
Speaker 2: Wouldn't want to lose?
Speaker 6: Mitch? And Britt, I know you have been cheated multiple times.
Speaker 7: It is.
Speaker 6: The thing is, Mitch, maybe you just don't know about it.
Speaker 4: I think I know.
Speaker 3: Well, a lot of people don't. That's the problem. There
Speaker 3: was an article that came out over the weekend. Now,
Speaker 3: this was written by former escort Samantha X. Now Samantha
Speaker 3: X is one of the most highly paid escorts at
Speaker 3: the time as well, and she's written this article which
Speaker 3: is around how to identify if your partner is cheating
Speaker 3: on you.
Speaker 6: Firstly, I think.
Speaker 3: You'd have a sneaking suspicion, which is why you might
Speaker 3: start looking for some hints in the first place. But
Speaker 3: these were her three top signs. Number one, they come
Speaker 3: home with wet hair when it hasn't been raining.
Speaker 6: Number two, what does that mean? We'll get into it.
Speaker 3: Number two your marriage suddenly improves.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's unlikely.
Speaker 3: And number three, his work habits have changed, So all
Speaker 3: of a sudden he has to go to a very
Speaker 3: important meeting that he cannot he cannot cat, we can't away.
Speaker 3: Now we have Samantha X on the phone at the moment. Samantha, Hi,
Speaker 3: sam welcome, pickup Samantha.
Speaker 1: What's that?
Speaker 2: What's the wet hair about?
Speaker 6: Listen?
Speaker 2: Wet hair?
Speaker 8: Look, I'm not going to disclaimer. Not all men who
Speaker 8: come home with wet hair. Well, think about it. If
Speaker 8: your partner come and we're talking about men here, okay,
Speaker 8: So let's just just keep it with men and not
Speaker 8: all men. Disclaimer. If they come home with wet hair
Speaker 8: and it hasn't been raining, where have they showered, where's
Speaker 8: this water come from? And if they don't go to
Speaker 8: the gym. So I'd ask that question. And I remember
Speaker 8: years ago interviewing when I was a journalist interviewing a
Speaker 8: man who cheats, and I asked him for the number
Speaker 8: one giveaway sign, and that's what he said. He said, Well,
Speaker 8: they come home.
Speaker 6: With My question is for somebody who how long did
Speaker 6: you work as an escort? For ten years?
Speaker 3: So in ten years, all that the percentage of men
Speaker 3: who you have been with, how many do you think
Speaker 3: are in relationships?
Speaker 8: I'd say half, not not all men.
Speaker 4: That's massive though.
Speaker 8: Yeah, half and out of those men, look, you know,
Speaker 8: for whatever reason, their sex lives dead, they don't have
Speaker 8: intimacy anymore, maybe their wife is sick, or they've just
Speaker 8: agreed to, you know, be essentially flatmates that bring up kids.
Speaker 8: So there are discussions that I had at home. But yeah,
Speaker 8: i'd say I'd say that's a lot of unhappy relationships though,
Speaker 8: apart from those ones that men seek intimacy elsewhere. And
Speaker 8: I wrote an article before about why men cheat and
Speaker 8: the number one reason wasn't sex, it was connection.
Speaker 3: So now that number two on your list here is
Speaker 3: that it says your marriage suddenly improves. This is quite
Speaker 3: frightening because I feel like most people would think, well,
Speaker 3: finally things are on the way up and getting better,
Speaker 3: not oh, my partner's gone out with an escort.
Speaker 4: H How could it improve if your partner's cheating?
Speaker 8: So guilt men feel guilty. So if they're cheating, and
Speaker 8: it doesn't have to be necessarily with an escort, it
Speaker 8: could be with anyone. But you know, I've definitely heard
Speaker 8: men who cheat suddenly the marriage improves. And I've heard
Speaker 8: many times that seeing an escort has helped save their marriage,
Speaker 8: rightly or wrongly, because their emotional or physical needs are
Speaker 8: being met elsewhere, so they're not so grumpy at home.
Speaker 8: You know, guilt can drive many many things, including better behavior.
Speaker 8: If your marriage improves and you're going to therapy, or
Speaker 8: he doesn't necessarily be in the shocking someone else.
Speaker 1: My poor boyfriend's gonna start unloading the dishwashing.
Speaker 4: Who are you talking to?
Speaker 6: Any time Matt does anything nice? We now are like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: what's to name?
Speaker 4: What is her name?
Speaker 8: But listen, it's just women as well, you know women.
Speaker 8: I mean, I wrote an article about women cheating and
Speaker 8: women get away with it more.
Speaker 2: Number three, his work habits have changed. I mean, I
Speaker 2: feel like this one speaks for itself.
Speaker 5: If all of a sudden he's doing overtime and weekends away,
Speaker 5: you know that his work doesn't do over time or conferences,
Speaker 5: it's a bit of a question mark over your head.
Speaker 8: Right, And it's it's it's the men who complain very
Speaker 8: loudly about having to go into a conference in America
Speaker 8: or having to attend you know, this new conference on
Speaker 8: fridge doors when they work for a county seat department
Speaker 8: in star resort, honeymoon, exactly exactly. You know that that's
Speaker 8: another reasonable They go into the bathroom with their phone down.
Speaker 8: I mean I remember I dated a guy and his
Speaker 8: phone was surgically attached to him. Oh yeah, it was
Speaker 8: face down, you know. And I've been cheated on quite
Speaker 8: a few times. And you know, ultimately, I think women know,
Speaker 8: we know when will be cheating.
Speaker 6: We know instinctively.
Speaker 5: Well, I think deep down, if you have a feeling
Speaker 5: that someone's doing the wrong thing, they probably are. You know,
Speaker 5: where there's smoke, there's fire, Trusty gut instinct.
Speaker 1: We all know that, and there's a science to look
Speaker 1: out that the wet hair that that's got me, then
Speaker 1: the wet hair will be so in right now.
Speaker 2: So that's going to be a real Sometimes I go
Speaker 2: to like a red carpet with your hair.
Speaker 4: It's true.
Speaker 6: I had a quickie, all right.
Speaker 4: Next up on the show Shepherd from Shepherd will be here.
Speaker 4: She's got a fresh perspective, body confidence, she does.
Speaker 2: She was putting an Instagram post up there was very
Speaker 2: thought provoking.
Speaker 6: So we're gonna have a chat.
Speaker 1: Yep, we're getting her up on the pick up next. Plus,
Speaker 1: if you want to go to the UK to see
Speaker 1: the King's coronation. We've got flights in accommodation to send
Speaker 1: you there and get a little signed saying I love
Speaker 1: you Charles and look at you there with tickets.
Speaker 2: Love your King sign yeah sign not included.
Speaker 4: Yeah, collect your body pass to fly Director London.
Speaker 1: Next, it's the pick up Monday afternoon, Britt, Laura and
Speaker 1: Mitch here on kiss hey, get ahead of the spread
Speaker 1: this flu season with annual flu vaccinations available at Chemis
Speaker 1: Warehouse only nineteen ninety nine. You guys know this song right,
Speaker 1: We're playing it off the hook non stop. It's Shepherd
Speaker 1: Good Times.
Speaker 4: You may know Amy Shepherd.
Speaker 1: She's in the band obviously with her siblings, but she's
Speaker 1: offering a fresh perspective on gaining weight, which I love.
Speaker 2: I did see this. I saw Amy posted.
Speaker 5: I guess you would call it her before and after
Speaker 5: when she was a smaller size and at the size
Speaker 5: that she is now. And she made it a comment
Speaker 5: that I loved, and she said, I've put on weight.
Speaker 5: Don't pity me, yelling this big capital, don't pity me,
Speaker 5: this is not toxic fat. I wanted to speak to Amy,
Speaker 5: so we've got her on the line.
Speaker 6: Hey, Amy, Amy, Hi, how are we Hi?
Speaker 7: Good?
Speaker 6: Hey?
Speaker 5: I loved your posts. I absolutely loved it. This idea
Speaker 5: of toxic fat talk us through that.
Speaker 9: Oh look, I think looking back at old photos is
Speaker 9: quite clear that I have put on weight. But on reflection,
Speaker 9: I realized that it's not all about the way I
Speaker 9: look like. I feel great. I feel healthier than ever.
Speaker 9: I go to the gym five to six days a week,
Speaker 9: and I just see so many women who are so
Speaker 9: down on themselves for gaining weight. I'm like, look, it's
Speaker 9: not always a bad thing because for me personally, I've
Speaker 9: allowed myself freedom to and I say in the post,
Speaker 9: like go and get ice cream with my partner, or
Speaker 9: to have dinner without being like, oh no, I'm just
Speaker 9: going to get the fish, even though I don't feel
Speaker 9: like it, like I'm just yeah, I'm sick of living
Speaker 9: like that. So I'm always quite inspired to help other
Speaker 9: women get through their body image issues as well.
Speaker 3: Why do you think it's so important to have this
Speaker 3: representation across social media?
Speaker 9: I just think that bodies come in all different shapes
Speaker 9: and sizes, and we're not seeing that the representation across
Speaker 9: social media as much. And I'm actually shocked that people
Speaker 9: really took to the photo that well, because it's sad.
Speaker 9: Really the people are shocked to see someone put on
Speaker 9: weight and be proud about it. Yeah, you know, condition
Speaker 9: to be. You know, smaller is better, but it's just
Speaker 9: not the case. Smaller isn't always better. You never know
Speaker 9: the reasons for someone's weight loss or weight gain.
Speaker 1: Oh totally, Amy, I'm a bigger boy, and I mean
Speaker 1: I'm six ' three and I'm chubby, like so, I'm
Speaker 1: a bigger boy. I find fat phobia in this country
Speaker 1: and on social media at an all time height at
Speaker 1: the moment.
Speaker 4: I don't know what it is. And did you know
Speaker 4: what it is?
Speaker 1: Did you find you had any negativity? Where there people
Speaker 1: saying you're unhealthy? You shouldn't be promoting this as someone
Speaker 1: with a public figure. I mean I've had comments like
Speaker 1: that before.
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I always get comments like that I'm promoting obesity,
Speaker 9: for promoting quote unquote body positivity. Look, I just don't
Speaker 9: really to take those comments with any weights because I
Speaker 9: know how I feel. I know the way that I
Speaker 9: live my life is healthy, and I know that it's
Speaker 9: inspiring others to live healthier life as well. It's you know,
Speaker 9: health isn't about a size. All the way you look
Speaker 9: healthy is about also how you feel in your mind
Speaker 9: and how you're actually living your life and what you're
Speaker 9: putting into your body. Yeah, it's all about how you feel.
Speaker 9: And no one on Instagram can tell me how I feel.
Speaker 4: And skinny isn't the default.
Speaker 1: Why do we all we're all programmed to think that
Speaker 1: that is one hundred percent health.
Speaker 6: Well, it's not the default for being happy. That's the thing.
Speaker 3: Like you might be skinny and be miserable, So that's
Speaker 3: not a good way of being either.
Speaker 9: No, and that's probably my experience. I'm so much happier
Speaker 9: in a bigger body, and that's just down to allowing
Speaker 9: myself for more freedoms in life and allowing myself to
Speaker 9: really actually be healthy.
Speaker 5: And it's sad that this is so prevalent still, Like
Speaker 5: there's a big part of you that thinking, Okay, it's
Speaker 5: twenty twenty three, how we're still doing this. But we've
Speaker 5: seen some of the biggest celebrities in the world lately,
Speaker 5: Ariana Grande Taylors with Selena Gomes.
Speaker 4: Mariana just did it this weekend.
Speaker 5: Yes, they've all posts out about like stop commenting on
Speaker 5: my body. You don't know what I'm going through, and
Speaker 5: in fact, I was extremely unhealthy and unhappy in this
Speaker 5: situation where everyone's seen I'm looking good. It just must
Speaker 5: be this constant harassment. So I think, yeah, you're a
Speaker 5: part of an incredible movement that's long over you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: And also a very good message for the little girls
Speaker 1: in the car now listening, you're on the way home
Speaker 1: from school, have that extra listener, go to the canteen,
Speaker 1: that pizza pocket.
Speaker 4: If you feel happy in that moment, do it. I
Speaker 4: mean in moderation, of course.
Speaker 7: But it's good for sure.
Speaker 9: And I just want people to realize that their work
Speaker 9: doesn't lie and how they look like. We should be
Speaker 9: celebrating Taylor Swift, who's breaking these musical records were worried about. Yeah,
Speaker 9: whether you put and wait a lost waves.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're doing good stuff.
Speaker 9: Yeah, thank you. And I'll just keep on keep on
Speaker 9: spreading that message along with my music. And I hope
Speaker 9: that girls can some of it rubs off, because at
Speaker 9: the moment does feel like hit us in is in again,
Speaker 9: which is really worrying aufter all of the work that
Speaker 9: we've been through. You know, try to get the message across,
Speaker 9: but unfortunately it does feel a little bit that way again.
Speaker 9: So I'll be here to ware flag. But you're beautiful
Speaker 9: and worthy in the skin.
Speaker 4: Of You're in love it the damy Shepherd.
Speaker 1: Everyone you can get Shepherd's new song good Time It's
Speaker 1: out Now we're playing at NonStop all right, Next, I
Speaker 1: mean Laura and I were on the fence. Britt went
Speaker 1: to see a psyekic in the most recent trip abroad,
Speaker 1: and she claims that there is a worrying health message
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well there is. It's pretty big news, Mitch jury.
Speaker 6: So I'm going to tell you soon.
Speaker 4: Is that a fat joke? Big news, Mitch? Not wow?
Speaker 6: Only you would say that, only you can say that.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, Well, I'm back at next on the pick
Speaker 1: up Monday. Al though, on the pick up it's Britt,
Speaker 1: Laura and Mitch. Here get ahead of the spread this
Speaker 1: flu season with annual flu vaccinations available at chemist ware
Speaker 1: House only nineteen none nine.
Speaker 2: Oh were you having a massage?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Turnover? Please?
Speaker 6: Is this meant to be mich Duri.
Speaker 1: Well, Britt has just come back from a trip overseas
Speaker 1: and she had a meeting with a very important psydekick.
Speaker 4: So I thought I'll get some psychic news.
Speaker 2: I did. I was over in Scotland see my boyfriend Ben.
Speaker 2: Long distance of that for me.
Speaker 5: But I discovered while I was there that my next
Speaker 5: door neighbor, or Ben's next door neighbor, is quite a
Speaker 5: renowned psychic in Scotland. So I became best friends with him.
Speaker 2: Obviously.
Speaker 4: Did he see that coming?
Speaker 5: He did, Yeah, he goes, you'll be my best friend.
Speaker 2: I know Laura is a bit of a psychic skeptic.
Speaker 2: You guys were coming through a lot.
Speaker 5: Now this was an hour and I was like, tell
Speaker 5: me something about me, but it was all Laura and
Speaker 5: Mitch anyway. So I just I've got a snippet because
Speaker 5: I recorded it, and this is what he had to
Speaker 5: say about you.
Speaker 4: Laura.
Speaker 7: She's off the impulsal. She's a very similar She's prettympossible.
Speaker 7: She used to come down of you bit. I knew
Speaker 7: she's to me, she's quite erratic. Struggles with her something.
Speaker 7: She could take a vision and hat and she would
Speaker 7: implement the vision. I haven't. It just took quick from me.
Speaker 4: Was he Shrek was my psychic?
Speaker 6: Is Shrek?
Speaker 5: Did?
Speaker 6: He called me erotic? But then he erratic, which I'm
Speaker 6: certainly more erratic than I am erotic.
Speaker 5: I think I think he got a feeling you're erotic,
Speaker 5: and he said it, and then he goes, no, that's
Speaker 5: not right, she's erotic.
Speaker 2: No, no, it must be erratic. I'm missreading that way.
Speaker 6: Did I also hear that right? Then he said that
Speaker 6: my partner is having a my husband is having a
Speaker 6: hard time.
Speaker 2: With me with your erraticness, not eroticness.
Speaker 6: No, he's certainly not getting a lot of eroticness right now.
Speaker 6: But no, that's fine. Okay.
Speaker 4: Well, Laura is also not an erratic, so I don't
Speaker 4: know if I'm buying this.
Speaker 3: Laura is chaos personified. I want to be erratic, though,
Speaker 3: I feel like that's that like defines a crazy person.
Speaker 4: While wearing a kinky schoolgirl So you are rather erotic.
Speaker 4: I haven't got one shoe on, there's a bird living
Speaker 4: in my hair.
Speaker 2: And she's like, I don't know what he's talking about.
Speaker 2: But then he got a bit he got an energy
Speaker 2: about us as a team.
Speaker 9: Well, here we go.
Speaker 7: This is for us to pick up between your passions
Speaker 7: and a lot of composedness headache.
Speaker 5: But he's a suitant.
Speaker 6: We're sitting it's a good march, and.
Speaker 7: The boy watched in the middle of you begin a
Speaker 7: long term proscripule for me.
Speaker 2: He basically, Now I put it out down to a snippet.
Speaker 5: He basically said a hundred times that Laura and I
Speaker 5: are just chaos and that he doesn't possibly know how
Speaker 5: you put.
Speaker 6: Up with us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's very good at his job, so I think
Speaker 1: he's wrong there.
Speaker 6: You are a very patient man, Mitch.
Speaker 4: I'm saying you are well.
Speaker 5: This is the part that I really wanted to talk
Speaker 5: to you about, Mitch, because it is about you and
Speaker 5: your health, and there was a bit of a health
Speaker 5: scare that we need.
Speaker 2: To talk about that he saw for you.
Speaker 4: Are you being serious?
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I'm not sure if it's accurate or not
Speaker 5: because I don't know you. Yeah, but you have to
Speaker 5: you have to let me know. So I'm sorry to
Speaker 5: deliver this news.
Speaker 4: This is real. This is real. Have a look.
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: That's what he said about me and my health.
Speaker 7: And it's funny. He's a problems with it, then, growing
Speaker 7: I have a problem with his anil and his foot
Speaker 7: and I'm drawn to my left food.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry you health scares your tonail do you have
Speaker 2: an ingrown toenail?
Speaker 4: This is this is ridiculous.
Speaker 1: I have two ingrown toenails on both toes and I've
Speaker 1: had them surgically altered to stop getting in grown toenails forever.
Speaker 4: What You've had cosmetic work done on my two toes?
Speaker 6: Who the hell gets cosmetic surgery on their toes?
Speaker 4: I had so much pain in my toes. I'm not
Speaker 4: this actually very true.
Speaker 1: And I had the cornices of my toes surgically removed
Speaker 1: so I never get in grown toe. I've just got
Speaker 1: one big flat piece of toenail going straight.
Speaker 2: That's discussing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, wow, sow we are we saying that with.
Speaker 7: It?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're erotic.
Speaker 1: I've got disgusting toes and it's gonna have a baby
Speaker 1: in the next month. I think we should ask, though,
Speaker 1: have you gone to a psychic because some people have
Speaker 1: had very good experiences with psychic So we'll give you
Speaker 1: a five hundred dollars chemist Warehouse gift card. It could
Speaker 1: be yours the pickup dot com dot au let us toe. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll see tomorrow over Ian.
Speaker 4: Bye,