WEBVTT - MINI: Mitch's sister Becky chats about her experience getting a Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about this on the show last week.

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<v Speaker 1>But me and my entire family, the Zamchuri Family, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the little team name we came up for. I

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<v Speaker 1>took part in the MS Walk Run role, which is

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like there's many different steps you can do.

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<v Speaker 1>You to a five K, ten K mini marathon, quarter marathon,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want to call it, raising money and funds

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<v Speaker 1>for MS research here in Australia. My sister Becky has MS,

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<v Speaker 1>was only diagnosed very recently with in the last six months.

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<v Speaker 2>Also pregnant. A lot going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I just firstly wanted to say thank you to you

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<v Speaker 1>girls end of the pickup listeners. We smashed our goal.

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<v Speaker 1>We like tripled our goal of fundraising and racist under

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<v Speaker 1>ten thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys should be so proud really honestly because what

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<v Speaker 3>you're doing raising awareness, raising money. I know we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to speak to Becky more about it, but it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you should be really proud, and I'm sure Becky feels

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well that's I wanted to get Becky on to

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<v Speaker 1>join us because here I am telling her story about

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<v Speaker 1>it being diagnosed with MS, living with MS walking and

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<v Speaker 1>they run and roll with MS.

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<v Speaker 2>But I wanted to bring out of the show. So

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<v Speaker 2>Becky for the first time pick up debut.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome show, Hi, Hi, Hello, Hello, how are you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe this is your debut. I think maybe

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<v Speaker 2>because I know you. I feel like you've come on

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<v Speaker 2>well literal family and you know. Yeah, Becky, you were

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<v Speaker 2>diagnosed with MS. What was that like for you?

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<v Speaker 5>And I say that because I think there's a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of people that don't know much about it. But like,

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<v Speaker 5>at the time, did you know something was quote unquote wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>What led you to be diagnosed?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely, Like I had a three year battle just

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<v Speaker 4>to get diagnosed. So by the time I got diagnosed,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I was actually relieved that someone finally believed

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<v Speaker 4>something was wrong. Initially I had It was around the

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<v Speaker 4>COVID time I got COVID. I got a vaccine and

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<v Speaker 4>then I just like causes some people with immune kind

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<v Speaker 4>of responses to flare up, and I started losing my vision.

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<v Speaker 4>I was at work and saw like we'd stars and

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<v Speaker 4>I went to the neurologist. I had an MRI and

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<v Speaker 4>he was like, look, you just have anxiety, like relaxed, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>some mindfulness come back. So then me and my husband

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<v Speaker 4>pretty much fought for like three years because I was

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<v Speaker 4>having like severe migraines to the point of losing vision

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<v Speaker 4>on the way home from work, like it got really

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<v Speaker 4>bad fatigue, numbness and pins and needles down my arm.

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<v Speaker 4>And then yeah, I pushed and pushed and pushed, and

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<v Speaker 4>eventually they did a lumber punk show which actually came

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<v Speaker 4>back negative, which is like one of the criteria to diagnose.

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<v Speaker 4>But the main thing in the NAY found was I

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<v Speaker 4>had progression of one lesion over a three year period,

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<v Speaker 4>which is very minimal. I'm very lucky a brain. They

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<v Speaker 4>were yes, a brain lesion, so I only have them

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<v Speaker 4>in my brain, but I had had one more lesion

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<v Speaker 4>in my brain. My neurologists was like, look, I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's still anxiety, and I was like, look, I'm getting

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<v Speaker 4>a second opinion. Mitch actually put me onto a really

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<v Speaker 4>great neurologist who had me with an MS specialist the

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<v Speaker 4>next day. Mitchell in his connections, I don't know where fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she kept saying, at the doctors are saying you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have anything. So I called everyone I knew and

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<v Speaker 1>we got her in and that's when she got a diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 6>So this is my question, Becky, you would now have

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<v Speaker 6>spoken to other people who have been diagnosed with MS.

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<v Speaker 6>Is this something like is this experience of being told oh,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, it's not this, or it could be this,

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<v Speaker 6>or kind of it being downplayed? Is that a common

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<v Speaker 6>experience or is that just something that was unique to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I think it's hard because unfortunately, it's such a

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<v Speaker 4>weird disease that presents in so many different ways. Like

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<v Speaker 4>I've met one hundred people with MS, and probably five

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<v Speaker 4>people have the same symptoms, So I think it presents

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<v Speaker 4>so differently. You can either have brain lesions, spine lesions

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<v Speaker 4>both and it really it really depends then on what

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<v Speaker 4>your symptoms are. But I mean, I spoke to a

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<v Speaker 4>lady this morning, just randomly, and then she was telling

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<v Speaker 4>me that like her thirteen year old niece or something

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<v Speaker 4>that were investigating her for MS and she'd been gas

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<v Speaker 4>lit and I told her it was, you know, migraines

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<v Speaker 4>as well, and I was like, keep pushing, like, go

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<v Speaker 4>see this specialist. You need to get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 4>of it, because ultimately, starting any treatment early is the

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<v Speaker 4>key to not well, hopefully if the treatment works for you,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not progressing as sick as you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, Becky. And I mean for anyone who doesn't

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<v Speaker 6>know what MS looks like, and I think that that

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<v Speaker 6>would be a great deal of people. What does that

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<v Speaker 6>like for you if you were to say, if those

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<v Speaker 6>symptoms were to progress, what does life look like without treatment?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think it's really like for me personally, and

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<v Speaker 4>I can only speak to me. Like my everyday symptoms

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<v Speaker 4>is I have really bad static vision in my eyes,

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<v Speaker 4>so when I'm in a room, everything white is static

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<v Speaker 4>and everything black is static. I have problems like the

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<v Speaker 4>lady next to me today at work is wearing a

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<v Speaker 4>multi colored shirt and I can't look it up because

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, it's making me feel like I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>pass out, you know, like reading a book. I can't

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<v Speaker 4>read a book because I can't see the letters they

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<v Speaker 4>all move. But for other people, like I know a

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<v Speaker 4>girl that woke up one day and couldn't move for legs.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think the problem is that it's an invisible

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<v Speaker 4>disease and that I can be feeling terrible but still

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<v Speaker 4>turn up to family lunch and put a brave face

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<v Speaker 4>on and smile, you know, whereas other people they can't

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<v Speaker 4>even you know, they need a wheelchair or they need

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<v Speaker 4>a cane to help them out. I just really want

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<v Speaker 4>to spread awareness for it, and they're people out there

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<v Speaker 4>that it is a bit too late and the medication

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't work for them. Like so, I mean, the closer

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<v Speaker 4>we get to research and money for a QR, and

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<v Speaker 4>there's some amazing clinical trials going on at the moment,

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<v Speaker 4>the better.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye guy, Mitch.

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<v Speaker 6>You should be so proud of yourself as well for

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<v Speaker 6>raising awareness. I know how much this has affected you

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<v Speaker 6>in your family, but you guys are the best.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's I mean, I've got a brain condition too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like Becky got MS, which is greater

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<v Speaker 1>than my brain condition.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, great, I just have to sit here. I

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<v Speaker 2>just get headaches. And again I'm not even bringing attention

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<v Speaker 2>to my own brain.

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<v Speaker 5>Mitch's brain actually comes out the bottom of his We

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<v Speaker 5>can talk about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Updates my brain Becky's brains.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Well, look, speaking of brains, I have something

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<v Speaker 6>that I need to admit after this.

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot a really really really.

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<v Speaker 6>Important event, a really important anniversary, and I feel horrible

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<v Speaker 6>about it and I need you guys to make me

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<v Speaker 6>feel little bit better.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we can do that, no promise, it's easy. We'll try.

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<v Speaker 2>We might double down.