WEBVTT - Is this what’s stopping you from new opportunities? 💭 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:04.920 Whether you believe it or you don't believe it, you 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:19.920 are correct. Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:24.800 I'm your host Georgie Stevenson, former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:29.960 media personality and personal development junkie. This podcast is for 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.879 my girl gang who want to feed their mind with 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:36.599 positive and expansive thoughts to help them step into their 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:40.280 power and live their most authentic life. We chat a 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:45.279 variety of topics including mindset, business, relationships, health, and so 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:49.400 much more. Basically, wherever you are on your journey, I 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:52.800 want to help you feel inspired and empowered to rise 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:56.040 up and conquer your next bold move. I know that's 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:58.920 going to look different for everyone, but just no, I'm 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:01.480 right here by your side and that you have the 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:13.280 rn C community behind you. Let's do this. Hello and 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.760 welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. It is 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:21.680 your host Georgie Stevenson and I have a very interesting 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:28.000 solo app for you guys. So this really kind of started. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:32.440 I was going through my journal and the current journal 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:36.160 I have, well, actually it's an old journal. So I 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:39.200 started a new journal probably midyear because I definitely go 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:41.440 through them because I like to write every single day 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:46.679 lots of stuff, lots of thoughts. And I found my 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:52.520 previous journal from probably like end to the start of 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:56.680 this year and the end of last year, sorry, to 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.640 the start of this year, and I came across and 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:02.120 I love going back to my journal entries. It's like 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:06.280 really interesting. I highly suggest if you guys journal to 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:10.040 like keep all your journals, because yeah, sometimes I'll go 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.520 back and be like wow, you know, like mentally I 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.200 was in such a different place, or you know, I 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.680 wanted this and I attracted this and manifested this and 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:23.040 all that sort of thing. But I was going back 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:28.840 to previous entries and this was okay, let me kind 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:32.080 of establish the scene. So this was probably i've got 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:36.120 a feeling maybe December or January. I didn't date the page, 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:40.000 but I know it's around then. And this was after 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:46.000 a very long year of trying to conceive, finding out 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:52.120 I had an autommune condition, getting out my implants, you know, 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:57.000 getting told I was infertile, finding out I was pregnant, 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:02.840 getting out my implants, having a miscarriage, like lots lots 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:07.639 happening this year, and so the big kind of journey 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:13.000 for me in twenty twenty was really my trying to 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:18.000 conceive journey and also a lot of you know, physical 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:21.080 health issues. So I found out I had an autoimmune condition, 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:25.120 and then I had a miscarriage, and the doctors think 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:30.520 I miscarried because my hormones were not fit to hold 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:34.320 a pregnancy, and then they think my hormones were like 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:37.640 that because of my implants and a lot of kind 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:43.520 of like physically, you know, physical stuff being wrong and 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:47.600 really getting back to getting my health on check, which 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:51.320 I really feel like I did, and even though it 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:53.680 was a super hard time, glad I went through it 0:03:53.720 --> 0:04:01.320 all and whatnot. Something interesting though, is un til up 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:04.680 to the point where I felt physically good and I 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:09.160 had healed from my surgery and my thyroid was leveled, 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:13.480 and like the doctor kind of gave me the okay 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:18.479 where they're like, physically everything is really good. Fertility is 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:21.039 really good, Like you and Tim should be able to 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:27.080 fall pregnant naturally, and the news flash was we didn't. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:30.479 So even though you know, we had only tried for 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:35.000 four or five months naturally before doing our UI cycle, 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:40.360 which is a whole other episode in itself, I remember thinking, Okay, 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:44.320 the doctor said, you know, fertility wise, I look really good. 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:49.120 I'm feeling really good, healthy wise, and it's like a 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:53.039 light bulb went off and I was like, I think 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:56.400 I need to look at my sub like, you know, 0:04:56.640 --> 0:05:02.680 subconscious level of why I'm not getting pregnant. What you 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:07.360 know subconsciously, you know, different things that may be stopping 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:09.800 me because I kind of hadn't got to that point 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:13.320 yet because of all the physical issues. I hope this 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:18.080 is making sent guys. So for the first time I 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:24.680 started looking into my limiting beliefs around getting pregnant and 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:29.960 becoming a mum. So if you guys don't know what 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:36.120 limiting beliefs are, this is a whole practice and thing 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:39.360 I teach in the Rise and Concer Project, which is 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:44.080 my six week self development and manifesting course, which obviously 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:47.799 goes so much deeper. It teaches you the whole formula, 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:50.680 Like you get into this but kind of like to 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:56.320 brisk to brisk over the concept. A limiting belief is 0:05:56.520 --> 0:06:02.280 a belief that we have around us or a situation 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:07.320 that we feel it's a truth, but it's not actually 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:10.800 a truth. So a great, you know, example of this 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:15.960 is someone with a not so grow great money mindset, 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:19.800 and this was, you know, my money mindset. Previously, I 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:25.520 had the limiting belief that yes, you can come across money, 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:30.120 but you have to work really hard. But when you 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:34.440 look at that belief as one, that belief is not 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:38.800 actually true because you know, what about people who make 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:42.719 money really easy and they just you know, those people 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:46.280 like they just attract money, or people who win the lotto, 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.839 or you know, there's so many instances where you don't 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:52.520 actually have to work really hard for money. And I 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:55.640 truly believe that I have now changed my money mindset 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:59.160 where I have a belief that money comes to me easy. 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:03.120 It's so like it's easy to attract I don't have 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:06.440 to Well, I do work, you guys know, I do 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:09.159 work very hard, but I just have a whole other 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:13.080 belief around it. So the whole thing is that belief 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.680 you think is truth. Another kind of good example, a 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.800 money example is like, you know, money is the root 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:23.200 of all evil, which is just not true because there's 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:27.960 so many instances where people do great things with money. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:32.720 I know, personally, since I have been more abundant, I 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:36.119 have given more to charities, I've given more to friends 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:40.320 and family, been more generous, and just almost a better 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:43.160 person because I do have abundance and I'm not having 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:48.320 to worry about lack. And so all these beliefs that 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:53.760 we had, they come usually from a story the way 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:58.120 we're brought up a family member, you know, evidence from 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:01.840 what has happened in our life, and we take them 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:06.720 as truth. So, guys, I was like, I really need 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.920 to look into my limiting beliefs around getting pregnant and 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:13.280 around being a mum, because I honestly think there's something 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:16.800 subconsciously like blocking me here. And I was like quite 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:19.840 surprised that I hadn't done this before. Maybe I had, 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:23.600 I just couldn't remember. And this is, yeah, the journal entry. 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:29.400 So in this journal entry, I started listing limiting beliefs 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:32.880 around pregnancy and becoming a mother. So I'm just reading 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:35.480 for my journal. These are some things that I jotted down. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:40.360 So I jotted down when you become a mum, you 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:44.840 give up your career. So this is a story. I 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.839 don't know if like I fully believe it, but it's definitely, 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:51.400 you know, a story you see in the media in 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:59.760 movies and also personally, my mum, who is so smart, intelligent, 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:03.400 like she's good at anything she does. She got ducks 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.720 of the college, she you know, was killing it life 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:11.080 basically and got pregnant really young. I think she was. 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:15.080 I think she was like twenty one with my brother Josh. 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:18.880 So I have three older brothers, family of four, and 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:23.000 so obviously she quit her job, raised my brother, and 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:26.080 then went on to have three more kids. So she 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:31.480 really kind of gave up well like in her own words, 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:35.760 the career for the family. And then after that she 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:41.120 supported my dad in his business and you know, his career, 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.440 if that makes sense. So that came up. I also 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.280 put you know, once you become a mom, you are 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:53.440 less successful just of the sheer concept of you have 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:57.760 less time. So if you're competing against someone who doesn't 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.760 have a child, you're probably going to do less of them. Again, guys, 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:05.040 remember these are not truce. I really hope I'm not 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:08.800 like triggering anyone. These are just things that have come 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:13.560 up in my mind about you know, limiting beliefs, not 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:19.160 having enough time for me or tim a big thing 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:24.079 in my family personally, Like all my brothers have two 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:27.600 or three kids. They got married and had kids quite young, 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:33.800 and the general consensus I get from them is, yeah, 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:38.440 you have no time for yourself. Life changes kind of 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.240 it sucks, which don't get me wrong, they love their 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:48.440 children and everything, but yeah, that's kind of the thing 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:52.320 that I get at family events. And then also what 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:56.480 came up is me wondering if I will be a 0:10:56.520 --> 0:11:00.160 good mum because I'm not the most maternal person. So 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.880 I looked at this page and I was like, wow, 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:09.480 there's actually so many beliefs that I had around becoming 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.120 a mum and becoming pregnant. And the big thing about 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:17.920 limiting beliefs is, you know, if we have beliefs around, 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:22.679 like negative beliefs around the thing we want or the 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:25.040 thing we want to do, the thing we want to attract, 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.600 it will be harder to attract it in our life 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:32.600 because deep down, on a subconscious level, we think it's 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:37.600 going to be bad or negative and whatnot. So I 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:41.560 kind of sat there and I was like, wow, it 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:46.000 kind of makes sense. Why, you know, me and Tim's 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:49.680 trying to conceive journey may have taken a lot longer, 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.520 and it's because I had a lot of limiting beliefs 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.720 around getting pregnant and being a mum. So then on 0:11:56.800 --> 0:12:00.760 the next page, I wrote down how to disarm that 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:04.480 limiting belief and I guess how to prove it wrong. 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.080 So this is definitely the next step. And something you 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:10.760 guys can do is when you have a limiting belief 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:17.760 around something that could be subconsciously stopping you from achieving 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:22.720 that next level success, abundance, a new partner, whatever you're 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:27.520 trying to manifest, it's time to disarm it and really 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:31.680 kind of prove yourself wrong. So what I tell you 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:35.080 guys to do in the course, again, obviously this is 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:39.120 just brisking across the service and surface. Sorry, and I 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:41.600 go a lot deeper in the course, but the whole 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:44.320 thing is to disarm it and prove it wrong. So 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:49.440 on the other page, I then started writing out a 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:55.440 whole bunch of sentences that were opposite to my belief. 0:12:55.559 --> 0:13:00.080 So I've written stuff like there are so many success 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:04.800 for women with you know, children who go on to 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:09.760 be super successful, to go on to have amazing careers, 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.280 and you know whatnot, So I'm proving like the first 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:19.480 one wrong. I also wrote down a lot of the 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:22.920 belief of you know, like giving up your career. I 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:25.480 wrote down, which I absolutely love that I wrote this down, 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:31.720 But I said, in lots of circumstances, someone's career won't 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:35.160 start until they have children. Like if you look at 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:41.679 you know, companies that are based on children's clothing or 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:46.760 helping a problem in you know, mum life world, that 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:51.560 person didn't find their career or they didn't find their 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:58.160 you know, message and business until they were pregnant, until 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:02.400 they were a mum. So basically I just wrote down 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:05.760 things like I can you know, get pregnant, I can 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:10.120 become a mum, and I can become more successful. I 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:15.280 can find my purpose and my why. I can have 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:19.040 you know, enough time to balance it all. And I 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:21.920 just wrote down a whole bunch of sentences that were 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:28.200 opposite to my limiting beliefs. And also something to do 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:33.360 to prove yourself wrong is go out and seek people 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:38.600 who have done the opposite. So for example, I remember 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:44.480 I then read Emma Isaac's book which is called Winging It. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:51.000 So Emma Isaacs is the founder and CEO of Business Checks, 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.480 which is like I'm pretty sure it's like a marketing 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:59.160 a network marketing business that is huge. And so I 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:04.400 read her book and she has like five kids like crazy, 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:09.680 and you know, runs this very successful business, love what 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:14.320 she does, loves having children and all these things, and 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.880 it was like just so nice to see, you know, 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:20.480 to prove my limiting belief wrong. I also read the 0:15:20.520 --> 0:15:27.080 book Lucky Bitch by Denise Duffelfield Thomas, who also is 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:31.040 a business woman who has children, and you know, really 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:36.920 proves that, you know, limiting belief wrong. Also another big 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:41.360 person is I'm having a mental blank here Jenna Kutcher 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:47.360 from the gold Digger podcast, who has to well she's 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:50.320 pregnant with one and has a child and chats about 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:52.680 how to be a mum and a successful business woman 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:57.920 and whatnot. So very much go out and prove yourself 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:02.400 wrong with these limiting beliefs. And so I did that, 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:05.160 and I've written in this journal entry and it's just 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:09.280 like so cool to see, you know, my limiting beliefs, 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:15.640 my thinking possibly what could have been, you know, not 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:19.960 letting me attract what I want and thinking in this 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:25.720 very single minded, one level way. And then I started 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:30.800 to think about it, and so I think also in 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:35.240 my head, I had, you know, with getting pregnant, i'd 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:38.200 have to slow down and then take time off for 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:40.720 baby girl. And don't get me wrong, I want to 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:44.160 do those things, and of course you have to do 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:49.880 those things. But I was reflecting on my pregnancy, and 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:53.600 I was like, you know what's actually really crazy is 0:16:54.320 --> 0:17:00.960 this year I have had so many really exciting things 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:10.680 that have made me feel empowered and motivated and successful 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:15.920 and really kind of breaking the barrier of what I thought, 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.679 you know, pregnancy and becoming a mum would be like. So, 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:22.880 just for example, some highlights of my year was I 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.320 did a shoot for Lorna Jane and I did their 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:30.680 maternity shoot. And it's funny because Lorna Jane, I think 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:33.480 I'm showing my age here, but back when I first 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:36.679 got into fitness when I was eighteen, Lanna Jane was 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:40.840 like the place that you shopped and I remembered him 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:42.800 like that was like the present that he used to 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:45.480 buy me some like tights and a bra from Lorna Jane, 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:51.120 and I like, I loved everything about like Lorna Jane 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:55.840 herself and whatnot. And so to have the opportunity to 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:59.960 shoot with Lorna Jane herself to shoot a maternity campaign, 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:04.840 I did think to myself, this opportunity only came up 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:09.919 because I was pregnant, and isn't that such an interesting concept. 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:14.800 I hadn't even let my mind think that when you're 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:17.080 you know, pregnant and your new mum, and you go 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:20.400 into this new journey, there's actually going to be new 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:25.199 opportunities that excite you. I had completely not even you know, 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:28.840 let that be a possibility. Another really cool thing that 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:33.359 happened was my Bloom collection with Pedal and Put, which 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:38.560 is very much about creating a bump friendly collection. So 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:42.959 obviously anyone who isn't pregnant can wear it also, but 0:18:43.040 --> 0:18:47.439 the whole thing was to create a collection that you know, 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:53.159 new moms and also pregnant women feel confident in. And again, 0:18:53.320 --> 0:18:57.760 I don't think that opportunity would have come up if 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:01.680 I wasn't pregnant. Another that's a huge thing too, is 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:06.119 I'm a bit of a control freak. Even though I 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:11.440 have the most amazing team at Naked Harvest, I very 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:15.600 much like I would call myself the creative director of 0:19:15.880 --> 0:19:21.679 Naked Harvest, and I very much yeah, even though I 0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:25.399 had a supportive team in the thick of it, didn't 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:28.840 like letting go of control. And so obviously a huge 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:33.399 thing since getting pregnant is putting things in place so 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:36.359 the team can run without me when I go on 0:19:36.440 --> 0:19:40.840 maternity leave, and at the moment we are like three 0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:45.080 to four months ahead. I've approved everything, Like if I 0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:47.520 was to go into labor next week, it would be 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:50.840 so fine. I wouldn't need to touch anything in Naked Harvest. 0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:56.320 And that is such a big difference compared to what 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:00.159 it was like previously. And I think when you are running, 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:04.720 you know, like a company, like a big company, it 0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:07.399 is important that you let go of control and you 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:11.760 surrender and it be able to run without you, because 0:20:12.119 --> 0:20:14.520 I guess that's you know, the difference between a small 0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:17.920 business and a company is you're not doing all the jobs. 0:20:18.080 --> 0:20:21.600 You have a team, you have support, and for a 0:20:21.640 --> 0:20:24.159 long time, I really didn't see how that worked with 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:28.240 Naked Harvest because I was so involved in everything. So 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:33.160 to have formed this new view where I was like, wow, 0:20:33.520 --> 0:20:36.359 like we've really set and like, don't get me wrong, 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:39.960 it's not just me going see you guys like have fun. 0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:43.320 I have set it up this way. I've worked with 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:46.199 you know, the NH team. We obviously have such an 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:50.040 amazing team. But that I guarantee you never would have 0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:52.840 happened if it wasn't like, well, I have to step away, 0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:56.239 so I have to set this up. So there's some 0:20:56.400 --> 0:21:02.800 like really cool like opportunities and like a next level 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:05.680 of success that I don't think, well it may have, 0:21:05.960 --> 0:21:09.160 but I don't think would have happened unless I was pregnant. 0:21:09.440 --> 0:21:14.679 So that's when I started to kind of be like, wow, 0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:21.240 it is so cool to you know, see me journaling 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:26.640 these limiting beliefs, disarm them, have these new beliefs around 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:31.639 possibilities and opportunities, and then reflect on my year and 0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:37.360 see that play out exactly, you know, with those new beliefs. 0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:41.399 So the whole point of this episode, guys is I 0:21:41.640 --> 0:21:45.640 want you to get out of your own way. If 0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:49.919 you currently have like, let's just think of, you know, 0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:54.320 your goals, what you're trying to attract, your next level 0:21:54.440 --> 0:21:59.280 you like, really get clear on what that is, but 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:04.520 also get clear on your limiting beliefs around why that 0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:08.960 can't happen now, why that can't happen super fast. Because 0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:11.160 a lot of people, you know, they will have these 0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:14.040 big goals, but they're like, oh, yeah, you know, well 0:22:14.080 --> 0:22:16.080 I can buy that house, but it will be two 0:22:16.160 --> 0:22:19.560 years time or you know, when I have to I 0:22:19.560 --> 0:22:21.480 have to do this first and then I can have 0:22:21.600 --> 0:22:24.920 that goal. And so I want you to really dig 0:22:25.000 --> 0:22:29.720 deep and look at your limiting beliefs because in your head, 0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:33.360 like for example, I think for me to believe that 0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:36.640 you have to slow down and do less when you're 0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:40.760 pregnant in your when you're pregnant and a new mum 0:22:40.960 --> 0:22:43.960 is completely normal. Like I feel like that's what most 0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:49.480 people think. Also, But how cool that I completely proved 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:52.760 myself wrong and when I look at my pregnancy like 0:22:53.119 --> 0:22:57.800 it's crazy. There's opportunities that have come up, the exciting 0:22:57.880 --> 0:23:00.960 projects that have happened, and how I have reached that 0:23:01.080 --> 0:23:05.119 next level of success in my own eyes with you know, 0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:08.960 making sure the business can run itself. And so that's 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:12.560 what I'm saying is I guarantee you you have some 0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:17.399 limiting beliefs around this goal, around your next level self, 0:23:17.440 --> 0:23:21.080 and it's time to dig deeper. It's time to prove 0:23:21.280 --> 0:23:25.320 yourself wrong and really kind of look at things like 0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:29.480 I think as humans, we do tend to see the 0:23:29.560 --> 0:23:32.680 negative in things like that's kind of our ego and 0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:38.560 also us just being you know, thinking things through. But 0:23:38.960 --> 0:23:43.000 it's like instead of thinking, well, that can't happen, or 0:23:43.600 --> 0:23:46.639 it can't happen now, or this, and that, it's like 0:23:47.240 --> 0:23:49.800 I guarantee you there's someone who has done the thing 0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:53.640 you want to do, you know, faster, Who has done 0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:56.960 it now, who has done it with less resources? Who 0:23:57.119 --> 0:24:01.440 has you know, really proven your limiting belief wrong. Go 0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:04.600 out and seek you know people through that, whether it's 0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:11.320 through podcasts or on Instagram, or just believing a new truth. 0:24:11.640 --> 0:24:16.000 So it's like the quote, whether you believe it or 0:24:16.040 --> 0:24:20.399 you don't believe it, you were correct. And so that 0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:24.159 quote really comes from the fact of just like I 0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:28.280 said in my head, if you know, I had believed 0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:30.760 that you had to go slower and you have to 0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:34.800 slow down, and you know certain things happen when you're 0:24:34.840 --> 0:24:38.200 pregnant and you become a new mum, and that definitely 0:24:38.240 --> 0:24:41.680 could have been my truth. But I chose a new belief. 0:24:41.720 --> 0:24:44.679 I chose to say, hey, you actually might have some 0:24:44.840 --> 0:24:48.960 cool opportunities, you actually might reach that next level of 0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:54.160 success or you know this and that, and now looking back, 0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:58.400 like that's completely what I have manifested. And that's what 0:24:58.520 --> 0:25:00.640 you know, we talk about all the time of creating 0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:04.639 your own reality, because whether you believe it's true or not, 0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:11.520 you are correct. So let's believe the positive beliefs. Let's 0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:15.200 believe the beliefs that are like one in the million, 0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:20.399 but they can be true rather than the typical oh well, 0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:23.119 I can't have that thing for this and that reason, 0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:25.639 or because I don't have this, or I need to 0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:28.879 do this thirst or you know whatnot. And it's okay 0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:31.560 to be human and to have those thoughts. But guys, 0:25:32.320 --> 0:25:36.120 like trust me, even just having this new belief will 0:25:36.160 --> 0:25:41.000 completely open your mind. It will completely open your subconscious 0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:46.199 mind too, and you will start attracting different things. And 0:25:46.280 --> 0:25:48.679 that's the whole thing. Changing your reality is like, we 0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:51.399 have to start with our beliefs. That's it's where it 0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:55.280 all starts. But yes, thank you so much for listening. 0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:59.760 I heard this episode was informative and helpful and I 0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:05.200 will I'll see my next one. Bye for now. So guys, 0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:09.080 I know in this episode I mentioned my Rise and 0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:14.560 Conquer six week manifesting and development course. This is a 0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:20.119 course that has changed thousands of lives and basically teaches 0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:25.359 you how to goal set, how to manifest, attract things, 0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:31.639 and do it in a very unique, flowy, easy, aligned way. 0:26:32.160 --> 0:26:36.520 The feedback from this course is it's life changing once 0:26:36.560 --> 0:26:39.280 you do it. Once you have these tools, you will 0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:42.639 use them for the rest of your life. 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