1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: the land which this episode is being recorded. We further 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, see 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: and community. We pay our respect to their elders past 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to the 7 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary 8 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome 9 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 1: back to the Riis and Conker Podcast. It is your host, 10 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: Jeorgie Stevenson, lawyer turn entrepreneur, business owner, new mum all 11 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: the things. Today we are chatting Lucky Girl syndrome. It's 12 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: currently trending on TikTok, but if you haven't heard of it, 13 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: don't stress. We're gonna share some snippets in the episode 14 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: and explain it all basically. The inspo for this episode 15 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: came last week after we had a chat in the 16 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: RNC Potty community Facebook group and we thought it would 17 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 1: be fun to talk about it on the potty. But 18 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: before we get into the episode, a quick little week 19 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: update A tea go for it hit us her Tea 20 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: is not prepared, even though she knows we do this 21 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: every time. 22 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: All I've done this week is like work. And then 23 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: my weekend was pretty chill. I did a nice ten 24 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: k walk on Friday with a friend is yeah, and 25 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: then I went to a musical on Sunday night. But 26 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna save mentioning that for Friday's episode because it's 27 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: also my recommendation. 28 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: Not what about you? How was your week? Yeah? Good? 29 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: It was an interesting week. I like to be, you know, 30 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: very transparent and honest with you guys, and look, last 31 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: week was a little it was a difficult one for 32 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: me personally. I had some stuff going into my personal 33 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: life and professionally, and god, I was triggered a lot. 34 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with the girls, and it's 35 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: just so interesting because I'm actually working with a coach 36 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: right now and we're doing a bit of shadow work 37 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: and I'm just it's like all my triggers and all 38 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: my you know, things were coming up, and yeah, it 39 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: kind of felt like the universe was just like throwing 40 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: all the tests the well more mirrors. It was like 41 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: throwing me the mirrors to have a look at some 42 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: of you know, the stuff that I'm dealing with personally. 43 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: So it was great because she did a lot of 44 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: personal development, but it was just a little bit exhausting 45 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: because it's like I'd resolve one thing and then bam, 46 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: something else would pop up. I'm like, stop, I'm literally 47 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: just trying to get through my week Universe, I know 48 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: you love me and I know you're supporting me. That stop. 49 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: But then I had really relaxing weekend. Oh that's good. 50 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: It was beautiful. So look, no complaints here. We love it. 51 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: We love doing the personal development work, which leads me 52 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: to guys. The project is currently open for enrollment, So 53 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: if you guys don't know what this is, this is 54 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: our seven week self development and Manifesting course. Basically, it 55 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: is a course where you get workbooks and a training 56 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: video and meditations, and what it's going to do is 57 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: really get you to unlock a lot of the shit 58 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: going on inside. It's going to unblock you from a 59 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: lot of like really amazing things. It's going to unblock 60 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: you from like like your true potential. It's going to 61 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: help you step into who you're meant to be. It's 62 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: going to help you, yeah, realize a lot of like 63 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: negative thought patterns that you need to reprogram, and then 64 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: it's going to give you also a full formula of 65 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: anytime you want something in life. So let's say you 66 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: want a promotion, or a material thing a car, or 67 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: maybe it's just like I'm really comfortable where I currently 68 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: am in life and it's ready for my next level. 69 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: You would then use this formula, you know, to go there, 70 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: and you will continue to use these practices and principles 71 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. Yeah, and I think 72 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: thanks to you. I think as well. 73 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 2: One thing it really helps me with is when I 74 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 2: start to feel like everything's just going wrong. I used 75 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 2: the project and a lot of the things I've learned 76 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 2: from the project to really get to the crux of. 77 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: Like what is causing this? Is it? 78 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: Because it's usually internal, Like your external is a reflection 79 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 2: of your internal, So really dig deep in myself of 80 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 2: what in my attitude right now I was causing all 81 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 2: these things to feel like they're just going wrong and 82 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: like nothing's going my way. And I know a lot 83 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 2: of people who do feel like that sometimes, So I'd 84 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 2: say the project is really beneficial if you're feeling that 85 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 2: way as well. 86 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: I love that so much and That's like, that's what 87 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: was really bittiful about last week because I really had 88 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: I think about it, and I thought, fuck before, you know, 89 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: before I had these tools and was able to work 90 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: through things, you know, something like that week would happen 91 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: and I'd have a full blown meltdown. Yeah, and I 92 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 1: would like not not recover and think, oh my god, 93 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: life so hard, full victim mentality. But instead, last week 94 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: I was able to be a step away and have 95 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: so much self awareness of oh this is this is 96 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: actually mirroring something to me that I need to work on, 97 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: not poor me. And I think when you go through 98 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: life constantly in this state of everything is wrong, it's 99 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: everyone else's problem, it's nothing to do with me, you 100 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: really give away your power. And it's like, you know, 101 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: we need the duality. We need the not so great 102 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: times to know the good times. But also if you 103 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: have the right tools and principles, the not so great 104 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: times can be navigated with grace. And yes, that's what 105 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: you know this work is all about, and that's what 106 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: makes the difference. And you know, the way I market 107 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: the course, like you'll see on Instagram, there's a lot 108 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: of like vision boards and you'll see things I've manifested 109 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: and all the sparkly stuff, and yes, that stuff is 110 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: just a byproduct when you know how to do this work. 111 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: But really the goodness is what you know you're saying 112 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: a tear of, Like when you can go through a 113 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: tough time and know how to work through it and 114 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 1: really like lead into the universe and be able to 115 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: trust yourself and trust that you're going to get through it. 116 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: That that aspect is life life changing, and like listening 117 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: to your intuition and knowing like kind of what you're 118 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: saying of, like knowing when you're out of alignment and 119 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: being like utilizing within yourself and being like, Okay, what's 120 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: not working, what's not working here, Let's go back to 121 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: the formula and let's like figure this out and get 122 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: back on track. Yeah, which is huge, But in Roland 123 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: is currently open. I literally put out my hands there, 124 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: Sorry to Rollman is currently open and we start on 125 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: thirteenth of feb so you've got a bit of time. 126 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm so bloody excited for this round. I'm 127 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: I might do it another episode, but I want to 128 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: tell you guys, like what I'm manifesting this round because 129 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm really excited for this round and yeah, you'll you'll 130 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: do it to a tire, so start thinking on that. 131 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: It's like compulsory for everyone in the RNC office to 132 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: do the course of their own. So we'll put a 133 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: link in the show notes. So if that is sounding 134 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:12,119 Speaker 1: like something you want to do, yeah, go and check 135 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: that out. Oh also, guys, I just wanted to let 136 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: you know the journals are over half sold out. Oh 137 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: my gosh, so get on that. Yeah. Wow, we were 138 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: not expecting that. We we thought we'd have it for 139 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 1: you know, the whole enrollment period of the project, so like, 140 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: you know, the whole four weeks, but they look like 141 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: they're dwindling. It's not great with the VOGUEAB today. So 142 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: if you want a manifestation journal along with the project, 143 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: or just you know, maybe you've done the project, or 144 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: you just really want to work on your journaling, don't 145 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: miss our life happens for you for me journals, they're 146 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: incredible and we're so incredibly proud of them. So I'll 147 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: put a link in the show notes for that. But 148 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: without further ado, let's get into the episode. So let's 149 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: break down what Lucky Girl Syndrome is and why it 150 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: may not work for you. 151 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 3: Oh, and how to make it work for you? 152 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 153 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: Does that sound better? No? I love it. 154 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 2: I think both because if you're not quite understanding what 155 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: it is, and I think just going off like some 156 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: of the tiktoks I've seen, people aren't quite understanding the 157 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 2: importance behind it and everything else. 158 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: I love it. Hang on, before we get into it, 159 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: let's play a snippet of what we're talking about with 160 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: the lucky girl syndrome trend on the tiki talkie. 161 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 4: So I am a born, a working class girl with 162 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 4: zero talent, and I've just watched a TikTok that explains 163 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 4: fully how I've gotten this far in my life. My 164 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 4: whole life, things have happened that I cannot explain, Like 165 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 4: I'll say things and they happen, like I'll be like, oh, 166 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 4: wouldn't it be great if when we go to Aaron 167 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 4: and a Grande weg a golden circle and it will 168 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: happen Like I've been at the back just watching bopping 169 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 4: along and someone comes up to me and gives me 170 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: a wrist band for golden circle. I have literally even said, 171 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 4: wouldn't it be great to have X amount of money? 172 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 4: And it has appeared. And it's not just me that 173 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 4: notices this, Like people in my life actually say to me, like, 174 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 4: you are so lucky. You say things and they just happen. 175 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 4: I've always considered myself lucky. Even when I was very, 176 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 4: very small. I remember thinking, oh my god, I'm so 177 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 4: lucky to be born in the UK. I'm so happy 178 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 4: to live in this family and be born into this 179 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 4: family with all of my toys and my nice mom 180 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 4: and dad. Literally grown up saying oh my god, I'm 181 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 4: so lucky, and people telling me how lucky I am. 182 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 4: And then I watch this TikTok and it's about lucky 183 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 4: girl syndrome. So lucky girl syndrome is where you say repeatedly, 184 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 4: like every day, I'm so lucky, things always work out 185 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 4: for me, and then they will actually fully start working 186 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 4: out for you and you will become lucky. And some 187 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 4: might say this is a Polacebo effect, But for one, 188 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 4: I don't think that's a bad thing, because you're always 189 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 4: in a PUSSI mindset. But two, how do you explain 190 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 4: the fact that I got this far in life with 191 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: zero talent and also how to explain the fact that 192 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 4: I just want a lottery draw again? 193 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: So guys, the context is like just you know, people 194 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: coming up on TikTok and saying, I have lucky girl syndrome. 195 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: I've always been lucky blah blah blah. It's literally just manifesting. 196 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,679 Speaker 1: Welcome to the club work. I know, I love it, 197 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: I was saying off to a tea. It's kind of 198 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: it reminds me of when everyone got into The Secret 199 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: and they thought that it was like this like wild, 200 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: different thing. But I'm like, oh, it's like, guys, guys, 201 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: this is manifesting. It's what I've been saying the whole time. No, 202 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: but I love it because it just it makes manifesting 203 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 1: and the concepts we literally talk about twenty four to 204 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: seven more mainstream, and that is good because you don't 205 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 1: feel like such a like weirdo if you talk about it. 206 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, to like your parents or something 207 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: like that. That's the vibes. And also I feel like 208 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: a lot of my RNC gang will be like, yeah, 209 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: I completely know what you're talking about, and it's funny 210 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: to watch this on TikTok. But I thought it would 211 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: be fun to talk about lucky girl syndrome and you 212 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: know why, you'll have it and why you won't. So 213 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: the big thing is like the caveat in this because 214 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: what's really cool about these videos is you can see 215 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: these people are really stepping into surrender absolutely, which is 216 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: one of the hardest concepts of manifesting. So they're kind 217 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: of doing it backwards, which I love because usually, like 218 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: in my formula, the way I teach it is surrenders 219 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: like literally right at the end. But a lot of 220 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: people get tripped up on it because of like growing 221 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: up and like hustle culture of like you need to 222 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: do the things and you need to control. And I'm 223 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: also a control freak, yeah as am I, Yeah, the same, 224 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: And so we get really stuck in the surrender and 225 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: trust because especially if you haven't grown up with spirituality 226 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: or religion, you you don't believe in the trust. And 227 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: I grew up at Jehovah's witness, but I remember always 228 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: like questioning it and being like, what do you mean 229 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 1: I'll go to a beautiful garden. I don't trust you 230 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: as a cynical job. Literally I was, because I just 231 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: I thought it was a bullshit. Oh my gosh, what 232 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: do you mean? This is the this is like a storybook? Yeah, 233 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: I had so I had trust issues with God. Anyway, 234 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: moving on from that something we can unpack like another day. Yeah, 235 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: but a lot of us have trust issues because we 236 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: just we haven't practiced it and we haven't sat in that. 237 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: And then also maybe we have evidence that things don't 238 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: work out, things always go wrong, and I'm actually very unlucky, 239 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: so it's hard for us to sit in surrender. So 240 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: I fucking love this trend because they're literally just like, nah, 241 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit fully in surrender and just things are 242 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: gonna come for me and that's amazing. And you'll find 243 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: like a lot of things will happen for you by 244 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: just doing surrender. So that's it's super super epic. But 245 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: the caveat here is if you haven't done the other 246 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: parts of you know, manifesting and like the full formula, 247 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: it won't always work out. Yeah, and what you'll be, 248 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: you'll be that person who's like, lucky girl, syndrome is 249 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: not real. I don't have it. 250 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: I don't have it. I didn't win that Instagram giveaway 251 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: and I wanted it. 252 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: Literally, Yeah, so this is the caveat here is. I 253 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: love it. It's like, let's sit and surrender and let's just 254 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: know things are gonna happen for us, but also let's 255 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: do the work, because this is the thing that is missing, 256 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: you know, with the trend. This is also the thing 257 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: that is missing with like the secret is they're not 258 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: telling you the stuff to do beforehand, which it's like 259 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: think of it as like prep work, the behind scenes, 260 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: behind the scenes prep work. So for example, you know 261 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: what we talk about a lot is like first all 262 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: you have to be like really clear on what you 263 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: actually want and who you actually need to be in 264 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: order to have that thing, you have to be able 265 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: to fully embody that person before you become that person. 266 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: And to fully embody that person, you need to work 267 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: through your limiting beliefs and you need to work through 268 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: your shit. You need to work through your shit and 269 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: really do the inner work so then you can get 270 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: to the point of surrender and you can get to 271 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: the point of sitting in that place of I know 272 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: I am so worthy of this thing. I know this 273 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: thing will just come to me. I literally have no 274 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: doubts in my mind. But also I know if it 275 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: doesn't come that something better is coming. Yes, And that's 276 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: what lucky your syndrome is, which I fucking love. You 277 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: gotta do them before its lutially. 278 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 2: And I think what you'll notice about people that you 279 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: find around you that naturally have lucky girls and Romie 280 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: saying quotation marks is that even if they haven't consciously 281 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 2: done the work as a manifesting process, I guarantee you 282 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 2: they've done the work on themselves in that they might 283 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 2: have gone to see a therapist, they might have a 284 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 2: life coach, they might journ, or they might be just 285 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: very open to getting better all the time. 286 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: Or they may have had like really conscious parents, Yeah, 287 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 1: did not give them limiting beliefs. Yeah, that's where we 288 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: fucking pick up a life shit people are at us. 289 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: So they might just like have super self aware conscious 290 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: parents who like were so conscious about like what sort 291 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: of things they were putting on their children. Yeah. 292 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely, And then we have like us, I love my parents. 293 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 2: That's like me and JB have this joke because literally 294 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 2: her mum is a medium. Yeah, and she's so self 295 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 2: aware and so like very conscious and so wo wo 296 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 2: I love her so much. 297 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: Shout out to Jules, we love you. Her dad's like 298 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: a life coach. And I was like, well, oh my gosh. 299 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 2: You're gonna be good at sea and Jamie, you're literally 300 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 2: brought up to do it. 301 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: But that's also like I totally agree with that. A 302 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 1: tea is like you don't know their background, you don't 303 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: know the inner work that they have actually done, or 304 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: maybe they just don't have a lot of limiting beliefs 305 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 1: and fucking happy for them. 306 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, actually, I was talking to one of 307 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: my best friends last night and she was telling me 308 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 2: about her boyfriend's family, and she's like, I don't know 309 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: what it is about them. 310 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 1: They're all just fucking lucky. She's like, everything works out 311 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: for them. How does this happen? 312 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 2: And I feel like it's just that family. 313 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: Not a lot of limiting believes it. I love that. Well, 314 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: that's even something me and Cooper laugh at all the time, 315 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: because a lot of people will discredit him in regards 316 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: to building Naked Harvest or what he has now just 317 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: because he comes from a background of you know, having addiction, 318 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: having gambling and alcohol addiction and really not being the 319 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: show up and integral person that he is now. And 320 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: then obviously you know, material things being a byproduct of 321 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: showing up in a different light and really doing work 322 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: on himself and so a lot of people say that, 323 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: you know, discredit him and say, oh, well it's because 324 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: you and Georgia went into business, and yeah, you're you're 325 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: on the pig's back or you're lucky. But it's like 326 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: what they don't realize is that time where things change 327 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: for him is when he started self development and it's 328 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: when he started doing the inner work. Yeah, and it's like, yeah, look, 329 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: if you really knew the inner stuff, you wouldn't be 330 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: saying or if you really knew what people had actually done, like, 331 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,959 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be saying they're lucky, no, or you wouldn't 332 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: be saying, oh, lucky your syndrome. You know, he isn't 333 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: a thing you just say they worked bloody hard or yeah, 334 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: like or you know, that's their subconscious beliefs are in 335 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: a way that gives them. Because that's also another thing 336 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: is like there's a lot of privilege, like I said, 337 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: in having super conscious parents who already at that stage 338 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: because you don't you buy pass that and that is 339 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: privilege for sure. So that's like another thing is they 340 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: just might have you know, that privilege and like amazing, 341 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:21,439 Speaker 1: but it's like you can still get to that point. 342 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: It's just we have to do these little this prep 343 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: work and this inner work beforehand, and it doesn't have 344 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: to be you know, hard. A lot of people are like, oh, 345 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: fuck that, because it's so comfortable to just stay where 346 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 1: you are and it's so comfortable to like not do 347 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: the inner work. I was literally having conversation with Ellie 348 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: and Jamie about this on a walk because some stuff 349 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: has come up recently, like in the child, stuff that 350 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: I know I need to deal with, and I just 351 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 1: said to them like, I just don't want to. 352 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 2: You just put it in the too hard basket. 353 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I know it like I will this year. 354 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: I will deal with it. But at the moment, like 355 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's just it's too much. It's like 356 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: it's too much. Where's like I will deal with it, 357 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: but it's like, even I do that, Yeah, it's so 358 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: easy to do that, but we shouldn't be doing Yeah. 359 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: And I think it's how you look at it too, 360 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: Like I remember, I think it was Ellie. Ellie put 361 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 2: up a TikTok where she spoke about how she can 362 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 2: always get a car park. 363 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 1: Yes, and that's a core. 364 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 2: Belief of hers, is that she gets a car park, 365 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 2: she gets the best car park and. 366 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: Does she literally does? 367 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 2: And then how she had to shift one of her 368 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 2: beliefs about money, because if she can hold on to 369 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 2: her core belief that she always gets a car park 370 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,959 Speaker 2: so strongly, why can't she hold onto one about money. 371 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 2: But one thing I noticed that she said is like, 372 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 2: sometimes I might have to drive around a little bit 373 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 2: or go around a few times before I get the 374 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 2: perfect cas spot. But when I get the car spot, 375 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 2: it's always perfect. But is it almost just your perspective 376 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 2: in that money struggles feel so much bigger, and it's 377 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 2: not just you driving around waiting for the perfect car 378 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 2: park to come. It's this whole hard thing that makes 379 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,439 Speaker 2: you feel like it's not for you of doing the work. Yeah, 380 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 2: But if you shift that belief and really sit in that, Oh, 381 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 2: I'm just driving around the block a couple of times, 382 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 2: but when when the perfect car spot is available. 383 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: It's mine. Yeah. 384 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: And it's not too far away, no, it's just around 385 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 2: the corner literally. 386 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. But it's that perspective of it's hard, yeah, which 387 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 1: is again, it's like a projection. It's a limitation, and 388 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: it's something we put on ourselves because we don't want 389 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: to do the hard stuff. I need to work harder. 390 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 1: I wish that was like a different word for it. 391 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 392 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I hope people are kind of understanding what 393 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 1: we're saying. That's so true. I love that because it's 394 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: funny because me and Ellie literally had a conversation that 395 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: morning on our walk. This is the fuck. A lot 396 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: happened on that walk, and she was saying to me 397 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: like she had, you know, money goals, and I kind 398 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: of called her out on something in a very loving, 399 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: compassionate and I was like, you know, something you always say, 400 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: Ellie is like, oh, I'm not good with money. I'm 401 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: a twenty one year old. I'm just I'm yelling with money. 402 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm a twenty one year old, Like I don't need 403 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: to save. And I was like, yeah, like, I've bought 404 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 1: my first house when I was twenty one, so that's like, 405 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: that's not actually correct. Yeah, that's just something you tell 406 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: yourself to make you feel better about your patterns. So 407 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: I was like, that's a limiting belief. I'm just letting 408 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: you know because it's not actually reality because I bought 409 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 1: a house when I was twenty one, and I saved, 410 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, I saved you know, a lot of 411 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: money on fucking six hundred k yeah, I mean sixty 412 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: k yeah. Wow. 413 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 2: I was like, if you were making six hundred k, 414 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 2: it's pretty easy, exact. 415 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: Buy it out right. I was not making six hundred 416 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: k yeah, no, sorry, sixty k a year when I 417 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: was a law aad and me and Tim Burder bought 418 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,479 Speaker 1: our first house together and so I said to her, 419 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: I was like, well, that's not actually correct, like that's 420 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: you know, a limiting and it's something you need to 421 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: reframe and do some work on. Yeah. And she was like, oh, 422 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: you really got me, got me. We And it's because 423 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: she said that's what people had reflected to her. So 424 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: when she talks about money, she goes, oh, my mum 425 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: will just say, oh, it's all good. You're twenty one. 426 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 1: My friends will say, oh, it's all good. When I 427 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: was twenty one, I was just you know, living the life. Yeah, 428 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 1: And it's so true. So you can you're always finding 429 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: an excuse. You will always find evidence to say, well, no, 430 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: this is my reality. And a lot of the time 431 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: our ego and our brain will really want to hold 432 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: onto that because it's uncomfortable to look, it's uncomfortable to 433 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 1: actually get deep and go, yeah, that's actually just an 434 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 1: excuse I give myself. That's that's the hard shit, but 435 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: also that's the good shit, where if you figure that 436 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: out and you do the work and you like actually 437 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: start unpacking this stuff, that's when you become the lucky girl. 438 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 2: One of my things that I hold really true to myself, 439 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 2: I don't even know if that sentence makes sense, Like 440 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,959 Speaker 2: a cool belief, Yeah, A cool belief of mine is 441 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 2: that whatever you want to prove, if you look deep enough, 442 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 2: the evidence is there, positive or negative. The evidence is there. 443 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 2: It's what you choose to look at. It's that story 444 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 2: of there were two men in a prison cell and 445 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: one would only look down at the mud, and one 446 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 2: looked up into the stars. It's all there in front 447 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: of you. The stars are there, the MUD's there. What 448 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 2: makes the difference is what you choose to focus on. So, 449 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 2: if you want to believe you're not a lucky girl 450 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 2: and things don't work out for you, there will be 451 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 2: plenty to show you that. I guarantee you there's plenty 452 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 2: of things that have happened to me in my life 453 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 2: that I could use as evidence towards proving that I'm 454 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 2: unlucky in the same token, there is just as much 455 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 2: evidence to prove that I am lucky, and that's what 456 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 2: I choose to look at, and that's what helps me 457 00:24:58,960 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 2: get further. 458 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: I love that so much. That is such a great point. 459 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: I'll even notice that of even if it's not evidence 460 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 1: from yourself, it's evidence from other people. Like I have 461 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 1: this reoccurring limiting belief that comes up with you know, 462 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 1: money and business, that it's like, if I make one 463 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 1: bad move, I could lose it all. 464 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 4: Ye. 465 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: And it's like this because if you think about it, 466 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: in every single movie, shit like that happens. Literally, I realized, 467 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: like in my head, I'm or I have this. Really, 468 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: it's funny. I'm just getting like a memory right now. 469 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 1: I have this a limiting belief around with money that 470 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 1: I constantly feel like I smack it out and then 471 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: it comes back in. And it's something I've got to 472 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 1: continuously work on. Is if you like a frivolous and 473 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 1: like silly with your money and you spend it all, 474 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: you know something bad is going to happen. And it's 475 00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: like from this weird like I can't remember the specifics, 476 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 1: but I remember, like my dad telling me a story 477 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 1: of like like a friend or a guy who owned 478 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: a business and he like wasn't smart with his money 479 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: and he spent all his money and then he lost 480 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: all his money and his fucking wife left him. And 481 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: it was like this oh my god thing that like, 482 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: you know, my dad has told me what I was 483 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 1: probably really young, and then so in my head, I'm like, 484 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, you you can't be I'm not even 485 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 1: joking with you. Like a lot of the time, the 486 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: evidence is not even you. It comes from these like 487 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:30,479 Speaker 1: random memories like movies. Yeah, fuck movie to be so 488 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 1: careful what you consume. That's actually I'm so about not 489 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: watching scary movies. I didn't watch horror movies or thrillers 490 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 1: or anything because I refuse to have any more evidence 491 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: of bad shit happening. Yeah, literally, don't you reckon. 492 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 2: I have watched one horror movie and one thriller in 493 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 2: my life. 494 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: That's it. 495 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 2: And after I watched both of them, I never again. 496 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm also a scaredy cat. I just like like that. 497 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: I don't enjoy it. But even like, that's why I'm 498 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: really about. I love of like sci fi movies and 499 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: like movies that are like so far out of the 500 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 1: realm of my life, like dystopian yeah, like Avatar, Yeah, 501 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: because it's like I could never reflection limiting belief. I'm 502 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: not even joking. 503 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,360 Speaker 3: This is like how far this shit has like gone 504 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 3: into my head of Like I also just like I 505 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 3: love when it's some other one with like the fairy one, 506 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 3: the twinks on Netflix winks winks. 507 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Sorry, Like I love shit like that 508 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: because it's so far out the realm of But this 509 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: is what I mean. You have to be so conscious. 510 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: You have to be so conscious of the influences you 511 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 1: follow and who you're scrolling on because if you think 512 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: about it, what about if you go on your phone 513 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 1: and every single person goes lucky. Your syndrome is not correct, 514 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: manifesting is not correct, you do not have control. Everything 515 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: is bad, blah blah blah. 516 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,640 Speaker 2: Like that's literally how they brainwash people A hundred Yeah. 517 00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 2: So it's like, be so conscious about what you're scrolling, 518 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 2: who you're talking to, and just what you're consuming in general, 519 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 2: because it starts building a program in your brain and 520 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 2: that is how you think and feel. And like a 521 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,880 Speaker 2: Tia said, if you believe it or not, you are 522 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 2: correct doesn't matter which way you go. I know which 523 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 2: way I want to go. 524 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 3: Me Do. 525 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: I feel like we were off really talking? Let's writing guys. Sorry, 526 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: so this episode is actually about surrender. So anyway, that's 527 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 1: my little take on Lucky girl syndrome. We hope you 528 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 1: enjoyed this, guys. In conclusion, yes, lucky your syndrome is 529 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:46,959 Speaker 1: a thing, but do not bypass the work and do 530 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: not discredit the work. Obviously, you guys know the project 531 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 1: is open where we literally do the work and we 532 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: give you the whole formula and the whole picture. So 533 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: you're not like randomly questioning or being like, am I 534 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 1: lucky girl? You will be a lucky year? You will? 535 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: You will, You can learn every like there's just like 536 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: you have to be so conscious about what you're consuming 537 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: and your thoughts and beliefs and your patterns because it 538 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: is your program, and you know it might be just 539 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 1: as small as cleaning out your program, reframing your program 540 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: a little bit, and it's really not as hard as 541 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: you think it might have to be. It's honestly shifting 542 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: like one or two like negative core beliefs will change 543 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 1: your life. Absolutely. 544 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 2: I have an idea, what is your top tip to 545 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 2: changing how you consume media like an immediate switch the 546 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: listeners can make right now to help them start consuming 547 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 2: more high vibe content. 548 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: Don't want just cameras, no joke. I So something I 549 00:29:54,560 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: do is I actually got Ellie too to everyone on Instagram. 550 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm not even fucking with you. I was like, can 551 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: you mute everyone and also just unfollow anyone that you think, 552 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 1: like what a random account? Yeah? And then I have 553 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: to physically go into Instagram and unmute the people that 554 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: I want to see on it. 555 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she muted everyone you follow? 556 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you muted a tear I'm checking. I was like, cool, No, 557 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,719 Speaker 1: so obviously I said not like close friends, family, and 558 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: you know, people that I want to see on my feed. 559 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: I'm talking about like influencers who are doing I know. 560 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: So she muted literally everyone. I love that. And then 561 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: I had to physical go in and seek out what 562 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: I wanted to see on my page. I love that. 563 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: So what like what's on there? Is? Like obviously a 564 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: lot of high by people I personally don't like following. 565 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 1: I was actually talking to a tear about this off air, 566 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 1: but I don't like following. You know, too many people 567 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: who talk about manifestation or talk about certain things that 568 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: I teach on because I don't want to ever you know, 569 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: copy those people will feel like a carbon copy. I 570 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: want to be able to teach and express on like 571 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 1: what I believe in in my unique and authentic way, 572 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: because I know that's how it's going to land. So 573 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: like I so I unmuted people who are like high vibe, 574 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 1: Like I got this like random girl in there who 575 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: like she just fucking dances all the time, and she's 576 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 1: just like I love that. People like that. Will you 577 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: see something and it's really nice. There's also like a 578 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: lot of like really positive mums I follow on there, 579 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: a lot of like aware parenting accounts that I love, 580 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: like their tips for ivy, a lot of food content 581 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 1: because I'm you know, back on the health train. A 582 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: lot of like gut friendly recipes and that sort of stuff. 583 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: So being like so so specific and also just a 584 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: little insight, I just don't go on TikTok because the 585 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 1: for you page gets me good every time, I really 586 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 1: really good. Like I will really really rarely go on 587 00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: there if I want to have a good TikTok sesh, 588 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: But otherwise, like yeah, like I'm just being so conscious. 589 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: What would your tip. 590 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 2: Be, Well, mine's actually similar. One thing I did was, 591 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 2: instead of muting because I didn't really have the time, 592 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 2: I went and favorited everyone I want to see yes, 593 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 2: and I now only utilize the favorites tabin Instagram. When 594 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: I'm on Instagram, I actually don't scroll on the feed. 595 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: I love that yeah so much. 596 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,680 Speaker 2: And that made a big difference. And one thing that 597 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 2: I really had to be conscious of was I let 598 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 2: myself obviously follow close friends and family that I genuinely 599 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 2: want to see their updates, and then also trivial sort 600 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 2: of accounts like couple meme accounts. 601 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: Some f one I love the f one content. 602 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,959 Speaker 2: And then also one thing that I got rid of 603 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 2: was people who were a bit self deprecating. What I mean, 604 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 2: you know, when you make fun of yourself, but you're 605 00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: kind of being mean to yourself, oh, like like skits 606 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 2: or something like skits. But then there's other comedians that 607 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 2: I used to follow where they'd like make fun of 608 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 2: their bad habits or like it's use your bad habits 609 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 2: or use negative things you do as comedy. And I 610 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 2: felt that that sometimes came into my mindset where I'm like, oh, 611 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 2: it's fine, Like it's that it's for the plot kind 612 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 2: of mindset of like it's just gonna be funny and 613 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 2: a good story, so I can do it. 614 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so self aware, toy. Yeah, I 615 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: had to pull. 616 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I obviously got rid of and unfollowed accounts 617 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 2: like that because that's something that I picked up I 618 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 2: did last year, which I don't want to. 619 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: That's amazing. I love that so much. And I think 620 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: also like just one thing to add on the lucky 621 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 1: girl syndrome, like just the biggest If there's one takeaway 622 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 1: you get from this episode, it's if you believe it 623 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: or not, you are correct. So like in the moments 624 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: when you are feeling negative or that won't happen for me, 625 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 1: I don't deserve that, you know, like if you can 626 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: just make that tiny shift to be like could happen 627 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: or like no, life actually does get to happen for me, 628 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 1: you know, and in those moments, like it's not one 629 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:19,320 Speaker 1: big decision where you make that decision and then something happens. 630 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: It's really really in the little decisions every single day 631 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 1: to think of. It's like it reminds me, you know 632 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: those people who they literally go to the worst case 633 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: scenario every time. Yes, And it's like, think for me there, 634 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: I used to be that person, so fucking draining those 635 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: people to me, I'm like, because they need and often 636 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,240 Speaker 1: it will be like an attention thing so someone can. 637 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,840 Speaker 2: Tell them, no, it's gonna be okay, You'll be fine, yeahah, and. 638 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 1: Like fucking pet them up. I used to be that 639 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 1: person to like so many other people, and they got 640 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: to a point where I was just like, nah, I'm 641 00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: not I am not surrounding myself with those people because 642 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 1: they It's like, it's so draining to constantly pep up 643 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 1: other people. Stop playing the victim, fucking pep up yourself. 644 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: Take some responsibility, I know this bit of tough love. 645 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 1: Take some responsibility for your life. Stop waiting for someone 646 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,399 Speaker 1: to come in and save you and tell you it's 647 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: gonna be okay and things will work out, and literally 648 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 1: give that to yourself. That is the difference between if 649 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: you have lucky girl syndrome or not. 650 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, almost like to stop asking why would it happen 651 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 2: and start asking why wouldn't it? 652 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, love this love lucky girl syndrome. So glad it's 653 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: a trend. You too, all right, my loves. 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