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Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda gem Nation.

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Speaker 2: You know how at Christmas kids open their presents and

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Speaker 2: the dads, the men buying large look just as surprise

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Speaker 2: as the kids too, because even though their name's on

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Speaker 2: the card, they have done nothing and I'm speaking stereotypically here,

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Speaker 2: to contribute to the thinking of what the presence will be,

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Speaker 2: the shopping, the wrapping, the putting under the tree. They

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Speaker 2: watch things being unwrapped and they smile as the children go,

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Speaker 2: thanks mom and.

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Speaker 1: Dad, Well he's probably paying for it, that's there.

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Speaker 2: Sorry. Do you know women work, Brendan, Did you know that?

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Speaker 2: Do you know women have jobs? Did you know that?

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Speaker 2: How interesting? It's happened for a few years. The same

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Speaker 2: goes with the food at Christmas, and they say, what's

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Speaker 2: the best gift your husband can give you at Christmas

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Speaker 2: is to actually contribute so you can have a nice

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Speaker 2: time night. But let's then get to birthdays. Because Christmas,

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Speaker 2: this happens and women are starting to uc up about

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Speaker 2: it at Christmas, but it happens with birthdays as well.

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Speaker 2: And when this is a family thing, that's one thing.

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Speaker 2: If you if you put a card, you do the shopping,

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Speaker 2: the thinking, the wrapping, the blah, blah, the gift and

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Speaker 2: both names go on the card. If that's within your family,

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Speaker 2: that's one thing. But you do it to me, I do. Well,

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Speaker 2: let's say, and we're not even family. It may surprise

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Speaker 2: you to hear I like that.

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Speaker 1: For example, visible we're family.

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Speaker 2: For example, we have the same agent, and she had

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Speaker 2: a big significant birthday reach she did and I arranged

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Speaker 2: some flowers. I thought of it. I thought, let's get

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Speaker 2: some flowers. I phone up, arrange the flowers, arrange the

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Speaker 2: flowers to be delivered. I put that on my credit card.

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Speaker 2: And you said, i'll go in on that, and you said,

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Speaker 2: here's fifty bucks. I said, well, the flowers are two

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Speaker 2: hundred and fifty dollars. And you said you've spent too much.

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Speaker 1: Well, then you waited.

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Speaker 2: Then you buy her something for fifty dollars. I was

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Speaker 2: happy to spend that much money just from me, well

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Speaker 2: to give her those.

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Speaker 1: Say this to you, if we're going to go in

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Speaker 1: on a gift, that's going to be it's going to

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Speaker 1: be agreed that you don't spend. You're like and John.

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Speaker 1: When you buy people gifts, you go crazy.

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Speaker 2: Here's my point. I didn't ask you to come in

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Speaker 2: on it. I was going to do that on my own.

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Speaker 2: You said, I'll go in on that. And then you said,

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Speaker 2: I'm only spending this. You don't get to put your

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Speaker 2: name on the card unless we go fifty.

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Speaker 1: That's reasonable.

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Speaker 2: And then yesterday our executive producer, Millie, who's a very

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Speaker 2: very good friend of mine, had a birthday, and I said,

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Speaker 2: we've agreed.

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Speaker 1: You think that I have the same relationship.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me just say we said this year at

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Speaker 2: work we weren't going to do presents, so separately, just

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Speaker 2: from me, I bought her a present and you said,

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Speaker 2: I did the thinking, I did the shopping, I did

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Speaker 2: the wrapping, and you said, put my name on that.

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Speaker 1: I said, do you want some money, I'll chip in.

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Speaker 1: I'll do that.

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Speaker 2: And I said and you said, here's fifty bucks, yep.

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Speaker 2: And I said, that's not going to cover half of it,

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Speaker 2: and not the half of it. And this debate then

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Speaker 2: kept going because you don't get to put your name

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Speaker 2: on the card. That makes it look like we've gone

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Speaker 2: fifty to fifty if we haven't gone fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 2: And you said, well, you've spent too much, and I said,

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Speaker 2: this gift isn't from you. It was from me. And

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Speaker 2: so if you want to spend fifty dollars on a

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Speaker 2: gift for Milli, you do that. But I'm giving her this.

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Speaker 2: But you said, nah, I'll go in on that. Put

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Speaker 2: me on the card, and then that's a universal discussion

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Speaker 2: between men and women. But then you went one step further,

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Speaker 2: which is what you were Jonesy. What I bought for

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Speaker 2: Millie is something that I don't want to make this

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Speaker 2: sound like an ad, but it's something I use as well.

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Speaker 2: It's an ledl like you put on your face. It's

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Speaker 2: supposed to make your skin feel good only when you're

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Speaker 2: wearing it. Hopefully that's not the result afterwards. But Milli

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Speaker 2: loved it. She opened it up. She'd had her eye

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Speaker 2: on buying one of these, and so here it was.

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Speaker 2: It was great. She loved it. I was thrilled I

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Speaker 2: was able to do it for her. And you said,

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Speaker 2: what's that And I said, it's an led light that

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Speaker 2: firms and tightens his skin. And I'm going to swear

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Speaker 2: here because this is what you said. That's a crock

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Speaker 2: of shit. So Milli has opened gift and that's Brendan.

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Speaker 1: I said, it looks like a crocod She yeah, It's

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Speaker 1: like that thing that warning had that made your hair

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Speaker 1: right back.

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Speaker 2: This isn't for you a question. The moment was a

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Speaker 2: birthday moment. A gift had been given and gratefully really

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Speaker 2: loved it. She was pleased to receive it. And you

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Speaker 2: felt the need in that small space to say that

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Speaker 2: looks like a crocod shit, yes you did? You know?

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Speaker 1: What did that costs? Not?

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Speaker 2: Not enough for you to go halves in the cart.

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Speaker 2: You Being with you when someone's having a birthday is

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Speaker 2: an exhausting process.

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Speaker 1: Kelly wore a mask in his skin look good.