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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam.

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Speaker 2: Nation married at First Sight last night. This is where

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Speaker 2: we gather around the rock water cooler and we talk

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 3: Well, you have to tell me because you know I

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Speaker 3: don't watch it.

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Speaker 2: Jack is the personal trainer.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you see the one with the man done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, apple, he's got a pineapple and he said, looks

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Speaker 2: like a little pineapple. He's with Tory, who doesn't want

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Speaker 2: any of her time to be wasted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, don't waste my time because I'm really off.

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Speaker 2: I love when people waste my time.

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Speaker 1: They're on a show where they're trying to waste as

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Speaker 1: much time as they can to become famous.

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Speaker 2: On Facebook marketplace. You're selling something, I say, is this

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Speaker 2: still for sale? And you go yep, and then you

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Speaker 2: never hear from them again. What are you just asking me? Anyway?

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Speaker 2: So Jack is the one that famously said muzzle you want.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Lawrence Cale and that became the story for weeks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, week, So Jack Jackson out of that particular five.

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Speaker 3: They've decided that's okay.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, We've moved on from So he's now been

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Speaker 2: dubbed in by John app. I will say this about Johnaho.

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Speaker 2: Johnno is the biggest dobber in the group. He constantly

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Speaker 2: jobs Jack's indiscretion.

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Speaker 3: So but why wouldn't he because they're not there to

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Speaker 3: be mates mates.

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Speaker 2: And Jack is relying on the bro code but're not bros.

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Speaker 2: This show, as I've said before, is exactly like Survivor,

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Speaker 2: and instead of getting an idle and two hundred and

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Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars at the end, you get a blue

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Speaker 2: tick from Instagram and possibly a deal from Max Markson

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Speaker 2: I don't know, hosting a podcast that could be what

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Speaker 2: you get.

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Speaker 3: It's like Survivor with better hygiene.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, very good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So anyway, Jack's walked out to the pool deck.

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Speaker 2: They're all on some retreat and he said to Johno

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Speaker 2: under his breath, for geez.

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Speaker 3: Look at all the whales here meaning fatsos, but meaning

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Speaker 3: people they know, other contestants. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So then they're sitting around the fire pit and

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Speaker 2: Johno decides to bring this up.

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Speaker 3: He's out for himself, isn't he.

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Speaker 1: He's out for a bit of screen time. I haven't

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Speaker 1: had a big storyline. I better tell everyone what he said.

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Speaker 2: Throw poor old Jack under a bar, and Jack has

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Speaker 2: tried to get out of it and it just it

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Speaker 2: just hasn't worked at all, and he's fobbing it off.

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Speaker 2: It's just banter. You know those guys that say something

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Speaker 2: incredibly insulting and I'm just joking. It's just joking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, it all came down to l Cinda. This

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Speaker 2: is the Byron Bay hippie marriage celebrant, and she summed

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Speaker 2: it all up. Jack jack tack tack tack. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: a ship stark.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's one bit of ship piled on another.

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Speaker 2: None of us, none of us what none of us

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 3: They don't want let me get this straight.

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Speaker 1: They don't want their time wasted, and they don't want

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Speaker 1: bits of pooh pole on top of other bits of

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Speaker 1: I like.

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Speaker 2: The fact that they they didn't beat the S word,

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Speaker 2: but beat the other word. So there you go. You're

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Speaker 2: up to speed, up to.

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Speaker 1: Speed because he did he say that the other contestants

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Speaker 1: were fatty.

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Speaker 2: There's one guy that lost a bit of weight and

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Speaker 2: he has body issues. And fair enough as well. You're

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Speaker 2: on that show with all these adonicas, it would be

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Speaker 2: it would be difficult.

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Speaker 3: And they made to sit around a pool in a cozy.

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Speaker 2: And they made to say, well and this guy doesn't

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Speaker 2: like taking his shirt off. You know, and I know this.

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Speaker 2: I used to be one hundred and twenty k when

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Speaker 2: I was young.

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Speaker 3: You know what you do.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting you wouldn't comment on someone's big weight would

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Speaker 1: You might say about them they put on a bit

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Speaker 1: of a condition, But you never say to you yes, look,

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Speaker 1: and I go and tell everyone that you said.

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Speaker 2: Okay, look at old mate. He looks like he's swallowed

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Speaker 2: a sheep. Everyone he just said.

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Speaker 3: But what you do is you you do use weight

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Speaker 3: as a compliment. You will say to see.

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Speaker 2: And someone's looking good and someone's lost weight.

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Speaker 3: No, you'll say.

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Speaker 1: What you do is whether they have or haven't. You'll say, well,

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Speaker 1: have you been working out? Have you lost weight?

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Speaker 3: Because you think that's what people want to hear.

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Speaker 2: Well, because I know because I used to be a

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Speaker 2: form of fatso and I know what it's like to

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Speaker 2: when you lose the weight because it's hard to do.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't happen overnight.

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Speaker 1: But you'll say to people whether they've lost weight or not.

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Speaker 1: You'll say, hey, have you lost weight?

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Speaker 2: Because I'll look good?

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Speaker 3: You think, No, you don't, you say you've lost weight?

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Speaker 3: You look good?

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Speaker 1: You do you equate those things. Let's drill down on

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Speaker 1: this because it's very interesting that you think the assumption

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Speaker 1: is everyone looks better when they're thinner.

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Speaker 3: No, well, that's what you say. That's what you say.

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Speaker 3: That's what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: Jay, right, Yeah, you got a right, Yeah, that's weight.

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Speaker 2: You look good.

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Speaker 1: It's wrong with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's been part of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know someone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Obviously if someone was unwell, I wouldn't comment on

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Speaker 2: their weight in any way.

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Speaker 3: But you otherwise.

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Speaker 2: I was raised by comment. He comments on everything you

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Speaker 2: do too, you comment on No, I don't. All I

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Speaker 2: do is it's to make you. I'm a hype man

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Speaker 2: for people.

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Speaker 3: But this is my point.

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Speaker 2: You're working and have you lost weight?

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Speaker 1: It's like that, it's the have you lost weight is

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Speaker 1: your go to compliment because you think everyone needs to

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Speaker 1: hear they've lost weight. So weight is equated with you

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Speaker 1: look good and as a compliment.

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Speaker 3: And we're kind of moving as.

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Speaker 1: A society away from everyone's body being commented on.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying complimenting someone by saying they've lost weight

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Speaker 2: is not a.

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Speaker 3: Compliment, not always, not always.

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Speaker 2: See if someone's unwell, as I said before, you don't

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Speaker 2: say anything.

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Speaker 1: But what we're saying these days is you're for people,

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Speaker 1: and particularly for young people. Is we're trying to stop

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Speaker 1: people equating weight with attraction with happiness.

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Speaker 2: I'll give an example. The other day you walked in

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Speaker 2: here in that nice orange shirt, and the girls he

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Speaker 2: is said, dear man, you look great. You've lost weight

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Speaker 2: and you were loving it.

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Speaker 3: That's belast they meant it.

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Speaker 1: You say it as if you say it as a

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Speaker 1: go to compliment, which I think is interesting. It is

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Speaker 1: it's like you say, your mum comments on people's weight.

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Speaker 3: You do too.

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Speaker 2: She's obsessed. I don't know what I thought you, but

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Speaker 2: she's obsessed with people's right. He's so tiny, so tiny.

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Speaker 1: My mother used to be obsessed with people's teeth because

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Speaker 1: mum's dad was a dentist and mum grew up in

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Speaker 1: the era where everyone had dentures.

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Speaker 2: And your mom knew me when I had terrible teeth.

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Speaker 2: That's her giant the way before she saw my good that.

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Speaker 1: She wouldn't have wanted to see more of her grandchildren

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Speaker 1: will stay around longer for any of those stories.

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Speaker 2: She missed your good teeth. I would have loved to see.

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Speaker 1: That's what That's what I'm going to get the weed

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Speaker 1: you board to get her to say, hey, Brendan, sorry

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Speaker 1: I missed your teeth.

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Speaker 2: You lost weight,