WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: BRITT GOT MARRIED!!! 👰 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 My heart podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:16.099 live on the Free iHeart app. 0:00:18.339 --> 0:00:21.738 A good pickup with Britt Hockley and. 0:00:21.619 --> 0:00:25.579 Laura Ben Rady, your work, our windows down. 0:00:25.859 --> 0:00:29.579 That's my world. Reason the dust only good rabs down. 0:00:30.659 --> 0:00:34.699 I don't much, but yeah, I know I'll big get 0:00:34.699 --> 0:00:35.659 and what I want. 0:00:35.939 --> 0:00:38.778 It don't matter where. This is the pick up. 0:00:39.299 --> 0:00:40.939 Hi, guys, Happy Monday. 0:00:40.979 --> 0:00:43.739 It's the pickup with Britt Secrets and Laura Burn. 0:00:44.139 --> 0:00:47.339 Yes, Brittany Hockley is no more. No, I actually am 0:00:47.379 --> 0:00:48.179 still Brittany Hockey. 0:00:48.259 --> 0:00:50.019 Stand down everyone, Britt is off the market. 0:00:50.059 --> 0:00:52.219 It finally happened after thirty seven years. 0:00:52.259 --> 0:00:54.019 I think if my husband Ben would say I was 0:00:54.019 --> 0:00:55.259 off the market for the last couple of years, but 0:00:55.339 --> 0:00:55.899 not officially. 0:00:56.019 --> 0:00:57.739 Now it's it's still not official. 0:00:57.779 --> 0:01:02.899 Actually that's true technic combined detailing. Yeah, thanks for that. 0:01:03.219 --> 0:01:04.259 I'm really struggling. 0:01:05.459 --> 0:01:06.818 I've had a few days off work. 0:01:06.699 --> 0:01:08.699 And I've forgotten how to speak. I've just been in 0:01:08.699 --> 0:01:11.699 too much time with toddlers. No, Britt, you got married 0:01:11.739 --> 0:01:14.619 in Bali. We obviously can talk about how amazing that is, 0:01:14.619 --> 0:01:16.659 but now that we're here, we're also going to talk 0:01:16.699 --> 0:01:17.338 about how it's. 0:01:17.179 --> 0:01:18.179 Not legally binding. 0:01:18.298 --> 0:01:21.299 Yeah, it was just a big show. Really, it was 0:01:21.339 --> 0:01:25.059 a suspicious soccer dance. No, because it's a bit too 0:01:25.139 --> 0:01:28.659 complicated to be honest. My husband Ben is fully Swiss, 0:01:29.098 --> 0:01:31.419 but he lives in Italy. I'm Australian living in Australia 0:01:31.458 --> 0:01:33.538 and we got married in Bali. There were way too 0:01:33.578 --> 0:01:36.699 many technicalities going on to make it legal, so we 0:01:36.779 --> 0:01:39.258 are just going to legally do it back here in Australia. 0:01:39.339 --> 0:01:41.779 Yeah, the paperwork gets signed shortly, but let's not you know, 0:01:42.139 --> 0:01:44.219 focus on that you got married. 0:01:44.139 --> 0:01:45.818 And it was starting with fake wedding. 0:01:45.899 --> 0:01:50.419 It was the most amazing wedding. Honestly, it was incredible. 0:01:50.659 --> 0:01:52.979 It was a three day extravaganza. I don't even know 0:01:53.019 --> 0:01:54.538 if we can call it a wedding. It felt like 0:01:54.539 --> 0:01:54.939 it was out. 0:01:54.859 --> 0:01:55.379 Of a movie. 0:01:55.419 --> 0:01:58.258 It was an immersive experience. Yet we got some burns 0:01:58.259 --> 0:02:00.259 from the fireworks. It was like we really wanted to 0:02:00.259 --> 0:02:02.258 make people feel like surround sounds. 0:02:02.379 --> 0:02:05.258 Also during the entire vows, it was done like right 0:02:05.299 --> 0:02:09.859 on a beautiful cliff top, like overlooking just expensive sea. 0:02:09.939 --> 0:02:13.059 There was nothing else except for all the people parasite. 0:02:14.739 --> 0:02:16.179 We were like in the middle of ours and a 0:02:16.219 --> 0:02:19.739 parasaler would come back and be like congratulations, were like thanks. 0:02:19.379 --> 0:02:20.219 And then they kept going. 0:02:20.459 --> 0:02:22.939 Yeah, there was quite a few parasailors. But look, someone 0:02:22.939 --> 0:02:23.619 else loved that. 0:02:23.739 --> 0:02:24.739 I love the parasites. 0:02:25.019 --> 0:02:26.939 It was a NonStop event. But someone else is gonna 0:02:26.939 --> 0:02:29.219 be dropping in on the show. We have your husband, 0:02:29.739 --> 0:02:32.139 ben Cegris joining us. He's right here in studio. 0:02:32.219 --> 0:02:34.219 He almost will. What I will say is he almost 0:02:34.219 --> 0:02:34.859 didn't join us. 0:02:34.899 --> 0:02:36.939 We got to the airport late last night to fly 0:02:37.059 --> 0:02:38.619 back and she was like. 0:02:38.659 --> 0:02:41.139 Visa, sir. He was like, what what do you mean visa? 0:02:41.339 --> 0:02:42.978 Didn't have a visa to get to Australia. She's like, 0:02:43.019 --> 0:02:43.939 you can't enter the country. 0:02:44.059 --> 0:02:47.539 Ben has been to Australia so many times and the 0:02:47.619 --> 0:02:49.899 first time he came across, which is when you guys met, 0:02:49.978 --> 0:02:52.059 he had a work visa that was organized for him, 0:02:52.099 --> 0:02:54.698 but just never realized he had a visa. So he's 0:02:54.698 --> 0:02:57.059 been coming back and forth and that visa expired. We 0:02:57.179 --> 0:02:58.619 will unfortunately. 0:02:58.899 --> 0:03:02.059 Yeah, that's just an indication of just how how much 0:03:02.138 --> 0:03:03.138 he did for the. 0:03:03.059 --> 0:03:04.779 Wedding we will talk about it a little later, or 0:03:04.779 --> 0:03:05.539 how much he didn't do. 0:03:05.659 --> 0:03:06.899 You know what, you should just be thrilled that he 0:03:06.939 --> 0:03:07.899 showed up because with. 0:03:07.859 --> 0:03:10.779 All the things you should be happy someone took you, Brittany, 0:03:11.538 --> 0:03:13.459 to be fair, with all the things that you talk 0:03:13.499 --> 0:03:15.379 about him not doing, he's the best. 0:03:15.538 --> 0:03:18.419 It's pretty evident that like showing up. I'm glad that 0:03:18.459 --> 0:03:20.099 he did that because that's really important. 0:03:20.138 --> 0:03:21.499 And he almost showed up fully dressed. 0:03:21.538 --> 0:03:21.858 It was great. 0:03:21.859 --> 0:03:23.219 We're going to talk all about it soon. 0:03:24.939 --> 0:03:27.219 We have such a special show for you guys today, 0:03:27.579 --> 0:03:30.739 especially for everyone here, especially you, britt because Brittany. 0:03:30.538 --> 0:03:31.299 Just got mad. 0:03:33.019 --> 0:03:35.979 Brittany, Why am I talking about Brittany and Thad person. 0:03:36.059 --> 0:03:38.859 I don't know. I got married. I cannot believe it. 0:03:39.139 --> 0:03:41.459 For everyone listening, you guys might not know this story. 0:03:41.579 --> 0:03:43.539 So Britta and I have been doing a podcast together 0:03:43.579 --> 0:03:46.019 for six years now. I have been there through all 0:03:46.059 --> 0:03:47.419 of your turbulent relationships. 0:03:47.419 --> 0:03:47.819 And when we. 0:03:47.779 --> 0:03:51.339 Started our podcast, Lafe and Cart, it was all based 0:03:51.379 --> 0:03:53.699 around sex and relationships, and a big part of that 0:03:53.779 --> 0:03:56.419 was Britt talking about her dating life and talking about 0:03:56.739 --> 0:04:00.099 some of the absolute monstrosities that she'd experienced in that time. 0:04:00.299 --> 0:04:02.339 How was a tumultuous time, a lot of red flags 0:04:02.539 --> 0:04:03.139 to navigate. 0:04:03.219 --> 0:04:06.259 Britt came back from her first date with Ben, and 0:04:06.299 --> 0:04:10.979 I heard about this Swiss, extremely tall footballer who lived 0:04:11.139 --> 0:04:14.779 overseas who she had had a one night stand with 0:04:14.819 --> 0:04:16.899 that kind of evolved into a few more days. It 0:04:16.939 --> 0:04:19.259 was supposed to be a one nighter, and then she 0:04:19.339 --> 0:04:22.619 drops about a week before Christmas that year, I'm gonna 0:04:22.659 --> 0:04:24.659 go over seas for a holiday. And I was like, 0:04:25.419 --> 0:04:28.219 I see what's going on here. And it wasn't until 0:04:28.339 --> 0:04:30.459 only a couple of days before that she actually admitted 0:04:30.499 --> 0:04:32.339 she was going over to see this guy that she'd 0:04:32.379 --> 0:04:34.259 hooked up with on a dating site for three days 0:04:34.299 --> 0:04:36.499 whilst he was traveling like two months with his team. 0:04:36.699 --> 0:04:40.979 And I said, this is the worst idea you have 0:04:41.099 --> 0:04:43.979 ever had. I was like, this is gonna end in disaster. 0:04:44.339 --> 0:04:46.059 Laura was like, do it, fine if you want to, 0:04:46.099 --> 0:04:47.659 but don't say you didn't toast to it's not gonna end. 0:04:47.659 --> 0:04:47.819 Well. 0:04:47.859 --> 0:04:49.379 I was like, do it for the content, but come 0:04:49.379 --> 0:04:51.139 home with a story and do not fall in love 0:04:51.139 --> 0:04:51.619 with this guy. 0:04:52.019 --> 0:04:55.299 Now look at us. Now we're literally getting married. You 0:04:55.379 --> 0:04:56.059 are married. 0:04:56.419 --> 0:05:00.699 Oh yeah, well look we've been through the journey with you, Britt. 0:05:00.779 --> 0:05:02.939 Everyone here at the pickup but also across life on 0:05:03.019 --> 0:05:06.099 cut the pot as well, and it's been such a 0:05:06.099 --> 0:05:08.059 beautiful love story to be able. 0:05:07.819 --> 0:05:08.979 To witness, to be able to. 0:05:08.899 --> 0:05:11.419 Be in a small way a part of And you know, 0:05:11.459 --> 0:05:13.539 I only did it laws just so srees I can 0:05:13.539 --> 0:05:14.139 say told you so. 0:05:14.819 --> 0:05:15.779 I don't actually like the. 0:05:15.699 --> 0:05:17.899 Guy, just I was just like, yes, anything. 0:05:18.219 --> 0:05:18.459 Do you know? 0:05:18.539 --> 0:05:20.819 I'm also okay with saying when I'm wrong, and I 0:05:20.939 --> 0:05:24.299 was very wrong. But we have put together a little 0:05:24.339 --> 0:05:28.019 recap of the last few years of your love story, 0:05:28.059 --> 0:05:30.819 not just yours of Ben and how you guys met, 0:05:30.979 --> 0:05:33.099 but also just some of the some of the ups 0:05:33.139 --> 0:05:34.339 and downs along the way. 0:05:34.499 --> 0:05:35.299 Have a listened to this. 0:05:36.779 --> 0:05:41.019 In twenty eighteen, a young, vibrant Brittany Hockley brave to 0:05:41.059 --> 0:05:44.019 reality television seeking love on The Bachelor. 0:05:44.539 --> 0:05:46.579 Definitely the most vulnerable I've ever felt. 0:05:46.339 --> 0:05:49.259 Where she would make Bachelor history when the honey Budgert 0:05:49.339 --> 0:05:49.899 picked No. 0:05:49.939 --> 0:05:52.179 One Strong feelings for you, Brittany. 0:05:52.379 --> 0:05:56.379 When I say those three words, I won't really mean. 0:05:56.259 --> 0:06:00.059 It right now. I can't give one hundred percent off 0:06:00.139 --> 0:06:00.499 me to. 0:06:00.459 --> 0:06:03.099 You, So you're all wake up. 0:06:04.699 --> 0:06:06.179 It's kind a bit brightest day. 0:06:06.419 --> 0:06:10.019 After an unsuccessful attempt of finding love on television, Brittany 0:06:10.059 --> 0:06:12.379 Hockley found Hope woke up. 0:06:12.539 --> 0:06:14.379 They literally sat up out of bed, and I thought, 0:06:14.419 --> 0:06:16.379 today's the day I'm going to get back on the horse. 0:06:16.459 --> 0:06:18.619 And I thought, you know what, I'm going to have 0:06:18.699 --> 0:06:20.899 my first ever one night stand. And so I went 0:06:20.939 --> 0:06:25.939 on RAYA this like six foot six beautiful Swiss man 0:06:26.219 --> 0:06:29.219 that was here playing football like he was a professional athlete. 0:06:29.379 --> 0:06:31.459 So I swiped right. We matched. 0:06:31.659 --> 0:06:34.499 We talked for about half an hour, so he came over. 0:06:34.859 --> 0:06:37.459 Eventually we got down to n Enny Gritty, hooked up. 0:06:37.619 --> 0:06:39.819 It was amazing, and then he tried to go, and 0:06:39.859 --> 0:06:42.219 as he was leaving, I thought, I'm never going to 0:06:42.259 --> 0:06:44.739 see this guy again. Then the next day he messages 0:06:44.779 --> 0:06:46.139 me and he's like, yeah, do you want to see 0:06:46.139 --> 0:06:46.659 each other again? 0:06:46.899 --> 0:06:48.939 I've got a bit of time, And I was like, yeah, right. 0:06:49.099 --> 0:06:50.939 We just fell in love from the very beginning. 0:06:51.339 --> 0:06:53.499 But not all was smooth sailing. 0:06:53.659 --> 0:06:55.779 I'm in my first argument with my new boyfriend Ben. 0:06:55.939 --> 0:06:58.819 So we've been dating for about four months now. I 0:06:58.939 --> 0:07:01.499 had facetimed Ben because he'd asked me something. 0:07:01.379 --> 0:07:03.299 So we're having a quick conversation. There was all this 0:07:03.539 --> 0:07:05.779 urgency because back on air twenty. 0:07:05.539 --> 0:07:08.379 Seconds I signed off really quickly on a phone call, 0:07:08.379 --> 0:07:09.699 and I was a bit panicky, so. 0:07:09.619 --> 0:07:11.299 I was like, okay, I to go go to go 0:07:11.379 --> 0:07:12.259 love you bye. 0:07:12.299 --> 0:07:14.579 And then I hung up the phone and I said, 0:07:14.619 --> 0:07:16.379 oh my god, I've just said I love you. Two 0:07:16.379 --> 0:07:18.379 seconds later, I get a text did you just say 0:07:18.379 --> 0:07:21.059 I love you? And I did what any normal woman 0:07:21.059 --> 0:07:23.459 would do, and I gas lipped him and I said, 0:07:22.979 --> 0:07:25.059 I did not say that, yes, lie. 0:07:25.139 --> 0:07:26.739 Two weeks later he said I. 0:07:26.659 --> 0:07:28.979 Love you in another language, but I knew what he 0:07:29.099 --> 0:07:31.859 was saying. So now we're in this argument about who 0:07:31.899 --> 0:07:32.939 said they love him first. 0:07:33.459 --> 0:07:35.499 What doesn't kill your exercise? 0:07:35.739 --> 0:07:38.539 Turns out they were both in love, and their relationship 0:07:38.619 --> 0:07:41.659 grew from strength to strength until one day she had 0:07:41.699 --> 0:07:44.219 some exciting news to share with the pickup team and 0:07:44.339 --> 0:07:45.579 Life Uncut community. 0:07:46.339 --> 0:07:48.339 I've been single for the better part of ten years, 0:07:48.379 --> 0:07:50.459 and I was always a single friend watching all my 0:07:50.499 --> 0:07:53.219 friends fall in love, which made me so happy, but 0:07:53.259 --> 0:07:55.619 it was definitely hard, and I started to think maybe 0:07:55.619 --> 0:07:56.259 it wasn't for me. 0:07:56.459 --> 0:07:57.219 Oh love Love. 0:07:57.539 --> 0:07:59.779 Then in twenty twenty two, I met this amazing guy, 0:07:59.819 --> 0:08:00.979 but he lived overseas. 0:08:01.499 --> 0:08:02.179 My friends were. 0:08:02.099 --> 0:08:04.859 Really concerned because long distance is never easy and I've 0:08:04.859 --> 0:08:08.179 always had commitment issues. But this time it felt different 0:08:08.299 --> 0:08:10.539 and I thought he was worth it. Flash forward to 0:08:10.619 --> 0:08:13.139 now and I've never been happier. And last week on 0:08:13.179 --> 0:08:15.459 a beautiful island, he asked me to be his wife. 0:08:15.539 --> 0:08:15.619 You. 0:08:15.979 --> 0:08:17.659 I just want to know, what's a cute way to 0:08:17.659 --> 0:08:19.499 tell my friends that I'm getting married? 0:08:25.939 --> 0:08:28.379 Moment so long? 0:08:30.779 --> 0:08:32.699 Please you? 0:08:32.779 --> 0:08:40.019 Please you, oh brit Also it gets me at the air, 0:08:40.099 --> 0:08:41.899 It gets me at the end. 0:08:41.939 --> 0:08:43.619 When I told you, guys, it was like the most 0:08:43.659 --> 0:08:44.459 wholesome moment. 0:08:44.619 --> 0:08:47.578 Here we are a couple of days post wedding and 0:08:48.179 --> 0:08:52.659 incredibly so your your international I was gonna say, boyfriend, husband, 0:08:52.659 --> 0:08:54.419 I'm not even used to it yet is here in 0:08:54.459 --> 0:08:57.739 the studio and he's going to be joining us next now. 0:08:57.779 --> 0:09:00.579 If you are just tuning in, it is a very 0:09:00.779 --> 0:09:01.859 big show today. 0:09:02.179 --> 0:09:03.379 Hit the wedding music. 0:09:04.299 --> 0:09:07.339 That is because after thirty seven years on this planet, 0:09:07.579 --> 0:09:10.339 Brittany or should we say Secrets, has. 0:09:10.259 --> 0:09:11.699 Finally got married. 0:09:13.019 --> 0:09:16.099 And to get married, you also usually need another person 0:09:16.179 --> 0:09:18.699 to join you. And the person who stepped up to 0:09:18.739 --> 0:09:19.979 the plate for that is Ben. 0:09:20.139 --> 0:09:21.979 I took one for the team. I took on for 0:09:22.019 --> 0:09:23.219 the team, thank god. 0:09:23.819 --> 0:09:26.819 In one sentence, stepped up to the plate and took 0:09:26.939 --> 0:09:27.979 one for the team. 0:09:28.059 --> 0:09:28.899 You guys make sense. 0:09:29.019 --> 0:09:29.939 I'm a charity case. 0:09:30.059 --> 0:09:30.619 Very accurate. 0:09:30.739 --> 0:09:32.939 I do need to correct you, Laura, you actually don't 0:09:32.979 --> 0:09:35.659 need someone else to get married. You can marry yourself 0:09:35.779 --> 0:09:37.139 or an inanimate object. 0:09:37.339 --> 0:09:39.139 I don't know if you can legally do those things. 0:09:39.179 --> 0:09:42.819 We've definitely covered a couple of crazy segments on this 0:09:42.859 --> 0:09:45.459 show where someone married a dolphin and a bridge. But 0:09:45.579 --> 0:09:48.699 I'm really thoroughly thrilled that you actually married a human, Britt, 0:09:48.699 --> 0:09:50.939 and he is right here, So Ben, welcome to the show. 0:09:51.099 --> 0:09:52.819 Thanks guys, good to see you again. 0:09:52.899 --> 0:09:57.939 How do you feel as a husband. It's really let's 0:09:57.979 --> 0:09:59.979 get into the highlights. How are you feeling as a husband? 0:10:00.419 --> 0:10:01.218 Yeah? 0:10:01.419 --> 0:10:05.338 Same, really but we had incredible time, so really really happy, 0:10:05.619 --> 0:10:06.459 A little bit tired. 0:10:06.579 --> 0:10:08.419 Yeah, do you know what I do want to know? Ben? 0:10:08.579 --> 0:10:11.419 I heard that you showed up to your own wedding 0:10:11.979 --> 0:10:15.019 without any pants to wear to said wedding. You had 0:10:15.019 --> 0:10:17.458 a year to organize a suit and it was the 0:10:17.499 --> 0:10:21.579 one thing that Britt was constantly fearful about. And come 0:10:21.659 --> 0:10:24.499 said wedding day, somebody didn't have pants. 0:10:24.499 --> 0:10:28.059 Before I let him speak, I just want to set 0:10:28.059 --> 0:10:29.659 it up. Not only did he have a year. 0:10:30.299 --> 0:10:32.179 He left it until the last week before the wedding, 0:10:32.259 --> 0:10:34.979 and I had to still organize it for him, so 0:10:35.299 --> 0:10:35.939 his job. 0:10:35.819 --> 0:10:38.819 Was just to get dressed. So talk to us about 0:10:38.859 --> 0:10:39.379 how that went. 0:10:39.459 --> 0:10:39.659 Ben. 0:10:39.939 --> 0:10:43.579 Yes, my pants shrunk, which is not ideal when your 0:10:43.619 --> 0:10:45.539 legs are the size of my legs. 0:10:45.579 --> 0:10:47.899 But it was all fine. Nobody noticed. 0:10:48.099 --> 0:10:50.259 I'm not sure how you got this information because it 0:10:50.299 --> 0:10:54.259 was very secret with my groomsmen. But yes, there were 0:10:54.259 --> 0:10:57.139 some safety pins in my pants. But it's all fine. 0:10:57.299 --> 0:10:59.739 Nobody got stung. Nobody noticed except for you. 0:10:59.739 --> 0:11:03.219 Laura, And we need to set this up. You can't 0:11:03.219 --> 0:11:05.299 just say my pants shrunk. It's not like Doctor Doolittle 0:11:05.339 --> 0:11:08.019 or whatever that show was, Honey, I shrunk the kids. 0:11:08.019 --> 0:11:09.779 Sorry, really different shows. 0:11:10.819 --> 0:11:11.899 Okay, let me say this up. 0:11:12.139 --> 0:11:15.219 Ben decided to wear his wedding suit the week before 0:11:15.259 --> 0:11:16.578 to someone else's wedding. 0:11:16.339 --> 0:11:18.659 And I said, baby, efficient, Swiss efficiency. 0:11:18.779 --> 0:11:20.819 I said, baby, let's maybe like save the wedding suit 0:11:20.819 --> 0:11:23.259 for the big day and like get you a different suit. 0:11:23.259 --> 0:11:25.339 And no, Ben just wants to road test and I 0:11:25.419 --> 0:11:25.619 like that. 0:11:26.139 --> 0:11:28.019 He goes, no, no, no, no, no, no, just fine, it's fine, 0:11:28.019 --> 0:11:28.379 it's fine. 0:11:28.419 --> 0:11:31.459 Anyway, he gets it dirty we get to Bali, I said, 0:11:31.499 --> 0:11:35.099 you have to dry clean this suit three days in advance, 0:11:35.099 --> 0:11:36.099 because that's how long it takes. 0:11:36.219 --> 0:11:37.859 Do not forget to give it to the hotel and 0:11:37.859 --> 0:11:40.619 send it off, Babe, please, I've got this. 0:11:41.259 --> 0:11:42.939 So two days before the wedding, I say, hey, did 0:11:42.939 --> 0:11:45.579 you dry clean the suit? He's like, I forgot. He 0:11:45.659 --> 0:11:47.419 goes to try and do it, and he's like, babe, problem. 0:11:47.419 --> 0:11:49.059 They say it's going to take three days. I said, 0:11:49.099 --> 0:11:51.218 I know, Ben, the weddings in two days. So Ben 0:11:51.259 --> 0:11:54.259 starts splashing money around someone eventually says I'll do it. 0:11:54.819 --> 0:11:58.139 He gets the suit back an hour before we're supposed 0:11:58.179 --> 0:12:00.139 to walk down. He can't get it on because it's 0:12:00.179 --> 0:12:01.819 like it's like jeggings. 0:12:01.859 --> 0:12:03.819 Did you check it, like when it came back from 0:12:04.099 --> 0:12:05.459 the Balinese dry cleaner? 0:12:05.499 --> 0:12:06.939 Did you think I might look at this? 0:12:07.939 --> 0:12:10.179 I sh I cleaned as well, but it's some backup shirt. 0:12:10.259 --> 0:12:12.578 And I thought, okay, everything's in order, brilliant, done it, 0:12:12.699 --> 0:12:15.019 but it's going to be happy super And once I 0:12:15.059 --> 0:12:17.099 actually looked at them put them on, I was like, 0:12:17.339 --> 0:12:18.299 they're not my pants. 0:12:18.339 --> 0:12:19.019 They're too small. 0:12:19.179 --> 0:12:19.739 They didn't fit. 0:12:19.859 --> 0:12:22.659 They didn't fit, so yeah, I had to stretch them 0:12:22.699 --> 0:12:23.819 out a little bit and. 0:12:24.339 --> 0:12:25.499 Add emergency length. 0:12:25.619 --> 0:12:27.139 It's like so like add. 0:12:27.019 --> 0:12:27.699 Length to the bottom. 0:12:27.859 --> 0:12:30.059 Twenty minutes before we walked down the aist, I had 0:12:30.059 --> 0:12:31.819 the tailor come in and so it's all done. We're 0:12:31.859 --> 0:12:34.939 all done at about five centimeters added. And I think 0:12:34.979 --> 0:12:37.779 the wedding planner came to measure my waist and my 0:12:37.859 --> 0:12:40.099 jeans to buy a backup pants. 0:12:40.099 --> 0:12:42.859 By pack pants, so he couldn't get the zipper up either. 0:12:42.979 --> 0:12:43.579 So I did. 0:12:43.659 --> 0:12:45.259 I did see. I mean I had a pretty front 0:12:45.339 --> 0:12:45.739 row seat. 0:12:45.739 --> 0:12:46.499 Where are you looking? 0:12:47.059 --> 0:12:48.819 And I see that your. 0:12:48.659 --> 0:12:52.419 Pants were safety pin together at the floor. You couldn't 0:12:52.419 --> 0:12:54.979 tell that they were safety pin but the zipper wasn't zippering. 0:12:55.059 --> 0:12:56.659 At that point, I was like, something's going on. 0:12:56.939 --> 0:12:59.179 Sipper was stuck and there was no way to unstuck them. 0:12:59.259 --> 0:13:01.539 So his one job of just putting the pants on 0:13:02.099 --> 0:13:05.939 somehow managed to end up with you having no pants 0:13:05.939 --> 0:13:07.219 that fit their skin tight. 0:13:07.539 --> 0:13:09.139 They're done up with safety pins. 0:13:09.699 --> 0:13:12.259 It was you that was authentically me. 0:13:12.899 --> 0:13:15.339 You really kick started your responsibilities. 0:13:15.579 --> 0:13:19.099 You did make it, and you did look amazing. Actually 0:13:19.179 --> 0:13:22.699 then you looked amazing, Britney. You also looked amazing. Very important, 0:13:22.779 --> 0:13:24.299 I know, that how much effort went into what you 0:13:24.339 --> 0:13:24.819 were wearing. 0:13:25.259 --> 0:13:26.659 Ben. Not only was it the. 0:13:26.699 --> 0:13:29.619 Zipper and the pants, but also five days beforehand we 0:13:29.659 --> 0:13:31.899 discovered that your ring didn't fit you either, which had 0:13:31.939 --> 0:13:34.899 to be completely remade from scratch in five days. So like, 0:13:35.179 --> 0:13:37.979 I love with all the time that you had between 0:13:38.019 --> 0:13:38.699 you guys. 0:13:38.419 --> 0:13:41.099 To get this organized, Ben, you were the weeks you 0:13:41.259 --> 0:13:41.859 really were. 0:13:42.219 --> 0:13:44.299 I mean, is that any surprise really? Yeah? 0:13:44.379 --> 0:13:47.979 No, But to be fair and it's absolutely no surprise. 0:13:48.059 --> 0:13:51.139 The wedding was incredible. 0:13:51.539 --> 0:13:53.859 It was like it was out of a movie or 0:13:53.899 --> 0:13:54.539 a fairy tale. 0:13:54.619 --> 0:13:56.578 It was really the most beautiful wedding that I think 0:13:56.579 --> 0:13:59.139 I've ever seen. I would count mind in that as well. 0:13:59.219 --> 0:14:02.419 It was stunning your wedding, It was amazing. 0:14:02.539 --> 0:14:05.499 It was like I say, went off without a hitch. 0:14:05.619 --> 0:14:08.499 There were hitches. Did our photographer cancel five days before? 0:14:08.499 --> 0:14:08.619 Oh? 0:14:08.659 --> 0:14:10.979 Yeah, did our ring not work? We wasted it? Yes? 0:14:10.979 --> 0:14:11.939 Did you have pants? No? 0:14:13.139 --> 0:14:15.859 Did our cake turn up like something we didn't order 0:14:15.859 --> 0:14:17.739 and it was a little burnt, little crispy breakfast. 0:14:17.819 --> 0:14:19.579 Yes, there were things that happened. 0:14:19.699 --> 0:14:21.819 But at the end of the day, I married the 0:14:21.819 --> 0:14:23.659 love of my life with or without pants. 0:14:23.699 --> 0:14:28.659 I wasn't taking you anyway. Bit, so it was spectacular. 0:14:30.259 --> 0:14:32.979 Then what was it like seeing Britt for the very 0:14:32.979 --> 0:14:34.899 first time wearing her dress? 0:14:35.299 --> 0:14:38.659 Yeah, so I don't tend to show emotions. You're a 0:14:38.699 --> 0:14:40.939 bit of heart, so I'm a bit of it. Yeah so, no, 0:14:41.019 --> 0:14:41.899 it was all set up. 0:14:41.979 --> 0:14:44.699 We wanted to do a first look really in private 0:14:44.739 --> 0:14:47.019 to make sure we have that moment for ourselves, but 0:14:47.059 --> 0:14:49.259 then also have time with our guests and everything. And 0:14:49.459 --> 0:14:53.219 she looked amazing. The dress was bigger than I ever 0:14:53.219 --> 0:14:54.139 could have imagined. 0:14:54.259 --> 0:14:56.259 She looked the dress was enormous. 0:14:56.379 --> 0:14:57.579 It was humongous, wasn't it? 0:14:57.739 --> 0:14:59.579 And uh, wekle go home, That's what I thought. 0:15:00.019 --> 0:15:02.499 And you were beautiful. It was a beautiful day. You 0:15:02.539 --> 0:15:05.459 looked stunning and you were so happy. I could tell 0:15:05.459 --> 0:15:07.459 you were so happy. And yes, I was a little 0:15:07.499 --> 0:15:08.099 bit emotional. 0:15:08.899 --> 0:15:11.779 I was giggling and Ben was crying and it just 0:15:11.819 --> 0:15:13.579 didn't match. 0:15:13.779 --> 0:15:15.819 It was basically the same as when I proposed. She 0:15:15.899 --> 0:15:18.899 just couldn't stop laughing. I was like, did cry you know, 0:15:19.139 --> 0:15:21.299 give me an answer, but yeah. 0:15:21.059 --> 0:15:23.179 I know you cried at the end of the aisle 0:15:23.179 --> 0:15:25.419 when Britt was walking down the aisle, And for a 0:15:25.459 --> 0:15:27.419 lot of weddings, that's the first time that the groom 0:15:27.459 --> 0:15:28.259 sees the bride on the day. 0:15:28.299 --> 0:15:30.019 But you guys did things a little bit differently. You 0:15:30.059 --> 0:15:30.739 had the night. 0:15:30.619 --> 0:15:32.579 Together and then you did the first look, which was 0:15:32.619 --> 0:15:33.659 before everyone arrived. 0:15:33.939 --> 0:15:36.139 Yeah, so we spend the night together because we live 0:15:36.179 --> 0:15:36.859 apart anyway. 0:15:36.859 --> 0:15:38.699 Ben lives over in Italy, so I didn't want to 0:15:38.699 --> 0:15:41.219