WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Back ups, Bills and Bed Side Manner 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.600 elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.399 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.360 recorded on de rug Wallamuta Land. 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:25.160 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:29.520 on Cut. Laura, I know if someone slipped or something 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:31.880 in a drink? What is wrong with you? 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.360 I'm in such a good brood, which I shouldn't be. 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:36.559 I should you should be, but this isn't. I don't 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:38.240 think this is a good mood. I fact, you're loopy, 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:39.920 like I've lost the put. 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:43.840 It finally happened after four and a half years. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:45.760 Oh oh wait, you think you haven't lost a plot 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:48.600 before this moment? That is in correct, That is entirely inaccurate. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:50.440 No, I had a real doozy of the day yesterday. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.640 I had a lot of tears. And then you know 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:54.760 when you're upset and you have like a bad day. 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:58.080 I'll explain the bad day another day. Today's not the day. 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:02.400 You can't bread crumb You're crazy and not tell anyone exciting. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.880 I just had a bad day. God for ages, it's 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:05.840 like for hours. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.960 But you know, when you've had that low, the only 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:10.880 way to go, the only place to go after that 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:14.720 is up. And so now I'm on the manic high. Yeah, 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:15.920 that's where I up and. 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:16.800 Loopy you've gone. 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:18.480 You're on the way up, but then you've taken a 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:20.240 bypass and then you're like doing a little circles on 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:20.720 the way up. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.120 And then you're going to go back and continue on 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.360 your journey. Well, I'm having a good time anyway. Welcome 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:25.560 back to the podcast everyone. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:27.560 It is ask gun cut where we answer you deep 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:28.840 your dark and you're burning questions. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.960 I'm glad you haven't sat in that moment, like I'm 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.560 glad you haven't sat in yesterday because a lot of 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:35.640 people get sad and then they can't get out of it. 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:36.800 But you shot right out. 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:40.120 Nah. I don't stay sad for long. I just get 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:42.640 down there, mushrooms. I flirt with the sadness. 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:45.319 I have a bad day, and then usually the next 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:47.520 day I wake up and I'm like, cool, I'm glad 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:48.720 we got that out of a system. 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.800 Also, every so often a good cry man, it's a reset. 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:52.920 It is a recent Well. 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:54.360 I knows you got a new laptop because you dropped 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:55.360 yours in a bucket of water. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.120 I did, if you listened to Tuesday's episode. I have 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.000 mentioned this on my suck, but I don't think i've 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:03.920 really explained the depths of what losing a laptop to 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.680 a bottle of baby fucking bottle does to your soul, 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.280 like my entire laptop. So if you miss it on 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:12.760 the second suite of Tuesdays, when we're flying back from Byron, Lola, 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:14.400 she's I mean, man, she shouldn't have. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:16.040 A bottle anymore. The kids. 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:19.080 You know what, even at thirty, you have a drink bottle, 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:21.160 like it's okay to have a drink bottle over. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:23.920 The problem is it's not one here. It's not a 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:25.120 frank green drink bottle. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.600 It's a baby bottle, like it's a bottle that an 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:28.360 infant should have. 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.360 She's too old for it, and I know she's too 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:30.960 old for it. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:33.239 They're the bottles that leak because I have a little 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.280 teet and so when the air pressure comes it pushes 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:35.600 the water. 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:39.200 I know all this. I know she also has a dummy. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:41.280 I just can't be fucked. 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.440 Take it off opening yourself up here. I know you 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:46.079 can judge my terrible parenting. I don't care the bottle 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:47.880 and the dummy thing. I was like, when she actually 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.520 turns three, I'll take them offer. And I know it's 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:52.440 really old for her to still have a bottle. She 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:54.760 barely uses it. She just carries it around. She just 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:56.840 likes having the option of it. 0:02:57.120 --> 0:03:00.120 You know, she just eat all right, won't get we've 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:01.760 Jalola's drinking habits here. 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:02.000 Okay. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:03.760 Makes it feel secure, I know, because I know there's 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:05.360 going to be mums listening to this who were like, 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:08.639 what fourteen thousand day old has a has a drink bottle? 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:11.040 What fourteen thousand and a half day old? 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.320 Okay, So I had the bottle in my bag. It 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:16.480 exploded with the air pressure of the cabin, you know. Anyway, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.960 it went all through my laptop. Matt spent two days 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:20.920 trying to revive my laptop. Then he'd put it in 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.280 a box covered in rice. He then had the hair 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.360 dryer out and was trying to dry it up. Very 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.880 optimistic of him, it really was. And he was like, 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.200 don't worry, baby, I'm going to save this because it 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:32.440 had everything I needed in it. Like, there's so much 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:33.800 of my life that's in that laptop. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:36.400 Well, I think the old like rice in a bucket. 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.920 Thing usually works when maybe you've spilt a little bit 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:40.360 on a phone or something. But like, it's not like 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.520 throwing your laptop in the ocean and getting it back 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:43.800 out and being like, throw some rice on. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:44.920 It doesn't quite work. 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:47.680 Yeah, look, i'd like to confirm it did not work. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.280 I was optimistic. I thought things would go my way. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:53.440 You know, every so often the universe throws you a bone. 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.440 Not today, my friend narrator, it did not go her way. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:58.600 It did not go my way. I ended up having 0:03:58.600 --> 0:03:59.560 to go to the Apple store and I got a 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:03.080 new laptop, which is very sexy. It is sexy, it's 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:06.160 a nice like it looks good, but it's pretty useless 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:07.720 at the moment because all the things I need are 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.320 not inside this. They're inside the laptop that's on my 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:11.560 kitchen bench covered in ros. 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.120 It is like being reborn, isn't It's like when you 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:16.120 get a new phone or in your laptop and you're 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.040 so used to knowing where everything is, what you've got 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:19.800 on there, and getting a new one, it's a rebirth. 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.960 Oh I'm so naked. I don't know where anything is. Also, 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:25.039 it's very inconvenient timing, but that's okay. Maybe that added 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:27.800 to why I was like so sad yesterday. Can I 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.760 also just like, take this moment, everyone listening, wherever you are, 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:33.799 if you're sitting in your car, if you're on the bus, 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:35.880 if you're sitting at home, maybe you're playing this through 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:38.440 your laptop. If you have ever had the thought over 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.280 the last couple of months or weeks, god, I really 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:42.480 need to back that up. But you didn't do it 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:44.520 because we've all been there. We've all thought I need 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.560 to do this, and then you're like, I'll just do 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.640 it in the future, and then the future comes and 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:52.000 the future looks like your laptop swimming in your handbag 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:52.760 with a bottle of water. 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:55.920 Just do it now, go back it up. You just 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:56.560 reminded me. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:05:01.279 I have been getting messages for the better part the 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:02.360 better part of six months. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:06.520 I've been getting these sporadic messages like literally. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.640 To my normal, I message, you owe this money, like 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:11.039 you haven't paid this money. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.480 For tolls for like travel, And I have a linked 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:15.000 card that I direct. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.000 Debit, right, so like you know, you get the things 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.800 you stick on your window every time you go in, 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:21.000 I have linked that to a direct debit. So I 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:22.880 kept getting these messages and I'm like, it's obviously a 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.320 scam because there were scams going around. 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:26.800 Yeah, like click this link, pay your a toll and 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:29.800 you're like, no, I don't need to totally automatically exactly. 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:31.320 I mean I wouldn't know what that's like. 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:34.320 But apparently things come out of automatically and it's so bad. 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.480 Yeah, exactly if you could learn something, Laura. 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.000 It always came with a link to click, and I 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.159 never did it because I thought once I clicked on it, 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:42.120 you know, that's the scam. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:42.960 Once you click on it. 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.440 Somehow in my mind, it takes all your data and 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.599 knows everything about you once you follow that link. 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:51.720 So I ignored it. I've I probably got like eighty messages. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.680 Over what span of time for a year, yeah, quite 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.080 a long time. Then the messages started getting quite like 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:59.919 more severe and aggressive, like it went from you o this, 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.960 you owe this, and the price is kept going up. 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:02.880 Please check this, you owe this? 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.560 And I was like fuck, these people even blocked the 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:08.400 number and then they started messaging it from a different number, 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.400 and I was like, oh, these scammers don't get it. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:11.600 They're good, They're good. 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.520 And I finally because I got a message on the 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:17.720 weekend being like your details have been obtained by New 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:21.800 South Wales law, like full on police, like we're investigating 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:23.719 this is your case number, all this stuff, and I 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:23.880 was like. 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:25.200 Wow, they're going to the extreme. 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.760 Debt collectors will becoming you owe this much money, and 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:28.960 I was like, I'll just risk it. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:32.120 I'll just click on the link and anywhey's real. I 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.960 haven't paid any of my bills for a year. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:37.560 I had a ridiculous amount I don't even want to 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.239 say it, a ridiculous amount of tolls. 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:41.600 That's very annoying. 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.720 I know, I know, but also not your fault because 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.440 we've been led to believe that any text mess that 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.799 comes through from like an unauthorized numbers a scam exactly exactly. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.880 But anyway, maybe just investigate that if you guys are 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.120 also getting those messages and might a should be. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:56.720 Real, could actually be really you could actually have a 0:06:56.760 --> 0:07:00.320 debt collector coming after you. So yesterday I find I 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.000 made an appointment to go and get my skin checked. 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:03.520 And I have been meaning to go and do this 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.720 since you were talking about everything that you had done. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.080 A couple of months ago. Britt Britt went through having 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:10.120 her skin check. Then she went through this crazy hectic 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:13.000 peel and I, I mean, I'm glad you waited six months. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.800 I finally made the appointment. I went for my screening yesterday. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.600 I did the mole map thing, you know, when you stand, 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.760 so for anyone who hasn't been, you can go and 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:23.520 get a full body mole map thing where you stand 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.720 and they take photos of like your shins, then they 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.720 take photos of your mid section, then they take photos 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:28.880 of your head, and then you turn around. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.240 Then you do the same thing. You do these random poses. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.400 Your tire body and they take photos of every single 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:36.000 part of your body, and then they map the moles 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.200 to your body so they can track how big they get, 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.960 you know, how they change and everything. It's very important 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:42.880 go to a skin clinic, like you should do this. 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:45.880 But have you guys ever experienced going to a doctor 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:48.640 that just has like not a bedside manner that aligns 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:50.480 with the bedside manner in which you would expect or 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.040 which you would hope for. Yeah, so with the whole 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:54.840 mole mapping thing, you've got to be like quite naked. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.360 And then I did like the doctor's check afterwards, so 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.840 I was naked except for a g string in front 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:02.920 of and boo boobs out in front of, like a 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:05.080 forty year old man. I didn't know he was going 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:06.880 to be a man. I would have preferred to have 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.760 chosen a female. Obviously, it doesn't matter. He sees boobs 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.600 all day. But like Irofessional and my g string was 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:14.120 like it was really old and. 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:18.240 String was you do not even need to spell that way. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:21.360 It's been through an aggressive wash cycle and things are 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:22.239 not Things. 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:23.600 Are just not as tucked in as they used to be. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.600 I feel like everything needs more support. And I hate 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:28.880 you look shocked and you look horrified. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.600 I'm just imagining now like a really discolored ging with 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:32.400 your flapped out the side. 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.000 Well, yeah, they went out the side. 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:38.000 They were just they were just loosely, loosely held within 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:42.560 my highway running between two mountains. Yes, thank you, between 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.720 a very c through well worn underwear as. 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.200 We imagine, Not that it matters, but I've got a 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:50.280 real visual imagine. You wouldn't have been like waxed or anything. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.319 No, because I just didn't expect that I was getting 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:54.520 I didn't expect I was getting that naked. I also 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:56.120 didn't expect it to be a forty year old man, 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.360 I just thought because my general GP, she's a female, 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.760 and never feel that all this whatever anyway, so he's 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:03.800 checking my back. 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.880 And his face very softly spoken. 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:09.760 He speaks like this, really softly spoken, excuse me, could 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:11.120 you please remove your pants? 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.960 And I'm like, okay, this is weird. 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:15.520 I take my pants off and he's like, could you 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:19.280 please just remove your uh your covering. 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:21.679 I was like, okay, so here I am removing my covering. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.360 And then the longer this went on, the weirder the 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:28.880 quiet whispering got. It made me feel so uncomfortable because 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.040 when someone speaking to you like this, I wanted him 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:33.640 to be assertive. I wanted him to be like, Okay, 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:34.960 now I'm going to check your back. He was like, 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:36.440 now I'm going to check your. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:40.120 It wasn't a sexual experience. Tell me what you want? 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.400 Hold me, yeah, tell me out. Don't you give a 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.760 slap in the bit like he's a doctor. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:45.480 Choke me. 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:48.240 He's like, ma'am, do you know where you are? You're 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:49.480 in a doctor's clinic. 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:50.120 No. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.320 This is when it got weird. So he kept telling 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:54.400 me that I was doing a. 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:58.200 Really good job, but he christ jan and you like 0:09:58.280 --> 0:09:59.920 every time I would you know, he would check my 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:00.800 back and he would. 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:04.240 Go, you're doing a really good job, okay, Jeffrey Dharma. 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:07.400 So then he checked my boobs and he's like, you're 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:08.680 doing a really good job. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:12.000 And I was like, I am so uncomfortable, But also like, 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:12.640 what job are you doing? 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.400 You're standing there naked. I's doing it really well. You 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:19.280 stood there for you naked. You naked it so well. 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:22.200 Why isn't that every time I go and have some 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:24.200 sort of healthcare a boy, but it ends up just 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.839 being uncomfortable and awkward. And I know there's gonna be 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:28.959 someone listening to this and they're gonna be like, don't 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.280 talk about the awkward things. We need to advocate for 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.120 good health. And of course we do go and get 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.160 your skin checked. I'm not saying that, but like you know, 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.240 bedside matter is important, and I feel like if you're 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.440 going to be checking a person naked, don't whisper at them. 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:46.200 It makes it weirdob doing a good job. I wouldn't 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.240 got my skin checked again yesterday too. That definitely did 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.080 not happen. But I had a real doozy yesterday. 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:53.480 I don't know what happened when I woke up, like 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:55.640 I just wasn't My brain just wasn't functioning. 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.400 So why were you asleep getting a skin check? Your 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:01.960 first problem? And then he was late next to me, going, 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:06.400 you stroking your head? Yeah? Yeah? Is that no normal? 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.320 Your doctor doesn't do house Visit's no. I just woke up. 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:10.600 My brain was all over the place. So I got 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:12.560 up and I had a full day of like shit 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:14.520 to get through. I had appointments, and I had errands, 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.360 and I had to be out with Delilah, and obviously 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.079 I had my very important coffee appointment. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:19.240 But it was like halfway through the. 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.400 Day that I realized my pants were on backwards and 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.320 I had a full on tag flapping out. 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.439 And not only the tag. I had these pants that 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:27.800 they're like bike pants. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.880 But that you know where all the information isn't written 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.560 on a tag, but it's written on the material so 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:34.600 everyone could see it. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:36.439 Did you not feel like there was extra room in 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:37.960 the front and the back was really tight? 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:40.760 No, because they weren't backwards, they were inside out. 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:42.360 They were just so inside out. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.120 I was like, how have I been out for four 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:47.200 hours talking to people and no one has told me? 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.520 Because I'm the person. If I saw somebody like that 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:52.000 I would tell them. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:54.000 I would go up to them and say, sorry, I 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:55.679 don't want embarrass you, but like, just want you to 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:58.400 know your pants are on inside out. I can see 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:59.960 where you got them from. I can see that maybe 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:03.520 Lauda janey're beautiful. I would tell somebody. But then last 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:06.760 night we went out for a dinner and a drink, 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.680 like the three of us, Keisha, Laura, and myself. And 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:13.400 halfway through the night, Keisha leans over and she's like, oh, Brittany, sorry, 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.400 you've got this black mascara or down your cheek. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:17.920 She's like, can I get it off? And I was like, 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:19.440 oh my god, thank you must have just fallen. And 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:23.000 Laura goes that or I was like, oh, I've seen that 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.280 there for hours, and I said, why don't you tell me? 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:28.640 And I was too hard, It was too hard to 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:30.080 tell you. And I'm like, you're that person. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:32.360 You're the person that doesn't tell someone that they've got 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.240 like a whole thing of asparagus in their teeth. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:34.720 I don't. 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:37.160 And do you know why? It's not because I often forget. 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:37.920 It's not that. 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:41.280 You don't forget. You're looking at them. 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.079 You are looking at my face being like she's got 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:44.560 that on her face, but it's too hard to get off. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:46.920 No, I do forget so like, and I wonder if 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.000 other people relate to this. If I see that someone 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:50.719 has something in their teeth or they have something on 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:51.559 their face. 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:52.480 I'll clock it. 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:56.720 But but wait, but wait, I clock it, but then like, 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.160 it's so not a thing to me, like you having 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:00.840 a little bit of mascara on your cheek, like I 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.400 had a nice, fancy Russian I just didn't like I 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:05.280 noticed it, but then I didn't notice it after that. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:06.920 And so like you're in the middle of speaking, so 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:08.240 I didn't want to be like, oh, excuse me, you've 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:08.920 got this on your face. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:11.320 I just wasn't wasn't in a presentation, in a stage. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.280 I was only talking to you, I know. But it's 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:15.240 just like I just don't notice these things on people. 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:17.560 I would spit on your face and wipe it off 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:18.880 in the middle of your talking. If you had something 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:22.079 on your face that sounded aggressive, I would lick. I 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:23.800 would look my thumb with mo own saliva and like 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.439 you know how your mum does it, and like scrubs 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:26.160 that thing off your face. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:26.840 That's what I would do. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:28.679 Anyway, I think I learned a lot about my two 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.079 closest friends last night at dinner. 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:32.320 Yeah, I think people are gonna interpret that as though 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:35.320 that that's a bad quality. But no, I just I 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:37.240 just don't care that much. Like if I had something else, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:38.360 it's not bad. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.840 You don't need to care. 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:46.320 I need to care, you idiot, ha ha fuck fuck. 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:48.880 I guess what I'm saying is, it's not a big 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:50.920 deal if I had a little bit of I know, 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.600 but if I had a bit of a scar on 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:54.160 my face, it's not a big deal. 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.480 Would I care if you pointed out to me. Probably not. 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.080 That is a load of rubbish. 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.520 You would care if you'd been walking around something on 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:01.839 your face and you got home and I. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:03.280 Was like, sorry, I saw that. Therefore I was ago, 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:04.360 but I didn't want to tell you. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.840 Guys, I've walked around with literal human shit on me 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:08.880 before and I haven't noticed, and no one told me. 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:10.760 So I feel like I had a turn on. 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:13.720 I had no I had shit on my shirt, Lola 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.880 shit on my shirt, and I walked around with it 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:17.760 and no one told me, and then I thought it 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.240 was cappuccino, but it wasn't. 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:20.720 We've all been there. 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:24.480 If you're mum, Anyway, let's get into our vibes and 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:29.040 unsubscribes before we answer your questions. And I have a 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.840 self indulgent vibe, but I don't even care because it's 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.480 that time of year everybody, because I'm excited and that 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.560 is that. It is Tony May's Black Friday Sale. It 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:39.720 starts today, which is do you know what it could afford? 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.480 Sound effects? Swipe up, side up, swipe up. 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:44.480 Like I don't talk about Tony Mae much on here, 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:47.040 and it's like this other whole business and this other 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.600 whole life that takes as much mental space. It takes 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:52.520 as much time as lifelung Cut does. But because life 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.200 on Cut is so media phasing that it kind of 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:58.280 seems like this is my number one and only thing 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:00.400 that I do. I guess in the world of work. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.600 But Tony May has been around for fourteen years now, 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:06.200 and the like four days is our I mean as fuck, 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:06.880 it's crazy. 0:15:07.120 --> 0:15:10.200 It's crazy for me being associated with you, just being 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.400 in your world over this time because it's the busiest, 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:15.320 craziest time of year for you. Yeah, why Black Friday 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.520 sales the biggest is it? Because you can do your 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.800 Christmas shopping Like we don't even see even no. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:21.960