1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nason. 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 2: It's nice to be back, it's nice to be in 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: the new Digs, but it certainly has been soured by 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: what happened at Bondo Junction on Saturday. 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 3: Oh just so hard to process, isn't it that in 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 3: the space of an hour your life can spin on 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 3: the head of a pin. It's true, so many people 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 3: were caught up in it, so many people saw it, 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 3: people who weren't even there. As you do react to 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 3: how that would be, how it would feel. Everyone knows 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: someone who's going to be affected in some way, even 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: if remotely. This stuff triggers a lot of stuff for 13 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 3: people on our social media. We do have all the 14 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 3: numbers for Lifeline for Kids' helpline, reach out if you 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 3: need help please Yeah. 16 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: And the tribal drama right now, this is what the 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: tribal drum is for, and it's beating. It's just how 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 2: are you doing right now? What's happening in your world? 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: Charlie has joined us. Hello Charlie, Hey, go Matte. 20 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 4: I'm just going to say, what is fragile? Life is 21 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 4: precious and life at times can be unpredictable, and I 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: feel sorry for the people who were at the mall. 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 4: And also I was going to say for people who 24 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 4: ran in terror, do not feel that you were gutless, 25 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 4: don't feel that you were doing the wrong thing, and 26 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 4: don't have remorse of saying, oh I should have done 27 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 4: this or should have done that. It's a you know, 28 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes there's fight and flight, and you know 29 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 4: it takes for the people who did what they did. 30 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 4: It does take courage and it does take stepping out 31 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 4: of it. But it's a normal reaction to be a 32 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 4: person who would run. I mean, I probably do the same. 33 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: I'm glad you mentioned that, Charlie, because I thought that too. 34 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: We talk about the heroism of people. To be a 35 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: survivor through any of those experiences is to be a hero, 36 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 3: to protect your family and run. Absolutely, Charlie, there's everyone 37 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: who was there is a hero. 38 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 2: And to reiterate those words, I'm not a coward, but 39 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: I've never been tested. You never know when it comes. 40 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: Down to it. 41 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 3: But there was no cowardice in any of. 42 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: And there's none. There's none of that. There's none of that. 43 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: That's a good reminder, Charlie. 44 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 2: Charlie, thank you for your call. Tanya's joined us as well. 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: Hello, Tanya, Good morning, Jane and Amanda, how are you going. 46 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm heart sick because my heart hurts from the events 47 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: of the weekend. But what I wanted to talk about, 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: and Amanda, you've touched on it several times this morning, 49 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: about seeking help, you know, through Lifeline and Kids Helpline 50 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: and so forth. I'm highly, highly disturbed that media outlets 51 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: are publishing photos of the deceased perpetrator. We all saw 52 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: that photo of that father who shielded his two young 53 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: kids with iemaster. They wouldn't be scarred by the events. 54 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: It's what heard on the day, and our media outlets 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: are publishing photos of the deceased perpetrator. It is disgusting. 56 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 3: It's you make a very good that's right, you make 57 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: a very good point. And also through social media, the 58 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 3: family of Ashley Good have had to say we have 59 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 3: released a photograph you can use. Please don't just mine 60 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 3: her social media and use all these photographs of her. 61 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: This is a very hard time for us. Do not 62 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: just print these photographs of our loved one. Please, the 63 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: duty of care hasn't been there. But you make a 64 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: very good point, Tanya. We have seen a deceased perpetrator 65 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 3: lying on the floor on the ground. Very distressing images 66 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 3: and we do have to be careful. We're going to 67 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 3: be talking to Joe Lamble later in the show. She's 68 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 3: a psychologist. She's going to talk to us about how 69 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: we help our kids through the trauma of what's happened.