Speaker 1: It's in the news today, but it was actually on
Speaker 1: TV Reload.
Speaker 2: The podcast last week.
Speaker 3: Thereby, Hey guys, welcome back to TV Reload. I want
Speaker 3: to thank you for clicking and downloading on today's episode
Speaker 3: with the Ladies from Fby Island Series two, which started
Speaker 3: this week on Bingjon Foxdale, and I want to tell
Speaker 3: you I'm pretty much absolutely obsessed. After a very successful
Speaker 3: first series where along with Abi Chatfield, the content creators
Speaker 3: turned the whole dating reality format on its head and
Speaker 3: two of the three girls walked away with relationships that
Speaker 3: are still going. It's madness. I found the new approach
Speaker 3: of adopting the sexual side of dating and calling modern
Speaker 3: datas out on their bad behavior really entertaining. So I'm
Speaker 3: sure this is not for everyone, but for those people
Speaker 3: who are out ever are enjoying it, this episode is
Speaker 3: for you. In this chat, I learned from last year
Speaker 3: and instead of talking to all the girls together, I
Speaker 3: asked the publicity team to give me a quick ten
Speaker 3: minute powwow with each of the girls, just because there
Speaker 3: was a lot of listeners complaining about the screaming, which
Speaker 3: was probably just from me. I will ask Crystal about
Speaker 3: how the show is different to her time on the Bachelor,
Speaker 3: and if the mids her term for the average looking
Speaker 3: bloke is a safer option to dating the more confident,
Speaker 3: better looking guys. I think returning viewers would like to
Speaker 3: know how Alie was cast and if it was stunt
Speaker 3: casting off the back of her dating experience last year
Speaker 3: with F Boy vern Plus. I will also ask her
Speaker 3: about the interpretation of what an F boy is. Then
Speaker 3: Nicole will unpack why she is still single and why
Speaker 3: she thinks boys don't really want to try and get
Speaker 3: to know her. We will get some insights into the
Speaker 3: clothing decisions, what Abbi Chatfield is really like, and if
Speaker 3: some of the girls would like to see an F
Speaker 3: girl Island next year. There is actually so much to
Speaker 3: discuss with Crystal, Ali and Nicole, so sit back and
Speaker 3: relax as we unpack F Boy Island Series two. I
Speaker 3: love it. I'm so excited, Crystal excited. I just wanted
Speaker 3: to ask you, So, you'd been on a reality show
Speaker 3: before and it's a very different brand. I wanted to
Speaker 3: ask you about the difference, like, what's the difference between
Speaker 3: these two experiences?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: My god, completely different? Did you I know if you
Speaker 4: saw obviously you know like the context of Bacher confess
Speaker 4: the context of Fwey Island. But Bachelor I have to.
Speaker 1: Be on fast behavior. It was hard for me.
Speaker 4: I think it's very much like you know, it's quite
Speaker 4: a serious format. Obviously I'm had to be a contestant,
Speaker 4: and it was like, you're kind of like pining for
Speaker 4: the man, whereas Fwort Islands are much more like, nah,
Speaker 4: actually we're putting men in their place. We're going to
Speaker 4: find love along the way. It's like a lot more
Speaker 4: talent cheek, a lot more lighthearted. Both experiences. I had
Speaker 4: the best time because I always do. But in saying that,
Speaker 4: I was more excited to be on e Fwlay Island
Speaker 4: because I was just like, finally I get to put
Speaker 4: boys in their place.
Speaker 3: But do you lean into it? Like so the Bachelor
Speaker 3: you kind of lean into being like this sort of
Speaker 3: demure whatever, whatever they want. And then with this do
Speaker 3: you lean into being a little bit.
Speaker 1: More of a bad bitch.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's either of them, I mean both of them.
Speaker 3: Are you right, both of these true? Both of these experiences?
Speaker 3: Are you yeah? Are you leaning into the sassy a
Speaker 3: side because this is f boy Island?
Speaker 1: Well, I think it. I have I'm always the same
Speaker 1: across the book.
Speaker 4: So whether I'm on reality TV, but I'm on the Bachelor,
Speaker 4: f way I learned to the real world, I'm.
Speaker 1: The same person.
Speaker 4: So for me, it's very much like, yeah, the show
Speaker 4: formats is different, but I still say true to my value,
Speaker 4: say true to who I am. And I think that
Speaker 4: kind of reflects like even in The Bachelor, like obviously
Speaker 4: didn't wipe out, but but in saying that, you know,
Speaker 4: I just yeah, I just I just think it was
Speaker 4: me throughout.
Speaker 3: What about this show? I want to know how it
Speaker 3: came around. Did you fill out an application or did
Speaker 3: they so and ask you? Like, how did you get
Speaker 3: asked to do this show?
Speaker 4: No, I got asked to. I think they sayed a
Speaker 4: bit of a rough ride on Bachelor. I was just like,
Speaker 4: if this girl was shot, There's only so many times
Speaker 4: you can complete Tinder and Hinge, and I've completed.
Speaker 1: Them all about six times.
Speaker 4: So I was just like, yeah, I been asked, like
Speaker 4: completely out of the blue. I didn't see it coming.
Speaker 4: I loved the first season, and I was just like, let's.
Speaker 1: Just do it.
Speaker 3: Did you watch the first season and then watch it
Speaker 3: again once you were asked and took notes like what
Speaker 3: kind of way?
Speaker 1: Okay, I actually didn't. I think the first season for
Speaker 1: me was amazing.
Speaker 4: Obviously it's had a huge success, right, So I was like,
Speaker 4: you know, two of the couple, two out three of
Speaker 4: the couples are still together. I'm you know, I've been
Speaker 4: single for so long. There's higher chance of me finding
Speaker 4: someone on this show than there is me in the
Speaker 4: real world at the moment where I am.
Speaker 1: So for me, it was just like, let's just go
Speaker 1: in and go ahead.
Speaker 3: First, the danger of this premise to me when I
Speaker 3: first heard about it was is this a show about
Speaker 3: just picking? You know, is it a game show and
Speaker 3: just picking? Are they f boys or are they nice guys?
Speaker 3: Or is it about finding real love? And the interesting
Speaker 3: thing was, when I'd heard about the show and I
Speaker 3: hadn't seen season one, I just thought it was going
Speaker 3: to be this sort of that's an f boy, that's
Speaker 3: this and it's not really taken seriously. But the clang
Speaker 3: out of this whole thing has been that two of
Speaker 3: these couples found love. Like it's crazy.
Speaker 1: So, yeah, what.
Speaker 3: About you coming into this show? Did you go into
Speaker 3: it being like it's a game show, it's a reality
Speaker 3: show or were you genuinely there to find love?
Speaker 1: No, I genuinely went on there to find love.
Speaker 4: And I think it's hard because people always like, why
Speaker 4: would you go in reality TV show to find love?
Speaker 1: Like that's ridiculous.
Speaker 4: But at the same time, it has to success, So
Speaker 4: it's like the proof isn't the pudding.
Speaker 1: So for me, it's like I've.
Speaker 4: Got again, Like it's just not a case of because
Speaker 4: it's true emotions. Everything you see is real. So you know,
Speaker 4: if I'm passionate about something and I'm talking to someone,
Speaker 4: I'm getting to like like someone, that's all genuine.
Speaker 1: So I think that's what it's hard.
Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, it's a game show, but at the
Speaker 4: same time it is real emotion and you really do
Speaker 4: get attached to some of these guys.
Speaker 3: How good? Like how good is the crew on this show?
Speaker 3: Like Spence as in the executive producer Caroline. I just
Speaker 3: love her as a producer, I love her as a human.
Speaker 3: What was it like working on the show? Could you
Speaker 3: be influenced by the crew that are there? Like were
Speaker 3: they giving you feedback or saying to you? But what
Speaker 3: about this guy? Like what was that?
Speaker 4: Like? I think like the crew the crew ONORT, and
Speaker 4: they're just amazing, Like it's like being having like a
Speaker 4: huge group of friends with you, and they're so supportive
Speaker 4: in going with what feels right for you. So they'll
Speaker 4: never influence my decisions in any way, but they'll be like,
Speaker 4: how does what do you want? Crystal? So I think
Speaker 4: the support network was always there with the crew. I
Speaker 4: think they you know, they had fun with the lads.
Speaker 4: They they were seeing all different sides, but at the
Speaker 4: end of the day, they always had our best interests
Speaker 4: at heart, and Spence was just the best. She's incredible,
Speaker 4: what fucking gun Seriously.
Speaker 3: I just want to tell her my most appalling secrets
Speaker 3: and that's what makes it good, do you know what
Speaker 3: I mean? Like she's fun and she's gregarious, vivacious, this
Speaker 3: sort of wild personality. But for some reason, you just
Speaker 3: want to be really vulnerable around her, you know, And
Speaker 3: that's they're.
Speaker 4: So that's sort of the side that I usually struggle with.
Speaker 4: I really struggle to bring my walls down and be
Speaker 4: vulnerable because I'm just like so scared of it. So
Speaker 4: for me going on there, like even talking about like
Speaker 4: the situation my dad and like my mum and stuff
Speaker 4: like I never expected before going on there that that
Speaker 4: would even be something that would I would open up about.
Speaker 4: It's just a really nice way to It's not like therapy.
Speaker 4: I yes, because you're having to talk about like your
Speaker 4: past traumas, your childhood, like how things make you feel
Speaker 4: Like it's really like, it really really is like therapy
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 3: I must admit when you were sitting on the couch
Speaker 3: and you became emotional and you were like, oh God,
Speaker 3: what's happening? You know? And actually I was like, this
Speaker 3: show is bizarre to me, Like it is really kind
Speaker 3: of crass in some way, and it's kind of silly
Speaker 3: in some way. But there we are with you, watching
Speaker 3: you have that emotional moment, and we're coming with you
Speaker 3: on the ride. It's quite a complex bunch of emotions
Speaker 3: that we as a viewer get to go through with you.
Speaker 4: You know, it's a real coaster and there's just more
Speaker 4: of that to come. Honestly, we're rolla coaster of emotions.
Speaker 3: Just before we run out of time, I need to
Speaker 3: talk to you about Abbi Chadfield, who I know so
Speaker 3: she I love her. I think she's amazing. What was
Speaker 3: it like working with her? And did at times, it
Speaker 3: feel like the cameras weren't there, because I know with Abby,
Speaker 3: she kind of forgets the surroundings around her. She's just
Speaker 3: very in the moment. I just want to know what
Speaker 3: the relationship was like between her, because she's hosting this
Speaker 3: show and you girls are kind of the contestants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, great question.
Speaker 4: I think the good thing about Abby is she never
Speaker 4: makes you feel less. She's very much like she just
Speaker 4: felt like one of the girls. So she'd be like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, like, what's the boss on this, what's this?
Speaker 1: What's this?
Speaker 4: And then she'd give her input, So it was kind
Speaker 4: of like having a fourth gal, if that makes sense.
Speaker 4: So he's just so so easy to talk to you.
Speaker 4: She's so honest and just sopologetically herself that you kind
Speaker 4: of have trust and faith in her, not from just like,
Speaker 4: oh she's but from a point of like, oh, she
Speaker 4: actually cares and actually genuinely wants us to find.
Speaker 3: Love now these mids. It's so good because I feel
Speaker 3: like you own this now, girlfriend, you own this. And
Speaker 3: it's a really interesting topic because amongst my friends yesterday
Speaker 3: we were talking about it and one of my girlfriends
Speaker 3: said to me, she decided years ago like, I'm in
Speaker 3: my forties, so like we're all old. But she was like,
Speaker 3: I went through a phase where I was going out
Speaker 3: with just mids, but she said the mids were more
Speaker 3: fucked up than the non mids.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean only say I'm not joking.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do anymore because I've given
Speaker 1: them the chance.
Speaker 4: I said, Mits, this is your year, Like, come on, boys,
Speaker 4: it's your time to shine. And it's true that even
Speaker 4: the mids can let us out. So what's left go
Speaker 4: to the uglies? Like, I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: I've got nothing left without giving anything away. Have you
Speaker 3: moved away completely from this whole mids thing? Or do
Speaker 3: you think more buzzy girls should be going for the mids.
Speaker 4: I do still that more girls should go for the men.
Speaker 4: Give them a shot, you know, I feel bad for them.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for them.
Speaker 4: So solid six out of tens I think, still give
Speaker 4: them a.
Speaker 3: Try, Still give them a try. Last question for Crystal
Speaker 3: is you look sensational? Sensational? I just want to say
Speaker 3: to you when you do the slow most how long
Speaker 3: are they filming those slow mos for? Like you know
Speaker 3: where you were walking down that sort of breeze. Wait,
Speaker 3: oh my god, are they making you do that all day? Like?
Speaker 3: Or is it just one day? Make it okay?
Speaker 4: You think it's one take, baby, maybe Ben, it's not
Speaker 4: one take.
Speaker 1: It is over and over again.
Speaker 4: I don't know if you remember, like the in the
Speaker 4: first app that walk up to the beach we're.
Speaker 1: Walking to the boys. We did that walk. I reckon
Speaker 1: about forty five times in the.
Speaker 4: Blazing sun and I was like the sad, like the
Speaker 4: breeze will still trying to look.
Speaker 1: Like it was a bit on. There was a bit
Speaker 1: on show this baby.
Speaker 3: Well, I just worry about how cold everyone was going
Speaker 3: to get, because doesn't whether it's summer or whatever the
Speaker 3: weather is in Australia, we're going to have cold moments.
Speaker 3: And I was looking at everyone not wearing enough clothes
Speaker 3: and wanting to come around with the blanket.
Speaker 1: Well, Jackie just wants the whole time.
Speaker 3: We should it, Crystal. I am obsessed with you, and
Speaker 3: I think Australia is going to be quite obsessed with
Speaker 3: you as well. I'm so glad we get to see
Speaker 3: more of you because we really get to know you
Speaker 3: quite well throughout the show. I just hope you enjoy
Speaker 3: this whole experience.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. And yeah,
Speaker 4: I love the support.
Speaker 1: How fun. I can't leave it. Back off the screens.
Speaker 3: Again every year, my friend, every year, my friend. We
Speaker 3: want you back. Just do them all until you're fine. Love,
Speaker 3: We're with you.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Amazing, Thank you so much for being so generated.
Speaker 1: Thank you my pleasure. Thanks. But we're going to put
Speaker 1: Ellie in now.
Speaker 3: Amazing Allie, Hi, how are you want to?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 5: And good?
Speaker 1: Thank you? How are you?
Speaker 3: I'm so good? But you know, last year Fby Island
Speaker 3: wouldn't have been the same without the whole vern storyline,
Speaker 3: if you asked me, and so it's so exciting that
Speaker 3: we get to know you on the other side of
Speaker 3: all of this. When did they ask you that you
Speaker 3: could be one of the girls, Like, did they say
Speaker 3: that last year because they just realized and so did
Speaker 3: you have twelve months to prep or did you just
Speaker 3: out of the out of nowhere get a phone call
Speaker 3: and say be one of the ladies?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I was well well intually casted before any
Speaker 5: mention of Vernon actually came in. It was just kind
Speaker 5: of like, hey, we want you and then I was
Speaker 5: just like he kind of like popped into my mind
Speaker 5: weirdly when everything was like being finalized, and they were like,
Speaker 5: oh my god, amazing, this is perfect, and I think
Speaker 5: it just yeah, it was a good and it was
Speaker 5: a good connection between season one and season two. It
Speaker 5: definitely wasn't all you want of Vernon's exs, let's get
Speaker 5: you on the show. It was very much already well
Speaker 5: into the casting and everything was already well and tually
Speaker 5: on its way, and then it was just convenient and
Speaker 5: a coincidence.
Speaker 3: What does he think about you being on the show? Like,
Speaker 3: have you guys been talking about did you No?
Speaker 1: No, we don't. We don't talk.
Speaker 3: Does he hate you? Do you hate him?
Speaker 5: I don't care for him and I don't want anything bad,
Speaker 5: but I also don't want anything to do with him.
Speaker 6: So it is what it is.
Speaker 5: You know, everyone's got their own versions. I've got my
Speaker 5: own version, he's got his own version. He can do
Speaker 5: whatever he wants. I can do whatever I want.
Speaker 1: It is what it is.
Speaker 3: Do you think he's jealous? Do you think he's jealous
Speaker 3: of your time on the show, the show?
Speaker 1: You know, he's had his five seconds of fame.
Speaker 5: Okay, I think I think he loves, you know, in
Speaker 5: the spotline, having the attention. That's just who he is,
Speaker 5: That's who we all know him to be. I don't
Speaker 5: think he's jealous. I just think he thinks that I
Speaker 5: used him to get on the show, which isn't the case,
Speaker 5: so Lowell jokes on him.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy about all of this. I was going
Speaker 3: to ask you about all of this clothing, Ryan, you know,
Speaker 3: you all look amazing, Like the clothing this season looks
Speaker 3: so amazing, and you all look so good. But is
Speaker 3: any of it your own clothes or are they styling you?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: No, God, I wish I owned half of those amazing
Speaker 5: pieces that we get to wear. No, there's an amazing
Speaker 5: team behind it all. We're blessed with the best all
Speaker 5: the stylists, a lot of Australian brands, which is great.
Speaker 5: So No, unfortunately, none of it, none of it is
Speaker 5: our own. I think I wore my own pajamas once.
Speaker 1: Maybe that was it.
Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting. I was looking up f Boy,
Speaker 3: you know, because I just have it on Google alerts
Speaker 3: because I love this show so much. And then I
Speaker 3: was trying to find out where the origins of the
Speaker 3: term f boy comes from sod of a too pronged
Speaker 3: question here, what do you think an F boy is?
Speaker 3: In your words, that's a great question. I guess, no
Speaker 3: wrong answer. Let me tell you, Yeah.
Speaker 6: I guess.
Speaker 5: I guess an f boy is someone with I guess,
Speaker 5: maybe bad intentions, like not the right intentions. Maybe someone
Speaker 5: who's selfish, maybe a little bit narcissistic and just doesn't
Speaker 5: care about a woman or you know, if it's a
Speaker 5: it's know, a same sex couple or whatever it may be.
Speaker 5: You know, you can still be an f boy and
Speaker 5: you know, be big a But I think that, yeah,
Speaker 5: just someone with bad intentions, someone that doesn't really care
Speaker 5: about others.
Speaker 3: I found this online, so I'm going to read it
Speaker 3: to you. It was originally apparently came from a rapper,
Speaker 3: so some rapper in America came up with it. But
Speaker 3: I found this on the internet. A fuck boy is
Speaker 3: a term for a teenage boy who essentially man who's
Speaker 3: cheatahs players and usually manipulative and abusive if it means
Speaker 3: getting sex. And I was like, I don't know, it's
Speaker 3: because if I'm old, But I was like, teenage boys,
Speaker 3: like that's not what Just just like I think when
Speaker 3: I was younger, it was called but is it all
Speaker 3: the same thing or is F boys more sexual? Is
Speaker 3: that more of a sexual element to the whole player terminology?
Speaker 5: I think it's kind of much of a muchness really,
Speaker 5: and maybe F boy is sort of like the modernized
Speaker 5: version of a player, But I think maybe doesn't necessarily
Speaker 5: mean you have multiple partners like a player does. I
Speaker 5: think F boy can just be almost like a personality
Speaker 5: trade at this point, so, you know, I think, yeah,
Speaker 5: it's definitely just a modern a modern player, but not
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I feel like it's.
Speaker 5: Maybe less sexually than the players players. I feel like,
Speaker 5: is multiple boy doesn't necessarily mean multiple do you know
Speaker 5: what I mean?
Speaker 3: It's kind of subjective in a way.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone has their own relationship with it interesting for you.
Speaker 3: You have a storyline this year which I think is
Speaker 3: quite fascinating to watch evolve, and it makes me wonder
Speaker 3: about how you girls discuss who you're pursuing, because you
Speaker 3: kind of go for a guy that everyone has all
Speaker 3: three girls have said is hot. You know, I want
Speaker 3: to be with them. What kind of conversations did you
Speaker 3: have amongst the other two girls and were they kind
Speaker 3: of like, hang on a seck, bitch, that's my guy.
Speaker 3: You know, like how did it go down?
Speaker 5: So very blessed, But both Crystal and Nicole, we were
Speaker 5: all Instagrams and all had sort of like mutual respect
Speaker 5: for each other. There was never going to be a
Speaker 5: situation straight off the bat where anyone was stepping on
Speaker 5: each other's toes. So when it came are you speaking
Speaker 5: about in the first EPP where everyone picks Yeah, So
Speaker 5: basically what happened there was multiple chats were had in
Speaker 5: the mix of that night where it was kind of
Speaker 5: like who's vibing who? And we all sat down afterwards
Speaker 5: and it was like, Okay, who are getting vibes off?
Speaker 5: Who do you want to spend more time together? Yes,
Speaker 5: we all our eyes all went to Joe, but I
Speaker 5: know after the mixer, not everyone wanted to jump straight
Speaker 5: in and spend more time with him, and especially my
Speaker 5: mindset at that point in time, I was like, well,
Speaker 5: I had a really good chat and I've probably had
Speaker 5: one of the longest chats out of all the girls
Speaker 5: with him on that first EPP, and that first day
Speaker 5: failed me. So for me, it just kind of made
Speaker 5: sense that if it was going to be someone I
Speaker 5: kind of just wanted to be, like be the first
Speaker 5: or just get it out of the way.
Speaker 3: Really yeah, And is he more your type? Like would
Speaker 3: you say.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, What's funny about this is my type
Speaker 5: is not him? My type is blonde hair, blue eyes,
Speaker 5: like pretty boy, like the young dumb ones. And I've
Speaker 5: never in my life gone for someone you know, this
Speaker 5: this typical tall, dark and handsome. So it was kind
Speaker 5: of like strange for me in a way, which is
Speaker 5: kind of like good.
Speaker 1: I guess that I.
Speaker 5: Was changing things up and you know, giving it a go.
Speaker 3: I kind of think he looks like one of the
Speaker 3: vampires from Buffy the Vampires Slayer, but don't tell him that.
Speaker 3: Can you just answer this question for before I let
Speaker 3: you go? Can girls be F girls?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: And they can? Okay, what's your relationship or understanding of that? Then?
Speaker 5: I think similar to guys when with like the F
Speaker 5: boy definition, I think that F girls or like kind
Speaker 5: of like almost like a hoe phase okay, or like
Speaker 5: a called like you girls can be playing too. I
Speaker 5: think that a lot of girls go through yeah, stages
Speaker 5: where they're trying to find their feet and work out
Speaker 5: what they like, maybe sexually or emotionally. I definitely know
Speaker 5: that there'll be some guys out there that would call
Speaker 5: me an F girl one hundred percent, but that doesn't
Speaker 5: necessarily speak to who as I'm as who I am
Speaker 5: as a person. But maybe more so that I wasn't
Speaker 5: at that stage of my life where I wanted to commit,
Speaker 5: and maybe it may have kind of cost that way
Speaker 5: that I was not interested or whatever it may be.
Speaker 5: But I definitely think foy F girl both the same.
Speaker 3: Yeah, would you watch F Girl Ireland?
Speaker 5: Absolutely absolutely, without a doubt, make that happen.
Speaker 3: Make that happen. Thank you so much. I'll let you go.
Speaker 3: Thank Thank you, curiosity with your time. Sorry, we've got
Speaker 3: eight minutes. I've got to be really quick. My partner
Speaker 3: thinks that you are like the hottest person that he's
Speaker 3: ever seen.
Speaker 1: Stop.
Speaker 3: But we're gays, you know what I mean. So we
Speaker 3: love a really pretty chick, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: Thank you. That's so cute.
Speaker 3: So I was going to ask you do men not
Speaker 3: try to get to know you? And you say that
Speaker 3: in the first episode, and I think that's a really
Speaker 3: interesting thing that you bring up, because I wonder whether
Speaker 3: or not men or a little would be intimidated by
Speaker 3: you a little bit, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: I think that might be the reason why they struggle
Speaker 3: to really get to know you, because I feel like
Speaker 3: they would never stop looking at you, going this is
Speaker 3: the prettiest person I've ever seen in my entire life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like this is something I would ask
Speaker 2: a lot of my friends and my guy friends.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what is it.
Speaker 2: Why are like my inboxes as drys as the Hia desert.
Speaker 6: Why, like what's going on?
Speaker 2: And they're just like, it's probably because they're intimidated or
Speaker 2: they think you've got guys. That's it's like an illusion
Speaker 2: of like, oh, they think they're out of your legal
Speaker 2: or like, oh, they think that your DMS must.
Speaker 6: Be full, but I'm like it's not.
Speaker 2: And then they always say if only they were to
Speaker 2: meet you in person, then they realize like it's not
Speaker 2: the case at all, And so it's like that battle
Speaker 2: of like, oh but also I just work, I go
Speaker 2: to the gym, I go to my house.
Speaker 1: Like I live a very.
Speaker 2: Small, sheltered life, so you know, I don't really get
Speaker 2: out there that much, and so finding someone it's kind
Speaker 2: of challenging.
Speaker 3: I'm really just shocked at this point of your life
Speaker 3: that you were single. That's all I'm going to say.
Speaker 3: I'm your I think i'm your hype girl. I feel
Speaker 3: like I could call you every day to tell you
Speaker 3: how amazing you are, you.
Speaker 2: Know, and it ges it feels like if they do,
Speaker 2: it's like a checklist that oh, I've gotten a call
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, it's kind of like, well, I
Speaker 2: don't want to be that.
Speaker 6: I'd rather just like not not seeing you guys.
Speaker 3: And if that's the case, the dynamic amongst the girls
Speaker 3: this season is just as good as last year. And
Speaker 3: that's where I was really worried, because last year the
Speaker 3: dynamics between the three girls was really fantastic because it
Speaker 3: was very supportive. It was a goal power moment that
Speaker 3: makes me think of the Spice Girls. Then I yess
Speaker 3: about you girls coming back and doing that all over again.
Speaker 3: How do the producers make you all get along like that?
Speaker 3: Do they pay for you to go and have an
Speaker 3: expensive meal somewhere? Do they kill what?
Speaker 2: Thank god whoever is on this team of like getting
Speaker 2: people together that are gonna get on because like we're
Speaker 2: together nearly almost a month. But I think what really
Speaker 2: helped is that we went into like a lockdown period
Speaker 2: before filming actually started. So we had about a weekend
Speaker 2: or like a day and a half where there was
Speaker 2: no filming going on.
Speaker 6: But that's where we lose our phones.
Speaker 2: We're like secluded into this motel room, us and the girls,
Speaker 2: and we really just like got to know each other.
Speaker 2: We all got on within like ten minutes of knowing
Speaker 2: each other, and you know, you're spieling the beans, You're
Speaker 2: you're bonding over your trauma over guys, and it just
Speaker 2: felt like one big sleepover.
Speaker 3: Constantly makes me think about your worst experiences bonding over
Speaker 3: you saying, bonding over our experiences with guys? Yeah, what
Speaker 3: is your worst f boy story?
Speaker 6: Oh, there's a couple.
Speaker 1: There is a couple.
Speaker 6: I mean I think Look, I was someone.
Speaker 2: That was always like involved with a guy type of thing,
Speaker 2: but never made it to that like girlfriends stand and
Speaker 2: you know, so it's like I would be involved with someone,
Speaker 2: I'd like be there to go pick them up, and
Speaker 2: then I would see them with another girl in the
Speaker 2: car and I'm sitting in my car like you just
Speaker 2: asked me to come over, and now you've got another
Speaker 2: girl in your car, Like, where did the communication go.
Speaker 6: Amiss, So what's going on?
Speaker 2: You know? Like other people, they would they go away
Speaker 2: on holiday and then they're like following all these girls
Speaker 2: on Instagram or they've still got dating.
Speaker 6: Apps on their phone, and it's just that constant.
Speaker 2: Feeling of like why aren't I enough for this person?
Speaker 2: But I think coming from that at the different lens
Speaker 2: of like, Okay, well it's actually not me, You're they're.
Speaker 1: Just not ready.
Speaker 3: Who's to blame? Is it the parents? Because you know what,
Speaker 3: I've got a theory because you know, I've got lots
Speaker 3: of straight male friends, and the one thing I've realized
Speaker 3: about my straight male friends that I would never tell them,
Speaker 3: but I know they're f boys. Their mumma mummies boys.
Speaker 3: They have these weird relationship with their mom. Do do
Speaker 3: you think that they do. I'll sign that someone's an
Speaker 3: F boy might be that they're a mummies boy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly, you have some you have some truth there.
Speaker 6: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2: And also they always talk badly about their ex. They
Speaker 2: think that they've healed from them, but they have it
Speaker 2: and then they just project that onto the next girl
Speaker 2: and then never fully open themselves up to a new experience.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so when.
Speaker 2: I ask people about their their histories with girls and
Speaker 2: on the show, always question when.
Speaker 6: Was your last girlfriend?
Speaker 1: How did it end?
Speaker 6: How do you feel? Have you been to therapy?
Speaker 3: Like, but it's true. How they speak about how a
Speaker 3: guy will speak about their previous relationship is going to
Speaker 3: be how they're going to speak about you with your
Speaker 3: relationship answer. It is such a telltale sign. And here
Speaker 3: we are talking about it and acknowledging it. But why
Speaker 3: do these guys not understand that?
Speaker 2: Like honestly, And it's like I will, like I have
Speaker 2: all these experiences with men that obviously didn't go my
Speaker 2: way and I fell out and there was some dumb decisions.
Speaker 6: But I always look at it at the lens of
Speaker 6: oh they're not healed.
Speaker 1: Oh it's not them.
Speaker 2: There must be something going, Like I make excuses as
Speaker 2: well for their behavior, and I think a lot of
Speaker 2: the time I turn a blind eye to some of
Speaker 2: it where I'm like, oh, they're just going through a lot.
Speaker 6: At the moment, it's fine.
Speaker 2: No, girls, get out of there, Like you need to
Speaker 2: exit that chat.
Speaker 3: And move move on, move on to someone else. Everyone
Speaker 3: wants to know because you guys are kind of categorized
Speaker 3: into looking quite similar to last year, so you kind
Speaker 3: of might be the Molly of the season. Did you
Speaker 3: reach out to any of the girls from last year
Speaker 3: and asked for any advice and did they give you
Speaker 3: any advice?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, so I I last year. I reached out to
Speaker 2: you Aziara and I was like, do you have anything,
Speaker 2: because she's fellow Melbourne girl, and I was like, you've
Speaker 2: got any advice, that'll be it, And you know, she
Speaker 2: just said go in open heart, like it's such a
Speaker 2: short time filming as well, Like everything happens so so
Speaker 2: so quick, and so you kind of need to stay grounded,
Speaker 2: make the most of the experience and have fun, like
Speaker 2: it's a long days, long hours, And that's.
Speaker 6: Exactly what I did.
Speaker 2: And I think as you go through, you're so tired
Speaker 2: and you just so many emotions going involved, and I
Speaker 2: get emotional and everyone's crying, and there has to be
Speaker 2: a middle point where you're just like, you know what
Speaker 2: it's all going to be, Okay, I've got the girls.
Speaker 6: Here, they're here for my support.
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this alone, Like I couldn't hardly thinking
Speaker 2: of doing this as like a single Let's say Bachelorette.
Speaker 3: So sorry, I've run out of time, but I just
Speaker 3: realized I need to ask this last quick question if
Speaker 3: you can just do it really short, because we've play
Speaker 3: Everyone who joins the podcast gets asked this. What's something
Speaker 3: from behind the scenes, something that we as an audience
Speaker 3: won't know about what it's like to be one of
Speaker 3: the girls on this show, Like it's like high school.
Speaker 6: Okay, So when you're not filming with the boys, it's
Speaker 6: like security.
Speaker 1: We're separated.
Speaker 2: There is no if you lock eyes at the boy,
Speaker 2: it's like stop looking at them. And I mean with
Speaker 2: cheeky sometimes we'd call out, you know, we tease them
Speaker 2: a bit, but they really make.
Speaker 1: An effort to keep it separate.
Speaker 6: So everything you're.
Speaker 2: Seeing on camera it's not rehearsed, like that's happening real time.
Speaker 1: It really is reality.
Speaker 2: And that shocked me at first, but I guess it
Speaker 2: allows for all of those.
Speaker 6: Raw and reactions to be real.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: Otherwise it's like girls are here.
Speaker 3: Very high school. I love it. You have the best
Speaker 3: time with this experience.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited to go on this journey with you,
Speaker 3: and I think it's such a fun show. It's reality
Speaker 3: TV at its best, like we've leveled up.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's it's gonna be an epic season.
Speaker 4: H