WEBVTT - MINI! Laura shuts down fat shaming caller! 😱

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<v Speaker 1>Look, the dating world is hard. It is like a

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<v Speaker 1>jungle out there.

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<v Speaker 2>You tell them it's drue. Yeah, I'm telling you, Mitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I did it for ten years. I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're You're six months into the dating world, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna understand this. There's a TikToker a woman that's going

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely viral at the moment because the poor thing got

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<v Speaker 1>ghosted in the middle of a date. Now, when I

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<v Speaker 1>say in the middle of a date, literally she was

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<v Speaker 1>on a like a drinks and snacks date and the.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy I just thought I never came back. Have wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>chester say, yeah I won the four fool came out.

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<v Speaker 3>He was looking at me crazy over you were invited

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<v Speaker 3>me out?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, why did say he going to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 4>and never come back.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like.

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<v Speaker 2>In the brab and the tail.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what she's saying there is there they were

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<v Speaker 2>half eating. He said had to go to Oilert. He

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<v Speaker 2>was gone prop to thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>She he never came back, she never saw him again,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had to get the tab. Now, immediately you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what a jerk. This guy wouldn't Yeah, you wouldn't do that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>This guy. You would never just leave someone on a date. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this video has been viewed more than six million times.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of opinions about it. The reason that

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<v Speaker 1>he got up and left was because he invited her

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<v Speaker 1>for a drink and she decided to get some oysters. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>those oysters must have been so delicious that she ordered

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<v Speaker 1>another place.

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<v Speaker 2>So she ordered a dozen.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she was like, well delicious, get another dozen, got

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<v Speaker 1>another dozen, got another dozen. She ordered and ate forty

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<v Speaker 1>eight oysters. And not only ate them, she slurped them back,

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<v Speaker 1>and she recorded the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Ghosting is such a bad thing to do. It's such

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<v Speaker 4>a mean thing to do to someone on a date.

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<v Speaker 4>There is no reason why you would go for someone

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<v Speaker 4>unless they eat forty eight oysters, in which case, like

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<v Speaker 4>all the power to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think nice gonuts. No ever, no, Aura.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was it was an oyster special bonanza, twelve

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<v Speaker 3>dollars for twelve oysters. She is in this economy, she's

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<v Speaker 3>thinking cash wise much hang on.

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<v Speaker 2>She also ordered can I. She also ordered crab cake

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<v Speaker 2>and red potato entrey.

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<v Speaker 3>She knows what she wants, that is goals.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is the problem, right, it was supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be a drink date.

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<v Speaker 1>The tab was three hundred and fifteen Australian dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>he had thought he was only widing her for a drink.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's obviously been like, I actually can't pay for this.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's panicked and he's left.

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<v Speaker 4>She's not even talking to him, she's too busy sucking

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<v Speaker 4>down forty eight oysters.

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<v Speaker 2>They've not even had a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, could you imagine the vibe at

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<v Speaker 1>that table, because Alway says are an aphrodisiac.

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<v Speaker 2>She's just smashed that forty eight. That's my point.

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<v Speaker 3>If he was smart, he'd take her home.

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<v Speaker 2>No forty eight oysters.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you'd be ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>She'd smell at the inside of a fish shop.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well he's written he's written something. No, I offered

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<v Speaker 1>to take you out for drinks and you ordered all

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<v Speaker 1>that food.

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<v Speaker 3>He commented on the TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can cash up the total for the drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>he said. So he's like, look, I'll cover what we

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to, but the nearly.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifty oysters of yours, I can't blame the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we should get a mail's perspective. Hi Travis,

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<v Speaker 3>have you bailed on a date or did someone bail

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<v Speaker 3>on you? Like, where do you stand on this?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I bailed on a day not too long. But I

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<v Speaker 5>really care about like I go to him basically every day,

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<v Speaker 5>like it it's important to me, right, And we were

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<v Speaker 5>started chatting about that, and she, as she said, it

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't doesn't really exercise, and she was wearing like like

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<v Speaker 5>a baggy clothes and like a like a jacket over

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<v Speaker 5>the top, and so I thought, well, this could be

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<v Speaker 5>a risky So I just didn't want to didn't want

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<v Speaker 5>to take the gamble, so I just called it off.

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<v Speaker 5>And when I hang.

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<v Speaker 2>On, do you want to take the gamble of what? Travis?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you gambling here?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>It being bit's important to me, So I don't want to,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I don't want to spend the time, messot

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<v Speaker 5>and the money getting.

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<v Speaker 3>To know this.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait great, wait, wait you didn't even have the single

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<v Speaker 4>decency to say that maybe you guys weren't match. You

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<v Speaker 4>just ghosted her because you look at her and figured

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<v Speaker 4>out that she wasn't fit enough for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I'm just just trying to get the pieces of

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<v Speaker 2>the puzzle here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Well, if something's important to you. It's important to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You've got to make sure you've match.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, tell me what your definition definition of fit

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<v Speaker 1>is here, because this is the interesting word. Fit is

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that can do any amount of exercise. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the way someone looks. It's not an aesthetic or.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it an aesthetic?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I disagree there. Well I look good naked, mate. I

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<v Speaker 5>want to make sure that when she's naked, we're having

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<v Speaker 5>a good time together. Why do I put in all

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<v Speaker 5>this word?

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<v Speaker 4>I think this woman who sucked on forty eight oysters,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a very different story, and it's purely because it's

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<v Speaker 4>grossed me out a little bit. But picking on someone

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<v Speaker 4>because of the way they look and ghosting them because

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<v Speaker 4>you instantly find something unattractive about them, there is no

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<v Speaker 4>human decency in that, and it's so unkind.

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<v Speaker 3>What a pig, an absolute pig.

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<v Speaker 2>What a pig