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Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your

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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. Today.

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Speaker 2: And then also something I find quite easy to tap

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Speaker 1: Is, and there's no kind of you can't unknow it. Yeah,

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00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: it's really interesting, an interesting feeling.

438
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Speaker 2: And for me too, it's often quite unlogical. So when

439
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, logically, I know I should do this or

440
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 2: this is the answer, but not logically this is how

441
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 2: I feel.

442
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: M Yeah, And you know, even like you say, even

443
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: if it's not logical at the time, you know that

444
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: it is going to make sense further down the track,

445
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: like something will have been or something will come up

446
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: that you'll kind of go ah, right, like, this is

447
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: you know, this is why.

448
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of it's making a bit more sense

449
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: now and that's like, well, I guess let's start talking

450
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 2: about finding your purpose. So this is you know, this

451
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: is what you do. And I absolutely love this for

452
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: you know, the reasons I was chatting to you at

453
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 2: the start. And I really feel like my life is

454
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: so much more fulfilling now that I've really you know,

455
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 2: found my purpose and my purpose, like if I explain

456
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: it in one sentence, is female empowerment and letting, you know,

457
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 2: empowering other people to go after what they want and

458
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: just you know, to feel worthy enough to go after

459
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 2: what they want. And it's really been a journey for me.

460
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 2: But like I said, it's kind of been like lots

461
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 2: of these intuition steps. But something I do talk about

462
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: on this podcast is like, your purpose isn't always going

463
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 2: to be your job. And I think some people kind

464
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 2: of get a little bit lost in this and you're

465
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, well, I've got to start, you know,

466
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: a side hustle. You know. Let's say they love art

467
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 2: and they love paining. They're like, oh, I've got to

468
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 2: make money from it. But it's I'm such a big

469
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: believer that that's not always, you know, the right way.

470
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: And I really loved your posts where you spoke about

471
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: So you have this quote on Instagram that says three

472
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 2: things you need to know about your life purpose. One

473
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: your passions are not your purpose. Two you don't have

474
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: to quit your day job. Three you don't have to

475
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: save the world. And then you said find your purpose,

476
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: design your life, and inspire inspire others to do the same.

477
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: And I just absolutely love that because I think sometimes

478
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: we can get a bit lost that it's like, oh,

479
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: I've got to make my you know, side hustle my

480
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: main job, and I've got to make my hobby to

481
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: make money and all these different things. So can you

482
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: explain to us a little bit about you know, this concept.

483
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally, And you're right, there's so much pressure I

484
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: think on purpose and passions and hobbies and everything that.

485
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: You know, once we've found something that we're good at

486
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: and we enjoy it, monetize it, and I just I'm

487
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: the same. I'm just like, no, no, no, there's there's

488
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: no reason that you have to do that. You can

489
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: just we're allowed to just enjoy things. We're allowed to

490
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 1: just do things for fun and just for the you know,

491
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 1: pure pleasure, pleasure and enjoyment of it. Not everything has.

492
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 3: To be hustled.

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00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And if you have something that you are really

494
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: passionate about and you do want to turn it into

495
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: a business or a career or whatever, that might be amazing.

496
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: But I guess it's just about making sure that you're

497
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: doing it for the right reasons and that you've got

498
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: sort of a really clear understanding of what it is

499
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: you're doing and why. So, yeah, going back to you know,

500
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,239
Speaker 1: passions and not your purpose, this is something that so

501
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: many people sort of get caught up, and this is

502
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: something that tripped me up so many times. I mean,

503
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: we've all heard the advice about, you know, follow your

504
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: passions and life will be amazing and all of those

505
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: kinds of things. Just follow your passions, life will be incredible.

506
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: But what happens when we follow our passions is we're

507
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: following something that we are really interested in and that

508
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: we might find really fun, but we haven't identified the

509
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: underlying reason why, or the sort of underlying reason that's

510
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: driving us toward that, which is more often than not,

511
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: our purpose. And if what happens when you follow a

512
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: passion rather than your purpose is you're following just one.

513
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 3: Tiny kind of hint, like one tiny kind.

514
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: Of interpretation of your purpose, and it can be so

515
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: far removed from what your purpose actually is. And then

516
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: what happens is you get to this point where, again,

517
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: as I did so many times, you get to this

518
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: point where you kind of realize, you know what, I

519
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: followed the thing that I was interested in. I followed

520
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: the thing that I loved. I've got here and it

521
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: just doesn't feel right. It still feels like something's missing.

522
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: And so often in that situation, we'll go back to

523
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: square one and we'll think, you know what, I'm really

524
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: passionate about this, so I'll go down this path, and

525
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: then the same thing happens over and over again, and

526
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: that's again, you know, it's a really tough place to

527
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: be in because it's it's disheartening when when you're you know,

528
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: backing yourself and you're taking a risk and then not

529
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: quite landing where you're meant to be landing. So if

530
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: we think think about our purpose as like this overatching

531
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,479
Speaker 1: theme of our life, it's something that is unchanging, and

532
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: it's something that is usually really broad, which is a

533
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: good thing. It's very very much tied to either helping

534
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: other people in some way or other living beings, or

535
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: the environment that we're in, which totally makes sense because

536
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: when you strip away everything material in.

537
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 3: The world, you know, what do we have left?

538
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: Right? We have each other, and we have other living beings,

539
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: and we have our environments. So it makes sense that

540
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: your purpose is kind of for one of those three things,

541
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: and it's going to be something that you feel really

542
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: compelled to do or teach or share or create or

543
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: build or give or you know, whatever it might be

544
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: around one of those. And where our passions fit into

545
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: that is that we can bring our life out, so

546
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: we can bring our purpose to life through our passions.

547
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: But the passions are not the purpose itself, So it's

548
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 1: just one of the many ways that we could bring

549
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: our purpose to life. So that's the really big difference.

550
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: I love that you touched on that, and I like,

551
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: hope I'm processing this right. So, for example, if my

552
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: purpose is female empowerment, you know I've done that in

553
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 2: a couple of ways of I have an all natural

554
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 2: female focus our supplement business, where you know, I empower

555
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 2: females through giving them an all natural you know, alternative

556
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 2: with no nasties, just the good stuff. And then also

557
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: I have this podcast where it's all about empowering females,

558
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 2: you know, in a completely different way. But both passions

559
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: are still within the overarching purpose.

560
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

561
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, Yeah, that's exactly it. Yeah, absolutely. And then

562
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: within you know, within those two things, you've probably built

563
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 1: in a lot of other passions. You've probably we got

564
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: lots of other passions that come through, like in terms

565
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: of you know, business and sort of innovation, creativity, and

566
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: even things like design. You know, I'm really passionate about design,

567
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: and I love that that. It's it comes through in

568
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: my business in such a simple way, just with you know,

569
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 1: designing website stuff or like graphics or posts and things

570
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: like that. So it's, yeah, you've absolutely nailed it. It's

571
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: sort of you have this bigger, more broad purpose and

572
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: then there are lots of different ways that you can

573
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: bring it to life, and that's where your passions come

574
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: into play.

575
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: I love that, and I I'm very much a big

576
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 2: advocate for having almost like a purpose statement kind of

577
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: lack mine about female empowerment because it just it almost

578
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 2: brings clarity to then your passions to make sure you

579
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 2: know that within alignment. Okay, rn C fam, We're taking

580
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 2: a quick break and I want to ask you, guys,

581
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: are you getting your daily recommended intake of three fruits

582
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 2: and five veggies?

583
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 3: No?

584
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes maybe I feel you on this.

585
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: Wow.

586
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: So, in a perfect world, we are getting all our

587
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 2: vitamin minerals and needs from our food directly. But because

588
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 2: we live such hectic lives and our soil is often

589
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: lacking from so much farming done, that doesn't always happen

590
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: that and that's why supplements are so popular, and that's

591
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592
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593
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Speaker 2: make sure you're getting what you need in a convenient

594
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598
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599
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600
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601
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602
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603
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605
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606
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607
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612
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614
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619
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624
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Speaker 2: enough about Gorgeous Greens. Let's get back into the show.

625
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 2: But for people who maybe are literally just completely like

626
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: they have no idea what their purpose is, they have

627
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: no idea where their passions are just you know, all

628
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: over the place, what would your advice be for that person?

629
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: Well, first off, I would just I would want to

630
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: reassure them that every single person who has ever found

631
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: their purpose has started from that exact point. So you know,

632
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: you're you're just you're right at the start of the journey,

633
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: which is exciting, and so you know you're, yeah, you're

634
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: on the right path at that point, which is great.

635
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: The framework that I mentioned earlier, I had turned it

636
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 1: into an ebook and it's a step by step process.

637
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: It's one that I still use with clients today, Like

638
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: when I work one on one with people, we still

639
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: go through that same process. For the first couple of years,

640
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: that had a price attached to it, so it was

641
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 1: thirty nine US dollars and last year I think it was,

642
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: could have been actually been the year before. I shifted

643
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: the price to pay what you can, and same with

644
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: a spirituality course that I have that takes people through

645
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 1: the absolute basics of spirituality. Like as an I have

646
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: no idea what I'm doing here, I have no idea.

647
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 3: What it's about.

648
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: I just kind of want to get into it, taking

649
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: them from that point to a point where they have

650
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: a real genuine two way connection that they can get

651
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: inside and guidance from. And same there, I shifted the

652
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Speaker 1: price from one hundred and forty seven US to pay

653
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Speaker 1: what you can. So you know, I've tried to take

654
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: away as many barriers as I possibly can, because I

655
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: genuinely believe that living on purpose and having that spiritual

656
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: connection is so deeply important, especially as the world is

657
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: kind of rapidly and drastically changing. It's important for us

658
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: as individuals and how we live our lives, and that

659
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: flows out into you know, our immediate family and our

660
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: kids and the people that we sort of interact with

661
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 1: on a day to day basis and further again. So

662
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's a place that you know, I

663
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: would really encourage people to start with if they want, so,

664
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: you know, feel free to jump on and grab that. Otherwise,

665
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: there's lots of blog posts and I send out lots

666
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: of newsleaders and things like that that can take them

667
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: through that process if they want to just have a

668
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 1: little hint of it first.

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Speaker 2: Amazing, and I'll make sure I link that in the

670
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 2: show notes. That's so lovely of you to do the

671
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 2: pay as you go, especially I think with everything happening

672
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 2: with COVID and stuff. It's just yeah, it's very thoughtful.

673
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, in all honesty, it.

674
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Speaker 1: Was a decision that was really cemented through automatic writing.

675
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Speaker 1: It was a decision that really was you know, came

676
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,879
Speaker 1: from one of these sessions and where I was really

677
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: kind of tuned in and connected and sort of yeah,

678
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 1: going through these different scenarios about what will what I'm

679
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: doing look like in the future and what stip should

680
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 1: I take, And that was a really clear, a really

681
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: clear missage of this is the next thing that you

682
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: should do.

683
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Speaker 3: And I was like, of course, of course I should,

684
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Speaker 3: and I love that.

685
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: And so Misty, you have a really beautiful post on

686
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: Instagram and I resonated with this so much where you

687
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: chatted about like everything that we need and also like

688
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 2: I'm a huge, huge believe of this too. So you

689
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 2: explained that everything that we need is already inside us,

690
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: and once we let go of limiting beliefs, we can

691
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: achieve anything we want. Could you just chat a little

692
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 2: bit more about why you're a big believer of this?

693
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, it's you know, I'm our mindset is everything like

694
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: what we believe and think and what we will achieve

695
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: in our life, you know, our potential, how far we

696
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: think we can go, the things that we're good at

697
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: is the only thing that really, the only thing that

698
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: is holding us back is how we think about ourselves

699
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: and what we believe. And if we're in a place

700
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: where we aren't feeling confident, we don't have a lot

701
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: of self belief, you know, we've sort of got issues

702
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: around self worth or self esteem, then we are going

703
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: to hang on to all of these things and all

704
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: of these doubts, and we're just not going to be

705
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: able to move forward. We're not going to be able

706
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: to be as effective or go as far as we

707
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: could if we could uncover, you know, really pick apart

708
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: those beliefs that we're carrying. And so when you go

709
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Speaker 1: through the process and you pick all of those apart,

710
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: you suddenly realize that, yeah, you do. You have so

711
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: much within you, you know, this resourcefulness and sort of

712
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: confidence and ideas and innovation. It just kind of paus

713
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: out of you and nothing physically changed, you know, like

714
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: you had the potential for all of that in the

715
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: first place. You already had that within you. It was

716
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: just kind of all of these beliefs that we all

717
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: hang onto different ones. Obviously, we've we've got different beliefs

718
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: to kind of navigate and uncover, but that essential drive

719
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: and motivation and inspiration is just setting there, you know,

720
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Speaker 1: kind of ready to be unleashed and ready to kind

721
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: of be brought to life. And of course we can

722
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: get into things that are external and tangible, like we

723
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: can kind of say, well, this person has more money,

724
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: and this person, you know, might have better access to

725
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: education and all of those kinds of things, which absolutely

726
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: those things play a part. But when you can let

727
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: go of all of those sort of different limiting beliefs

728
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Speaker 1: and the mindset that is really holding us back, you're

729
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 1: in a situation where you can go out and get

730
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Speaker 1: or learn the things that we need. And that's going

731
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: to look different for different people, but that potential, and

732
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Speaker 1: like I said, that inspiration and that drive is in

733
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Speaker 1: there already.

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Speaker 2: I love it so much. It's really funny because I

735
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Speaker 2: was actually talking to a girlfriend on the weekend and

736
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Speaker 2: I do our six week self development course called the

737
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Speaker 2: Rise and Concho Projack, where I basically take people through yeah,

738
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Speaker 2: like limiting beliefs and get them in a better mindset

739
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Speaker 2: to achieve goals basically. And I was talking to a

740
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 2: girlfriend who did the last round of my course and

741
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Speaker 2: she's like, she was just really not in a good

742
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: mental space, really yeah, just really not good, very negative,

743
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: lots of limiting beliefs in just like kind of like

744
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Speaker 2: a you know, when someone's in like a weird headspace.

745
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Speaker 2: And she explained, you know, she'd done the course. She

746
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 2: really got into her limiting beliefs, and she's like, it's

747
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: so funny because it's six weeks later and she's like,

748
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Speaker 2: my physical reality nothing has changed, like it's pretty much

749
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: the same, but she is a completely different person. And

750
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Speaker 2: it's because she really, yeah, got into those limiting beliefs.

751
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Speaker 2: She's unlocked a lot of her potential. And then what

752
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 2: she realized is once she kind of you know, unblocked

753
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 2: herself ideas were flowing in and she could see things

754
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Speaker 2: a different way, and she could, yeah, like really get

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Speaker 2: around things in a different way. And she literally was like,

756
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Speaker 2: my life has changed. And I just thought it was

757
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Speaker 2: so insane because it's literally just a mindset shift.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, it's incredible, And it kind of

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Speaker 1: also touches on, you know, the concept that we're talking

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Speaker 1: about earlier, being a spiritual being versus being a human being.

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Speaker 1: When you make that sort of shift from I'm a

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Speaker 1: human being trying to live up to I'm a spiritual

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Speaker 1: being and I don't want to say living down because

764
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Speaker 1: that kind of puts a strange connotation on it, but

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Speaker 1: I'm a spiritual being kind of just living this human

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Speaker 1: existence that I feel like that kind of subtle shift

767
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: in perspective can also kind of help to leak goal

768
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Speaker 1: of a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of these things.

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Speaker 1: You know, as you know, there's so many different ways

771
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Speaker 1: to work through limiting below. But if we kind of

772
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Speaker 1: almost have that a slight sense of detachment from the

773
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Speaker 1: ego kind of identity stuff, and you kind of just

774
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Speaker 1: separate it from you as the highest self, spiritual person,

775
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: and it's kind of like, oh, this is interesting that

776
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Speaker 1: I'm feeling this, and it's not something that you take

777
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: on board and hold as much when you're in a

778
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Speaker 1: situation where you're really identifying with those limiting beliefs. So yeah,

779
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: it's just yeah, it's exactly as you said, it's just

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Speaker 1: a mindset shift. Nothing physical necessarily needs to change to

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Speaker 1: have that happen.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, it's like I know, it's like almost like

784
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 2: we're saying before, the spiritual stuff of like it can

785
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 2: seem so simple but be so life changing, and like

786
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: to some people it's almost like they can't comprehend or

787
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Speaker 2: process that.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it can be so simple.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know, I mean I've absolutely experienced that

790
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: as well, where you know, it's taken me years to

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00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: and then it sort of eventually. Yeah, it's just this

792
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: one simple concept that you might have heard, you know,

793
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: several times over and then it suddenly just kind of

794
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: clicks or you have an experience or something changes that you're.

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Speaker 3: Just kind of like, ah, I get.

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Speaker 1: It now, it makes so much sense. And yeah, it

797
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: is very simple and you sort of have that different understanding,

798
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: which is you know, again, like the funny thing about

799
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 1: personal personal growth is that it's really it's never ending.

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's ever point that you reach. It's

801
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: just this kind of ongoing sort of exploration and as

802
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 1: you live different experiences, different things come up. But I

803
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: think it gets to a point where it becomes fun.

804
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: Like it you know, it starts off and it's like

805
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: very kind of like, oh gosh, this is awful, but

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00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: it becomes interesting and kind of exciting.

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Speaker 2: I think also when you take the like you said,

808
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 2: when you take the pressure off it, and yeah, you

809
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 2: don't see it as this like end destination where you're

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Speaker 2: getting to your like higher self and reaching this like

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00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 2: pinnacle point, and you just see it as you're constantly growing.

812
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 2: You're constantly learning. There is going to be dips and

813
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: highs and lows and that's okay and you accept that.

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Speaker 2: And I think a huge thing for me and personal

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00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 2: growth is just awareness, Like awareness is always the first

816
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 2: step for me for changing anything mindset or anything like that,

817
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: and just making sure I'm just always self evaluating and

818
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 2: going from there.

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Speaker 3: I love that. Yeah, yeah, perfect, that's exactly.

820
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Speaker 2: Its So before we finish this, ap misty, do you

821
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Speaker 2: want to touch on anything else with finding your purpose?

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Speaker 1: I guess just kind of going back to that you know,

823
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: bigger message that you absolutely have a purpose. You know,

824
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: we all have something that we're meant to do in life,

825
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: and it's something that is going to just feel once

826
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Speaker 1: you find it, you will feel like this is it.

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Speaker 1: You're absolutely on the right path. You know who you are,

828
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 1: what you're here to do, and you can work out

829
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: a really clear way of how you would like to

830
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Speaker 1: bring it to life in a way that really suits you.

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Speaker 1: So I just, yeah, I guess I just want to

832
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: sort of reinforce and highlight that if anyone is kind

833
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: of wondering and thinking like.

834
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 3: Do I have a purpose? You absolutely do.

835
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Speaker 2: I love that, and I think for me too, like

836
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 2: when I think back on finding my purpose, which was

837
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Speaker 2: really kind of this pivotal point of leaving my corporate

838
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 2: job and really just taking this leap of faith, but

839
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Speaker 2: it was really honing into my intuition. I was kind

840
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 2: of saying before, like, logically it did not make sense

841
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,720
Speaker 2: to leave this great job after six years of study

842
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 2: and you know, go off and see what happens. But

843
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 2: intuitively I was just like, no, this is the thing

844
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 2: I need to do and I need to trust this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I love that, And it takes a lot

846
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Speaker 3: of courage.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think that's also it is like

848
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 2: with intuition and purpose. It's like having that courage and

849
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: realizing that it doesn't always feel comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, Yeah, yeah, absolutely it is. I mean, you know,

851
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: there's there's so many learning experiences that come from that process.

852
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 1: There's so much that you will learn about yourself as

853
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 1: you go through, and that applies to spirituality and personal growth.

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00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: Like my philosophy to that is that they go hand

855
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: in hand. You can't really have one without the other.

856
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: And it's just yeah, the sort of you move forward

857
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: a little bit in one area and then you sort

858
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: of catch up in the other, and it's just this

859
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: kind of just inching forward with each experience.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much, Missy. You have been such

862
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 2: a bloody legend and I appreciate you making the time

863
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 2: to chat to the rn C fan. So as this is,

864
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Speaker 2: you know, it's a bit of an inspirational podcast. I

865
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 2: would love to ask you what is the best piece

866
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Speaker 2: of advice that you have ever received?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do have one that it's not a it's

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00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 1: not so much a concise sentence, but my parents were

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Speaker 1: to sort of challenge the status quo and not be

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Speaker 1: afraid to do things differently. And you know, they would

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Speaker 1: really sort of challenge the idea of like this is

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Speaker 1: what you're meant to do in life and really encouraged

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Speaker 1: us to be confident enough to think, actually, I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I want to do that, or like, you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe this is what I want to do instead. So

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Speaker 1: I really love that. Like I said, there's no kind

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Speaker 1: of concise sentence for it, but just that concept of

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Speaker 1: being confident enough and feeling I guess safe enough to

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Speaker 1: really live how you want to live and to do

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Speaker 1: the things in life that really genuinely matter to you

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Speaker 1: rather than sort of falling into that expectation of what

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Speaker 1: others might have for you.

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 2: I love that that is you have like you have

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Speaker 2: incredible parents.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really yeah, really lucky because those are you know,

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Speaker 1: there's a big thing to work, huge.

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Speaker 2: And I think like that's such going against like going

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Speaker 2: against the status quo is lack such a huge thing.

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Speaker 2: Especially that was such a huge thing with me for

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Speaker 2: finding my purpose. So yeah, I love that you touched

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Speaker 2: on that. And so lastly, Misty where can everyone find you?

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Speaker 1: My website would be the place to visit, so mistysansum

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Speaker 1: dot com, which is is a infinale is o inf

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Speaker 1: mum and you'll find all sorts of blog posts and

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Speaker 1: free resources and as I mentioned, ebook and courses and

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Speaker 1: things like that there as well.

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Speaker 2: Amazing. Well, thank you so much for coming on the

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Speaker 2: Rising Conker Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. It's been so

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Speaker 1: fun chatting. I've loved it.

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