WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Rat Men = HOT Men? 🐀

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<v Speaker 1>Come on in.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, Thursday afternoon, welcome to the pickup. We're on.

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<v Speaker 2>We are sadly on.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for that clarification, fair.

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<v Speaker 4>I almost didn't make it here today, and that's because

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't find my khaki. So I was like running

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit late, a little bit late, I'm sure,

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<v Speaker 4>running out the door half find my car keys. I

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<v Speaker 4>put them on the table. I know where I put

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<v Speaker 4>them because I do put them in the same spot.

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<v Speaker 3>My husband doesn't, but I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, fifteen minutes later, I couldn't find them, and then Lola,

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<v Speaker 4>who is three years old currently told me exactly where

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<v Speaker 4>she'd seen them, and that was in the toilet and

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<v Speaker 4>she had put them in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you have an electric one like with the

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<v Speaker 1>like the what.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you mean the car kis? Does that not break

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<v Speaker 5>it when in water? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, no, no it was fine. Let's still worry it.

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<v Speaker 3>I drove here today, so Laura's carr is water.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you discipline a kid in that situation? I

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<v Speaker 2>would have been smacked yet No, I'm not saying do it,

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<v Speaker 2>but back in my day, I would have been in

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<v Speaker 2>so much trouble.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you say I'm just grateful that she's at

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<v Speaker 4>least at the age now where she's like she's competent

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<v Speaker 4>and like cognizant enough that she knows what she's done.

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<v Speaker 4>So when I asked her, she was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I put them in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 2>I need this new age parenting. She's not even mad,

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<v Speaker 2>she went, In fact, I'm proud of you for doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>You get a participation.

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<v Speaker 4>I did say, I did tell her that that was naughty,

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<v Speaker 4>but she wasn't trying to be naughty of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh guys, we have a huge show coming up. We

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<v Speaker 1>haven't asked gun cut. We do it every single Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>We answer one of your problems and we have one

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<v Speaker 1>surrounding veneers today, one we've.

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<v Speaker 2>Never had before. Yeah, and ask I cut next stand by.

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<v Speaker 2>We're helping out the audience after this on the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a Thursday. Let's jump into.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask Ask Gunhart is one of our favorite segments. We

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<v Speaker 1>do it every Thursday. We call it Therapy Thursday.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, you call in with.

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<v Speaker 1>Your biggest predicaments, your deepest, darkest problems. We do our

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<v Speaker 1>best to give you completely uneducated advice, but we're very

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<v Speaker 1>passionate about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Luisa, you need some advice. You've come to the

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<v Speaker 2>right place, grew therapy. The pickup is where people come.

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<v Speaker 2>How can we help you? What's your con under him?

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<v Speaker 6>So I've been with.

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<v Speaker 7>My partner for a long time and everything in our

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<v Speaker 7>relationship is fine. There's nothing wrong with him.

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<v Speaker 6>We're very happy. The only thing is that he really

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<v Speaker 6>wants vinears. He's always been very unhappy with his smile.

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<v Speaker 6>And the thing is he wants veneers. They're very expensive

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<v Speaker 6>and he thinks.

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<v Speaker 7>That he should dip into our joint savings account to

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<v Speaker 7>pay for them.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, no, that's ah, that's a himn thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, no, no, get the facts. How bad are

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<v Speaker 2>his teeth? Since since you met him? Has he been

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<v Speaker 2>an insecurity for him? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>And look, so he doesn't smile in photos.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't look at.

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<v Speaker 6>Him and think that it's bad. But it's something that.

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<v Speaker 7>I think for him it's bad because, yeah, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>smile in photos.

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<v Speaker 6>It's something he's always been very self conscious about. And

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<v Speaker 6>I do feel bad.

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<v Speaker 7>Five years and is he the one? Oh, no question,

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<v Speaker 7>he's the one. We're very happy together. The thing is,

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<v Speaker 7>though without joint savings, we don't own our home, and.

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<v Speaker 6>It would be I think probably smarter that we keep

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<v Speaker 6>building for a deposit rather than dipping into it for

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<v Speaker 6>something cosmetic. I think if he wants to do this,

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<v Speaker 6>it almost has to be something he should pay for himself.

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<v Speaker 3>How much how much divining is cost?

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<v Speaker 2>Do we know?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like looking at about yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 7>We're looking at about ten about ten thousand.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you not split it down the middle and be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>well we can put ten thousand dollars for your teeth

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<v Speaker 4>in from the joint account, and then you've got to

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<v Speaker 4>give me ten thousand dollars and I'll go do something

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<v Speaker 4>with it that I want.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's not it's not two for two. You don't go, hey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pay for two front teeth, you pay for two

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<v Speaker 2>bottom times.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm to suggest maybe getting the top row only, Okay, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's very nonessent.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I mean, I would say for other things, like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, if it's a surgery or something you have

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<v Speaker 4>to have of cause you're going to pay for your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>But veniez, it's just cusmatic.

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<v Speaker 1>Superficial agree for a lot of people. I mean, your

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<v Speaker 1>smile and your teeth are. Like you said, he's so

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<v Speaker 1>self conscious and he doesn't smile. It's a really big

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<v Speaker 1>thing for a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's look.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, if I was with my partner for five

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<v Speaker 1>years and we were getting married and it's something that

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<v Speaker 1>made him deeply unhappy, I would probably be okay with

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<v Speaker 1>it and think, Okay, maybe it takes us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit longer to get that renovation money if it's his

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<v Speaker 1>day to day that he's living. But it's completely up

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<v Speaker 1>to you. If you know that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, you just say that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't know. I think five years and it's

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<v Speaker 3>your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, i'd probably want to try and make my

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<v Speaker 1>partner feel really happy. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon individual choice.

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon you can like split, don't dip into the

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<v Speaker 2>whole funds and pay for the whole thing. I think

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<v Speaker 2>he needs to pay for a chunk of it. But

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<v Speaker 2>I also think have you considered him applying for married

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<v Speaker 2>at First Sight? Because about it? Those contestants go on

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<v Speaker 2>that show and what do they all come off with,

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<v Speaker 2>No love, free dental work.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is very true. That's a good tactic. Or

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<v Speaker 4>is there anything that you want to get done. Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go and get something, but lifted you

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<v Speaker 4>get a BBL.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't it takes even more money away. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you get this, I get this. I think Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just making him happy and making him smile as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you say afraid to Yeah, and you put

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<v Speaker 1>it in the eye you How bad are we talking?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you send us a photo please? Producer Grace has

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<v Speaker 2>a photo. Yeah, look at there? Pretty bad?

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<v Speaker 7>Look at the ground that bad?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, guys, it's not about what you all think, it's

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<v Speaker 5>about what he thinks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what they look like? They look like Patricia

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<v Speaker 2>Quette from Medium, you know how the front two kind

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<v Speaker 2>of and I'm not negging. I'm just saying for a

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<v Speaker 2>visual for the listeners that the front two kind of

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<v Speaker 2>come in like a funnel.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure Patricia would think that you're negging her.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying that's how the teeth look.

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<v Speaker 1>For a visual for the audience, ask the dentist if

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<v Speaker 1>you can do a payment plan, a long term payment,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know a lot of them do it or

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<v Speaker 1>get those you know those teeth? All right?

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<v Speaker 4>So I completely put my foot in it yesterday and

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<v Speaker 4>something happened, and I honestly I can't stop thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>it because part of me feels bad.

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<v Speaker 3>But also it's one of.

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<v Speaker 4>Those situations where you're like, Oh, that could only happen

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<v Speaker 4>to me.

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<v Speaker 3>That could only happen to me?

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<v Speaker 2>What did you do? You can be very blunt like

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<v Speaker 2>in it we love you, but sometimes you deliver news.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you agree with it? And Laura is straight to

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<v Speaker 2>the point.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, yes, yeah you are. There's there's no buffer in

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<v Speaker 5>a bad way or a good way. You go straight

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<v Speaker 5>for the jugular. Did you people nibble?

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<v Speaker 2>You're not afraid of confrontation, which I think I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Though that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you are. Do you have a therapist?

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<v Speaker 2>Part a recommend her word?

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<v Speaker 1>So this this is the reason you hope made someone

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<v Speaker 1>cry physically or emotionally.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not physical when we talk about confrontation, not out

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<v Speaker 4>like you.

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<v Speaker 3>Like accillently trip someone over and they cried.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't actually go for the jugular. No, So yesterday

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<v Speaker 4>we were on a photo shoot. No, I wasn't in

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<v Speaker 4>the photo shoot. I was directing the photo shoot. So

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<v Speaker 4>I have a jewlry label. Tony, may you know there

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<v Speaker 4>you go bit of policity. But we had a photo

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<v Speaker 4>shoot yesterday and and I get to be the creative

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<v Speaker 4>director of these shoots and it's really fun and it's.

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<v Speaker 3>A whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Got the model, You've got your photographer, and you've got

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<v Speaker 4>a whole team. There's about fifteen of us there. And

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<v Speaker 4>the model comes in and I've worked with her before.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like starting beautiful young girl. She's only like in

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<v Speaker 4>her mid twenties, and she's usually really animated. But she

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<v Speaker 4>was a bit flat. And I was like, ah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we all have these days, Maria. No, you're not on

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<v Speaker 4>your You're not on your best a game. And the

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<v Speaker 4>problem was, though, is that this shoot, it wasn't just

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<v Speaker 4>like a model like you know, striking blue steel posers.

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<v Speaker 3>I needed her to be animated.

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<v Speaker 4>I needed her to be excited and to like and

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<v Speaker 4>be really expressive.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So we get in there and we've done a few

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<v Speaker 4>different looks and a few different.

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<v Speaker 3>Shots, and I was like, oh God, she's just not

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<v Speaker 3>We're not.

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<v Speaker 4>Quite there, She's not quite getting it. So I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I'll do. I'll call out different expressions

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<v Speaker 4>for her to do. So I'm staying to the side

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<v Speaker 4>and she's obviously there, you know, getting photos taken. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, so this is what we're gonna Dohnah. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to call out an expression and you're going to

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<v Speaker 4>act out that expression. So if I say happy, you're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be I know. It was it was like we're

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<v Speaker 4>feeding it, okay. So I was like, okay, all right, everyone,

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<v Speaker 4>so on the count of three, you're going to be shocked.

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<v Speaker 4>And so then she did a really good job.

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<v Speaker 2>She did a shock.

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<v Speaker 3>In preschool, but it was great.

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<v Speaker 4>It was great, and she really started to warm up

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<v Speaker 4>and we were actually getting photos in the way that

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<v Speaker 4>we needed them. But the photo that I needed was

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want her to be too over the top,

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<v Speaker 4>like shocked or happy. I needed like a bit of

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<v Speaker 4>a coy happy surprise look, which is a very specific

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<v Speaker 4>kind of look that's hard to nail.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a shocking director, you're like score sassy, like no

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<v Speaker 2>one can do those right now for us, just like,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you do that? Do it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's a close.

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<v Speaker 2>See what just happened?

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<v Speaker 4>It's like no, it's like you need to have a

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<v Speaker 4>bit of a smise. You know, it's closed mouth, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's a oh yeah, well, okay, give me your look

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<v Speaker 4>no terrible as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, so we started off with shocked. Shocked was a

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<v Speaker 4>bit too expressive. Then I was like, okay, give me

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<v Speaker 4>happy shocked, and she gives me happy shocked, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I was settled out very much, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>take the.

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<v Speaker 3>Top off that one, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>So we went through a couple of other expressions and

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<v Speaker 4>she's getting there. She's warman up, she's a woman up.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, all right, and now I've met

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<v Speaker 4>this girl before. And also, when you're booking someone for

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<v Speaker 4>a photo shoot, you usually stalk their social media first, right,

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<v Speaker 4>So you go on you look at their social media

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<v Speaker 4>because you don't want to just.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at their model photos.

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<v Speaker 4>You also want to look at the way that they

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<v Speaker 4>shoot when they're just being candid, just to really get

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<v Speaker 4>like the true look of what these people, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>how they can be expressive. So I knew she's got

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<v Speaker 4>a boyfriend. They've been here for ages, Like, he's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>The two of them look like they've fallen out of

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<v Speaker 4>the sun. They're so glorious together, right, So I was like, okay, honey,

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<v Speaker 4>imagine imagine that your gorgeous boyfriend is about to propose

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, but you're trying to keep the secret.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she burst out crying, burst out crying, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, that's that's not the expression that I

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<v Speaker 3>need right now.

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<v Speaker 4>He had broken up with her the day before, why

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<v Speaker 4>because she couldn't express anything.

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<v Speaker 3>She was dead inside.

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<v Speaker 2>She was so ruidd You mean for a decade, you

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<v Speaker 2>love him, you know his parents who've invested. He's proposing to.

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<v Speaker 3>You fell from the sun.

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<v Speaker 4>Imagine your glorious boyfriend is about to propose to you,

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<v Speaker 4>and you have to pretend like you don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he did? What? What did she say? Did she

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<v Speaker 2>tell you? How did you find that?

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<v Speaker 3>She she kind of just went a bit madic.

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<v Speaker 4>She started laughing for a second and then burst out crying,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, something's gone terribly wrong here. But

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<v Speaker 4>apparently they'd all been talking about it prior so the

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<v Speaker 4>makeup artist they'd all had a massive conversation, but I

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<v Speaker 4>was so.

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<v Speaker 3>Busy prepping I just hadn't heard it and had no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just seemed like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was Laura's walking around like Demiro backstage, coming happy, sad, happy, sad, mad, mad,

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<v Speaker 2>sad smiles coy and gets dump. Four models crying in

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<v Speaker 2>the corner. Everyone's around, Laura's doing it, clown faces on.

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<v Speaker 4>That horrible and we like sorry, well the worst part

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<v Speaker 4>what I was I was, I was like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 4>your bake cup's getting ruins, Like we're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 4>stop down.

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<v Speaker 3>It is so supad you're terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, girls, how you feeling today?

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<v Speaker 3>Great complaints so far?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I get you? Guys? This might be traumatic and

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<v Speaker 2>everyone listening listening in the car at home, I want

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<v Speaker 2>you to cast your mind back to your ex'es, I

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<v Speaker 2>the xes in your life. This might be traumatic and

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<v Speaker 2>a PSA which this triggers you Australia.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had enough therapy that this is not something I

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<v Speaker 4>want to do. I don't want you undoing that therapy

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<v Speaker 4>live on radio.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. There's a theory that is out that says everyone

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<v Speaker 2>has an X that looks like this certain stereotype and

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<v Speaker 2>they are the sexiest men we've all been within our life.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to show you a photo and we'll post

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<v Speaker 2>this on the pickup socials And I want you Britain

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<v Speaker 2>Laura to answer me yes or no. Have you at

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<v Speaker 2>one point in your life and were they sexy dated

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<v Speaker 2>a man that looked like this. Yes, thank you, I

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<v Speaker 2>knew it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, No, I'm trying to study it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just so you guys know, I'm looking at a

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<v Speaker 1>cartoon It's like a cartoon rat with big ears.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a cartoon rat from the hit series Flushed Away.

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<v Speaker 2>And he is hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, do you know what. I've never dated that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you have. I know your exes and you've you've

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<v Speaker 2>had rat exes, but.

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<v Speaker 4>My exes are all ethnic. He looks like a white

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<v Speaker 4>rat rat rat. When we say rat, rat just sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like negative, right. If you say it's a rat, No,

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<v Speaker 4>it is. It's a cartoon rat. But if you say rat,

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<v Speaker 4>most people in the cars would be thinking, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 4>a negative connotation for it. For a human, that is

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<v Speaker 4>a very endearing looking rat. And I would say that

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<v Speaker 4>my ex who looks like that is very, very handsome.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct. There's an article it's sitting on Pedestrian the term

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<v Speaker 2>rat boyfriends hot hot boys can be rats. Like examples

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<v Speaker 2>Kieran Colkan from Succession, He's a rat kind of man.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremy Allen White from The Bear, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't even know he to be Fairs look a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit like that picture. But have you seen his body

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<v Speaker 1>in the Calvin Client campaign. But it doesn't matter about body,

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<v Speaker 1>it it just does body is mad. But the rat comparison,

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<v Speaker 1>Timothy Shallome, everyone is a hot rat.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to show you a photo of my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>right now and tell me what you think.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it not him? Is it not the rat? This

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<v Speaker 2>man would sit on a piece of Yelsberg cheese and

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<v Speaker 2>nor nor nor, he'd have a little little hole in

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<v Speaker 2>the bottom of the four boards. That's a rat.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's so handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's going to show you the only person that

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<v Speaker 1>I think could actually fall into that category.

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<v Speaker 3>We need in the rats. It sounds very negative.

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<v Speaker 7>Is hot?

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<v Speaker 3>The person I'm showing you right now is a very

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<v Speaker 3>good looking It's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not it's an energy about the rat. It's they're hot.

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<v Speaker 2>They're gorgeous. They're gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to have a littlenibble on them?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct? I think my current could be little?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't you think it could be a bit of a rat?

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<v Speaker 2>Mouse?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Body rat?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I just urge you, if you ever dated a rat,

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<v Speaker 2>or you've got an exits a rat, send us a

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<v Speaker 2>photo of the pick up and I want it. We

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<v Speaker 2>can put up a little compilation of the rats of past.

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<v Speaker 4>Please go to add the pick up on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 4>have a look at this picture first, because I think

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<v Speaker 4>you really need to see the visuals whilst we're all

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<v Speaker 4>our ex boyfriends of rat.

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<v Speaker 1>So the rat can I tell you the reason your

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<v Speaker 1>picture looks so good is because he's got that rat

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<v Speaker 1>has beautiful skin like and he's got very even features.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is, you know, that's what we look for

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<v Speaker 3>in people.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually think don't just falls into the whole rat

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<v Speaker 2>ex frog debate your rat and Laura and I both frog?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you across rat? F frog?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Why am I a frog?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? This is so gen z you guys. It is

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<v Speaker 2>essentially the theory that people fall into one of two categories,

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<v Speaker 2>either rat or a frog. They look like a rat

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<v Speaker 2>or a frog. Laura Ribbert, You're a frog, I'm a frog.

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<v Speaker 2>BRIT's a rat. I mean, look, why am I Laura

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<v Speaker 2>a frog and I'm a rat? You just can't go

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<v Speaker 2>into it if you know, you know, it's just different features.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got petite, small angular features. Laura is more rounded

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<v Speaker 2>and curved in the face, So am I I'm rounded

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<v Speaker 2>and curved.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm getting more offended as we go on.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's just as I continue to want the baby

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<v Speaker 2>we got de Sandwage