WEBVTT - The Subtraction Method: how Sabri Suby protects his time and focus (Part 1)

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<v Speaker 1>The way that you focus is through subtraction. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>by addition. You don't add more things. Anything that is

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<v Speaker 1>not doing the thing isn't focused work.

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<v Speaker 2>That was Sawbury Subi, founder of King Kong, one of

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<v Speaker 2>Australia's fastest growing digital agencies, and a shark on the

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<v Speaker 2>most recent season of Shark Tank Australia. Now, when most

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<v Speaker 2>people think about productivity, it's additive a new app, a

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<v Speaker 2>new system, a new habit stack. But Sabury does the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>He subtracts. He has built an entire philosophy around removing

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<v Speaker 2>things from his calendar, his home, his to do list,

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<v Speaker 2>so that what's left is only the work that actually

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<v Speaker 2>moves the needle. In this episode, Sawbury takes me inside

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<v Speaker 2>his full system, his King's audit process, whey he only

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<v Speaker 2>takes meetings on Mondays and Fridays, how he trained his

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<v Speaker 2>fixer to defend his time like a ouncer at the door,

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<v Speaker 2>and the dream day exercise that keeps him from chasing

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<v Speaker 2>shiny new objects. Welcome to How I Work, a show

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<v Speaker 2>about habits, rituals and strategies.

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<v Speaker 3>For optimizing your day. I'm your host, doctor Amantha Imba.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to start by talking about your King's audit,

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<v Speaker 2>can you tell me what on earth this is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about measuring every unit of time that you have.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I was always been fascinated by like the

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<v Speaker 1>people that build these enormous businesses have huge, huge teams,

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<v Speaker 1>and we all have the same twenty four hours in

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<v Speaker 1>a day. And when I was building my business, I

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<v Speaker 1>wore all the hats. I did everything from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being the account manager, doing accounts and changing the toilet

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<v Speaker 1>paper rolls. Everything I've done every position in my company.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you realize very very quickly, as you keep

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<v Speaker 1>on building your business that your time is the most

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<v Speaker 1>valuable resource that you've got. And everyone's heard of that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very cliche thing, but the people that say

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<v Speaker 1>it and then they don't treat their resource like it

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<v Speaker 1>is the most precious thing. So the King's Audit is

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<v Speaker 1>all about finding exactly where your time is going. You

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<v Speaker 1>run a full week with measuring every hour in that week,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when you get to the end of the week,

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<v Speaker 1>you look at it all and you basically identify which

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<v Speaker 1>of the tasks that you did that move the money needle.

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<v Speaker 1>And everybody knows how much money that they make in

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<v Speaker 1>a year, or they should if they run a business

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<v Speaker 1>and they can figure out, okay, this is how much

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<v Speaker 1>profit my business makes. Then you just divide that by

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<v Speaker 1>the number of hours that you're working and you find

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<v Speaker 1>out how much a unit is time is worth to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And basically, you shouldn't do any tasks that are less

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<v Speaker 1>than you're making per hour. Right, It's a simple thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you start delegating and outsourcing all the other

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<v Speaker 1>things that aren't that thing, because basically the game as

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<v Speaker 1>an entrepreneur is to keep on increasing how much value

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<v Speaker 1>that you get for each unit of time, and the

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<v Speaker 1>only way to do that is to keep on working

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<v Speaker 1>on the higher value things, and you can't do that

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<v Speaker 1>if you're stuck in the day to day operations of

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<v Speaker 1>the business. Most people are kind of they'll identify with that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that will resonate to them on some level and

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be like, yeah, I get it, like I need

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<v Speaker 1>a high a receptionist or someone to do bookkeeping, and

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<v Speaker 1>they easily let go of the things that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy doing. Where it gets hard is when you have

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<v Speaker 1>to actually start giving up the things that you do

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<v Speaker 1>really enjoy doing, or when you have to start automating

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<v Speaker 1>your personal life as well and delegating things that you

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<v Speaker 1>might have stigmas attached to, like I need to change

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<v Speaker 1>my bed sheets, I need to clean the house. When

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<v Speaker 1>you actually do the King's audit, and let's just say that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you make two hundred dollars an hour, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you realize that you could have somebody, for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>come and clean for fifty or one hundred dollars an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>You realize, hey, this is actually costing me one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars an hour to clean my own house, and you

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<v Speaker 1>start to value time differently.

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine this is an ex the size that you've

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<v Speaker 2>done many times because new insights are always going to arise.

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<v Speaker 2>What are two or three of the biggest insights that

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<v Speaker 2>you've gained from this process and the changes that you made.

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<v Speaker 1>I do this audit every year basically because as a

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<v Speaker 1>business owned you just get dragged into things and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden your plate is full, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like an upside down pyramid where you get all

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest problems to solve. Typically, when you're a business

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<v Speaker 1>owner and you collect all these things, all these tasks

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<v Speaker 1>that you're the person that does so I go through

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<v Speaker 1>it every year and I go, Okay, what is it

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<v Speaker 1>that I need to get rid of to basically get

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<v Speaker 1>to the next level. There's always things that even though

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so ruthless with my time management, things that creep in.

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<v Speaker 1>I have outsourced a lot of the things that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like doing. But then there's things that I really

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<v Speaker 1>like doing, and so I have to make the hard

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<v Speaker 1>decisions of looking at it being very pragmatic and removing

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<v Speaker 1>my emotions from it and even going okay, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I love meeting with these teams, or I love doing

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<v Speaker 1>last round interviews, or I love doing these one on ones,

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<v Speaker 1>is that the thing that's going to move the company

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<v Speaker 1>forward at this stage? Or is it just something that

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<v Speaker 1>you like to do. It's habitual, so you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the big realizations that I have, is like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the things that I'm emotionally attached to it,

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<v Speaker 1>or I have some of my identity attached to I

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<v Speaker 1>must do this because I am the business owner, I

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<v Speaker 1>am the CEO XYZ. But then you realize that these

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<v Speaker 1>are not necessary things. As they say, new levels have

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<v Speaker 1>new devils, and a lot of the times that if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to get to that new level. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have to give away something that you

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<v Speaker 1>really really love in order to get there.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to note in your personal life how

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<v Speaker 2>you've applied this, because it's something that I've done for myself.

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<v Speaker 2>There have been numerous times over the last few years

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<v Speaker 2>where I've I've tracked my time and for listeners going

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds incredibly tedious. It is mind numbingly boring, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's very much worth it, and there are ways to

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<v Speaker 2>make it easier and automated time tracking software out there.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing that I did many years ago, and I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't actually replicated it, but I realized that every Sunday morning,

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<v Speaker 2>my family and I used to have a little ritual

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<v Speaker 2>where we'd go to the South Melbourne Market. We would

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<v Speaker 2>stock up on all the fruit and bedge for the week,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I would spend two or three hours washing

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<v Speaker 2>and cutting and prepping fruit and vedge, and like, my

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<v Speaker 2>happy place is not in the kitchen. I hated doing

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<v Speaker 2>all the cutting and I probably injured myself lots of

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<v Speaker 2>times because I don't have good nice skills. And I

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<v Speaker 2>then thought maybe I could find someone to do this,

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<v Speaker 2>like surely there would be a university student that is

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<v Speaker 2>working in a cafe doing food prep, and maybe they

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<v Speaker 2>would like to come to my house and do this

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<v Speaker 2>for me and I can pay them and that is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be less than my hourly rate. And so

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<v Speaker 2>for about a year I did that and it was

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<v Speaker 2>so wonderful And I don't do it anymore because my

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<v Speaker 2>husband actually loves kitchen stuff and so we don't outsource

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<v Speaker 2>cutting of vegetables anymore anymore, which has very very privileged.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, it did work out to save me time.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like it was time that I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I could be spending that with my daughter and being

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<v Speaker 2>really present rather than in a kitchen and just consumed

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<v Speaker 2>by carrots and pumpkin. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gone through that intimately, what you're saying, right, It

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<v Speaker 1>was always difficult for me because I was raised by

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<v Speaker 1>a single parent mother and I had like this broke

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<v Speaker 1>mindset that I had to like deprogram in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>where it's just like I watched my mum hold down

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<v Speaker 1>three jobs, do absolutely everything, So why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't need to do this right? And again

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<v Speaker 1>that's just like a scarcity mindset. So I have automated

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<v Speaker 1>all of those things so it's like, yes, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a cook that comes in does the food prep. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of count my calories and macros, so I

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<v Speaker 1>know I have one hundred and fifty grams of like

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<v Speaker 1>chicken breast, and all of my lunches are like prepacked

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<v Speaker 1>in the fridge ready to go. Then in addition to that, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I have cleaners that come in, I have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>other helps that come around the house. And a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people see that and they're like, oh, but what

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<v Speaker 1>if you love cooking, Well, someone like you that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't love doing food prep, right, And so a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the time that people that hate against this is

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<v Speaker 1>because they feel attacked by the decisions that you're making.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the way that I look at it is like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to free up as much of the minutia

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't need to be done, but it must be

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<v Speaker 1>done to keep the household running. The changing of bed sheets,

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<v Speaker 1>the washing of towels, the laundry, the cleaning of the house,

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<v Speaker 1>the chopping of food, all of those things. So that

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<v Speaker 1>I have three daughters under the age of nine, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure that the time that I

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<v Speaker 1>have with them is the best quality time. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want my wife to be stressed about having to do

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<v Speaker 1>these things, or for me to be stressed about having

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<v Speaker 1>to do them. I leave the house at five am

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning when all of my girls are asleep,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I get home and I get an hour

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<v Speaker 1>and a half with them in the evening, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want that hour and a half to be like really

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<v Speaker 1>high quality time. I don't want to be like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>frustrated because I'm going and cleaning up the play room

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<v Speaker 1>or doing any of these things. So any of those

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<v Speaker 1>things I can automate, I do so that looks like

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<v Speaker 1>a cook, a cleaner, nanny's to help with the dropping

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<v Speaker 1>to certain extracurricular activities that the kids do. Landscapers come

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<v Speaker 1>in and do all the lawnmowing, the pool guy comes

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<v Speaker 1>in and does the pool naturally. Then if I have

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<v Speaker 1>any annoying tasks that are like husband tasks that need

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<v Speaker 1>to be done, like screws need to be tightened in

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<v Speaker 1>draws or anything like that, I use air Tasker. So

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<v Speaker 1>just take a photo, upload it on air Tasker and

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<v Speaker 1>I can have someone there in like an hour. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't engage in those things. I'm not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to figure out how to fix the AC unit,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's going to cost me thousands of dollars if

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<v Speaker 1>I try to entertain those little things. So I always

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<v Speaker 1>look for what I call like wastage of things. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't choose to do this, and it doesn't add

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<v Speaker 1>any value to my life, but it does add value

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<v Speaker 1>being able to free myself up and take my girl's

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<v Speaker 1>horse riding, or take them on a nature walk, or

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<v Speaker 1>do some painting with them and spend that quality time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I try to remove all the stuff that isn't that.

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<v Speaker 2>I have read that you only do meetings on Mondays

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<v Speaker 2>and Fridays and in fifteen minute increments. Can you confirm

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<v Speaker 2>if this is still correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because otherwise basically what happens is you have these

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<v Speaker 1>got a minute meetings, right do you got a minute?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you got a minute? And for me, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any more minutes? Right, Like my whole week is

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<v Speaker 1>planned out in advance. There's so many things that I

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<v Speaker 1>need to do. So I found that it was very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to build my business and to jump in between

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<v Speaker 1>problem solving in a meeting, dealing with a HR issue,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to hire somebody, sorting out anything that needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be done international payroll, and then trying to jump in

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<v Speaker 1>and do creative deep work, and so all of that

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<v Speaker 1>work is like shallow work, and the deep work is

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<v Speaker 1>the work that's actually going to propel and grow the

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<v Speaker 1>company forward. And these are things that must get done,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I must meet with my senior managers. I must

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<v Speaker 1>meet with my leaders. I must meet with my operations manager.

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<v Speaker 1>But I compartmentalize it to those two days, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just write those days off. Like so I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a necessity. I need to do this, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do interviews, and I hammer them all out in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of confining it to fifteen minute increments. Most people

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to run a meeting. You just get

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<v Speaker 1>in there, there's some loose agenda, there's nothing really like

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<v Speaker 1>this is like people are talking and it's not necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>So I first of all try to eliminate the meetings

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<v Speaker 1>by using like Loom videos and like just like hey,

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<v Speaker 1>send me a Loom video that just walks me through it.

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<v Speaker 1>It forces someone to think about what they're going to say.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very constructive, it's short, and I can just basically

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<v Speaker 1>answer it on the go through a voice note. And

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<v Speaker 1>so if someone's like, hey, let's have a meeting. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, Also, we've got fifteen minutes to have

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<v Speaker 1>the meeting, and you'll find that they'll compress all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean that all of my meetings are fifteen minutes, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I have more senior leadership meetings that might go for

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<v Speaker 1>an hour. I have a quarterly off site that might

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<v Speaker 1>go for half a day. But if it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>need something for me, my fixer, so I don't call

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<v Speaker 1>my assistant an assistant, they're a fixer that they're to

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<v Speaker 1>fix problems. She will basically be like, Okay, what's ther agenda?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you need and make sure that it's an

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<v Speaker 1>absolute must. And a lot of those meetings, when their

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<v Speaker 1>requests to have a meetings, they don't even end up

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<v Speaker 1>as a meeting because once they go through my fixer,

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<v Speaker 1>they're eliminated in a meeting as it him needed.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming up next, Savory takes me inside his deep work routine,

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<v Speaker 2>the music hack, how he thinks about nutrition to enable

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<v Speaker 2>better focus, and how he plans his next day at

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<v Speaker 2>four pm so he never wakes up wondering what to

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<v Speaker 2>work on. We also talk about how he handles the

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<v Speaker 2>gray zone opportunities that aren't a clear yes or no.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah sure. So I work from the office on Mondays,

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesdays and Fridays, and then Tuesdays and Thursdays, I'll work

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<v Speaker 1>from home. My days that I work from home, the

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<v Speaker 1>routine is I wake up, I go for a walk

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<v Speaker 1>to get outside because I mean, you know, sleeping for

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<v Speaker 1>seven or eight hours before I head out, I turn

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<v Speaker 1>on my coffee machine, come back, it's rearing to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I pull myself a double shot, and then I sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and I just unload. So basically, I plan my

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<v Speaker 1>day the day before at four pm every day, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't wake up and go what am I working

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<v Speaker 1>on today? I know what I'm working on. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>three things that I need to knock down, and then

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<v Speaker 1>typically I'm going into my office. I'll have some song

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<v Speaker 1>that I play constantly on replay while I work, and

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<v Speaker 1>it depends on what the task is but there's always

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<v Speaker 1>typically some form of music playing and it's repetitive, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to think about doing I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>this song, let me skip it or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like, this is a song I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>listening to and it's just one repeat, and I pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much work for as long as I can uninterrupted until

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<v Speaker 1>I need to take a break. And then when I

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<v Speaker 1>need to take a break, I'll go have something to

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<v Speaker 1>eat or have a shake or whatnot. On my deep

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<v Speaker 1>work days, I don't have like any calves until the

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<v Speaker 1>evening because I find if I eat calves, I crash

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm no longer effective. So let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>that I sit down to work at the computer between

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<v Speaker 1>five and six am in the morning, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>try to sprint until like eleven thirty or so, with

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<v Speaker 1>one break in between there, and then I'll go for

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour walk into nature. I'll then do any email,

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<v Speaker 1>send any voice modes or anything that's not deep work,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I come back and I do the second

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<v Speaker 1>shift for the day, and so I try to eliminate

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<v Speaker 1>everything that is not work. Most people, they're like have

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<v Speaker 1>some like secret productivity ritual that they do or they

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<v Speaker 1>use some crazy software to track everything that's not the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is the thing, So I just focus on

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<v Speaker 1>doing the thing. And what I mean by that is

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you focus is through subtraction. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>by addition. You don't add more things. You don't add

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<v Speaker 1>some special Pomeodoro clock or time tracking technique. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like anything that is not doing the thing isn't focused work.

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<v Speaker 1>So I try to eliminate all communication phones on aeroplane mode,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's away from me, and all I'm trying to do

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<v Speaker 1>is extend the amount of time that I can work

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<v Speaker 1>on something without being interrupted.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm intrigued about the no low cabs during the day.

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<v Speaker 2>That is such a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I just monitor how I feel right, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>that like I want something to fuel myself that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>weigh me down. And I always go for a walk

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<v Speaker 1>after I eat as well, so then like you walk,

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<v Speaker 1>it helps with the digestion. And then it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm like on a continuous, like level playing

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<v Speaker 1>field of energy and I don't have these big spikes

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<v Speaker 1>and whatnot. And then I just backload the cabs for

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day when I know that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to be productive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, super interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me about prioritization.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're like four o'clock the day before you're deciding

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<v Speaker 2>what am I going to do for my deep work sprints?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you make decisions about what is the most

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<v Speaker 2>important use of your time the following day?

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<v Speaker 1>It all begins for me like at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the year, where I basically think about, Okay, I take

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<v Speaker 1>a stock and do an audit on the last year

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<v Speaker 1>and see, Okay, how did I go against my goals?

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I start to think about, Okay, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the goal for twenty twenty six, what is it that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to achieve? And I used to have like

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<v Speaker 1>these like long lists of all of these things that

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to achieve, And as I keep going, I

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<v Speaker 1>realize that I just try to put it down to

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<v Speaker 1>like maximum of two things, and I ask myself, out

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<v Speaker 1>of all this list, so I still write the full

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<v Speaker 1>list of goals, and then I say, what one goal

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<v Speaker 1>if you hit on this list would make everything else irrelevant?

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm like, that's the thing I need to prioritize.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then once I find out what that one

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, then I say, Okay, what actions would I

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<v Speaker 1>need to take to make it unreasonable for me not

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<v Speaker 1>to hit that goal? Like what would be unrech reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>amount of work, amount of inputs that you had to

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<v Speaker 1>put in where it's like that would be almost impossible

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<v Speaker 1>for you not to hit your goals. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>start with that, and I use that to back into

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<v Speaker 1>the year, so then I'll be like, Okay, if that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it is, that's the level of activity that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be unreasonable for you not to win. Then I go, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what does that look like broken down to a quarter

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<v Speaker 1>to a month, to a week and to a day.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I hold myself accountable quarterly on like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is you need to directionally be moving in this

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<v Speaker 1>way in order for this quarter to be a success.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there's no universe that exists where you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>finish this first quarter not be on track and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're just going to magically hit your goals. You obviously

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<v Speaker 1>need to use your prioritization and really understanding what are

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<v Speaker 1>the inputs that are really going to drive it. And

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<v Speaker 1>as you go through the year, it's like constant experimenting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, I thought this was going to get

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<v Speaker 1>me closer, but it turns out that that's not really

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, So I need to test a new hypothesis,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you get a chance to do that every week.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm thinking about that process for my own life,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm thinking about my own businesses goals, and i

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that sounds good in theory, but where is

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<v Speaker 2>the room for serendipity or like things just taking off

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<v Speaker 2>where you didn't expect it. And like an example in

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<v Speaker 2>my consultancy inventium, about like eighteen months ago, we were

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<v Speaker 2>running some experiments doing some AI training and we thought,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, maybe this is like a thing on the

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<v Speaker 2>side that we can supplement the main programs that we

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<v Speaker 2>do around productivity and innovation and high performance. And it

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<v Speaker 2>just completely exploded And now it's about two thirds of

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<v Speaker 2>the business if I look at revenue, and that was

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<v Speaker 2>completely unplanned and kind of following that and prioritizing what

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<v Speaker 2>was going on with those experiments then became the main thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but it certainly wasn't the main thing at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm sure that this happens a lot in your world,

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<v Speaker 2>where just unpredictable things good and bad happen. How do

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<v Speaker 2>you account for that when you're thinking about what is

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<v Speaker 2>the thing that I'm focusing on, what are my goals

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<v Speaker 2>for the year, the quarter of the day, and so on.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many things that you can focus on as

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<v Speaker 1>an entrepreneur, and there's so many things that are changing right,

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<v Speaker 1>And we're living in a day and age right now

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like you wake up and every day something

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<v Speaker 1>has changed. Like with all AI and where everything is headed.

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<v Speaker 1>It used to be that you woke up every five

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<v Speaker 1>to ten years and there'd be like a big shift.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's every day that it's happening. So I really

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<v Speaker 1>focus on the things that aren't going to change. So

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<v Speaker 1>in business and with what we do, like ultimately we're

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<v Speaker 1>all compensated by the amount of value that it is

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<v Speaker 1>that we create and the way that we can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>They are going to shift and move over time. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's fundamentally about looking at, Okay, what's true for your business? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>What are the things that aren't going to change. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like how Jeff Bezos that Amazon looked at it for

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<v Speaker 1>this is where I got that from. He's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, there's so much changing in e commerce. What

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<v Speaker 1>isn't going to change? People are always going to want

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<v Speaker 1>the widest selection and they're going to want the cheapest price,

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<v Speaker 1>and so everything else outside of that is kind of noise.

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<v Speaker 1>And until there is something that comes and actually materially

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<v Speaker 1>changes your business, like AI. Then once that happens, then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, I better pay attention to this because

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually making a change. But there's so many things

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<v Speaker 1>that popped up like AI, Messenger, chatbods, x y Z

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<v Speaker 1>that appears on the surface like, hey, this is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be something that's worth my time. And I call

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<v Speaker 1>them shiny objects, right, And I had SOS shiny object

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<v Speaker 1>syndrome very very badly when I was a young entrepreneur,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that affected me way more than ignoring everything

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<v Speaker 1>else and seeing what actually meaningfully disrupted my business and

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<v Speaker 1>then jumping on it. And I think that most people

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<v Speaker 1>their businesses don't work because they're trying to do too

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<v Speaker 1>many things. It's not that they don't allocate enough time

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<v Speaker 1>for serendipity or this magic thing that they want to

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<v Speaker 1>work on. Most people are doing that because they naturally

0:20:58.040 --> 0:21:01.320
<v Speaker 1>gravitate towards where they get the most dopamine. And you

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<v Speaker 1>get the most dopamine from doing like new, shiny, sexy

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<v Speaker 1>things and not the boring things that actually scale a business.

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<v Speaker 2>What advice do you give to people who are suffering

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<v Speaker 2>from SOS?

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, first of all, most people when speak

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<v Speaker 1>to a business owner and I'm like, what are your goals?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to do? And they're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a million dollars a year. And as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as I hear like a round number, I know

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<v Speaker 1>that that's like something that they've inherited from somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>So then it's like, Okay, why do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>make a million dollars just because we did five hundred

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<v Speaker 1>k this year and a million would be great? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going to materially change with your life? And so

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<v Speaker 1>the exercise that I go through with anybody that's looking

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<v Speaker 1>to scale their business is like why, like where do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go to and why? And most people

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have any idea of why they want to

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<v Speaker 1>go there. And I have a saying, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>make the why so big that the how becomes easy.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you have such a big why and you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is exactly why I want the thing, And the

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<v Speaker 1>best place to start is the dream day exercise if

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<v Speaker 1>you ask most people, what does it your dream life

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<v Speaker 1>look like? Like, Oh, I don't know because it's such

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<v Speaker 1>a big question. But if you say, what would a

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<v Speaker 1>dream day look like to you? What time would you

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, who would you be waking up with, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you eat for breakfast? Then? What would you do?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you be working on? Who would you be

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<v Speaker 1>working with? What are you going to do in the afternoon?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going out for dinner? Are you cooking in?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have children? What does the day look like

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<v Speaker 1>an absolute dream day? And then you get clear on

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<v Speaker 1>what that looks like, and then you come up with, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I need to earn in order to make

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<v Speaker 1>that dream day a possibility? And then you have the

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<v Speaker 1>target and you have why you're doing it. And then

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<v Speaker 1>whenever you're looking at opportunities that present themselves to you,

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<v Speaker 1>you ask yourself, is it going to get me closer

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<v Speaker 1>to that outcome or is it something that's just going

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<v Speaker 1>to distract me and looks fun? And what people don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand is the more quote unquote success that you get,

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<v Speaker 1>the bigger and the more illustrious the oportunities look like,

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<v Speaker 1>and the opportunities that like, I need to have discipline

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<v Speaker 1>to turn down now like phenomenal opportunities, and they look

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<v Speaker 1>like incredible opportunities from people from the outside as well,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know that they all come with a cost.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a good segue into something I learned

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<v Speaker 2>about you in my research is that most people default

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<v Speaker 2>to yes when they're asked to do something. You've said

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<v Speaker 2>that your default is to say no. Can you tell me, like,

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<v Speaker 2>when was the moment that that flipped around for you,

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<v Speaker 2>because I assume at some point in time you were

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<v Speaker 2>yes as the default answer kind of person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's when your time becomes a very limited resource

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a disciplined thing. And most people's default is

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want to be confrontational, so that it's like yes, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe right. But I'm a very straight shooter and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a very direct person, and it comes through down through

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<v Speaker 1>the filter is like, is saying yes to this going

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<v Speaker 1>to get me closer to the outcome that I want?

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<v Speaker 1>And most of the time it's not right. Most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time it's like, yeah, I'll just say yes to

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<v Speaker 1>that coffee meeting or this random thing or speaking at

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<v Speaker 1>this conference or whatnot. But when you ask yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>you're really really clear on like what your goals are,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know the inputs to get your goals, and

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<v Speaker 1>you go, okay, well, if this is an input for

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<v Speaker 1>me to get to my goal, is it going to

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<v Speaker 1>get me there? And most of the time it's like no.

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<v Speaker 1>So then it's like the answer is no, because like

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<v Speaker 1>prioritization means to cut off right, to cut off the

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<v Speaker 1>other alternatives. And most people hear all these things but

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<v Speaker 1>they don't practice them, but I try to. Once I

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<v Speaker 1>find something that works, is just optimize it and do

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<v Speaker 1>it to the nth degree. And so it can be

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunate for a lot of people, and some people might

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, it's a little bit jarring, but at

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<v Speaker 1>least they know that I'm honest, which is good.

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<v Speaker 2>And also a quick note is a good no as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate nothing more than a slow no. When I'm

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<v Speaker 2>reaching out to someone, I can definitely relate to the

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<v Speaker 2>nos default. I feel like no has definitely become my

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<v Speaker 2>default over the last few years, and I think for

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<v Speaker 2>me it's when the incoming requests outweigh the time I

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<v Speaker 2>have available. I think that was the turning point for me.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm to think about why, But there are still

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<v Speaker 2>opportunities that are incoming that I am on the fence about.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't know whether that's a yes or

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<v Speaker 2>a no, and you must get that a lot. How

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<v Speaker 2>do you make that decision where it's not a hell

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<v Speaker 2>yes and it's not a clear no.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a muscle like anything. It's something you've got to

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<v Speaker 1>get the reps in and you've got to be comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with basically doing it. But you also I used to

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<v Speaker 1>think that I needed one hundred percent of the information

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<v Speaker 1>in order to make that decision, but realistically I need

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<v Speaker 1>fifty percent. So it's just like you run it through

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<v Speaker 1>a basic framework of like what is the value of

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<v Speaker 1>the unit of time that I'm basically going to get this,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the probability that it's going to get me closer

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<v Speaker 1>to where I want to go? And not a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the time it's like you can see, okay, clearly

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<v Speaker 1>black and why this is no, it's definitely not going

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<v Speaker 1>to help me. And yes, it's going to help me.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the time. The problem is in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle right when you're trying to ascertain whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>it is and then you start to just think about,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's the probabilities of this being because you always

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fantasize in your mind that it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>equate to this. But once you've done it enough and

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<v Speaker 1>you've done enough of these meetings, or you've said yes

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<v Speaker 1>to enough of these things, you kind of know. And

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<v Speaker 1>then it's like, am I just being obligated to say

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<v Speaker 1>yes even when I truly know that this is not

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<v Speaker 1>the thing I need to be doing? Like, look at

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<v Speaker 1>all these other things that I need to be doing,

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<v Speaker 1>And then it's like, this is a list of things

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<v Speaker 1>that I know that I need to get done this week.

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<v Speaker 1>If I did those and I completed all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>would the probability of me getting closer to my goals

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<v Speaker 1>increase more so than this opportunity that is in front

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<v Speaker 1>of me right now. And I think that if you're

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<v Speaker 1>being true to yourself, you do know that it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a sixth sense that you ultimately dial in over time,

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't know. When I was on like Shark Tank,

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<v Speaker 1>it came through as like an unsolicited message in the DMS,

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<v Speaker 1>like the producer was calling my phone, like hit me

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<v Speaker 1>up on LinkedIn, all social media platforms, and like they

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't even get on the phone with me because I

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<v Speaker 1>have so many layers of defense to not distract me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, then my assistant was handling it

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<v Speaker 1>my fixer, and they wouldn't tell her where they were

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<v Speaker 1>calling from. And I was like, yeah, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to jump on the call then, and then so they

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:32.399
<v Speaker 1>reluctantly told me. I was like, okay, let's jump on

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.679
<v Speaker 1>the call. And then even then, you still think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a scam because every day there's somebody from somewhere that's

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<v Speaker 1>calling about something. And unless you have like these default nos,

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:47.600
<v Speaker 1>it seems so innocent. But even entertaining something takes your way.

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<v Speaker 1>So it might take two or three hours to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down with your fixer or your assistant or whoever it

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<v Speaker 1>is that handles your time and say these are the

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<v Speaker 1>frameworks for determining whether or not something is worth of

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<v Speaker 1>my time. And unless it passes this, don't even make

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<v Speaker 1>me aware of it. Like I tell like with my fixer,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I'm not looking for someone that I want

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<v Speaker 1>to manage. You are here to manage me. You are

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<v Speaker 1>the conduit between me and the outside world, and your

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<v Speaker 1>job is to be like, defend my time at all purposes.

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<v Speaker 1>The barbarians are at the gate and they're coming from

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<v Speaker 1>my time, and you must defend me. And if for

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<v Speaker 1>some reason one of these guys or girls gets in

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<v Speaker 1>and they appear that they are of value and they're not,

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<v Speaker 1>then we have let the system fail.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's the end of part one of this two

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<v Speaker 2>part episode. Make sure you follow or subscribe to How

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<v Speaker 2>getting into how Savory went from a sixteen year old

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<v Speaker 2>selling ink cartridges in Byron Bay to mastering the art

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<v Speaker 2>of communication. We're also going to get into why he

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<v Speaker 2>thinks a video sales is the single most powerful thing

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<v Speaker 2>any business can have and is top tips for negotiating

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