WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Sandy from MAFS reveals all! 😎

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<v Speaker 1>Come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Monday on the pickup. Helloa hollo. Oh, it's all things

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<v Speaker 2>at chemist Warehouse, great savings every day. We're having a chuckle.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just talking about Chris Rock finally discussing the

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<v Speaker 2>slapping incident from the Oscars a year on.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's very, very conveniently timed. Though, what do

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<v Speaker 4>you mean, well, can see the Oscars are a week away.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's been planned perfectly.

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<v Speaker 5>I reckon he's got a little bit of pat cash

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<v Speaker 5>to hold off and drop it a week before the Oscars.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think to bring up some prama.

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<v Speaker 5>It's all anyone's going to be talking about, including us

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<v Speaker 5>right now on a national radio show.

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<v Speaker 6>Job well done, I'd say.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, if you haven't seen it. It is his new

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<v Speaker 4>Netflix special stand up comedy. It's called The Selective Outrage,

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<v Speaker 4>and let me tell you, I do feel that he

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<v Speaker 4>hits the nail on the he with this. He also

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<v Speaker 4>says that the reason why he didn't hit Will Smith

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<v Speaker 4>back is because he was raised my parents and doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>hit people in front of white people.

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<v Speaker 7>So I was like, it's so inappropriate and.

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<v Speaker 5>Very funny, so inappropriate, but only he can get away

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<v Speaker 5>with it, especially after what he's been through the last year.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like people can't touch him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, got a very big show. Sandy from Mass is here, and.

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<v Speaker 7>You know how much I love Mass. Sandy and Dan.

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<v Speaker 4>They left the experiment last night and we're here to

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<v Speaker 4>find out. You know, did she think that Dan actually

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<v Speaker 4>had a girlfriend outside the experiment.

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<v Speaker 6>I just want to know about the butt Dal, whether

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<v Speaker 6>it's true butt Dal, did it happen? Is it produced?

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know about the ocean and why the

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<v Speaker 2>ocean is calling Dan?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>And why wasn't a mermaid cast?

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<v Speaker 2>Good call? All these great questions we ask Sandy. Hear

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<v Speaker 2>the pickup for your Monday around the country. It's the

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<v Speaker 2>pick up Monday afternoon on Kiss Britt, Laura and Mitch

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<v Speaker 2>here headed the Chemist's warehouse today. Great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 6>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that you two didn't watch it last night,

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<v Speaker 4>because you never do. But Mass, Holytle, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't watch it, and I've even heard how big it

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<v Speaker 2>was last night.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it was the couch. Every Sunday night, they still

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<v Speaker 4>on the couch. They say whether they want to stay,

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<v Speaker 4>they want to leave. I think last night's episode was

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<v Speaker 4>relatively uneventful, but the most eventful thing that did happen

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<v Speaker 4>is that Dan and Sandy, who have had some drama

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<v Speaker 4>surrounding them lately, they both chose to leave, and they

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<v Speaker 4>have left the experiment. Now we have Sandy on the line,

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<v Speaker 4>Johnny's on the show. Hello, Sandy said, guys.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank goodness you got out of that shit show.

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<v Speaker 1>That's some way to put it.

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<v Speaker 7>How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Good, I've had time to process it all. Heal a

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<v Speaker 1>bit now, so yeah, and I feel good. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing.

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<v Speaker 5>What how long actually is it, Sandy, between when you

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<v Speaker 5>actually filmed that and now when the public see it.

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<v Speaker 1>I left commitment to it. Maybe I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>three four months ago and then we did reunion in December,

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, a couple of months.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, chunk of time. Do you overall regret the decision

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<v Speaker 2>going on the show? Do you think it was a

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<v Speaker 2>mistake choosing to do maps.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Look, obviously I was. It didn't pan out the

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<v Speaker 1>way it did. I think if I was matched with

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<v Speaker 1>someone who went with good intentions but probably could have

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<v Speaker 1>been very different. And look, I still learned a lot

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<v Speaker 1>from the experience, So no, I don't regret it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Last night on the Couch, Dan had this to say

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<v Speaker 4>as his reason for leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>Some things that we can't ignore.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the big things for me is my love

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<v Speaker 3>of the beach and the ocean. It's those times when

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on my own spiritual type moments that I really

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<v Speaker 3>want somebody to share that with. That has weighed very

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<v Speaker 3>heavy on my heart because that is a true love

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<v Speaker 3>of mine.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, now, this to me feels like the most outrageously

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<v Speaker 4>ridiculous excuse that there ever was. Now with the beauty

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<v Speaker 4>of hindsight, do you think that Dan was in a

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<v Speaker 4>relationship with his now girlfriend whilst the show was actually on.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I've heard a lot of things. It's hard to confirm,

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<v Speaker 1>but from what I've been hearing, I don't think. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he was up to a lot during the experiment

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<v Speaker 1>that he shouldn't have been doing.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole butt dial sun Oh yeah, I have died

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<v Speaker 5>before Mitch's buttdll me while he was doing a week

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<v Speaker 5>it happens. Yeah, but do you think that actually happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you buy the whole butt dial or do you

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<v Speaker 5>think this was just very very produced.

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<v Speaker 1>The butt doll happened. I've seen the screenshots, I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>messages between Evelyn and Rupert. But when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>how much Evelyn heard on the butt doll, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But in saying that, I don't think that's the point.

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<v Speaker 1>The point is the things the boys were saying that night.

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<v Speaker 4>So much of that was deflection, Like I think the

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<v Speaker 4>thing that they've gotten so hung up on on the

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<v Speaker 4>show as to whether it happened or didn't happen, But

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<v Speaker 4>ultimately the things were said, and that's the most important.

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<v Speaker 1>Part of this hut, and that was Dan and Harrison

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. They're not They don't want to own behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>They just want to deflect it to something else. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say the butt dog didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it has to feel being that person. It took

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<v Speaker 2>me back to high school bullying days, Like I can

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<v Speaker 2>just see straight through it, and I know the editors

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<v Speaker 2>are putting this in so that I can become a

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<v Speaker 2>plot point and then I can be the bad person.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you just sit there and go, why me? Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why the editors choosing me to have to be the

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<v Speaker 2>pratfall for this stupid storyline.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't think the editors chase me. I think

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<v Speaker 1>think it was Dan's behavior that made that happen like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like if he showed up and he just

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<v Speaker 1>treated me with respect and saying that you can't make

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<v Speaker 1>people like one another, but the least you can do

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<v Speaker 1>is show up, give it you all, because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you're there for. It is married at first sight, and

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<v Speaker 1>have the right intention. If you do all that, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I could have at least walked away thinking no

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<v Speaker 1>bad blood whatever. But because I just feel like he

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<v Speaker 1>was never there for the right reasons, that's hard to process.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Sandy, we got to go to the ocean?

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<v Speaker 2>Is calling.

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<v Speaker 6>Good luck with life and love, Sandie. I hope. Look

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<v Speaker 6>there's something better waiting out there for you. I speak

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<v Speaker 6>from experience.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll be right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks guys from Married at First Sight. Everyone here at

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<v Speaker 2>the pickup. Next, we're discussing a hot topic. This is

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<v Speaker 2>it's breaking news kind of. It's been around all weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Nurses have been told to stop putting up their own

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<v Speaker 2>personal content on only fans to make a side profit.

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<v Speaker 6>Wild We've got some big feels.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's unpacked. Next to the pick up Monday

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<v Speaker 2>afternoon on keys it's a pup Britt, Laura and mitcheer

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<v Speaker 5>I am a hospital worker, guys. You guys know that,

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<v Speaker 5>right For like thirteen years I work in emergency. I

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<v Speaker 5>hope you know that, Mitch True, you're looking at me blankly?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that why you have a stepthoscope on the neck?

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<v Speaker 5>They carried it at all times along with the clipboard.

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<v Speaker 5>Makes me look very busy, very important Britney's past life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>so I work in emergency in radiology for thirteen fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 6>I lost truck after ten because you know, some bad

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<v Speaker 6>nights there. But what has happened in the last week?

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<v Speaker 5>New South Wales nurses have been told to stop posting

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<v Speaker 5>explicit content on only fans so the advisory board has

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<v Speaker 5>come out. It hasn't said if you post it you're

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<v Speaker 5>going to be fired, but there's this underlying subliminal threat

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<v Speaker 5>of like, if you are posting this, you better be

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<v Speaker 5>very careful because you might not have a place here anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the way a lot of people have been interpreting it.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to know what you guys opinion is on

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<v Speaker 5>this because I feel very strongly in one way, do

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<v Speaker 5>you think nurses are allowed to post on OnlyFans and

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<v Speaker 5>also be a nurse?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if they're doing it in their own time,

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<v Speaker 4>in the privacy of their own bedroom, and they're not

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<v Speaker 4>bringing it to work, what doesn't matter what they do

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<v Speaker 4>outside of work, I think. I mean, I can understand

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<v Speaker 4>that the email that was sent or the letter that

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<v Speaker 4>was sent was about how it could bring the profession

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<v Speaker 4>into disrepute, but I think that it goes a long

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<v Speaker 4>way to try and say that just because you're posting

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<v Speaker 4>on OnlyFans doesn't mean that you can't do your job properly.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's just to me, those things are not mutually exclusive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm with you, Laura. Also, like, if they're, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>putting a canulary in and they ask if they can

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<v Speaker 2>film it or a catheter maybe yeah, No, do you

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<v Speaker 2>mind if I take off this actual nurse's outfit and

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<v Speaker 2>put on a skanky nurses outfit and I'd be like

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<v Speaker 2>that seems a bit odd, But no, I think pay

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<v Speaker 2>them more money and they might not have to make

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<v Speaker 2>a siding. Come on only fans, Well, this is.

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<v Speaker 6>The point right.

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<v Speaker 5>The average salary or entry level salary for nurses in

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<v Speaker 5>New South Wales is sixty seven thousand dollars. Now it

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<v Speaker 5>does go up in jumps, but not astronomical. And as

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<v Speaker 5>somebody that has watched these nurses day in day out,

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<v Speaker 5>what they do, what they have to put up with,

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<v Speaker 5>what they get paid to do, that it is not enough.

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<v Speaker 2>How long of the days you've done it, How long

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<v Speaker 2>would you be at a hospital?

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<v Speaker 5>Some people work illegal hours and I know that because

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<v Speaker 5>I've done it in the past, especially with COVID the

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<v Speaker 5>last few years, the overtime and the hours because of

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<v Speaker 5>the shortage, the stress levels were so high, and what

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<v Speaker 5>they have to put up with, even from public backlash,

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<v Speaker 5>because people are so nervous, people are scared, people are worried,

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<v Speaker 5>people are abusive. They are not paid nearly enough. So

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<v Speaker 5>for these people now to be going out and trying

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<v Speaker 5>to earn some extra money in the privacy of their

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<v Speaker 5>own time, I strongly believe that if they are not

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<v Speaker 5>bringing this to work and are not being inappropriate at work,

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<v Speaker 5>let them live.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>And one of the things was in this letter that

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<v Speaker 4>I thought was just so alarming. So they gave these

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<v Speaker 4>hypothetical examples of why they shouldn't be doing only fans

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<v Speaker 4>on the side, and this was one of the examples.

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<v Speaker 4>They said, this is a scenario that could play out

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<v Speaker 4>where a male senior manager might recognize a junior employee

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<v Speaker 4>from OnlyFans, and then that senior manager made blackmail her

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<v Speaker 4>her specifically for special treatment on only fans in exchange

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<v Speaker 4>for preferential rostering at the hospital.

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<v Speaker 6>Does this so funny?

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<v Speaker 4>Does this not just say to you that the problem

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<v Speaker 4>is the manager who is sexually insinuating towards someone who

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<v Speaker 4>has an only fans, not the nurse herself. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think that that is just so incredibly backwards the way

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<v Speaker 4>this was framed.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's literally saying, don't go and have an only

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<v Speaker 5>fans because you could come to work and be harassed

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<v Speaker 5>by your manager.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll piss off your creeper boss. Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 7>It's totally a you're asking for it mentality.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, then you go on the comment section of these

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<v Speaker 2>articles that are floating around, and people don't have the

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<v Speaker 2>same opinion as us as we do. I mean, some

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<v Speaker 2>are arguing that they wouldn't want someone who is a

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<v Speaker 2>sex worker working in that industry. Posting only fans content

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<v Speaker 2>to be acting on them in a role of care.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I guarantee you John that said that if

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<v Speaker 5>you're on the street having a heart attack and the

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<v Speaker 5>only person to help you is a nurse, the post on,

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<v Speaker 5>you're gonna want her to help you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I totally agree, all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Next on the pickup, is it okay to cyber stalk

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<v Speaker 2>your ex partner?

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<v Speaker 5>We think most people would say, no, I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>anything is stalking in the sentence.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not.

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<v Speaker 7>It's a bit softer like is it a soft stalk?

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay to check up.

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<v Speaker 6>On your ex?

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<v Speaker 7>What's a soft stalk?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm self launching, I'm self stalking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's take them out in the car, but the windows

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<v Speaker 2>are up.

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<v Speaker 7>But you know what, you all think it's wrong, but

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<v Speaker 7>I bet you we've all done it.

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<v Speaker 4>So over the weekend, I was reading a very interesting

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<v Speaker 4>article and I have a question for you. Guys, do

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<v Speaker 4>you think it's okay to cyberstalk your partner or your ex?

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<v Speaker 6>What does cyberstalking entail?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, I mean that's the question to you, is

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<v Speaker 4>what do cyber stalking entail?

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<v Speaker 6>I thought you were bringing us this is your story.

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<v Speaker 4>So when I read this, I think initially I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>of course it's bad that you know, like that's such

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<v Speaker 4>an obvious answer to it. I get the word stalk

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<v Speaker 4>a relatively seemingly obvious question, but I think we all

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<v Speaker 4>do this to some extent.

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<v Speaker 7>So hear me out.

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<v Speaker 4>How many times have you gone through a breakup and

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<v Speaker 4>then after the breakup gone in and checked your ex's

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<v Speaker 4>Instagram or their Facebook, or check their stories or seen

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<v Speaker 4>when they've been live last just because you kind of

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<v Speaker 4>want to have that touch point. So it's only an

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<v Speaker 4>X doesn't have to be an X could be someone

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<v Speaker 4>your now partner if you want to know where they

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<v Speaker 4>are or what they're doing, checking in on them via

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<v Speaker 4>social media and keeping tabs on them in that way.

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<v Speaker 5>I think this comes down to, like I mean, storking's

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<v Speaker 5>not okay. Disclaimer, I think it comes down to a

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<v Speaker 5>trust thing, right, Because I think if it's a current

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<v Speaker 5>relationship not an X a current relationship, I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>the only reason you're like going through their phones or

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<v Speaker 5>dms or looking at them all the time is.

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<v Speaker 6>A trust What are you doing? Are yeah? Are you

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<v Speaker 6>with someone else? Are you where you said you are?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean, regardless of the reasoning why even if

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<v Speaker 4>there is a trust issue, If you ask somebody who

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<v Speaker 4>finds yourself checking on your partner via social media or

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<v Speaker 4>via whatever means it is online, does that mean that

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<v Speaker 4>you were then stalking your partner?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Where does the line sit in terms of how many

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<v Speaker 4>times is it okay to check in on what your

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<v Speaker 4>partner's doing online before it becomes stalking?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm in an I'm in a long distance relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>My partner Ben lives in Scotland. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 5>this makes me an anomaly. I'm not a jealous person.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't ever look at what he's doing. I do

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<v Speaker 5>not ever search his Instagram. I haven't done it in

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<v Speaker 5>the past with other people in long distance relationships. Nothing

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<v Speaker 5>makes me want to go and look at what he's

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<v Speaker 5>doing because I don't care, but because I talk to

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<v Speaker 5>him in the day.

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<v Speaker 6>I know what he's doing, and then that's enough. If

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<v Speaker 6>his story pops up, it pops up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry one because his Instagram is the most

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<v Speaker 2>boring place on earth. He's a lovely man. He's a

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<v Speaker 2>soccer player. Every post is him on a pitch, but

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<v Speaker 2>he literally posts.

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<v Speaker 7>He doesn't use Instagram. You're not getting any juice from

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<v Speaker 7>that school.

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<v Speaker 5>Go into I want both of you to do this

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<v Speaker 5>now for your partner's rolling relationships.

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<v Speaker 6>Go into your Instagram.

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<v Speaker 5>Go to search, and let's bring up what your last

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<v Speaker 5>searchers are.

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<v Speaker 6>Tell me if you've searched your partner. So I've just

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<v Speaker 6>brought mine up. I have about thirty late Michturi, you're.

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<v Speaker 7>The second person I searched.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're cyber stalking me.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been cyber talking you, Tony producer, Tony has Have

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<v Speaker 5>you got your current partner in there?

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<v Speaker 7>Laura? Have you searched Mattie Ja?

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<v Speaker 6>Nah?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, see that's fine, right down the bottom.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so is looking at very interesting, which.

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<v Speaker 2>Is what happen?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, she's searched him twenty five times.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think if you're like passively looking at your

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<v Speaker 4>partner's Instagram or like purposely looking as a way of

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<v Speaker 4>checking in. I feel like there are may be some

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<v Speaker 4>issues there that you might want to have a conversation about.

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<v Speaker 4>But does that make you a bad person? No, it

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<v Speaker 4>just makes you an insecure person.

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<v Speaker 6>I look.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes, I just I don't look at Ben's Instagram, but

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<v Speaker 5>I just call my own Instagram and look at the

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<v Speaker 5>video of the two of us, and I was watching

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<v Speaker 5>on reports.

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<v Speaker 6>You're talking yourself and stalk us together.

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<v Speaker 7>What a note to end?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I think so let's go. I will and what

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<v Speaker 2>her up next to?

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<v Speaker 5>You?

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<v Speaker 2>Drive home? The boys are in Adelaide for the Fringe Festival.

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<v Speaker 6>How good is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Going to be big? We'll see you guys tomorrow from

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<v Speaker 2>three o'clock