1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation the. 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 2: Jersey Demand of Arms are the pup test today? Chivalry? 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 2: Does it pass the pub test? I would say. 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 3: Yes, Well, a woman has written a big article about 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 3: this and interviewed lots of people. Women feel it's dead 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 3: or dying. Men say, yeah, I'm still being chivalrous. Is 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 3: the truth? Somewhere in the middle? 8 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 2: Is this courseous chivalry? 9 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 3: Maybe that's what tell me what that means? 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 2: You know, you sees a lady, he's a lady. So 11 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: for example, if I was on a bus or a 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: training and I sor a young lady get on the train, 13 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say, would you. 14 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: Like my set? 15 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that to her because that would feel 16 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 2: that I'm breaking some sort of boundary. 17 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: Do you open a door for a young lady? 18 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 4: Yes? 19 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 2: I did, But I opened the door for a young 20 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 2: fellaw as well yours for everyone. That's what I do 21 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: in this town, and I'm a deal maker. 22 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: Well, it's interesting in twenty twenty five. Is it a 23 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: social norm that we've outgrown? Do women want it? Do 24 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: women expect it? How are we feeling about chivalry? Does 25 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: it still pass the pub test? Ah, it's not dead. 26 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 4: I think it's dying quite great, yes, but I believe 27 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 4: that you're bought up and you know what your parents 28 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 4: are like. I think some people don't respect women anymore, 29 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 4: but they need to be respected. They go through so much. 30 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: Mothers do so much for everyone. 31 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 4: In this world, so they need to be respected. 32 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: To open a door, to do anything for a woman 33 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: should be prioritized. So yeah, up for me. Chivalry isn't dead. 34 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 4: You were brought up with us back in the day. 35 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: I'm sixty five and I was taught it all my life. 36 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 3: You do it and you still do it. 37 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 4: But now the men of today, the younger men of today, 38 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: weren't brought up with it. 39 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: They don't know how. 40 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 4: To do it or want to do I'm in my 41 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 4: sixties and I've always done it. For what I've noticed 42 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 4: when I opened the doors for fee Miles, for example, 43 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 4: let's of the females say thank you. I just ignore you, 44 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 4: don't even make I contact and walk through. 45 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: That's my experience. If someone lets me, like stands up 46 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: and lets me see or they open the door for me, 47 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: I always say thank you very much. Now go ahead 48 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: and tell you mother she raised a beautiful son. 49 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: It's nice when you hear that I was at the 50 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 2: service station yesterday filling up my bike with fuel, and 51 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: I saw my son inside him when you see kids 52 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 2: in the wild. 53 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 4: He's off on his. 54 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 2: Way to work. And he was in the petrol station 55 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 2: and he left and I said, get and all that 56 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 2: sort of stuff. I walked into the servo and I 57 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: said to Vicki, who's behind the counter, I said, what 58 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 2: about that young fellow that was just in here? And 59 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: she said, O Dominic and I went, yeah, that's my son. 60 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: And he said, no way, he's such a nice young Oh. 61 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: It's a lovely thing to hear when someone notices your 62 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: child's behavior. And okay, few dodge that one. 63 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 2: I don't know why he's wearing a bell of Claver, 64 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: but 65 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 3: Did he get any free mentors?