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Speaker 1: Here, everybody, it's not.

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Speaker 2: Getting ready, everybody.

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Speaker 3: Here's some Chelsey.

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Speaker 2: Amandas on the cutting room floor today we push Prison's

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Speaker 2: a thing when you and your wife had children.

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Speaker 1: No, no, you just had the baby. That's what you

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Speaker 1: did in those days. You just had the baby.

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Speaker 3: How are your youngest twenty two? Twenty three?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty two. Yeah, you just had your baby. And

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Speaker 2: then you get back to doing your chores.

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Speaker 3: Were you want Walton mountain.

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Speaker 1: Cats on the prairie churning your butter?

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Speaker 3: This is a euphemism, I'm not even.

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Speaker 1: Sure tending to the crops in the field.

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Speaker 3: Look this push present.

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Speaker 4: The first time I ever heard about that was when

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Speaker 4: Harley's sister was having twins who are now twenty five

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Speaker 4: I think, or twenty six. Actually, no, they're in their thirties, right,

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Speaker 4: they're in their thirties. And she had given birth to twins,

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Speaker 4: and the woman in the bed next to her had

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Speaker 4: been given a ring as a push present, and Harley's sister,

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Speaker 4: as her special award for pushing out twins, was given

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Speaker 4: a subscription to National Geography.

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Speaker 1: Well, well that's very good.

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Speaker 3: This is what your bosoms will look like in a

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Speaker 3: month's time.

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Speaker 4: It's the first time I ever heard of the concept,

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Speaker 4: and now it's become more and more. And the reason

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Speaker 4: I bring it up, there's a guy who's taken to

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Speaker 4: Reddit to say what do you think of all this?

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Speaker 4: He's blaming extremist podcasts and social media influences for ruining relationships.

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Speaker 4: He said his wife was acting entitled. They've been married

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Speaker 4: for five years, they're about to have their first baby,

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Speaker 4: and about a week ago, she sent him a TikTok

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Speaker 4: that featured a woman who was discussing what kind of

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Speaker 4: push present she deserved. And this wife said to her

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Speaker 4: husband that she wants a car. She wants a new car.

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Speaker 4: So he is saying, I don't approve of this.

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Speaker 3: He is saying.

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Speaker 4: Look, he's saying, the gift we're having is the gift

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Speaker 4: of parenthood and the hopeful outcome of a healthy baby.

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Speaker 4: Materially speaking, I might give her a Mother's Day card

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Speaker 4: or some jewelry. I'm not going to spend that much money.

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Speaker 4: If she wants an extra car, it'll be our car,

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Speaker 4: not her calf a baby.

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Speaker 3: It'll be our car to take the baby around in.

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Speaker 3: But I like the idea.

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Speaker 4: I'm intrigued by this bit extremist podcasts and social media

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Speaker 4: influencers are ruining relationships. Even in terms of proposals, you

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Speaker 4: have to blindfold someone, take them into an incredible location,

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Speaker 4: have pedals strewn.

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Speaker 3: Everywhere, spell out letters I love you, and.

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Speaker 4: Spend a million dollars on the proposal, let alone engagement parties,

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Speaker 4: big weddings.

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Speaker 3: It's all for the sake of photos.

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Speaker 2: Now everyone has an engagement plan, a social media engagement plan,

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Speaker 2: or an engagement plan, an engagement plan of how they

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Speaker 2: release the information, how people post that information that could

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Speaker 2: be for anything. Engagement slash, wedding slash, baby birth, baby announcement,

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Speaker 2: gender reveal, all these things. If they don't happen and

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Speaker 2: no one saw them, did they indeed actually happen?

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Speaker 4: Did you and I actually have families because we didn't

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Speaker 4: do it?

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Speaker 1: They exist?

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Speaker 3: Do they exist?

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Speaker 1: No? I know they exist because they're always into me

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Speaker 1: for money.

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Speaker 4: And the flip side of all that is our kids.

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Speaker 4: You know, they don't want you to take photos of

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Speaker 4: them all the time. We didn't want that when we

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Speaker 4: were kids either, but we had one photo taken a year.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 3: Now it's a photograph every ten seconds. And the kids.

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Speaker 4: All the photos I've got of them when they were

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Speaker 4: youngers in pulling rough heads because they didn't want their

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Speaker 4: photo taken. And I used to say, well, they'll be

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Speaker 4: all your holiday shots from now on. Is you're pulling

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Speaker 4: a rough head because they don't know where those photos

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Speaker 4: are going to be used.

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Speaker 1: We are so immersed in it we don't even know.

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Speaker 2: Imagine if we went backstay just ten years, ten years

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Speaker 2: ago to twenty fourteen, and Instagram had started, but it

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Speaker 2: wasn't what it is now. People now are defined by

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Speaker 2: how many likes they have, how much traction they get,

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Speaker 2: what sort of influence they are. We don't even say

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Speaker 2: we're immersed in it right now.

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Speaker 4: Well, people in our industry in TV and radio get

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Speaker 4: jobs because people look at how many followers people have.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's weird, that's weird to me.

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Speaker 2: They used to say to me, it didn't matter how

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Speaker 2: many followers you had, and now it seems to matter.

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Speaker 2: Remember that time when they took away the likes, They

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Speaker 2: took away how many likes you got on the thing.

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Speaker 2: But then they brought it back because a lot of

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Speaker 2: influencers lost their source of income because they couldn't.

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Speaker 1: Quantify how many people are actually getting into their stuff.

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Speaker 2: You know, like my time lapse photography that I film

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Speaker 2: here each day to put out to the greater world.

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Speaker 4: What you do every morning is while we're trying to

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Speaker 4: organize a meeting before we go on air, you say, oh,

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Speaker 4: I've got to do my time lapse every morning. You

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Speaker 4: put your phone in exactly the same position at the window.

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Speaker 4: You bend over so I see you bum crack or

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Speaker 4: what color unders you're wearing that day and every day,

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Speaker 4: and then you come in here and say look at this.

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Speaker 4: And I don't I want to be a Debbie Downer,

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Speaker 4: but it's the same picture every day. I know we

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Speaker 4: look over the harbor here, but short of there being

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Speaker 4: an invasion or a crazy weather event or a giant

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Speaker 4: cruise ship, it doesn't look that.

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Speaker 1: Different, you know.

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Speaker 2: I team it up with a nice song, the intro

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Speaker 2: of a song that's got an anthemic feel to it

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Speaker 2: to reflect the mood of the day.

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Speaker 3: But it takes about half an hour.

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Speaker 1: How is it then that that's not interesting? But some

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Speaker 1: kid deflating a beach ball?

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Speaker 3: Am I following there?

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Speaker 1: The kid deflating a beach ball.

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Speaker 2: He's got a podcast on how he deflated the beach ball.

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Speaker 3: It's very good. Don't even get me studying one thousand followers.

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Speaker 1: Don't even get me started on hot to Girl.

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Speaker 3: She's great too.

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Speaker 1: What's the world coming to? Okay, guess what's a day?

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Speaker 3: Come back mans,