WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Mitch had a very... "romantic" date 😅 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:24.320 Come on, hello, Happy Thursday, everybody. We are now, I 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:26.560 recently I have something I want to tell you guys. 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:29.680 So I recently moved into a new place right and 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:31.880 the thing, I mean, the thing I love about the 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.440 house more than anything is the garden. 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:35.840 I mean, you've seen the garden. 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:40.199 Is beautiful, lush, established, and I've decided I'm going to 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:41.239 become a gardener. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.519 That's what I'm like, that's my new thing. I'm going 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.200 to be a gardener. I cannot pick you that happening, 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:46.319 but sure, no, no, no, I am. 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:48.479 I'm a green thumb. I'm out there every day. I'm 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:49.640 trying to keep the plants alive. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.120 You were yelling at the girls when we were over 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:52.080 the hour, like don't. 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:53.600 You pick those flowers? Yeah? 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:56.480 Okay, But recently, in the last week, there's been a 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:59.600 whole section of the garden that's dying. And I'm saying, 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:02.680 I mean, like trees and plants and shrubs, they're all dying. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.280 And I got out there last night and I was like, 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:06.240 what can I possibly do? 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:09.600 And I'm like tottering around in the garden and I 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:11.479 was like, I'll just pull this one and see what's 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:15.560 happening in the dirt. None of the trees are actually trees. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:19.000 They're just clippings. The old owner has come along and 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.959 just chopped a branch off all these random trees and 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:23.800 shoved them in the ground so it looked like it 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.319 was an established garden. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.400 I've been cheops, brilliant, it's not real. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.279 What was it? 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.640 We just have a barnyard. 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:33.560 Would did you go manic when you pulled one out 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.640 saw it was dead? The next one, Go to the 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:36.000 next one. 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:37.119 These are not clippings. 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.640 Some of these are trees that can literally touch the 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:41.520 ceiling of the studio, that's how big they are. And 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:44.679 this whoever lived there prior to try and make it 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.200 look nicer, I had just lopped off these big branches 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.120 of trees and shoved them in the ground. 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:51.200 I love that genius. 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:53.440 I reckon anybody could take that and use that the 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.480 next time they're, you know, trying to get their listings 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:56.160 up on domain. 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:56.560 That's it. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:58.000 Just plant some sticks in the ground. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.000 Okay, well, we have another dilemma. 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.680 It is Thursday, which means we do ask on cut 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:06.080 where listener's writing some juicy questions. We have a really 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.560 good one coming up after the break. Can you cut 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:09.400 off a family member. 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:12.160 All right, we'll discuss that you're at the pickup thanks 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.079 to chemist Warehouse heading today great savings every day. It's 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:18.720 the pick up right around Australia Thursday afternoon, it's Britt, 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.320 Laura and mitchere rushing to Chemists Warehouse right for half 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:25.040 price off vitamins and cosmetics, teas and sees apply Chemist's Warehouse. 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:29.080 They'll give you great savings every day. Ask uncut. 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:34.560 Well, Thursday means therapy. Thursday means ask uncut. Where you 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:37.320 guys writing or calling with your deepest, darkest burning questions. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:39.080 We do our best to answer them. And we have 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.480 Bella on the line with a bit of a conundrum 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:42.399 in her family. 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:44.120 Hey Bella, Hey, what's your problem? 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:44.400 Right? 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.359 My favorite trio Bella. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:49.639 We don't pay these people to say. 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:51.880 This, Okay. I've got had a bit of a rocky 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.880 year relationship with my sister. Over the years, I'm starting 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:58.400 to get really frustrated with her. She's really selfish and 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:01.720 she's seemingly only content acting me when she wants something. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:07.320 So just for example, like when she wants to borrow money, 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.280 or she wants me to look after her kids, or 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.560 she she wants to use something of mine. I have 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:16.239 got another sister who I'm close with, and she sort 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.720 of feels like she's getting the same treatment. But we're 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:22.480 just keeping the peace for Mom's sake, because she has 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:25.119 gotten emotional about it in the past. I just don't 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:28.080 know if I should say something to her or I 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:31.040 should start saying no. What should I do? 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.600 Is she you're younger or your older sister. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.960 My older sister, your oldest I think it's I think 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.880 this one comes down to the intent behind what she's 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.320 asking you. Like if if a family member is asking 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:45.080 you for money because theyre in a really tricky situation, 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:47.520 I feel like it's pretty hard to say no to. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.600 But if you know she's really negligent with her money, otherwise, 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:53.560 like you know she's buying a handbag or she's frivolously 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.120 spending her money, she. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.080 Definly doesn't go without. We'll put it that way, right, So. 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.200 That's different, And that's where I think you can say no. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.440 I think you can be like, I'm a bit strapped 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.280 this week, But if you know she can't put food on. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:05.840 The table for the kids, it's a different story. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:07.560 But if she's out there spending the money, I think 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:09.680 you can be like, oh, I'm actually really tight this week. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:10.040 I can't. 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:11.760 Yeah, But even that, I think it comes down to 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.760 feeling a bit used and feeling like you're not valued 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:16.719 or respected. I think like a big part of this 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:19.120 is it's not so much about the giving. It's the 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:21.200 fact that the only time she's making an effort is 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:22.719 when it's to be taking something. 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:23.760 Is that is that correct? 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:24.560 Yeah? 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.159 Totally. I feel like it's just a bit of a 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:30.200 one way street, Like it's never really like a check 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.640 in to see how you're going. Like, as soon as 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.520 I see her calling, I just know that she's going 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:36.360 to ask for something. 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:39.680 If you were to cut off your relationship with your sister, 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.200 and that would also mean that you wouldn't have any 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:45.200 relationship with your nephews or nieces, is that something that 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:49.000 you're prepared to sacrifice because you know that will affect 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.200 everything I know? 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:53.400 And I really do love her babies. So that's like 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:56.119 the thing that is making it really tough. 0:04:56.279 --> 0:04:59.239 What happens when you tell your mom that you're wanting 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:01.960 to like put some between your friendship and your relationship 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:02.480 with your sister. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:06.760 Oh, she gets really upset about it. She has only 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:10.800 got one sibling herself, who she is no longer in 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.960 touch with. So that's black and just another thing that 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:17.040 really upsets her, and she just wants everyone to get along. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:20.120 Has anyone sat I mean, has that ever been like 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:22.480 an intervention? Have you ever sat her down and explained 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:25.279 how you're feeling? Has your mum ever explained how anyone's feeling? 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:28.120 Because it kind of seems like maybe a bit of 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:29.640 a hard conversation needs to be happening. 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.240 Yeah, not for a long time, but like maybe it's 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:35.440 reaching that point again that's too hard for me. 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.080 I wouldn't sit my sibling down and say, I feel 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:38.440 like you use me all the time, back off. 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:44.280 I just I just ghost. No, I know. 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:47.159 I think the best thing to do now is before 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:49.600 you do try and like put some separation in your relationship. 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.600 I think, sit down, have a conversation, let her know 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.560 how it makes you feel. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.280 It'll probably buy you another six months and she'll be 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:56.880 on best behavior, and then I might go back to 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:57.560 doing the same. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:01.320 Thing, like write a list prepared of stuff that you 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.520 know she owns that she could sell that she doesn't need, 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.040 so when she asked you for money'd be like. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:14.360 Hey, you know that Gucci handbag. That's worth Stauna exactly there. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.360 Do you know what, don't break up the friendship because 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:19.000 you should be over her house using that infred Amen. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:21.480 This is the worst advite, all right, Bella, Well, that 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:22.480 was bog Bill. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:27.960 Just send us your medicare details, organize the rebate. 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.600 Also, Bella, you are well. 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.359 I mean, look, things might not be good in the 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.320 family household at the moment, but we do have something 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:35.719 that will cheer you up a little bit. We have 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.520 two tickets to the Life Uncut Live show at whatever 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.200 show is closest to you that you can take. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.240 Maybe you can take your sister. I think take your 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.520 other sister, not the one to cause the problem. 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:49.920 I will thank you so much. That's awesome. 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.159 Welcome worries. We love you to bits. 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.360 Enjoy the show, all right, Next on the pick up, 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.920 I'm single, my single era, I'm going on dates, ladies, 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:00.000 and I haven't told you about my most recent day. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:01.200 And I'll tee you next. 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:02.800 But all I'm gonna say is just picture me in 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:04.960 the middle of the rain, on my hands and knees, 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:06.040 crawling through the street. 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:09.120 No one wants to This is very notebook est case. 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:11.920 It was very romantic. Something happened that I need to 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.400 get you across on tea. Next on the pickup. It 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.040 is the pick up Britt, Laura and Mitch here thanks 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:20.320 to chemist Warehouse heading today great savings every day. So 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:22.640 I've been teasing you girls and all the listeners of 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:24.520 Australia for the whole day. 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:26.800 Now you've been unbuttoning that shirt slowly. You are a 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:27.320 big tease. 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:30.040 I'm single now and I'm in my dating era. I'm 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:31.440 back on the dating apps. I had a cut, like 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.600 about four months off. I needed to recover from a 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.720 bad breakup. But now I'm back. I went on a 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.400 date Friday night, lovely, gorgeous boys. Off to a great start, 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:40.520 but it got derailed quickly. So I sit down, I 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:41.240 dress up. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.160 I want to look good. So I'm wearing this gorgeous necklace. 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:43.560 You've seen it. 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:45.520 It's a little sapphire on a piece of silver. It's 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:48.120 one of my favorite necklaces. It's my birthstone. We sit 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:49.960 down at the date and the first thing he says was, 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:52.160 oh my god, that necklace is gorgeous. 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.360 And I go, thank you. It's so funny that he 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:53.880 noticed it. 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:57.160 Chat Chat Chat, drink drink, drink, flirt, flirt flirt, need touch, 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:58.600 need touch, flirt flirt, need touch. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:00.120 We go to the next venue. 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:02.680 That's playing like some sort of weird karaoke game. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.120 Hasn't text me back, so maybe you didn't enjoy that 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:06.800 song like at. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:08.280 Time Zone doing that dancing thing. 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:10.680 No, So we get to the next venue and we're 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:13.120 sitting there and he goes, oh, did you take your 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:15.680 necklace off? And I go, no, I didn't take my 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:17.600 necklace off. What do you mean I opened my button shirt. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:24.720 My necklace has fallen off. My favorite birthdone. And I go, 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.760 I'm kind of coy and embarrassed, like, I don't worry, 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:28.080 We'll just leave it because I didn't want to. 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.480 Ruin the day. But he said, no, no, not on 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:31.120 my watch. 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.400 There is absolutely no way we're going to let you 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:36.600 lose this gorgeous necklace. So he grabs my hand and 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.240 I go, he's gonna hold my hand and caress me 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:40.680 back to health. He pulls me up. It's in the 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.520 middle of torrential rain, and we turn our torches on 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:47.480 and he goes, let's retrace our steps. So inspect I've 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:50.080 just met this guy, and here we are in the 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.400 middle of the street, pouring rain on my hands and 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:57.320 knees with our torches on, searching every nook and crenny 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.960 of the bitchumen to find my silver neckl. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:00.800 Did you find it? 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:01.960 We found it? 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:06.000 Wow, that's such a beautiful romantic sess. You have to 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:08.080 stand up and embrace and kiss in the rain. 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:09.200 You know what I said? I said, do you want 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:10.839 to put it on me? And he went, oh, sure, 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:12.600 So I turn around, he goes to put on me, 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:14.280 and then he goes, I bite my nails. 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.080 This is actually really hard. I went't forget it, don't worry. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:19.600 It was nicely in my head and we're dripping with water. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.319 So we went inside. But it was derailed. We did kiss, Yeah, 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.839 nice guy, it was care But I feel like. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.520 A nice date derailed can either it can make the 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:30.839 date a beautiful moment that you both remember, or it 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:32.439 can completely ruin the moment. 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.439 Right well, imagine if he turned around and said, no, 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:35.760 can't we bullet to go look for it? 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.480 Let's continue on here. A dance dance revolution. 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.720 Red Flag Total red Flag Alice is called on thirteen 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:41.440 one O six five. 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:42.920 Did your date get derailed? 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:43.920 Yes? 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:47.040 It did, well, I kind of derailed it. Myself by accident. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:51.880 So so what happened was, let's just say this guy John, 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:54.240 So I went on a date with him. It was 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.079 very lovely. He wanted to go out the next night, 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:59.679 but then I kind of put a sticky on him 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:03.319 because I found another guy named Terry who I wanted 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:07.320 to come to dinner with. And then so I said 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:12.240 to John, sorry, can't make it. I'm actually working. So 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.000 then I went on the date with Terry the next day, 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:18.400 and turns out John was sitting at the table right 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:18.960 next to me. 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:24.880 Oh no, that's terrible, that's brilliant. That is the dating calm. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.040 Did you pretend like it was your brother? How did 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.680 you get out of that? 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:28.600 No? 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.840 I just can youule with me? And I just like 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.440 I just told Terry we have to go. So I 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:40.000 made him leave and just John never got back to me. 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:41.720 He never messaged me. 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:45.560 And yeah, what happens when you're dating in a small 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:51.760 town again, Yeah. 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.600 I actually remember this happened to me. I was seeing 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:54.280 this person, didn't want to see you anymore? Like two 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.839 dates and then I said I don't want to see 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:58.040 you anymore, and I canceled the date. 0:10:58.080 --> 0:10:59.840 The next day, I said I had to work as well. 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:02.160 And then because I was seeing multiple people at the 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:03.800 same time, because that's what you do in your single era. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:05.880 I was walking down the street and I was holding 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.280 hands with someone and I ran into the person. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:09.880 Then I pulled the pin off, And did you say, 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.679 this is just my daddy. I think it's my brother. 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:16.280 Happens to the best of us. 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:19.720 So look, talking about terrible dating stories, I want to know, 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.640 if you're in a long term relationship, is there ever 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:27.160 an okay situation where you can just abandon your wife 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:27.960 at an airport? 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:29.920 Because that's what somebody did, and look. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:30.440 Big question. 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:31.800 I have some feelings about it. 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:32.280 All right. 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.760 It's the pickup around Australia with Britt, Laura and Miach. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:40.679 Thanks to Kemy's Warehouse, rush in for half price vitamins 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:43.160 and cosmetics, teas and sees, apply chemists. Weare house great 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:43.880 savings every. 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:44.320 Day, all right. 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.280 I have a controversial question for you guys. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:50.200 Do you think it's ever okay to board a flight 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:54.400 and leave your partner at the airport terminal without them 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:55.080 getting on the flight? 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:56.599 Well, yeah, it depends what they've done and they just 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:58.400 cheated on you, not. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:02.199 Having a fight, they're running late or they're a bit preoccupied, 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.400 but you instead of going and getting them making sure 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.400 that you're both on the plane at the same time, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:10.280 you just decide, you know what, that's your fault. I'm 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:13.199 gonna get on the plane and your partner misses the fly. 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.600 I need some more background. What's the situation? All right? 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:17.520 Okay, So there is a man who has divided the Internet. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.640 This has come up on a Reddit thread. But basically 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:21.959 he was going and a him and his wife were 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.439 going to see his daughter, you know, a plane flight away, 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.040 and they get to the airport and his wife decides 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:30.480 that she needs to go and get Starbucks. Now, he's 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:32.480 a bit of a type a personality. He likes to 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:35.560 be organized, and his wife is very go with the flow. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.120 She's like, it's fine, you know, we're not gonna miss it. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.320 Don't like me, very me. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:44.760 So she goes to get herself a Starbucks coffee and 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:47.839 is taking a little bit too long. So he boards 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:51.199 the plane, but she never gets on and he flies 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.760 and goes and visits his daughter, but she completely misses 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:57.559 the flight. Now, the reason why the Internet is divided 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:00.319 over this is because most people are saying he should 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.600 have stayed and he should have tried to, like, you know, 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.920 at least if he knew that the flight was going 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.040 to leave and that she was going to miss it, 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:08.800 he should have been there to try and hold the 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.679 flight or to try and help her get on it. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:13.040 The flights do not wait for anyone. What do you 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:14.640 guys think? Who do you think is in the wrong 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.520 in this situation. I'm very her. 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:20.160 I resonate with her, But I also just read here 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.600 that it said they only heard fifteen minutes to board, 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:25.720 and the Starbucks coffee was a rail right away. She 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.000 had to get on a train to go and get 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:28.880 the Starbucks. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.960 But it's a very very small airport, so you know, 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:34.160 you could just copy. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:35.400 That small things on it. You get on a train 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:35.880 to get. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.600 It, and it's kind of Starbucks. That's not a small 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:38.200 town airport. 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:40.880 You lip over there, it's two minutes, nip back. You know, 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:41.719 you had that. 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:43.959 Coffee in five minutes flat. My hot take is that 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:46.600 that is not the right partner for you. If my 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.880 partner was wanting to get a coffee and was going 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:50.560 to miss the flight, I would get off that plane, 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.480 I'd take our bags, and I would skip the flight 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:52.839 with them. 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:54.640 That is I would leave the person if. 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.800 You would skip the flight one hundred percent. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.600 I would if if my partner wasn't on the plane 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:01.400 with me. Where a part It's cat a partnership for 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:02.760 a reason, we're right or die. 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:03.480 Do you know why? 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:06.120 Ires because Matt and I my husband, Matt or we 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.840 have a fight. Every single time we need to board 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:11.280 a plane. We always have a fight. And the reason 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:13.960 for that is is because I pack my stuff and 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.440 the girls stuff the night before we go away. Doesn't 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:19.640 matter where we're going for the bags are packed, Matt 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:22.000 will still be packing the bag five minutes before we're 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.800 meant to be in the car. And the only person 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.240 who has to pack for is himself, and we are 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:27.720 always running late. 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:29.280 We have almost missed a flight. 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:31.400 Do you know I read this and I was like, 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.720 I will leave him behind next time. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:38.840 I moved overseas for three years and I packed for 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.880 three years about an hour and a half before I 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:42.640 was supposed to be the airport for my entire my 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:45.520 entire life. I never I'm the person who gets to 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:48.680 the airport on time. Usually like I'm usually there on time. 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:50.440 But then I sit like my sister and I will 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.800 go and sit at a cafe and then we'll hear 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.160 our names be called out on the final call. So 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:56.880 we're at the airport ready, but we're still not at 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.600 the gate. We somehow still managed to almost miss the floor. 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.160 Anxiety brick. There's two types of people in this world. 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:05.120 There's people who get to new there's people who get 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:07.720 to an international flight at least three hours early, and 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.000 then there's people who like to flirt the line and 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:10.880 I'm not here for it. 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:12.760 Okay, what about this? So this is something that actually 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.920 happened to me with my ex. We were on a 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.840 plane flying overseas and they go to us. Ye, boys, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.120 we just want to let you know we have one 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.360 business class seat for a free upgrade. You'd love to 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.480 offer it to you, or if you'd like to sit together, 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:26.000 we'll give you a full exit row and you can 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:27.240 be together and have a full exit row. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:28.960 And I went, when do I get my pajamas? 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:30.920 And I went to business class and I left my 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.560 partner and I sat in business class the whole international 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:34.280 twelve hour flight. 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:36.240 Where did you get it? And not your partner? 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.840 It was my frequent flyer that it was attached to, Mitch. 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:40.640 I just want to remind you that you just said, 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.520 literally thirty seconds ago, that you will ride or die, 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:46.440 that you wouldn't see with someone who left you, and 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.359 you left your partner in economy. 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.160 He was still on the plane, so I knew he was. 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:53.080 It's okay just to quickly go back. 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.400 To this person in his death fence. 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:58.040 They've missed flights before because of her, so I think 0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:59.720 at I think he's like, you know what, I'm just 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:01.680 gonna teacher a lesson. I can't miss the flight. She 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.200 can sort it out, so I reckon in this case, 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:04.920 it's alright. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.200 So funny. All right, let's go. We're done. 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:08.400