WEBVTT - LIFE UNCUT RADIO SHOW - Jan 22 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:08.600 Calling you around Australia and TI Heart Radio Prete Hockley 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:09.640 and Laura Bird. 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:11.440 You mum say tell your dog to your friends and 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:13.320 shared a love because we are. 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:20.320 The last on cut radio show studs. 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:24.279 Right around Australia. Laura Ben, there's that laugh in real time, Brittany. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:25.720 Am I allowed to laugh at my own laugh because 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:27.920 I shook every single time of hear and I'm not 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:29.280 sure when I'm going to get used to it. 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:31.720 It's a laugh inception. Also, it's the best part of 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:33.280 the whole thing. That's what people come here for. 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:36.160 I mean, do they that's questionable. I'm not sure. Let's try, 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:37.919 let's try and produce some content that. 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.479 We are coming for. Laugh Well. I mean, we've had 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.720 a pretty big week. This week we had Rebel Wilson, 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:44.840 she was on the last show she was on the podcast. 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:48.800 Absolutely huge week. Rebel Wilson's episode went straight to the 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:50.760 top of the chart, straight to number one. We're still 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:52.800 sitting comfortably there. So it was a really great week 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:54.120 for Life on Gut it was. 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:56.560 And this week on the radio show, we've got a 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.440 very special one for you bo Ryan. He's been kicked 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.400 out of the but we're going to be talking to 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:03.800 him about what it was like being on celebrity to 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:04.479 get me out of here. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.240 Yeah, there've been some questionable headlines about bo Ryan's who, 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.120 but we also want to unpack. Now, Laura, you have 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.559 seen something floating around. You want to talk about what 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:15.119 you lie to your kids about. 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.360 Oh no, I haven't seen something floating around. I have 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.760 my own experience of me lying to my children. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:20.880 I want to know. 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:24.240 I want to know if I'm causing some psychological damage here, 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.840 or whether or not all your mum's out there are 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:27.600 doing the same thing. 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:29.760 I'm going to say it's highly likely you are. But 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:30.920 I don't think you're alone. 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:32.080 I don't think I'm alone. 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:36.520 In the meantime, we're doing this. That TikTok trend has 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:37.160 caught your attention. 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.040 There is a TikTok trend going around. I don't know 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:41.960 if anyone has seen it yet, but there is a 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:45.480 pretty famous TikToker by the name of Julia Carlyle. Now, 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:49.280 Julia Carlyle has started this trend where you list what 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.240 has given you the ick in your relationship. Now, if 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.200 you are sitting in the car right now and you 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.840 are thinking to yourself, what is the ick. I'm going 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:00.720 to tell you the ick is when one day out 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.680 of nowhere, it hits you like a truck. You look 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:07.280 at your lover, your partner, the person you're dating, and 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.960 you were just like, I am so grossed out by you. 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:13.120 I feel the ick. I feel disgusting. I cannot be 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.560 in this relationship anymore. That is what the ick is like. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.480 You're instantly repulsed by their existence. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:19.280 Like you're vomit in your mouth and you have to 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:19.840 reswallow it. 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:22.200 Do you know I once got the ick. I was 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.880 on a second date and I was sitting at the 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:26.440 guy's house and then he pulled out of his bag 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:30.360 a piece of floss and started flossing his teeth on 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:32.960 the couch. And I feel like flossing your teeth kind 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:35.600 of smells a bit as well, and that's a personal thing. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:38.120 You do it in your own privacy. And I remember 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.680 sitting there watching him being like, well, this isn't gonna 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:41.639 go anywhere now, is it. 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:43.840 So was that early days dating or was that a relationship? 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:45.760 Well, I would say it was a second date, but 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:47.799 I ended up in his house, so it was kind 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.920 of a second date to do with that. What you 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.360 were you can use the word date very loosely in this. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:53.880 It was the second rendezvus. 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.280 Okay, you're getting lucky. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:59.160 You're getting lucky with the floss. I got the ick. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.440 I want to tell you, I got the icks so 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.000 badly ones. I was actually in a relationship. I know, 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:05.880 that's funny in itself. That was a very long time ago. 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.639 I was in a relationship and we'd probably been dating 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.600 about six months, and we decided we didn't know each 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.480 other that well. It was a long distance relationship from 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:14.080 the dot, from the get go. 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:16.000 How can you get the et for someone you'd barely 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:16.480 ever see? 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.440 Wait for it. I decided to go on a holiday 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.960 by myself. I'm like, yep, booking. I'm very independent like that. 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:22.320 He's like, you know what, why didn't I come to 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:25.360 get Why don't we go together? I was like, okay, fine. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.480 We get on the plane, We're sitting next to each other, 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.320 and we just started to like argue. Straight away. I 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.359 thought we'd never spent this much time together. We had 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:36.400 six weeks together. We'd get to Vegas. We're three days 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:39.200 in to this whole holiday this planned, and I wake 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.800 up one morning and I see him get in the 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.080 shower and I look at him and then he didn't 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:45.960 do anything. It was just it was just his being. 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:47.720 He was just his presence. And I got the ick 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:48.680 so badly. 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:51.600 What you got the ick? Because he was alive. He 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:52.800 didn't even do anything. 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:54.560 It's like he was breathing too heavily. I don't know 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:55.240 what it was like. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:56.800 It was just what was the way he was walking 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:58.920 to the now, I think. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:00.040 It was a build up. We'd had the fire and 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:01.600 we'd never been in each other's company that much. So 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:04.200 do you know what I did? Three days in six 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:09.000 week holiday? I just left and I never saw him again. Wow. 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:14.240 Do some people actually come to our podcast for dating advice? 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.520 That's the craziest part of this whole thing. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.600 We want to know your eggs? What it hit you 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:19.640 like a ton of X. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:22.159 We had some people slide into the DMS with what 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:23.600 gives them the egg? I'm going to read you a 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:25.720 couple now because they're pretty funny. 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:27.160 I mean, they're all pretty reasonable. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.760 I thing, I think they're questionable. I think there's people 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:31.279 that are going to be alone for a long time 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:33.479 if it just wasn't giving them the eck, says me, 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.680 who his partner was breathing and I left. He would 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:38.200 have a glass of milk as a drink. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:41.440 Matt does that all the time, and I agree, its weird. No, 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:42.080 it's weird. 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.440 No, I am against them. I'm on part with this. 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.560 I hate milk. He wore a backpack everywhere we went. 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:51.280 Now is a backpack? What's worse? A backpack or or 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:52.560 a satul or a fanny pack or a. 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:54.520 Leather satl do people call it fanny packs? Here? That 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.240 butt like a bum bag. I think a bum bag 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.400 is the worst bunless it's a fashion statement. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:03.400 It's never ever a This is probably my favorite. He 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:06.440 sent me a video of him doing a pull up naked, 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:10.800 so he sent an unsolicited fitness picture, well, a naked 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:11.880 one unsolicited. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:13.920 Yeah, pull up, it's a lot. 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:14.479 He needs to know. 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:16.159 I think I'd be okay with that too. I have 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:22.039 low standards if I Maddie j blocky. Maddie Jay is 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:24.520 a military king naked pull up and he also fosses 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.200 his teeth on the couch and arm. Here for it. 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.480 We opened the phone thirteen one O sixty five? What's 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:30.080 your weedy? What gave you the EXE? 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:30.240 Me? 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:31.160 You're on the air with the girls. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.080 Hello, Oh, Hi, guys. So my weird it's that I got. 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:36.320 I was on one of those walking dates in Lockdown 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.479 and we took one of our friend's dogs to a 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.920 lake that was nearby, and it really liked playing fetch 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.120 and running into the water and getting the tennis ball. 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.680 I was throwing the tennis balls to this dog and 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:48.000 my date goes, oh, yeap, yeah, let me throw the ball. 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:50.960 He pegged the tennis bloor directly into the ground. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:52.440 And I don't think I've ever seen. 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.719 Anything so uncoordinated in my life. 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:58.320 There is nothing worse than a limp left arm and 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.479 a limp throw you do. 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:01.280 Look. 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.200 I just couldn't help it laugh, But I was also 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.559 just cringing the entire time, like, oh, your lord, please 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.839 tell me you actually know how to throw. Second attept 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:10.440 wasn't great. It made it to the water, But I 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.359 think it's just tormented in my mind. 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:14.440 Did you end up giving him a second date? Or 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:16.520 was it completely off the cards based on his little 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:17.279 pathetic throw. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.240 Look, he's actually my boyfriend now and I feel make 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.479 punish him for it, But oh my gosh, can I 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:25.000 make it suggestion the biggest dick? 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.080 Yes, I think you need one of those bull throwers, 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.040 you know that you can just put bend down to 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:29.480 pick it up. 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.000 So like I say, a Valentine's gift and probably get 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.960 thrown out pretty specially thank you. 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:37.400 We'll go to Chantel thirteen one. Hi Chantel, what's your eg? 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:38.360 Hello? 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:42.400 As an OG podcast listener, I'm so proud of the girls. 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.000 Welcome, you can stay. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:45.840 Yeah, you're our favorite. 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:46.440 Don't hang up. 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:48.800 I love you. 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.440 My ek would be I was having a carry Bradshaw 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:56.479 moment and getting my you know, roll on sap in 0:06:56.480 --> 0:07:00.760 the bathroom, you know, your toothbrush, all of that, and then. 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:04.160 I saw it. I opened up the coin and there 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:09.720 was a very well worn electric toothbrush head and I 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.840 just couldn't cope. I was looking at it, just looking 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:13.200 at it. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:13.960 It was too much. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.840 Do you mean like when the bristles are all splayed 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.640 to the side and there's like a bald patch in 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:19.080 the middle. 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:23.440 Yes, And I thought, that's going in your mouth. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:23.840 Like that's. 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:28.640 In his offense. I am definitely pro electric toothbrush as 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.800 opposed to like a manual handheld brush. 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.200 Even not one that's being used until there's no bristles left. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:34.360 What are you polishing a boot? 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:36.320 Nor hands. 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:42.560 Exciting. Thank you chantel. Hello, Jam, I'm thirteen one six five. 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:43.800 You're on the air with the girls. Hello. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:48.680 Okay, So a mutual friend. She introduced us with my Facebook. 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:51.000 So we got talking on Messenger and we really vibed. 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:53.200 It was great. I was, oh, he's really cool. So 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.520 we drove an hour to my place to meet me. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.160 He turned up. He got out of his car and 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:05.080 he was wearing me that heel cowboy boots and I mean, 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:08.720 I just I've noticed straight away, and I would go 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.800 inside and I've got wooden floorboards in this little house. 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.560 And he's following me around. I'm showing him and it 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.840 was like literally someone walking around on high heeled shoes. 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:25.640 And Jam, I have a question. Are you located in 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:29.120 Tamworth if you're in because if you're not in time, 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.840 the only way that this is remotely okay is if 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:33.720 you live in Tamworth and you're going to the Tamworth 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.520 Country Music Festival. Otherwise it's a board mission. Immediately. 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:38.439 I mean he did drive an hour an hour and 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:41.640 a half and you say, maybe from the country, just 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:42.319 see you. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:44.480 I meant you put your thongs on you you can 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:45.880 change in the cab you've got time. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:50.240 There's nothing worse than thongs with jeans, though that's the real. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.920 Rather high heeled cowboy boots or thongs tell me that 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:57.200 I think another cow. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.679 No. 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:10.880 Now your Saturday Morning for the Dad Hockley and Laura Ben. 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:14.200 Laura doesn't know this, but you've had some email troubles 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:14.600 this week. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:17.200 Oh look, I always have email troubles. I always have 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:19.720 email troubles. Usually it's typos when I'm in a rush, 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.120 and I'm not proud of it. But this week something 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.480 happened where I really really wasn't proud of it. I 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.080 want to know if it happens to you guys too. 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.640 Next week we have an episode. We interviewed a woman 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:33.480 named beck Brown, and she was kind enough to bring 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.560 us some homemade brownies. So I wanted to write her 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:38.600 an email afterwards, just to say thank you. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:39.760 They were very good brownie. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:42.760 They were then brownie. Oh okay, the brownies were out 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:44.600 of this world. So I get back on. She's a 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.720 professional woman. I get back on and I'm typing to 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.160 her and I want to say to her, I'm just 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:51.000 trying to hype up the brownie. So I just want 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.760 to say, what is this kind of sorcery, like this, brownie, 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.240 what is this sorcery you're using? How did you create this? 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:57.560 You know? 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:00.400 Like which craft is a dream? I and I tried 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.960 to spell the word sorcery five different times. I didn't 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.320 know how to spell it. It was oh U s U 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.800 s O R. I couldn't spell it, so I had 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:11.800 to change my I just deleted the whole paragraph, changed 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:15.960 the word imagine like thesaurus it. Yeah, I went with wizardry. 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:22.360 I went with I'm like, what is this wizardry? But 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.080 I want to know what is the word for you? 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.599 Is there that one word that you because yacht's a 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:28.000 big one. 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.840 Considering how much champagne I drink, I'm always like, is 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.840 it champagny? And I'm always like cycling wine love it. 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:37.600 I say champagny in my head every time I spell 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.160 the word. And I also say February. I have to 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:41.960 like phonetically sounded out. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.640 I think were. I think like days and months can 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:47.120 be a big one, like Wedner's Day. I'm always like 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.520 Wedner's Day. I feel like a lot of people do this. Though. 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:54.120 I used to date someone that couldn't spell remember, and 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:56.040 he always used to drop one e and m and 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:57.480 it was remember every time. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:10:58.120 Do you know why? 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:00.040 Going back to what we talked about earlier in the 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.320 ick mine is anytime an X of mine would go 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:07.840 to say definitely, he would say defiant, Yeah, defiantly, and 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.080 I was like, it's not defiant. But anyway, I'm not 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:13.080 sure if it was just an accidental, you know, iPhone glitch, 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:14.800 or whether he actually thought that that was the word. 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:16.640 I mean, obviously I could have just googled the word 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:19.000 instead of rewriting my whole email, but at the time 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:20.200 that felt what I need to do. 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:21.800 I also don't think that you should take this as 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:24.400 a learning exercise. If your phone can't auto predict what 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.199 that word is, you should never use it again. 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.160 Laura, can you spell sorcery for me right now? 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:35.640 No, Mitch, can you spell sorcery turned into a spelling 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:39.560 beer like s it's not a spelling bee. 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:43.560 Use it in a sentence please. I have a hack though, 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:47.280 if you use Siri, it'll spell it perfectly like dictaphone. Yep, 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.520 did you say tap the Siri and say sorcery and 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:50.199 will spell it for you. 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:51.880 Your phones are just making us dumber, though, that's the 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:52.520 real problem. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:55.600 A lot dumber than what we need to be. Look, 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.120 it's not a spelling bee. I just wanted to make 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.040 myself feel a little bit better, but you guys have 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:00.640 definitely done that, so thank you. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:01.360 Welcome. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.199 Ask Nat. 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:08.000 Ask Guncart is a segment that we do every week 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:11.080 on our Thursday episode. It is where we answer you're deep, 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.280 you're dark, and you're burning questions. And this week we 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.720 have a question that has slid into the DMS from 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:18.240 a lady named Lara. 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.880 This guy and I have in really really good friends 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.880 for about three years, but we've recently been hitting it 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:27.920 off in a more romantic sense rather than just being friends. 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.880 And I have to leave for UNI in a couple 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.120 of weeks and we just haven't quite had the what 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:36.120 are we discussion yet. It's not as simple as just 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:39.320 going back to UNI, because I go to UNI Interstate. 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:42.040 If I was in Sydney and I was here for 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:44.880 UNI most of the time, I wouldn't even be questioning this, 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:48.000 and I don't think he would be either. I see 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:51.000 him about once or twice a week. I just don't 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:52.760 know if I'm going to be able to do long 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.920 distance or whether that's something he's even considering either. Because 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:58.320 it's just something that neither of us clearly want to 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:02.720 bring up. Any advice would be super helpful. Signing off 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.880 love Lara. 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:06.160 It's always so awkward when you've got to have that 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.559 first conversation, the what are we conversation? 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.480 Oh see, I don't think it is. I'm going to 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.000 be on the other side of the fence on this one. 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:14.520 I don't think this actually has to be an awkward conversation. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.360 I think if something's bothering you, Lara, which obviously is 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.120 you're about to go away, you're about to I mean, 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.840 you're going to have the best years of your life 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:23.520 at UNI. These are going to really pave who you are. 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.280 And this doesn't work out, it's not a big deal 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:26.880 for it that way. 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:30.040 I'm really big on just putting it out there, because 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:31.640 whether you put it out there or whether you skirt 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:33.720 around the bush, the answer is going to be the same. 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.280 So do you want to get to that answer and 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.679 decision sooner rather than later. I would just sit down 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.400 and say, hey, I love spending time with you. We've 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.840 obviously got something really good going on. We both know 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:44.600 we're moving away. Where do you see this going? Do 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.440 you want to try and make this work? Or do 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.439 you think we just sort of do our own thing 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:50.199 and come back and see where it goes at the end. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:50.480 Of the year. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.320 But I think all you can literally do is throw 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:55.880 the question to him, because again, you either do it now, 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.560 two weeks or a month, his answer is probably going 0:13:58.559 --> 0:13:59.120 to be the same. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.280 Yeah, But I don't think that that diminishes it all. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.040 How nerve wracking it can be, Like I mean, if 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:05.440 she doesn't know what the answer is going to be, 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:08.080 if it could be a resounding no. Sometimes we put 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:11.000 off asking these questions because we don't want to hear 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:12.920 what the answer is, which is why we stay in 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.400 situationships for so long, because we're so scared that the 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.080 answer is going to be like, oh, actually, I'm just 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:19.480 not that into you. But like Brit said, I think 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.040 the sooner you ask it, the sooner you can either 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:24.760 a have a boyfriend or be go on and live 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.320 your best hot dam Uni life and that's what it's 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:27.720 all about. 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:33.600 Yeah, both are great endings. 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:33.120 Well. 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:38.560 Fred Hockley and Laura Ben getting Saucy for your Saturday Morning. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.400 A Life on cut radio show Ladies. He is the 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:44.440 host of the Amazing Race Australia was just eliminated from 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.400 Home and Celebrity. Get Me out of Here by Ryan 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:46.840 is here? 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:51.320 Are you welcome to life on cut Radio show. It's 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:52.160 a pleasure to have you. 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:56.200 Yeah, well done, congrats killing I'd say congrats to you too, 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:58.160 but you just got kicked out of the jungle, out 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.480 of the field about I don't know that kicked out, 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.800 I mean more sort of fell on my sword. No, 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:05.800 it was. It was actually good to get out of there, 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:07.800 to be honest, yeah, it was good. It was great feeling. 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:09.840 Did you think you were going to win at some point? 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:11.520 Were you in there thinking it's going to be me 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:12.360 at the finish line? 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:14.560 Never? 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:15.880 Why? 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:16.200 Never? 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:18.640 To be completely honest, I think I got in there 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:20.920 day one and I don't know. Everyone was good. Everything, 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:23.640 everyone was good pretty much the whole show. But I 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:25.440 think it was the afternoon of day one, so after 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:29.000 our first night, and I remember Brooke mcclimates saying, all right, 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:30.600 what are we going to what do we eat now? 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:33.240 After we had our half a cup of rice and 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.320 they said no, no, no, we have to win more food. 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.040 And I was like, don't we just have like more 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.440 rice and beans? Isn't it the show? And they're like, no, no, 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:42.560 there's no more food. And I just remember Joey had 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.000 just come in the night before and I just looked 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:46.680 at him and I was like, so we have literally 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.120 no more food. They're like, no, we have to win 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:49.880 more food, and I'm like, I really should have watched 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:50.920 the show before I come in out. 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:53.520 That's how I felt about when I went on The Bachelor. 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:57.480 At least it wasn't a Bachelor. That's one thing I 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:58.080 got on my sleeve. 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.200 Yeah, so what are you up to now since you've 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:01.760 left the show. 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.800 Well, I had a breakthrough a bit. I've had a 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:08.280 hectic year. I've been away for quite a bit for 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:10.680 Channel ten doing Shootout ten, an amazing race, and we 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.520 go away again in four weeks. So I went up 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:17.120 the coast with my family and got back yesterday actually, 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:19.880