WEBVTT - Kate Gets Hitched

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the

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<v Speaker 1>hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Safeie Tolbert, and we have a very special and intermate edition.

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<v Speaker 1>Today we're going to be speaking about Kate and Reese's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually have Reese on the podcast. I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>i'd see the day. Welcome my new brother, Rehys Turner.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hello, welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you agreed to be on this

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<v Speaker 1>because Sofa and I were just going to record it

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<v Speaker 1>by ourselves because Amy's going to Melbourne today. But I

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<v Speaker 1>asked Raes, do you want to be on it? And

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<v Speaker 1>he said yes, So we thought we'd better do it

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<v Speaker 1>quickly until you renag on that decision.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I thought one day in the good books and

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<v Speaker 2>I might go do it, and then probably I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>in the bad books again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you didn't introduce yourself with your new last name.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that going to be a thing on this podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to be Kate Turner from now on here? No? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm going to keep Kate Tulbah as my

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<v Speaker 1>professional name and Kate Turner as my family name. Alrighty,

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<v Speaker 1>then now we put up a question box on an

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram and people have been sending in some other juicy questions.

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<v Speaker 1>My favorite one was whether you consummated the marriage the

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<v Speaker 1>night of? But I feel a bit awkward asking you

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<v Speaker 1>guys this. Maybe we'll leave that one for later when

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<v Speaker 1>Reese has warmed up a little bit. So now a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the questions were, of course about the dress. Kate,

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<v Speaker 1>who was the designer? Can you tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about it? So I got the dress from Bride

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<v Speaker 1>Lab in Adelaide on King William Road, and the designer

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<v Speaker 1>is Ammaline Vitali. I don't know if I've butchered that name.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually you picked it out, didn't you? So you guess? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when we went there was this look. You had shown

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<v Speaker 1>me a picture of a dress that was very similar

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<v Speaker 1>to the one you ended up wearing, And there was

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<v Speaker 1>a girl in the Chaine rooms next to us trying

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<v Speaker 1>on the very dress. So I went and stole it

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<v Speaker 1>from the change rooms after she'd gone. So, for those

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<v Speaker 1>who haven't seen it, it's got long sleeves, it's off

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<v Speaker 1>the shoulder, it was beautiful, had buttons down the back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone did ask why did I decide to have long

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<v Speaker 1>sleeves during January with a lot of confused faces. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was a bold move considering the weekend before

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<v Speaker 1>was nearly forty degrees. I was pretty nervous about it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>for those who were in Adelaide, it was perfect wedding weather. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>was degrees twenty five twenty six degrees, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>actually perfect. I didn't sweat at all. It actually got

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit cold in the night. So I felt

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<v Speaker 1>very smug about that decision. Now, how did you know

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<v Speaker 1>that it was the dress for you? Someone asked? Or

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually really hard because when you tried the

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<v Speaker 1>dresses on, I thought they'd have them all in different sizes,

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<v Speaker 1>but the one I tried on was a lot bigger

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<v Speaker 1>than I am, so I had to have it all

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<v Speaker 1>pinned back, and it was really hard to imagine what

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<v Speaker 1>it actually looked like. So I it was definitely the

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<v Speaker 1>one I like the most, but I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a bit on the fence. And then I had to

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<v Speaker 1>make a really quick decision because apparently it took like

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<v Speaker 1>six to eight months to actually get it made. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that was another question. Someone said, how far out from

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding did you get the dress? And the general

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<v Speaker 1>rule is you should start looking about a year before

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<v Speaker 1>your wedding, So Amy and I have to start looking

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<v Speaker 1>now that your big days overcame. Yeah, so we got

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<v Speaker 1>We had a look in March, and then I made

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<v Speaker 1>the decision after going to three different shops, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up getting it altered a few like three

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<v Speaker 1>three times a couple of weeks before the wedding. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously we talk about a lot of influencer weddings on here, Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have any inspiration for your dress? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>see it online anywhere? Was anyone else wearing it? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I saw a similar one on Marquez Bridle and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what piqued my interest on Pinterest. But I actually was

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<v Speaker 1>scouring the designer's page trying to find someone else in

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<v Speaker 1>it to make sure it looked good, and they just

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<v Speaker 1>had a photo of it on the mannequin, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was getting nervous because I had bored it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I was having second thoughts like oh did I rush

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<v Speaker 1>into it? But I actually ended up really loving it

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<v Speaker 1>on the day. I think that's pretty normal. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like everyone has a bit of a freak out because

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much online, so much inspo. When the second

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<v Speaker 1>you lock yours in because it is a very long

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<v Speaker 1>time until your wedding. What did you think of the dress? Race?

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<v Speaker 1>What was your reaction when you saw it? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>what you're expecting?

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<v Speaker 2>I had some thoughts about it because while practicing our

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<v Speaker 2>Dan's Kate gave away some clues. But you know, overall,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a beautiful dress and they did very well,

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<v Speaker 2>and she looked very stunning in it. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept askings to guess what it looked like, and

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<v Speaker 1>I stupidly slipped up in front of his friends and

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<v Speaker 1>said it had a slit in it. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you were expecting some sort of traditional

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<v Speaker 1>bulk on fairy princess dress.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, it was very new.

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<v Speaker 1>Now where were the shoes from Kate? They were from

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Madden. I actually got them on Revolve. I think

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<v Speaker 1>they've all sold out because I got them for like

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and ten dollars, so they were a bargain.

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<v Speaker 1>What about the bridesmaid's dresses. We got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>comments on them because I think it was sort of

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<v Speaker 1>a color that not too many people have done before.

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<v Speaker 1>So the bridesmaids dresses were from Pilgrim. It was really lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>They reached out and asked if I liked any of

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<v Speaker 1>their dresses, and they said, no pressure if you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>So I put it to you guys, and you really

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<v Speaker 1>liked the Marley gown and coral, so they kindly gifted

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<v Speaker 1>them to us. It was the only thing that we

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<v Speaker 1>actually had gifted for the wedding. We did pay for

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. They were really flattering. I think that's what

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<v Speaker 1>we were all worried about. When you have silk gowns

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<v Speaker 1>or satin gowns, there's always that element where they might

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<v Speaker 1>be slightly unflattering. But these were amazing. I have to

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<v Speaker 1>say though, I think the secret weapon was skims. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a long time searching for some skims and they

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<v Speaker 1>were great on the day. Yeah, I had mixed reviews

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<v Speaker 1>about skims, but they were so good and they're actually

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<v Speaker 1>really comfortable. They looked tiny when you get them out

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<v Speaker 1>of the packet, but yeah, they were really good and

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<v Speaker 1>I loved the color. So the color was coral, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that it just all went together really well.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bit nervous of how things would come together,

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<v Speaker 1>but it looked really good. The color palette and Reese,

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<v Speaker 1>where was your suit from?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Thank you? Yeah, finally measure for the boys. So

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<v Speaker 2>I got mine and all the guys suits from Beggy Pardon.

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<v Speaker 1>Beggy Pardon, what was that called?

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<v Speaker 2>Michael from Beggy Pardon's in the City. One of the best,

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<v Speaker 2>top notch has some amazing fabrics, so we got to

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<v Speaker 2>choose from and we ended up getting your dad's suit

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<v Speaker 2>there as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Kate's been ragging on you for a while on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast about not going down the traditional path of

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<v Speaker 1>having a black tuxedo, but I have to say I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the suits were amazing. I feel like it all

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<v Speaker 1>tied in so well with the color palette. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>end up liking it, Kate? Oh, I love them. I

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<v Speaker 1>love the blue color. I was nervous because Reese, originally

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<v Speaker 1>before we got engaged, we were talking about weddings and

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<v Speaker 1>he said, do you have a dress picked out? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like no, But he had a suit picked

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<v Speaker 1>out and it was kind of a purply marone patterned suit,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was he might pick something like that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I love the blue color. It's my favorite color and

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<v Speaker 1>it did go really well together, which I was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>about because I thought it might look quite bad together.

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<v Speaker 1>Weren't you're going to go for a brown suit as well?

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<v Speaker 1>Until everyone said you look like mister bean.

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<v Speaker 2>It was mentioned of it that was quickly down tent.

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<v Speaker 1>No. It rees looked amazing. I was very impressed. O kay,

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<v Speaker 1>you had quite a mane on you. I loved your hair.

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<v Speaker 1>A good friend of ours, Marianne, she did it. She's

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<v Speaker 1>been doing our hair for years. A lot of people asked,

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<v Speaker 1>was that your real hair or were they hair extensions

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<v Speaker 1>or were they permanent hair extensions? Look, it was obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not my own hair. I have very thin natural hair,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had hair extensions, some sitting pretty halo extensions,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like a non permanent extension. They're not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment. But no, I love them. They were

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<v Speaker 1>really comfortable during the day, surprisingly, And someone did say,

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<v Speaker 1>were you worried about them being visible? Or I was

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<v Speaker 1>because when I walked down the aisle, my dad accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>stepped on my veil and it popped out, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought for a second that it had taken the hair

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<v Speaker 1>extent with them. That was Someone did ask whether any

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<v Speaker 1>mishaps on the day, and I think that was probably

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest mishap because you were kind of umming and

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<v Speaker 1>ring as to whether you wanted a veil in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place. And I feel slightly guilty because I was

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<v Speaker 1>on veil duties. But to be fair, when we rocked

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<v Speaker 1>up to the ceremony in the big van, which we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get into in a second, I noticed you had a

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<v Speaker 1>black speck of makeup or eyeland or something on your face.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was more concerned rushing back to the car

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<v Speaker 1>to get makeup than what was happening with your veil. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were so proud because we actually arrived two minutes early,

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone was raising us, saying because we run late

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<v Speaker 1>to everything, that we would be late. And then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, we're about to start walking, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you've got something black on your face, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, for fuck's sake, and Dad's just stressing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>after he stepped on the veil, we tried to put

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<v Speaker 1>it back in, and it was quite windy during the

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<v Speaker 1>ceremony and it blew out again. So I was so

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<v Speaker 1>paranoid it would emerge from the bush because I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up having to just tuck it into the plants. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>is that? But I was so worried because you pay

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<v Speaker 1>money for a veil and then I'm like, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>even use it, and it's getting real. Well, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can use it for your weddings if you want, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>just secure it with a few more pins. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think it would have been blowing around the whole ceremony

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<v Speaker 1>and annoying me. So anyway, it wasn't a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>As my friend Owen said, apparently, if something goes wrong

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<v Speaker 1>during the wedding, then it means not going to have

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<v Speaker 1>any issues during your marriage. I feel like it's on

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<v Speaker 1>the tension though as well, because you know what, it

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<v Speaker 1>gets all a bit serious and it's like it's a

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<v Speaker 1>real day. I mean, you only see people's highlights in

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<v Speaker 1>the videos. Yeah, we also had our two dogs, Shadow

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<v Speaker 1>and Sunny there, and we had a dog handler from

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<v Speaker 1>ard Pause who was incredible. But we'd only given Sunny

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of sedatives rather than Shadow, like Shadow will

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<v Speaker 1>be fine, and he was just like jumping about and

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<v Speaker 1>well that was probably another mishap because my partner brown

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<v Speaker 1>And was doing some behind the scenes filming and he

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<v Speaker 1>captured the moment that Sonny decided to Oh, you can

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<v Speaker 1>probably tell the story you were there she did a

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<v Speaker 1>poo right before the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, just as we arrived, like it just happened,

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<v Speaker 2>so you could smell it from a mile away. It

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<v Speaker 2>was lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there was like fake grass around that area and

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<v Speaker 1>they had to bring out a bucket and a mop, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to Maximillion's proof clean that up.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. A lot of people wanted to know, Reese, did

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<v Speaker 1>you cry when you saw Kate walking down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't cry when she walked down the aisle. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just more probably in awe of what she looked like.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, no, there's plenty of teas coming along.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I remember walking down and I was rattled

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<v Speaker 1>after the whole veil incident, and I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>pull myself together. And then I was like, hang on,

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<v Speaker 1>Reese didn't cry. I was a bit like upset that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't cry. And then during your vows the waterworks

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<v Speaker 1>came out, so I was like, Yes. A few people

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know about the vowels, and the vow's pretty cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys want to give an insight?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, we made a choice to create our own vowels,

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<v Speaker 2>which for us is special. But for some that don't

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<v Speaker 2>have a master's of journalism, it was quite difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know yours, yours so good. You should have

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<v Speaker 1>a master's in journalism. Hard writing. I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>very in touch with your feelings when you write stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>whereas we're a bit like try and make things funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Reese was like saying I wouldn't be emotional

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<v Speaker 1>at all, and I did have a tear in my

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<v Speaker 1>eye during his vows, But then I had to pull

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<v Speaker 1>it together because I went, second.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what.

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<v Speaker 1>What what are you gonna say?

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<v Speaker 2>Just a hard person to make cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I did have tears in my eyes, so you could

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<v Speaker 1>see it, could you not. I thought i'd be a

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<v Speaker 1>mess because I for some reason, like because I've been

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<v Speaker 1>so excited for the wedding when I go to sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like sort of picturing what it would be like.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think I only got teary when the mention

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<v Speaker 1>of our all of our grandparents happened. That's when I

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<v Speaker 1>sort of had a little tear. And I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>different for the girls because you've been getting ready all day.

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<v Speaker 1>So we started getting ready at what seven am a am?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was almost felt more like a performance. Because

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<v Speaker 1>you're all done up. You don't want to ruin your makeup. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not very emotional in front of crowds. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like public speaking either, so I just was

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<v Speaker 1>a not to look at anyone. You mentioned Love Island

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<v Speaker 1>during your speech, I feel like you've got to tell

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<v Speaker 1>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to make it a bit more fun as well,

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<v Speaker 1>So in the vow, like in terms of making promises,

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<v Speaker 1>I said that Reese could watched all the basketball he wanted,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as he watches Love Island with me. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's good timing because the Winter Editions just started, so

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<v Speaker 1>after Ginny and Georgia were going to start bringing that.

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<v Speaker 1>What song did you guys end up choosing for the ceremony?

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<v Speaker 1>We went with when You Say Nothing at All by

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<v Speaker 1>Ron and Keating. We had a singer their James Terrence,

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<v Speaker 1>who did a really good job. All the other ones

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<v Speaker 1>we had all the other ones. We had Dreams and

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<v Speaker 1>we had Ellie Goulding. Yep, that was when we walked

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<v Speaker 1>back down. Is that still falling for you? That's the title,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it. Yeah, we had a couple of other ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone did ask us how many Taylor Swift songs we

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<v Speaker 1>had playing at the wedding. There was quite a few.

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<v Speaker 1>It was mainly you Belong with Me. We had that

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<v Speaker 1>performed live, and then we also had that when we

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<v Speaker 1>walked out. We did get a few questions about what

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<v Speaker 1>song the bridesmaids and groomsmen ended up walking into. Was

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<v Speaker 1>quite cool because Reese and Kate met through work, which

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<v Speaker 1>where they worked at the thirty six is obviously a

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<v Speaker 1>basketball club. So you guys had this really cool MC.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember his name, if you want.

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<v Speaker 2>To give me Downtown Alan Brown.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's the court announcer. Is that it? Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>court announcer for the thirty sixers. So we had a

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<v Speaker 1>basketball style themed entry and the girls ended up walking

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<v Speaker 1>in or running in or whatever they wanted to do,

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<v Speaker 1>dancing into Hanson's Where's the Love And it was so

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<v Speaker 1>funny because we're all standing waiting. Pip, Kate's bridemaid was

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<v Speaker 1>one of the first to walk in and she just

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<v Speaker 1>pulled this dance out of nowhere. She's a professional dancer

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<v Speaker 1>and was so funny. We were like, holy fuck, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we going to do after that? Like we can't

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<v Speaker 1>outdo that? Yeah, Well, the photographer was very taken by

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<v Speaker 1>Pip because, as you said, she's a professionally trained ballerina,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like wow when she walked down the aisle,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like in awe and mesmerized by her,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're like, wow, she's a dancer. She's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes a bit more sense. Someone wrote in saying

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<v Speaker 1>that they loved that we arrived in a relatively normal car.

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<v Speaker 1>Now this was your idea, Reese.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we had a look at getting some cars through

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<v Speaker 2>different supplies and that sort of side of things. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when we put it all together for about

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<v Speaker 2>what twenty minutes drive altogether, it was pretty hard to

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<v Speaker 2>come up with that amount of cash. And we decided

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<v Speaker 2>to get an eight seat to get the boys around

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<v Speaker 2>all weekend, and then you know Kate being disorganized for

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding what and you know Kate's decision to steal

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<v Speaker 2>it on the day as well and get Dale Amy's

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<v Speaker 2>partner to drive and do that was was actually quite

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<v Speaker 2>good and just probably normalized what we actually do.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was a great idea though, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was really fun having everyone in there and it was

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<v Speaker 1>quite spacious. I had Mum and Dad on either side

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<v Speaker 1>of me, and the bridesmaids were in the back and

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<v Speaker 1>we had a bit of a sing along to You

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<v Speaker 1>Belong with Me, and it was probably one of the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest moments of the whole day because even our dad

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<v Speaker 1>was joining in, like how does he know the words?

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<v Speaker 2>Poor dar? I'm sure it was a slightly different drive

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<v Speaker 2>than the boys of the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, all your beers were left in the car. My

0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:09.079
<v Speaker 1>mum was absolutely clinging onto my hand. She started getting

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<v Speaker 1>teary as we got into the car. It was very cute. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon it was my favorite part of the day

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<v Speaker 1>as well, because I think that sometimes the drive can

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit somber and everyone's nervous, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like everyone rose to the occasion and just made

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<v Speaker 1>it fun. I reckon, I'm going to have to hire

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<v Speaker 1>one of these minibuses too for mine, because it was

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<v Speaker 1>just fun to share it with everyone, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's just you and your dad, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of helped curve a few nerves for you. Perhaps.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get into the reception, because I was blown away

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<v Speaker 1>by how incredible it looked. You guys had it at Maximilian's,

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<v Speaker 1>which is atver Done in South Australia and the flowers,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they stole the show. Oh my gosh. I

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<v Speaker 1>was very nervous about the flowers because I've obviously never

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<v Speaker 1>planned a wedding and our friend has a friend who

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<v Speaker 1>is a florist, and of course her wedding flowers were amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we booked her in her name's Adele and

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<v Speaker 1>business is called The Lost Florists, and I would highly

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<v Speaker 1>recommend her. She dropped the flowers off around ten a

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<v Speaker 1>and it just got me so excited for the day

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<v Speaker 1>because they were just so much better than I ever expected,

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<v Speaker 1>so much better than the Pinterest board that I had created.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what was good about them is I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>really seen too many people have that exact color palette.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was lots of blushes and corals and even

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of yellow and orange and there it was

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<v Speaker 1>so pretty. And then your bouquet was all white roses.

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<v Speaker 1>It was enormous. You did such an incredible door. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get over it because I was expecting it to

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<v Speaker 1>be smaller, and it just blew my mind how big

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<v Speaker 1>the bunch of flowers were. It was incredible. I did

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<v Speaker 1>copy Steph Clere Smith's color palette. I know you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>it was very unique, but it wasn't. And because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have thirty three million dollars like Steph Clere Smith,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, just substitute some of the premium

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<v Speaker 1>roses out. I mean, there was still so many roses.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was shocked at how similar it actually looked

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<v Speaker 1>to Stamps. I was so happy with it. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>also went down the route of having the long tables.

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<v Speaker 1>There was lots of gold fairy lights and the food

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing. Yeah, someone did ask saying they wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>know all the details about the food. So I can't

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<v Speaker 1>quite remember exactly what the meat eaters ate because I

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<v Speaker 1>had a vegetarian meal which was like a barada salad

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff zucchini leaves. You guys had like basically meat

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<v Speaker 1>and chicken. But it was a bit fancier, wasn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Absolutely. We went up a couple of months before

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<v Speaker 2>and had a fuel food tasting which was up my Ali,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was great. And yeah, we ended up choosing

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<v Speaker 2>a pork and salmon alternate drop for entree, and then

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<v Speaker 2>a beef and chicken alturna to drop as well for dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>which was sublime.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, recently got pulled away just as the mains were

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<v Speaker 1>being served and he had been really looking forward to

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<v Speaker 1>his steak, but the kitchen nicely put them away for us.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was so funny. We went to take our

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<v Speaker 1>sunset photos and our photographer Megan Coles, who was also incredible,

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<v Speaker 1>and our videographer Kelly from KMS Vision. They took us

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<v Speaker 1>to this abandon I'd tell you, you'd call it a

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<v Speaker 1>field on the side of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Road, probably not an abandoned but well not abandoned.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're like, we're empty. They're like, we're not sure

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<v Speaker 1>this public or private property, but let's have a go.

0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.840
<v Speaker 1>And there was this massive fence, probably what nearly taller

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<v Speaker 1>than me alright, being.

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<v Speaker 2>Melodramatic, melodramatic, it was like, you know, just below shovel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they're like, oh, do you feel comfortable, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>climbing over the fence. And I was a bit taken

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<v Speaker 1>aback because I'd had no idea how I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, because my dress was pretty tight and

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<v Speaker 1>my arms are really restricted in terms of because the

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<v Speaker 1>dress was off the shoulder, I barely could lift them

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<v Speaker 1>above my head. So Reese kindly helped me across the

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<v Speaker 1>fence and we took the best photos there though, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've only seen a few of them, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was worth it. You guys haven't even touched on

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<v Speaker 1>the gelati. I feel like that was a real standout feature.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved it. Oh yeah, So originally when we met

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<v Speaker 1>with our wedding planner at Maximilians, He's like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, no one wants to eat your bloody

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<v Speaker 1>wedding cake. So originally we were going to have a

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<v Speaker 1>big cake, but we went with one of those retro

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<v Speaker 1>eighties nineties cakes and I loved it so much. It

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<v Speaker 1>was from Little Lil's Bakery. And then we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>having gelati, as you said, from Jelatissimo, and they were

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<v Speaker 1>so great. We had a bit of a competition about

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<v Speaker 1>who would pick the best favors. Frere rash Air was

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<v Speaker 1>what I picked, and it was gone well it was.

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<v Speaker 1>The other pick was mint Chock and that probably was

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<v Speaker 1>the least popular.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's a surprise surprise, but a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>People came up to me and raved and said they

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<v Speaker 1>were so excited it was there. And we also have

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<v Speaker 1>some Jelati to collect later, and I like chop mint,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's left. Well. I loved it though, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was this cute little cart so when people were hungry

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<v Speaker 1>they could go up and have some ice cream. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like, here's your bowl of ice cream and light

0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:27.520
<v Speaker 1>throw it at you. It was very cute. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>no one was throwing ice cream. I think the speeches

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<v Speaker 1>were another favorite part of mine, not just because Amy

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<v Speaker 1>and I gave us not such double brag there. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed the other speeches because you guys had your

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<v Speaker 1>parents speaking and then the best man and maids of honor. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we did. The speeches were really good. I think they

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<v Speaker 1>set the tone of the night. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>came up and was like, oh, we just loved how

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<v Speaker 1>personal they were and also how funny they were. So

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<v Speaker 1>Mum and Dad really blew me away with their speech.

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<v Speaker 1>It was full of like lovely anecdotes and it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>to see our dad get emotional. He's a man of

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<v Speaker 1>few words usually, but he really rose to the occasion,

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<v Speaker 1>as did Mum. When I gave my speech at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>which someone did ask did Kate end up actually finishing

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<v Speaker 1>writing her speech? Because you shared a little snippet from

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<v Speaker 1>behind the scenes of me saying I hadn't written my

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<v Speaker 1>speech yet. I have a story about why I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>finish writing my speech. So it was my last thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do. And Sophie has decided to wear contact lenses

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<v Speaker 1>in the last couple of weeks, and well, your wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>so i''s have to see. So she got her nails

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<v Speaker 1>done and she asked to get a very small tip

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<v Speaker 1>on them. However, it wasn't exactly what you wanted. It's

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<v Speaker 1>quite a large to have clause at the moment to

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<v Speaker 1>be removed. So basically she was struggling to get a

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<v Speaker 1>contact lens out. It got to one am and she

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<v Speaker 1>still couldn't get it out, and we were sharing a

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<v Speaker 1>room and I was trying to, like, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck, just get it out, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like get my fingers into your eye and pull

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<v Speaker 1>it out. And then I was like, I kept telling Kat,

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually really hurting me. Going blonde, kept going on

0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:50.000
<v Speaker 1>how painful it was, and then I looked into her

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<v Speaker 1>eye and it wasn't even in there. It had come out.

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<v Speaker 1>I know because you took an hour to try to

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<v Speaker 1>get her so it must have popped out without knowing. Yeah,

0:19:57.400 --> 0:19:59.240
<v Speaker 1>that was a nice way to end the night anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>So I blame you because I actually forgot to thank

0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:04.159
<v Speaker 1>the bridesmaids in the speech, so I'll publicly thank you

0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:06.760
<v Speaker 1>guys now for everything that you did for me during

0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:09.400
<v Speaker 1>the wedding process. But well, Dad lost it during your speech,

0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:10.959
<v Speaker 1>so he must have done all right. Like he was

0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:14.639
<v Speaker 1>actually full on crying. One of our family friends was

0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:17.400
<v Speaker 1>trying to catchize with us, being yeah, God. I looked

0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:18.879
<v Speaker 1>up and I was like, what's going on because I

0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:21.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't think I said anything that amazing in it, but yeah,

0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:23.399
<v Speaker 1>it really got to him. And then when we did

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<v Speaker 1>a dance later, I was like, Dad, were you crying?

0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:29.600
<v Speaker 1>He's like, no, your parents and brother did a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>speech as well. This was very touching.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was. I think Dad went first for us

0:20:34.840 --> 0:20:38.000
<v Speaker 2>and that was it was pretty good because he's such

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<v Speaker 2>a business like man like, he's done plenty of speeches

0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:43.840
<v Speaker 2>before in front of a lot of people, and he

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<v Speaker 2>sort of went off script a little bit, which was nice.

0:20:46.000 --> 0:20:48.040
<v Speaker 2>He hasn't done that a lot, so you know, he

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<v Speaker 2>loves kid and he wanted to I guess share how

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<v Speaker 2>much he does. And you know, Mum was on the opposite.

0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:58.199
<v Speaker 2>She's all emotion and for her to get through that

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<v Speaker 2>was sad was pretty special as well.

0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Their speeches are beautiful. That's the thing. It is such

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<v Speaker 1>an emotional day because you always think about the people

0:21:05.960 --> 0:21:08.600
<v Speaker 1>who aren't there with you, and I think that you're

0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:10.800
<v Speaker 1>focusing so much on the day. But then when you're

0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:13.000
<v Speaker 1>there talking about everyone, I think that's when all the

0:21:13.000 --> 0:21:15.679
<v Speaker 1>emotions start pouring out. I did enjoy Ryan's speech. He

0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:18.560
<v Speaker 1>made a great joke about so everyone says that Reese

0:21:18.720 --> 0:21:21.920
<v Speaker 1>is very chatty in work situations and that's probably why

0:21:22.119 --> 0:21:24.600
<v Speaker 1>we you know, we met at work, but he's very

0:21:24.680 --> 0:21:28.960
<v Speaker 1>quiet outside of work. And Ryan said that now that

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<v Speaker 1>we're married, we can have our own spin off podcast

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<v Speaker 1>called Unspoken, which I thought was pretty clever. He's starting,

0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:37.560
<v Speaker 1>is correct? Oh? I know, yeah, you only say correct. Well,

0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:39.960
<v Speaker 1>he's starting his podcast career now, so you know, let

0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:43.040
<v Speaker 1>us know, do you want a spin off Cooled Unspoken? Unspoken?

0:21:43.040 --> 0:21:45.399
<v Speaker 1>I think you're speaking quite a lot now if you

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<v Speaker 1>can get a word in with us. And of course

0:21:47.320 --> 0:21:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Sophie and Amy. I was a bit nervous when you

0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:52.720
<v Speaker 1>guys did your speech because there were some disagreements about

0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:56.000
<v Speaker 1>if it was appropriate. You kept having a fight with

0:21:56.040 --> 0:21:58.119
<v Speaker 1>Amy in front of me about you coming up with

0:21:58.160 --> 0:22:00.080
<v Speaker 1>some zinger lines. And I thought it was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a complete roast, and I was correct. It was

0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:05.359
<v Speaker 1>a roast. But I really enjoyed it. I was just

0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:06.960
<v Speaker 1>nervous because I didn't know how you took it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was great. I loved it. There was some

0:22:09.960 --> 0:22:12.399
<v Speaker 2>good one liners in there that some people in the

0:22:12.400 --> 0:22:15.960
<v Speaker 2>audience definitely got as well. So it was good for all.

0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 1>And what about the dance, because Kate's been a bit nervous.

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:22.080
<v Speaker 1>You have been trying to give Kate some dancing lessons.

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<v Speaker 1>How did they go? Well? Just to put it into perspective,

0:22:24.760 --> 0:22:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Reese and his family are or like a grade dancers.

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:31.399
<v Speaker 1>His brother is a professional dancer. What was that? What

0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:32.600
<v Speaker 1>was that show? Ryan was on?

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<v Speaker 2>So you think you can dance?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? And then pip as I was saying, his partner

0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:39.720
<v Speaker 1>is a professional ballerina and you, I mean you were

0:22:39.720 --> 0:22:42.720
<v Speaker 1>a former stripper in your day. I'm just joking. Reese

0:22:42.760 --> 0:22:45.080
<v Speaker 1>is very good at dancing. I think all the outspoken

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:47.840
<v Speaker 1>listeners saw him doing the worm recently. Yeah, I was

0:22:47.880 --> 0:22:49.080
<v Speaker 1>waiting for you to pull that one out.

0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:53.919
<v Speaker 2>It's hard to do to Hanson or s Club seven.

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<v Speaker 1>I know reeswere were you on the dance law because

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<v Speaker 1>we were all having a good time and you were

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere to be seen.

0:23:00.480 --> 0:23:02.359
<v Speaker 2>Just keeping the guests happy. You know, someone's got to

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But what did you think of our first dance? Because

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up practicing what four days out?

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:11.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I'm trying to get her to practice probably

0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:14.159
<v Speaker 2>a couple of months out, and she's like, no, No,

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:16.240
<v Speaker 2>that's your job, that's your job. It's like no, but

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:18.560
<v Speaker 2>you've got to actually join me in dance. So I

0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:21.600
<v Speaker 2>went to a few YouTube tutorials just to see, just

0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 2>to see what I can do. Night one was probably

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 2>the funniest experience in my life trying to get this

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:33.640
<v Speaker 2>robot to dance. We had two dogs just staring at us,

0:23:33.640 --> 0:23:38.040
<v Speaker 2>going what is happening? So yeah, no, it was good fun.

0:23:38.080 --> 0:23:41.159
<v Speaker 2>We pulled it together somehow. I don't know if anyone

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:44.240
<v Speaker 2>saw I was whispering, not some sweet nothings, but some

0:23:44.600 --> 0:23:47.280
<v Speaker 2>dance steps and one then two.

0:23:47.800 --> 0:23:50.080
<v Speaker 1>You guys did well. Though I was impressed, I was

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:52.400
<v Speaker 1>standing quite far away, but I didn't get much feedback

0:23:52.440 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 1>from it, so I didn't know if it was awful,

0:23:53.800 --> 0:23:56.879
<v Speaker 1>and I did ask the videographer. I said, look, before

0:23:56.920 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 1>you feel it, is there anything you can do to

0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:00.119
<v Speaker 1>make it look a bit better, any special effect? She

0:24:00.160 --> 0:24:02.880
<v Speaker 1>said she'd just put it on slow mo. But Pip

0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:04.919
<v Speaker 1>kept saying to me after, oh my god, Kate, you

0:24:04.960 --> 0:24:07.359
<v Speaker 1>had the most perfect face for when you were dancing.

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what face I was playing. I surprised

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:11.639
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't resting bitch face, because that's usually what you

0:24:11.640 --> 0:24:14.160
<v Speaker 1>have when you concentrated. Well, I just had resa at one,

0:24:14.320 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 1>two three. I did stuff up the spin in at

0:24:18.600 --> 0:24:19.919
<v Speaker 1>the end because it was meant to be a bit

0:24:19.920 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 1>of a dip. But I was very nervous about ripping

0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:25.560
<v Speaker 1>my dress and also just dancing in front of people

0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:28.880
<v Speaker 1>because it never happens well our dad, because you guys

0:24:28.960 --> 0:24:32.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't have the traditional daddy daughter dance where there's like

0:24:32.080 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 1>a separate song. You had Reese, you had your mum

0:24:34.720 --> 0:24:36.720
<v Speaker 1>come in and then dad came in, and the whole

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:38.840
<v Speaker 1>lead up that we kept saying to Dad, I think

0:24:38.840 --> 0:24:40.840
<v Speaker 1>you got to practice your dance. What are you going

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:42.159
<v Speaker 1>to do? And he kept saying He's going to do

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>a putuzzi. I don't even know what the fuck that is.

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 1>But he definitely just did a normal dance and it

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 1>was quite sweet. I feel like we need to mention

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>the bouquet toss as well. We did have a florist

0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:53.600
<v Speaker 1>asking us if we did a bouquet toss because she

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:55.720
<v Speaker 1>was saying it kills her when so much effort goes

0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:58.119
<v Speaker 1>into the bridal bouquet and it's just thrown around. I

0:24:58.160 --> 0:25:00.720
<v Speaker 1>did get a bunch of fake flowers from my gear

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:03.960
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't want to lose my flowers. And I

0:25:04.040 --> 0:25:07.920
<v Speaker 1>did tell my cousin's girlfriend, Look, she's a six foot

0:25:07.920 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>two netballer. I said, look, stand directly behind me and

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:12.280
<v Speaker 1>just hip and shoulder everyone out of the way and

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>leap up to grab it. But you and Amy joined

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:19.360
<v Speaker 1>the crowd, even though you're engaged if you're not married yet,

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:21.600
<v Speaker 1>but you were engaged out of it anyway, but we

0:25:21.600 --> 0:25:23.680
<v Speaker 1>were trying to make up the numbers. Anyway. You ended

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:26.560
<v Speaker 1>up catching the bouquet. So what happened was Kate throws

0:25:26.600 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>it back. I was literally sort of just standing, you know,

0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of close to you in the middle. Wasn't really

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:31.240
<v Speaker 1>going for it.

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:32.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't know about that.

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:35.639
<v Speaker 1>I saw that he and the bouquet hit the roof,

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and then I just went forward and got it. But

0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:39.439
<v Speaker 1>I felt like a bit of an asshole because did

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>you catch it or pick it off for the ground? No,

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I caught it. I felt like an asshole.

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:44.840
<v Speaker 2>While elbows out my stairs.

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:47.720
<v Speaker 1>Well, I saw my little second cousin who's like eighteen

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 1>s Dowdy next to me, and I thought, holy fuck.

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I hope I did not push her over. So I

0:25:51.359 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 1>quickly gave her the bouquet flowers and she was thrilled

0:25:53.600 --> 0:25:56.879
<v Speaker 1>about that. But then afterwards Amy, she had this huge

0:25:56.880 --> 0:25:59.200
<v Speaker 1>cut down her arm. Yeah, because apparently it did get

0:25:59.200 --> 0:26:02.600
<v Speaker 1>a bit in there. The fingernails were coming out, like yeah,

0:26:02.600 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I know, people getting scratched up. But it's funny because

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like there is some truth in it because

0:26:07.160 --> 0:26:09.639
<v Speaker 1>I caught the bouquet at my friend Owen's wedding. It

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 1>was five years ago, but I am the first to

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 1>get married out of that whole group of girls. We

0:26:13.840 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>know what, though, maybe it's a sign that Amy should

0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:19.040
<v Speaker 1>move a wedding after mine now that I've caught the bouquet.

0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that was a bit of a fuck you over

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the whole issue. Well, someone did ask us it was

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:25.879
<v Speaker 1>there any it was there a race to be the

0:26:25.920 --> 0:26:28.680
<v Speaker 1>first married? And is there any competition around weddings? I

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:31.119
<v Speaker 1>think so could just answer that competition around it. But

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:33.720
<v Speaker 1>even like some of our interstate guests when they were

0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:36.399
<v Speaker 1>like when you're in Amy's dex and one of them's like, oh,

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:38.959
<v Speaker 1>it's a bit close to come over both. Oh, they

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 1>have to pick which one they love more. For me,

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a race. I just got engaged first. No

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:47.600
<v Speaker 1>burn there or anything. But I mean we were together

0:26:47.800 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 1>for the shortest amount of time, so is another burning.

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>That's just a message for Dale and Brandon. You know,

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:54.919
<v Speaker 1>someone did ask they wanted to know more about Kate's

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:56.919
<v Speaker 1>ring and how you selected it because you brought your

0:26:56.960 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 1>good friend with you. I'd like to hear this too,

0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 1>because Reese was being really cryptic about it, which is

0:27:01.800 --> 0:27:03.760
<v Speaker 1>very much like Reese.

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't sound like me at all. Yeah, I took

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:10.479
<v Speaker 2>a good, really good friend of mine, Carli along. She

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 2>knows me really well. Yes, you know, wholesome pinterest. A

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:18.200
<v Speaker 2>little bit before it's to my shock, we went into

0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Class A Jewelers and we saw the amazing Daniel there.

0:27:22.040 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 2>He picked out sort of two rings that might suit,

0:27:24.920 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 2>and I pretty much instantly said, yeah, that one is fantastic.

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 2>It's pretty much when I was looking at beforehand. Carli

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:35.560
<v Speaker 2>definitely agreed. So yeah, no, actually, overall it was pretty

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:39.320
<v Speaker 2>easy and I'm lucky probably I hopefully got it right.

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:41.680
<v Speaker 1>No, I loved it. I was very excited. I remember

0:27:41.760 --> 0:27:43.879
<v Speaker 1>you opened the box when you proposed, and I was

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:46.919
<v Speaker 1>just like blinded by bling, and I was I was

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:48.960
<v Speaker 1>just just all shocked because I remember having a fear

0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>that I wouldn't like my engagement ry, not from you,

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.480
<v Speaker 1>but just in general, like Amy had a dream. I

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:58.159
<v Speaker 1>remember that Dale got her an Opal No offensive, anyone

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:01.199
<v Speaker 1>likes Ople's. But no, I was so thrilled with it.

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>And then we got our wedding bands from Brandon's uncle

0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:07.679
<v Speaker 1>who was a jeweler. So and they're amazing. You've got

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 1>a little diamond.

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had a little bleaning got so much bling

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:12.760
<v Speaker 2>on their ring.

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I don't even know the name of Brandon's auntie

0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 1>uncle's jeweler. Is it Urban I believe it's Urban Craft.

0:28:19.640 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 1>So they're in Brisbane. And they were amazing. They did

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 1>everything over email and they even sent us the rings

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:28.040
<v Speaker 1>before we paid for them and they just like arrived.

0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:29.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do you want us to send you some money?

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 1>They're probably not usually that trusting to non relatives. I

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 1>hope not. We did have a lot of questions from

0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 1>brides to be about advice. So what is your best

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:41.360
<v Speaker 1>advice for those who were sort of starting the planning process? Now?

0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I did ask Reese for some input in this one,

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:46.440
<v Speaker 1>but I joked like I planned the whole wedding, which

0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 1>was an on running joke. During the wedding. He did

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:51.080
<v Speaker 1>organize the cars, and he did have a job to

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 1>bring sparklers, but they.

0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Was forgotten and the suits suits.

0:28:56.760 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask the listeners, I have to butt

0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:00.600
<v Speaker 1>in here. Okay, you don't use talk like this in

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:02.320
<v Speaker 1>the podcast. I feel like this is your very loved

0:29:02.400 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 1>up sort of like really your little like baby voice

0:29:05.920 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>with Reese, is it? I think so? I think everyone's

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 1>going to be shocked that, like, where's that girl who's

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:15.040
<v Speaker 1>just like what you about stuff? We're talking about our wedding? Yeah, okay,

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>there it was. I hear a bit more of the

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:20.920
<v Speaker 1>novel voice, but we're usually screaming to each other during

0:29:20.920 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>the podcast, and he's open eye. There's no fights currently

0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>because Reese is here, well, my best behavior. Yeah, So

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>my advice would be to create a Google doc sheet

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>and have all of your info in one document. So

0:29:31.760 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>when I started getting quotes from suppliers, I had a

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 1>tab for save venues, you know, different things, and then

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 1>have your budget in there. And I think it's important

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to work the budget out first, because I was pretty

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 1>shocked at how much weddings cost, Like I'd always heard

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 1>they're expensive, but so only when you start getting quotes

0:29:47.960 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>that you're like, holy shit. So it's really good to

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 1>be able to track the budget. And I found setting

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:55.960
<v Speaker 1>the dates of when things would do was really helpful.

0:29:56.200 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>And then I would suggest joining a Facebook group called

0:29:59.480 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>wedge shed, so they it's in a national group in

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:06.240
<v Speaker 1>Australia and everyone just posts their inspo and have different

0:30:06.320 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 1>questions in there, and I found it really useful. And

0:30:08.840 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 1>then I mean I'd spent time on Pinterest, but I

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.640
<v Speaker 1>actually found webshed the group a lot better. I think

0:30:13.680 --> 0:30:15.680
<v Speaker 1>it's because it's real people in there, so it's not

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>these influencers or celebrities who have unlimited budget. It's actually

0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>what real people have done. Yeah, there was another question

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>about what were some things that you could you can

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 1>do cheap or maybe when you are in a budget.

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I suppose the car is probably one of them. Yeah,

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 1>for us, I mean it depends if you're a car person.

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Like we weren't car people, and spending a couple of

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 1>ground on cars wasn't really a priority for us. My

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>other suggestion is to for like the wedding stationary so

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 1>for your invites and envelopes to use Etsy. So we

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:47.680
<v Speaker 1>bought just a really cheap template. I think it ended

0:30:47.720 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 1>up being forty dollars for a template for like the

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 1>seating plan invites menus, and we ended up using that.

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 1>But then I organized it to get printed at Peterkin Paper,

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:59.960
<v Speaker 1>so they're a Western Australian business, and they were so good.

0:31:00.160 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I literally emailed this woman probably like fifty times asking

0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:06.560
<v Speaker 1>her different quotes on papers, because that was one thing

0:31:06.640 --> 0:31:08.840
<v Speaker 1>that I was shocked at. I think I spent the

0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 1>most time in terms of planning trying to work out

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:13.800
<v Speaker 1>what colored paper to use for the invites. I suppose

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:15.719
<v Speaker 1>it sets the tone of what the wedding's going to be.

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I think what you guys did really cleverly as well

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 1>was you didn't do is it bomb and areas. Is

0:31:19.960 --> 0:31:21.480
<v Speaker 1>that what they're called. You didn't do like the little

0:31:21.520 --> 0:31:23.239
<v Speaker 1>gift because I feel like no one even ends up

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:25.840
<v Speaker 1>taking the gift. And I thought it was clever because

0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 1>on the menus you had the person's name, so then

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 1>you're not having to spend extra money on a name

0:31:30.360 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 1>tag that's going to go missing.

0:31:31.640 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, because even though we did the Etsy ten plates,

0:31:33.960 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 1>printing is really expensive in paper, so it was good

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 1>to do have menu and name tag all in one.

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Another tip would also be with the seating plan. We

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:45.200
<v Speaker 1>had people dropping out the week of of course, when

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 1>we had just paid the bill and the seating plan

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 1>changed quite a few times in that week, and if

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 1>we had purchased one of those really flash seating plans,

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I would have been really annoyed. So we ended up

0:31:55.680 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 1>just getting a poster of it printed from Office Works

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>and putting it in a frame, and we also did

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>the same for our welcome board, and I think it

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>still looked effective, Like I was happy with that. I mean,

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 1>no one really gives a shit about those signs, I do.

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>They blow over most of the time, and now we

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>can use the frames again. So is there anything that

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:17.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys regretted on the day or think that you

0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:20.600
<v Speaker 1>do differently personally. No, I was just shocked. How I

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>did make a comment to you guys in the car

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>before the ceremony. I'm going to regret it, but things

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 1>are running so smoothie like. The morning was really relaxed.

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 1>I actually had a really good time. I'd heard of

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:34.160
<v Speaker 1>people just stressing, but Marianne, our hairdresser, and Tire the

0:32:34.200 --> 0:32:36.600
<v Speaker 1>makeup artists, were just like machines that were getting everyone

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 1>done so quickly, and we had a really nice breakfast

0:32:39.680 --> 0:32:41.479
<v Speaker 1>and just all were hanging out. We have to hear

0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 1>about the boys morning, so I haven't gone into that.

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>I think it was very different because to set the scene,

0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:48.640
<v Speaker 1>we were all staying at this incredible retreat in Sterling,

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 1>which is up in the hills. It was like this

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.000
<v Speaker 1>old manner. It was just surrounded by all these beautiful

0:32:53.040 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 1>trees and plants and everything, and you guys, all the

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>boys were in sort of like a sectioned off area

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:01.840
<v Speaker 1>which wasn't quite as nigh out here. We got there first,

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 1>and we did so I got the bridal sweet. I

0:33:05.000 --> 0:33:08.000
<v Speaker 1>would say. It was a massive room with a king

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>sized bed. There was this insane walking wardrobe, that's made

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>me very depressed to go back to my built ins

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>and it had an epic bathroom. I have to give

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you a big thank you so for you and Amy

0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>and the other bridesmaids for organizing the beautiful balloons. He

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 1>really set the scene. But yeah, you guys had you

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>still had a nice area.

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, that was amazing for us.

0:33:28.800 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 1>When we saw the other side of the house.

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 2>To day, Yeah, yeah, I didn't get the king sweet,

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 2>but that's all right, No, it was good. We were

0:33:36.360 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 2>super stressed. Now for us, it was super cruisy. The

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 2>Sterling golf Club was right next door, so we played

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:49.240
<v Speaker 2>around of nine holes with nine guys on the friday,

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 2>which is the funniest thing I've ever seen. Right, nearly

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 2>killed all of us, my best man and brother, so

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:56.520
<v Speaker 2>none of us nearly turned up to the wedding.

0:33:56.600 --> 0:33:57.200
<v Speaker 1>How did he do that?

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:00.960
<v Speaker 2>He managed to hit a golf ball backwards. I don't

0:34:01.040 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 2>know if that's actually possible, but it did say.

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>That was just kept that quiet. You didn't hear about that.

0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Just I mean, I know Ryan listens to the podcast

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:12.040
<v Speaker 1>and he got a little bit offended Amy and so well,

0:34:12.080 --> 0:34:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Amy's not here. But when you guys said that you

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:16.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't know any of the bridal party, and I see,

0:34:16.400 --> 0:34:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I would like to put that into perspective. I said

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know any of the grooms, meant and he

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>was the best met I love right, and he's my

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:26.160
<v Speaker 1>new brother as well now, so shout out to Ryan.

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I also love Pip. I just want to steal her

0:34:28.160 --> 0:34:30.440
<v Speaker 1>as my sister too. I know I think Pip's got

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 1>three sisters now, if she likes it or not. But yeah,

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:35.360
<v Speaker 1>how did you guys go in the day of because

0:34:35.360 --> 0:34:37.080
<v Speaker 1>we heard there was a lot of sitting around. You

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:38.880
<v Speaker 1>made a beautiful platter of fruit.

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, it all started with a little spoon with

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.080
<v Speaker 2>each other because we had to sleep together in the

0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:46.759
<v Speaker 2>same only two and two.

0:34:46.800 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 1>But on Friday I get it's a message and I've

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.640
<v Speaker 1>literally written this full on itinerary. You know, I've got

0:34:52.640 --> 0:34:54.520
<v Speaker 1>a map of the retreat for Reese to give the

0:34:54.560 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>boys and it says like who's in each room? And

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I asked you you're happy with you know, do you

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 1>want seven in your room? Or who do you want?

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 1>And then I get this text, Oh where are the

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:05.479
<v Speaker 1>other rooms? Or like what's going on? Do you each

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 1>have a room? But there's only six bedrooms you meant

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:08.200
<v Speaker 1>to be sharing.

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 2>We were all happy to caudle. So yes, after that

0:35:12.320 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 2>it was cruzy. So we went to Stirling to have

0:35:16.160 --> 0:35:19.880
<v Speaker 2>some brecky. Then we went went got some fruit because

0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:21.920
<v Speaker 2>you know what do you do that day off?

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, absolutely, we had so much fruit you could have

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:25.040
<v Speaker 1>had needed it.

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 2>Nice and fresh for the boys. Yeah. No, we got

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:31.160
<v Speaker 2>back and we just chewed out for a little bit.

0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 2>Videographer and photographer came in for us, which was like

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:35.320
<v Speaker 2>super cruisy.

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you have a hilarious moment with the photographer?

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, Meghan after our group shots in the in

0:35:42.360 --> 0:35:46.280
<v Speaker 2>the lounde room. Meghan unfortunately for her because the boys

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:49.359
<v Speaker 2>picked up on it and said, Reese, you're gonna get

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 2>your pet and Reese do you want to go get

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:54.320
<v Speaker 2>your portraits done? And oh, can you just follow me

0:35:54.360 --> 0:35:56.920
<v Speaker 2>into the bedroom? So all the boys picked up on

0:35:56.920 --> 0:35:58.320
<v Speaker 2>that for sure. I was like, oh, well I was

0:35:58.360 --> 0:36:00.600
<v Speaker 2>getting married now. So that was a bit of fun

0:36:00.640 --> 0:36:03.239
<v Speaker 2>during the day and relaxed everyone. So that was good.

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 2>And then look, we watched them MBA and then you know,

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 2>we were planning to leave about three thirty, so we

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:12.360
<v Speaker 2>all got ready about three twenty and hopped into the

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:14.040
<v Speaker 2>bus and wet. Good to go.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 1>So did you have your Did you originally get into

0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the suits for the photos and then get out of

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 1>them again?

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:21.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, so that was easy.

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:23.360
<v Speaker 1>It was funny you say that about the bedroom photos

0:36:23.400 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 1>because the videographer and photographer we're trying to get so

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 1>they told the girls, can you go get into your dresses?

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:31.400
<v Speaker 1>And it was literally trying to to herd cats like

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:33.680
<v Speaker 1>you guys were just cats. Yeah, because it's impossible to

0:36:33.680 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>hear them. Is that that's the same thing, Yeah, it is, okay. Anyway,

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 1>you made it very difficult. You guys were all off

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:40.600
<v Speaker 1>in your own little world and they go, oh, well,

0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>we'll take some photos of you in this bedroom with

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 1>all the balloons. Can you haven't even said what the

0:36:45.160 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 1>balloons were. I got these balloons it spelled out bride

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>to be, and then I got all of these helium balloons.

0:36:49.640 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I also almost died heading up to this retreat because

0:36:53.000 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I had I think it was fourteen balloons in the

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:58.319
<v Speaker 1>back of my cart. I drive a tiny Masda too,

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:01.520
<v Speaker 1>and I also had no natural but I couldn't pull

0:37:01.560 --> 0:37:04.520
<v Speaker 1>over and stop because I was worried that the balloons

0:37:04.520 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>would explode in the heat. So yeah, it was a

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 1>dicey It was a dicey walk way back to the recovery.

0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I very much appreciate it. It did look like a Pinterest

0:37:12.239 --> 0:37:14.319
<v Speaker 1>photo when I went into the room, and so the

0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 1>photographer liked and she goes, so just get up onto

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 1>the bed, and then it was like yeah, Kelly, well yeah,

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and her there was a male photographer of videographer two

0:37:23.160 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 1>that was helping out, and they're like, yeah, so can

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you just like pull the balloons down and bounce around

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 1>with them for a bit. And I'm like, oh my god,

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:32.160
<v Speaker 1>I hope the photos turned out okay, I've got no

0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:34.359
<v Speaker 1>idea what they're going to look like. Also, in terms

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 1>of your timings, it was quite funny because we were

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 1>trying to go outside to take the bridal photos with

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 1>the family and bridesmaids, and everyone's like, now, the boys

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:44.960
<v Speaker 1>are just about to leave, and it was just like

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 1>this frantic communication back and forth because we were so

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:50.520
<v Speaker 1>worried you were going to see me. I kept screaming

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:53.120
<v Speaker 1>being like Brandon, where is res No.

0:37:53.320 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I was on a strict instruction to look forward and

0:37:55.520 --> 0:37:56.200
<v Speaker 2>only forward.

0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh so did you walk out when we were there no.

0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:01.800
<v Speaker 2>I think, yeah, I was under strict instruction.

0:38:02.000 --> 0:38:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to give some advice as a bridesmaid, because

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 1>one thing I would say as a bridesmaid is make

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.279
<v Speaker 1>sure there's lots of tape just in case for you

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>and the bride. There was a fair bit of like

0:38:10.840 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 1>booty tape going on. Yeah, even Mum Mum was like

0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 1>fretting about this tape. So I think you need to

0:38:15.600 --> 0:38:17.839
<v Speaker 1>equip yourself with all the things that the bride might need.

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>And you also, Kate gave us these really beautiful gifts

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:23.040
<v Speaker 1>the morning of. So the night before you gave us

0:38:23.080 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 1>some slippers to get around in, and then the morning

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 1>of you got us these really cute ring boxes from

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 1>the Daily Edited. So it was very thoughtful and also

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 1>a bit of a handwritten note. So it made up

0:38:32.600 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 1>for the fact that we didn't get a mansion in

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.680
<v Speaker 1>the speech. Oh, I did personal cards for you guys.

0:38:36.920 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Someone did ask me about what rees got me, and

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.640
<v Speaker 1>it was very sweet because you delivered. You got the

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:45.520
<v Speaker 1>box delivered the day before. Pip came and brought on

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Friday night this big gold box from Peter Alexander and

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>I was like, wow, how many pajamas are in here.

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:52.520
<v Speaker 1>It was a massive box. I didn't know they did

0:38:52.560 --> 0:38:55.759
<v Speaker 1>gift boxes. It was heavy too, so more than pajamas

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>in here. Yes, we were under strict instructions to open

0:38:58.120 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>the Presence on camera, you know, capture those moments, so

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 1>we were running out of time. So I felt very rude,

0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 1>but because I opened it up and there were so

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:08.440
<v Speaker 1>many beautiful things inside, but I had to do a

0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:11.239
<v Speaker 1>really quick rate of the card and then pull them out.

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:15.279
<v Speaker 1>But Reees got me these amazing pink, silky Peter Alexander pajamas,

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:18.120
<v Speaker 1>which I love. Yeah, they're so nice. And then some

0:39:18.400 --> 0:39:23.919
<v Speaker 1>gray slippers and a beautiful necklace from I'm gonna Swarowski.

0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Don't say that right, that means generational. There's a symbol.

0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:29.680
<v Speaker 1>This is very special. I felt bad I didn't wear

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:31.600
<v Speaker 1>it on the wedding day only because the neckline was

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 1>very didn't suit it. And then Reese also got me

0:39:36.280 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 1>a candle and a candle plate. I opened the candleplate

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>before and all the videographers like, what is it? We like,

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:46.040
<v Speaker 1>we think it's a mirror. What did you get, Reese?

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:47.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh? Is that all you got?

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh? And the beautiful charm from Pandora, which had family

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:51.040
<v Speaker 1>on it.

0:39:51.160 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I learned from the showercuty incident.

0:39:54.480 --> 0:39:57.480
<v Speaker 1>See. I feel so bad because Reese never listens to

0:39:57.520 --> 0:39:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the podcast, but I think someone gave you the heads up.

0:40:00.080 --> 0:40:03.640
<v Speaker 1>You listen to the podcast where I discussed the shower

0:40:03.719 --> 0:40:06.839
<v Speaker 1>caddy for those who didn't hear that. One got me

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 1>some beautiful gifts at Christmas, but one was a shower

0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 1>caddy and it did trigger me. I think I hadn't

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:15.640
<v Speaker 1>had much sleep that date, so and we haven't returned

0:40:15.640 --> 0:40:18.560
<v Speaker 1>it yet. We need to get onto that. No, but

0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:19.879
<v Speaker 1>I just want to get a different one of them.

0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:22.919
<v Speaker 1>You can return the shower caddy. It just doesn't fit

0:40:22.960 --> 0:40:25.319
<v Speaker 1>the shower I digress. Now, Reese, wad cake get you?

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 2>So mine was pretty special, as you all probably know,

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:32.600
<v Speaker 2>we have two beautiful colnen a tree was Shadow and Sunny.

0:40:33.520 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 2>So my present was a amazing sort of cuff link

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:41.600
<v Speaker 2>personalized box. I don't know what you'd call.

0:40:41.480 --> 0:40:45.480
<v Speaker 1>It, oh the jewelry box. Yeah, some daily edit as well.

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 2>It is a box, I guess. And then in there

0:40:49.200 --> 0:40:53.600
<v Speaker 2>was two customized cuff links of Shadow and Sunny, which

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:57.600
<v Speaker 2>actually four little pieces of clay that I'm figuring molded

0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 2>that they look spot on. So very very special for me.

0:41:01.160 --> 0:41:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Did you wear them at the wedding because I didn't

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:03.480
<v Speaker 1>notice them?

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:06.600
<v Speaker 2>No, my shirt didn't have any Caulf links, So yeah, no,

0:41:07.360 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 2>I'll make sure I'll wear them for a special occasion,

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:10.759
<v Speaker 2>maybe some weddings coming up.

0:41:10.880 --> 0:41:12.880
<v Speaker 1>It was pretty cute because you've got the same ones

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 1>for dad, but you got our cats on them, and

0:41:15.520 --> 0:41:17.719
<v Speaker 1>our cat, Lulu has recently passed away, so it made

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:19.239
<v Speaker 1>it a little bit more special that she was at

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.520
<v Speaker 1>least there in spirit. Yeah, they're so cute. I have

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.600
<v Speaker 1>to link in the show notes, maybe the person that

0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 1>made them on Etsy, because they're incredible and the service

0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:28.359
<v Speaker 1>was so good. Someone else wrote in asking how many

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:31.239
<v Speaker 1>guests did you have? So we had ninety four I

0:41:31.239 --> 0:41:33.000
<v Speaker 1>believe in the end, so it was a really good number.

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Another person asked, would you have preferred a smaller wedding.

0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:38.879
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think it was a particularly big wedding. I mean,

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I originally thought we'd probably have about eighty people, but

0:41:41.719 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it was a perfect number. I hopefully got

0:41:44.600 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 1>around to nearly everyone, and I think the vibe was

0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:49.799
<v Speaker 1>just so good in there because we made sure we

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>invited people that were legitimately close to us. Because I've

0:41:52.520 --> 0:41:54.880
<v Speaker 1>been to weddings in the past where you feel like

0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:57.879
<v Speaker 1>they've probably invited people that aren't as invested into them

0:41:58.040 --> 0:42:00.879
<v Speaker 1>as you are. So yeah, did you think the guests

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:01.279
<v Speaker 1>were good?

0:42:01.440 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Rece Yeah, correct, got the number correct.

0:42:06.840 --> 0:42:09.239
<v Speaker 1>What about the day? Everyone says that your wedding day

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:12.080
<v Speaker 1>goes super fast? Did you guys sort of try and

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:14.840
<v Speaker 1>soaker all in? It did go really fast? Like I

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:17.280
<v Speaker 1>when they said, oh, we're getting ready for your exit,

0:42:17.320 --> 0:42:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I was shocked because I would have loved to stay longer.

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's why it was so good that

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>we had the share accommodation with the bridal party, because

0:42:24.840 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>it was really fun going back in the bus and

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>having chats afterwards. But the day was just so incredible.

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.759
<v Speaker 1>I woke up the next morning just I feel like

0:42:32.840 --> 0:42:34.759
<v Speaker 1>it's after the day that you take in all the

0:42:34.760 --> 0:42:36.960
<v Speaker 1>special moments. But I mean, I think it was even

0:42:37.040 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 1>though you know you missed out on having your meal

0:42:39.400 --> 0:42:41.920
<v Speaker 1>completely hot, I think it was really fun going and

0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:45.319
<v Speaker 1>doing the sunset photos together because I mean, we did

0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.200
<v Speaker 1>have a team of photographers with us, but it was

0:42:47.280 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 1>just nice to do something together because a lot of

0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:52.200
<v Speaker 1>the day is just spending time with your bridesmaids or groomsmen,

0:42:52.680 --> 0:42:55.440
<v Speaker 1>and you don't spend heaps of time together during the

0:42:55.480 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 1>actual day. So but no, it did go so quickly.

0:42:58.320 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was the same. I think it probably dawned

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:03.919
<v Speaker 2>on me a little bit when Megan, our photographer when

0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:06.360
<v Speaker 2>we went to the sunset photos, was like, so it's

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 2>almost over, and you look at your watch and you're like, oh, yeah, yeah, right,

0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 2>we've only got like two hours left. And but yeah,

0:43:13.000 --> 0:43:15.640
<v Speaker 2>little lots of little moments that make up a whole

0:43:15.680 --> 0:43:18.319
<v Speaker 2>great memory. So it does go very quick. But it

0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:19.399
<v Speaker 2>was a very special day.

0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>And that's why I think it's so important to have,

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:24.000
<v Speaker 1>if you can afford it, a photographer and videographer, because

0:43:24.000 --> 0:43:25.919
<v Speaker 1>then you can always relive the moments. And I also

0:43:26.000 --> 0:43:27.759
<v Speaker 1>think it was such a great idea that you guys

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:30.520
<v Speaker 1>had a recovery the next day, because I know that

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to catch up with so many people and

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:34.880
<v Speaker 1>hear their experience on the day, because like, quite honestly,

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:36.719
<v Speaker 1>not to pump up your tires, but it was the

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 1>best wedding I've ever been to, and it's probably one

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:40.640
<v Speaker 1>of the best days of my life. It was so special.

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Into it.

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.360
<v Speaker 1>You did, though your speech was so cute. Everything was

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:48.120
<v Speaker 1>like really lovely and yeah, it was just very you guys,

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 1>so it was special. Thank you. I'm very much looking

0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.839
<v Speaker 1>forward to your weddings now because it's I think it's

0:43:52.840 --> 0:43:55.440
<v Speaker 1>fun to be It's obviously fun to have your wedding,

0:43:55.560 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 1>but growing up triplets, it's kind of daunting having I

0:43:58.760 --> 0:43:59.960
<v Speaker 1>know it's two of us, but having a lot of

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:02.480
<v Speaker 1>tension on you not used to it. So I'm kind

0:44:02.520 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 1>of looking forward to Reese's brother's wedding, Ryan and Pip's

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:09.120
<v Speaker 1>wedding in I think it's ten weeks now, and then

0:44:09.120 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Amy's in January next year, and then yours in March.

0:44:12.680 --> 0:44:15.000
<v Speaker 1>You got an engagement party in there too, so it's

0:44:15.040 --> 0:44:16.360
<v Speaker 1>going to be a fun time. I think this is

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:18.640
<v Speaker 1>a final question. Where are you guys heading off on

0:44:18.680 --> 0:44:22.239
<v Speaker 1>a honeymoon soon or what's your dream honeymoon location? So

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:26.080
<v Speaker 1>we're not going on one soon. Reese's currently you're in

0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:29.239
<v Speaker 1>season with the Adelai Lightning not playing. We did meet

0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:32.360
<v Speaker 1>a neighbor the other day and Reese offered him Adelaid

0:44:32.440 --> 0:44:34.839
<v Speaker 1>Lightning tickets. So those who don't live in Adelaide, they're

0:44:34.880 --> 0:44:37.640
<v Speaker 1>the female professional basketball team, so reason why recent on

0:44:37.640 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 1>the podcast to Plug the Lightning. Probably get your tickets

0:44:40.840 --> 0:44:44.880
<v Speaker 1>head down Sport the Girls Saturday Night. Yeah. So, Reese

0:44:44.920 --> 0:44:47.360
<v Speaker 1>is a general manager at Adelai Lightning and they're currently

0:44:47.400 --> 0:44:49.400
<v Speaker 1>in season, so we can't go on a honeymoon, but

0:44:49.440 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I think we'd already planned to go sort of. I

0:44:52.000 --> 0:44:54.440
<v Speaker 1>think in the middle of this year, try and get

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:55.360
<v Speaker 1>away from winter.

0:44:55.920 --> 0:45:00.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I think so. Unfortunately, Yeah, obviously I the

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.080
<v Speaker 2>busiest time of the year probably at the moment, but

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:04.279
<v Speaker 2>I'll get some time off in the middle of the

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:07.000
<v Speaker 2>year and hopefully Kate will as well. And I guess

0:45:07.040 --> 0:45:08.640
<v Speaker 2>the spots we've been looking at it, I don't know,

0:45:08.760 --> 0:45:15.640
<v Speaker 2>like Fiji, Singapore, maybe re experience and yeah, no, just

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:17.960
<v Speaker 2>a chance to get away for me, I want to

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:20.120
<v Speaker 2>do it properly. You know, you never know what is

0:45:20.160 --> 0:45:22.960
<v Speaker 2>around the corner. So if we can, we can spend

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:26.839
<v Speaker 2>some special time together and not scrounge and that sort

0:45:26.840 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 2>of stuff. And yeah, I do it really properly, go

0:45:30.200 --> 0:45:31.680
<v Speaker 2>away and enjoy ourselves.

0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:34.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like kids was discussed a lot at the wedding.

0:45:34.719 --> 0:45:36.720
<v Speaker 1>I know some people asked me if I was pregnant.

0:45:36.760 --> 0:45:39.959
<v Speaker 1>I was like, did I look pregnant? No, you didn't

0:45:39.960 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 1>look I'm not pregnant. For everyone wondering, not that I

0:45:42.760 --> 0:45:45.879
<v Speaker 1>know it's very rude to ask. I know there were

0:45:45.920 --> 0:45:48.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of from your side in particular. Well, you

0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:50.960
<v Speaker 1>made a comment to about kids. I mean, how dare

0:45:51.000 --> 0:45:57.640
<v Speaker 1>you at our wedding talk about very presumptuously. Hopefully you

0:45:57.640 --> 0:45:59.440
<v Speaker 1>get triplets as well, and you can just be as

0:45:59.440 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 1>happy as I have heard. The older your eggs get,

0:46:02.280 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 1>the more likely they are to split.

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:05.200
<v Speaker 2>So all right, so for off.

0:46:06.320 --> 0:46:10.719
<v Speaker 1>Mama, bloody scramble. By the time I get mad, I've

0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 1>got some young sperm at all.

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:15.160
<v Speaker 2>Sort of Brandon does like scrambled eggs. Cook them.

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 1>We do need to give Race a shout out. He

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:23.560
<v Speaker 1>was I think already. He got up at nine am

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 1>to make everyone breakfast at the retreats. I think you've

0:46:26.239 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 1>got a lot of brownie points for that. And I

0:46:27.560 --> 0:46:31.200
<v Speaker 1>mean when I say breakfast, you did pancakes, bacon and eggs,

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:32.680
<v Speaker 1>mcmuffins sort.

0:46:32.520 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 2>Of thingies, avocado and toast.

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, very impressed. Yes, it was very young, and you

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 1>raised the bar for husband's out there. Well, I think

0:46:40.800 --> 0:46:42.480
<v Speaker 1>that's all we have time for. Thank you so much

0:46:42.520 --> 0:46:45.160
<v Speaker 1>for joining us near brother Reese and thanks for joining us,

0:46:45.239 --> 0:46:48.239
<v Speaker 1>Kate Turner, It's been a quite a fun episode. I

0:46:48.280 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 1>know we might have to do us bin off Unspoken

0:46:50.760 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 1>where we just talked about nothing. Now we will be

0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:55.799
<v Speaker 1>back to regular programming on Friday, but it will be

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:57.799
<v Speaker 1>just be Kate and I our dream. We've always joked

0:46:57.800 --> 0:46:59.120
<v Speaker 1>that we're just going to get rid of Amy, make

0:46:59.160 --> 0:47:03.120
<v Speaker 1>it easier. Just that's harsh. No, definitely not Amy's Damie.

0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Amy's an important part. But yeah, so we'll be back

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:09.560
<v Speaker 1>on Friday with regular programming. Now. This podcast was recorded

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