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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the

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Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm

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Speaker 1: Safeie Tolbert, and we have a very special and intermate edition.

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Speaker 1: Today we're going to be speaking about Kate and Reese's wedding.

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Speaker 1: We actually have Reese on the podcast. I never thought

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Speaker 1: i'd see the day. Welcome my new brother, Rehys Turner.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, welcome.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you agreed to be on this

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Speaker 1: because Sofa and I were just going to record it

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Speaker 1: by ourselves because Amy's going to Melbourne today. But I

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Speaker 1: asked Raes, do you want to be on it? And

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Speaker 1: he said yes, So we thought we'd better do it

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Speaker 1: quickly until you renag on that decision.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought one day in the good books and

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Speaker 2: I might go do it, and then probably I'll be

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Speaker 2: in the bad books again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you didn't introduce yourself with your new last name.

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Speaker 1: Is that going to be a thing on this podcast?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to be Kate Turner from now on here? No? Well,

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm going to keep Kate Tulbah as my

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Speaker 1: professional name and Kate Turner as my family name. Alrighty,

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Speaker 1: then now we put up a question box on an

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Speaker 1: Instagram and people have been sending in some other juicy questions.

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Speaker 1: My favorite one was whether you consummated the marriage the

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Speaker 1: night of? But I feel a bit awkward asking you

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Speaker 1: guys this. Maybe we'll leave that one for later when

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Speaker 1: Reese has warmed up a little bit. So now a

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Speaker 1: lot of the questions were, of course about the dress. Kate,

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Speaker 1: who was the designer? Can you tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about it? So I got the dress from Bride

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Speaker 1: Lab in Adelaide on King William Road, and the designer

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Speaker 1: is Ammaline Vitali. I don't know if I've butchered that name.

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Speaker 1: Actually you picked it out, didn't you? So you guess? Well,

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Speaker 1: when we went there was this look. You had shown

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Speaker 1: me a picture of a dress that was very similar

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Speaker 1: to the one you ended up wearing, And there was

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Speaker 1: a girl in the Chaine rooms next to us trying

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Speaker 1: on the very dress. So I went and stole it

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Speaker 1: from the change rooms after she'd gone. So, for those

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Speaker 1: who haven't seen it, it's got long sleeves, it's off

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Speaker 1: the shoulder, it was beautiful, had buttons down the back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: someone did ask why did I decide to have long

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Speaker 1: sleeves during January with a lot of confused faces. I

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Speaker 1: think it was a bold move considering the weekend before

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Speaker 1: was nearly forty degrees. I was pretty nervous about it. Well,

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Speaker 1: for those who were in Adelaide, it was perfect wedding weather. Yes,

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Speaker 1: was degrees twenty five twenty six degrees, so it was

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Speaker 1: actually perfect. I didn't sweat at all. It actually got

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Speaker 1: a little bit cold in the night. So I felt

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Speaker 1: very smug about that decision. Now, how did you know

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Speaker 1: that it was the dress for you? Someone asked? Or

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Speaker 1: it was actually really hard because when you tried the

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Speaker 1: dresses on, I thought they'd have them all in different sizes,

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Speaker 1: but the one I tried on was a lot bigger

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Speaker 1: than I am, so I had to have it all

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Speaker 1: pinned back, and it was really hard to imagine what

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Speaker 1: it actually looked like. So I it was definitely the

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Speaker 1: one I like the most, but I was kind of

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Speaker 1: make a really quick decision because apparently it took like

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Speaker 1: six to eight months to actually get it made. Well,

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Speaker 1: that was another question. Someone said, how far out from

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Speaker 1: the wedding did you get the dress? And the general

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Speaker 1: rule is you should start looking about a year before

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Speaker 1: your wedding, So Amy and I have to start looking

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Speaker 1: now that your big days overcame. Yeah, so we got

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Speaker 1: We had a look in March, and then I made

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Speaker 1: the decision after going to three different shops, and then

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Speaker 1: we ended up getting it altered a few like three

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Speaker 1: three times a couple of weeks before the wedding. Now,

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Speaker 1: obviously we talk about a lot of influencer weddings on here, Kate.

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Speaker 1: Did you have any inspiration for your dress? Did you

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Speaker 1: see it online anywhere? Was anyone else wearing it? Well?

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Speaker 1: I saw a similar one on Marquez Bridle and that's

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Speaker 1: what piqued my interest on Pinterest. But I actually was

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Speaker 1: scouring the designer's page trying to find someone else in

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Speaker 1: it to make sure it looked good, and they just

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Speaker 1: time until your wedding. What did you think of the dress? Race?

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Speaker 2: Dan's Kate gave away some clues. But you know, overall,

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Speaker 2: it was a beautiful dress and they did very well,

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Speaker 2: and she looked very stunning in it. Right.

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Speaker 1: I kept askings to guess what it looked like, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think you were expecting some sort of traditional

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Speaker 2: No, no, it was very new.

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Speaker 1: Now where were the shoes from Kate? They were from

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Speaker 1: Steve Madden. I actually got them on Revolve. I think

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Speaker 1: What about the bridesmaid's dresses. We got a lot of

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Speaker 1: So the bridesmaids dresses were from Pilgrim. It was really lovely.

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Speaker 1: They reached out and asked if I liked any of

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Speaker 1: So I put it to you guys, and you really

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Speaker 1: liked the Marley gown and coral, so they kindly gifted

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Speaker 1: everything else. They were really flattering. I think that's what

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Speaker 1: where was your suit from?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Thank you? Yeah, finally measure for the boys. So

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Speaker 2: I got mine and all the guys suits from Beggy Pardon.

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Speaker 2: Michael from Beggy Pardon's in the City. One of the best,

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Speaker 2: top notch has some amazing fabrics, so we got to

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Speaker 1: Now, Kate's been ragging on you for a while on

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Speaker 1: No. It rees looked amazing. I was very impressed. O kay,

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Speaker 1: you had quite a mane on you. I loved your hair.

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Speaker 1: As my friend Owen said, apparently, if something goes wrong

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Speaker 1: the videos. Yeah, we also had our two dogs, Shadow

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Speaker 1: But they're like, we're empty. They're like, we're not sure

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Speaker 1: and I gave us not such double brag there. Yes,

433
00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,719
Speaker 1: I enjoyed the other speeches because you guys had your

434
00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:41,520
Speaker 1: parents speaking and then the best man and maids of honor. Yes,

435
00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,760
Speaker 1: we did. The speeches were really good. I think they

436
00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:45,880
Speaker 1: set the tone of the night. A lot of people

437
00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,120
Speaker 1: came up and was like, oh, we just loved how

438
00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,520
Speaker 1: personal they were and also how funny they were. So

439
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,280
Speaker 1: Mum and Dad really blew me away with their speech.

440
00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 1: It was full of like lovely anecdotes and it's weird

441
00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,280
Speaker 1: to see our dad get emotional. He's a man of

442
00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,200
Speaker 1: few words usually, but he really rose to the occasion,

443
00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,439
Speaker 1: as did Mum. When I gave my speech at the end,

444
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,880
Speaker 1: which someone did ask did Kate end up actually finishing

445
00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,160
Speaker 1: writing her speech? Because you shared a little snippet from

446
00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,159
Speaker 1: behind the scenes of me saying I hadn't written my

447
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,240
Speaker 1: speech yet. I have a story about why I didn't

448
00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,000
Speaker 1: finish writing my speech. So it was my last thing

449
00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:20,120
Speaker 1: to do. And Sophie has decided to wear contact lenses

450
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 1: in the last couple of weeks, and well, your wedding,

451
00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 1: so i''s have to see. So she got her nails

452
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,720
Speaker 1: done and she asked to get a very small tip

453
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 1: on them. However, it wasn't exactly what you wanted. It's

454
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 1: quite a large to have clause at the moment to

455
00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,240
Speaker 1: be removed. So basically she was struggling to get a

456
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,639
Speaker 1: contact lens out. It got to one am and she

457
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,439
Speaker 1: still couldn't get it out, and we were sharing a

458
00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,199
Speaker 1: room and I was trying to, like, I was like,

459
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 1: the fuck, just get it out, and I was trying

460
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,000
Speaker 1: to like get my fingers into your eye and pull

461
00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,560
Speaker 1: it out. And then I was like, I kept telling Kat,

462
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:48,159
Speaker 1: you're actually really hurting me. Going blonde, kept going on

463
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 1: how painful it was, and then I looked into her

464
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 1: eye and it wasn't even in there. It had come out.

465
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,920
Speaker 1: I know because you took an hour to try to

466
00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 1: get her so it must have popped out without knowing. Yeah,

467
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 1: that was a nice way to end the night anyway.

468
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,560
Speaker 1: So I blame you because I actually forgot to thank

469
00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 1: the bridesmaids in the speech, so I'll publicly thank you

470
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 1: guys now for everything that you did for me during

471
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,400
Speaker 1: the wedding process. But well, Dad lost it during your speech,

472
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:10,959
Speaker 1: so he must have done all right. Like he was

473
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 1: actually full on crying. One of our family friends was

474
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,400
Speaker 1: trying to catchize with us, being yeah, God. I looked

475
00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 1: up and I was like, what's going on because I

476
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 1: didn't think I said anything that amazing in it, but yeah,

477
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 1: it really got to him. And then when we did

478
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:25,800
Speaker 1: a dance later, I was like, Dad, were you crying?

479
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 1: He's like, no, your parents and brother did a beautiful

480
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,679
Speaker 1: speech as well. This was very touching.

481
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. I think Dad went first for us

482
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: and that was it was pretty good because he's such

483
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 2: a business like man like, he's done plenty of speeches

484
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 2: before in front of a lot of people, and he

485
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,920
Speaker 2: sort of went off script a little bit, which was nice.

486
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 2: He hasn't done that a lot, so you know, he

487
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 2: loves kid and he wanted to I guess share how

488
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 2: much he does. And you know, Mum was on the opposite.

489
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,199
Speaker 2: She's all emotion and for her to get through that

490
00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 2: was sad was pretty special as well.

491
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: Their speeches are beautiful. That's the thing. It is such

492
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 1: an emotional day because you always think about the people

493
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 1: who aren't there with you, and I think that you're

494
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 1: focusing so much on the day. But then when you're

495
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 1: there talking about everyone, I think that's when all the

496
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 1: emotions start pouring out. I did enjoy Ryan's speech. He

497
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 1: made a great joke about so everyone says that Reese

498
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 1: is very chatty in work situations and that's probably why

499
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: we you know, we met at work, but he's very

500
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 1: quiet outside of work. And Ryan said that now that

501
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,160
Speaker 1: we're married, we can have our own spin off podcast

502
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: called Unspoken, which I thought was pretty clever. He's starting,

503
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 1: is correct? Oh? I know, yeah, you only say correct. Well,

504
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: he's starting his podcast career now, so you know, let

505
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 1: us know, do you want a spin off Cooled Unspoken? Unspoken?

506
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 1: I think you're speaking quite a lot now if you

507
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: can get a word in with us. And of course

508
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 1: Sophie and Amy. I was a bit nervous when you

509
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 1: guys did your speech because there were some disagreements about

510
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 1: if it was appropriate. You kept having a fight with

511
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 1: Amy in front of me about you coming up with

512
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 1: some zinger lines. And I thought it was going to

513
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 1: be a complete roast, and I was correct. It was

514
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,359
Speaker 1: a roast. But I really enjoyed it. I was just

515
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 1: nervous because I didn't know how you took it.

516
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 2: No, it was great. I loved it. There was some

517
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,399
Speaker 2: good one liners in there that some people in the

518
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 2: audience definitely got as well. So it was good for all.

519
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: And what about the dance, because Kate's been a bit nervous.

520
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: You have been trying to give Kate some dancing lessons.

521
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 1: How did they go? Well? Just to put it into perspective,

522
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: Reese and his family are or like a grade dancers.

523
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 1: His brother is a professional dancer. What was that? What

524
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 1: was that show? Ryan was on?

525
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: So you think you can dance?

526
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 1: Yes? And then pip as I was saying, his partner

527
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: is a professional ballerina and you, I mean you were

528
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: a former stripper in your day. I'm just joking. Reese

529
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 1: is very good at dancing. I think all the outspoken

530
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: listeners saw him doing the worm recently. Yeah, I was

531
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: waiting for you to pull that one out.

532
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 2: It's hard to do to Hanson or s Club seven.

533
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 1: I know reeswere were you on the dance law because

534
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: we were all having a good time and you were

535
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 1: nowhere to be seen.

536
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 2: Just keeping the guests happy. You know, someone's got to

537
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 2: do it.

538
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: But what did you think of our first dance? Because

539
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: we ended up practicing what four days out?

540
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm trying to get her to practice probably

541
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: a couple of months out, and she's like, no, No,

542
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: that's your job, that's your job. It's like no, but

543
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 2: you've got to actually join me in dance. So I

544
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 2: went to a few YouTube tutorials just to see, just

545
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: to see what I can do. Night one was probably

546
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: the funniest experience in my life trying to get this

547
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 2: robot to dance. We had two dogs just staring at us,

548
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 2: going what is happening? So yeah, no, it was good fun.

549
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 2: We pulled it together somehow. I don't know if anyone

550
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: saw I was whispering, not some sweet nothings, but some

551
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 2: dance steps and one then two.

552
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: You guys did well. Though I was impressed, I was

553
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 1: standing quite far away, but I didn't get much feedback

554
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: from it, so I didn't know if it was awful,

555
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: and I did ask the videographer. I said, look, before

556
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 1: you feel it, is there anything you can do to

557
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: make it look a bit better, any special effect? She

558
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 1: said she'd just put it on slow mo. But Pip

559
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,919
Speaker 1: kept saying to me after, oh my god, Kate, you

560
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 1: had the most perfect face for when you were dancing.

561
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what face I was playing. I surprised

562
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: it wasn't resting bitch face, because that's usually what you

563
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: have when you concentrated. Well, I just had resa at one,

564
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: two three. I did stuff up the spin in at

565
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: the end because it was meant to be a bit

566
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: of a dip. But I was very nervous about ripping

567
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: my dress and also just dancing in front of people

568
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: because it never happens well our dad, because you guys

569
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: didn't have the traditional daddy daughter dance where there's like

570
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: a separate song. You had Reese, you had your mum

571
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: come in and then dad came in, and the whole

572
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: lead up that we kept saying to Dad, I think

573
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: you got to practice your dance. What are you going

574
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: to do? And he kept saying He's going to do

575
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: a putuzzi. I don't even know what the fuck that is.

576
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: But he definitely just did a normal dance and it

577
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: was quite sweet. I feel like we need to mention

578
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: the bouquet toss as well. We did have a florist

579
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: asking us if we did a bouquet toss because she

580
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: was saying it kills her when so much effort goes

581
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 1: into the bridal bouquet and it's just thrown around. I

582
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: did get a bunch of fake flowers from my gear

583
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to lose my flowers. And I

584
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 1: did tell my cousin's girlfriend, Look, she's a six foot

585
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: two netballer. I said, look, stand directly behind me and

586
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: just hip and shoulder everyone out of the way and

587
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: leap up to grab it. But you and Amy joined

588
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 1: the crowd, even though you're engaged if you're not married yet,

589
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: but you were engaged out of it anyway, but we

590
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: were trying to make up the numbers. Anyway. You ended

591
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: up catching the bouquet. So what happened was Kate throws

592
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: it back. I was literally sort of just standing, you know,

593
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: kind of close to you in the middle. Wasn't really

594
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: going for it.

595
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know about that.

596
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: I saw that he and the bouquet hit the roof,

597
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: and then I just went forward and got it. But

598
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 1: I felt like a bit of an asshole because did

599
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: you catch it or pick it off for the ground? No,

600
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: I caught it. I felt like an asshole.

601
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: While elbows out my stairs.

602
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: Well, I saw my little second cousin who's like eighteen

603
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: s Dowdy next to me, and I thought, holy fuck.

604
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: I hope I did not push her over. So I

605
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: quickly gave her the bouquet flowers and she was thrilled

606
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: about that. But then afterwards Amy, she had this huge

607
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: cut down her arm. Yeah, because apparently it did get

608
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: a bit in there. The fingernails were coming out, like yeah,

609
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: I know, people getting scratched up. But it's funny because

610
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: I feel like there is some truth in it because

611
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: I caught the bouquet at my friend Owen's wedding. It

612
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: was five years ago, but I am the first to

613
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: get married out of that whole group of girls. We

614
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: know what, though, maybe it's a sign that Amy should

615
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: move a wedding after mine now that I've caught the bouquet.

616
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: Maybe that was a bit of a fuck you over

617
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: the whole issue. Well, someone did ask us it was

618
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: there any it was there a race to be the

619
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: first married? And is there any competition around weddings? I

620
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: think so could just answer that competition around it. But

621
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: even like some of our interstate guests when they were

622
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: like when you're in Amy's dex and one of them's like, oh,

623
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,959
Speaker 1: it's a bit close to come over both. Oh, they

624
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: have to pick which one they love more. For me,

625
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: it wasn't a race. I just got engaged first. No

626
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: burn there or anything. But I mean we were together

627
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 1: for the shortest amount of time, so is another burning.

628
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: That's just a message for Dale and Brandon. You know,

629
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: someone did ask they wanted to know more about Kate's

630
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 1: ring and how you selected it because you brought your

631
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: good friend with you. I'd like to hear this too,

632
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: because Reese was being really cryptic about it, which is

633
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: very much like Reese.

634
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like me at all. Yeah, I took

635
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 2: a good, really good friend of mine, Carli along. She

636
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: knows me really well. Yes, you know, wholesome pinterest. A

637
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: little bit before it's to my shock, we went into

638
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 2: Class A Jewelers and we saw the amazing Daniel there.

639
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: He picked out sort of two rings that might suit,

640
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 2: and I pretty much instantly said, yeah, that one is fantastic.

641
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 2: It's pretty much when I was looking at beforehand. Carli

642
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: definitely agreed. So yeah, no, actually, overall it was pretty

643
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 2: easy and I'm lucky probably I hopefully got it right.

644
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: No, I loved it. I was very excited. I remember

645
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: you opened the box when you proposed, and I was

646
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 1: just like blinded by bling, and I was I was

647
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: just just all shocked because I remember having a fear

648
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't like my engagement ry, not from you,

649
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: but just in general, like Amy had a dream. I

650
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: remember that Dale got her an Opal No offensive, anyone

651
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: likes Ople's. But no, I was so thrilled with it.

652
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: And then we got our wedding bands from Brandon's uncle

653
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 1: who was a jeweler. So and they're amazing. You've got

654
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: a little diamond.

655
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a little bleaning got so much bling

656
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: on their ring.

657
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't even know the name of Brandon's auntie

658
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: uncle's jeweler. Is it Urban I believe it's Urban Craft.

659
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: So they're in Brisbane. And they were amazing. They did

660
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: everything over email and they even sent us the rings

661
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: before we paid for them and they just like arrived.

662
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you want us to send you some money?

663
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: They're probably not usually that trusting to non relatives. I

664
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: hope not. We did have a lot of questions from

665
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: brides to be about advice. So what is your best

666
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 1: advice for those who were sort of starting the planning process? Now?

667
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: I did ask Reese for some input in this one,

668
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: but I joked like I planned the whole wedding, which

669
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: was an on running joke. During the wedding. He did

670
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: organize the cars, and he did have a job to

671
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: bring sparklers, but they.

672
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 2: Was forgotten and the suits suits.

673
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: I want to ask the listeners, I have to butt

674
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: in here. Okay, you don't use talk like this in

675
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: the podcast. I feel like this is your very loved

676
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: up sort of like really your little like baby voice

677
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: with Reese, is it? I think so? I think everyone's

678
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: going to be shocked that, like, where's that girl who's

679
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: just like what you about stuff? We're talking about our wedding? Yeah, okay,

680
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: there it was. I hear a bit more of the

681
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: novel voice, but we're usually screaming to each other during

682
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: the podcast, and he's open eye. There's no fights currently

683
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: because Reese is here, well, my best behavior. Yeah, So

684
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: my advice would be to create a Google doc sheet

685
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: and have all of your info in one document. So

686
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: when I started getting quotes from suppliers, I had a

687
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: tab for save venues, you know, different things, and then

688
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: have your budget in there. And I think it's important

689
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: to work the budget out first, because I was pretty

690
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: shocked at how much weddings cost, Like I'd always heard

691
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: they're expensive, but so only when you start getting quotes

692
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: that you're like, holy shit. So it's really good to

693
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: be able to track the budget. And I found setting

694
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: the dates of when things would do was really helpful.

695
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: And then I would suggest joining a Facebook group called

696
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: wedge shed, so they it's in a national group in

697
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: Australia and everyone just posts their inspo and have different

698
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: questions in there, and I found it really useful. And

699
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: then I mean I'd spent time on Pinterest, but I

700
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: actually found webshed the group a lot better. I think

701
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: it's because it's real people in there, so it's not

702
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: these influencers or celebrities who have unlimited budget. It's actually

703
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: what real people have done. Yeah, there was another question

704
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: about what were some things that you could you can

705
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: do cheap or maybe when you are in a budget.

706
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: I suppose the car is probably one of them. Yeah,

707
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: for us, I mean it depends if you're a car person.

708
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: Like we weren't car people, and spending a couple of

709
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: ground on cars wasn't really a priority for us. My

710
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: other suggestion is to for like the wedding stationary so

711
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 1: for your invites and envelopes to use Etsy. So we

712
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: bought just a really cheap template. I think it ended

713
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: up being forty dollars for a template for like the

714
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: seating plan invites menus, and we ended up using that.

715
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: But then I organized it to get printed at Peterkin Paper,

716
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: so they're a Western Australian business, and they were so good.

717
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: I literally emailed this woman probably like fifty times asking

718
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: her different quotes on papers, because that was one thing

719
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: that I was shocked at. I think I spent the

720
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: most time in terms of planning trying to work out

721
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: what colored paper to use for the invites. I suppose

722
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 1: it sets the tone of what the wedding's going to be.

723
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: I think what you guys did really cleverly as well

724
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: was you didn't do is it bomb and areas. Is

725
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: that what they're called. You didn't do like the little

726
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,239
Speaker 1: gift because I feel like no one even ends up

727
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: taking the gift. And I thought it was clever because

728
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: on the menus you had the person's name, so then

729
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: you're not having to spend extra money on a name

730
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: tag that's going to go missing.

731
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

732
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: Well, because even though we did the Etsy ten plates,

733
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: printing is really expensive in paper, so it was good

734
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: to do have menu and name tag all in one.

735
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: Another tip would also be with the seating plan. We

736
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: had people dropping out the week of of course, when

737
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: we had just paid the bill and the seating plan

738
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: changed quite a few times in that week, and if

739
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: we had purchased one of those really flash seating plans,

740
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: I would have been really annoyed. So we ended up

741
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: just getting a poster of it printed from Office Works

742
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: and putting it in a frame, and we also did

743
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: the same for our welcome board, and I think it

744
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: still looked effective, Like I was happy with that. I mean,

745
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: no one really gives a shit about those signs, I do.

746
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: They blow over most of the time, and now we

747
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: can use the frames again. So is there anything that

748
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: you guys regretted on the day or think that you

749
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: do differently personally. No, I was just shocked. How I

750
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: did make a comment to you guys in the car

751
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: before the ceremony. I'm going to regret it, but things

752
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: are running so smoothie like. The morning was really relaxed.

753
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: I actually had a really good time. I'd heard of

754
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: people just stressing, but Marianne, our hairdresser, and Tire the

755
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: makeup artists, were just like machines that were getting everyone

756
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: done so quickly, and we had a really nice breakfast

757
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 1: and just all were hanging out. We have to hear

758
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: about the boys morning, so I haven't gone into that.

759
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: I think it was very different because to set the scene,

760
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: we were all staying at this incredible retreat in Sterling,

761
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: which is up in the hills. It was like this

762
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: old manner. It was just surrounded by all these beautiful

763
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: trees and plants and everything, and you guys, all the

764
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: boys were in sort of like a sectioned off area

765
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: which wasn't quite as nigh out here. We got there first,

766
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: and we did so I got the bridal sweet. I

767
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: would say. It was a massive room with a king

768
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: sized bed. There was this insane walking wardrobe, that's made

769
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: me very depressed to go back to my built ins

770
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 1: and it had an epic bathroom. I have to give

771
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: you a big thank you so for you and Amy

772
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: and the other bridesmaids for organizing the beautiful balloons. He

773
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: really set the scene. But yeah, you guys had you

774
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: still had a nice area.

775
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that was amazing for us.

776
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: When we saw the other side of the house.

777
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: To day, Yeah, yeah, I didn't get the king sweet,

778
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 2: but that's all right, No, it was good. We were

779
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: super stressed. Now for us, it was super cruisy. The

780
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: Sterling golf Club was right next door, so we played

781
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 2: around of nine holes with nine guys on the friday,

782
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 2: which is the funniest thing I've ever seen. Right, nearly

783
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: killed all of us, my best man and brother, so

784
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: none of us nearly turned up to the wedding.

785
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: How did he do that?

786
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: He managed to hit a golf ball backwards. I don't

787
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: know if that's actually possible, but it did say.

788
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: That was just kept that quiet. You didn't hear about that.

789
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: Just I mean, I know Ryan listens to the podcast

790
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: and he got a little bit offended Amy and so well,

791
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: Amy's not here. But when you guys said that you

792
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 1: didn't know any of the bridal party, and I see,

793
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: I would like to put that into perspective. I said

794
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know any of the grooms, meant and he

795
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: was the best met I love right, and he's my

796
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: new brother as well now, so shout out to Ryan.

797
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: I also love Pip. I just want to steal her

798
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: as my sister too. I know I think Pip's got

799
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: three sisters now, if she likes it or not. But yeah,

800
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 1: how did you guys go in the day of because

801
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: we heard there was a lot of sitting around. You

802
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: made a beautiful platter of fruit.

803
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it all started with a little spoon with

804
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: each other because we had to sleep together in the

805
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 2: same only two and two.

806
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: But on Friday I get it's a message and I've

807
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: literally written this full on itinerary. You know, I've got

808
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: a map of the retreat for Reese to give the

809
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: boys and it says like who's in each room? And

810
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: I asked you you're happy with you know, do you

811
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: want seven in your room? Or who do you want?

812
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: And then I get this text, Oh where are the

813
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,479
Speaker 1: other rooms? Or like what's going on? Do you each

814
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: have a room? But there's only six bedrooms you meant

815
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: to be sharing.

816
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: We were all happy to caudle. So yes, after that

817
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: it was cruzy. So we went to Stirling to have

818
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 2: some brecky. Then we went went got some fruit because

819
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 2: you know what do you do that day off?

820
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, we had so much fruit you could have

821
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: had needed it.

822
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 2: Nice and fresh for the boys. Yeah. No, we got

823
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: back and we just chewed out for a little bit.

824
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: Videographer and photographer came in for us, which was like

825
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 2: super cruisy.

826
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: Do you have a hilarious moment with the photographer?

827
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Meghan after our group shots in the in

828
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 2: the lounde room. Meghan unfortunately for her because the boys

829
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 2: picked up on it and said, Reese, you're gonna get

830
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: your pet and Reese do you want to go get

831
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 2: your portraits done? And oh, can you just follow me

832
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: into the bedroom? So all the boys picked up on

833
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 2: that for sure. I was like, oh, well I was

834
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 2: getting married now. So that was a bit of fun

835
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: during the day and relaxed everyone. So that was good.

836
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: And then look, we watched them MBA and then you know,

837
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 2: we were planning to leave about three thirty, so we

838
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 2: all got ready about three twenty and hopped into the

839
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: bus and wet. Good to go.

840
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: So did you have your Did you originally get into

841
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: the suits for the photos and then get out of

842
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: them again?

843
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, so that was easy.

844
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: It was funny you say that about the bedroom photos

845
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: because the videographer and photographer we're trying to get so

846
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: they told the girls, can you go get into your dresses?

847
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: And it was literally trying to to herd cats like

848
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: you guys were just cats. Yeah, because it's impossible to

849
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: hear them. Is that that's the same thing, Yeah, it is, okay. Anyway,

850
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: you made it very difficult. You guys were all off

851
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: in your own little world and they go, oh, well,

852
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: we'll take some photos of you in this bedroom with

853
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: all the balloons. Can you haven't even said what the

854
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: balloons were. I got these balloons it spelled out bride

855
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: to be, and then I got all of these helium balloons.

856
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: I also almost died heading up to this retreat because

857
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: I had I think it was fourteen balloons in the

858
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 1: back of my cart. I drive a tiny Masda too,

859
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: and I also had no natural but I couldn't pull

860
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: over and stop because I was worried that the balloons

861
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: would explode in the heat. So yeah, it was a

862
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: dicey It was a dicey walk way back to the recovery.

863
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: I very much appreciate it. It did look like a Pinterest

864
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: photo when I went into the room, and so the

865
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: photographer liked and she goes, so just get up onto

866
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: the bed, and then it was like yeah, Kelly, well yeah,

867
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: and her there was a male photographer of videographer two

868
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: that was helping out, and they're like, yeah, so can

869
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 1: you just like pull the balloons down and bounce around

870
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: with them for a bit. And I'm like, oh my god,

871
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: I hope the photos turned out okay, I've got no

872
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 1: idea what they're going to look like. Also, in terms

873
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: of your timings, it was quite funny because we were

874
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: trying to go outside to take the bridal photos with

875
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: the family and bridesmaids, and everyone's like, now, the boys

876
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: are just about to leave, and it was just like

877
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: this frantic communication back and forth because we were so

878
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: worried you were going to see me. I kept screaming

879
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: being like Brandon, where is res No.

880
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: I was on a strict instruction to look forward and

881
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 2: only forward.

882
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: Oh so did you walk out when we were there no.

883
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I was under strict instruction.

884
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: I want to give some advice as a bridesmaid, because

885
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: one thing I would say as a bridesmaid is make

886
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: sure there's lots of tape just in case for you

887
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: and the bride. There was a fair bit of like

888
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: booty tape going on. Yeah, even Mum Mum was like

889
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: fretting about this tape. So I think you need to

890
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: equip yourself with all the things that the bride might need.

891
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: And you also, Kate gave us these really beautiful gifts

892
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: the morning of. So the night before you gave us

893
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: some slippers to get around in, and then the morning

894
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: of you got us these really cute ring boxes from

895
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: the Daily Edited. So it was very thoughtful and also

896
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: a bit of a handwritten note. So it made up

897
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: for the fact that we didn't get a mansion in

898
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: the speech. Oh, I did personal cards for you guys.

899
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: Someone did ask me about what rees got me, and

900
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: it was very sweet because you delivered. You got the

901
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: box delivered the day before. Pip came and brought on

902
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: Friday night this big gold box from Peter Alexander and

903
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, how many pajamas are in here.

904
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: It was a massive box. I didn't know they did

905
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: gift boxes. It was heavy too, so more than pajamas

906
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: in here. Yes, we were under strict instructions to open

907
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: the Presence on camera, you know, capture those moments, so

908
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: we were running out of time. So I felt very rude,

909
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: but because I opened it up and there were so

910
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: many beautiful things inside, but I had to do a

911
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: really quick rate of the card and then pull them out.

912
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: But Reees got me these amazing pink, silky Peter Alexander pajamas,

913
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: which I love. Yeah, they're so nice. And then some

914
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:23,919
Speaker 1: gray slippers and a beautiful necklace from I'm gonna Swarowski.

915
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: Don't say that right, that means generational. There's a symbol.

916
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: This is very special. I felt bad I didn't wear

917
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: it on the wedding day only because the neckline was

918
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: very didn't suit it. And then Reese also got me

919
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: a candle and a candle plate. I opened the candleplate

920
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: before and all the videographers like, what is it? We like,

921
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: we think it's a mirror. What did you get, Reese?

922
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 2: Oh? Is that all you got?

923
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 1: Oh? And the beautiful charm from Pandora, which had family

924
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: on it.

925
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: I learned from the showercuty incident.

926
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: See. I feel so bad because Reese never listens to

927
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: the podcast, but I think someone gave you the heads up.

928
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: You listen to the podcast where I discussed the shower

929
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: caddy for those who didn't hear that. One got me

930
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: some beautiful gifts at Christmas, but one was a shower

931
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: caddy and it did trigger me. I think I hadn't

932
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: had much sleep that date, so and we haven't returned

933
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: it yet. We need to get onto that. No, but

934
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 1: I just want to get a different one of them.

935
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,919
Speaker 1: You can return the shower caddy. It just doesn't fit

936
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: the shower I digress. Now, Reese, wad cake get you?

937
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 2: So mine was pretty special, as you all probably know,

938
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 2: we have two beautiful colnen a tree was Shadow and Sunny.

939
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: So my present was a amazing sort of cuff link

940
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 2: personalized box. I don't know what you'd call.

941
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: It, oh the jewelry box. Yeah, some daily edit as well.

942
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: It is a box, I guess. And then in there

943
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 2: was two customized cuff links of Shadow and Sunny, which

944
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 2: actually four little pieces of clay that I'm figuring molded

945
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: that they look spot on. So very very special for me.

946
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: Did you wear them at the wedding because I didn't

947
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: notice them?

948
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 2: No, my shirt didn't have any Caulf links, So yeah, no,

949
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: I'll make sure I'll wear them for a special occasion,

950
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 2: maybe some weddings coming up.

951
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: It was pretty cute because you've got the same ones

952
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: for dad, but you got our cats on them, and

953
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: our cat, Lulu has recently passed away, so it made

954
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: it a little bit more special that she was at

955
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: least there in spirit. Yeah, they're so cute. I have

956
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: to link in the show notes, maybe the person that

957
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: made them on Etsy, because they're incredible and the service

958
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 1: was so good. Someone else wrote in asking how many

959
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: guests did you have? So we had ninety four I

960
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: believe in the end, so it was a really good number.

961
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: Another person asked, would you have preferred a smaller wedding.

962
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was a particularly big wedding. I mean,

963
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: I originally thought we'd probably have about eighty people, but

964
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: I think it was a perfect number. I hopefully got

965
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: around to nearly everyone, and I think the vibe was

966
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: just so good in there because we made sure we

967
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: invited people that were legitimately close to us. Because I've

968
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: been to weddings in the past where you feel like

969
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 1: they've probably invited people that aren't as invested into them

970
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,879
Speaker 1: as you are. So yeah, did you think the guests

971
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: were good?

972
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 2: Rece Yeah, correct, got the number correct.

973
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: What about the day? Everyone says that your wedding day

974
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: goes super fast? Did you guys sort of try and

975
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 1: soaker all in? It did go really fast? Like I

976
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,280
Speaker 1: when they said, oh, we're getting ready for your exit,

977
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: I was shocked because I would have loved to stay longer.

978
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: And I think that's why it was so good that

979
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: we had the share accommodation with the bridal party, because

980
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: it was really fun going back in the bus and

981
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: having chats afterwards. But the day was just so incredible.

982
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: I woke up the next morning just I feel like

983
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 1: it's after the day that you take in all the

984
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: special moments. But I mean, I think it was even

985
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: though you know you missed out on having your meal

986
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: completely hot, I think it was really fun going and

987
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: doing the sunset photos together because I mean, we did

988
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: have a team of photographers with us, but it was

989
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: just nice to do something together because a lot of

990
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: the day is just spending time with your bridesmaids or groomsmen,

991
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: and you don't spend heaps of time together during the

992
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: actual day. So but no, it did go so quickly.

993
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was the same. I think it probably dawned

994
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,919
Speaker 2: on me a little bit when Megan, our photographer when

995
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 2: we went to the sunset photos, was like, so it's

996
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: almost over, and you look at your watch and you're like, oh, yeah, yeah, right,

997
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: we've only got like two hours left. And but yeah,

998
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 2: little lots of little moments that make up a whole

999
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 2: great memory. So it does go very quick. But it

1000
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,399
Speaker 2: was a very special day.

1001
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: And that's why I think it's so important to have,

1002
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: if you can afford it, a photographer and videographer, because

1003
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 1: then you can always relive the moments. And I also

1004
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: think it was such a great idea that you guys

1005
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: had a recovery the next day, because I know that

1006
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: I wanted to catch up with so many people and

1007
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: hear their experience on the day, because like, quite honestly,

1008
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: not to pump up your tires, but it was the

1009
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: best wedding I've ever been to, and it's probably one

1010
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: of the best days of my life. It was so special.

1011
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 2: Into it.

1012
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: You did, though your speech was so cute. Everything was

1013
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: like really lovely and yeah, it was just very you guys,

1014
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: so it was special. Thank you. I'm very much looking

1015
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 1: forward to your weddings now because it's I think it's

1016
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: fun to be It's obviously fun to have your wedding,

1017
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: but growing up triplets, it's kind of daunting having I

1018
00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: know it's two of us, but having a lot of

1019
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: tension on you not used to it. So I'm kind

1020
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: of looking forward to Reese's brother's wedding, Ryan and Pip's

1021
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: wedding in I think it's ten weeks now, and then

1022
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: Amy's in January next year, and then yours in March.

1023
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: You got an engagement party in there too, so it's

1024
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: going to be a fun time. I think this is

1025
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: a final question. Where are you guys heading off on

1026
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: a honeymoon soon or what's your dream honeymoon location? So

1027
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: we're not going on one soon. Reese's currently you're in

1028
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 1: season with the Adelai Lightning not playing. We did meet

1029
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 1: a neighbor the other day and Reese offered him Adelaid

1030
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 1: Lightning tickets. So those who don't live in Adelaide, they're

1031
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: the female professional basketball team, so reason why recent on

1032
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: the podcast to Plug the Lightning. Probably get your tickets

1033
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: head down Sport the Girls Saturday Night. Yeah. So, Reese

1034
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: is a general manager at Adelai Lightning and they're currently

1035
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: in season, so we can't go on a honeymoon, but

1036
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: I think we'd already planned to go sort of. I

1037
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: think in the middle of this year, try and get

1038
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: away from winter.

1039
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think so. Unfortunately, Yeah, obviously I the

1040
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: busiest time of the year probably at the moment, but

1041
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 2: I'll get some time off in the middle of the

1042
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: year and hopefully Kate will as well. And I guess

1043
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 2: the spots we've been looking at it, I don't know,

1044
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 2: like Fiji, Singapore, maybe re experience and yeah, no, just

1045
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 2: a chance to get away for me, I want to

1046
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: do it properly. You know, you never know what is

1047
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 2: around the corner. So if we can, we can spend

1048
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 2: some special time together and not scrounge and that sort

1049
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: of stuff. And yeah, I do it really properly, go

1050
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 2: away and enjoy ourselves.

1051
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: I feel like kids was discussed a lot at the wedding.

1052
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 1: I know some people asked me if I was pregnant.

1053
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,959
Speaker 1: I was like, did I look pregnant? No, you didn't

1054
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: look I'm not pregnant. For everyone wondering, not that I

1055
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 1: know it's very rude to ask. I know there were

1056
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: a lot of from your side in particular. Well, you

1057
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: made a comment to about kids. I mean, how dare

1058
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: you at our wedding talk about very presumptuously. Hopefully you

1059
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: get triplets as well, and you can just be as

1060
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: happy as I have heard. The older your eggs get,

1061
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: the more likely they are to split.

1062
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 2: So all right, so for off.

1063
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: Mama, bloody scramble. By the time I get mad, I've

1064
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: got some young sperm at all.

1065
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 2: Sort of Brandon does like scrambled eggs. Cook them.

1066
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: We do need to give Race a shout out. He

1067
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: was I think already. He got up at nine am

1068
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: to make everyone breakfast at the retreats. I think you've

1069
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: got a lot of brownie points for that. And I

1070
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: mean when I say breakfast, you did pancakes, bacon and eggs,

1071
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: mcmuffins sort.

1072
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 2: Of thingies, avocado and toast.

1073
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, very impressed. Yes, it was very young, and you

1074
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: raised the bar for husband's out there. Well, I think

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Speaker 1: that's all we have time for. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining us near brother Reese and thanks for joining us,

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Speaker 1: Kate Turner, It's been a quite a fun episode. I

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Speaker 1: know we might have to do us bin off Unspoken

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Speaker 1: where we just talked about nothing. Now we will be

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Speaker 1: back to regular programming on Friday, but it will be

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Speaker 1: just be Kate and I our dream. We've always joked

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Speaker 1: that we're just going to get rid of Amy, make

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Speaker 1: it easier. Just that's harsh. No, definitely not Amy's Damie.

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Speaker 1: Amy's an important part. But yeah, so we'll be back

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Speaker 1: on Friday with regular programming. Now. This podcast was recorded

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Speaker 1: on the traditional land of the Ghana people of the

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Speaker 1: Adelaide Planes. We pay respects to Elder's pastor and present. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you did enjoy today's episode, please make sure you

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Speaker 1: are Outspoken, Unsquadedly Unisquaded podcast. Really God and the Last

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