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Speaker 1: Welcome to fearlessly Failing hot Seat.

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Speaker 2: In this app, I fire rapid.

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Speaker 1: Questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be answing you. I'm not so good at the

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Speaker 1: rapid part. I get too intrigued by the awesome answers.

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Speaker 1: Now a new app is going to drop every Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: so enjoy this shortest style episode of fearlessly Failing hot Seat.

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Speaker 1: I've really thrown you on the hot seat here because

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Speaker 1: I didn't warn you were doing a hot seat so

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Speaker 1: full name.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it's stop the Stephen elergic of ava fertility

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Speaker 3: reproductive health perfect.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite meal?

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Speaker 3: I do have a several favorite meals. I'm just going

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Speaker 3: to go with the old favorite of love still love

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Speaker 3: my tie red curries. I've got see I've got with

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Speaker 3: the lime leaf tree in the backyard for the fresh

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Speaker 3: sabit that the basil will throw in.

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Speaker 2: Love it high basil. Yeah, of course, mess with.

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Speaker 3: You Italian and the tie I.

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Speaker 2: Weve got to tell you buzzil at home. Okay, what

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Speaker 2: about do you have like a favorite beverage? Could be

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Speaker 2: like alcoholic or.

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Speaker 3: Non Well, I've just been having French martini lately, my

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Speaker 3: daughter's got the job in the bar and a cocktail bar.

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Speaker 3: She comes home and says, Dad, would you like a

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Speaker 3: French martini? And I say, sure, why not?

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Speaker 2: What's French? I love a martini? But I didn't know

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Speaker 2: what a French one is.

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Speaker 3: Well, you have to ask her.

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Speaker 2: Is it like lemon twist a lemon?

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Speaker 3: No, it's got I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a French martini.

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Speaker 3: It's got the mooth in it, I think, and pineapple

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Speaker 3: juice or something to give it the froth. But I guess.

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Speaker 3: And the mixologist doesn't share a secrets with me. It

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Speaker 3: just comes out.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty good. That's a pretty good deal. Okay, what

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Speaker 2: is the bravest thing you've done?

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Speaker 3: I think the probably the bravest thing I've done was

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Speaker 3: actually deciding to go and leave a good job and

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Speaker 3: study medicine. It was a big deal because we just

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Speaker 3: bought a house and a huge mortgage, so they had

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Speaker 3: to go and give it all up and restart a

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Speaker 3: whole new career. So and facing another twelve thirteen years

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Speaker 3: of study when I was when I.

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Speaker 2: Was, oh wow, I love that though. That's like passion.

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Speaker 3: I just went for it wasn't gonna let anything stand

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Speaker 3: in the way.

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Speaker 2: Oh mate, you've just gone up in little eleven notches

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Speaker 2: in my book. I love this. Do you have a

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Speaker 2: favorite city.

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Speaker 3: Favorite city? Well, I would have to say I went

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Speaker 3: through Europe in the nineties. We traveled. I really in fact,

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Speaker 3: then I really enjoyed Prague. At that time, Prague was beautiful, nice,

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Speaker 3: really beautiful city. Maybe it's changed a little bit more now,

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Speaker 3: but back then beautiful. It was very It just come

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Speaker 3: out of the whole Eastern Bloc thing. It was a

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Speaker 3: beautiful city and really enjoyed it. Could have stayed a

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Speaker 3: long time.

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Speaker 2: And what about nature spot? You've got a lot of

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Speaker 2: nature around you.

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Speaker 3: Look, I love going off to the Bunya Mountains. I

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Speaker 3: think it's beautiful out west near king Arroy. This this

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Speaker 3: plateau rises up and it's just cool. It's call all

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Speaker 3: the Bunya trees and wildlife. It's beautiful, absolutely beautiful. That's

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Speaker 3: my favorite nature spot. Hoping to go there again this year.

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Speaker 2: Oh perfect, Okay, music do you have? That's hard?

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Speaker 3: That's hard. That's such a wide range. Look, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to go back to when I was a long haired teenager.

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Speaker 3: It was always was the cure then followed by Arim them.

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Speaker 3: Still listen to them a lot, but yeah, no, probably

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Speaker 3: those two still I probably fall back on I'm.

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Speaker 2: Going to listen to that on the way drive home now,

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Speaker 2: thanks to you.

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Speaker 3: I saw them at Festival Hall in Brisbane in eighty nine.

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Speaker 3: It was really really good, best concert ever.

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, it's really good.

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Speaker 1: I love when you have those moments and you can

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Speaker 1: you can think about it takes you straight back there.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a fear?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we all have fears. I guess I

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Speaker 3: fear going out on the limb and doing something and

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Speaker 3: taking some of those risks. Not working out like that

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Speaker 3: can sometimes hold you a little bit, just not taking

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Speaker 3: that not taking that jump. So I guess in terms

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Speaker 3: of what I'm doing, it's the fear of not already

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Speaker 3: going hard enough or you know it's all right. Probably yeah,

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's just standing in front of a crowd and

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Speaker 3: talking in a podcast with you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, no, you're doing brilliant. You're doing brilliant.

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Speaker 1: What's one of the most common fertility IVF should I

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Speaker 1: say misconceptions?

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Speaker 3: I think the biggest misconception I see is that IVF

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Speaker 3: is going to get your pregnant every time and it

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter what they ade you do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: I've looked now that I'm like less naive to it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, this is long game. This is quite

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Speaker 1: a journey, and I think it would affect you for

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Speaker 1: the rest of your life in a good way, especially

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Speaker 1: if you have a little bambino as absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's always good to get there. And yes,

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Speaker 3: probably the biggest misconception that IVF will solve every problem.

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Speaker 2: What's something that's moved you.

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Speaker 3: I think it was probably the birth of the second child,

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Speaker 3: because it was such a struggle to get there first one,

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Speaker 3: so they came along. The second one was such a

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Speaker 3: huge journey, and actually having a having a sibling for

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Speaker 3: my older child, because there was a fear that she

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Speaker 3: would grow up alone with no other siblings. So I

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Speaker 3: guess having that second child come along was just such

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Speaker 3: a wonderful a wonderful thing. Still love my still love

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Speaker 3: my first.

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Speaker 2: I love that you. Just thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: You've been a wonderful guest and a fantastic cot sat

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Speaker 1: Thank you